How MASCULINE Men ACT in a relationship with beautiful women

[@CaseyZander]

STOP being submissive to your BOSS and Become RICH 💰 BELOW👇 app.caseyzander.com/freedom-academy-page

[@freaxfilm]

I am a woman and I dont agree with what you say. But maybe I am exception.

[@hanson2649]

​That's why tou never ask a fish how to fish a fish, you ask a fisherman ​@@freaxfilm

[@Kal-El207]

Side dude then becomes main dude and the cycle begins for you and then she finds another side dude to continue said cycle. Don’t think you’re exempt my nigga.

[@cucaracha6365]

Keep being the side dude. Problem solved 😂

[@Caolan-b6r]

That's why if you the side guy you don't ever officially get with the girl, just tell them they can't be trusted after cheating

[@angelgalvan6810]

@@Caolan-b6ryou’re smart for that dawg

[@universal-deals5013]

Key to keeping her is to have her invest her money and time once she does that you got her full undivided attention.

[@karma9007]

Not gonna even bother STD,Semen Aint Free.

[@waltergill1226]

This is true. I used to play the side "main" guy because it didn't require much effort. After they broke up, she tried to slide right in and make us "exclusive". I told her i couldn't trust her.... She was confused. I'm not an idiot

[@waltergill1226]

@@rosegarden2014 thank you for your advice

[@allme813]

Exactly!! Smart man!

[@BHM253OFFICIAL]

Fuckin G🤣😎

[@waltergill1226]

@@BHM253OFFICIAL I mean come on now. You used to love this man at one point ... What makes me different?? Not a damn thing. I did tell her I would gladly continue to bust her cheeks... I said it much nicer though🤣

[@TheBold1994]

lol, must of been that deer in the headlights confused 😅

[@chriswilson1968]

If she's cheating on him with you she'll cheat on you with him.

[@modder9900]

She won’t believe it 🙄😂

[@RichObiQuan]

@@SoloOceanno way.

[@aprender2577]

@@SoloOceanit was all Infront of my face brain don’t work haha

[@SoloOcean]

@@RichObiQuan 4 sho I have had a woman go be with someone they were cheating with on ME then CHEATED on that guy with me 😆 I know I'm not the only one 😎

[@marlonargueta]

100% and it happened to me over 20 years ago.

[@CP-fz4sr]

Yep. Been there done that. Never again. If she pulls away from physical and intimate times, walk away from it. Talk at first and see what the issue is. If you see it’s BS, walk away. She’s no longer yours. It was your turn and now it’s someone else’s.

[@JohnDoe-pd4jo]

This!!!! Dude you are a legend. This may seem simple at first but you are saving many men with this, because a lot of men don’t know when it’s time to walk away and they lose their minds over a group of people who actually need them than the other way around. People who are conditioned to just take and be handed things. It’s never a loss.

[@L.ATRAFFICNMADNESS]

Men should stop caring what women think about us. We should only be truly serving the most high

[@77Kami777]

Exactly

[@austinlohmann4008]

Amen

[@volkergreve1684]

Last week my wife asked me who is in the center of my heart. Jesus , I said. That shocked her a bit. I said , sometimes me but seriously God.

[@Dem765]

Well when you do so, you will receive love from both woman and god. But the love from god is more valuable, god is beyond love, your relationship with your partner is a tool god uses to give you love, when aligned with the most high (only my humble opinion. I am a student sharing my work with you from a neighboring desk) I wish you closeness with the one who gives us this very moment and all else, and your faith that you can safely enjoy and gratefully revel in his gifts. Wordy wordy lol goodnight

[@detectivetap9119]

Man this right here exactly doing the sabbath screw these jezebell cloned spirit and we al know what God did to solom and Gomorrah

[@nilehawkins7878]

This is why as a man you must maintain your edge for yourself. Then the universe continues to work in your favor.

[@warlord-cw8ff]

It's easier to get a girl who is already in a relationship than single girls. Choose a girl who have good parents. That's the foundation. Preferably have siblings. This is from my experiences

[@wiliam4294]

Can you explain more?

[@Riceonrice]

Lmao man doesn’t mean shit ! I seen females that have solid wealthy parents and siblings and they still crazy 304s

[@KoolAidSquirt]

Not just any parents but a GOOD relationship with said parents.

[@PeterKato83]

Good but strict fathers are a bonus. Known many girls from "good" families that are for the streets.

[@Jd19808]

Not even..

[@3rdeyelife234]

After 4 Decades of life I have found that once you eliminate dating & sex, life becomes like Heaven. 🙏☯️🧘☯️🥋

[@Sheisthedevilyouknowwho-ft9we]

Understood. Would you say even 1 % now can have a normal marriage like my grandfathers had ,?

[@askaboutRudyV]

So much more clarity. Not a slave to your desires, like a weakling (weak control and weak will, that is).

[@johnfried5333]

❤❤God Bless your words! Amen

[@chocopappy]

Be the man her friends wish would pay her attention. Build a world that only your gifts and talents can make, the admission price being what you value in a spouse. And let her see other there are other women standing in line at the gate. Your attention should be more valuable than her affection. Never cheat, never stray, never let her fear what you will do but rather what you will no longer do with her.

[@jw1378]

Very well put. Real alpha shit. Didn't include anything disrespectful to either gender while emphasizing the importance of your woman seeing you can go other directions.

[@spectershore4482]

Finally a clear answer that Casey never brought in its videos : DON'T CHEAT ! Bcs many times I feel like it's the only way "to put her in line"

[@ChatGPT1111]

@@spectershore4482Simp

[@user-xz1wy4to4o]

You dropped some gems my boy. Some shit Master Oogway would've said if he were still with us.

