How to Be Unforgettable on a Date | Matthew Hussey

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Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

2 жыл бұрын

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When you’re dating in 2022, you can almost be sure that the person in front of you on that first date is dating multiple people at the same time. This omnipresent truth can make you nervous as you so desperately want to stand out from the crowd.
The truth is, we all want so badly to be unforgettable on a date . . . but actually making that happen can feel tricky.
In the pursuit of “making someone like us,” we may give in to the knee-jerk reaction of trying to impress them, or worse . . . people please.
Even though we told ourselves we’d be chill and genuine, we suddenly find ourselves working our most spectacular moments into conversation, hoping they’ll see us for the treasure we are.
Or we get so nervous that our walls go up and we lose all warmth and become sarcastic and cutting instead.
These performances will often have us showcasing the more insecure sides of ourselves, taking the focus away from the purpose of being on that date in the first place: connection.
But luckily, truly connecting-and making yourself memorable-is much simpler than that.
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@ryushizu17
@ryushizu17 2 жыл бұрын
2:17 1) 'Start on The Ground': Instead of broad questions, share recent things from your life and how you felt about it 4:31 2) 'Connect, Don't Coach': Instead of 'coaching' someone, empathize and connect instead 7:47 3) 'Listen and Capture': Instead of passively, listen actively and show that you understand what the person said
@julieb5122
@julieb5122 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@sylviacooper2364
@sylviacooper2364 Жыл бұрын
You @matthew hussey is so full of it, I listen to all your videos more then once and I found my person but he left. How did I ever fall for your advice. You will never know the damage you did to my internal person
@simontmn
@simontmn Жыл бұрын
@@sylviacooper2364 There is no one "my person", a point Hussey makes often. (a) You need to do the work to be your best self. (b) If he left, there are plenty more good men out there. Depending on why he left, he may not have been such a great guy anyway. But life is hard and there are no guarantees. In any case, no dating coach is responsible for your love life, only you are.
@DeadNetCord
@DeadNetCord Жыл бұрын
thank yoou
@anndillard8681
@anndillard8681 Жыл бұрын
@@sylviacooper2364 Get to know yourself and be yourself.. read DADDY THROWS ME IN THE AIR - memoir/self-help - FEAST OF MEN & REFLECTIONS OF THE CURSE....
@jjc2323
@jjc2323 2 жыл бұрын
So basically be open, show vulnerability and be an active listener without giving much advice (unless asked)? Done.
@dejasarafian531
@dejasarafian531 Жыл бұрын
Hi, you single?
@kevingibbs1256
@kevingibbs1256 7 ай бұрын
​@@dejasarafian531hahahahahahahahahahahhaahaha How not to do it 101
@mariGentle
@mariGentle 7 ай бұрын
I do it all the time, do they do it return? No
@marleefreyre732
@marleefreyre732 6 ай бұрын
​@@dejasarafian531hi
@Eric-vj4by
@Eric-vj4by 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for the summary, I didn't want to watch 16 minutes
@xuxagirl87
@xuxagirl87 2 жыл бұрын
One of the beautiful things my partner does for me is asking me if I want her to try to fix it, or just to listen. It’s so nice to have someone understand the difference.
@Baybiedoll35
@Baybiedoll35 2 жыл бұрын
My toxic trait is being a fixer so I totally offer advice and perspective when someone confides a particular issue or problem they're having. Ugh. I definitely try to work on it. But it's a habit that's so hard to break.
@hannahhardy7557
@hannahhardy7557 2 жыл бұрын
I hear you Matthew. It means I don't have to give free advice for a $4 cup of coffee. 🤦 Stupid me.
@czylichilli
@czylichilli 2 жыл бұрын
I totally get you. I do the same thing. I'm learning to accept and remeber that if someone shares their story or issues with us. It not always mean that they want to hear our opinion. I ask: if the person wants to hear my view on it, then I follow up with question what they are planning to do about the issue and last if they want my help or advice. It changed alot since I started to do it.
