Caroline Myss - It is up to you to figure out what causes you to lose power

[@EarInn]

When someone is mistreated as a child, especially repeatedly and over time, often (usually, nearly always) they don't understand that they are wounded, that they were abused. They don't need to "tell their story," they need to understand what happened. That requires time and more than the witnessing of someone else, though witnessing is valuable. What Caroline says here is excellent EXCEPT THAT she skirts the depth and complexity of childhood wounding. Hers is a message for people who have already done that work.

[@primateriawiberg2998]

Couldn't agree more!!❤/Susanne

[@margaritabennett3062]

Absolutely @Earlnn and that is my question. If you have accepted and integrated but can’t keep them in your life after growing up do you need to? Should you forgive and let go and reconnect or do you forgive and let go and move on?

[@savioartwork]

never reconnect with people who do not respect you, their are millions of people in the world, up to YOU, your soul, your experience, your energy to CHOOSE what feels good & flows natural, those people come you without very much pulling, pushing or thinking . . . . and it will feel good boundaries, honest, direct expression & communication is ALWAYS needed time to talk about intentions, expectations, irritations, anger, miscommunication, needs, feelings, ideas & options @@margaritabennett3062

[@savioartwork]

Earlnn, for people dealing with this stuff check ANNA RUNKLE THE CRAPPY CHILDHOOD FAIRY You'll and others will find tools, info, insights and examples you need !!!!

[@goddessrocks12]

I’ve been raped and tortured by my stepfather AND have done many years of jungian therapy, which frankly saved my life.. however do I forgive and just move on.. it’s just not that easy and frankly.. No !!! Don’t be around them anymore!!! It’s a mistake I made “trying” to heal the family I always wanted… i’ve come to realize that he was as sociopath and never really said he was sorry…… I have to move my life forward… And move into thriving instead of just surviving this… Which I have done however I do get triggered still by men who are narcissistic and liars and don’t really care about others feelings… And I think she said this.. what do we do about this?? That I don’t think she really addressed!

[@MkMOriginal]

We all can turn to Caroline Myss for psychospiritual coaching. She reminds us of why we're here. Anias Nin said "we don't see things as they are, we see things as WE are" and this is a good reminder of it.

[@iloveFreedom.]

Brilliant quote🤩 Thankyou 🎶

[@maressaelaine]

“When your story becomes your lifestyle you are self traumatizing” wow that is soo spot on

[@carolinegibson3432]

I love Caroline’s no nonsense delivery…she lovingly cuts to the core! Much appreciated!

[@terrieanndiehl58]

And with such precious love

[@sweetpeanmolly]

Although I agree that all is an illusion. I have decided that while I’m in this body, I’m going to enjoy form! I collect red-ware, pewter, and various pieces of folk art. I also enjoy a clean, organized home! I accept myself and love myself!

[@MS-bs8dd]

❤🐾🍂🌷🪷💫✨💦☔️🌥️🌤️

[@1HorseOpenSlay]

I can say from experience, that when people are turning us away, it is because something is protecting us. It will feel like a rejection. It is because you are being protected.

[@treeshuysentruyt1354]

Thats a verry lovely perspective. Thank you for that.

[@annier1873]

I don’t get it?

[@Futo653]

Amend, I remember being rejected when I was young.Only to run into that person fifteen years later and getting To know them a little bit and I realized it was a blessing that I didn't get to know them. Earlier.

[@green_bicycle]

I disagree that children don't know that they are wounded. Children have an immense capacity to feel and to know that things are wrong, it's when children become silent that they are not able to cope with the abuse because they become too afraid to say anything but they still know that it's wrong and it hurts their spirit. So when a child is called shy or too quiet, that child might be hiding from pain and has become too afraid to speak but in fact the child is actually outgoing and was told they are shy by abusive adults. This sometimes is carried with them into adulthood and they never get over it. So that is something that is very important to watch for, when children become quiet, avoidant and stop sharing their thoughts freely then something is very wrong. They have lost their trust in the world around them and they have gone inwards. Becoming frozen is a trauma response.

[@EarInn]

I agree with everything you say except that children tend to blame themselves and take too much responsibility when things go wrong--so that even if initially they perceive correctly that they are being mistreated, they become confused about it and try to appease the adults by being "better." What you say about children being shy or too quiet is perceptive--and unfortunately not recognized by most people.