[@MikeDerucki0]

I've had women beg me to finish inside them because hubby didn't do the dishes, they're ice cold don't be fooled.

[@snipe4ReVeNgE]

i feel you bro PAUSE... i had a girl giving me head and got a call from her fiancé in my Toyota corolla in a train parking lot. she was so loving and give him a legitimate excuse and where she was at. mid conversation she started to ride me in the car... after that experience i have not had a situationship last more than 3 months.

[@MLBlanc-mh4pw]

😫 🤢🤮 and it doesn’t even surprise me

[@boxerwayne6660]

Omg that is so wrong 😢

[@idkkid2829]

Why were you with a married woman tho

[@MikeDerucki0]

@@idkkid2829 Why did you get AIDS from a donkey?

[@SlinkyVibe]

As woman he’s not lying at all!! 😮 Beware though because most women know how to play the game. You have to stay in your masculinity at all times in order for it to work in your favor because women are attracted to that. Don’t let her be a brat because that soon turns into b*tchiness when y’all settle in. Treat her good but don’t reward bad behavior because women test men daily. You have to nip that ish in the bud as soon as the undesired behavior starts. If you don’t all respect is out the door. I respect y’all because it’s not easy dealing with women.

[@tyranmcgrathmnkklkl]

Good advice

[@EvictionNotice51]

We look for women overseas anyway tons of my friends are doing that and it's working out successfully. Women in West just aren't the same anymore too many h8s

[@SlinkyVibe]

@@TigaWould 😂

[@supersaiyan8437]

⁠@@TigaWouldlol you’re not lying but as I read it I’m thinking that’s sad that something like this is even partially widely accepted as a truth I mean it’s definitely true mainly for woman that are insecure or have personality disorders but I would not be in a relationship if I had to date a disordered or insecure person

[@rockbandandghmaster]

Just have to be the kind of man that will leave and move onto the next girl easily. My wife tried some bullshit when we were first dating because she let her family and friends convince her that i had to 'accept her' the way she was and if i didn't 'someone else' will. Well i left and was with another girl in less than a week. She obeys me now, and doesnt listen to her family that has several failed marriages. I know it sounds bad that she 'obeys' me, but nothing i ask is unreasonable and i help her when she asks. Funny enough i'm the only person her brother's respect. I do what i say, and i'm not afraid of the suffering the world gives out.

[@ChristianRobertPeterson]

Put these above all else: 1: Your family 2: Your faith 3: Your future

[@ConcurrentSoap]

Yup, I'm currently dating a girl who was perfect in the beginning. Now 2 months of being official, she's disrespectful, dismissive, sex became boring etc. The only time she gets that spark again is when she gets jealous but I don't want to have to do that every time just to get the passion back. Looks like a relationship that's coming to an end.

[@kashfiology]

best move you can make it, improve yourself, start dressing well, join a boxing gym, come home with scars on your face, beat up some guys, start a side business , start posting really good photos on your social media in high class hotels and good destinations, if you only start fighting or boxing etc, she's gonna sense something different inside of you , you'll naturally become more masculine when you'll beatup a few guys the sex your woman will give you when she's gonna sense that side of you will be beyond your imagination(don't give in your urge to simp back like all that cuddles and shit, stay tough like a fuck boy) women crave nothing more then a man who's capable of violance, (don't beat her up bruv) when she starts to become more submissive and simpi towards you treat her as a toy like she is doing to you now then start fucking her friends and even have threesomes with her. that's the only way to win now

[@27jezus]

End of the cycle soon. Whats her number?😂

[@dominus360]

@@27jezusmy man 😂

[@queazyjam6924]

Communicate brother, lay down your boundaries and demand respect. Stand up for yourself. If she dosent want to submit to her man. Then leave her. You’re a man!

[@askaboutRudyV]

She hates her mother and her Father. If a woman doesn't respect her father or have a father, she will never learn to respect amy other man.

[@calvarado1520]

Pay attention and keep a close eye on a woman with a troubled past because if you don’t chances are you will end up with a covert narcissist and misery will be your future. 😮

[@ChrisGaines-zd2mb]

Your exactly right. And if they are a true malignant narcissist. You poor sob find some self worth and walk away from those sadistic jackass's.

[@DukesFandango]

Cold hard truth.... Fucking run

[@juanl1445]

Facts…found that out more or less after the breakup of bieng with s narcissistic, blinded mann

[@calvarado1520]

@@juanl1445 glad you made it out my man. 👍👏👏👏👏👏✊

[@kroekadoke8212]

Bingo, im 10 yrs deep in it. I have stuck it out only for my son to be old enough to know that the shit she will say about me when i finally leave is complete lies.

[@ilikepancakes2368]

This is why it’s best to keep your distance as a guy even within a relationship. That’s why there’s an old saying “absence makes the heart grow fonder”.

[@SKYBIZZ230]

Not in 2023 women have agendas there is a reason that this woman is not with you to begin with. Once certain females have a particular mindset your are a rebound to her monkey branch. Now shell go to her hypergamous self and jump to the next man that has more than you. They rather be a side chick to a rich man than be a good woman to a responsible man. Save yourself for the culture of women that will show you the most respect travel and figure your life out. Its not worth the squeeze out here bro.

[@tyranmcgrathmnkklkl]

Thank you for reminding me of this quote.

[@tamarasophia6145]

For men, not for women!