@jjc2323
@jjc2323 2 жыл бұрын
Same!
@raen3049
@raen3049 Жыл бұрын
Please do. Mostly everyone wants a listener more than someone who gives unsolicited advise.
@pichichipichi
@pichichipichi Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing and being so aware about this issue. For me is a lack of respect to receive non asked adviced because I feel my "issue" goes behind the other person´s ego to make them feel better so I´m not the center anymore of my own story. Cheers! 🙏🏻
@kristenlobstein8634
@kristenlobstein8634 2 жыл бұрын
I love how your advice goes so much deeper than just being on a date. The first date is important but first impressions last a lifetime. Being a decent human by listening and understanding the people you’re with makes you unforgettable.
@ramparkash2318
@ramparkash2318 Жыл бұрын
Kristen Lobstein. You are saying ture. I'm agree with your words.
@sue-annthandy5387
@sue-annthandy5387 Жыл бұрын
Agree,Awesome, sooo true
@dejasarafian531
@dejasarafian531 Жыл бұрын
And you single? Because it looks like your in a good relationship .
@mundea
@mundea 2 жыл бұрын
I know that Matthew's content is tailored towards women, but I like hearing his insights to see topics like this from an alternative view-point
@Musiyca
@Musiyca 2 жыл бұрын
It's not just for women. He mostly talks about comfidence, self-esteem and capturing others on first meeting. Everyone benefits from that
@racqui100
@racqui100 2 жыл бұрын
I wonder what content are the men getting and from whom… which dating advice forum/ platform, guru guide are does it come from
@jcman-lp6lg
@jcman-lp6lg 2 жыл бұрын
@@racqui100 the info we get pretty much makes it seem like women are mind readers. They tell us not to put women on pedestals but then they talk about them as if they are literally impossible to talk to. I am a pretty confident person but the level of confidence they want you to have is absurd.
@itsgokublack420
@itsgokublack420 2 жыл бұрын
Facts he be spitting game to men too it’s just coded us guys gotta decipher the encryption to get the info he’s giving to us as well
@peterj.fallon4327
@peterj.fallon4327 2 жыл бұрын
@@racqui100 Wing Girl Marni’s pretty much only good one from female POV. ‘Guru’ guys advice borders contempt for women. Sad
@MrYoko101
@MrYoko101 6 ай бұрын
11:00 My counselor always used to say, “Being heard is so close to being loved that most people don’t know the difference”
@riddlen71
@riddlen71 10 ай бұрын
“Capturing the essence of what someone else has expressed to us…because we really listened…because we built intimacy.”
@sadiaali9198
@sadiaali9198 2 жыл бұрын
Indeed. Being a great conversationalist is about two things: creating intrigue and interest, and creating emotional connection.
@dejasarafian531
@dejasarafian531 Жыл бұрын
Hy, hope your having a good day ?
@priscillaandraos4691
@priscillaandraos4691 Жыл бұрын
THIS MAN IS GENIUS ! HE KNOWS OUR HUMAN NATURE AND HIS WORDS CAN BE USEFUL FOR EVERYTHING IN LIFE BEYOND DATING. I HAVE LOYALLY WATCHED HIS VIDEOS AND HE NEVER FAILS TO MAKE EXCELLENT APPLICABLE POINTS. PEOPLE SEEK TO BE UNDERSTOOD AND HEARD.
@masterjanglez
@masterjanglez 2 жыл бұрын
This is such a great video. Not just for dating but for connecting with people. Thanks Matthew for all your kind words of wisdom.
@user-vq5ff6mv4n
@user-vq5ff6mv4n Жыл бұрын
yes
@lizzysalway6844
@lizzysalway6844 2 жыл бұрын
Something I have noticed in your videos is that you are also learning and developing and your energy is growing accordingly. Thanks so much for the reminder that it’s not an exam, because whilst I want to keep learning and developing, I can think I need to be perfect. Thanks for demonstrating what you are advising. We appreciate you!
