Casual GRWM and Heart to Heart Q&A ♡ High School Advice, Loneliness, and Sexual Harassment

[@emaciatedunicorn]

i love how you're so wise and insightful but keep it casual and real. like you're not being unrealistic and all happy go lucky and that's really refreshing.

[@MeiYan]

this is such a nice comment, thank you!!

[@emaciatedunicorn]

omg you're welcome ahhhh

[@AnimeAngel581]

Don't be afraid to leave a group of friends that you dont connect with. In middle school, i was a 'filler' friend in a group. Filler meaning i just hung out with them at school and they would always hang out without me. When high school finally came about i left them to join a band friend's group and that was the best decision I made during high school. Dont be afraid to leave, and dont be afraid to tell those friends why. Also, carry your keys in between ur knuckles so you can stab someone with them, and carry an alarm and pepper spray with you ^o^

[@flowykitkat8177]

True.

[@anhcharizard]

damn im the filler friend :/ still am frankly

[@mauiejonas4617]

true. it was a big decision for me, yes, but it made me feel more comfortable in the long run.

[@Pre-Nup]

I took two self defense classes in high school and we actually learned that it's better to just hold keys the regular way instead of in between your knuckles if you're using them for self defense.

[@AnimeAngel581]

+Sierra B Ahhh good to know! Thanks! And sorry about the misinformation

[@amynguyen2178]

Country music Well that was a big surprise

[@naomidavid4574]

ikr what the hell

[@lizs3861]

Don't judge Sehun

[@minibabybelle112]

hahaha I've known for a while now since she mentioned it on Twitter 😂

[@sevenrahh]

+kenmadoll HAHAHAHAHA😂😂😂

[@shanshan8687]

teenage girls are bombarded by images of perfect girls and what it means to be the perfect girl and there is no such thing as perfection. should just be the best you you can be and that's all u can do

[@sunshine1965]

Thank you

[@shanshan8687]

+Taehyung Needs Jisoos don't you're not even done growing yet trust me. I always hated that I was so skinny, well last summer is when I finally started developing a more womanly shape. I'm 22 going on 23. I'm still skinny but I have curves. girls bodies and looks continue to develop well into your 20s so obsessing about how you look now is useless. you may not finish growing&developing your adult body until you're in your early 20s!

[@sunshine1965]

Shannon rodgers Thank you!

[@HanaG-o2t]

What you said about school and being your own worse critic was something I really needed to hear. I go to a private college preparatory academy and everyone there is so HARDCORE about academics and sometimes it kills me bc we all compare ourselves to each other and it's just a mess. Right now I am actually not at school because I'm sick, yet I am still working??? There is so much stress for success, but hearing your advice calmed me down a bit and I am so grateful for that. Thank you for making this video and all of your videos, they are always so comforting :')

[@Immzis]

That is similar to my school although it's not private all the students are expected to get A* /A+ on all tests even topic tests. do take breaks because your mental health is really important. Although your hard work will pay off just don't stress too much.

[@Immzis]

and they kick you out if you get c/d soo...But honestly try to enjoy your life

[@HanaG-o2t]

+slimjim jammin my school won't kick you out for having "bad" grades( as long as you pay tuition and follow the rules lmao sob) so I imagine your pressure is much more than mine :( But like you said, we just gotta enjoy our lives and realize school is important but life offers so much more. :>

[@solgardner3264]

My high school is the same way...I entered when I moved my sophomore year and it's so competitive and I'm so stressed man :/ I'm trying my best to give myself breaks and take one day at a time

[@princessazula8389]

watching her vids instead of paying attention in class. so worth it

[@alexisj9692]

Your name gives me life

[@princessazula8389]

+Lexi Jost "lettuce 666" hell yea super cool right? 8)

[@silverberrycharms]

ur such a cool gurl. can i join the coolgurlsquad

[@princessazula8389]

omg guys we r so cool

[@OlivyaNora]

I love this video!!!!!! N u!!!!!! never change!!!

