Catholic Girls Answer Questions About Dating

[@lum4962]

When I first found Reneé I felt jealous, because she is so beautiful and smart and virtuous, etc. She grew up in a great Catholic family, taught the truth since the beginning and then there's me who grew up in a more liberal environment and have made seriously terrible choices in my life that I think will affect me for the rest of my life. I felt bad, she's everything I wish I could be but thank God because he has removed that envy from my heart, and now I just look at Reneé and wish she was my best friend! She's so funny and wise!

[@Spike294]

I'm sure she has things she regrets too. We all do. :)

[@wiseowl282]

Never cover up your true feelings. Never change what you truly feel. Be true to yourself. It is unhealthy to cover your true feelings. Your emotions will get the better of you. If you like a person a certain way, that's who you are. If the other person does not agree with you, then there no place to go with the situation. I liked some wonderful women in my past, but they didn't agree with my beliefs. That's it, there was no glue holding me together with each of them. But, I did not change my belief system for them. If U truly fell in love with a partner, the both of us then must meet each other half way. It's called a relationship.

[@Alexi7666]

My brother and a friend of mine both married Catholic girls. Both girls are complete whackjobs. Paranoia and insecurity like I've never seen before. What does Catholicism do to women?

[@168vfk]

@@wiseowl282 i agree mostly, except for the part where you said “if you like a person a certain way, that’s who you are”. I’d say that’s not true. You are not your attractions. So yes, while you should not be false, you also have the power to control whom you like and how you like him. How you like someone does not define who you are, because you as a being are above and more important than how or whom you like.

[@wiseowl282]

rubbish.

[@RebornPureAdmin]

Dating in Highschool: extended advice: Going on little dates and things is super fun and I don't regret seeing the movies, getting the ice cream, and going to watch fireworks with a guy i thought was cute. The thing to realize is that (please no offense) guys in high school need to be given very clear boundaries from the beginning so they don't have physically progressive expectations date after date. Just be very clear. Know that if the guy isn't holding to the agreement/starts making you uncomfortable, you need to realize your worth over having a cute guy to do things with and walk away. You will not regret it. Instead you will be thanking your younger self down the line and in some cases thanking God He protected you from something potentially terrible.

[@freespirit101]

RebornPure Catholic - Then why go on a date at all - if it ain't meant to lead to something for both of u

[@johnjames9534]

Anakin Skywalker It's not so much not letting it lead to anything, it's making sure you have an established line that neither of you cross until such a time as it is appropriate (the time for most things being in marriage). It's to keep both people from getting into things too quickly when they are clearly not ready.

[@RebornPureAdmin]

To be more blunt: I am saying to make sure the guy knows you do not want to have sex and do not want to be used so he can gain his high school "experiences" since he thinks you're cute. In this life, which you live just once, find somebody that loves you (wonderful you) and loves Spending Time with you in day to day activities. Be looking for the equivalent of a best friend, and go on high school appropriate dates with them. You can have fun! Yes you can kiss the guy you like - I'm not being mother superior. People Have ended up finding their spouses in high school (yay for them!) but a lot More people have bad experiences in high school with regret. 14 and 15 year old girls should not be under pressure to do things for the "love" of a cute boy.

[@chrisoliverdelacruz5347]

+RebornPure Catholic Let me just ask, I have not dated anyone yet. What should an inexperienced man like me do on my fist date? Do you have any tips on what to do during and after watching movies with someone? Thanks haha

[@1path1rabb34]

basically you shouldnt be dating in the first place as your bible says this is blasphemy

[@NewCatholicGeneration]

You can find time stamps for all the questions in the video description - some of them came from you guys on twitter and instagram! This video was meant to come out around Valentine's Day, however, I had a crazy busy week and the editing didn't get finished until today. Regardless, thanks for watching! -David

[@ItsEllis113]

New Catholic Generation please do a guy version! :D

[@freespirit101]

New Catholic Generation A great verse - Love is patient, Love is kind,.....if you test yourself through that verse - then u can tell whether you are in love or not

[@RebornPureAdmin]

36:09

[@thedefender9516]

RebornPure Catholic :)) I'm subscribed!

[@freespirit101]

By the way, I should add the same for the Bible - the Crusades were not a result of Jesus saying to go around waging a supposedly holy war to reclaim holy lands - No ! That was propagated by hypocrisy- for instance, the pope himself said in his letter to the people that they were guaranteed to go to heaven if they did this - something like that - so don't blame Jesus either for the sins of the people - but instead maybe ask Jesus to reveal his character and His will for u - if we only we did what God wants us to do and not the other way around...

[@gerryvyti4256]

"He's sent by God for the protection of my dignity" 😂😂😂 Renee you make me crack up 😂😂

[@franciscolozanojr.]