@coleniyo2719
@coleniyo2719 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Matthew! This video is so full of gold nuggets for all aspects of relationships in life…not just dating. I’m learning so much!
@siuzannavyshneva6312
@siuzannavyshneva6312 2 жыл бұрын
I love Matthew's Sunday preachings! And he touched on writing!! Standing ovation!! 👏👏👏✨
@robymtzt
@robymtzt Жыл бұрын
Love the advice of not looking for something eventful to happen to us. We can talk about our day to day because that's what you will look for in a partner , someone to connect with on just basic topics .
@violetmartha916
@violetmartha916 2 жыл бұрын
I certainly made an impact on a first date after watching a video that told me to " Start on the ground" ... He walked into the restaurant and there I was, waiting for him, laying on the floor 😁
@RR-et6zp
@RR-et6zp Жыл бұрын
HE IS LYING. We look for chaste, fit , feminine, friendly, not half naked online, agreeable
@christinaregan-ardito4559
@christinaregan-ardito4559 2 жыл бұрын
This was so helpful, I do believe I made a few mistakes in dating from your examples and I will be more self aware on the next date to really think before I speak.
@rizapace1907
@rizapace1907 Жыл бұрын
Matthew, just want to let you know that I really I appreciate the work you do, thank you so much. You helped me a lot with my self-development journey. Thank you again.
@sarahhalawa5926
@sarahhalawa5926 2 жыл бұрын
I love how you analyze things and human emotions, literally a genius
@theprousteffect9717
@theprousteffect9717 2 жыл бұрын
You give brilliant advice that's applicable to many people and situations. Thank you for all the work you do.
@tendersoulsretreat5863
@tendersoulsretreat5863 2 жыл бұрын
I loved the way you paralleled photography with active listening. That was so visual and relatable that it will stick with me rather deeply.
@AlanaChuong
@AlanaChuong Жыл бұрын
I'm relatively new to your work. I've been doing inner work for a very long time. And it's from that perspective that I found your work: I'm interested in the intersection(s) between our own sense of who we are, how we navigate and inhibit our immediate worlds and how we are perceived and received in that world, from our immediate families and beyond. It seems to me that you're doing something very similar with the work that you present to the world. I think it's a blessing on humanity. Towards that end, if you're comfortable, I'd love to hear what your personal practice looks like. What grounds you, what supports you, what gives you inspiration and structure to do what you do. Clearly, your family, your brother, are a big part of it. But I wonder about what, if anything else, there is. Grateful for your share, in all ways. Oh, as with your other videos, I LOVE this one. Your ability to take break down and identify the parts and nuances of humanity is notable and a gift for all. If not illuminating, it's at least affirming, which can be just as important/helpful. Thank you.
@dariennechouinard8369
@dariennechouinard8369 Жыл бұрын
One breakthrough I've had in my communication skills and overall orientation to other people (romantic or not) is realizing that asking "What does that mean to you?" is what I really care about discovering, and it has a profound effect. Some people don't "get it" when I ask them this, and instead stay on the surface of who/what/where/when. It helps me weed out the ones I don't feel compelled to invest connection with.
@stephwart
@stephwart 2 жыл бұрын
This couldn’t come at the most appropriate time! Thank you Matthew!
@liz_lemon421
@liz_lemon421 Жыл бұрын
I'm impressed by the self reflection in the beginning! It makes you and what you do a lot more authentic. This is a good example for all of those "Do these 3 things and I guarantee you'll get married in 6 months" so-called coaches.
@deanhimmelman1209
@deanhimmelman1209 Жыл бұрын
I don't know how long you have been at this but if your delivery comes naturally you have a real gift!! I found the 18-minute youtube seemed to go by in 4 minutes, that is a great delivery. Thanks
@agustinaaguirre2118
@agustinaaguirre2118 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you i used this today and it was amazing . I was just myself and he said he really had a great time . And I had fun too so we will have a second date next week .... thanks!!!!