[@calliope4438]

haaa I love you guys, it makes my heart happy and fills me with hope for the world's future ☺👳🌿🌙

[@mackenziemee463]

I feel like this was one of your best videos, truly. I love that you talk about your personal experiences while comforting everyone about certain situation's you went through. Amazing video, Mei!

[@thesmeaguel6190]

"BE DILIGENT IN DOING THINGS YOU DONT WANT TO DO" SO IMPORTANT

[@Ancrow7]

Wow, Mei. You are so brave and awesome for speaking on these topics, I'm very grateful to know that you are willing to show a different side of you. For the most part, I find that topics like these are just casually being swept under the rug on a daily basis but for you to speak out about personal issues and addressing serious things here, it is a a great hurdle to withstand. Thank you so much. We are all in this together!

[@perpetualperpetuity]

mei this was such an amazing video!! i wish i had seen this when i was a bit younger because you have very lovely and reliable things to say

[@susando7870]

You don't even know how much this helped me with my loneliness and self love :)

[@Summerflyx]

i thought u said 'pimple' instead of 'pitbull' and i was so confused

[@flutosan7764]

same here 😂😂😂

[@harambethegorilla75]

Haha, I was just about to say this :P

[@RuiJunLuong]

SAAAAAAAME

[@audreymoore6254]

Great video, Mei! You're so down to earth and your advice is really wonderful, I hope you do more of these videos!

[@snowbunnychu]

You dont even know how much this helped. I've had a lot on my mind lately but hearing you brush along so many topics and give your honest advice means so much. Thanks a ton and hope you have a good day

[@TheSANTIAG0]

These are the types of videos I love! Just genuine and real experiences that people can relate to but can be hard to talk about 💕 thank you Mei!

[@123bobo321gp]

I'm really into this video style. You go in depth on topics that are mentioned by other youtubers but aren't spoken for as articulately or analytically, ofcourse this is a great thing. You've been there, and you've seen these hardships, I respect that you brought it to the eyes of your viewers and created a dialogue

[@yarrowsprig]

I really appreciate the realness you got to in this video. I'm no longer in my teenage years, but even now a lot of those things you talked about is still relevant as you get older. And girls empowering girls is always awesome!

[@CelesteElara]

I really appreciate you talking about all these subjects in this video! These are hard topics to talk about and hard questions to answer, but thank you so much for answering those! It just shows how we all need to stick together and be kind in this world. :)

[@juliaowens9516]

Thank you for being so real with us, I'm turning 18 in a week and a college freshman and all of this made me feel a lot better about not keeping friends from high school. I think we all need time to work on ourselves and I've gotten to the point where I'm done taking shit from the people around me. You're so inspirational to all of us even those of us a lot closer in age to you, i don't know what else to say sorry but you're great keep at it???

[@ashlibenggon2067]

I love this video cuz I completely understand how it feels to have parents pressure you to do something they think will make you successful. It feels good to know I'm not the only one out there

[@vivvee4569]

I'm really anticipating your upcoming video where you talk about your struggles with yourself. I'm in my senior year right now and all my life I've put so much pressure on myself to do well and even more so now since it's my last year in high school. I'm really excited for you to tell your story because I feel like I could relate to it so much and it's really comforting to know that I'm not the only one feeling like this... Especially since people all around me have constantly just said to not worry so much and don't understand

[@anabotero9427]

Hello! I'm a big fan of your videos and I have to say you're a pretty down to earth person and it shows with your awareness of animal cruelty and sweatshop labor in the fashion and make up world! Your advice on success was pretty spot on: I've learnt the hard way that the expectations people build up for you can be more damaging than your own expectations. We like to believe the people we love and care for, such as parents, close relatives, friends, partners, etc, but in the end, we can only be the only ones left to choose, no matter what other people had planned for you all along. I've been through a similar situation, so I can understand you perfectly. What was more scary is the fact that I never thought I would end up like this: depression, anxiety disorders and disappointment directed at me because I couldn't fit the mold. So, yes, it there are any signs of mental distress, I think people should be reaching out for the closest beloved one that could help them and, maybe, have an appointment with a professional counselor. Thank you for this video! It made me feel less alone.

