4 Kids. 13 Tickets & Doing the Best She Can & I'm sorry I have postpartum!

[@deanmoncaster]

"how much can you pay per week?" "50?" "no you can't, pay 25" Wow what a great guy.

[@tsin6506]

it touched my heart in a way that gave me a reason to restore my faith in humanity. Compassion still Exist, though a lot maybe more like AARON MILLS.

[@ChallieWallie]

It is better to be patient and give them time to pay up than to rush it and waste taxpayers money on summoning her back to court for overdue payments...again....

[@aliinwonderland656]

Bless him for that

[@kumaahito3927]

Yes, it's a great idea. Maybe it'll take longer to pay, but he said multiple times to take what you think you can pay in a week/month, and say half of it. Turning all of your spare money to paying a fine can be really bad if anything unexpected expense comes up in that period.

[@Bigghaze]

She said $50 because us mother make it happen. He knew it would've been hard for her. I think she is depressed also. She looks check out

[@nilkaestherchasededier8569]

The first mom looks so stressed out and sad.

[@boxingbull523]

@Professor Terguson true lots of people there are there for parking tickets.

[@suzyrottencrotch5132]

Nilka Esther Chase DeDier well she created four children ... no one did that for her. She parks illegally. She’ll be in jail soon enough ... or she won’t. Wish her the best

[@lauraantic1384]

@@suzyrottencrotch5132 why would she be in jail she is not a criminal

[@hellohi1089]

Why do you have blame her for spreading her legs? It’s takes 2 to tangle. At least she is raising these kids.

[@Babiewipe]

izzy B sex is natural and instinctual, you can’t blame her for having sex or let alone wanting to have sex. Same thing goes to wanting kids; that is instinctual. It’s not like she can control her hormones. And when it comes to the “bad guy” not everyone can see the warning signs, especially when you are in LOVE. And I can already see the “she could’ve been responsible to use to a condom or get on birth control” in which, you’re right, but not everyone has access to that. Personally, I’m 17 and I cannot get on birth control because My insurance refuses to cover that, and I can’t use condoms because I’m allergic to Latex. I don’t know her situation, but don’t judge someone when you don’t know anything about them, it’s hypocritical.

[@greekchicgreek]

I understand when she said she's tired.. you get so exhausted that you just don't care anymore. She's sad, physically, mentally and spiritually tired.😔

[@nicholebaker8085]

True I was there once!! Not a good feeling.

[@silk510]

Sad it’s functional depression... I pray she’s in a better place today mentally and physically I understand. You just get tired and need that break.

[@brittanybonnie1478]

i could imagine...with just my one nephew it takes a lot let alone her having 4

[@BryannaGordin99]

You can see it in her eyes.. been there before

[@Lena-uh3ky]

@Greekchic I feel her.😔

[@iamjustjudy]

What a sweetheart he is. Post partum is no joke. Everything makes you cry.

[@loristone1264]

Lol life does too

[@_Obaa_Afia]

I remember I used to cry every minute

[@FG-xc5qj]

Yeah, it does. I remember having it too.

[@ShayNayNay23]

I felt like I had lost all control of my body when I had it. I cried about everything, even nothing at times, but like this girl, I couldn't help when it would start and then I wouldn't be able to stop it for a while. It's rough! Bless her heart!

[@cb4215]

“Post partum” just means “after giving birth”. If you mean to say you have post partum depression you need to be saying it like that otherwise it seems like you don’t know how words work

[@jebranaccra6101]

There’s a very special place in heaven for you judge Caprio

[@fernandoa.9742]

I C O M P L E T E L Y agree......

[@hakunamatata1659]

Special place in heaven!!??? Judge Caprio can turn the hell into Jerusalem!!

[@sdhong86]

Or I think he’s a living saint with compassion and wisdom mission to carry out.

[@marchellagulino533]

i agree

[@skordoff7048]

This niga ain't going nowhere

[@sadaxx3810]

The first mom, I just wanna give her a hug and a hot chocolate drink and tell her she's doing fine. I pray for her happiness

[@susannecarolinehoff7847]

You have a good heart 💕🙏

[@dashielle98]

@@susannecarolinehoff7847 0

[@jouflow]

Hot chocolate? Give her a margarita

[@saltyk9561]

The second one too. They’re so overwhelmed

[@lola47022]

Totally 💯

[@violettelovesjesus8888]

Seeing these women struggle makes me realize I am in no way mentally prepared for a baby. God bless all of them.

[@TazHall]

This is a case of single parenthood. It's very different when a woman has a supportive husband that provides. I do not expect to be a single parent, that is not God's plan for me, it will be different from the rest of my family.

[@CircumstancesNeverMatter]

Yes being married to my husband makes everything so easy!!!! We only have 2 kids but I'm done I don't want anymore. Lol but I must say it makes a big difference having a spouse who makes a ton of money.

[@violettelovesjesus8888]

@@CircumstancesNeverMatter Go ahead girl Be a happy happy momma for your boo and babies. That's a blessing. ❤🤍

[@eclectic505]

@@TazHall having a husband doesn't make you not get postpartum, it's horrible you shouldn't judge mothers for that

[@lucindaarmour7422]

Its a combination of exhaustion, lack of support and financial restraints. Extremely difficult combination. In that state you make bad decisions - simply because you haven't got the capacity to think clearly. Both of these women, in their own way, need to be mothered themselves. They are trying their best. The judge has seen that. One thing is for certain - they are not putting themselves first - to be a good mother you need to look after that mother (sleep, support, healthcare, nutrition) but the focus is always on the baby (which is understandable). Hopefully the time will come when thing settle down for both of them or they get the support they need.

[@dorothyhannon3188]

I really did feel for that poor girl with postpartum. She was desperately trying to calm herself. You cannot control emotions when you have postpartum. She is a courageous girl. What did come to mind was why she was on her own.

[@viron6734]

I guess, like most single moms, she chose a bad partner to have kids with.

[@brmbkl]

"What did come to mind was why she was on her own." because she doesn't have family to rely on. which makes any pregnancy difficult, let alone raising a kid and working. grandparents or other family to help take the kids off you for some time once in a while, is a lifesaver. some don't have that luxury. the fact that noone came with her points to this being the case here.

[@saintnicole3209]

@@viron6734 did she say she was a single mom?

[@carag2567]

@@viron6734 She didn't say at any point whether she was single, married, divorced, or widowed. And regardless of her marital status, women with PPD still have families and friends who can help them through their diagnosis.

[@kelimutscheller1960]

She may have been in court alone because the baby was with the dad? Having postpartum (depression? anxiety?) doesn’t automatically mean she’s alone. Fully supported women with intact families can still get postpartum depression because it’s a chemical imbalance.

[@amberharbour6435]

When a woman starts crying I love watching men’s reactions. They never know what to do.

[@katrinablackwood7909]

amber harbour I know your just like mate waving your hand down isn’t going to stop her 😂

[@kailamoore5331]

I never know what to do neither and I’m a lady 😂

[@ml2782]

That's why they cry they know they can manipulate people

[@maryjoana5954]

@@ml2782 🤣🤣🤣🤣 no...

[@jostsaayman1994]

@@ml2782 🙄🙄🙄

[@theoldkingtut3314]

This judge isn't just a credit to the bench, he's a credit to humanity.

