Sober for 1 Year - Why I Quit Drinking

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Captain Gnarkill

Captain Gnarkill

Күн бұрын

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@CaptainGnarkill
@CaptainGnarkill 6 жыл бұрын
I planned on replying to every comment here, but the amount of them is a little overwhelming... I have read most of them though. I love you all so much and appreciate all the support too! To those of you struggling with a substance, I hope sharing my story helped or at least provoked some positive thoughts on possibly making some changes in your life. 3 years later and I am still sober: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZObmH-EjrOUnpI
@mattfretwell8757
@mattfretwell8757 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@amendez8567
@amendez8567 6 жыл бұрын
I sent you an FB messenger message. Read!!!
@HowardBoos
@HowardBoos 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you. It took a lot of guts. And, I especially want to thank you for being honest enough to create the picture that defuncts the lie that addiction is just a bunch of folks having fun, We both know that it's anything but fun. It's pure pain.
@FiftyFivePercent
@FiftyFivePercent 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your story man, I'm at 4 months and can relate to your experience a lot. It honestly really helped me out and reminded me how important sobriety is
@troytempest6181
@troytempest6181 6 жыл бұрын
A very honest account of the reality of this disease. 20 years sober & I thank God every day. Thank you for sharing Captain.
@kendalllowe7527
@kendalllowe7527 4 жыл бұрын
Alcohol steals happiness from tomorrow.
@bull_Tattoo
@bull_Tattoo 4 жыл бұрын
Sooo true 🙌
@zackerythomas3675
@zackerythomas3675 4 жыл бұрын
The abuse of alcohol and addiction to alcohol steals happiness from tomorrow.
@noit1049
@noit1049 4 жыл бұрын
Moderation is hard when you're an alcoholic. One drink leads to another and another. Yet it is possible, but I think moderation to an alcoholic is like 8 beers..
@staceyharvey6329
@staceyharvey6329 4 жыл бұрын
That’s prophetic!
@orangedrone
@orangedrone 4 жыл бұрын
But, it makes it magically appear out of fucking nowhere today.
@MattyRox
@MattyRox 5 жыл бұрын
Sober 38 days, hey it’s a start.
@hollyclark690
@hollyclark690 5 жыл бұрын
one day at a time
@monotraumatik8491
@monotraumatik8491 5 жыл бұрын
Keep it up man! You're doing great
@ChrisDuffy_82
@ChrisDuffy_82 5 жыл бұрын
Same here!
@CFCMAMO1
@CFCMAMO1 4 жыл бұрын
The rest is smooth sailing. Congrats on 38 days.
@NelsonVanDweller
@NelsonVanDweller 4 жыл бұрын
Still going? I'm in month 5 now. Lockdown here in UK has helped. But yeh gunna keep it up at all costs
@jrlakin370
@jrlakin370 5 жыл бұрын
I quit today, after losing nearly everything. Starting AA tomorrow. Wish me luck.
@VanillaButtercreamFrosting
@VanillaButtercreamFrosting 5 жыл бұрын
How you doing now Jim?
@brucehester888
@brucehester888 5 жыл бұрын
I've lost it all too bro. Material things are easy to get back. Loved ones, not so easy. I've lost a lot of people I love over the SH*T.
@lt.generalofsalt4273
@lt.generalofsalt4273 5 жыл бұрын
Remember you didnt lose any of things to alcohol your taded them for it.
@IsItVeg
@IsItVeg 5 жыл бұрын
Jim Lakin aa won’t keep you sober
@Level53FemaleHuman
@Level53FemaleHuman 5 жыл бұрын
You can do it ❤️
@AllansStation
@AllansStation Жыл бұрын
Keep it up. A heavy drinker for over 30 years. Decided one day that's enough, this is killing me. I was 60 years of age and dying. I just stopped. Now aged 92 in perfect health. Never had or wanted a drink since then. It can be done
@DianaCarolinaGirl22
@DianaCarolinaGirl22 Жыл бұрын
Wow now that's inspiring & incredible at the same time. Congrats!
@villanvar84
@villanvar84 9 ай бұрын
Got bless you what did it take to.grt through it I'm 39 and maybe about 20 yrs drinking and I'm ready to stop but it's so difficult when it's been your coping mechanism for so long but I keep spiraling and lost a job again
@Sacred_Walls
@Sacred_Walls 9 ай бұрын
@@villanvar84l started by deciding that ld had ENOUGH. It was wrecking my body. I hadn’t been able to fall asleep naturally for 15 years. My circadian rhythm was FUKKD and I used to plan my meals around it. My friendships suffered and I was soooo tired of hiding my habit! So one day l woke up, got ready for work and put all the bottles in my cupboard in a bag and threw it in the communal trash on my way out. Never looked back and although my body is still in recovery, l do not miss that life of planning everything around alcohol anymore. If I can do it, so can you. Good luck ❤
@1Jason
@1Jason 9 ай бұрын
Thats inspirational.
@AlisonGale-r4f
@AlisonGale-r4f 5 ай бұрын
❤​@@1Jason
@howlartwork798
@howlartwork798 4 жыл бұрын
man i watched this when i first decided it was time to quit alcohol. I remember thinking I hope I manage a year sober, seemed impossible. I just past my first year of sobriety from alcohol :D
@allanlocke5749
@allanlocke5749 3 жыл бұрын
🤝🙏
@jonathanedwards6132
@jonathanedwards6132 3 жыл бұрын
Working on 3 days...
@daniel-km4qx
@daniel-km4qx 3 жыл бұрын
BRAVO My way to stay sober is through personal development including planning the day, every day I write down in a notebook my list of things to do, great notebooks with quotes for recovering alcoholics are on amazon, search: "hungry man notebooks". I haven't drunk for 555 days and I'm happy
@oldonetwoable
@oldonetwoable 3 жыл бұрын
My Daughter is currently in hospital withdrawing, it's hell. I pray she never has to go through this again. Well done to everyone that is on the other side of this nightmare. I wish you all the very best.
@CHARLESSBRONSON
@CHARLESSBRONSON 3 жыл бұрын
@@oldonetwoable I'm still going through this nightmare and it's been almost 6months sober. At times I feel like I'm going crazy or that I'm going to lose my cognitive function indefinitely anytime soon. I hope your daughter is getting better an staying clean. 🙏🏻.
@Bwh-rm3py
@Bwh-rm3py 3 жыл бұрын
I made it 14 months without drinking, it was the best time of my life. Met the love of my life and planned to get married at the age of 54. I lost control and started drinking again. She gone now and well I'm not sure what to do but here i go again with not drinking. Anyone reading, please don't wait until your 54, do it now.
@1893Mauser
@1893Mauser 3 жыл бұрын
God bless you man.
@SaintShieldWolf
@SaintShieldWolf 3 жыл бұрын
Little late to the comment. Something that has helped me is to understand that it's not our fault. It's the drug and poisons fault. It's not that we lack willpower, it's that the poison robs us of ourselves. All of the problems are because of a addictive substance we trick ourselves into believing is controllable through will power. A lot is never enough, a little is always too much.
@metabolic_jam
@metabolic_jam 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry about your loss, you'll definitely meet someone as wonderful once you're sober again. God bless
@christopherreed5741
@christopherreed5741 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 54, quit drinking 11 months ago after about 30 years of being drunk. Being sober is hard lately. I don't want to drink though. What's hard is realizing the life I built on booze sucks. My job sucks. I hate where I live--it's ugly. The people are ugly here. Garbage everywhere. I keep thinking a geographic cure will fix things but they never have in the past (forget strange cities or countries, I've woken up after black out drinking on a couple different continents). I left my drunk wife of 7 years. I gave her an ultimatum--she chose booze. I don't blame her but don't want to be with a drunk. Plus, she was a real bitch. Genuine. So ugliness abounds, existential yearning and regret torture me. To quote the poet James Wright, "I have wasted my life."
@Humble_Bee.
@Humble_Bee. 3 жыл бұрын
Best of luck. ❤
@Blessedup69
@Blessedup69 5 жыл бұрын
I quit then relapsed. Then quit then relapsed. Then after repeating that 50 times I got it right. I stopped counting the days ,I’m 8 years sober
@leninramos1980
@leninramos1980 5 жыл бұрын
Never Stop Quiting
@thefeelcompany
@thefeelcompany 5 жыл бұрын
Awesome!
@henryj8363
@henryj8363 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you this gave me hope.
