Caught Pregnant Wife's Brother Stealing My Data Because of Her Mom's Insane Ideology That I Would...

Caught Pregnant Wife's Brother Stealing My Data Because of Her Mom's Insane Ideology That I Would Cheat on My Wife Because She is "Too Fat" During Her Pregnancy.
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[@Maninawig]

What a horrid woman, not only destroying her daughter's life at risk, but also risking her granddaughters health and livelihood before the child is born. OP could have lost his job because of BIL

[@Vex-the-partycrasher]

I have no idea how someone who is a mother could do that to their own children and future grandchildren. It’s sickening. But maybe it was a thing the mother in-law was forced to be raised- but unfortunately I think that just lead them to be a horrible human being. The mother in law needs mental help- but the way she has been behaving I don’t think anyone would wanna be around her even IF she got help. Seriously- SHES NUTS!! She’s lucky that OP’s wife didn’t go into early labor or had a complication due to stress! That is so heartbreaking…I hope OP’s wife is gonna be okay…I can’t imagine what it was like for her…

[@shawn9228]

The fact that the fil is defending his wife (seems like, she's the one in charge, cause fil is a fil.) for something, that he couldve stopped. Womp to the flipping womp, cry me a river, the op's wife deserves an apology, not some witch of a mom.

[@Catherine.Dorian.]

FIL is just as bad, he did nothing as his wife gave their kid an eating disorder. If they let her back in she will do the same to their grandkids

[@Jivi_Galaxy]

Yess.

[@mannydcbianco]

Yup, he's a spineless enabler.

[@MeyaRoseGirl]

He sounds like Mr. Bennet. Hiding away while his wife shrieks and makes everyone else's life a living hell.

[@A-TALKING-TOASTER]

You say that when I’m confident your opinion is biased because you never had any real relationships before that is such an Andrew take Opinion

[@carolinamansur113]

​@@MeyaRoseGirl I was thinking exactly the same.

[@maximetremblay6424]

Oh boy, sound like my MiL. My wife has no self-esteem. She is an excellent cook, artist, etc. But her mom destroyed any self-esteem she had, calling her fat and ugly. Glad you are doing well

[@KittyKat-ky5us]

❤️well at least she has you

[@Owl_bee]

No :( I agree, at least she has you and you understand. From a woman who struggled with being over 350lb for YEARS, she may have trouble believing any compliments you give her. You sound like a kind, patient man. Thank you!

[@cjaoshenyjc7276]

FIL was hiding in the spare room away from MIL 😂

[@Owl_bee]

Wimp!

[@Rj-ij6ko]

Op is the kind of supportive partner than someone who had a narcissistic parent deserves. Also i LOVE how he shut down the vile MIL “It’s my daughters house to” “no it’s not, get out” Love it haha

[@skyure]

"Why does somebody do something like that?!" To shape us in their image, because we are nothing but an extension of them.

[@cat_03tv]

There's a saying where I'm from: 'The frame has been made and the frame is looking good. Now only the human has to fit into it, but we'll see to it that he does.' I have a feeling this kind of mindset is one to ruin many good relationships...

[@Moodyman90]

Whenever I hear stories like this and the FiL goes "You need to apologize to my wife" I feel like the response should be "In the same way you're defending your wife, I'm defending mine." And if they play "Well she's my daughter" go with "And you've been a shitty father for not protecting her from your wife's horrible actions." That said, does seem like FiL knew what was going on was messed up but wanted to keep his peace.

[@newvision4l314]

Nah, they always enable their wife’s bad behavior. Don’t make them seem like the stoic good guy . Even if they secretly dislike their behavior, they don’t do anything to help which makes them wrong.

[@isrln]

Except in these stories, the writers are usually spineless simps who opt to either give pathetic replies or go cry somewhere

[@kuzas.]

blud forgot that this aint the shower 💀💀

[@DragonOfTheMortalKombat]

He doesn't care

[@tothewonder6248]

I hope the wife keeps up with the therapy so she can become a stronger person and move on from the past. The MIL however is beyond hope.

[@RepellentJeff]

Her _whole family_ moving in? Yeah, alright, red flag _number one…_

[@Owl_bee]

Sounds as though they had systematically torn down her self-esteem throughout her childhood and then given the poor lady the ol’ “We’re your FAMILY, you NEED us because you’re USELESS and he’s gonna leave you!” Pure evil 🤢🤮

[@Owl_bee]

Good man. GOOD, understanding man. Poor dude, and his poor wife 😢

[@sophiat2998]

This man is a living green flag

[@chadkent327]

Agree!

[@Owl_bee]

He’s a good dude! I’m so so glad he patiently listened to her and understood. Absolute king 👑

[@DeathMonarch-wl9wo]

I was scared for a sec that Op would have fought with his wife glad his handled it maturely ! God bless your child!