Oh my, you're so beautiful. See God makes so many Gorgoues things i didnt knew existed haha

[@jacobcarpenter3744]

I am a Reformed Southern Baptist who is among New Catholic Generation's subscribers. (My outdated composition style is strange for a fellow millennial, I know.) You lot's videos are always respectful and well done! Grandfather Carpenter's mother was descended from Irish Roman Catholics that left their home country during the infamous potato famine. The oldest son married a Methodist. I wish that had ended on a high note. What the young men at Franciscan University, undergraduate and graduate alike, will say about the male perspective shall be interesting. I am physically disabled myself, hoping the Lord might let me remain single. God bless, New Catholic Generation!

[@adventuresinthegreatmyster7907]

Thank you all for being so open in your sharing - it was very helpful. If I had a transcript I would highlight so many things. So much wisdom! Definitely need to watch this one again. (Great editing, David - thanks for all your hard work.)

[@Avionne_Parris]

This was so beautiful!!! Thanks so much for this!!! Love the honesty and pureness of this video!!! Can't wait for the guys' version!!!

[@abigailkernmorgan]

LOVE IT!!!!♡♡ I love you guys. As a Catholic Teen, I can totally relate. I love all your videos♡

[@thedefender9516]

Me too!

[@st.michaelthearchangel7774]

Come on now, bleach is a terrible pre and post-workout supplement. Can't make gains off that! Creatine is much better. I have noticed epic gains at the gym since taking this. =)

[@iSurrenderOhGod]

hey how old are you

[@idrisjemaludeinshieckamin1476]

Hi dear

[@bellarose4812]

First! Haha, I think this video will be really helpful. Sometimes dating as a young catholic girl can pose a lot of questions. Thanks New Catholic Generation!

[@Stripemas]

On mixed marriages, or a marriage between a Catholic Christian and a non-Catholic Christian: (1)Tatiana's advice is pretty solid. So much so, that a Catholic must get permission from the their bishop to marry a non-Catholic Christian before it happens.The bishop is tasked with making sure that the faith of the Catholic is not in danger before he is allowed to give permission. This is where the Catholic party must make the promises to raise their child Catholic. (2) Because Canon Law only applies to Catholics, the person who is not Catholic does not make promises to raise their children Catholic. They are simply made aware (cautiones) of the promises.

[@TheUrbanDurbin]

I'm going to dedicate this video to everyone who has commented on other videos that I've guest-starred for, calling me a lesbian. As you all can now attest, I am indeed (sadly, for the female population) straight. Take that, haterz.

[@1path1rabb34]

No sex outside of marriage why you no follow your bible

[@johnjames9534]

Tatiana Federoff No dear, we are not. Because dang you are beautiful and calipigeous, but you are more to me than your bod, which is why we appreciate the small things such as hugs, sitting next to each other, and making all the puns.

[@TheUrbanDurbin]

:-* Thank you, you beautiful fellow trollhunter, you.

[@1path1rabb34]

you should just get married not date that is unlawful according to your scripture

[@TheUrbanDurbin]

Fam nah.

[@zandran1453]

Love the way you all spoke and addressed the topic of dating!

[@jurajmelo459]

@Renée Your answer to question: "What is love" just opened my eyes :) You've basically said what I've been hearing all over, that first I have to love myself, and than I can give love to anybody else. I've allways found this to be logical, but too selfish and certainly uncatholic. But your answer puts everything in the right place . Thank you very much.

[@federoffm]

Lovely work, ladies. Perhaps the only point I might add is that dating has a 99% failure rate...by design. Every single one of your dating relationships will fail...except one. That's not a bug...that's how it works. Discernment means just that...discerning. And much more often than not, one or the other discerns "nope, you're not it". Once you understand this, it makes the process more enjoyable (and endurable) for all concerned.

[@TheUrbanDurbin]

For everyone watching, this is the dad that I mentioned. He's awesome. Wisdom, be attentive.

[@freespirit101]

lol - wisdom is more precious than jewels....

[@federoffm]

Well, if the purpose and end of dating is to find someone to marry...then, yes...it failed in that sense. Or maybe...to follow your argument...it actually didn't fail. It served it's purpose to assist with discernment. I'll give you that.

[@luciadeloach9932]

So true! & thank goodness for it! Lol :)

[@luciadeloach9932]

Rob B yes! & awesome point btw 👌🏼

[@kakal00kio]

It's a shame that's not a group online when we can really talk to each other. I mean there is so many Catholics from many places here and it should be nice to really talk about anything, like experiences, family, friends and things like this. :( I am from Brazil by the way. :)

[@credimus6176]

Os br's estão em todo lugar mesmo! Kkkkkk, seu comentário faz 2 anos mas se ainda quiser alguém para falar sobre a fé feel free to respond! Haha tb sou católico e não tenho nenhum amigo ou familiar católico... Abç

[@Stella-rj7wi]

@@credimus6176 sou católica e br também hahaha

[@credimus6176]

@@Stella-rj7wi Oi, vc é de onde?