[@cornpopisabaddude9779]

He's a detriment to the civil society and the rule of law.

[@unamilan2978]

I worked as an interpreter for 19 years and countless volunteering for people I know. Even getting people out of jail. But no one touches my heart like this Judge Caprio. Mr. Shane King, I couldn't have any better. Your words, I will always remember.

[@ThEhObBiT1959]

We need more like him around the world, he’s a true hero we all need people like him when life sucks. 🙏

[@iammotley9212]

The stress, a womans body goes through during and after birth. 😥

[@Shayvideos1]

Its definitely real.

[@TheeincredibleDaisia]

& the fact that it’s uncontrollable 😩

[@clip012]

And where is the father of the kid? I hope he is helping. This is so sad.

[@newyorkny9141]

Orions Eye I know she broke my heart postpartum depression is the worse thing a women can go through after giving birth. I was literally crying with her smh poor baby I know she’s going through it

[@vandy5206]

And before (pregnancy)

[@leannewyatt7718]

I’m crying harder than the second girl. The apologizing and anxiety of not being able to stop the anxiety. Then the anxiety of apologizing so much. This is me constantly

[@yunusbhadarka6006]

Hi

[@Novemberrain111]

Me also😢

[@yunusbhadarka6006]

We're from

[@Genobino]

God bless you , I’m sure your full of purity & Genuine soul

[@Football_editsz79]

if you are like this i ill do one thing for you no one has ever done its even better 2 bilion doller ...heres the thing ,go on youtube right down quran recitation listen everytime you get anxiety you will appriate me 100 thousad times then anyone ever i promise ..just do it whenever you feel anxiety

[@Kaeoooo]

First Lady seems real sad :/ I hope she’s doing well in this pandemic :/

[@somethingsinlife5600]

@@bignateliving4056 Neither of those women were "acting". If you have empathy you will understand.

[@zel9061]

@@somethingsinlife5600 Yeah. What I've noticed is that most judges have children, so they can relate and or understand people who have children to a degree.

[@theboogyman7158]

@Ki Love lol how do you that she is being honest? From all what she said i got 1 thing. She is using her children aa an excuse to run away from responsibilities.

[@jessalamode]

@@theboogyman7158 she wasn’t using her children as an excuse she straight up said she was tired 🤷🏾‍♀️ she admitted fault to everything she did.

[@reison8271]

@Rami the 1st lady straight up said that she committed those because of exhaustion.. she didnt beg, it was the judge's discretion.

[@TylerDrea]

We need you in every state ... matter fact just run for president lol

[@duramirez]

No, politics can corrupt good people, let him stay in the judiciary uwu

[@subbukrish]

He will not win. Only crooks like Trump will win!!

[@macymeaby1702]

YESSSS

[@abdullahabdulrahman5370]

Judge Caprio president of US and Imran Khan president of Pakistan. I think they would make the world, best of places and peaceful.

[@aanon5716]

only after 2024. maga.

[@Queenme1-t3q]

The First Lady is severely depressed. A very common dark place is “I just don’t care anymore. I don’t have the strength to care. I don’t have the mental fortitude to care.” So they seem careless but depression takes away the ability to care.

[@nireshnr]

So true

[@billie-ocean8286]

Yes god bless her

[@coconutwater4531]

She sounds like she’s about to cry the entire time. Very sad

[@aayykayy253]

She is where I was not too long ago. She spoke to my soul and i Pray God for her what he’s done for me because I know that feeling all to well.

[@dominiquepate292]

Right

[@thisisjessiesjourney]

I'm in tears.. I am so in love with this courthouse.. I live in Montgomery County, TX. I , too, was/am a single young mother of 4 and after severe PTSD from their abusive father who left us (aka went to prison) I was raising the most precious babies in the world with a pretty broken mother and making tiny mistakes that led me to court.. even a night in jail.. which made it way worse .. the authority here is quite merciless. So, now 10 yrs later I have learned a lot! Lol to say the least.. and I would have learned far faster and without more trauma , had a judge like this help me .. not financially, but with his heart. Thank God for this wonderful man 🙏🏼❤️

[@harsanj6281]

I was reading the comments, saw yours and the word MERCYLESS caught my eyes, we the Persians are very familiar with this word. Jessie be thankful of the country you were born in, I know TX is a state with conservative majority, but you have no Idea when you're born and condemned to live in a country like Iran as we do, 95 percent being hostages of 5 percent of worst people on planet earth. Be happy, be hopeful. God bless this kind man and god bless you and your kids.

[@nancyhoralia]

This Judge is the most decent human being ever.

[@kithsirirubesinghe9202]

We need more HUMAN BEINGS than efficient CEO s.

[@tsin6506]

COULD NOT AGREE WITH YOU MORE! EMBODIMENT of what HUMANITY should be. Great generation He came from. I hope GEN X people can emulate him more...I am from GEN X! hehehe

[@toastedchair8823]

old school chevy decent?

[@Boldgirlful]

I agree. Really love his judgment.

[@DM-rc4yu]

This wouldn't have happened if it the people in question were men. That's not being a decent human. Courts are extremely sexist, we shouldn't get anyone a break just because they're a single mom.

[@elizabethalphonse1697]

That postpartum is something nobody will ever understand unless you've had it. I had it with my daughter and it sucks. Crying over having to do things or crying if someone tries to help you, not wanting to leave the house....its horrible and I hope this lady is doing much better.

[@shelleygreyrealtor]

It's not even a real thing......said no woman ever!

[@beththompson2188]

@kathy mcallister it was 2 months. It was the second lady.

[@alexaromo1125]

My sons four and I still feel like I have it. Try living with Postpartum depression, not knowing what auto immune disease you have (doctors leaning towards lupus), and having a mean MIL. Yeah, sometimes life just hurt to much but kept fighting through. I Still continue to.. I literally felt her anxiety while watching and cried with her.

[@mycalkidd2514]

Yes had it after giving birth to my son it is a very real thing

[@user-sf9gs2pg1b]

So many people have kids, and it’s not really that special. I don’t see the point of it, and this just adds to that. I don’t feel much empathy for those who do have kids because it is a choice one makes, a choice that takes a lot of money, time, and energy. So, if you choose to have a kid, that’s your choice. If you don’t want postpartum depression, don’t have kids.

[@itsliliannam]

Somebody tell this angel of a man to run for President pls we need him

[@JuanMendoza-sp5vt]

Virgo i wish,unfortunately the world for some odd reason doesnt like guys like these😔

[@itsliliannam]

Juan Mendoza because they know he would take morally correct actions which doesn’t always mean money. that’s all everything is about

[@JuanMendoza-sp5vt]

@@itsliliannam i agree 100 percent!!!!

[@realamazingworld6756]

@virgo babybackwood I’m sorry but he’s not corrupt, so he could never be the President of the United States

[@selenahenry4788]

Vote for him ....nice caring person

[@elizzybec]

No joke I started crying with her. Like teardrop for teardrop. My son is 23 and I still remember that emotional pain of postpartum.

[@fembot521]

Every woman in the world who has had a baby has been there. Crying for no reason all the damn time for months! You’ll get there hunny!