@thecapone45
@thecapone45 5 жыл бұрын
That’s really inspiring. 8 years. Wow. That’s great. I know how it feels. I would tell myself that I would quit after today, after today. And it got bad. I would start going two days tops without drinking. Two days was like a record and rarely did I make it to say three. I’m trying hard to take a break. I’ve been sober 7 days. It’s 2019 and I can’t remember the last time I went a week without being drunk. Seven days. It doesn’t seem like much but honestly, seven days is so rare. Proud of myself. I want to share my accomplishment but it’s hard because no one even knows I suffer from alcohol abuse. No one knows my accomplishment.
@colinmeng
@colinmeng 5 жыл бұрын
@@thecapone45 I am proud of you! Keep going ;)
@thomasjohnson3314
@thomasjohnson3314 4 жыл бұрын
5 years, do I miss it? Yea, is my life 1000 times better now? absolutely.
@thomasjohnson3314
@thomasjohnson3314 3 жыл бұрын
@Wayne F. Its ok to miss 'parts" of drinking. No different than the first cigarette in the morning, it still gives you cancer.
@labab1048
@labab1048 3 жыл бұрын
@Wayne F. You miss the “idea” of it…but if you don’t play the “mind game” which is all the disease really is, and wants from you, then you get the upper hand over it, day by day! When you don’t have the first one…you’ll never have the second.
@ericjesse2409
@ericjesse2409 5 жыл бұрын
Alcohol eventually betrays you one way or another
@DanBol8686
@DanBol8686 5 жыл бұрын
100%
@denisepaulsenful
@denisepaulsenful 4 жыл бұрын
Yes. It's like a lover who cheats. You keep forgiving them but they are inherently unfaithful until eventually you've had enough. But not everyone throws out their cheating lover. Or the booze. But the betrayal will continue for alcohol belies the danger it poses to your health and wellbeing. Ask me. I am now a quadriplegic after just a few drinks too many one night I fainted. I suddenly lost consciousness and broke my neck. Yes, this shit is dangerous. It should be sold with a skull and crossbones label. It is a poisonous substance that shouldn't be bottled and sold as a form of entertainment. It's liquid disease.
@veronicarubio1657
@veronicarubio1657 4 жыл бұрын
Eric Jesse ☹️
@1superocky1
@1superocky1 4 жыл бұрын
@@denisepaulsenful best wishes denise x
@JustinQuarles
@JustinQuarles 4 жыл бұрын
Eric Jesse it is by far the most dangerous devastating drug on this planet.
@alexs3958
@alexs3958 5 жыл бұрын
I’m 10 days off alcohol (I know that isn’t a lot but it’s big to me) and feel incredible! Here’s to life with clarity 😊.
@joshisaacson3154
@joshisaacson3154 5 жыл бұрын
Congrats and don't worry about the days. You're trying and that is what counts.👍😁
@sheilahollley7129
@sheilahollley7129 5 жыл бұрын
You are doing it!
@alexs3958
@alexs3958 5 жыл бұрын
I’m on day 51 y’all!! 🤩🤩
@checkmateknightracing7134
@checkmateknightracing7134 5 жыл бұрын
1 day is a big deal dont cut ypurself short :-)
@checkmateknightracing7134
@checkmateknightracing7134 5 жыл бұрын
@@alexs3958congrats!!
@scottcunningham7319
@scottcunningham7319 5 жыл бұрын
Opiate addict here, 51 days sober today. Congrats on the year brother
@CMoore8539
@CMoore8539 5 жыл бұрын
Scott Cunningham That’s Awesome!!!♥️
@carlmarker9257
@carlmarker9257 5 жыл бұрын
dont give up
@karinsmith6513
@karinsmith6513 5 жыл бұрын
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@rickyharvey4835
@rickyharvey4835 5 жыл бұрын
All additions are tuff but they all can be beat
@gregorywheless3064
@gregorywheless3064 5 жыл бұрын
Way to go my friend ! Yeah I started snorting my 40mg. oxycontin pills back in 2002 . Got off the pain pills , now battling alcohol. Your comment will give me ammo to beat this .
@alkmke
@alkmke 3 жыл бұрын
15 days sober and this video helped me off the struggle bus today. Thank you ♡
@99problemsbutafishaintone35
@99problemsbutafishaintone35 Жыл бұрын
I was you 4 years 15 days ago. Replace old addictions with healthy ones.
@Ghhh-on3nl
@Ghhh-on3nl Жыл бұрын
I'm 3 weeks today keep going....more benefit to stop than to keep drinking
@alkmke
@alkmke Жыл бұрын
Just passed 2 years 🥳. My whole life changed for the better 💖 quitting alcohol was the best decision I've ever made for myself.
@jordanlang6527
@jordanlang6527 Жыл бұрын
@@alkmke that’s amazing 👏🏼 I’m 11 days been to 3 meetings so far head feels a lot clearer already
@ericward9159
@ericward9159 5 жыл бұрын
A lot of people drink to feel good, I drink to not feel at all.
@BL00DS5
@BL00DS5 5 жыл бұрын
Deep bro deep..
@4ll1d0155m0k3w33d
@4ll1d0155m0k3w33d 5 жыл бұрын
I think deep down every addict uses whatever drug of choice to not feel. Only problem is the next day it's gonna be even worse, you can't keep that cycle up forever. I am so sick of the cycle. Eventually my liver would give out and I'd be dead, fuck that. I want to live this life now and experience it, feel it, not just erase it with booze. Hope you can find your way.
@Rubeless
@Rubeless 4 жыл бұрын
Yea, I just wanted to escape. Almost as if I was dead for the night.
@spiritw0rld
@spiritw0rld 4 жыл бұрын
I used to drink to feel good. But always after I stopped drinking I started to have depression and *feeling of impending doom* after 1-2 days. I learned the feeling will go away once I drink again. So, I continued to drink to keep the feeling away, to not feel. Ironically the "cure" was the fuel for the fear.
@rchloe-wk3rp
@rchloe-wk3rp 4 жыл бұрын
i drink to feel ANYTHING. been sober the last couple months after 5 years bingeing and i'm literally now a robot/sociopath/recluse.
@danielayris3623
@danielayris3623 4 жыл бұрын
When this shows up randomly after I've been really struggling, its probably a sign I shouldn't just ignore.
@jazzstarish4186
@jazzstarish4186 3 жыл бұрын
Those times waking up or drinking in the shower. Yeah it creeps in.
@jeanieolahful
@jeanieolahful 3 жыл бұрын
Read Allen Carr’s Easyway to Control Alcohol, it changed everything for me.
@bridawg24
@bridawg24 6 жыл бұрын
16 years without a drink. Life is good!
@luisgerardoluevanosmedina8288
@luisgerardoluevanosmedina8288 5 жыл бұрын
Congratulations.
@sousacassendahulohulo430
@sousacassendahulohulo430 5 жыл бұрын
16 years without a single drinkk??
@DutchDHM
@DutchDHM 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah you're like 16 haha. Nice try
@dstir009
@dstir009 5 жыл бұрын
sounds shitty
@malikmalik1141
@malikmalik1141 4 жыл бұрын
I love the fact that my digestive system is fixed.I have an appetite and I'm never constipated. I love been sober.
@rjzavala87
@rjzavala87 7 ай бұрын
Im going through this now. How long did it take to fix itself.
@GH05713
@GH05713 5 ай бұрын
Mine is fucked rn I’m about 2 weeks sober, still not better yet!
@ilovebrandnewcarpets
@ilovebrandnewcarpets 5 жыл бұрын
"It wasn't even enjoyable...it was just something I did." Yup, that about summed it up for me.
@swf4841
@swf4841 5 жыл бұрын
Yep. It’s ridiculous. No need for it.
@dimwitsixtytwelve
@dimwitsixtytwelve 5 жыл бұрын
That's the stage I'm at now. My tolerance is so high that I don't even get a buzz off it anymore. I would have to move up to liquor/spirits to get a buzz again but I know that's a slippery slope I'm not prepared to go down.
@hiddenorchard
@hiddenorchard 5 жыл бұрын
yup
@4ll1d0155m0k3w33d
@4ll1d0155m0k3w33d 5 жыл бұрын
@@dimwitsixtytwelve dude just stop now. Take it from me, probably 2,000 liquor bottles later. I'm off the sauce now and plan on living life.