[@codty]

i love listening to you while doing work. you have such a mellow tone to all your videos and while sometimes the other youtubers that i adore kind of have a really abrasive n disruptive feel to their humour/videos, it sort of feels like i'm listening to a good friend talk, knowing i value their words n thoughts even if whatever the topic is doesn't pertain to me at all, while they let me listen quietly n do my own thing. thanks for being so honest and sweet with your viewers, i feel like you bring such warm feelings to even people on the internet whom you don't even know at all

[@fallinggstarr]

videos like this really do confirm how much i enjoy you as a person^_^

[@choneytv6356]

I'm a freshman in college and your comment about the definition of success was really reassuring. I have really big dreams so it's hard to stay positive about the things I desire but your comment made a feel less alone and more positive so thanks for that! 🌸

[@arthoe8060]

I am just so scared I'll never find true friends and keep acquaintances and end up alone when I grow older with no one that I can truly connect with

[@arthoe8060]

Well, I hope you will find people with who you can be yourself :/, I have social anxiety so making 'friends' was hard for me too ahah, buT Its only the beginning so Im sure it'll work out just fine for you, you just have to be yourself at the beginning of the friendship, this way youll know if you can become friends, if they dont seem to like this part of you then you can say goodbye to this person, what is the point in having more ''friends'' that dont like you for yourself? you do you boo, I guess xD. Thanks !

[@blancab2217]

I love the fact that you are being more open about your personal life and I think it will be an amazing video to watch as well, take care ly!! ^-^

[@sakura_kiss]

YOURE AMAZING!! 💗

[@mariat7758]

You advice helped me a lot, thanks Mei 💓. Sometimes I feel lonely because I don't have many friends mainly I think sometimes because I was extremely shy and introverted in school. I hope that one day I can have a friendy like you Mei, querky and kind. 💫

[@mariat7758]

*friend

[@march.6155]

Weird that i like having only some friends, and sometimes being alone. Makes me think more of one thing other than paying attention to them all thw time :p

[@plop4085]

I relate to you QuQ

[@march.6155]

+Teresa Cassanello Yeah, you're very comfortable with a friend like you, and that you trust, but too many friends is not the best...

[@calliope4438]

daaa you're so cute I swear 😍🌸

[@cheeriototoro8063]

Mei you probably won't read this since there are so comments but honestly you have given me more confidence to be who I want to be and not care about what other people think so much. I tried being 'normal' and fitting in and wearing clothes 'normal' girls would wear, but after seeing you and your videos I've finally had the courage to dye my hair pink and wear bows and wear cute makeup like pink eyeliner which makes me so happy ^.~ I know it may not be a huge achievement but I'm just so happy I can be cute and not care about other peoples views on my appearance! xx

[@suzevanas9362]

Thank you for talking about cat-calling and sexual harassment! Some people seem to think it's "a compliment" when you get cat-called but to me it's simply a way to intimidate women. Love your vids and style by the way :) 💜

[@thevickster319]

I loved that you talked about sexual harassment, especially since it's something that all females experience and it starts from a very young age. It's important that we all realize we're not alone in experiencing it and it's always helpful to find other ideas to keep in mind to protect ourselves.

[@LoveThemRainbows]

Thank you for talking about some of the harder subjects, it's really inspiring. I hope you do more like this in the future!

[@hellomarisolmo]

You are so open minded and understanding. You are amazing.