[@thethirtyplusmom634]

That's y I stopped at one. Ppl just don't understand..

[@sarahk3411]

@@thethirtyplusmom634 have u even had a baby??

[@thethirtyplusmom634]

@@sarahk3411 yes and had very bad depression along with physical issues hence stopped at one. I'm happy for friends and family who have two kiddos ♥

[@casingadreamw.nuecases1293]

It’s not that easy

[@marchellewhite-stein8195]

God bless her. I have been there too.

[@moorechristopher873]

Yeah she definitely need to just move the car but damn I feel bad for her because she just gave me a vibe that she's so close to throwing in the towel. I pray that something great comes to her life.

[@fishsmell2570]

Stop paying women to kick fathers out of the home. She could just get a government check. Stuff just doesn't make sense.

[@violetbitch9492]

@@fishsmell2570 what

[@jpr7702]

Dude your a good man for saying that.

[@jesuslovesyou3402]

Amen

[@FirstNameLastName-wt5to]

Or maybe we should stop creating useless parking rules that serve no purpose but to fine people.

[@jessie6993]

I feel so sorry for her,her voice sounds like she’s just tired of everything,like she has depression or something

[@SassyWinterFox]

It's post-partum depression.

[@jessie6993]

Sassy Winter Fox oh ok

[@twig9878]

@Griffith Williams how do u know she had the choice, with an abusive partner thats not always the case

[@outofsight6147]

Or she needs some water.

[@dreamiconik486]

Postpartum is depression it's called postpartum depression

[@danielgaddis7496]

If all judges were like this our justice system would actually be.. a justice system

[@Risingofthephoenix]

Couldn’t have said it better myself. This is what real justice looks like!

[@shanagmitchel8418]

How do some men just walk away from their children without a backward glance. 4 kids with no support? That's heartbreaking.

[@samapras]

Agree.. In India if kids are in mothers custody, father is made to pay monthly maintenance or one time heavy payment

[@sk8yard]

It’s horrible and the guy is definitely partially to blame but there’s also a culture of women picking guys with those specific bad traits especially when it’s really clear the guy will probably not stick around. So on one hand the man is trash but women hold most of the power in choosing the man and they tend to choose the wrong ones in a lot of cases, and the culture reinforces that behavior

[@MsTinkerbelle87]

It’s criminal!!

[@marlak4203]

@@samaprasDon't know if she was even married to the father or fathers so all that she could get in that situation is just child support.

[@daisysummer514]

They’re weak and pathetic manbabies

[@littlegirlblue9829]

This is how a man acts when he truly loves women. This man has genuine love in his heart.

[@floppa1871]

So you’re saying he loves her? 🧐

[@isamary99]

rvselle • i think she’s saying that he has love for woMEN plural, like compassion and appreciation for them

[@littlegirlblue9829]

@@isamary99 Very well put, thank you

[@littlegirlblue9829]

@M CC You don't like my screen name? I think it's cute lol 🥰... I actually find her to be ridiculously irresponsible and ignorant. I was literally annoyed at the fact that she racked up 13 tickets for no good reason. You're, like, mad aggressive, yo lol 😄... In fact, I found him far too lenient in her case. All of this, however, does not change the fact that he shows love.

[@mkknight9619]

M CC Both of these women seems depressed. I’m just glad that they are able to get themselves out of bed, eat, and still have the energy to take care of their children. Some people cannot even do that much with this illness much less to give 2 cents about parking tickets. I feel sorry for the children because depression affects everyone in the family. As for the individuals themselves it may eventually affect all body systems and functions. Stress is a silent killer.

[@Madzblr]

Damn the First Lady seemed really depressed

[@ilovelife3328]

I think we all would be having to work full time and raise 4 kids alone. That is a heck of a responsibility to have on your shoulders!

[@kingzz407]

Madz Z she wasn’t. She was exhausted clearly

[@kingzz407]

Madz Z she’s working and it’s sucking all the life energy out her

[@dove8722]

Lady needs an holiday

[@wildlavenderr]

Shes totally exhausted. 😞

[@moe7706]

she really really needed that break, and i’m so very glad she ended up in your court. thank you for being such a kind judge and showing everyone a good example of compassion.

[@Knighttus]

This judge is building good karma, what a good person he is.

[@SunshineJoe-cx8yz]

Love watching him.

[@lukebias920]

Amy Coney Barrett could never.

[@Antside]

I mean tbh hes not just gonna act like a mean person on his show. We cant rly know if hes genuine or not

[@arianaconnors1463]

The fact that she has PPD AND is apologizing over everything makes me so sad. Us women have to deal with so much and it's always overlooked.

[@andreabowen710]

This wasn’t the best video to watch...I’m crying and it’s 12:11 and my csection is at 1300. Her crying and saying sorry so much is just heartwarming and sad. I wish her a great life.

[@johnynoway9127]

...actually its men who need more love. Women get better treatment in general. (no im not mgtow or whatever youd want to call me)

[@Hdidbi_3049]

Johny No Way that generalization is useless and based in absolutely nothing except for subjective opinions.... a lot of people deserve to be treated better, it has nothing to do with men vs women

[@johnynoway9127]

@@Hdidbi_3049 trust me women and kids first. men 2nd everywhere cuz men are strong and protectors. But...at this point its way too much and women are much more free and want to do stuff on their own but dont want to give up their woman priviledges. Its how it is. Its no longer the 50s where women are in the kitchen and men work.

[@Hdidbi_3049]

Johny No Way LMAOOOOO you sound bitter and out of touch with the real world. “Trust me” isn’t a source.

[@chrissiec5691]

The last lady made me cry for real tho. She looks so humble.

[@angelabariteau]

This woman had me in tears like she was!!!! 🙁🙁🙁🙁😢😢😢😢

[@genevievedarrett3163]

She had me crying to .Bless her heart 1st baby and she is so overwhelmed . Hope she got some help to cope with her little bundle of joy .And for her self . God Bless her ..

[@_romans_8_28_7]

I thought someone was cutting onions over here! My soul was crying 😭 too!

[@aminafollad2232]

chrissie cajuste i went through postpartum depression and i cried so hard

[@chrissiec5691]

Amina Follad i hope you’re feeling better now dear.

[@tommack2832]

Two lovely ladies doing the best they can. Raising a family on your own is no easy task. Best wishes to all the courageous moms out there

[@vins1979]

"I'm so tired, I'm exhausted, I don't care about getting fines all the time..." That lady is CLEARLY depressed. And I am not saying that she is "feeling sad". I am saying that she has a medical condition, she suffers from depression. Just look into her eyes. That lady needs help!

[@nathalieb734]

I think she’s clearly irresponsinle

[@MADEbySOUL]

@@nathalieb734 yes she was irresponsible but it is the cause. If she has a psychological medical condition that makes it hard to function then it is understandable. Trying to take care of oneself is hard enough with depression but four children who need your full attention? God bless her and I hope she is healthier now.