@marinjayden
@marinjayden Жыл бұрын
First date or not this video is gold for connecting with anyone!
@anabertoluzzi8055
@anabertoluzzi8055 3 ай бұрын
You are incredible!!!…so much wisdom, so compassionate and kind… a natural teacher and so wise…. and so handsome… !! How did you get so wise so young.?!!!
@cleverg1555
@cleverg1555 Жыл бұрын
I feel so good on every first date and i can conect pretty good with girls on the first date but keeping the connection once the first date it's over and getting a second date it's where i struggle THE MOST
@marilynoverton8142
@marilynoverton8142 2 жыл бұрын
Matthew, this information is so very valuable, in any number of situations. Thank you!
@elainegeber4604
@elainegeber4604 Ай бұрын
What you share in your work is teaching me to be a better human. I know I have not always been a good listener, so I need to focus on that skill, and really be in the moment, be present, be focused not distracted and ready to jump in, allow you to fully have my attention.
@erickgutierrez6743
@erickgutierrez6743 10 ай бұрын
He's talking about reflective listening. Let the person talk, listen, then repeat what they told you (in your own words). You can do a simple reflection, reflection of feeling or a double sided reflection. Conversation is truly an art that requires practice and skill.
@jessikalacroix5993
@jessikalacroix5993 Жыл бұрын
Thank you su much Mattew! I love you videos because you don't give advice that we are just going to act out, your advices are about how to create a connection and be vulnérable with someone we are interested in. Really useful
@patienceankunda6185
@patienceankunda6185 Ай бұрын
What I like Mr .Hussey is that he tells you mostly to be who you are 🙏🏾
@freyjastravelchariot3343
@freyjastravelchariot3343 Жыл бұрын
I always started with, "Hey! Do you hug?" and that helped set the mood. It leads to different conversations than "How are you?" Also, my love language is physical touch... if you don't hug... it tells me a lot about the likelihood of our success. Nothing against that person that isn't a hugger, I just know *I* need that.
@tedtalksrock
@tedtalksrock Жыл бұрын
2020/2021 must have been especially difficult then…
@Joy-mm3cz
@Joy-mm3cz Жыл бұрын
Definitely date someone who’s love laughing, both primary and secondary, are the same. Physical touch is last for me even though I am a hugger. Lol
@radiantbird
@radiantbird Жыл бұрын
Very nice…
@cherrylane79
@cherrylane79 Жыл бұрын
Not everyone are ready to let a stranger close to them, especially when traumatized. So you don't really know about the success with asking for a hug straight away. It might be okay later.
@sunnienciso9582
@sunnienciso9582 Жыл бұрын
Good one. I too am a hugger, and also a dog lover. I will remember to ask if you hug or if you like dogs. lol
@mantra1182
@mantra1182 4 ай бұрын
I really appreciate the content in your videos. Your points aren’t cookie cut or basic but really helpful, insightful, unique and informative. Great points. Thank you 🙏
@dearformerself
@dearformerself 2 жыл бұрын
I legit have a date later today and was very nervous. Could not have been uploaded at a better time! I'll do my best not to overthink it. Thank you so much for everything you do!❤️❤️
@susannah-carolla9587
@susannah-carolla9587 2 жыл бұрын
Have a great date! Come back and tell us how it went!!
@dearformerself
@dearformerself 2 жыл бұрын
@@susannah-carolla9587 Just got back from the date! I bought her a dozen roses and made sure to open her door for her and everything. She hugged me at the end and said she had a wonderful time. I'm seeing her again next Thursday!!🥳🥳
@susannah-carolla9587
@susannah-carolla9587 2 жыл бұрын
@@dearformerself Yay!! Here’s to date number 2!! 💜💜
@dearformerself
@dearformerself 2 жыл бұрын
@@susannah-carolla9587 💜💜
@RR-et6zp
@RR-et6zp Жыл бұрын
chaste, fit , feminine, friendly, not half naked online, agreeable
@jasminetate614
@jasminetate614 Жыл бұрын
Love these videos. I think my friend told me about your videos years ago and I’ve been taking a few bits and pieces from the videos and have been super successful so far!