[@Stella-rj7wi]

@@credimus6176 oiii sou do nordeste

[@Stella-rj7wi]

@@credimus6176 e você?

[@ducktails3324]

"that's how I ended up dating a furry".........dead. hahahaha. Can we plz have an entire video dedicated to this????

[@RebornPureAdmin]

What's your favorite love song? "The Song of Songs" 35:32 LOL Hahahaha really though that is the best love song.

[@freespirit101]

RebornPure Catholic - Some people love to be 'politically , no sorry - here its 'biblically' correct which might be ironic for Catholics, ya think?

[@Francis_does_sounds]

I've always had a small crush on Renee. Just like everyone else in this video, she's a very charming and beautiful woman.

[@TheUrbanDurbin]

Literally everyone has a crush on Renee. She's the best.

[@SolarMar]

I haven't laughed this hard in such a long time, Tatiana's furry story has me cracking up every time 😂😂😂😂

[@SolarMar]

Okay that's it. Tatiana is my favorite person ever. 💕

[@MusicByCAB316]

Renee is my crush

[@Bent773]

She has fantastic teeth, to be sure.

[@ajmosutra7667]

Who is it

[@sophiagomez5619]

Dont jump into a relationship. You will end up dating a furry. This is what I got out of this video.

[@TheUrbanDurbin]

Furries are fun, but dang, son. No. Just no.

[@tomthetominatorftw4106]

You mean like one of those "trans-species" weirdos? Or am I too much of a degenerate to know what they are?

[@gracetheskunk9191]

Same. xD

[@JoshJimenez_]

Same

[@anamariap8032]

I am only half way thru and this vid has helped me and I have really enjoyed it

[@priscillakhapai3623]

Being a catholic in India is hard...literally no one to date thus far. Pray for me.

[@puzz88]

i cant believe i watched this whole video in one sitting AND paused to think over some things. but very insightful. thank you!

[@MouthwashTyphoon]

I think it's a little harsh to say that someone's not worth it if they can't tell you they like you... What if they're like me, and they just have anxiety and/or a fear of rejection?

[@NicGiollaMhichil]

That's unfortunate, for- "faint heart never won the hand of a fair maid". Our action or lack thereof is a choice. Do not be afraid. Courage! He who dares- wins!

[@Plane_and_Simple_____]

Awww! the story about the flan is so cute!!!

[@idrisjemaludeinshieckamin1476]

Hi dear

[@katarzynakabacinska7070]

it irritates me when americans say: 'go to Europe', Europe consists of 46 seperate and completely different countries, it's not like states of America... :/

[@larryjohnson1457]

Ahh, they're all the same over there. They all speak funny languages.

[@carmenesonoada7727]

This is exactly what it feels like when people just say they went to Africa🤣 I'm like where?? There's like 53 countries

[@irwinalcantara7496]

Hi. Im from Puerto Rico and i absolutely love your videos, bless al of you❤, Catholic for life

[@daniellariverabrito8717]

Irwin Alcantara 🇵🇷🇵🇷

[@asafupps]

i cant date until im at least 16 . and im fine with that, because dating is supposed to be you finding your future spouse, not a guy you live with for 5 years and then break up with. also dont do the dirty until marriage! honestly!

[@cynthiaijeoma5794]

Agreed. My idea too

[@tomthetominatorftw4106]

Here's some advice for Catholic girls (coming from a Catholic teen duuuude) - This is probably the best advice you will get (no clickbait/lookbait). You definitely want to find a guy who is going to treat you like you're more than an object, but that's not all. You're not dating to find a nice boy, you're dating to find a nice man. Someone who is mature, knows how to dress, and knows how to act in public and isn't a weirdo. (Trust me, these guys are rare, like Tridentine-Mass rare) But... there's still your part, if you want a Catholic man of your dreams, you have to make yourself into the Catholic girl of THEIR dreams. DEFIANTLY be modest, but DEFIANTLY do NOT be a frump, no mature guy wants to date a frump, and no matter how devout they are in their Catholicism, will date an agnostic pretty girl before dating an equally devout frump. When it comes to beauty, know that no matter how you look, you are INFINITELY valuable. What also matters about how you look, is that you always have control over yourself, and your appearance. If you're overweight, no problem! You can lose weight, you can get rid of pimples (overtime) you can experiment with your hair and find what makes you look like a nice young lady a guy would want to think about marrying. You can do all of this because YOU ARE STRONG, and you have a will to be able to do what's necessary. And finally, don't forget to try and stay in a state of grace, if you fall into mortal sin, go to confession when you find the opportunity to, and don't commit a sacrilege, sacrilege iz baad :/ Oh, also pray the rosary for your intentions every day.