@dimwitsixtytwelve
@dimwitsixtytwelve 5 жыл бұрын
@Robert Beurkens yeah I know! I'm getting there! Glad to hear you're doing well, the biggest thing I noticed how easy it is to adjust feeling like shit every morning. You go from that to waking up sober and you feel amazing!
@satchrules101
@satchrules101 4 жыл бұрын
12 years sober from Crack and Alcohol!! Congrats bro hope everything is well!
@williammoffatt946
@williammoffatt946 4 жыл бұрын
I've heard coming back from a crack addiction is one of the hardest things you can do, tons of respect!
@satchrules101
@satchrules101 4 жыл бұрын
@@williammoffatt946 Thank you bro!
@davidduncan7888
@davidduncan7888 4 жыл бұрын
@@williammoffatt946 I was a crack addict for over 11 years. I will agree that's it hard. I quit cold turkey after a trip back to Florida with my wife, where i had my breaking point after leaving her at the hotel for 3 days by herself. I quit on my own after that and never looked back.
@satchrules101
@satchrules101 3 жыл бұрын
@@davidduncan7888 Congratulations bro!
@ft1296
@ft1296 3 жыл бұрын
Congrats brother , been struggling with the same for a while .I'm 5 days clean and counting .pray for me
@libertyprime9202
@libertyprime9202 5 жыл бұрын
5 years sober not a single drop
@daniellee1722
@daniellee1722 4 жыл бұрын
Liar...I know you had a slice of black forest cake ;)
@jasondiaz8792
@jasondiaz8792 3 жыл бұрын
I’m 83 days with no alcohol. And it’s hasn’t been easy. But I wanna learn to respect myself. I need to keep going.
@chandlerpewitt2647
@chandlerpewitt2647 2 жыл бұрын
How u doing now i have 8 months and 20 days almost the same you would if u stuck with it
@TherealAlmightyAG
@TherealAlmightyAG 2 жыл бұрын
@@chandlerpewitt2647 I have 11 months. Congrats on your 9 months as of now. Hang in there bro. No reason to look back. Like my recovery coach say, "If you ever wanna get high or drunk, rewind the tape."..
@kurupt4147
@kurupt4147 11 ай бұрын
Well done
@samanthamoreno8855
@samanthamoreno8855 4 жыл бұрын
23 year old female and I’m not an alcoholic but I can see it going in that direction. I’m watching all these videos to get myself to stop now before I can’t.
@jk-474
@jk-474 3 жыл бұрын
Hope you’re on a more positive path now. I used to be a real ass myself when I’d overendulge, I moderate myself far better now, I’m more the stoner type for the past few years now, even with that I moderate and not only do I save product for myself, but it feels far more rewarding taking some rips while I’m winding down too. You look like a bright woman, hope you’re using that full force and staying positive!
@Sidhumswl
@Sidhumswl 3 жыл бұрын
Read up on Allen Carr and you eventually realize that every drinker is an alcoholic at a different stage. The further we go into drinking, the easier it becomes to realize we are alcoholics. Hard to believe but even the normal drinker is an alcoholic, but just at an early stage.
@charliebrennancole3363
@charliebrennancole3363 3 жыл бұрын
ur only young nip it in the bud!
@fabianwright9147
@fabianwright9147 3 жыл бұрын
stop it. I'm withdrawing its hell
@oldironsides4107
@oldironsides4107 3 жыл бұрын
Just don’t drink early and you’ll be fine.
@hotwheel6663
@hotwheel6663 6 жыл бұрын
I quit 30 years ago and best thing I did. All My Friends at the time thought I was weird because I didn't drink. Now most of them are dead. Nuff said.
@hotwheel6663
@hotwheel6663 5 жыл бұрын
@Van Allen I made it they did not nuff said
@ChanceBerryman
@ChanceBerryman 5 жыл бұрын
Van Allen that’s what I’m thinking. It’s like living a super long time. My grandma is 82, she’s lived a long life but everyone she grew up with, all her friends and family around her age are long gone. Congrats on being sober, but outliving everyone you care abt isn’t a win
@hotwheel6663
@hotwheel6663 5 жыл бұрын
@@ChanceBerryman You make new Friends along the way. Its not like You have so many Friends and that's it. Why would You not want to live as long as You can? You only have one life. Besides nice to feel good everyday and not be hungover or sick because of the crap You put in your body.
@tonywellington7854
@tonywellington7854 5 жыл бұрын
@@ChanceBerryman ITS NOT? so you'd prefer the alternative?? by your WARPED REASONING dying first is a WIN clearly YOU need to sober up yourself you FOOL
@Fakshin
@Fakshin 5 жыл бұрын
Did you kill them all for thinking that you're weird?
@jessemunson1352
@jessemunson1352 6 жыл бұрын
1 year is HUGE. I'm on day 39 myself. While I miss the brief moments of euphoria - I don't miss the constant negativity that engulfed me. When the brain is being given artificial happiness, it STOPS producing natural happiness. THAT was the key insight for me.
@chitownp1noy
@chitownp1noy 6 жыл бұрын
Jesse Munson 1 year, 1 month, and 16 days sober today. It has been one hell of a journey. Lost a lot of so called “friends” but I finally found peace within myself. I used to go to AA meetings, but it’s not for me anymore. I still talk to my sponsors here and there. Time heals, just keep occupied. The relationships with my family is stronger, I have better relationships with my actual friends, and my overall health, mental health, and physical health is way better. Getting sober was the best thing I did for myself. Keep strong, and take it one day at a time.
@getridofpanic
@getridofpanic 6 жыл бұрын
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@jellydee123
@jellydee123 6 жыл бұрын
Mikey Bernabe Thankyou for your insight, im a week in. In no alcoholic but i am mentally dependant.
@jenhasken
@jenhasken 6 жыл бұрын
SPOT ON YES WELL SAID. YES. We need to educate about this! ANY drug that makes the brain “happy” will confuse and depress the brain when it leaves. And those “brief moments” are awesome but are so hard to reach without going through so many mental gymnastics (for me anyway) just so isn’t worth it. Other ways....exercise, “soft focus” on a beautiful scene, so many other ways you can reach euphoria even if briefly every day.... when SOBER.
@CourtRundell
@CourtRundell 6 жыл бұрын
@@jenhasken omg exactly - the few moments of bliss aren't worth the days and weeks of hell I went through. Quitting was hard, but I think drinking was harder.
@kaitruntley
@kaitruntley Жыл бұрын
Hey brother I’ve been fighting this demon for 20 years. Every once in a while I’ll rewatch this video and it reminds me of the pure hell alcoholism is. Thank you for opening up and sharing this. Reminds me that I’m not alone.
@mrrex1616
@mrrex1616 5 жыл бұрын
My quitting alcohol can be summed up as such "I didn't like being a jackass."
@samanthatheowlbear2003
@samanthatheowlbear2003 5 жыл бұрын
Waking up in the morning, and then the rush of memories and shame after a night drinking too much, was the worst. I always did jackass shit in my drinking days. Total disrespect to my body and others.
@Chrissmith-wn2of
@Chrissmith-wn2of 4 жыл бұрын
summed up for me the liver said no
@jacetaylor9641
@jacetaylor9641 5 жыл бұрын
1 month completely sober, thanks for sharing your story brother.
@ldsjfaithrideshareandinves6513
@ldsjfaithrideshareandinves6513 5 жыл бұрын
Keep up the good work, champ
@Dt87pod
@Dt87pod 5 жыл бұрын
Well done brother. Onwards and upwards
@SamuelGegen
@SamuelGegen 4 жыл бұрын
it gets better too!
@mike7966
@mike7966 4 жыл бұрын
107 days no alcohol.77 days no weed for the first in since I was 15.Im 47 now and listening to these kinda stories really makes a difference.I know I’m not alone and my path will be bright if I just keep looking forward.
@kdub7176
@kdub7176 3 жыл бұрын
Congrats 🎊🎈 That’s amazing! What a huge deal! I think the first step is the scariest! Baby steps are miles long!! Every second sober is a win! Be kind to yourself, be patient, believe you can =YOU ARE doing this! I wish you strength, happiness and blessings! You give me hope! I pray I can be as brave as you soon! I must!
@Liquidgrin
@Liquidgrin Жыл бұрын
One month sober. I’m feeling like a human again. I don’t think I ever want to go back to where I was a month ago. Starting to find the silver lining in my day to day feels good.