[@SurroundedByNonsense]

Or in my case absence makes the heart grow colder towards the vast majority of females excluding no-more than 2%/4% I still wouldn't risk sacrificing my freedom along with freewill only to quite possibly fall into the wrong type of marriage with the wrong type of woman f that

[@yeflynne]

Dont be incel just relax and respond positively to good women

[@0216estrella]

I would never want a side guy because I value myself. As a high value woman, I will not allow myself to have multiple partners at one time. I protect myself from soul ties and diseases. I value my mind, body, and soul and no one is allowed access if I am in a committed relationship. It’s actually a turn off when I tell a man I am in a relationship and he still tries to pursue! Makes him a low value man in my eyes. There’s no need to seek validation elsewhere if I validate myself.

[@nickc127]

I'm curious, what makes you a high value woman? I'm not doubting you I'm just asking.

[@esther.6965]

If your man fucks around, you have no protection from soul ties and therefore you will end up depressed from the spiritual Influences he brings from strange woman. The best thing is to have a faithful man otherwise you are in trouble. If you were a virgin bride and your husband slept with prostitutes you would get depression and unexplainable panic attacks.

[@christopherathekame4673]

High value you rating yourself high value, that's very strange you dont look and seem high value at all you just like the other ladies period.

[@Feelingsdontmattertothefacts]

Calling yourselves a high value woman, automatically makes you a low quality woman to every man who hears you say it. Just on the sheer arrogance alone.

[@christopherathekame4673]

The most stupid sentence I ever heard makes her a really low value woman 100%

[@brentloftin5099]

Same way you get them is the same way you lose them don’t think your any different then the last guy

[@vishnubhargava9318]

Experience speaking!

[@ChrisGaines-zd2mb]

@@vishnubhargava9318 Common sense

[@markusbanks7572]

Absolutely true

[@TheSNOTTBALL]

Absolutely!!!!

[@Ihavehadmanynames7779]

Women are like a kid with too many toys. They don’t know which ones they want to play with. And they get bored of them very quickly

[@mathewyoungblood2357]

The real ones don't care were to focused on our work. Women should be last when it comes to priorities. In my experience the less you care the more they want you.

[@misse8031]

As you mature, you will realize all those girls you just didn't care about was just people you were not meant to be with. When finding the one, it's not about who you CAN live with, it's actually about who you CAN NOT live without. And that feeling has to be mutual. It's okay to act like you naturally would when interacting with potential partners but just leave as soon as it doesn't feel mutual and let the girl leave when she's not getting what she is giving. What you are doing is just wasting time and you will end up feeling empty. That's why you don't prioritize any of them. You are literally just wasting time. Might as well just pay for it, if that's all you are looking for."you don't pay for them to stay, you pay for them to leave" - Charlie

[@emotionalsupport]

Here's a secret...guys can't love 2 people at the same time either. A lot of you are still hungover the one that got away and just going through the motions claiming you're living life.

[@stephanosuk78]

Not lying.

[@copainspammeur404]

Wrong. We can.

[@jacobgomez2682]

I can't either

[@jacobgomez2682]

​@@copainspammeur404if you can then you weren't loyal lol, you got yourself in more than one situation so you didn't love the first 😅

[@KingsguardRP]

​@@jacobgomez2682loyalty has nothing to do with love. You can love 5 things and be loyal to none. You can be loyal to 5 things and love none.

[@josealfredomendoza3361]

Stay single. Attack the gym and only work on yourself. That's all.

[@joeshmoe7899]

She's not yours. It's just your turn.

[@jf8468]

Bad game

[@snicker12]

This is true about certain street women with daddy issues. Those kinds of women are for the streets.

[@ThirdEyePerspective1111]

Exactly. If what he's saying was actually true about ALL women, then literally zero relationships would ever work out.

[@uncomfortabletalktv164]

100 percent😊

[@NickZero-q4n]

You are right. The girls I know this worked with had extreme "daddy issues". They were broken beyond repair.

[@snowfall6767]

girls turning into a monster without someone who well cared about her in the past. this is the key.

[@vinny8195]

Which nowadays is probably half of them

[@Paragon_1111]

Can confirm, being both guys in different relationships. This is painfully yet wonderfully true

[@Bobbly_kronkle]

Ok so let’s say I see a girl and she’s dating someone, I do the smart things and leave her alone because 1. She’s taken and 2. If she’s willing to cheat on her current boyfriend, who’s stoping her from cheating on me?

[@CrossEmJT]

thats why u smash n pass brodie. bitches love what they cant HAVE.

[@Refillyowill]

Also beware of the chick that calls her main guy a “friend” in front of you. Especially if you ask. She’s just a manipulator. It’s a trap.

[@Refillyowill]

@@kennethgraves125 There’s two kinds of advice man. There’s the kind for people who wanna smash, and the kind for people who wanna smash but they’d rather not be cooked in the process or used by a hoe. I can’t say that when a girl calls her man a friend, to you, then that means you’ve got the green light. But I’ve experienced it all so wy wanna talk about lol

[@tegathemenace]

@@Refillyowill Idk man it depends on how casual you take sex. Idc if you're using me or something as long as you don't flake or only respond toe when your relationship goes South, I'm smashing. Since I'm also gaining something on my end. She also just a random booty call. Why must we be the MCs of everybody's life?

[@Refillyowill]

@@tegathemenace that’s probably the softest thing I’ve ever heard. Get in where you fit in I guess bro. If you let a woman disrespect you and you can’t tell her no, that’s literally why these girls out here are low key polysexual. Bottom line I don’t fw a girl that ain’t fw me. That’s not even friend zone, that’s just fake-cool, shallow bs. Thats just me tho I guess.