[@maryannribble3254]

And thus the Wheel goes around generation after generation . And then his is why turning within and healing and engaging with our own trauma triggers - not only rescues us ; but also changes the World … and changes it for our own family’s future generations . This IS the greatest Gift we can give !!❤🎉

[@nuthinbutluv4u142]

Some of us old souls know EXACTLY what is going on and being incapable of affecting change become withdrawn, depressed, and morose. You would be surprised how much children know.

[@29sagittarius51]

True queen of swords!!! So much love!!! Thank you for sharing your knowledge and time! You’re absolutely wonderful!!

[@thoughtfulpro371]

So many people triggered because they just wander around the world, 30 years later, still a broken record repeating their “poor me” stories of the past. Write it all out, read it to a trusted confidant or therapist AND MOVE ON. 💜💜💜

[@angelacoleman6580]

or burn it up.

[@liaevans9776]

I left my dairy in a dumpster in Paris after I went there for a cleaning vacation

[@Edwards9011]

W😮

[@Charly-H]

It’s not always that easy for some of us, but we are still trying.

[@MS-bs8dd]

Sounds easy enough! Can help others of us to see what subconscious secondary gains might be fueling a so-called victim consciousness. …. attached to an old old story of helplessness could be a kind of stake-hold for hope… hope maybe this time ? I’ll be seen, maybe loved? Anyone? Out there? There can exist such a fracture between a real and a false self… There’s unconscious programming given to us by family lineage, it needs to be realized before we rise above, lay it to rest, move on from in my experience. Elizabeth Smart, in her book My Story, says she doesn’t know how she would have survived minus her deep knowing of her family’s unconditional love for her. She describes how it carried her in those nine months being assaulted by the dark side. To read her story and her Where There Is Hope was tremendously moving and ultimately so uplifting. We can all be strengthened by her mother’s love.

[@sandraspidle5972]

Also, thank you for reminding us to talk with our angels all the time because they are our best friends and praying to God knowing he will create a miracle, cause He can and He will.

[@AvaCarmichael]

This was good. I love her. The direct nature of her approach is good, but not for those who aren't ready to look at, own, or heal their shit. She's the kick in the pants we need, especially when we are in a loop of self-wounding.

[@Lillian584]

Shopping IS a real addiction. I turned into a hoarder and needed psychotherapy to deal with this addiction. I found out that while I was being abused, shopping was my only escape which is why it became my addiction and I became a hoarder, compromising my character.

[@goddessrocks12]

My niece who is also a hoarder and addicted to fentanyl told me she collects “things “ as they cannot hurt her! Such an interesting statement she made!!????

[@lt4203]

@@goddessrocks12😢 this is sad

[@pegsterddp]

I’m so grateful I understand English. So grateful. ❤

[@anitamurkes9511]

Oh my..the truth that is spoken here, with so much love, so liberating ! We are all wounded, there is nothing special about being wounded ! Does not give you any excuse to opting out, to keep the wounding going! Thank you Caroline !💗

[@EarthLightPromotions]

OMG, Caroline Myss is so to the point and does not take any mess! If you want to heal yourself, I must follow each step she lays out! I only tell my story of wounding if it will help someone else! Stop being the victim after telling the story 3 times, so souls that hold space!

[@sandraaddae2779]

@carolinemyss your lecturers are reaffirming and true to the bone and I love your work. Whoever is watching this - self auditing and reflection is everything for a healthy and clear soul. Keep challenging yourself!!! The Marathon Continues.....

[@chani-g2u]

I love this. I relate to the not recalling negative things. It's a huge blessing from heaven

[@nee5hap]

one of the best sessions in a long time, reminiscent of the energy sessions you used to do way back on the chakras and how we lose power from each. less mysticism, more everyday wisdom we can use. thank you!!!

[@teresafraser3049]

Thank you for being one of the spiritual pioneers of our time 🙏❤💫🙏

[@Skyelement84K]

You are anchored in who you decided you want to be and at what speed you want to change. Data received instantly to the mind of my heart. I hear you Myss Caroline

[@theunspeakable24]

I took your class "why people don't heal." This is a wonderful reminder.

[@zeljkapetrovich]

What was a conclusion? I personally think people cannot heal if no one supports them.