[@sarah.j.777]

lol irresponsible people don't even need to make excuses for themselves, the liberals will make them for them! I raised my kids alone after their dad was killed in a car accident, I GET stress & exhaustion, there's no excuse for this bullshit

[@kaxooxu]

@@sarah.j.777 what does this have to do with politics, why bring up liberals, congrats that u could cope enough to not become severely depressed but others can't so for once think about somebody other than yourself and get off your high horse. You saw 5 minutes of that first woman, you know nothing thats going on behind the scenes, this comment is embarrassing

[@sunflowergarden9794]

@@sarah.j.777 Don’t compare yourself. People have different battles and cope in other ways. Your comment grosses me out. What a disappointment.

[@Timbone07]

People didnt notice that the father of her children was responsible for some of the tickets

[@MASK-pp6hq]

He’s responsible for half of her stress, sadness, and tiredness. But her Kids make it all worth it.

[@mattg7952]

13 tickets at her address, on her car.

[@queensavage_xox7408]

@@mattg7952 just. Because it's at her address and her car doesn't mean somebody cant drive the car to her house

[@mattg7952]

@@queensavage_xox7408 Ok ghetto attorney. She admitted to being too tired to move the car. Your the type of person this judge refers to, trying to make lame excuses to not be responsible. You must have been the kid whose dog always ate their homework.

[@queensavage_xox7408]

@@mattg7952 first off I wasn't making excuses to basically say she didnt do anything wrong the vibe I got from you was she didnt give af and her character was just a facade to make people feel sorry for her and I was trying to say that you need to understand where she's coming from... second you need to stop making assumptions about my life I always had been and always will be an a, b student I have never been careless with anything pertaining to my grades and it will stay that way If y felt some type of way you should've explained it and I could've explained it better too I dobt wanna start an argument over this and all I ask you to do is to not try to throw someone under the bus the first time you recognize they have a different opinion on a subject than you

[@Jazzie654]

This lady sound intelligent, she just need a little help with her 4 kids.

[@x0q4]

I agree

[@KC-kz5zk]

Maybe her baby father

[@fgfg633]

Stop having kids.

[@msb5775]

TeacherTeacher she was with the children’s father at the time she had them. Once he left she didn’t have any more kids.

[@andreyv1]

what she needs is birth control

[@jasonholley3009]

As a guy it's sometimes hard to admit when something really gets you right in the feels, but the level of compassion and humanity that this judge shows on a regular basis makes me genuinely want to meet and shake the guys hand. I think someone might be peeling onions in my living room.

[@owengraziano7288]

I’m in the same boat, man.

[@marypatrica]

Exactly 👍

[@lucaswitdatrueff3468]

He's the best. I'm from Rhode Island but have never had any tickets in providence. But watching this makes me want to get a ticket just to meet him. He knows so much of providence is a shithole. It's a small city where only a very small area of it is filled with ppl doing well. Although it's not as bad as some major cities but this judge really cares. Good for him

[@thetiffanystevenson]

I LOVE THIS. And riight?!! Those damn living room onion peelers. 😆 🤟 Tiffany

[@thetiffanystevenson]

​@@lucaswitdatrueff3468YESSSS!!!! This right here! Of course I don't live in Rhode Island, I know he has since retired and is battling pancreatic cancer. That ALONE STILL makes me want to meet and hug him.

[@legoDragonfly-1]

That woman said she was exhausted she never said tired. Exhaustion and average tiredness are not near the same thing

[@thunderstraw864]

Seems like a case of depression genius

[@Darkwolfpocco]

@@thunderstraw864 Ya exhaustion is a symptom of depression... Carly is saying she wasn't just tired, she was worse.

[@kelsg5]

@@Darkwolfpocco not only depression though? Im a mum of 2 toddlers and I get around 3 hours sleep a night and on my feet the rest of the time because of the other work I need to do as well as being a single mum and keeping up a household. Im exhausted!...but im not depressed!

[@kelsg5]

@@Darkwolfpocco im not arguing that exhaustion is linked with depression but that's not the only reason people are exhausted

[@lush1hector418]

Amen

[@HelloItsVG]

I love this judge!

[@hehehaha361]

Hi verified person

[@tasinibrahim95]

Vg you are here ayy

[@minecraft8587]

You again...

[@crimsaki5273]

@@hehehaha361 He's a Roblox KZbinr...

[@rocketman1969]

I see you in the most random places.. But hey VG, keep the good videos up :)

[@Brianna-im1on]

“Am I making you nervous?” “Very - I’m so sorry!” How sweet 🥺

[@heaven-leighpierce1001]

Yes ,that whole case i teared up

[@MorganFernandez1234]

That second lady had me crying. I'm not a mother but I deal with depression and anxiety too and it's the worst feeling.

[@profoundpunk]

Same. It's such a helpless feeling when you're trying to hold yourself together and can't. Clearly, empathy is your superpower. 🩵 I hope you're doing well.

[@atomic4650]

I did not expect the woman to cry out of nowhere. Gotta feel bad for her.

[@theworldsonheroin]

stress, tired, exhaustion. i'm crying right now for no reason.

[@TheSaneInternational-SNI]

@VeryTalented Channel Name ever heard of a post partum??

[@TheSaneInternational-SNI]

@VeryTalented Channel Name because that was the only woman who cried in the video....

[@eliwhoonlypartiallycares1426]

@VeryTalented Channel Name then why would you comment on this video with this woman

[@eliwhoonlypartiallycares1426]

@VeryTalented Channel Name alright, link the video you’re talking about then.

[@belkisvelez9742]

postpartum is so serious , I hope she goes and tells her doctor especially these being her 1st baby , My prayer goes out to her and her baby !!!!

[@simbadutch2326]

Thanks for your educational lesson, I'm ignorant about the second lady's condition, I was just wondering whats going on. I sympathize with her and hope she is doing better

[@kawanzaroberts4912]

im pretty sure a dr is the one who diagnosed her with postpartum. how else would she know what she has without a drs evaluation?

[@rebeccaconlon9743]

Had it with mine, I was so detached, now I have off and on depression

[@rebeccaconlon9743]

@@kawanzaroberts4912 mumsnet, online sources, many health sites for mothers to be mention it all the time

[@MrSkyl1ne]

Many women don't realize they have postpartum and just think they are doing something wrong, they feel that they should love their baby, but they can't. If this sounds familiar, try offering the baby formula instead of breastfeeding. Breastfeeding causes depression in many cases due to unstable endorphin levels. There's nothing you can really do about it other than just switching to formula and stopping breast milk production. This is not the case for all postpartum cases, but it's a big contributor. It's a hard choice to make, but it will help your mental health.

[@ehiobanor]

Judge: "Am i making you nervous?" Her: "Very, I'm so sorry" Me: ctfuuu because she apologized so fast like she was scared she offended him. omg women are so precious

[@ehiobanor]

Mr. okay i never said that men were weak if they cry, so don’t spew that bullshit over here. that IS a stigma, and it is also very detrimental to the development of men; but no where in my comment did i insinuate that i feel that way. she’s not weak because she’s crying, and if it was a man he wouldn’t be weak either. so please gtfo from underneath my comment

[@violetbitch9492]

@@FutureLegend100 crying is beneficial to your health, don't see how that makes you weak as both man or woman

[@darcandelaria]

I find tears to be a strength, I'm not ashamed to feel deeply because my heart is still soft in a cruel world, people can get very uncomfortable with crying because people are so guarded, they stuff all their feelings they become numb or simply feel ashamed to cry because they think it's a weakness. I find beauty in exposing your heart.