[@KageKobushi]

I'm glad that he recognizes that there is an extensive background for why his wife did what she did, BUT (even though the wife was pregnant), this was still a huge invasion of privacy that very easily could have cost him his job - for instance: my work literally has my work computer's system setup to flag if any unapproved external device is plugged into it due to the confidentiality of the files that I work with! While I don't think leaving her would have been the right choice, I do think that counseling should be something to consider in the near future. Just reached the end of the video, where apparently she did start seeing a mental health professional. Glad to hear that they're taking it all seriously.

[@DeathMonarch-wl9wo]

@@KageKobushi Well I understand that its invasion of privacy however pregnancy can cause lots of emotional stress and with her mother's fueling the fire which lead to this.

[@MrArielK]

“He’s very into tech stuff and I knew if he was using my laptop, it couldn’t be for a good cause” - a real human from a real story

[@12gagegaming43]

To be fair older people would totally say something like that.

[@MrArielK]

@@12gagegaming43 “he likes to have the newest iPhone therefore he know how to hack”

[@amoththatthinks]

I have delved into coding, I have brothers and friends that are CSE majors. What exactly do you find the issue to be with that statement?? I don't find any!

[@maysee2515]

Are you annoyed about the wording? Or the meaning? Not really sure what your specific objection to this is. It sounds like you're just into complaining, and I know that people who are into complaining don't really do it for good causes.

[@amoththatthinks]

@@maysee2515ahahahahaha

[@erejnion]

Yet another story of a parent who thinks she's doing the best for her daughter but is actually trying to ruin her life and health.

[@DarkEinherjar]

Forget breaching OP's trust by hacking into his laptop, the wife, MIL and BIL could've cost OP his job! Happy ending aside, if OP had decided to go scorched earth and divorce her over this, I wouldn't have blamed him in the slightest. If you threaten my livelihood, you're out of my life, PERIOD.

[@jenniekham5838]

Honestly he would have been NTA if he divorced I get that MIL was prolly nagging her n whispering to her 24 /7 plus with the pregnancy hormones messing up her brain n logic Cause a pregnant lady is a fragile lady the brain litterally reconfigure for the need of the baby but it's ur husband the person that u should trust the most atleast talk to him beford deciding to invade his privacy n endangering his job Ig op did take his vows seriously for better n for worse (worse ≠ abuse )

[@att6484]

​@@jenniekham5838the wife was clearly from an abusive household. I think divorcing her over this would have been harsh.

[@jenniekham5838]

@att6484 I'm sorry to say it but growing un an abusive family ain't an excuse I get ppl not being able to cut off toxic ppl But she literally breached ops trust ,risked his job in this sensible moment when their costs will double thanks to baby She had no trust or respect for him And she decided to do it (coming from someone who's family were both physically and emotionally abusive ) at some point its not ur upbringing fault and start being ur own

[@att6484]

@@jenniekham5838 I don't deny she is at fault but my point is, it's not blind suspicion, it was repeated psychological pressure by an abusive mother. Sometimes you have to look past the surface layer and have a bit of empathy, she's a victim in this too.

[@jenniekham5838]

@att6484 all I'm saying is that she is an adult women The world ain't black and white she ain't as much of a bad guy as her mom but she clearly ain't confident enought If her mom persuaded her to risk their financial security what else could she convince her of Could she. Convince her to abort the baby or cheat of husband or leave husband Could she convince her to abondon.her family or cheat on her husband A person like the wife here ain't ready for a family and personally she is too easy to manipulate if not by mom than by a toxic friend She ain't a bad person but she ain't reliable

[@sanddagger36]

as the story was building up and he was saying how he couldn't stand her family I was wondering if the wife could even stand the family, but she was the one who asked them to move in so I didn't think it was going to be that bad

[@guineawuv]

Top notch husband! He and his wife are lucky to have each other.

[@piopio6266]

From someone who has been in a similar position: People who were abused by their parents will always default to being victims of their parents unless they process the trauma and learn to respond. The wife needs to go to therapy not only for her current situation, but to address her trauma at a bigger scale. As things are now, if she keeps carrying the emotional weight of her mother's continuing abuse, she might just go back to hearing her mother out once MIL figures out how to bypass the restraining order.

[@Black-Rose12]

Never let that monster in law near your daughter

[@oventi_]

The daughter is very much a victim of family abuse. I hope she keeps the mother away.

[@oventi_]

I think a lot of couples do not put strict boundaries on their extended families. It is on them to care about each other first, or at least find a partner that will fit with their family and make that characteristic a priority.

[@joshfly210]

Family is important. There is not doubt about that. But letting your family influence you in your relationship when there isn’t a REAL reason will ruin even the greatest relationships.