[@colleeneisley7992]

Thank you!! That helps :-)

[@theresefrancis9283]

This was great. I know too many people who are insecure and seek validation through relationships. God is the only Guy ya need ladies! Anyone else is a gift ;).

[@ILoveMagic15]

Why the melodramatic background music? I found it rather irritating. Other than that, good video!

[@NewCatholicGeneration]

The reason it was in there was because the air conditioner was going in the studio the day we filmed and left an annoying rumble in the background, and noise reduction left a residual echo. Putting in music covered it up and I personally enjoyed the piano track. I am always open taking feedback on the editing, though, so thanks for the comment (for example, based on previous comments about the orange bar wipe transition, I've switched it out for something else as of this video).

[@DobraNowinaNet]

Also, I think girls look too far to the left side, I mean the angle isn't perfect. Other than that, great job, I mean it. God bless all of you. Greetings from catholic vlogger from Poland. ;)

[@57Starboard]

This is such a great video. Thanks so much guys! Keep doing what you're doing.

[@gorophinithic7065]

WHAT THE F#$K IS UP WITH YOUR PROFILE PICTURE!!!! I'm dying with laughter right now XD! Love you guys.

[@SmakoSmell]

I will storm the gates of Antioch for a date with Renée

[@Joss1245]

Hahahahaha

[@seanboylan2353]

I loved this video and am happy you all made it! You should also make the men talk about dating. it's good to hear from both sides :)

[@FaithfulMel]

Goodness, Truth, Faith, beauty

[@MiiaVita]

22:11 😂😂😄😄 Had me laughing so hard! Best face ever!

[@sissybrooks8588]

Charity above all things. Don't make fun of anybody at anytime.

[@wiseowl282]

I am still not married. I am still praying to God for that wife that will come and change my life. When I find my wife, I ony hope our love won't plunder, but what God has joined together, let no one put asunder.

[@Azzazpimp]

Quit praying to God and go find yourself one or you'll be waiting until you're 45

[@Azzazpimp]

Quit praying to God and go find yourself one or you'll be waiting until you're 45

[@wiseowl282]

What do you mean you always win. Win what?

[@wiseowl282]

Oh, I see, you think that not being married, means no sex. Oh we are now speaking about being devoted to a chaste way of living, Catholic wise. I see now. Interesting. Good luck.

[@wiseowl282]

Stop waiting for things to come to you. I give no thought to fantasy dreams. If you are looking for the perfect relationship, it doesn't exist. Relationships require very hard work. Don't believe in a pipe dream mate that is trying to reach you from afar. Be practical.

[@RoseOfHysteria]

I don't know what school they go to but I'm jealous. My campus does not have so strong a Catholic community (ironic since I'm in Maryland, too).

[@asparagusbear3323]

Franciscan University, Steubenville. I think all the NCG were there.

[@michaelowens7387]

I love you from Brussels, Renée! :)

[@sophialouiza]

Hi! I think with 'dating' you mean: 'courting'. Dating is different than courting. Courting is 'dating with a purpose'. When you date someone, you just 'like' the person, but you are not especcially looking for the right person to marry. When you court, you date someone, not because you just 'like' the person, but because you want to know if this is the person you want to marry. When you are courting, God is in the center. Just like you said in this video. I think you have to call it: 'courting', because nowadays, 'dating' is something different. As christian catholics, we have to court, I think ;)

[@Kat22Kit]

Then wouldn't that just be an engagement? Dating is "liking" that person becoming more serious over time etc then an engagement comes the commitment that you're going to marry. And yes maybe you even then could decide to end your relationship. I just never understood how courting is this whole separate process with how people talk about it.

[@sophialouiza]

Spoonie Beauty With courting you set boundaries with the person that you like, for example: fisical boundaries. You are going to know that person better. His/her personality. That's the goal. You are not going to focus on the fisical things, like many people this days do with dating. With courting, you look for the one. If you are engaged, you are going to plan the wedding :)

[@sesenena7013]

Sophie Clemens I've seen a lot of debates about this between christians. I personally choose to use the word "dating" because I find that the word "courting" is confusing and for me it looks too close with a "Duggar-style of relationship". For me it is easier to use the word "dating" and then maybe explain what I'm looking for in a relationship and what are my boundaries

[@cynthiaijeoma5794]

I think when catholic couples say dating, we mean courting. Because we definitely set boundaries. The definition and use of words can be different at times.