[@huh7739]

@@FutureLegend100 you are Right..i support you

[@lilmeriya9270]

@@huh7739 i- uhm.. men can cry and woman can cry too. Crying is beneficial and I do not understand why the society still thinks that way. Crying is human it's a way to deal with things. People cry because if they didn't they'd go into depression and the pain won't stop. After crying you feel calm. No pain, no sadness just calmness!

[@coppertopjohnson9782]

That poor mom had me tearing up. Postpartum is real and horrible. trying to continue to function while your body and mind are going haywire. Best of luck. Thank you Judge Caprio for all you did for her and the single mom. ⚖

[@loristone1264]

Single mom then why so many kids

[@johnbags2525]

Weird how mostly single moms suffer from postpartum. Could it POSSIBLY be lack of sleep?!?!

[@magicalcrow6649]

​@@loristone1264 that is literally her first children and she never said she was a single mom

[@bmarie7747]

​@@johnbags2525 I wasn't a single mom and still suffered from postpartum after all of my newborns. It's not easy work

[@ADNANTENDOO]

Damn the first woman look really sad and stressed out . Where ever you are lady if you ever read this message I wanna let you know you are in my prayers and thoughts. Peace. EDIT: Someone has commented a few days ago saying he/she is usually working more than the mother on this video and that no one cares. But then she/he deleted the comment. If you see this I wanna let you know you are too in my prayers. It suckes to work hard and no one notice. Wish you all a happy times never give up!

[@beautifulmermaid718]

ADNANTENDOO has always had fun with

[@sieraprice6882]

ADNANTENDOO very sweet of you

[@priscillacasanova3188]

What a wonderful SWEET man you are God bless you too sweetheart.

[@ashleythagem9151]

Ur a real 1 for that message

[@nikiegrant-harris3582]

Very Sweet Young Man😥😀

[@erikamaldonado2194]

Postpartum is no joke it’s real life I went through it I didn’t think it was really serious until I experienced it myself

[@mellim419]

Me too Crying even in little things It's not a joke.... i totally understand

[@ravenwillis6382]

I wonder what it’ll be like to have kids and I’ll maybe be able to relate one day but you guys are blessed that you have children. I’m currently in my 2nd year of trying.

[@erikamaldonado2194]

Raven Willis keep trying don’t give up it took me a lot of years and now I’m blessed I thought about giving up faith and thought maybe it wasn’t in gods plan for me and it finally happened many years later I’m so happy to be a mom it’s the best feeling in the world I love my daughter I thank god for her don’t give up faith

[@vatsana123]

I am honestly In the same boat. I am trying to get myself out of postpartum depression.. 2 kids and I am breaking down as this moment I feel like giving up. I am writing this in a car overthink.. m

[@erikamaldonado2194]

vee be strong honey u will get through this it’s not easy but seeing those beautiful smiles on your kids make it all worth it god bless you and your family

[@Jasmine-zl7eu]

The first lady seems burnt out, the last lady made me cry I wanted to hug her.

[@liyanibernier5720]

Jasmine she should stop having kids period!

[@Jasmine-zl7eu]

@@liyanibernier5720 which one?

[@MakeupGenie21]

@@liyanibernier5720 she did her last one was 4 years ago when she was with the children's father. You don't know someone's situation as to why things happen.

[@taneabree]

Jasmine both women deserve a hug...

[@laye6307]

StrivingtoBe exactly

[@nicholsongc11]

Judge, as a retired Officer, tyvm for your compassion. You're a true example. I pray someday I get to meet you and shake your hand!

[@Elfin4]

This Judge is exactly how a Judge should be compassionate, empathetic, patience and understanding as well as being simply human. The Inspector is also a good man.

[@dianeprince1684]

Yes, but imagine those same traits being extended to rapists, murderers, child molesters, instead of single mothers. I wonder if maybe that's how God has to look at things.

[@Elfin4]

@@dianeprince1684 But why would you are anyone with common sense extend those traits to a rapist?

[@ryandavis2775]

I understand he's trying, but I found the part of the video where he said "well, if you're a rich guy, you can keep leaving the car overnight, just pay the fines, but you can't, you're a mother of four" shocking. And he said it so casually too. Does he not realize that he just told her that the law only applies to poor people? That's not his fault, but the cruelty of a justice system that punishes the exact people who need a break the most... ugh. Awful.

[@Elfin4]

@@ryandavis2775 No that's not what he meant. He means that if your rich you can afford to pay the fines. Rich or poor its still a crime, but he is showing compassion because she is struggling unlike a rich entitled person. As for the rich I would presume he would find them guilty and fine them accordingly, but he is showing compassion and empathy in his ruling. What is hard to understand with that ?

[@brianrichardcohn2159]

@@dianeprince1684 However, you should show a person a basic respect even if that person has done the most heinous things. This is why a defendant always has the right to a lawyer who monitors the defendant's rights even if you are guilty.

[@robbiebunge859]

A man who understands postpartum. Thank you, Lord. God bless this court.

[@angelicaroseevans8394]

Postpartum is no joke

[@rinrin1912]

I have no idea what its like so thinking about having it scare the hell out of me.

[@WayneGoss]

This JUDGE ❤️

[@sanaasho]

Hey Waaaaayne, didn't expect to see you here 🤩

[@evagutierrez5585]

😍🙌🏻

[@vanessasmith6925]

Wayne OMG we love you ❤️❤️❤️

[@nayelicerda8633]

Omg Wayne what are you doing here 🤓🤓💕

[@emilyc9380]

Real human like you🥰😘

[@tarass8737]

Why aren't sensible men and women like him running for president in America. Americans would have some real choice if people like him were running.

[@leonardodalongisland]

Too bad he's too old-I'd not only vote for Judge Frank-I'd help run his campaign.

[@Divine_ness022]

“tell me about the baby”....the Judge has a heart of gold❤️no other judge would even care

[@the-witness8811]

I personally know my judge in my city and he's very similar. Don't be too quick to write off other judges personality. We do vote in judges for their opinions after all. If they don't care, then they shouldn't be a judge.

[@brookelarson8645]

The issue is people don't VOTE in their cities to appoint the Judge's running. I think some people don't know these are positions we, the people appoint.

[@chitraseeram5771]

@@the-witness8811 d

[@VeronicaVeeTV]

When that mother broke down, apologizing over and over... I broke right along with her. Post partum is so damn real...

[@billiemason4466]

VeronicaVeeTV yesssss!!!!

[@emeraldelle6]

It IS

[@zoeloka9113]

Anyone else cry when the second lady said “this is my first” about her baby

[@1stephsr]

Zoe Loka right!!!!! The first baby is always the hardest in most people life’s

[@smj124]

I had baby blues with my 2nd baby 24 years ago but I remember that feeling of inadequacy and being out of control like it was yesterday. My heart definitely goes out to her.

[@stephanietheoret8803]

I cried as soon as she started to cried ! 😂😭

[@tenishabowen8740]

Still crying over here...

[@paullumwagi8613]

@@tenishabowen8740 come i give you a hug 🤗

[@nevergiveup6809]

Judge Caprio is a wonderful and rare person, we need more people in this world just like him.