[@Wolfhammered]

How do you know if the guy is her “main” guy?

[@BleuBelair]

@@WolfhammeredBy how the amount she spends woth the guy. When you have a Friend, there are boundaries. You can tell, its basically obvious.

[@jamimullens4988]

Only a shallow girl who is looking to trade up. A woman of quality, who is fully in love and invested in you, will go all in. If you compliment her love style, emotionally and physically, and reciprocate her energy, you will have a perpetual motion machine (so to speak) of love, mutual respect and growth. If you hold back and play games with a woman who is all in for you, you will lose her. You create gaps between your secure, stable connection that will eventually become so large and so difficult for her to cross, she will feel abandoned and alone- and will reason that she is already alone in all but status, and that becomes closer to her than you.

[@llga76]

Thank you!!! these red pill videos are going to fuck up our generation if we let them

[@albertsantiago2069]

No man can serve two masters: for either he. will hate the one, and love the other; or else. he will hold to the one, and despise the other. Mathew 6:24

[@wavesbnice1]

That's y realizing when someone is imprinted is important. Women with kids are automatically imprinted and will be hard pressed to join your program.

[@tamarasophia6145]

Regarding the woman who was upset that "hubby" didn't do the dishes, understand this is code for "He has been pissing me off in a million different ways for the longest time and I am not in a position to be able to leave. I wish I could leave and there is no other way for me to show my anger to him." I am so angry I don't know what to do anymore and having sex with another guy is the only thing I can think to do because my communication skills are not great and when I have tried to speak to him, his communication skills are not great either."

[@wavesbnice1]

When you say communication is not great that means you're unable to speak in the emotional way she understands.

[@Yyzzzzz]

You’ll never know if these women are running around with multiple men while playing you as the main man. The biggest concern even if you say you’re using them as well should be STDs. You can take all the precautions you want but if you play Russian roulette long enough you might just take home something you can’t get rid of.

[@robwilliams239]

I see this all of the time. The easiest woman to get is the one that’s taken.

[@lovinglifeeach1teach151]

Explains why every girl i start chatting to ends up has a man but the singles don't want none of it😂

[@alexiawhite7841]

As a woman I can say I’m experiencing the emotions he’s describing with my boyfriend and I’m not cheating on him, I’m just tired of him.

[@ArthurMorgan-ux9jj]

You need to have intercourse with him every day. You women get lazy once you get into a relationship or marriage. Life is too short to nag and complain. It will keep your bond strong and he will love you better

[@pahadandguitar]

Can you shed some more light on "tired of him?" Tired of him as in him making your life miserable in 100 different ways due to non compatibility or are you just bored being with the same guy for a while and are now looking for something new?

[@shawavy2897]

I literally have women from over ten years ago who will still sleep with me at any moment no matter who they are with !

[@BriannaGold]

you must be really good in bed.

[@Hamzak786]

How

[@chaitanyagupta6668]

​@@Hamzak786its important to note once he wakes up, those women dont exist.

[@whiterodman]

Most of us do. "Happily Married" and more. My view of them has changed over the years. I just want my one loyal ride or die. Anyone can get laid.

[@therustydhael1528]

He's talking straight facts. You guys should listen.

[@Cryoniczz11]

if you’re on your shit in all aspects it won’t really matter what “guy” you are in her book cuz you’re irreplaceable amongst the average man.

[@pjunior06]

You should be the one with a KZbin channel teaching men how to be men! Too many idiots have access to social media out there! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@corrineagnello4584]

Very true . . . great men are very hard to find.

[@kellyakuhata2842]

Exactly 💯.....I just be me.

[@dagneyraye6808]

Absolutely true I found the man of my dreams recently and ill do anything to keep him. He's (aside from my dad) one of the best top notch men I've ever have the privilege of knowing ❤ he is absolutely irreplaceable & no past man has ever lived up to what kind of my man my current boyfriend is

[@Playboysmurf1]

How can you possibly be the husband with a wife who has a boyfriend. "With your shit together." She's already reaching out. She doesn't respect you.

[@guywilliamallison688]

This is mental the exact thing happened to me. 2 years wasted but when i was her side guy things were great and she fought for me.

[@rickgrimes8870]

You still see it wrong. You were the side guy during some time after you and her being togetger

[@Marwadear512]

Please stop spreading adultery in society it’s disgusting.

[@AI1983-r1k]

@@rickgrimes8870 Side guy gets main interest and attention right ? Short story: side guy = main guy, and main guy = NOT.

[@peterthethird7132]

Its funny how yall dont think she will leave yall just like she left him for u

[@beyondheartmindsoul3443]

Yeah but dont expect you to be innocent, you could have not gotten involved with woman who was married. I am man, i can control my desires and keep them in check for sake of god's wrath, Karma is real and god doesnt play around when someone prays to god on you for doing him wrong!!

[@malik185323]

Dont ever give a woman attention that is giving another man attention. If she wants you, if you want her, she'll be available. Not bouncing around on di@&$ trying to figure out which one she likes more. And if you're allowing a man to be in this space, you're doing nothing more than allowing her to not take accountability for her own actions. Why in the world would you want a woman that is in a relationship. Karmas real, its not good or bad, but its there.

[@SoloOcean]

💯 facts they lead with desire but karma might teach them they feel like they specifical

[@davidperry4310]

I disagree! If a woman has a side guy, she already has no respect for her"Main guy!"

[@D-Thang_]

Many side guys ended up dead..