[@maisiew4179]

i love to hear mei Q&A they really help me allot love you mei :3 xoxo

[@madison4830]

ugh mei your hair looks so freakin good. ty for answering that question about cat calling/harassment because it is something more people on here should be talking about!! im 21 now and being cat called for years used to make me feel like shit but now im also just a little ball of anger. another great video, as always 💛

[@dchristine2012]

it was really fun to get ready with you! I wasn't so pumped about going to school this morning but I loved hearing you talk ♡ thank you

[@TheDanster4]

I'm definitely interested in the self love video! Self love (or lack of it) and anxiety is something that I'm still struggling with after all these years...

[@leahesemuede]

This is my favorite video of yours. Please make more like this I keep coming back to it! I love these types of heart to heart videos. I love you ❤️❤️

[@Floortjehh]

Mei I have so much respect for you, you always work so hard to make great videos and have such a pure personality. You're one of my favorite youtubers because you are so funny, sweet, hardworking and so so talented! Your videos always make me happy if I'm having a bad day and I just really appreciate you

[@mingloss]

we're the same age but this advice still really helped me. i feel like i'm still at that part in my life where i'm not really living for myself, nor do i even know what kind of person i really am. up until now i've just been taking life day by day, but i've made it a personal goal to be more selfish and care about what i think is good for me rather than kick my own ass to get in line with someone else's opinion. anyways, i really like these type of videos!

[@katiemgrngr]

I recently found your channel a few days ago and have been binge watching your videos, and I love them all! You are such a realistic, inspiring lady. But the moment you mentioned pit bulls in this video, my heart literally sang. I volunteer at a dog rescue that is predominantly pit bulls and I was just like okay, this girl is officially the coolest. Thank you for taking the time to make these videos! 💖

[@zj5866]

Mei's hair looked sooo pretty and her skin is so nice

[@XxHaylster98]

I know right. She is so elegantly prett

[@charlenedezember3295]

I love seeing these down to Earth videos of you Mei 💕

[@justine769]

Mei, I love your videos so much! This one is very chill and candid and you did a great job at answering everyone's questions honestly, I appreciate you :) x.

[@jurrassicwalrus__8914]

I couldn't find anything to watch and I'm so happy you uploaded I really needed it. Love you!

[@melrose3088]

omg i love this pastely faded pink on you ☺️💕

[@lovetori135]

I loved how down to earth and real you are, so interesting that you're into country though hehe! And the last little question is so true, it's so important for women to stay alert of their surroundings at all times!

[@mariajuliaolmos]

thanks, mei. i've been needing that lately haha college is making me visit all the 'emotional places' that i really don't want to visit right now. have a nice day x

[@ginaheartscupcakes]

a cute cantonese name like "bread" and "hot dude". lmfao same.

[@Lunixis]

Hey Mei! Just wanted to say I really loved the video! I think you are really good at this type of GRWM/Q&A advice videos c: would love to see more content like this from you. It just had such a chill and personal vibe, I totally loved it! Hope you're having an awesome day!! 💞 (although honestly I genuinely love everything you put out regardless)

[@lain1344]

The Orphanage is a really good movie I enjoyed, it's a bit older. but i loved the story line. also thank you so much for talking about those things even if they are hard to say. it really does help♡♡

[@sugarplum2503]

Omg the German film Goodnight Mommy IS SO GOOD OMG Amazing filming and amazing journey

[@dominikakalafutova5455]

Mei, I'm going through a similar thing with success & perfect academic results and !!expectations!! and it's really costing me my mental health... I know I must change because all this stress, and feelings of worthlessness and all dumb shit that comes with depression will sometimes kill me.. but evn though I know all that rationally I can't get myself to stop. Hearing from you made me really positive for the future and like just another confirmation that I'm not alone 🙂

[@rachelm9046]

Mei, I think you gave some really amazing advice. Seriously, it was awesome.

[@brig.]

this video really helped, you said exactly what I needed to hear 💕 thank you, Mei

[@Jess-xb2ow]

I go to a private all girls school and theres like an unwritten pressure on everyone to do so well in everything. A lot of my friends got straight A's and A*'s in their GCSE's and I got a mix of A-C grades. I mean they were all still good grades but I felt like such a failure compared to my friends which is not how it should feel. Private girls schools are tough to say the least.