[@amyv2571]

To the mama struggling with post partum, I have been where you are at and it gets better. My heart breaks for you because I see myself in you when I had my first, hang in there mama!

[@momsterzz]

Amy Varughese yes, it brought back some very real feelings from 24 years ago for me!!

[@taylorlanette1137]

Amy Varughese yes I agree! I’ve been in her shoes too. We as moms have to stick together! Praying for this young mama.

[@jazzdaagreatestt3645]

But why do women constantly keep havin sex and they don’t think of the consequences praying for her though talking about first woman

[@ieshanoble5665]

Amy Varughese how did you cope. I feel selfish I have so much to be grateful for but I’m sad and feel like a bad mom all the time. I’m trying to hang in there and stay motivated but one little thing can shake my whole day. Not to mention feeling anxious ...heart pounding ....hands shaking ....and feel like I forgot something smh yea it’s REAL!

[@KAITHEINVADER56]

@@jazzdaagreatestt3645 the first woman's kids all have the same father seems he left after the youngest turned 1. She didn't do anything wrong thinking he would stay

[@leyra93]

The 1st woman makes me cry...being exhausted and feel like you can't keep it together is the worst feeling

[@saracornish7575]

It is. And a battle from hell. But noway on earth I would get a ticket everyday

[@marlak4203]

@@saracornish7575 Ooo THANK YOU. I mean....Idk what these people are on. Yes it is hard as a single mother but parking wrong EVERYDAY despite all those tickets and to just keep on doing it? I mean how far away was the parking space? What does she have to go thru to do that coming and going?

[@philodox7599]

@@marlak4203 exactly. She is going to work. Making what? $150? then going home and LOSING $50 every day in tickets because she can't move a car? and then she is gonna complain that she has no money. I get being tired, and raising kids ALONE is extremely hard but.... move your car you ding bat lol. But then again she does fit right in with everyone else in Providence, Makes bad decisions and then cant figure out why life is harder then it needs to be.

[@marlak4203]

@@philodox7599 Ooooh. hahaha. Idk how Providence is so i can't say. Hahaha. But yes it doesn't make any sense and folks just going along with it like its all good. No. its not. There are 1000s of single parents but so that isn't an excuse. Now if she just lost someone in death then I can understand not caring about things anymore for a while, unfortunately. But just being tired and that's it? Nah. I think she has some other personal problems with herself. The way she stood there so calm and not showing emotion at all even to the nice things he was saying let me know there's other things going on. But all in all hopefully her apperance on tv moves her to make better choices so she is not caught up like this again.

[@philodox7599]

@@marlak4203 Yes I agree, And like you said who knows maybe she is going through extra stuff that she didn't mention.

[@kikidee6741]

The first lady's eyes were literally soulless. She needs somethingbto.lift her up.

[@coolcat6341]

She need birth control, responsil partner, good friend and family who can support her,,, and good care 8f her self

[@BryanSalyersXD]

@@coolcat6341 In hindsight, yes. In truth, we need to educate children better as a society. Will that ever happen? Doubt it.

[@dramaoveranalyzed2830]

Not soulless, just looks absolutely exhausted. But I agree she needs something to lift her up.

[@qarmatianwarhorse6028]

A five knot noose, perhaps.

[@BryanSalyersXD]

@@qarmatianwarhorse6028 too far bro

[@mahino420]

what i like most about that judge is that he takes into consideration their circumstances, this feels so fair compared to others judges that treat others like they don't have their own circumstances within the law.

[@glimpseofparadise]

This judge is like a dad, a real good dad.

[@rmsandler77]

this comment made me cry bc i see it 🥺

[@ianl.gutierre1341]

glimpseofparadise Yeah, the type that actually comes back after getting groceries.

[@AngelaMichelle63]

I love how viewers from other places send in money to help people.

[@hardcase10]

Anybody know how to send them?

[@deemaverick987]

@@hardcase10 you look up the show. Facebook, instagram. And it says caught in Providence. Providence court system.

[@MiguelHernandez-fg9fb]

@@deemaverick987 I have tried 3 times to get that information thru email but no answer yet

[@deemaverick987]

@ stop being judgemental. We need children. We should thank young people who are having children. Your life, find it. Enjoy it.

[@Surdeigt]

dee MAVERICK you shouldn't get another child if you struggle to pay for the ones you have. Nothing to do with being young. And - regarding the fact we need children. We don't need children who grow up poor because a mother desided to get four children when she should have stopped at two.

[@ninesixworm]

My heart breaks for people who cannot control their emotions. Depression is a disastrous illness.

[@jonahliesamonte9831]

Agree😭😭😭

[@beatingallodds3357]

mine too😢

[@julieclifford7698]

Empaths show emotion as well.. feel so much and get overwhelmed.

[@gojiking2790]

I'm not depressed, but I cna get really emotional. I can't deal with heated convosation, so I have to avoid most social interactions with some people whenever I realise they can be roudy and aggressive.

[@JJAST5]

I went through postpartum after our last baby. It was horrifying. I cried with this mama. I hope she’s doing well ❤️

[@nisviv1]

Don’t know why I cried with her

[@erinnorwood6124]

Cause it's just sad :(

[@behabtwa]

i cried with the first lady already.

[@taurus10033]

So did I

[@anele.nsithole5593]

Me too.

[@xandria1728]

Postpartum Depression is no joke. My heart poured out for both of them. Single mom life can be exhausting. But the child is everything💜✨

[@currentking1158]

What is it actually? Sorry its just something new to me

[@jazzyavu]

@@currentking1158 It’s a chemical imbalance in the brain. Once the babies are borned, the brains suppose to switch back to normal mode. For some new mothers, the switch didn't happen and the imbalance became worse. If she stays there along enough, she will be paralyzed. I recovered quickly thank to my husband's support. I have a girlfriend who went through the same thing. However, her husband and her parents were careless and didn't educate themselves on it. After 2 years, she was hospitalized and lost the movement of her legs. She had different specialists coming every day to get her to walk again. She is fine now. Thank goodness 🙏. FYI...Only 10% of women suffer from postpartum depression. Majority of those women recover from it especially with family support and medication.

[@currentking1158]

@@jazzyavu sorry to hear that abt your friend. You were lucky to have such a helpful husband . Thanks for the info il remember that early preparation is a must. Not gonna risk caught offguard when the time comes. 🙏🙏

[@TimeisUp22]

@@currentking1158 it’s a chemical imbalance. And it’s uncontrollable. It’s takes most women a year to get back to themselves mentally and physically. I use to cry over everything just like this woman. I cried when people beeped the horn at me. If my food was cold. If someone raised there voice at me. Even through it all, in your mind your like “what is wrong with me? I don’t know why I’m crying over this. I don’t no why small unimportant stuff is causing me to feel over emotional and intense sadness.” Uncontrollably is the best word for it.

[@chiihasagi7430]

im not married and i dont plan to be. postpartum depression still scares me, especially if noone will be there for you or if they turn back on you when you get it. my hearts to all the mother

[@zafarsyed2942]

She was crying she might have some other tough thing that she is facing and got emotional when she found a very nice judge like a father.

[@makalanotkala3432]

Zafar Syed it’s called postpartum depression someone can say hi to her and shes more than likely going to cry there could be other stuff going on but that is manly what it is

[@lamiaatajani6982]

Makala Not kala I tried to look it up but the definition was not clear so it’s depression you get after birth right ?