[@adrianxfitnessmeditation]

Being the side guy isn't beneficial. Idk what he is talking about. You could get killed doing that

[@mrstevens70]

He's not advocating being a side-guy.😅

[@ilikepancakes2368]

That rarely happens though unless you live in the ghetto.

[@yourrealdad8014]

These kinds of women don't deserve your attention or validation, her tendencies should show you how she'll do the same to you (the new guy)

[@LevityBrevity]

This comment goes for men and women! All cheaters are liars.

[@WCCXtra]

Yeah, this dude gives advice for trashy, broken people.

[@peterlovie6682]

Stay alone guys 😂😂is the easiest and most logical solution.

[@vladimirmakarov334]

And die alone and regret about it later on no thanks 💀💀💀💀☠️☠️☠️🪦⚰️

[@kennyhardy1884]

That's absolute money knowledge.... As I was told by older folks at a barbecue years back,... When a woman is all into you.... You are the main guy.... The main interest.... When she's messing around... The attention sexual desires and interest drop... Bitchiness and complaining finding any reason to be mad at you two need space or time"to herself"becomes more obvious.... When most of the time you haven't done s*** wrong.... Except trust that she may have loyalty and respect for your life and time invested.... As she has found something shiny and new that she keeps polishing

[@paultomerson2858]

Giving a woman validation = fuel to the fire

[@spx730]

okay, but what it has to do with the video title?

[@andremusic9924]

Asked myself the same thing

[@Grant2b8]

I like His communication vibe very realistic and relaxed information most men online can’t breath facts

[@i_am_thebatman]

Unless the “main guy” walks away , then she will leave the “side guy” who now becomes the “main guy” for the other guy, you , because you are now the optional “side guy” and you are showing less commitment than the “main guy”

[@hollycampbell1237]

❤ I absolutely will "NOT BE A THIRD WHEEL, EVER IN A RELATIONSHIP. " ❤ Thank you for the message, sir, and God bless you ❤️ 🙏 😊 💖 ♥️

[@iDropPhats]

This is the case for regular guys. It’s a lot of the time a universal test, but mostly one for your average dude because they don’t have other options. Guys who have some status, guys who girls know are absolutely and incorruptibly self respecting men don’t get this shit test a lot because the man’s attention is the prize in that situation and if she pulls back, he’ll just go find a girl who won’t. The real reason behind a woman pulling back is to see how little she can do to get your attention, aka how desperate a guy is. Get your money up, get your confidence up, get some status, and most importantly, stop caring if women pull back from you and just leave them on the spot if they do. Climbing and making it to the top of just a few of these mountains will make 95% of all your woman problems disappear. It sounds a little fucked up when you put it in writing, but once you get to a point where a woman has absolutely 0 value to you until she proves otherwise, you’ll never worry about losing one ever again. It’s just like in sales, every prospect is a tire kicker and a time waster until they prove that they’re not. If a woman truly wants to be with you and she fully respects you, she will pitch you until she’s blue in the face as to why she wants to be with you and her actions will back it up as well.

[@agoins]

And this is why I won't remarry

[@markeverson5849]

@@agoins are women like this in every country that have a phone? In other words modernized and corrupted

[@markeverson5849]

Put that in English brother say the same thing in few words

[@ARTDEVGRU247]

Sounds like an excellent way to get a gold digger

[@djgamingdragon969]

​@@markeverson5849😂🤣

[@brianmackey3949]

How you find them is how you lose them.

[@spectershore4482]

Do you really loose something that you have found 🤔

[@christhesingledad8799]

If your the side guy watch out. She’s already not worth it, she’s a cheat and your not worth respecting if you’d play that game!

[@aaronsalter5596]

😂 I’ve known this for years. These girls always catch feelings when in just having fun.

[@RKmndo]

I've never been "sideguy". I'm not looking to be a homewrecker. Women have left their guys to be with me though, but I wouldn't touch them while they were still committed, and I never encouraged it. I used to bounce from single woman to single woman, never fully committing. They craved the excitement of being with a guy that they couldn't lock down. I wasn't trying to exploit that. I looked out for them, but we were lovers, companions, passing through each other's lives, rather than husband and wife.

[@steveh5307]

I don't get how some dudes keep bouncing around and never commit to one. Do you seriously never ran into one that you think is the one? Don't you want a family and cute little kids running up to you saying "daddy!" when you come home from work? So many options to pick the best but never does. I just don't get it.

[@ch1bob]

@@steveh5307 no

[@ch1bob]

How did you bounce? Ghost?

[@RKmndo]

@@steveh5307 A young college woman asked me out. We dated for almost 2yrs. She gave me a sob story about how her ex had only dated her to take her virginity. I felt bad for her. I was crazy about her. We talked about a future together. I set up a joint savings account and helped her a bit with college costs. I enlisted in the Marines to be able to get myself through college without loans. While I was in bootcamp, other guys were getting "Dear John" letters. I felt bad for them. I knew my GF wasn't like that though. We had never had a fight. We were crazy about each other. I maxed everything in boot...300PFT, Rifle Expert, Water Survival Qualified, etc. The day I graduated boot, I called the GF to have her tell me, "Things have changed.". She had also emptied our account. She left for some guy that called my mom's house to harass me when I came home on leave. Ex must have thought that I was only dating her because I had no other options. She came back around about a year later to find me rotating women openly. She had a meltdown. After this, and after seeing how women/Jody did many of my fellow troops dirty, I had a hard time trusting anybody again. I'm not into 1-nighters, but women seem to like me for flings. They like to tear my pants off, anyway. None has ever put in a concerted effort to improve my overall life though. None has considered earning trust. Instead, I often encounter misandrist feminazis. No thanks. I'm fun, exciting, and orgasmic, but an LTR/marriage/family requires more than that. I finally married an Asian woman. She is becoming more and more westernized though, and the more I see of Western women, the less I want to do with them. NOBODY holds modern Western women accountable for poor behavior like this. It's always excused away. There have been a few that might have developed more, but 1 or both of us got pulled away.