[@domyboji]

"all our girls are leaders and unique!!" - no, no we were and all still are nervous wrecks lol yeh my school was the same when i have kids i'm gonna make sure they know academics aren't everything

[@orzRaspberrih]

listen, i got AABBCE (E for maths) and i still got into a great uni and the course i wanted. if you don't get your desired grades, you'll cry like hell, but it's okay. you'll get somewhere and be happy eventually. just think of how you'll be in the future and try to get there asap.

[@kierlovely5228]

you are so beautiful Mei, inside and out. I looooved this video and i felt really connected to what you had to say. I'm starting my senior year of high school next week and i have been questioning the people around me a lot. i feel so disconnected from them even my closest friends, I'm just so different you now? (and honestly i didnt notice all the "you know"s in this video lol). thank you for your insight cause it really helped put somethings in perspective for me

[@strawberrydialectics]

hey mei! love seeing more makeup content from you, your style is 👌💖. i have a friend who does a lot of dog research & ive learned that when people say pit bull, theyre usually referring to the american pit bull terrier. many 'bully breeds' are often mislabeled as pit bulls & pounds are especially known to incorrectly lable breeds. also, american pit bull terriers, while they can be very loving & gentle towards humans, were bred to be dog-aggressive, so you have to be careful before you get multiple dogs. 🐶

[@Naty4163]

That video came in a good moment to me. I have been expecting too much of myself, you know, trying to be perfect all of the time, trying to be accepted on college, trying to show everyone that I can do things well as everyone's expectations and stuff That life is so tiring, I really love veterinary, but the expectations are the worst

[@RenaRatatouille]

Okay, first of all thank you so so much for your videos and this one in particular, they really help me through bad times and show me the light in the darkness, as cheesy as that sounds. I am so happy i found your channel, thank you for your videos mei! I really struggle with being happy, i have some friends that i really like but everyone lives far away .w. So i am rather lonely and there are no things that really make me happy being alone ... I just do stuff to pass my time so it's really hard to find friends because I just don't have anything appealing about me. I feel like there are so many issues with me, that I just can't connect to others please help me ; ;

[@Little_baby_99]

She is so pretty without makeup i love her so much no makeup best makeup ever 😍😍😍😍👌

[@QuitRuiningMyRecommendations]

My favorite horror-ish movie is A Tale of Two Sisters, a Korean film.

[@sheraserena3569]

omg I watched that a long time ago on Netflix. :( they got rid of it though

[@veralynd3260]

That's my favorite movie!!

[@CheeseGirl91]

That's my favorite horror movie too, it's amazing.

[@BarbieBr0tal]

it's amazing!

[@mirjamk1149]

Not my fav but still so good tho 👌💗

[@goodbyetonsils]

So I dyed my hair back in January, and it's only just clicked that we have basically the same hair now! Looks so much better on you though ngl

[@mememachine4034]

it's a really pretty color what dye did you use?

[@madworldofdreams]

i'm a rising college freshman but a lot of this advice is still much needed. thanks mei for this video ♥️

[@amyw9007]

This was such a nice and chill video and you looked so cute in it ♥

[@estherluis9740]

omg you're the cutest literally been binge watching your videos!

[@eeleyes]

Loved this video. Felt like I was chatting with a friend (makeup and deep discussion). Please do more videos like this! 🙏🙏🙏

[@alphons666]

this was really relaxing and nice to watch ✨

[@sheraserena3569]

Yasss Insidious! That crap had me crying and smiling at the same time

[@meepandmoop]

i love this video so much! i hope that i have as much self efficacy as you do when i'm 20 too. big fan lots of respect bruh

[@bloopiewhale5355]

😭😭😭I'm crying . you're hitting too many significant points. yeah I'm currently a hard ass to myself n yes my depression are rising higher than the us debt

[@kittij0y]