[@consideratecommentator4284]

29:27 Indeed. For the ladies who want to do so. Don't beat around the bush, just get to the point. Also, pray for the intercession of St Valentine.

[@caribaez5711]

Not many people know what is dating. Some people ask for friends for benefits.. and others do not even know why they want to talk to a person.. dating is complicated..

[@frankmez9370]

I never had anyone explain to me as a male? What to say or comport with a female that attracted me? As a male, it was just a “wow!!!”, “I got to ask her or get to know her!!!”. Yes it was a pure, way of Visual, I like what I see!!! Part of the time. Other times it was, wow I really think she is a cool and easy to get along women. Or “Man, she is a really smart women”. For me that was my way of finding a women that I would want to date and get to know. During my starting to date at age 14 to 16 or so? Then last 2 yrs of HS. It was more of. I know she is beautiful or smart, but, did she date one of my friends? Someone I knew? Or she date someone that one of my friends knew better that I did? Why? Cause I don’t want to be surprised or told after I started to date her. It brings doubt and can make you get jealous. Men mostly want to be her first date and every thing else. Today their still isn’t a Manuel for Catholic singles. I wish I did do more praying for the right person to be my spouse. However, I today can say, that my wife and I, did things like most people in the modern day. Not the right way. We dated 3 and half months. She moved in with me. I had a house that I had bought 5 months before I meant her. We had a good time for about 1 year and half. Then I got really, down on myself and felt very guilty. I could no longer go to communion. And I was tough for a year and half. It just kicked in so heavy!!! I just felt very ashamed!!! We did break up for about 9months. She dated other men, and I did too. She knew I moved on, and I went to my old ways. No one lives with me I am not in co habitation sin. I could confess my sexual in counters and receive communion. She call me. And we would talk like nothing had happened. We again started dating, fell again into co habitation. From 1999 to 2011 we lived. She got her annulment. And I stopped having sexual encounters. Plus she put up with 3yrs of me going through depression!!! But we didn’t give up Sunday mass. We always went, we might miss here and their. But not gone for 3 or 10yrs at a time. We have been together 20yrs now!!! God helped us, so very much. And we are still learning!!! It is not fun going through all we did. It is better to do things Gods way!!!! Plus these lady’s are so much better what must be done than how my wife and I did it. Pls follow their good ways of how to do it!!! You won’t have to go a very hard way of life!!! God bless, and thanks!!! I will try to pass on this wonderful way to do the dating in a good healthy Catholic way!!!

[@Mystik671]

I know I don't know all of you, but here's a prayer for all of you. 🙏May God help guide you in your vocations and lead you both closer to Him and your future vocation.🙏 😘💖😄

[@azmatkhan6321]

I am looking for serious relationship

[@cbentler4528]

I love the Jeweller's shop!!

[@RebornPureAdmin]

[@sarawawa8984]

Oh my gosh that flan story was so funny (and cute!)!

[@laurentheheiress98]

"So the guy I was dating decided he liked to spend time with anime more than me"

[@Alboreoh]

Just a tip from a film editing perspective: I'd recommend replacing the "flash" transition that you're using with nothing, just splicing the clips together as you go. The transition is a bit jarring once you notice it and takes away from the video. :)

[@Manu.003]

hello. can y'all make a video on your point of view about the series THE YOUNG POPE?? what are your thoughts on the seriou. thanks.

[@AprilGracecatholic]

I found this article posted by Catholic Memes today: www.ucatholic.com/blog/young-popes-women/ Something to hold you over while you wait :)

[@sophiagomez5619]

They did a review of the trailer. I don't think they want to watch the series XD Since it's about a fictional pope first of all.

[@Manu.003]

Sparrow Opal, well you are right, it's fictional but how fake is it really? i mean, i know that the real pope doesn't smoke or act's like the pope in the series but the stories in the series have something of reality to it. Like for example the sex scandals and the corruption with in the church or the priests or very important people with in the church in some countries. so people that are not Catholic will see the series and say, "yep that's what really happends". you get my point? I'm a Catholic and i love my church but when i see the series i can't deny that some of it is not fiction but true.

[@sophiagomez5619]

GAASSSSSSPPP Wait... Joseph has a girlfriend? 8O Joe the Catholic Apologist?

[@sophiagomez5619]

Whaaaaa I can't believe it

[@youngcatholicapologe]

Sparrow Opal is that so hard to believe? :P

[@luciadeloach9932]

TheCatholicApologist it honestly isn't. He's just silly lol. As a catholic girl, I don't find it surprising. happy for you two! :)

[@TheCharlesagain]

Are any of you involved with Life Teen, or willing to be? Those of you that can could do a nice little tour of the OH, PA region talking to teens. Just a thought. My parish is just starting a Life Teen ministry --- thinking of good ideas to bring folks in.