@michaelfitzgerald434
@michaelfitzgerald434 4 жыл бұрын
I am 15 years without alcohol. Life's good!
@brandoncarpenter4334
@brandoncarpenter4334 4 жыл бұрын
Stay like dat
@Ronnymikkonen2686
@Ronnymikkonen2686 4 жыл бұрын
Great! I'm 26 months now sober! Life is good!
@Fifthimagez
@Fifthimagez 4 жыл бұрын
I’m 2week and 4days sober
@michaelfitzgerald434
@michaelfitzgerald434 4 жыл бұрын
@@Fifthimagez Congratulations, Christopher. One day at a time. God Bless.
@sirenlucy932
@sirenlucy932 4 жыл бұрын
Wow
@heretech7025
@heretech7025 5 жыл бұрын
I made it 3 months until Saturday this weekend. Got blackout. Right back on track tho. Each time I drink, I want to drink less and less. Honestly, fuck alcohol. I can attribute almost everything that has ever gone wrong in my life to it. Thanks so much for making this video.
@122ALVARO11
@122ALVARO11 5 жыл бұрын
Allmost lost my job my house and my life due to alchooll.... two years sober in august
@kirnpu
@kirnpu 5 жыл бұрын
Congratulations!
@adamy3834
@adamy3834 4 жыл бұрын
Yes sir, you escaped it right before it took it all.
@ninesixteengenetix
@ninesixteengenetix 4 жыл бұрын
Keep up the selfwill
@davidcuvertino5757
@davidcuvertino5757 4 жыл бұрын
Bravo!
@ronaldogutierrez8807
@ronaldogutierrez8807 4 жыл бұрын
I lost my job over it but still can't quit. I've relapsed twice.
@albertaguilar8809
@albertaguilar8809 3 жыл бұрын
I will be sober 1 year in 10 days. Wow, everything that he says is pure truth. I had lost my job, my child and was a hair short of being homeless. I couldn't have done it without my parents dragging me to get help. I believe the most important part of recovery, far from accepting your problem, is wanting to help yourself. Because if you don't want to help yourself it doesn't matter if monkeys are jumping on your head. No one will be able to help you...great video and thanks for sharing!!
@keithfoster9022
@keithfoster9022 5 жыл бұрын
Awesome job man. After 30 years of boozing I got 488 days dry
5 жыл бұрын
Give me some tips I’ve been drinking 28 years I ready to quit but I keep thinking about it sometimes when I drink I really don’t want it but I still do it Any advice will help
@imchanging4008
@imchanging4008 5 жыл бұрын
GodSun Universe do not quit cold turkey it’s so dangerous. Gradually taper down and reduce the amount slowly, set out a plan of reducing the amount you drink but DO NOT SUDDENLY STOP USING, can cause seizures and stuff
@patrolpilot3756
@patrolpilot3756 5 жыл бұрын
@, you can stop cold but doing yourself can be risky. If your daily intake is high and your afraid you may suffer withdrawal symptoms, talk to your doctor. They will help guide you through it, or even recommend a detox at the hospital for a few days. Had a family member do it. Know one even knew. Til months later.
@johnsanders3492
@johnsanders3492 5 жыл бұрын
Im Changing that’s only if u drink everyday. If u binge drink on weekends u won’t die
@presleyperformance8487
@presleyperformance8487 5 жыл бұрын
Who would "thumbs down" this video??....Wtf. There is nothing bad about this video whatsoever. It's great!! Thank you for posting this, it was inspiring.
@someguy7526
@someguy7526 4 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately there's always gonna be "thumbs down" for any video with over 50K views. This was very helpful, a lot of time I drink, I talk a lot and in-depth about my beliefs in the world and would sometimes say some crazy things, related to those beliefs and becomes pretty awkward for the next day or 2. I've cut down a lot, to once a week 6- Beers instead of almost daily red wine, usually 2 bottles. Next Saturday (24th may) I want to enjoy it, one last time and be done, want to be healthier and much happier. Sorry about the ranting and my life story, haha :)
@johnpippin2426
@johnpippin2426 3 жыл бұрын
Same thing I thought. Misery loves company I guess.
@spaceghost8995
@spaceghost8995 6 жыл бұрын
26 years sober here. Zero desire to ever drink again. I know I am useless when I'm using.
@ajayb2478
@ajayb2478 5 жыл бұрын
You inspire me
@gangsternews4815
@gangsternews4815 5 жыл бұрын
Evil start drinking again
@maceolewis5041
@maceolewis5041 6 ай бұрын
I'm 51 years and have been to treatment a few times and still stuggle with drinking, and today I'm gonna try and be sober.. Aug 2, 2024 is my start date. thanks for the video.
@stephaniewallace5785
@stephaniewallace5785 5 жыл бұрын
I'm starting my journey today. Thank you for the encougment.
@MayhemRv
@MayhemRv 5 жыл бұрын
Stephanie Wallace You can do it Stephanie. But you gotta want sobriety....
@mikee9673
@mikee9673 5 жыл бұрын
How is your journey?
@ryantinker8598
@ryantinker8598 5 жыл бұрын
I am starting today. Hopefully you're still going. Good luck to you.
@parkestanley2436
@parkestanley2436 5 жыл бұрын
How are you doing? I started 5 days ago using NALTREXONE it's amazing!!
@parkestanley2436
@parkestanley2436 5 жыл бұрын
@EJ I'm now 43 days totally off heavy alcohol and weed, thanks 100% to Naltrexone!! How you doing???
@dycypl
@dycypl 4 жыл бұрын
My last sip was December 31, 2019. Vodka was my vice. It controlled me. I haven't had as much as a beer since then and I'm not going back. It's amazing what you can accomplish when alcohol isn't in your life.
@mplslawnguy3389
@mplslawnguy3389 4 жыл бұрын
Vodka was mine too. A lot of serious drinkers go with it because it goes down fast and easy. I never drank for the taste, just the effects. For me, alcohol is pure poison both physically and mentally. Sober now for 3 months and it feels amazing. Life is good.
@timetowakeup6302
@timetowakeup6302 4 жыл бұрын
@@mplslawnguy3389 Good for you guys. I just hit the year mark myself. It's nice to wake up clear headed, be available for friends and family, and not be broke all the time.
@allanlocke5749
@allanlocke5749 3 жыл бұрын
First time I had vodka was the first time and thankfully the last time, I got drunk at High school. 😌 School principal made it worse by calling assembly to tell the students I had been sent to hospital for a stomach pumping. In reality by then I was ok, didn't even need to throw up when they sent me to the bathroom. Anyway almost got expelled, wrote an essay instead, earned a new nickname "alchy" and my golden boy rep suffered another blow. But wait there's more! Things got a whole lot worse until I was in my 26th year of life.
@degoek
@degoek 3 жыл бұрын
Vodka is my vice too im tired of the non sense i need to stop these hangovers are seriously awful makes me feel guilty and drained i hate it!
@marshallm6888
@marshallm6888 3 жыл бұрын
That’s amazing man. We’re in this together.
@ellerskillzis
@ellerskillzis 4 жыл бұрын
Bro, you level of authenticity is refreshing. I’m 20 hours sober. Thanks man.
@allanlocke5749
@allanlocke5749 3 жыл бұрын
That's wonderful. You're a legend Scotto.
@kdub7176
@kdub7176 3 жыл бұрын
Wishing you all the best! You can do this!!!
@avagage1
@avagage1 2 жыл бұрын
Scott this is a year later how are you doing?
@Skooma_Detox
@Skooma_Detox 3 жыл бұрын
Dude I could listen to you talk about this all day. I’ve wanted desperately to get sober for years. I’ve tried and made it a couple weeks before, but then end up thinking I can handle having a couple drinks and then I fall right back in. I watched this video in full last night while nursing a hangover and decided to pour all the beers I just bought down the sink. Today is day one. I’ll be referencing your videos often. Thanks for making these getting sober videos man.
@grifyn882
@grifyn882 3 жыл бұрын
how do it work for you man ?
@danadaurey24
@danadaurey24 2 жыл бұрын
I pray you are still sober, and embracing life!! :) all my love. YOU GOT THIS!!!
@Unholy-1
@Unholy-1 10 ай бұрын
I hope your still in control. Stay strong
@WalturdTheCat
@WalturdTheCat 4 жыл бұрын
Waking up without a hangover is wonderful...it sounds simple but when you're drinking daily for years and in constant state of hangover wow what a change!