[@TheShadowSentinel]

When joke "My love for my MIL is measured in kilometers" is not even a joke.

[@lordumbreon3282]

Okay 2 things. Someone should really give the mother a news flash that pregnant women need to eat enough food to give both the mother and baby nutrients. And the brother was stealing all data off his work laptop which can be seen as a major breach of security for his job and could have gotten him fired.

[@roevhaal578]

I struggle to make sense of this, why would wife beg husband to take her mother in instead of confiding in her husband? She went behind husbands back to let her abusive mother into her life again.

[@aakashsehgal9154]

Pregnancy hormones ig?

[@alext9320]

People who were raised to normalize abuse are often easily abused again, even after realizing they were being abused. That kind of upbringing skews your perception of what is acceptable, and it also makes abusive behavior "comforting", in a way. It's why children who were abused will often wind up with abusive romantic partners later on in life.

[@elistewart3435]

And it was explained that MiL forced wife to beg husband to take MiL in.

[@_juju_jojo_]

Why is it always a mother bruh? I listened to several other stories that involved a narcissistic mother. I literally watched two last night one of them was a mom purposefully trying to cause tension in her son's marriage to make them divorce. She even guilted him by blaming him for his father's death because of a failed kidney transplant. She also went as far as to attempt no more live to guilt him even more. I know there are narcissistic fathers as well, but from what I've seen they're usually partnered with a narcissistic woman. I just don't understand how a mother, the one who births their children, could be so cruel and evil to the child they're supposed to unconditionally love. I will say that on the bright side it just motivates me to make sure that me and my girl are the best parents we can be when we have children.

[@conormccue2871]

Simple. Everything you've ever heard about mothers is a modern lie. You want to know what people really thought of the reality of mothers? Read anything written by any great figure of history from 500BC to 1900AD. Look at how many societies, for how long, *did not allow mothers to have a hand in raising sons.* Your mother has no unconditional love for you. She's merely possessive because of how much trouble you were to carry. Most of us are only pets in our mothers' eyes and there's no one a mother is more likely to lie to than her own children, doubly so her male children.

[@Meowz3r]

I was 135 when I got pregnant with my first kid. I ended up at 205 at the end of it. My husband still says I’m the most beautiful woman he’s ever seen and even loves my stretch marks and that little extra fat I have from giving birth. “You carried our children. Why wouldn’t I think you’re 10x more beautiful?”

[@goodnightmyprince6734]

What an amazing husband

[@lilsstrunks]

simp*

[@_juju_jojo_]

@@lilsstrunkswho hurt you?😂 Being a good husband by putting your family first isn't being a simp. Life isn't all bad bro, I pray that you'll get over whatever the problem is that you have with women🙏

[@dunnomuch-7875]

​@@lilsstrunks Thanks for revealing you're a peace of shit of a partner to anyone who's willing to date an animal🥰🥰🥰

[@DiZoSoMom]

This sweet, angel of a man is so patient with his wife. She desperately needs therapy to untangle herself from her horrible mother. Op reminds me a lot of my partner. I am a big girl and self conscious, but he tells me all the time how beautiful I am, how much he loves my body Bc it’s part of me and I am his favorite. It makes me feel beautiful. I went from literally wearing pants and sleeves on the beach Bc I couldn’t bear to show skin, to showering with him Bc I love the way he looks at me. I am very grateful OP’s wife has him to help her heal.

[@prussianeagle1941]

Op should out on a fast pair of running shoes for his wife to have her entire family move into THEIR house.

[@BlackcatPlayerB]

It has happened to me, I am somewhat "chubby" but almost every day I am always listening to my parents and siblings telling me: You are fat, you should exercise. I'm only 5 kilos extra from my "ideal weight"...

[@TwilightMysts]

Depending on the business, OP could lose his job for losing control of his laptop (filled with company files) and having all of those files "stolen" by a stranger.

[@ladyweasellou3367]

Uhhh.... No.... WTF???!!! HELL NO - ABSOLUTELY HELL FU**ING NO!!!

[@chloe10704]

I didnt even realise this is a new video and im already 10 minutes in!

[@MetalHanyou1]

First thing; the momemt MIL started bad-mouthing the furniture I would have told her 'in most civilized countries it is considered an extremely rude insult for a guest to insult the home of their host' or something along those lines. Second thing, OP's MIL sounds like a real piece of work. This woman preys upon her own daughter's insecurities and concerns and tries to make her starve herself while she's pregnant!? And she wants to be around the grand kid as well!? What, so she can belittle that one and make them feel horrible!? No, this woman is toxic, terrible, and cruel. That she can be so heartless is absolutely insane. Congratulations to the happy parents and their new family!