[@makalanotkala3432]

Lamiaa Tajani yes

[@lamiaatajani6982]

Makala Not kala thanks 🙏🏻

[@makalanotkala3432]

Lamiaa Tajani no problem!

[@juelitran]

During the whole video, I wanted to give both of the women a big hug and bring some fruit. It's tough being a new mom and being a mom of four with no support.

[@amgriff18]

Having a baby is no joke!!! I couldn’t imagine. Blessings to all the women who go through that and still have to live their lives right after. It’s tough!

[@ashann269]

Thank you!!! A real man comments👆🙌

[@anniedegroot6461]

That's so Sweet of you

[@kimmikisses2973]

Thank you❤ at least it's some men's out here that understands how we feel after having kids

[@prateeksingh8815]

Then stop being irresponsible n have control over your legs, simple

[@stormsram1115]

Single daddy here, thankfully my mom is there to support me. So to all single dad's I'm respecting

[@Who_Let_the_Dawn_In]

Okay. The first mom almost had me explosive crying. Woman, if you are reading this. Please know that you can do this and you will do this. We are so proud of you.

[@Dana-ki6vs]

When you said "we are so proud of you" that touched my heart to know there's encouraging people like you out there.

[@emeraldelle6]

Postpartum depression is no joke. Dealt with it 3x. Listen, being a mom is hard. I love it so much, but also it’s hard.

[@TheMonkiBrothers]

Isn’t it just it gets even harder as they get older to . Especially as their all so different in personalities etc I’m always exhausted by 9 pm lol I could go to sleep right now lol x

[@suzykim4035]

Single life : start getting ready to go out 11 pm. . Being a mom life : 10 pm I dont even wanna move. Lol. Yea its hard hang in there

[@TheMonkiBrothers]

Suzy Kim 10 pm I’m gone 😂😂

[@SjarMenace]

You chose to have them dont complain

[@TheMonkiBrothers]

Merel Koeters not complaining at all it’s the best thing I’ve ever done in life 🤗 nothing wrong with stating the tiredness it’s a fact of parenting . Depends how your mind set is to read it how you want xxx

[@HighTopHigher]

Truly hope she is okay now. Postpartum almost won over me. One of the hardest battles I’ve ever fought. Truly hope she is okay

[@seesoux]

I'm so glad you made it through to the other side. I'm proud of you 💕✨

[@rhiannon0008]

I hope that first woman is doing ok, she didn't just mean physically tired. She is exhausted mentally and emotionally. I hope she has somebody looking out for her

[@jennward6903]

This judge is freaking amazing. He actually cares about people and their life situation. He doesn't say "oh that's just an excuse" he CARES and he puts their life situation into play.

[@tsin6506]

being a true HUMAN BEING...putting his HEART to GOOD USE :)

[@tussharsarkar7399]

"take care of the baby then worry about parking tickets" pure gold

[@shamrock72baker34]

For the kind and beautiful heart that Judge Caprio has, I feel that he was not out of line when he called her irresponsible for not paying the tickets, it's just a matter of him reminding her to set good examples for her children and to take care of your responsibilities. It was meant from the heart and even a blind person can see that.

[@BMarie774]

That forced smile at 5:08 breaks my heart. I KNOW she probably is very grateful. But this woman seems like she’s genuinely mentally and physically exhausted. I feel for her and I hope she’s getting the support she needs.

[@ghxostman7176]

This is real justice. Being fair and human.

[@ameenapatel5319]

He’s such a good judge. He is nice but not to nice, he still makes sure that the person won’t do it again. Like he’s so nice you just wouldn’t want to make the mistake again

[@HIndiLookup]

my heartkiest blessing .what a judge u r....wow tears in my eyes..........u o deserve a noble prize.....will vote for u ,,,,,,,,,,

[@wedotalkaboutwhatarmystand4796]

That judge explaining responsibility like a dad talking to his daughter (at least thats how i picture my dad is to me)

[@bethbavaro]

Ever been so exhausted having to work, look after kids and run a house that you start hallucinating. Exhaustion is not being lazy its on the verge of breaking.

[@AR-mu4zq]

Ya you dont sleep after a baby.

[@mshafqat76]

It is totally true. In a perfect world we would never give mommy of 4 a ticket. If life was fair, she would have the luxury of a smile.

[@makeupbymelic]

I felt so bad for her when she started crying. The same happened to me after i had my baby. One day i went to get my vision checked and i started balling while they were checking my eyes 🤦🏻‍♀️ i hope she’s doing better

[@miavee43]

makeupbymelic_ my cousin spilled like an ounce of water at the supermarket and cried for like 30 minutes, postpartum is rough :-( looking back we laugh about it tho .

[@Littlekitten_]

makeupbymelic_ omg ! I’m so scared to get pregnant . We women suffer too much

[@makeupbymelic]

Kitty Kawaii yes girl it’s horrible but luckily not everyone gets it

[@ashann269]

Girl same after my baby I had ut so bad and id cry for no reason at all ppd is the worst I wasnt myself at all! Now im so thankful I have my bond with my girl and im back to myself ! Hope she knows it gets better I felt like it was permanent😭

[@glowingdawn9179]

It's bawling not balling

[@orthogluchensnable6777]

I have stood along side several judges in my law enforcement career and have never seen a judge with the compassion for people that you have . I have the utmost respect for you sir you have renewed my faith in the system some what .

[@johnbags2525]

Good. Now clean ur own house

[@iam1408]

I feel so ashamed when I moan about the little things in my life. God forgive me. There are real people out there going through real problems. My little input is to pray for breakthroughs for them.

[@Rain-zh6lb]

Dont be ashamed. If something is upsetting you then even if it's not massive, it's enough. Don't compare to other people because no matter how "petty" the problem is, it's upsetting you and it's real to you so it has to be sorted. Edit: however, even if you are facing problems it's always important to focus on the bright side. Every cloud has a silver lining if you know how to look for it :)

[@kittynanami]

dont invalidate whatever youre going through no matter how small

[@Altorac]

Your problems are valid and worth addressing ❤️

[@DistractedDaisy]

People today complain about everything because they are so entitled! I’ve been to other countries and I have nothing to complain for! Even in The time if COVID and the fact that I am health compromised and can’t go out as much! I still have nothing to complain about!

[@carlybarker6180]

individual struggle, dude 💕

[@carlielston7597]

I didn’t think depression was real until I had my now 7 month old. It hit overnight & I promise I felt like demons where taking over my body. I never felt so awkward & low. I was spaced out couldn’t even stand up at work. My own mother said “ your son is 2 months it can’t be PP DEPRESSION “ but it was... WHENEVER A mom tells you she’s going through postpartum depression she isn’t lying!

[@godsgirl7201]

I feel you're pain

[@liyanibernier5720]

Carlis Life don’t have anymore children! It’s that simple in today’s day their are so many options to preventing a pregnancy!