[@TheUrbanDurbin]

Until I had to quit to come to school, I ran a youth group, and was active as a youth leader in Life Teen for years! :D

[@TheCharlesagain]

Good for you! I rarely see anyone between the ages of 18-30 at Mass. We've been losing teens exponentially. Hopefully this will help. And keep doing what you're doing!

[@AprilGracecatholic]

I had a fantastic youth group experience. If you want to email me, I can put you in contact with my youth minister. I'm also interested in talking to teens.

[@TheCharlesagain]

Thank you. I appreciate that. I'm going to try to attend the meeting to get a feel for how Life Teen will be implemented between my parish and another one nearby. I have a feeling this is a very structured program, but I may be wrong. I was hoping to discuss virtue ethics with the teens that show up, since that is by all accounts an entirely neglected kind of moral thinking in our culture. I may be in touch!

[@freespirit101]

Has anyone been to Passion 2017 ? I heard even Carrie Underwood made a surprise appearance there! ( Not to mention 50, 000 youths around the world ) and they set a great record by eliminating Compassion's International's list of children to be sponsored in a number of countries....I mean, it's mind-boggling...check it out people!

[@turkeysings6218]

Can you please possibly discuss the effects of negative and over sexualised posts on social media on a Millenial and young persons dating scene?

[@avilaalice8221]

Sou católica e brasileira gosto muito do canal!

[@ianstephens5338]

definitely watched this to see what renee had to say lol

[@angelaartist7091]

I still think dating is for marriage Though thats hard for me as a 15 year old girl who always has the temptation to date( though because im so shy i dont know if its possible). Please pray for me. I know that that sounds judgy and i still love people who date without the intention of marriage. But i think sadly ill have to tacke the road where i can wait till im the age to marry and date. Also i think i might be called to be a nun.soo... Yea. I kinda hate that though. But i k ow that doesnt necisarilyrily mean that if you break up with the person you were dating and planing on marrying, means your not called to marriage. It doesnt mean that at all.. But i do think we should date to marry. Also please pray for my discerment. I really want to get married but i feel so strong towards the convent. Though feelings are often fatal. These arnet bad feelings but i cant act on them.

[@sanede8702]

I pray for you :) I feel you I also have the temptation about the relationships. i am shy too but I'm in my early twenties and still don't have a boyfriend. I very rarely meet catholic who is around the same age in my country. but i will continue to have a hope. cuz I believe God is our lifelong friend and he loves us immensely😊 God bless you today.

[@hobbyhive]

Slight mistake, but frequently I have heard this error as it is due to a changed discipline: The non-Catholic spouse NO LONGER HAS TO PROMISE to raise the children Catholic. It has changed to the Catholic spouse has to promise to raise the children Catholic to the best of their ability. The change of emphasis has pros and cons. Pros: there were instances where the non-Catholic would promise but once children actually arrived went back on the promise. They may or may not have intended to "change their minds" but it created great disharmony, and it is hard to prove grounds for annulment (where they lying when they made that promise?). So the emphasis changed onto the Catholic spouse. Cons: the Catholic spouse may still have to battle the same scenario from above except that they made the promise to raise the child Catholic so the responsibility and onus for the salvation of that child's soul rests solely on the Catholic parent's shoulders which is a heavy weight to bear. If the child is confused and leaves the faith or the other parent interferes constantly, the heartache at knowing that you are responsible and cannot impart the faith is a constant dis-harmonizer for the marriage as well. Also it gives no incentive for the non-Catholic party to study the faith in order to dispel myths and misunderstandings about what we actually believe, and gives less of an opportunity to contemplate their own position and consider converting. For reference: The USCCB notes: This provision of the 1983 Code of Canon Law - with its wording to try one’s best - is a change from the 1917 version, which required an absolute promise to have the children raised Catholic. Likewise, the non-Catholic spouse is no longer required to promise to raise the children in the Catholic faith, but “to be informed at an appropriate time of these promises which the Catholic party has to make, so that it is clear that the other party is truly aware of the promise and obligation of the Catholic party,” the code states. Read more at www.patheos.com/blogs/deaconsbench/2015/08/when-a-catholic-marries-a-non-catholic-what-about-the-kids/#L0lYs9MOsOXzWMIJ.99

[@thescapegoatmechanism8704]

I'd become Catholic for Renee

[@starscreamjesse2121]

dating is not easy

[@t0mylife]

Should Catholics date liberal (atheist). Is it possible? Any experience with this?