@joeljohnson4465
@joeljohnson4465 Жыл бұрын
This is so helpful. I try to remember this through trying to relate emotionally vs assess or fix what they’re saying.
@ilonapsiuk1078
@ilonapsiuk1078 Жыл бұрын
Can't agree more, however I still have one doubt. Being a good listener is my curse, everyone's been always treating me as free therapist. In the relationship context I feel it's pushing me towards the so called friendzone.
@bigqueeenergy
@bigqueeenergy Жыл бұрын
But on the bright side, your curse is also a blessing because it’s a incredible quality for people to feel safe and comfortable to be vulnerable with you! I think Matthew’s point is mainly is because we want to show that we are interested in them (which includes listening to them cuz that’s the best we can do on a first date lol)
@sunnienciso9582
@sunnienciso9582 Жыл бұрын
I hear you on the therapist part. I am a great listener. When I talk though after listening to them, they give me anbout 30 seconds until it is all about them again. Drives me crazy.
@bigqueeenergy
@bigqueeenergy Жыл бұрын
@@sunnienciso9582 But that shouldn't be on you, it is on them that they're all about themselves. Plus you've dodged a bullet by them showing you who they really are in the early stages ((:
@sunnienciso9582
@sunnienciso9582 Жыл бұрын
@@bigqueeenergy Amen sweet pea. Woman run this fucking world right now. We don't need a man.
@gigibtsurvivor3348
@gigibtsurvivor3348 Жыл бұрын
Same here. Most dates really enjoy talking to me because they find my listening skills and support of bids for connection and vulnerability attractive. I’m often treated as their therapist. I try to put listening and talking boundaries in place to short circuit that.
@alexone8338
@alexone8338 2 жыл бұрын
You uploaded this just before I go on a highly anticipated first date haha. Thanks Matt
@ChristineCho91
@ChristineCho91 2 жыл бұрын
Unrelated to this video, but I finally bought your book on Audible. I have not stopped laughing while learning the past hour. Thank you Matthew.
@Milica7299
@Milica7299 Жыл бұрын
Need to read a large book on "connect, don't coach"... Not a superiority moment, but the only thing I think I need to do is help (which gets to solving the problem). Good video, thank you, Matthew!
@carmen-mnt-manta4343
@carmen-mnt-manta4343 Жыл бұрын
You are so gifted! I think you are really doing your mission! 🙏🏼
@EMarie85
@EMarie85 Жыл бұрын
OMG your #1 thing is something I learned to do with colleagues because I'm such an introvert and never knew how to "small talk" before getting into the point of a meeting / conversation! Especially over zoom, my go-to is the most interesting, usually funny and unfortunate thing that happened to me recently and they're like omg that's so crazy! And then they tell a similar story and we've connected and then move to work stuff. I do it without even thinking about it now, it's just automatic.
@jennifermartin4629
@jennifermartin4629 Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏻 for sharing all this information! So much knowledge I truly appreciate it! All your videos are great 👍 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
@capricris7672
@capricris7672 2 жыл бұрын
I'm in a real dilemma whether to give him my number 🙄. I'm 57 and so nervous. I've been single for nearly 5 years and am scared witless😳. This has helped.
@lucasgabrielcordeirosantan9851
@lucasgabrielcordeirosantan9851 14 күн бұрын
You speak so well! It’s exciting to watch your videos!
@faithandmadnessministries6419
@faithandmadnessministries6419 5 күн бұрын
Lovely work you doing there and for sharing such rich messages 🙏 keep up the good work. My inspiration
@siratuzrashaik
@siratuzrashaik Жыл бұрын
Thank you Mattew, highly informative and insightful. I'm a life coach and this was a great video and could relate to all of the points. Amazing, This how an have a high-impact conversation with anyone and everyone. Kudos.