[@noemiruiz6039]

Liyani Bernier what does her having kids have anything to do with ppd? It has nothing to do with how many kids you have . A mother can have one child and not have ppd then have another one and have ppd . Your ignorant asf

[@prg4647]

@@liyanibernier5720 really? Depression can happen to ANYONE. It's not only related to having given birth. Educate yourself before making such an uneducated opinion

[@legitttful]

I went through postpartum depression when my daughter was 1 i was so depressed 😔

[@speeeee35]

I want to hug the second woman lol. Poor baby. You’re doing the best you can ... don’t cry. Aawwww.

[@AB-sr3jd]

Drats Smithsonian she seems so genuine ... the fact that she kept saying ‘ I’m sorry’ made me feel for her ...

[@cassycad2362]

It could be postpartum depression

[@DecoOnYT]

@@cassycad2362 Lol it is, that's what she said

[@lettyhanson526]

@@cassycad2362 it so is!!!!

[@simplyjaniyiah]

What about the first one?

[@traci123171]

This judge has a heart of gold! Every judge in this country could learn a thing or two from him

[@maryamc-mama1663]

I want to give her a hug & tell her she’s doing great raising her kids. Every mom need reassurance. ❤️

[@miraclelove991]

Give a man a fish and you feed a day. Give a woman some birth control pills you save her life. Beats crying and wearing a badge of honor, "I'm a single mom".

[@indica_nail_artist_6363]

@@miraclelove991 wtf are you even saying... No one should have babies cuz some parents don't want step up? I'm confused what you even mean here... You tried to use an analogy and completely butchered it🤔

[@Bloom2Grow]

Yes we do

[@kaede.4503]

she shouldn't be parking in the street people could get hurt

[@combedintuition]

She shouldn’t be getting 13 tickets…

[@carlingnugent]

I actually feel a lot of love for someone like the first lady - she's got a sharpness to her. A defensiveness that comes with poor mental health. Life is hard and she seems beaten down. Even though she's giving excuses for being irresponsible - I think she needs softness and grace. I love this judge! I really hope she and her 4 kids are doing well ♡

[@nursekhadijahchangeagent2747]

I felt her pain as soon as she laughed...before she cried. I knew it was coming. I've worn that look plenty. Thank you for your empathy. I promise you it made a huge difference in her life. 🙏🏿

[@ratajnadlabe7693]

I would love to be in this court as a spectator. This judge, is what the world needs. God bless him for his grace!

[@Timbone07]

She does not need to apologize for her depression

[@raisamunir4504]

Regret and self blaming are also a parts of depression ..

[@proudmommytoowenandmilo2294]

Oh man, the second girl had me crying. I had postpartum anxiety so bad when I had both of my kids, it's the worst feeling. Someone asking you a simple question can break you at any time 😭😔 I hope she's doing better 💛

[@HappyLife-nf7wb]

My baby boy is 5.5 months old today, and I'm still having PPD. To the point that one child is enough for me. So I know the feeling of these women, 4 children??? It multiples many many times worse what I've been through

[@proudmommytoowenandmilo2294]

@@HappyLife-nf7wb I'm so sorry you're having a hard time. Honestly, it took me about a year to get past it with my first son. And about 6 months with my second. Just make sure you get help for yourself and take care 💛🥰 It's not easy having a baby and depression or anxiety makes it unbearable sometimes but, it will get better! Congratulations on having your beautiful baby boy! They are so fun! Keep your chin up, momma! 💛💛💛

[@DB-xo6xh]

I have 2 kids as well. my youngest just started TK so this is the first time that I've been on my own without my kid/s, 24/7. It took me years to realize and accept that I had pretty bad PPD. I really hope that you know you're doing the best that you can, For you, Right now. If you don't feel 100%...thats A OK, because if you can only maybe give 60% at this time in your life, then give the best that you can out of those 60%. Some days it will be 20/60, some days it will be 45/60. Do what you can and keep yourself healthy and safe. That's priority. once you feel 60/60...you've made progress and you can decide to go for 82%! Keep going until everyone that sees you says, "You look good! It's great to see you smiling", to where you look at yourself and in the mirror and are completely proud of all the progress that you've made. We're only human but keep striving to better yourself and your relationships especially those with you children and your own little family. I wish the best for you.

[@proudmommytoowenandmilo2294]

@@DB-xo6xh Thank you for contributing such kind words and advice to her 💛 it's nice to see mom's sticking together instead of judging and tearing them down! Thanks for sharing your journey and I hope you're doing well!!!

[@DB-xo6xh]

@@proudmommytoowenandmilo2294 🥲 Thank you. We could all use the support and sharing our experiences is really like giving people little warm hugs. To feel like you can relate is something that helped me so much. I didnt have any friends of family with babies or young children when mine were born. Its important that we see that WE, ourselves, are making the effort, even it it takes a while.❤

[@RealityVideosRV]

This mom (with 4 kids) is really like! I'll not cry for what life has did to me! Not a single drop! That's so much brave!!! I hope her problems will go away soon. Bless you.

[@jadoresophya]

She looks like she needs to cry. She looks drained and broken. Crying is a release. She needs to release.

[@RealityVideosRV]

@@jadoresophya Yes she does, but very few can sustain it... And she did...

[@marigoldbeam5475]

@@RealityVideosRV I am praying for her, that she will find favour and support, and that God will give her all the resources and support network she needs to raise her children safely and to look after herself. Everyone has a breaking point and I pray for this provision for her before she reaches her breaking point.

[@nryanmusic]

Life didnt "do" anything to her. She chose to have kids.

[@raimatgallo]

Natalie Ryan gurl it may not just be about the kids. So many other things in life stress you out

[@notorious-00j99]

He’s so compassionate. I rewatch his videos when I need a reminder that humanity can be unbelievably beautiful. 💙👏

[@haboneosmanmoussa3149]

Why can’t all judges be like him?

[@n.morris102]

Most aren't Judges with compassion for human kind. Many work their "titles" instead of working "with and within their titles".

[@ernestogutierrez391]

Way we all can be like him I'll be a better world for sure

[@suzannethepatriot8049]

Because it is like raising kids. The more you let them off the hook the more they take advantage and end up spoiled in their own laziness.

[@nequeforeverrr]

no ones is prepared to be a mom. We don't ever know what it is like mentally or physically. We all are overlooked as being a mom..

[@soulaandefender]

Right i saw at school how they only called our moms even if we had dads they only called our moms I have no dad he died but anyways i always wanted to know why the hell they only call moms

[@kraykee]

@@soulaandefender As long as they call the dads if the mom is occupied, then that's pretty normal. Considering the history of moms being mostly the ones who look out for the children while the dad works, it's not surprising that they are the first ones to be contacted.

[@amnahalmalki3087]

@@kraykee for me they try contacting my mom she never answers so it's always my dad. Although both of them work my dad is the one to answer

[@kraykee]

@@amnahalmalki3087 Yup, as long as they call the dads if the mom is occupied, then that's pretty normal.

[@jaime1818]

Yeah, but you are not suppose to do it by yourself alone, you need a husband helping you by your side. Not having it is a big deal.

[@D1rtyB0ngRat]

Judge- Am I making you nervous? Girl- Very- I’m so sorry

[@menusami]

That was the comment I was looking for.. 😂😂

[@MrDavenez]

The poor young lady with post-partum... My heart breaks for her 💔 😢 I know how she feels, emotions are so overwhelming when you first have a baby 🥰