[@NewCatholicGeneration]

It's not technically prohibited, but there are a few things to be aware of. If you get married in the Church, the Catholic spouse has to promise to raise the kids Catholic and the atheist spouse has to be okay with this. On a personal level, as a Catholic entering marriage, your ultimate goal should be to do your best to you can to help your spouse get to heaven. Depending on the liberal atheist, there is a high chance of a lot of clashing of values on this. If you and your spouse have a fundamentally different view on the purpose of life and existence, that could result in a lot of conflict on major life decisions. So to answer your question, it is possible, but not recommended.

[@thedefender9516]

Yes! A new video! LIKE

[@Karen-fv8nm]

how do you spell the name of the book that renee mentioned at 34:45.

[@RebornPureAdmin]

The Jeweler's Shop by Karol Wojtyla

[@crunchu2361]

Hip hip hooray! For all the class theeey show! Cuz theres nothing like a catholic girl... when shes learning to blow (learning to blow)

[@MouthwashTyphoon]

Btw Tatiana, my mum and I love Outlander too!

[@TheUrbanDurbin]

The writer is a devout Catholic, which I love, because you find references and hints throughout the books. It's the best.

[@MouthwashTyphoon]

Tatiana Federoff Cool, I didn't know that! I'm only, like, half way through the first book (and have been for a while), but my mum is probably 3/4 of the way through the series, and we both love the TV show!

[@lidiacastro1890]

Adorei o canal!!

[@michaeladamonis2620]

misnomer. if you are not married, you are "single". It is the world that says if you are not in non-married relationship you are not single. If you are not married, you are single.

[@LD71685]

"That's how I ended up dating a furry." BAHAHA. Wut?!

[@caribaez5711]

I feel I am like Renee In the ideas. She seems to letting us know she do not like a guy who wants sexual intimacy. Guys do not like me either.. when I tell them I want friendship first.. but I know a guy in my church who is also Catholic and he gets rejected by girls because he is prochastity..

[@christianramos8692]

I love you so much Renee

[@shadedman2785]

Wow.. I'm learning alot.

[@sejenic]

Tatiana, why don't you make videos? I would like to watch more with you :-)

[@TheUrbanDurbin]

I don't know how, basically. I wish I did. As it is, I just write a lot at my blog, Surrender the Brownies. :)

[@rougeshot7395]

WHERE DO THEY DO THIS

[@bregieirofernandes]

Did not expect the short haired girl to have dated a furry

[@Marco85111]

1:23 LOL ME

[@dasmysteryman12]

Can I suggest a male version of this video? I mean, we men also have answers to questions about dating. ;)

[@NewCatholicGeneration]

It's coming soon!

[@lapacker]

All of these women are truly beautiful and I hope they all find worthy husbands, if that's what they wish.

[@marcusmariemoylan]

God Bless!

[@shanefitzgerald517]

You guys should react to "carving a giant" by gorgoroth

[@billlipiridis4880]

what about orhodox Christians?

[@lidijasestovic5945]

Bill Lipiridis what about Orthodox Christians?

[@wildwolf6449]

Interesting.

[@seba6078]

imo it's better to be with a really trad person tbh

[@gizmorazaar]

GO PATS! 53 CHAMPS!

[@deacontodd7853]

Very nice, ladies.

[@danieljaghab2664]

Please consult St. Alphonsus Liguori, patron of moral theology. This video is fun but very misleading in authentic Catholic moral principles.

[@caribaez5711]

How old are you girls?

[@adamhovey407]

I am 28 going on 29 and I prefer women to be a little bit older about my age is fine maximum of two years younger but 10-20 years older is fine for me and I know that sounds weird from a dude I think the problem is with me is that a lot of people think that if you're my age and you're Catholic and you're not married and you're male that you're going to be a priest I don't want to be a priest I don't have the patience to be a priest I think it's a respectable vocation but it is not my vocation I would like to find a nice Catholic girl preferably in her mid-thirties or early forties and settle down. I will tell you that my Prospect of finding a Protestant is much better because I live somewhere that has not a lot of Catholics

[@cynthiaijeoma5794]

Hmm.. I hope you remain catholic. Are you married now?

[@georgepenton6023]

The kind of leadership and confidence a man needs to be a good husband and father is diametrically opposed to the kind of meekness and humility demanded by God. Christian ladies, if you want a real man to be your husband you are going to have to marry a non-believer, someone not bound by humility.

[@sebastianzanzinger]

Secular guy here. What is your position on sex before marriage?

[@michaelrex6948]

In other words, it is forbidden.

[@sebastianzanzinger]

Mike W well... or from the people who wrote the bible... but I get what you're saying

[@sebastianzanzinger]

Crazy how this book has stayed a bestseller over the centuries...