[@steveh5307]

@RKmndo oh ok, so you found one and settled down. I was more referring to perpetual bachelors. My buddy has over 100 bodies! I asked him how he never found one out of so many. He shrugged and said, "Well, it's too late for me to have a family and kids now." We're in our early 40s. I said, wtf does that matter? Don't you want juniors running around? He shrugged. So many options and chances but none that works out? I don't get it.

[@RosieK1698]

If a women loves you she won’t have a “side guy”

[@elizabethermakova9479]

I completely disagree if I am with one person I am loyal completely. Where ever you water the grass the greener it becomes. You both need to step up in a relationship to make it work. You both need to elevate each other.

[@tyranmcgrathmnkklkl]

What about those who aren't watering your grass as much as you're watering their's? I.e. someone who doesn't value or respect you

[@elizabethermakova9479]

@@tyranmcgrathmnkklkl This happened with my ex so I broke up with him. If you feel they are not putting in the same energy then move on.

[@Hamzak786]

​@@elizabethermakova9479but what if he made a mistake and apologized would you not give him another chance ?

[@elizabethermakova9479]

@@Hamzak786 I do give chances but if I still see someone not making effort then it's bye from me and you just won't see me again. There is no point wasting your time on people who really don't want to be in the relationship and work at it with you.

[@rubentello9792]

Very true. But some girls don't do shit to make the relationship work. Some do every thing t destroy it instead just because they want to cheat and blame everything on the man just to justify and make herself feel good about sleeping around with different guys. They don't try to talk to us. They start an emotional affair instead and flirting with other guys. I don't see them trying to water the grass to make the relationship greener. They don't care and don't want to. Thats the truth . After she gets caught then she wants to talk after she cheats. Deceiving you to try to work it out, so she can cheat again to throw you off thats what Joann always will do. She broke my heart so bad.😢

[@jimmyd6111]

If a woman is torn between two men, she should pick the second man. Because she sees something in him that she didn't see in the first man. And the first man should let her go, because he sees something in her that the second guy doesn't. Marcus Aurelius

[@cautionimbored]

That’s a woman with a crap ton of mental issues. She’s problematic . RUN

[@WheezyNL]

Best to pull back, minimize attention, focus on yourself and be less invested

[@marc_mz5007]

Used to be the side dude , then main dude . Cycle repeats . The way you get her is the way you lose her .

[@nightcedargarden]

This is why i dont blame good dudes in the states marry girls from Philippines, Korea, china etc. Theres no bullshit "side guy" business. Loyalty, love, respect, traditional values that matters? Asian women will give that willingly to their man.

[@pberggre]

Careful the way you word main guy. Because if there’s a decline in intimacy because of another guy who she’s chasing that is her main guy spiritually speaking now. I’ve seen it happen and I had to fight for it and the things I did worked and my woman started dissing the other dude who started competing with me and sleeping with me way more than ever and wearing lingerie for me without me asking and getting all feminine on me. So being the main guy is all about actually being the main guy in her mind and heart and not just being the “main guy” in appearance

[@kawaiiavril1658]

Exactly! It is a sign of lack in the main relationship. Not condoning cheating from either direction, but this has been my observation. People get what they are missing in a relationship from themselves at best and from the outside world at worst.

[@tyranmcgrathmnkklkl]

What did you do?

[@pberggre]

@@tyranmcgrathmnkklkl a few things, I treated her the way I did when we first started dating. I started working out. Being genuinely helpful, and stopped seeking her validation, and I set strong boundaries. And I took her out and spent one on one time. You basically have to stand up for yourself in a gentle way and never let her emotionally move you, and always be on point doing the right thing. If you make it about truth and doing what is right, no one can argue with that or outdo it you’ll always be valuable. See the true need and fill it then people especially women will admire you and want to be around you and feel safe around you.

[@kom072692]

@@pberggredude she was getting banged By another dude.. how did you not cut her off

[@yrxsx]

​@@pberggre So basically you started working more for her and give her more attention because she was after another guy? So she deserved more love from you because she cheated? That's actually the logic behind your reasoning. And I think it's really delusional. It may have worked or not, but that's not the "truth" or you proving yourself, that's just a lack of options and self respect. If a woman starts cheating on you, you walk away and never look in her eyes again. Because she is not your woman and she doesn't love you. You don't love her more for it, that's just toxic. Someone who loves and cares for you communicate with you and stands with you to change things. What she did to you was actually toxic and you should have left her once for all. That's the only truth.

[@mikesmith9972]

If you've been in any relationship for longer than a few years? You'll know that those upticks and downticks are merely cycles. You'll have variances in your relationships attraction, appreciation and sexual chemistry. As long as you have a strong foundation based on love,acceptance and understanding"both ways"it'll always rebound. Once you have found someone that's truly loyal and knows how to commit? Bro, grab ahold of her, hold on tight and don't let her go cuz she's worth it. I've been w my wife for nearly 20 years and I still have an intense attraction to her after all this time and our sex life is phenomenal. We don't watch porn, use social media n we always put each other first and foremost. They're out there, you need to learn to identify them, they ain't in the club, bars or gyms either.