@dejasarafian531
@dejasarafian531 Жыл бұрын
A life coach in which country you typing from ?
@NathalieLazo
@NathalieLazo 2 жыл бұрын
This message is for someone who needs to hear this and will fully understand it... You are not define by your circumstance or your past. It’s not what happened to you that determines your success in life; it is how you deal with those circumstances that determines your success in life. You are strong, you are capable and practice forgiveness (Forgiveness is for you; forgive your parents or anyone whom we have chosen to hurt us, to begin the process of healing and freedom. Remember: Forgiveness is for you to be freed, healed and happy. It’s a RESET BUTTON) and practice gratitude everyday. This will change the course of your life forever. Love you always and I believe in you wholeheartedly no matter what ✨❤️ - Nat
@dejasarafian531
@dejasarafian531 Жыл бұрын
Wow!!! 😳 Come on tell me what's behind all the write-ups You had a bad day?
@aubreydavis8519
@aubreydavis8519 Жыл бұрын
LOVE watching your videos!! Thank you so much for the content you provide❤️
@RR-et6zp
@RR-et6zp Жыл бұрын
HE IS LYING. We look for chaste, fit , feminine, friendly, not half naked online, agreeable
@Sara-ig5ep
@Sara-ig5ep 2 жыл бұрын
EXCELLENT video. Please make more like these on conversation and listening skills!
@RR-et6zp
@RR-et6zp Жыл бұрын
HE IS LYING. We look for chaste, fit , feminine, friendly, not half naked online, agreeable
@izizxoxo
@izizxoxo Жыл бұрын
I love your advice, thank you for easing my anxiety ❤
@lukepodolski8818
@lukepodolski8818 Жыл бұрын
Excellent explanation and advice. Can't wait to learn more.
@AnnMoses
@AnnMoses 2 жыл бұрын
Your messages are always in time Sir thank you for all
@treeofwisdom9936
@treeofwisdom9936 Жыл бұрын
You are a beautiful human being, and this is gold for both man and women to understand.
@bncacg456
@bncacg456 2 жыл бұрын
Great examples Matthew, i can relate.
@ladyfitness67
@ladyfitness67 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏾
@DD-ic1bd
@DD-ic1bd Жыл бұрын
another great video Matthew! also, love your setting.. couch, pillows, windows, green, bamboo?, plants behind you.. very visually nice and soothing, lol;)
@krisztinasimon3530
@krisztinasimon3530 2 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU
@pegbuckner5074
@pegbuckner5074 2 жыл бұрын
Love this video! Thank you!! ♡
@eduardoatjian2969
@eduardoatjian2969 Жыл бұрын
Minute 9:45 is a golden nugget of advice for sales, account management, client relations, relationships.
@kareta24
@kareta24 Жыл бұрын
Ahhhh #2 is great! WOWOWOWOWOW & so is the reference to “story trumping” 🙌 thank you.
@christinegerard4974
@christinegerard4974 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your precious and clear opinion.
@Tunne0
@Tunne0 Жыл бұрын
Wow, the photography analogy is all by itself a point worth noting down! Great advice on dating here 👌🏽
@chrissefiffipix6509
@chrissefiffipix6509 Жыл бұрын
One of my favourite videos from you, Really good content
@arezoosherkat
@arezoosherkat 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊💕
@user-hr6dh7dw5y
@user-hr6dh7dw5y 4 ай бұрын
Always good advice from you!!!
@damienropars479
@damienropars479 3 ай бұрын
good advice on not giving advice. I've been a manager for so long that I've made it my core response. Since I got a daughter I kind of changed but your words made a difference in understanding what I'm doing wrong. thanks
@nancyeric6865
@nancyeric6865 2 жыл бұрын
Simple but effective!