[@TheUrbanDurbin]

Not worth it. No contraception is perfect, and so there's a great chance of getting pregnant... and heck no, people who are not stably married are not ready to have babies, so it's a terrible idea to have sex. That's an argument without the moral aspect, which, as a Catholic, means that I don't have sex before marriage because sex is holy and should be performed only in the holy sacrament of marriage.

[@sebastianzanzinger]

Tatiana Federoff and you aren't ready to have babies if you're not married? Where did you get that from?

[@ItsEllis113]

Awwwww

[@adanvera2905]

Mexican family's

[@TheGamingBosser]

Do u guys support donald trump?

[@MouthwashTyphoon]

TheGamingBosser I think they support him insofar as he's the best candidate for Catholic values - they don't actually *support* him, they think he's a terrible person.

[@TheGamingBosser]

Al Mighty but he donated to lots of charity money and he's a vegan he seems like a nice guy to me

[@sebastianzanzinger]

TheGamingBosser many of them do, or at least think Hillary was worse...

[@TheGamingBosser]

Sebbelch Moosehead hillary was a nice person who respected women trump hates gays, then again that is a good thing right?

[@TheUrbanDurbin]

No.

[@albertogonzalez1523]

THIS R TRUE WOMEN :)

[@michaelrex6948]

Courting is different from dating (watch Sensus Fidelium's videos on the topic). Courting is proper. Dating is not. ...and mixed marriages (i.e. between Catholics and non-Catholics) are to be condemned.

[@kaylajay741]

Michael Rex Marriages between Catholics and non-Catholic Christians are considered valid. Marriages between Catholics and non-Christians can be considered valid if and only if they are granted dispensation from a bishop and will raise their children Catholic, have no threat of the Catholic losing faith, and have both parties know the significance of a Catholic marriage. With that case, the marriage is a valid, natural marriage, but not a sacramental one. In other words, relationships with non-Catholics should be approached with much caution, but shouldn't be prohibited or necessarily condemned.

[@michaelrex6948]

I know they're valid. That doesn't mean they're licit, pious, or laudable. It should be condemned, because it always damages the Faith of the Catholics in the family.

[@jesusmanuel1856]

+Michael Rex My entire fathers side of the family converted (other than my father of course, very steadfast catholic) because one of my uncles converted to his spouses religion. Now they go to a church with priestesses... smh

[@catholicconvert7062]

wait, you dated a furry. i'm just gonna leave this here. If they want to be animals, then we should legally be able to eat them.

[@alvaroochoa5238]

Man you'll just talking childish things, that's too systematic.

[@RhymeImperial]

A Catholic half-Spanish and half-Flemish Jesuit preacher was teaching a class on St. Jerome, known fraudulent bible translator. "Before the class begins, you must get on your knees and worship the Pope and accept that he is the representative of Jesus on earth, and his word is above even the Bible!" At this moment a brave, Calvinist, Reformed Protestant Dutchman who had studied the original Hebrew and Greek bible for 12 years and understood the necessity of reforming the corrupt and decadent Catholic church stood up and held up a copy of the Latin Vulgate. 'What is it I am holding here?" The arrogant Catholic smirked quite proudly, displaying one of the seven deadly sins: hubris, and replied: "It's a copy of the 4th century and one true Latin translation of the bible, you filthy heretic." 'Wrong. Erasmus has already subjected the Vulgate to scholarly scrutiny and has revealed it to be full of glaring translation errors. As such, the Catholic doctrine is based on a lie and the Pope has no authority on matters of the faith. Especially when it comes to the nature of salvation." The preacher was visibly shaken and dropped his copy of the Roman Catechism. He stormed out of the room chanting those Latin blasphemies. The other students applauded and all converted to Calvinism that day and accepted the revised Geneva Bible as the one true source of God's message. An eagle named 'Predestination' flew into the room and perched atop the Dutch flag and shed a tear on the chalk board. Calvin's Institutes of the Christian Religion was read several times, and William of Orange himself showed up and fought the Catholic Spanish oppressors for 80 years until they were finally driven out. The Jesuit preacher's Church was raided and all idolatrous ornaments and artworks were smashed. He was forced to recant his Catholic blasphemy but nevertheless ended up in the flames of Hell because God almighty and omnipotent had already decided for him to burn for all eternity long before he was born.

[@TheUrbanDurbin]

#3edgy5me #PredestinedToBeAnEdgelord

[@KEP1983]

Ok, this is strange... it could be read as an attack on Catholicism, using a ton of straw-man arguments; or it's an argument against Calvinism with the punch line where predestination dictates that the convert still burns in Hell , using an argumentum ad absurdum.... Not sure which you're going for here...

[@bammbamm12]

Guys, if you want to screw your head up, just listen to a gang of women for ten minutes :)