[@heythave]

@@zeljkapetrovichShe said people don’t heal when they live a fake life constantly lying to themselves and when they feel entitled and they get up everyday being negative to everybody and everything.

[@janetacquilano1912]

Thank you so much for this exact one! I have not listened to you for years, and my brother sent this to me today. ❤ I had grand mal seizures in 2018 from being run over by a truck at 20, now 61. Coma, learning to walk and talk again - I did 😊 I have known forever that there was more here than meets the eyes. I am grateful for all of it because it was the Universe guiding me. - My long and short term memory loss I see as a Blessing. I believe if I am supposed to know something, in that moment I will know it. The events I do not remember, yet the lessons learned I do ❤ With people, It’s almost like meeting everyone for the first time 🙋‍♀️ Peace ☮️

[@jenmdawg]

"I believe if I am supposed to know something, in that moment I will know it." What a beautiful thing to read - I just felt this in my core. You've made a difference for me today.

[@patricia1773]

I was stuck on the first floor. I was lead to your feed and have done the lessons- I can now move up to the second floor with no complaints. Thank you so much , I look forward in hearing all your lessons so that in time I may reach my pent house.

[@dianadebrabander4822]

Hi Patricia, what lessons did you do?

[@jaseanthony70]

She never stops makes sense

[@CretiaShire]

What you say about NOT REMEMBERING BAD STUFF - I so get this. I can remember small bad stuff. However, when I look at my past and try and focus on bad stuff from the past - only snippets can be pulled out with great efforts. I have also seen this as a virtue in my life.

[@oliviaromao]

Caroline truly inspires me

[@joeykathlean9875]

This is so AMAZING!! Caroline is such an incredible teacher ❤🎉🙏🏻🥰 Love her strength & compassionate! Thank you 🩷1-25-2024

[@KateFeathers]

I am entitled to the freedom from authority to determine what I can do with my body regarding my health. Bodily autonomy. My body is the one that thing I truly own.

[@themendingstore]

But then again, we die, and we do not get to keep the costume. And as a citizen your country can decide over you. I don’t like it one bit but it is what it is.

[@eleanasikiotis8145]

Caroline never ceases to impress me but this one was Astounding in its revelations for me, it nuances, its precision. My understanding of power has elevated

[@CAT-rq4dp]

"Your biology becomes your biography". That is very powerful.

[@Lillian584]

I think she said ‘your biography becomes your biology’

[@Fatima-ju7tm]

@@Lillian584 yes

[@marylkap6498]

The other way round 😉

[@noneya9035]

Other way around

[@suzanneveilleux7347]

I agree that our wounds end up being part of who we are, interwoven into many aspects of our lives, but those wounds when integrated can also represent our depth

[@MD-vi1kp]

Im a mew listener of Caroline Myss, many years listening to many with this message and just recently someone suggested i listen to Caroline. Thank you Caroline for helping humanity heal. God Bless you and to all . Love and compassion ❤❤

[@n3b933]

Absolutely astounding teaching! Thank you ❤

[@sylviashuller5557]

Thank you Caroline for reapearing into my life🎉at this particular time and with this particular message. I AM GRATEFUL 🙏🏾🎉❤

[@lisab.99]

Caroline. Thank you for the work you are doing. I need this teaching so badly ❤. Thanks for making it available to the public ❤❤. Really do appreciate you. You cannot put a price tag on this. I am from Trinidad and Tobago. ❤❤❤

[@sarahdeck520]

I've been doing this work all on my own and love seeing this video! Just recently I had a great quote come to me "The only difference between a rich person and a poor person is the the rich can hide their mental health issues". I can not wait to tell my victory story! #lightworker

[@valdobbs30]

Listening to her videos have set me free ~ my spirit has confirmed this and I forever grateful to her 🌹🌹

[@henriettaatkin1968]

Caroline does not allow me to live in delusion. This is a blessing.

[@susanciambrone5784]

Have been and continue to be blessed by your powerful words since the 80s … thank you Carolyn, always.

[@a.martinez8927]

I love her personal stories. They are so enlightening and give me confort that there is a power beyond our understanding that protects us. I also love her prayers as if she is speaking with a friend. Her message today was meant to cross my path, a wonderful synchronicity after an event that took place yesterday. Thank you Carolyn. I wish I could have coffee with you.