@knkjkjn
@knkjkjn 4 жыл бұрын
Nah not always. I can drink a pint or more every night and never have any hangover.
@WalturdTheCat
@WalturdTheCat 4 жыл бұрын
@@knkjkjn I drank a 12-pack daily every morning I woke up feeling like s*** and would do it all over again
@renatosarabia9574
@renatosarabia9574 4 жыл бұрын
I'm definitely trying to get to a point where I don't wake up with a hangover.....I've been drinking so many years and so constant that it's rare when I wake up sober.... I would love to know what that feels like again....I've Been falling off the wagon on and off for a long time and want to take myself seriously, I've lost so much in my life already
@poppyseed9226
@poppyseed9226 4 жыл бұрын
@@renatosarabia9574 it’s mental too man. tell yourself you don’t need it and maybe, pick up a new hobby. it worked for me, everyone’s different, but just a suggestion. prayers for you brother.
@renatosarabia9574
@renatosarabia9574 4 жыл бұрын
@@poppyseed9226 I feel you brother, I really do.... But this bullshit has me all stupid....since I was a baby.... 7th grade 14 yrs old.... And went crazy with it all for so many years it's weird to even be sober some time's. Lol...I do it off an on but my lifestyle has always been this...... I know it's mental but that addiction is very mental
@BeingBetter
@BeingBetter 5 жыл бұрын
I have been sober about 50 days.
@parkestanley2436
@parkestanley2436 5 жыл бұрын
I'm 4 days sober thanks to NALTREXONE it's a wonder drug!
@kevinm5898
@kevinm5898 5 жыл бұрын
@@parkestanley2436 I've been hearing a lot about this. Do you live in the U.S.? How do I get it?
@parkestanley2436
@parkestanley2436 5 жыл бұрын
Now 25 days sober with NALTREXONE!! Also stopped smoking weed, got two for one. I knew behavioral therapy would be a total failure. NALTREXONE started working in just 5 hours!! You must combine it with Cymbalta and Gabapentin. I'm not struggling with caving in. With these 3 drugs I'm fine. Please everyone, TRY THIS!!!!!
@BeingBetter
@BeingBetter 5 жыл бұрын
I'm glad that worked for you. I've been off all alcohol for 84 days now.
@kirnpu
@kirnpu 5 жыл бұрын
I'm taking Acamprosate and wow - there are NO cravings! I've got 164 days and it's all due to those pills and meetings. Been drinking for 40 years and literally didn't know how to stop or live without alcohol. I could stop but the cravings would always take me back. I just asked my doctor for them and he totally supported me. I can't stress enough - if you're sick to death of drinking ask for help. The problem IS bigger than you can handle alone.
@aussiewanderer9977
@aussiewanderer9977 5 жыл бұрын
Everyone who drinks should watch this. Thank you for doing this
@grantomalley8532
@grantomalley8532 5 жыл бұрын
Stop. every once in awhile I go out to dinner with wife and we enjoy a glass of wine, so what? My dad , lived to be 101 and had a very small glass of red wine right until 101....
@daniellewelsh9215
@daniellewelsh9215 5 жыл бұрын
@@grantomalley8532 he's not talking about your couple glasses of wine, he's talking about people with a serious problem . People that can't just have a couple drinks without it turning into 10 and being wasted every single day. Some people can drink alcohol in moderation, others like myself also, cannot
@grantomalley8532
@grantomalley8532 5 жыл бұрын
@@daniellewelsh9215 Ok, Well then chose to stop at one or 2 glasses
@daniellewelsh9215
@daniellewelsh9215 5 жыл бұрын
@@grantomalley8532 I choose not to drink at all, you do whatever you want. Just don't get why you are in this comment thread when the video is about alcoholics. Not people that go and drink a couple drinks every now and then
@Dsinkz
@Dsinkz 5 жыл бұрын
@@daniellewelsh9215 he knows why he ended up on this video,,like the rest of us,,either him or someone he knows has a problem with the devils water
@BreakingChainsTSM
@BreakingChainsTSM 6 ай бұрын
Good stuff! I’m almost 6 months sober after 40 years of chaos and heavy drinking. Keep up the great content!
@andyeps8499
@andyeps8499 5 жыл бұрын
7 months sober but seriously struggling at the moment , but watching videos like this allways helps knowing im not on this journey alone . keep the good work up
@j.t152
@j.t152 4 жыл бұрын
Keep ur head up im sober for month i was drinking heavy before i feel good to being sober and not wasting my money
@Jon5150XL
@Jon5150XL 4 жыл бұрын
You’re not alone Andy
@nhaybingi
@nhaybingi 4 жыл бұрын
I actually watched the whole 34 mins... I'm about a day sober... I'll try my best
@rhsandne71
@rhsandne71 4 жыл бұрын
joseph thuo keep it up man. Tomorrow is my 30th day
@nhaybingi
@nhaybingi 4 жыл бұрын
@@rhsandne71 wow...you've tried my friend. Today is a Friday and the weekend is coming.... I'll try my best to avoid this demon.
@rhsandne71
@rhsandne71 4 жыл бұрын
joseph thuo if you need to chat hit me up on here and I can give you my number. No judgement bro.
@chrischepulis5670
@chrischepulis5670 4 жыл бұрын
Keep on truckin my friend.
@juliawalker3461
@juliawalker3461 4 жыл бұрын
same, I drank about 12 hours ago. Im so over it it is destroying the relationship with the one i love so dearly and lost my friends and always quit work or be in pain at work wanting to leave. just so not worth it. good luck
@ahtnamasnworb
@ahtnamasnworb 5 жыл бұрын
I couldn’t believe when you mentioned the panic attacks, especially while driving. I can relate so hard. Absolute worst feeling in the world. Thank you for this video.
@Celointhisbiatch
@Celointhisbiatch 5 жыл бұрын
You’re gorgeous, hope things get better for you
@tymirra8769
@tymirra8769 4 жыл бұрын
I never knew they were even real until I became full blown after my wife left me... panic attacks are something id never wish upon my worst enemy.
@milliphoebe4416
@milliphoebe4416 4 жыл бұрын
Panic attacks are so debilitating, I feel you girl. ❤
@patrickbutler165
@patrickbutler165 4 жыл бұрын
I have been getting panic attacks and my heart races, i also get nervous scared and anxious. Its a terrible feeling. 0 days sober so far but im trying to stop.
@misskay9828
@misskay9828 4 жыл бұрын
Woke up this morning and realised how many Christmas I lost being drunk . Never got to enjoy the Christmas dinner or see my son open his gifts . Really excited for this Christmas sober . Will be my first . One day at a time
@new2brew1
@new2brew1 7 ай бұрын
How are you doing these days? Hopefully Christmas has been good for you and children....I'm on day 40 again starting from scratch
@utistudent099
@utistudent099 6 жыл бұрын
When I heard Slash from GNR say he was sober now and all along he was just inebriated to kill time , I had my whoa moment. You must stay busy. A lot of us drink simply to kill time and justify boredom. Now I cycle , kayak and scuba dive quite a lot. If we are not on a mission we get bored and then depressed and then drunk.......stay busy my friends.
@Yakaflo
@Yakaflo 5 жыл бұрын
Very true!
@evelynbaron2004
@evelynbaron2004 5 жыл бұрын
Excellent point of view; sleep, diet, exercise -- it's all important. You mentioned a well-known person and I know we're taught in the rooms not to think about them as role models but when I think about the late great Tom Petty, he was reticent about talking about drinking and the cocaine year working with Dave Stewart and then finally after a long time he gave his biographer carte blanche to speak the truth about his nightmare father and his Dantesque mid-life breakdown when he was on heroin for a year and couldn't get off it alone. The irony in his case was as he said, 'I turned pain into anger into ambition into an acute sense of social justice and finally into forgiveness' and his death from an accidental overdose had nothing to do anymore with addiction; he fell on his sword for his audience, to whom he felt great loyalty so months and months on a broken hip on pain killers, so tragic and so ironic; he still had so many plans; he was incredibly thrilled to be a grandfather, all that.
@Gr33nHatt3R
@Gr33nHatt3R 5 жыл бұрын
1,683 days sober here! Congratulations bro! Stay free!