@guy8646
@guy8646 10 ай бұрын
This is good guidance for general human interaction. I’m estranged from a former best friend who was constantly giving bad unsolicited advice as if she was Oprah and not someone whose own life had a million problems for her to focus on instead. The condescension of such behavior is suffocating.
@mphomirandalefhatshe4342
@mphomirandalefhatshe4342 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Matt
@olgicaranisavljevic4961
@olgicaranisavljevic4961 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Matt 😊
@sandrinemasse9392
@sandrinemasse9392 Жыл бұрын
Wow I like the video so much and I read all the guide your brother wrote! Wow so helpful and makes me more optimistic to become charismatic one day ahahah
@michellejennings1115
@michellejennings1115 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been very discouraged with the lack of interest from decent guys. But In the meantime I appreciate your wisdom and advice. Maybe there are reasons why I’m single so I can always improve my own issues that need addressed.
@RR-et6zp
@RR-et6zp Жыл бұрын
HE IS LYING. We look for chaste, fit , feminine, friendly, not half naked online, agreeable
@sunnienciso9582
@sunnienciso9582 Жыл бұрын
I too am very discouraged with finding a gentleman. I have had a few male freinds, that played games, and instead of playing victim, I shout to the top of my lungs, THANK YOU GOD!!!!! Thank you for letting me know what I DON'T want in a man.
@annysvinti8331
@annysvinti8331 Жыл бұрын
Hey Matt, can we please get more content on breakups and perhaps a series on how to prepare, execute and overcome please?
@victoriasage7
@victoriasage7 Жыл бұрын
Love your videos Matt! Thank you
@dommidavros2211
@dommidavros2211 3 ай бұрын
Some really good advice there! Well done!
@thebettybassettproduction2458
@thebettybassettproduction2458 Жыл бұрын
I wrote something because of your love of Anthony bordaine. He wasn't on my radar but you said that you loved him... I'm sort of learning how to film myself. The way this guy discusses is mind-blowing. I mean he just makes it so simple. I love the sound, flow and rhythm of his voice. He's quite masterful at angles I think. I'm more of a photographer just breaking into the film genre but it's fascinating. There's so much to learn. The world is such a beautiful place because there are things that are just fascinating. I think filmmaking is like an artistic expression so it's just really fun because I don't know anything about it. Like I love Anthony Bourdain. He was a masterful storytelling that touched the core of American values with swear words, Rock and roll, a sweetness in relating to an experience. He draws in, makes us feel the importance of the moment, the sacredness of be being a part of his journey, listening to the deep intonations of his voice, seeing the times that he breaks into laughter or shares an audacious joke. Also seeing the times of tenderness and vulnerability. I think that comes across in his enjoyment of being in good company with his friends and crew and when he's taking in the sights and sounds of a new environment. Surely it's new, like adventurous as you lose ground and have to acclimate to a new set of rules in a foreign land. It's sort of like visiting alien planet. That's what love most about the story of Lewis and Clark when Jefferson gave them leave to explore the continent to find a river passage that connected from east to west. Like who knows what creatures may reside in an undiscovered land? Umm dinosaurs? Hungry cannibals? Yeah, terrifying if you let your imagination take hold, but for Anthony Bourdain, he took us on an expedition of love. He related human commonalities. He opened our hearts to the things that we had in common. kzbin.info/www/bejne/qGHHdWVqib1mj8U
@rosemariecalumpangtapis6296
@rosemariecalumpangtapis6296 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much sir Matthew efforting a little or manifesting anything in the core sign Joel for no love and Joel creating fortune love is a scam. I'm very grateful sir some guidance to listen to you to determine the situation in a rightful manner. Thanks again and God bless to us!
@smoke8326
@smoke8326 2 жыл бұрын
Will exercise this advice on my date in 2 hours. I’m going to follow up and let you know how it goes. Wish me 🍀
@steventoms7940
@steventoms7940 2 жыл бұрын
How did it go ?