[@ThirdEyePerspective1111]

Casey, if what you're saying here was really true with all (or even most) women, then there would be little to no committed relationships ever actually happening in the world. But there's tons of them. There are MANY relationships in which the man and the woman are deeply loyal to each other and invested in each other, and their love and passion stays long term, and they get married and have a beautiful family, and they love each other until death does them part. This has been going on for countless generations of humanity, and it still goes on. If what you are saying was true, then we'd never see that. There would be literally no families ever being formed. Think about what you're saying, please. What you are saying only applies to toxic women, not quality ones.

[@ultra.based.27]

I hope that you are right

[@ThirdEyePerspective1111]

@@ultra.based.27 if I'm wrong, then how do strong happy families exist? How do happy couples who are in their 80's, and have been together since their 20's, exist? They didn't get to that point by the man being "the side guy".

[@ultra.based.27]

@@ThirdEyePerspective1111 i have no idea how those couples stayed together so much, in my family every single relationship was a mess. I agree this guy sometimes says some weird stuff.

[@bradleyb.425]

Well said

[@V4ultr3mTV]

You need to stop falling for the Disney stories you see or perfect relationship stories you hear people talk about. We only see what's on the outside of other people's relationships. When you're in a relationship of your own, you see all the nasty and deceitful things that happen between you any your significant other. Don't think for one second that everything is all bubblegum and butterflies when you see the "perfect" couples in the world. It takes shit ton of grief, disrespect, and metaphorical shit eating to get to a level of peace with one another.

True. A woman cannot serve two Kings. I tried this for a while and ended up picking the one who had better survival skills then the younger better looking one.

[@thejabberwocky1488]

“I’m just a side dude playing a main dude on my way to becoming the ex dude….”

[@itsdmax6174]

😂😂😂

[@nicholasali2182]

THE SIDE PIECE BECOMES THE MAIN UNTIL ANOTHER SIDE PIECE ARRIVES. VICIOUS CYCLE. IT'S NOT A WIN. SHE BELONGS TO THE STREETS. THUS RETURNETH HER THERE.

[@mrswolls]

I guess this is why my wifes boyfriend tells me I have nothing to worry about

[@NicksterNOC]

😂😂😂

[@redline350zHR]

😄😅😄😅

[@ChrisGaines-zd2mb]

Lol damn fella

[@lionheart9737]

😂

[@yusufabdulganiy]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@dianaverano7878]

Im a loyal woman. Even with just getting to know you stage, if I like a guy, my attention is only for him. Since he is not my boyfriend, there are men who would approach me or send me messages, but i dont feel attraction with them at all. I can entertain these guys as suitors but I just say no and ignore them. Even if he is not yet my boyfriend, i want my attention to this guy i like. That's just me. I have never cheated inside a romantic relationship despite all my exes are the jealous types before.

[@tommcguire6472]

No man screws another man's woman, you're scum if you do this. There's 4 billion women in the world you can't get one without stealing another guys women

[@zavoz1456]

You can't steal someone from someone else. They go willingly.

[@redleeks6253]

Exactly

[@SmartestDumbGuy]

Ultimately... im not sure ive ever met a woman who was fully single. She is always hanging out with somebody.

[@cavemandude257]

Somebody gotta do it tho.

[@tvb4227]

Lol any woman can sleep to any men she wants. She aint yours lmao. Women are not object they human with freedom. What a wierdo

[@bettedavis45]

None of you are healthy and well adjusted nor are you dating women who are. This isn't normal.

[@WCCXtra]

For real!

[@raysepulveda7620]

Men, you know how this works. If you have to tell your woman that you're in charge, you're probably not. Take charge and act in charge. She'll know that there are consequences for bad behavior.

[@sawyerpannell9695]

This is what you call a whore. It's ok to just say that. If she doesn't like the guy she is with she should just leave him. Very simple. These types of women simply put are broken and dysfunctional and shouldn't be in a relationship to begin with til they heal from whatever damage made them this way to begin with....

[@zaymilo2761]

But even so… (the part he forgot to mention) is that this is still no women you wanna keep because she’ll just do the same thing to you and move on to the next guy, so on and so forth… honestly I don’t even put myself in situations like these, second I know you have someone the most intimacy you’ll get from me is a handshake goodbye…

[@forrealtho4062]

It sucks because not all beautiful women are like this just some that ruin it for everyone else As soon as you are done with them some of them have a roster of people or an old tinder account kept on hand to call to move onto the next guy or even girl even though they said they “loved you” i was the female friend of a lot of these types of “women” it made me disgusted to enable that after the fact they always made it look like it was their partners fault for either abandoning them or ignoring them instead of working on themselves by either working through it or leaving they just use people until someone uses them, and then they become so obsessed with that person everyone else might as well just fade away Toxic codependency and covert narcissism is some crazy $h;t I used to think like that too untill i met my partner now i see some “women”dont really deserve any better than the men they are constantly finding themselves with.

[@AL-sg2jd]

Side guy main guy whatever it is. When they’re caught. They’re left all alone one day wondering why they can’t find a good man. I don’t hate on the guy she cheated with. More power to him. She’s the one responsible for being loyal. Now she’s all alone saying she’s sorry and I don’t look back.

[@WCCXtra]

Nah, they're both accountable - the cheater and the one she cheated with. Too many men out here giving weakness a pass because they secretly wish they could get in on the action or they lack integrity.

[@ampersand6375]

you know how things end: the way they begin.

[@Phriffo]

That's why we need to chase our purpose. Forget em' chicks.