[@Cfabulous990]

The family seems untrusting probably not the best trait in a life partner

[@jeanetteporter8114]

I have 1 daughter living, I never told her she was ugly or fat, I would never distroy my baby self-esteem, I would boost it, I have a 20 year old co-worker, I refuse to let her put herself down, her mom did the same things to her growing up, I had to stop her from focusing on her weight, I go shopping with her, I tell how that outfit look great on her, I make sure she feel goid about herself, I promise it took a long time with her, now we still go work to do but I am her new mom lololol she still interact with her bio mom but she talk to me and her dad with problems, that is a lot damage to clean up when mom put you down

[@Thaddius0]

for every FIL story there seems to be 30 MIL stories

[@leila13dnd]

I love how the mom is also inherently responsible for making her daughter a "fat cow" by giving her not enough to eat, because guess what happens when you force your body to constantly be in prevent-starvation-mode? It's always the prejudiced uneducated narcissists that refuse to actually put time into an issue and instead assume they have the answer to everything.

[@alexray1711]

I feel for the wife but after what happened i would be weary about leaving my items around her and her family that is a big invasion of trust but i hope they have a long happy life

[@randomstuffs_xp7362]

A minute and a half in and i already hate this family

[@supermama]

Almond moms are monsters.

[@chessieray1465]

The wife's parents are horrible people.

[@roቅ]

minceraft parkour god level

[@slimguy94]

Swear all these ai stories are just a giant ad campaign for therapy

[@watasumi4752]

Hi im from Germany and work in a Hospital. First of no he is not the Asshole. Second and the reason i Post is that op did the right thing because Mils like this can be Safety hazards for the Pregnant. On my work place i saw two things wich also coud have happend in addition to the Emotinal disstress. Under the Pressure wich her Mother was puting her under she coud have misscaried. And the second coud habe been here own deaht do to miss nutricen.

[@edenfieldjason]

Oh heeeeeelllllllllllllllllllllll no

[@The_Nightsong]

Wow, the MIL is VILE!!!

[@maebell227]

No ur not she's awful. Growing a life is hard. U would figure she knew that

[@JenniferJohnson-l3r]

@1:03 I knew once the family moved in I already guess DIVORCE

[@athrunmoza8996]

Dear. Go out and touch some grass. Not everything has to be as extreme as divorce.

[@NigraeLegiones]

So worried about her husband leaving....So she decides to show him that she doesnt trust him at all and that her moms opinion will always mean more to her. Tbh If i was in his shoes and was shown how little i was trusted/thought of by my wife, id walk. She will end up cheating because "he did it first." Fuck being in a relationship like that. Been there, done that, never again.

[@12gagegaming43]

I don't know if it's entirely fair to blame the wife, her mother was gaslighting her pretty hard from the sound of it.

[@davidtimmer596]

Mother in law should be blamed more, since she was abusing her daughter.

[@lilsstrunks]

@@davidtimmer596 she's an adult just like the MIL there's no excuse for her behavior no matter what has transpired in the past. She's just a kid, mentally.

[@lilsstrunks]

h'es cooked and dont even know it

[@att6484]

@@lilsstrunks she had trauma. People aren't perfect

[@miguelantunes4802]

Imagen bieng so entitled tat you make your daugther have a eating dissorder and thinking they are in the rong (sorry for spelling mistakes i am not from a english country)

[@Cheshyre.]

Nice bit of fiction, well written I must say.

[@KilroyWasHere83]

Nine-hundred-and-sixty-seventh!!!

[@VikingMakery]

OP seems to think his wife is an "adult woman" who can think for herself but blames mil for her wife's poor behavior. Op also talked about "naturally chubby," which is also taking responsibility away from his wife. Obviously mil is mentally ill/evil/possessive, but let's be honest about who's responsible for what.

[@piopio6266]

ppl can have a natural tendency to be overweight though

[@reverse_concept]

@@piopio6266yeahh, like genetics. if being chubby runs in the family then you'd be more likely to be born chubby rather than skinny

[@lilsstrunks]

what does that have to do with you being capable to not be overweight?@@reverse_concept

[@_juju_jojo_]

@@piopio6266thats just called being undisciplined and having no self-control lmao

[@wafaaali7511]

​@_juju_jojo_ seriously the women is 8 months pregnant seriously why do you have to be a hater

[@florencewatts471]

Someone’s projecting their cheating!

[@Iyelalisa]

False story....too strange....

[@Geezman1977]

Never mind the fucked up family, why was the wife agreeing to it? She is just as guilty.

[@The-enderportal]

Second?

[@teeleaf9252]

Third I guess

[@Estebam01]

First lmao

[@susandevlin5981]

Why did your wife want this horrible woman to move in in the first place?

[@dunnomuch-7875]

The wife needs heavy therapy. Trauma really fucks you up but if you don't do something about it, trauma will also fuck your relationships with other people.