[@akashalove]

It's Caroline. :)

[@sugarfree1894]

Gosh, so inspiring! I love this no nonsense approach.

[@Darvy10]

You are so powerful… and now I give myself permission to be also. Thank you

[@lilylily8711]

MY favorite discourse by far, so far. THANK YOU!

[@oleygutierrez603]

Listened to you for years and read your books. Thank you! You say the TRUTH!

[@TheBritomart]

I love how she came out swinging, no floofiness, just bam!

[@BrighidDannan369]

This is the most relevant content for those spiritually awakening - with graitude Many fundamental components of shadow work - with active guidelines for approaching the idea - of facing one's own shadow. May we all come together in peace, wisdom and divine oneness 🙏

[@jolandagroen-raatgever1199]

Dear Caroline, thank you very much for this counselling. I do follow you and listen very carefully. During your video I do write in my diary to write my Dutch lessons. Every KZbin it resonates. Sometime its spot on. I really have to cry. I do understand as we are sisters. 👉what is holding you back? Step out of the story and heal the wound. Love yourselve and God is blessing you❤ Shine your light.

[@olivias6437]

I can't say enough how much you resonate with me everytime I listen to you. Psychic cutter - I love this concept because I've done this my whole life and only recently learned to stop it. Thank you thank you for giving it a voice and language. ☀️

[@olivias6437]

And I do the post it notes too! Omg lol

[@dianneschmid8129]

Such are the amazing words of profound guidance 🌟☀️🌟💞Caroline has a magical ability to unfold the truth 🧿I am moving forward to unfold the beautiful unknown ✨✨✨🙏trusting and faith are my keys 🙏🧖‍♀️I am grateful ❤️send u blessings and love

[@coolbreeze1971]

I couldn't have discovered your videos at a better time during my life. All the tools we need surfaces at the right time...like Tadaaa👌😇 Thank you Caroline, for rescuing me from my blind mind & helping me find my way to shore. You have been a Rock in my life & I am forever thankful to God for you. Infinite Thank you's that will never cease😘💕

[@anyahippert8846]

This is pure gold! Thank you so much Caroline! When was it recorded? I would love to see the full seminar

[@Jones8orejas]

This talk is so conforting. Thank you.

[@carolsampietro9873]

This was great counsel! Thank you Caroline!❤️❤️❤️

[@anyahippert8846]

What course and when was it? I would love to see the full recording

[@gaiatune]

Thank you so much for this beautiful and meaningful video! A lot of reminders that soul's (and brain) needed!

[@edwardtomkinson3418]

I love you Caroline you definitely call out the “Poor me” it’s almost an exorcism to fight the excuses.

[@sparrowgeiller9360]

I have been learning from you for decades...and I appreciate the insights so much. Woundology was a huge revelation to me. Thank you and Namaste.

[@SoniaWohlfarthSteinert]

surprisingly found: So much deep input and power - thank you very much

[@goldenmattew1]

Mrs Myss, I would like to write far too many words to express my gratitude toward the time effort and love you pour onto your work and informations and advice and tips you share with us. Thank you.

[@jessicagreen3615]

How perfectly said about the transfer of energy when a sun is committed toward another! And how we should correct it by total honesty and accountability

[@hildaadibpour7181]

Thank you for sharing I loved IT, It was so comforting , I love the way you Pray, I love Praying too, sometime I just like to pray the whole day,.Is there a part two ? Please Share it

[@emipadu]

Thank you! . Brilliant! Blessings from Argentina

[@sandraspidle5972]

I appreciate your perception and the truth of what has miraculously happened to you in order to help us all. I would not wish seizures on anyone however; you benefitted greatly after you recovered. Forgetting the bad is not what I intended to do, but I did learn from the bad or negative circumstances. Some, I chose, others I did not. Thank you for your guidance on how we should look at the truth of the world, ourselves and others. Illusions are so disabling. Bless you, Caroline.

[@catherineleslie-faye4302]

When I tell my story of my suffering to doctors I get advice in how to heal and what they can help me with as per my medical conditions, so yes it does help me to talk about my suffering when I am in the correct place to talk of it. You of course do not need to understand my medical conditions, but I do need to understand them in detail in order to heal from them.