@alexiepfeiffer145
@alexiepfeiffer145 2 жыл бұрын
Update us!!
@hetvikhetia4354
@hetvikhetia4354 2 жыл бұрын
What happened OMG?!🙂
@Alixvero
@Alixvero 2 жыл бұрын
Ok... I'm intrigued. Now we need to know how this soap opera ends.
@Redwineeeee
@Redwineeeee 2 жыл бұрын
Someone tag me when she comes with an update 😋
@life_asweknowit888
@life_asweknowit888 Жыл бұрын
Nice tips. And you're right! Most of people that want something genuine and that will last in the long term, want to be understood & vice-versa. It's seeing our souls & the depths of a being. Without masks of fear of being vulnerable eventually. Many other people have different motives of "why" they think they want to get into a relationship and like you said overlap by turning kind of like a completion etc. So looking into the true essence of someone changes the prospective of someone or something that can (actually) turn into something else or deeper. 👍🏻 Ps: because a person has learned or have become skilled at speaking "human", if that makes sense.
@karlkatende
@karlkatende 4 ай бұрын
Powerful stuff right here
@shanazsingh9661
@shanazsingh9661 2 жыл бұрын
This is very deep.
@MandM_Adventures
@MandM_Adventures 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@WachurbhakYow
@WachurbhakYow 2 жыл бұрын
thanks this sounds exciting
@jcman-lp6lg
@jcman-lp6lg 2 жыл бұрын
I am glad to read the comments in the comments section these male dating coaches tell you not to put girls on a pedestal and then proceeds to put women on the pedestal by making it seem like women are extremely complex but from the looks of it, it looks like women are just as confused as us men.
@jonasnerlilerberg8998
@jonasnerlilerberg8998 8 ай бұрын
Great value
@life-is-here
@life-is-here Жыл бұрын
This video provides an interesting introduction to making a great impression on a date, with a free gift at the end! Definitely worth watching.
@Bastet32
@Bastet32 2 жыл бұрын
Super wisdom, very very true.
@sonusonia7731
@sonusonia7731 10 ай бұрын
Thanks 🎉
@mtdebh20
@mtdebh20 Жыл бұрын
Very nourishing food for thought!
@emilybaxter3058
@emilybaxter3058 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve watched most of Mathews videos. I’ve pretty much applied everything he’s ever said and I’m still single and can’t get a decent date.. so the way I see it is, if a guy isn’t into you, there’s absolutely nothing you can say or do that’ll change that.
@tmbrad1288
@tmbrad1288 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@jjc2323
@jjc2323 2 жыл бұрын
This is true as well
@mattkath2332
@mattkath2332 Жыл бұрын
This is GOLD! If he is really into you, you don’t need to do all these efforts. It will flow naturally
@JaZmine147
@JaZmine147 Жыл бұрын
Maybe because it's not authentic to you and people can sense that?
@RR-et6zp
@RR-et6zp Жыл бұрын
chaste, fit , feminine, friendly, not half naked online, agreeable
@Thisisparmida
@Thisisparmida 8 ай бұрын
Amazing video
@karenbianco1084
@karenbianco1084 Жыл бұрын
This is an important and positive way to engage with anyone in life, love, family, friendship or business! Great reminder!
@nadineday6814
@nadineday6814 3 ай бұрын
So your advice about not offering advice was such a huge breakthrough for me...however I thought I was being compassionate and helpful, because if a person mentions a problem especially a possible painful one..My mind goes right to How can I help and then to what I may have experienced similar that that can be helpful. My motive was always to help . . Now I see how I've been annoying instead if compassionate
@Sbannmarie
@Sbannmarie Ай бұрын
Silly goose- oh course that marketing team was 1. Listening and 2. Echoing back to you what you shared. That’s marketing!
@charles-bernardgagnon8244
@charles-bernardgagnon8244 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful. Thank you do very much.
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