Bloopiewhale same with me sadly

[@bloopiewhale5355]

kittij0y take it easy on yourself... i kinda am a little off of that. nothing works best with stress. be happy :)

[@almondmillk2687]

I know its a late comment but i love your videos. They are so calm and relaxing and you give really good advice. xo

[@petitemountain]

I had to watch this video twice! It was so personable and genuine~ Made my day (n_n)

[@nurriiestar]

I really enjoyed watching this video! Mei you're amazing 💖

[@DieMaggots]

your hair is goals ❤

[@joodalsoghayer6749]

i really love you omg !! you're my favorite person ob youtube i love your style and your personality and you're such a beautiful angel, and also i'm cutting my bangs bc of you soon they're really cute and we have the same face shape and hair type so i think it might suit me but it probably won't be as cute as yours

[@klay01234]

The Silence of The Lambs is easily my favorite horror movie!!! HIGHLY recommend!

[@moonsilverfly71]

Thank you so much for this video. You are so positive and an amazing.

[@tinycandypanda]

Oh gosh, now I feel really bad about myself. After a year in uni I just started feeling so isolated from everyone, especially being in a new country. I just couldn't get used to it. Yes, I did ok in all my classes but I did the bare minimal I could, and couldn't stand it when things turn out mediocre. All the self-blame and hate I have for who I was, what I was doing and everything around me piled up. I was really struggling. This video struck to the core of all of that and I really appreciate your channel. Just wanted to say that :/

[@beau5403]

This hair color suits you so well. I love it. (:

[@nightnymph4885]

just found your channel and i love you!!! please do a tutorial of how uou do your hair style because your hair looks great in every video

[@arcanejee]

so beautiful and articulate!!!!

[@jennytran5177]

Hey Mei, I really enjoy your content. I've just come from watching your video about your old school photos which has really encouraged me to pursue and search for who I am. I'm 21 now and I always feel like I'm been boxed in to a stereotype(?). So thank you for being you, and inspiring me to be me! :)

[@lauraventurini78]

Thank you for have made this video, I loved it! The video really reassured me, thank you!

[@RichieWithMe]

pit smiles are so cute!

[@poiikaer]

I also cried at the end of the Conjuring 2! I was kinda embarrassed so I tried to stifle it, but it was f'real hard. I feel you so much there.

[@mari-hf9xp]

I always feel so sad when I hear about girls who first experienced harassment when they were like 15 and they were just literal children, I'm 20 and I've been harassed once in my entire life.

[@senee5756]

youre hair is so cute !!!

[@RedTemptress]

the haunting (1963) is my favvvv horror movie, i love everything about it. the cast/characters are so great ;~;

[@RandomChicas2]

My mom always used to say dont let other peoples success equal your failure

[@samanthahuynh2132]

In my Junior and Senior year of high school, a lot of things changed when it came to my friends. They seemed to ghost me more and not really talk to me as often. I remember one time I went to eat lunch and my friends were in a club's room and never told me about it, so I had to sit alone. High school was such a weird experience for me.

[@anakaren4644]

I think she look super cute without makeup🙈❤️ Loved this video by the way🐶

[@penpensocks]

YOUR HAIR LOOKS LIKE A GORGEOUS ROSE PETAL !! :)

[@mervei9540]

thank you for this video Mei c: I really enjoyed the different style and your advice is definitely useful

[@carter333]

I really relate to how you graduated early and had very hard to attain goals. I graduated at 16 and I'm still trying to overcome being so hard on myself two years later

[@RedShockOfHair]

hi i have to say that you can calm my mood and relaxe me after a stressed out day :) thank you for that xoxo (sorry if my english sounds bad but i dont use a translater )

[@JujuLove7079]

Love your channel! So unique

[@charlenel.748]

I FEEL SO PASSIONATELY ABOUT PITBULLS TOO. I CAN NOT. I HAVE SUCH A SOFT SPOT FOR THEM. It hurts that so many are in shelters because of their bad rep :(