[@LuanaJoPatten-kn6bb]

Wonderful. She is an angel. ❤

[@DM-dn6cs]

Thank you Caroline.

[@annloftus2141]

No problem with sound. So relevant

[@madisonorlando795]

You are such a Gift 🎁 You have changed so many lives I am so grateful for your Wisdom and all I have received thru you I have been following you since the 90’s And you continue to get better and more fabulous Thank You 🙏 ❤

[@lizafield9002]

Absorbing Myss wisdom thru half my long life, now. Totally has steered me, a primary & adulthood-long teacher. Starting with Sounds True cassette on "divine madness" & co creating with God. This lecture hit me as wayeee up at the top of her many mind - cracking, heart - opening, joyful, freeing, starry sky, cosmic teachings! Yippeee, thank you dear friend, for helping humankind grow up toward full stature, like the apostle Paul said. I think yall are related!

[@geriscudder3416]

Phenomenal presentation! Thank you!

[@angelhardy7638]

Thank you Caroline, you have taught us right on the dot. I have learn so much from your books and KZbin lessons. 🙏🙏🙏 Please continue guide us. Best wishes.

[@annandall9118]

I know exactly what makes me lose power. I take on other people's vibes too easily which is great when I'm dealing with a clean soul but devastatingly toxic when I come into contact with funked up, toxic people. I have an extra chakra in the centre of my face that enables me to read people really well. That same chakra is the leaky spot.

[@myfreespirit67]

Much Gratitude For this message of LIGHT ❤️😇🙏

[@sylvias.3380]

Love this video. Soooo empowering! Thank you so much!

[@missmelisa1823]

Loud and clear for me.

[@LadyPC]

I too am in constant prayer, sort of gratitude...

[@natalievannieker]

So liberating, indeed

[@PurpleLightWarriorc]

Your so amazing . Been listening to you for years .love the inspiration ❤️ 🐦 ❤️

[@Community.Fellowship]

Thanks for the upload. Saludos desde Leon, Guanajuato, Mexico.

[@deegorman4654]

Thank you Caroline for your wisdom. Your amazing 🌞

[@astrocat88]

This exercise is spot on and is life-changing if done honestly. It reminds me of the Character Defects exercise in Steps 6 & 7 of AA's "The 12 Steps".

[@Medietos]

I want you to examine me and tell me what I don't know about myself and what I can and must do to save my life, come alive and heal.I am too imbalanced,sick and exhausted to manage and heal on my own. Good she owns that.

[@summerlove6787]

Infinite blessings & gratitude ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@pantalantic9p580]

Thank you 🌸

[@toto-dh9dw]

Amen all u says i experienced and was researching this amd ur teaching put it in a right way 😊❤

[@May-xi5cu]

This is so powerful!!

[@mariabanholzer5960]

I just have to hear this!!!!

[@ellisaali]

Life changing!!!

[@gabrielamaja9672]

I love this!!! Thank you! Absolute truth.

[@SelfHelpSadie]

REALLY enjoyed THiS ❤

[@000Benz]

so true and u know its heaven talking.one word is very clear .

[@MariaTResele]

When you're deeply wounded, and traumatised ist not easy to follow ger advise, but when already dealing with your wound then move one to claim your own power what she explains is resonate

[@yoganature3598]

50:00 entitlements.... self love, self actualise, be myself, be, health, discover my spiritual nature, express my natures, ideate, feel, growth (wrt emotional psychological development), love inherently, choose my responses based on my true natures & maturity & choices,

[@user-lb1ov5sw4s]

Note to self: 50:40

[@the.kai.eros.experience]

god fucking dammit this is the most divine shit. wow this woman is incredible. so strong and so clear. I feel nothing but love and truth oozing from her. wow i needed this so badly.

[@kellycushing2904]

Amazing video. Thank you, Caroline! 💕🌹

[@claudiaseren4796]

Exceptional inspirational video, thank you!!!

[@crystalfolse3208]

Thanks

[@geesSpiritualStudio]

Emotional, spiritual, shoes,tension, parental attention, words addict Craving to forgetting my strength back.

[@ellengarcia4041]

Brilliant! ❤️

[@ellengarcia4041]

Queen of Hearts! ❤️❤️❤️

[@MsVoicemusic]

Amazing woman, wish I’d talk to her at least for 15 min