@fletcherhawkins1682
@fletcherhawkins1682 4 жыл бұрын
i am 65 days sober. the biggest change for me came when i watched my usually emotionally closed off girlfriend who i love more than anything open up and cry to me about how much she wishes i could quit. she delt with HELL from being with me and told me she stayed for the guy i was sober. two completely different people. i lost my 17$ an hour job driving forklift all day easiest job. a week later i totaled my car and got a DUI. lost my liscence. that still didnt stop me. extremely suicidal. i also fantasized and planned suicide. my parents didnt really want me arround because i was an asshole neither did my sister or her boyfriend my best friend. everyone hated me and i hated myself. then i saw the pain in my girlfriends face and that was what it took for me to change. ive decided one sip = a series of bad things happening. more pain. one sip means walking into my own personal hell. that makes it alot easier to say no. god bless all of you and even if youre on day 3 fuck yeah man. its 100% worth it.
@AS-ly8tr
@AS-ly8tr 4 жыл бұрын
Hi dude, how is it going?
@fletcherhawkins1682
@fletcherhawkins1682 4 жыл бұрын
@@AS-ly8tr whos this do i know you?
@fletcherhawkins1682
@fletcherhawkins1682 4 жыл бұрын
an update, i still have not taken a single sip, its still a struggle some days. i start thinking ive gone this long and still going strong so why cant i have just one beer or get drunk once. then go back to not drinking. i have to remind myself that that is not how it works. not for me. it can be hard to say no. my mind still trys to trick me but i have not and will not give in. im increadibly proud of myself. this has been my biggest acomplishment and i hope i can help inspire anyone reading this to keep going. or atleast try. cuz if i can do it anyone can do it. stop crying thinking youre doomed, if you are as bad as i was you have been there many times. i know you feel like a slave to your problem and if you are. but you dont have to be. god bless. i love you
@AS-ly8tr
@AS-ly8tr 4 жыл бұрын
@@fletcherhawkins1682 sorry Fletcher I didn't want to be intrusive.
@AS-ly8tr
@AS-ly8tr 4 жыл бұрын
@@fletcherhawkins1682 i was just generally interested because I know how hard being and staying sober is. Take care✌️
@ltkritzinger
@ltkritzinger Күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story... I am hell-bent on quitting. Failed many times trying to quit intermittently for 6 years. But it was kind of like "soft quitting". I would think "maybe i'm quitting for a few weeks, maybe longer... ok maybe just 1 drink". I had a pretty strong feeling of wanting to quit before my 40th birthday. But as the party date approached, i decided to make an exception for my birthday, but would keep it light. Of course i got blackout drunk, made terrible choices, drove drunk, and just lost the plot. After that there were a few times of trying to "work up to quitting", as well as more blackout drunk episodes and hangovers that just made me want to die. Every time, I could just feel the brain damage piling on. So after seeing an international band on tour in my country recently and not being able to remember most of the show i paid to go see, and missing out on what should have been precious memories, replaced by hazy impressions as if from a fading dream... I just said, no, no fucking more, fuck this shit. I want to remember things, be able to think clearly, and be conscious and present in this story that I only get to live through once.
@drlest717
@drlest717 5 жыл бұрын
You are are a real man that had a real problem and faced it. I respect that!
@jacobramsey9247
@jacobramsey9247 4 жыл бұрын
I lashed out at my wife last night and broke a chair and got the cops called on us. This is the first time I’ve ever had the cops called on me. I would never hurt her physically but I did yell at her. I’m done starting today. Hopefully she will forgive me and give me a chance to do this for her and my babies. Your video helps a lot you’re doing good I know I can too!
@juliawalker3461
@juliawalker3461 4 жыл бұрын
goodluck!!! you got this. first step is admitting you want to quit drinking misery
@rjsimpkins2911
@rjsimpkins2911 4 жыл бұрын
Also remember that sober doesn't automatically make you nice. Your children need this and need a better role model, lest they grow into alcohol problems of their own 10 and 20 years from now.
@robe.2424
@robe.2424 4 жыл бұрын
I can't say whether or not she will forgive you because I'm a different person. But giving up on alcohol is the greatest chance you'll ever have to taking your first best step through the door of a new way of living your life. You cannot change the past but you have all the power you could ever ask for by changing the future with not giving alcohol a chance. I believe a lot of people are stronger than they give themselves credit for; people do drink for a lot of reasons and people tell themselves at times the alcohol numbs the pain or helps them deal with the pain. But alcohol is one of those silent killers. It's like a heartless thief that you let into your home, he promises he's just there to hang out and make you feel better like a bad influence.. But slowly he's finding every way to take all of your enjoyment away and control you. This is alcohol, one of the worst enemies of joy. It's like a snake's slow killing venom. It's destroyed so many lives from yesterday to hundreds of years before us. So you have this chance to make your own history and succeed where others have failed before, when alcohol comes knocking at the door promising you he'll cheer you up with good times. Just remember how many other families he's ruined and be glad you never let him in.
@stogies3
@stogies3 4 жыл бұрын
If you can find an AA or any other support group i think you will have a better chance. All the best to you
@kbaggs50
@kbaggs50 4 жыл бұрын
Gotta do it for yourself not for them. Doing it for your kids or wife will only keep you sober for so long.
@TBehm2
@TBehm2 6 жыл бұрын
5 days sober today. Hope I can keep pushing
@kenmor03
@kenmor03 6 жыл бұрын
Well done,you`re almost over the physical withdrawal effects.You can do this.
@TBehm2
@TBehm2 6 жыл бұрын
kenmor03 thank you
@Goat-jz4cj
@Goat-jz4cj 6 жыл бұрын
Your Dad one week for me today it was so weird not drinking on New Year’s Eve man..... congratulations on 5 days brother
@dw6015
@dw6015 6 жыл бұрын
Im pushing through one day at a time since the 1st and also cooking healthy foods to help. Youre not alone.
@todddole5844
@todddole5844 6 жыл бұрын
Keep it up guys👍 1 day at a time!!!
@johndv-j6o
@johndv-j6o 5 ай бұрын
Huge respect for posting video of yourself. Came close to death four times in hospital. You are young enough to avoid permanent damage and health battles like nerve damage in feet etc etc..Stay sober..life becomes great!
@thetatteredrose5054
@thetatteredrose5054 4 жыл бұрын
I lost my husband to alcohol and then to suicide. I didn't know if I could make it through your video but I just wanted to tell you how proud I am of you for quitting and telling your story. I pray that you have many years of happiness headed your way! You deserve it! Much love...
@jiggajigjones8210
@jiggajigjones8210 4 жыл бұрын
TheTatteredRose sad...sorry to hear that.
@diplosoriano9898
@diplosoriano9898 4 жыл бұрын
I’m really sorry
@caffeineskididdlydoo
@caffeineskididdlydoo 2 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I fear for my son! God give me faith! So brave of you to share this! Power of LOVE to YOU!
@TheKASINOINC
@TheKASINOINC 2 жыл бұрын
LOVE
@gingerztube
@gingerztube 5 жыл бұрын
Yep, when I quit drinking (30+ years ago) I found out who my real friends were and who weren't my friends at all. I realized that people whose lives were going down the toilet would grab on to anyone they could to take down the drain with them. Take care & have a great life!
@mplslawnguy3389
@mplslawnguy3389 4 жыл бұрын
The old cliche misery loves company couldn’t be more true when it comes to alcoholics. Congrats on 30 years.
@gingerztube
@gingerztube 4 жыл бұрын
@@mplslawnguy3389 Ain't that the truth! Thanks!
@jamtree9746
@jamtree9746 4 жыл бұрын
Very true-thats my experience as well.
@sunnychumber2822
@sunnychumber2822 3 жыл бұрын
I been watching this video every single day for last 29 days over n over again.. its my 20th day without alcohol.. thanks for sharing your story feels like my own story
@annakins15
@annakins15 6 ай бұрын
5 days sober. ODAAT… literally hour by hour. Started AA last night and feeling committed. Thank you for your story.
@NicRed
@NicRed 6 жыл бұрын
Ive been sober for 1 year and one month now..... lets go 2 years. I need to go to a meeting again been feeling wobbly.... Congrats tho bro!
@tonymontana1996
@tonymontana1996 5 жыл бұрын
meeting makers make it...do it bro
@paunchypeach272
@paunchypeach272 4 жыл бұрын
hey! I watched this video when you first posted it. coming back to report that it took a full year, but i am now 25 days sober. this is actually happening!