[@nicole-sg4rh]

Absolutely facts.. if she's at the point where she'll mess around with another guy.. your already out of the picture in her mind

[@johnsonyamanguchi9397]

The triangularity woman, the ruthless, chaotic, etc. Run dont look back.

[@dooolaay]

Why do yall be messing with any woman who is seeing more men than just you? I find out she has another guy and I next her. I don’t share time, she does.

[@SoloOcean]

Yessir 💪🏾⚡

[@jamescoulter7052]

100% true, I have been on both sides of this kind of situation and it's so true.

[@NRM1067]

The same happens to men with the “main “ woman. They look at the main woman as the anchor and it gives him the knowing that she will always be there , so he can treat her as he wants and do as he wants with others because he knows she is unconditionally going to be there for him. It gets beyond toxic.

[@rosssivertson6339]

I can see why some guys go for being the side guy and never committing. They get the best of her with very little effort and then when her main guy eventually leaves they can move on.

[@Refillyowill]

This only works if the chick knows wtf she doin. You can tell she don’t know wtf she doing if she can’t hyu ever. If you’re the side guy and she can’t even hyu when she wanna talk and she just expects you to know, it may not be because she’s uninterested, she might just be kinda dumb. (Respectfully). If you’re hitting her up and you’re the side guy, you’ll end up in the friend zone bruh. State your intention, make a move. If she argues because you want her to hyu and she won’t, she’s figured out that she doesn’t need to give you anything for your attention etc. Stop talking to her until she hits you up. Legit let her go. If she don’t figure it out, oh well, you’ve moved on. If she does figure it out, she’ll hyu. Don’t be mad at her when she hits you up. Just accept it like damn it’s about time, I’ve been waiting for you to hmu what’s up? Don’t talk about her man. Don’t talk about love or a relationship. Everything else will fall into place.

[@tegathemenace]

Friend zone is for people that are not sexual and dating material. A zone women know from day 1. You'll only enter the friendzone if she has some epiphany and decides to be loyal. Which you take your leave, after all you've eaten your cake.

[@InfinitProcessBSG13]

Live with each other for a month with them first before getting married or moving in. ⚖

[@jungleninja-tropic5690]

A lot of women equivalate a boyfriend as providers and nothing much more

[@OneLeggedTarantula]

you will see a decline the second you emotionally check-in with her and make yourself available.

[@mendozaestefan]

stop sleeping with other dudes girls we gotta have our brothers backs! because one day it'll be you

[@UNAVERAGE_J0E]

You are right on point with everything you say, its unbelievable.

[@johnmora5599]

That's when u turn your back especially if u keeping it legit with her

[@Iamamazing381]

Yo you should do a video on dealing with married women bro, nobody’s touching that one but it needs to b talked about

[@hajileserpud9539]

That basically explains my marriage... Found out wife had a side guy at her job... For the past 2 years the intimacy and sex fell to like once or twice a month and everything was a problem for her... When we did get intimate she couldn't look me in the eyes and over time her vag didnt fit my member that was my first set of clues😢

[@npjm.99]

How did it not fit anymore? Lol just curious. Never heard this before...

[@hajileserpud9539]

@@npjm.99 my wife has no children and she's in her late 30's ... After 7 years of banging the same vag you can tell the tightness but after some time it was loose . I don't have the biggest but I'm definitely not a guy with a small member, if that explains it for you.

[@iamjayprakash]

​@@npjm.99it was made bigger by side guy i guess

[@itsdmax6174]

@@npjm.99WTH AM I READING

[@kashfiology]

the other guy had thicket penis and stretched her vag for a while, she probably got dicked before coming back home @@npjm.99

[@exceptionallife4768]

This CAN happen but every case is not the same…. In fact, ANYTHING can happen and this should not be taken as broad advice.. rather a single persons experience you can learn from because you know it can happen… Let’s start being responsible about the way we respond and react to things we see on the internet

[@KiraNikk0s]

"I pick people who are bitchy and think that's what all women are like"

[@officialyetai]

nah they do that shit happened to me

[@26yearoldboomer7]

Yeah and your shit doesn't stink either

[@idkkid2829]

THANK YOU

[@Marwadear512]

👏🏻

[@atwntennisclub]

All women are the same. Those that dont think so are just delusional. And wrong.

[@RJOK3R09]

100% agree. Never been the side man but I am now lol. Dude is speaking facts!

[@psalms1163]

All the signs will be there of who she is.... She peacock always shows its colors. Some people just over look them..

[@davidswanson5436]

Creatures of habit. Always be willing to walk.

[@markeverson5849]

My wife was cheating on me for 40 years!!!TRUE!! and I didn't realize it. if I would have caught them,,,::: it would have been brutal for sure!. I guarantee you:::::: and I would have felt totally justified.

[@Spiidaa]

40 years Damn Bro I feel you 💯

[@markeverson5849]

@@Spiidaa Love Hurts

[@48webber]

Mark, you sound like a good man and highly tolerant. She is not worth going to jail for while she enjoys a freedom with another man. All I did was congratulate mines and told the guy, BEST OF LUCK, SHES UR PROBLEM NOW. Now I'm having the bestt years of my life. If I were you, divorce and move on but start saving your money secretly. Best of luck.

[@markeverson5849]

@@48webber I've already been alone for 14 years and don't know any girls now I'm lonely and would like to find a fiance but don't know where

[@fugu4163]

@@markeverson5849 If you get involved with women now a days you will regret it. You are better of alone.

[@dealswithnormiesallday]

"she was never yours, it was only your turn."

[@davidboyer3961]

Yep, I've been through this a few times.