@charliebrennancole3363
@charliebrennancole3363 3 жыл бұрын
well done 👌🏻❤️
@nmartin5551
@nmartin5551 3 жыл бұрын
Congrats! You are worth it!
@laurapaquian1869
@laurapaquian1869 5 жыл бұрын
I was sober for 4+ years and relapsed. This video is great. Soul-bearing. I'm in the process of getting back to step studies, meetings and sobriety. I'm glad I found this video...timing is everything.
@niall441
@niall441 5 жыл бұрын
LOL!!! Step studies? Best of luck with that.
@fembot521
@fembot521 4 жыл бұрын
I’m not even an alcoholic and I quit alcohol October 2019. It’s not good for anyone man!
@katelynspencer8392
@katelynspencer8392 5 жыл бұрын
I'm 10 days sober. It's the longest I have been sober , fully wanting and intending to
@tebhernandez
@tebhernandez 5 жыл бұрын
please stick with it
@tebhernandez
@tebhernandez 5 жыл бұрын
@@shoban I really hope you stay strong! I dont know you but I really want you to get through it and have a happy long life. YOU CAN DO IT
@fletcherhawkins1682
@fletcherhawkins1682 4 жыл бұрын
you just have to realize one sip = walking right back into your own personal hell.
@lucymale6349
@lucymale6349 6 жыл бұрын
I have to say that as a Spouse of an Alcoholic, I feel the urge to say, I am so PROUD of you. I had an argument with my husband tonight, at nights, he’s in the red zone. He is a 12 pack of Budweiser a day kind of Alcoholic. He never goes without it. Or without his 2 pack a day cigarettes. When I met him he was working, and only drinking in the evenings. Then he lost his job, and would drink from the moment he got up, to the moment he goes to sleep. He did that for 1 year. Until he found a part time job. I have left him 5 times. I can’t even begin to explain the things he’s done. It is a horrible existence. You have love in your heart now. Never stop. Life can be beautiful. It’s what you make of it. You have a standing ovation from me. Thank you for being brave and posting this video. I might make my husband watch it. God bless you. Xoxoxox -Lucy Male.
@Mickdrives4fun
@Mickdrives4fun 6 жыл бұрын
Hi Lucy sorry for your troubles, my wife dealt with my drinking for years and nothing she would say could make me quit I would make a ton of promises but they would soon be broken, I had a moment of clarity one day I looked in the mirror and said God either take the urge to drink away or take me, the next day I just didn't drink, a week went by and it dawned on me that I had been sober for a week. I stayed sober for about ten years and gave casual drinking a try luckily I noticed that wasn't going to fly with me pretty quick. The main thing I want to say is take care of you, love the person hate the disease. Your Husband has to do it for himself and find added strength eventually from your relationship. The biggie is taking care of yourself and being whole for you. Remember if nothing changes well ... nothing changes. For me it's God his promises and the fact that he kept them, Yes I am now a Bible thumping Jesus Freak but I am really cool with it. This me is my best me. Good luck to you sending prayers.
@MrKnutriis
@MrKnutriis 6 жыл бұрын
​@@Mickdrives4fun How nice with a comment section filled with positive comments and praise for other people.
@arx754
@arx754 5 жыл бұрын
i really wish you would go to Al-Anon.
@tonywellington7854
@tonywellington7854 5 жыл бұрын
+TheEndOfMyRescue wow sounds you like you really know how to pick 'em
@arx754
@arx754 5 жыл бұрын
@Pablo Insano : Al-anon and AA are two different programs. sounds like you are a bitter alcoholic who is not willing to d o what it takes to get and stay sober. AA says that "If you want to keep drinking, that's your business. If you want to get sober, that's ours'. I believe in that. So, if you want to keep drinking, have at it. You'll get no argument from me.
@outofthefryingpan2538
@outofthefryingpan2538 4 жыл бұрын
Congrats on the sobriety my man. I just started my sober journey 3 days ago.
@outofthefryingpan2538
@outofthefryingpan2538 3 жыл бұрын
@No Worries fell back into it and out again. It’s such a hard thing to stick with when it’s so easily accessible.
@susankilian9116
@susankilian9116 5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing ❤️ I've recently given up alcohol and found your videos helpful. My energy levels took some getting back, but I waited, and finally, after about three weeks, I'm back and loving life. Good luck to everyone on your journey ❤😊
@ast-og-losta
@ast-og-losta 6 жыл бұрын
done. Two years sober. Best thing I ever did.
@sukhjitgill3663
@sukhjitgill3663 4 жыл бұрын
I did watch whole video at 6 am. I started drinking everyday few months back. Want to stop desperately and this video every word hit me hard and I feel I should stop drinking from right this moment. Thanks for sharing your experience man From this moment I will be sober..please wish me luck
@Naturecandid_gagan
@Naturecandid_gagan 4 жыл бұрын
Same here sukhjit from now on I'll sober for whole life
@johnanderson3731
@johnanderson3731 3 жыл бұрын
How’s the journey going friend?
@allanlocke5749
@allanlocke5749 3 жыл бұрын
I wish you Luck But I don't believe you need it. Deny the DreamWorks. You've seen how you are betraying yourself, started to accept the challenging path and unfortunately are genuinely fearful your weakness leading you back to *destruction* but still remember, you are more than your lesser nature. The lesser nature always needs your permission. For example if you try taking your own life, weakness tells your greater self "let's die", therefore self-defeat only happens, when the real self can no longer be real with itself. You have the capacity and the agency to achieve sobriety
@raofthesun7558
@raofthesun7558 3 жыл бұрын
Did it ever make you feel like you couldn’t breathe? That’s what brought me here.
@MaestroWeizer
@MaestroWeizer 3 жыл бұрын
You can do it.
@deniscahalane1224
@deniscahalane1224 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 55 an on off relationship with alcohol for years, it has destroyed all my relationships, but I was very functioning, never lost a job. I'm doing good today, I eat healthy, I kinda say to myself, alcohol is poisonous for my body and not in line with my healthy life style. I have a higher power, so all is sweet today. Wishing you all the best on your healthy body and mind journey. Like yourself
@fleadoggreen9062
@fleadoggreen9062 4 жыл бұрын
Stay the course man,I only have a few weeks but my work outs have been stellar , feeling pretty strong,I’m glad I’m not drinking right now, and no hangover tomorrow
@JSavage_2013
@JSavage_2013 3 ай бұрын
I’m going through this right now & everything you said is currently happening to me. This literally has me tears right now. I never thought I’d hit this point in my life. My mom just told me yesterday “we didn’t raise you like this” and I just busted in tears. I need rehab. I need help. Thank you for sharing this story.
@eternalcowboy-qg3ku
@eternalcowboy-qg3ku 4 жыл бұрын
I just relapsed after 291 days. I feel so down because I was sure I would never touch it again. I'm not out though. Just a stepping stone in a long road. Good luck to all of yall.
@rockbottom1014
@rockbottom1014 4 жыл бұрын
No real alcoholic has the will power to quit on their own. It’s a desease. Have tried AA?
@andymccloskey8039
@andymccloskey8039 4 жыл бұрын
Relapse is part of recovery. Learn from the relapse and trudge on.
@rockbottom1014
@rockbottom1014 4 жыл бұрын
Andy McCloskey Recovery is one thing and a slip is another.
@rjsimpkins2911
@rjsimpkins2911 4 жыл бұрын
Touch not the unclean thing, as it is too cunningly insidious. You can do 291 x 1000 next time.
@katrinabarriett6177
@katrinabarriett6177 4 жыл бұрын
Keep trying. I'm trying too
@radicalcentrist9471
@radicalcentrist9471 6 жыл бұрын
I watched whole thing coz I lost my head drinking last night. I'm gonna end up homeless if I don't stop. Already lost my wife and kid. Gonna to AA for the first time Sunday. Need to stop. Its ruining has ruined my life for so long
@mgal6234
@mgal6234 5 жыл бұрын
How are you??
@jonmacdonald5345
@jonmacdonald5345 5 жыл бұрын
Melissa G probably baracho
@thehatoftinwithin4539
@thehatoftinwithin4539 5 жыл бұрын
God is Love
@unknowndriver6652
@unknowndriver6652 5 жыл бұрын
You can make it bro never give up , good days will come
@mizteria6475
@mizteria6475 5 жыл бұрын
2 months later how are you
@jailbreakoverlander
@jailbreakoverlander 6 жыл бұрын
11 years bud, good thing you did this.
@jailbreakoverlander
@jailbreakoverlander 6 жыл бұрын
Ill be rocking my Gnarkill lid very soon.
@SteveSmekar-ll6ln
@SteveSmekar-ll6ln 6 жыл бұрын
11 years here, too. You are the rock and roll man.
@rjrj8481
@rjrj8481 6 жыл бұрын
11 seconds here bud
@Wade970
@Wade970 5 жыл бұрын
JBO, Nice to know that there’s other sober TEQ Overlanders! Hope to see you on the trail!
@lukeswanson8245
@lukeswanson8245 3 ай бұрын
Only 22, realizing I have a problem. Tough shit to talk about, thanks for the support. you make me feel less alone.
@randcome
@randcome 5 жыл бұрын
Jesus. This is so real. I can feel his pain through him speaking. WOW. Amazingly vulnerable.
@murdochcampbell7211
@murdochcampbell7211 5 жыл бұрын
What feels weird is how much time you have while sober
@Noah204.
@Noah204. 5 жыл бұрын
Kyle Campbell it’s unreal....I have to find something to do with it in a positive way
@Mr99RICH99
@Mr99RICH99 5 жыл бұрын
Yes the days feel twice as long sober
@danholmes7039
@danholmes7039 5 жыл бұрын
That was how it was for me at first now I dont have enough hours in the day Welcome to your new life go out and live it
@altagolfer
@altagolfer 5 жыл бұрын
Take the time to do what you always wanted to do.
@matthewhaddadin1777
@matthewhaddadin1777 4 жыл бұрын
Honestly I hated it at first I’m like why is life so boring
@MrSabas15
@MrSabas15 3 жыл бұрын
I think the hardest part are those days when you feel like crap and you know one thing that can instantly make it better. Thanks for sharing.
@mlxcardenas
@mlxcardenas 6 ай бұрын
I struggled for years trying to quit, I watched this video maybe a year ago, and unfortunately failed at quitting on my own. I ended up in the hospital early this year with multiple organ failure! If you are reading this and are struggling, please get the help you need! It is not worth it. I’m thankful I was able to get through that horrible wake up call and can proudly say I’m 5 months sober and never looking back! It is not worth it.
@jimmy4x4socal44
@jimmy4x4socal44 6 жыл бұрын
I got 558 days clean and sober 🤘🏻 Keep in up brotha! See you in JV for KOH
@Noah204.
@Noah204. 5 жыл бұрын
Jimmy4x4 Socal good for you brotha,stay strong
@kevinnash126
@kevinnash126 4 жыл бұрын
I had this exact same experience...an i finally realized that GOD....pulled me out of this otherwise i would have never made it thankyou JESUS.....AN THANKYOU ....for your story...GOD BLESS!!
@evatrujillo6865
@evatrujillo6865 6 жыл бұрын
1 year and 8 months sober here! 🙋🏻‍♀️ I drank for fun started at the age of 14 and my drinking progressed through out the years where It took me to some dark places, I never wanna go back to. I love my new life I feel awesome!!! ✨🙏🏼😍
@mahdicarlos8846
@mahdicarlos8846 6 жыл бұрын
hi there how are you !
@unknowndriver6652
@unknowndriver6652 5 жыл бұрын
Im happy for you
@clintonching6852
@clintonching6852 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your story; been sober 2 weeks now
@mikewallace3473
@mikewallace3473 5 жыл бұрын
Congrats hope I can say the same one day
@MichaelWalsh-qn3ef
@MichaelWalsh-qn3ef 3 ай бұрын
Hello Mike from London, Just want to say nothing helps more than somebody who has actually lived it. Many Thanks.
@Ironhandjohn
@Ironhandjohn 5 жыл бұрын
I knew I should quit drinking when I was seventeen. I finally did thirty years later. 621 days and counting, put one foot in front of the other & the world will turn.
@markweyant7779
@markweyant7779 4 жыл бұрын
Me too! 50 yo and still being stupid😞
@Ironhandjohn
@Ironhandjohn 4 жыл бұрын
@@markweyant7779 As long as you draw breath, it's never too late to quit if you really want to.
@mplslawnguy3389
@mplslawnguy3389 4 жыл бұрын
Pretty much when I should have quit. Now 40, and I regret every second I drank, but looking forward to a sober life.
@baileyskinner8931
@baileyskinner8931 4 жыл бұрын
This helped me so much I'm just over a year sober and was having a rough night thinking about drinking feeling triggered...I came across this video and this fully reminded me of why I quit drinking...all the bad shit that happened to me because of drinking what I put my family through...thanks for sharing
@travisharrington5819
@travisharrington5819 4 жыл бұрын
That's why I'm here too, needed a reminder as to why I quit and this video reassured me that the right decision had been made.
@maryquinn6661
@maryquinn6661 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story! I’ve been on a healing journey 14yrs. I recently decided to quit my weekly wine habit! I wasn’t hard core but realize my best self is sober!! Looking forward to what’s ahead! Thanks again for sharing your story, it’s inspiring and makes a difference for others who hear it! Blessings 🙏❤️😊
@ladybug2606
@ladybug2606 6 жыл бұрын
Day 17, I’m so glad I found your video. Thank you for being so candid and honest about your journey!
@ScottMcLinden
@ScottMcLinden 5 жыл бұрын
Congratulations!!..I'm 2 years now
@24james
@24james 4 жыл бұрын
In 3 days I will hit one year. Saved my job, feel great & finally getting a good night sleep💯👍🏽🏍
@mikesizemore1086
@mikesizemore1086 5 жыл бұрын
4 years 39 days alcohol free, Best choice I ever made!
@pudster4115
@pudster4115 3 ай бұрын
Hope you are still enjoying sobriety 2024. I watched this video a couple years ago when I stopped to find motivation and confirmation and I did
@areject17
@areject17 5 жыл бұрын
This is inspiring. I am in a bit of a dark place and I know I need to get a grip on my drinking. Thank you for sharing
@simonslattery1845
@simonslattery1845 5 жыл бұрын
I'm on day 120 of being sober, my last beer was on 02/03/2019, thank you for the video.
@pspspsp1010
@pspspsp1010 4 жыл бұрын
simon slattery how’s it going now?
@Mikemikemike13579
@Mikemikemike13579 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video, I remember watching it about a year ago and it was helpful to make me quit. I'm 9 months now! Thinking and praying for everyone else starting to walk the path of sobriety!
@karenlesiak3625
@karenlesiak3625 5 ай бұрын
You have helped someone: ME!!! I have not hit rock bottom yet… I believe I can tame this beast because the thought of never having another drink again is unimaginable…. But I have heard from so many, that that is not possible Your words are more helpful than you can imagine! Thank you
@lauriewalsh420
@lauriewalsh420 5 жыл бұрын
Captain I'm a new subscriber and grategully sober 15 years. But thank you for using You Tube to be humble and show people the truth. Trust God, Clean House, And Help Others. Amazing.
@rashaka21
@rashaka21 4 жыл бұрын
Hey.. I’ve been binging on KZbin videos of people sharing their sobriety stories and just felt so compelled to comment on this video! I really appreciated how raw and honest you were. I’m 2 weeks sober and hoping it’ll be forever. It’s shocking how alcohol pulls you into a depression that never would have existed had you not had the inclination to chase the thrill of being drunk. I hope you continue to make videos like this ... felt so real. Thanks so much for sharing .... from Canada with love!!
@malachihandemande8159
@malachihandemande8159 2 жыл бұрын
Hey mate are you still sober?
@rashaka21
@rashaka21 2 жыл бұрын
@@malachihandemande8159 started over … 18 days today! :D
@malachihandemande8159
@malachihandemande8159 2 жыл бұрын
@@rashaka21 that's alright. Keep going. I'm 4 days today.
@itsjustme9354
@itsjustme9354 6 жыл бұрын
Proud of you mate! I'm day 3 sober and yr words are very profound. Thanks dude! Love from New Zealand.
@killboy1488
@killboy1488 5 жыл бұрын
U still sober ? I'm on day 3
@Swahili1
@Swahili1 5 жыл бұрын
@@killboy1488 im on dy 3 now as well
@jjjjj2220
@jjjjj2220 5 жыл бұрын
A year shout out from nz
@GladiatorTies
@GladiatorTies 2 ай бұрын
Great video🙌🏻 I’ve dealt with a lot of similar stuff over my 1 1/2 year of sobriety
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