CDawgVA Shocks Ironmouse Explaining Dating to Her

[@mouseydawg]

this is gold: kzbin.info/www/bejne/aKS8dHaqep2jaMk

[@thatmorganguy01]

thought it was the bro code convo not you almost dying to a shower. 😂🤦‍♂

[@RobertLutece909]

You don't date your bro's sister because if there's a bad breakup it can end your friendship.

[@zero_s]

Or if he's turns out to be a shit person he'll ruin your sister . Or if you chose to stay friends with him you might ruin your relationship with your sister. So many bad scenarios lol

[@Noooiiiissseee]

​@@zero_s Literally none of those things would have anything to do with you or be your fault in any conceivable way.

[@Makerkiddo]

It would still affect your relationship regardless. What you gonna do when your sis says "why the fuck are you still friends with him" Or your bro says "bro your sister is shitass" You aint gonna just gonna sit there and take it, you gotta respond SOMEHOW and explain yourself. If it's a bad breakup (like OP said), things can get muddy.

[@Noooiiiissseee]

@@Makerkiddo What do you need to explain? You weren't in their relationship. You just be an adult, say that the truth is probably somewhere in the middle and that a breakup is usually the fault of both parties, and tell them it's none of your business what happened between them. It's simple.

[@MasterCJ117]

​@@NoooiiiissseeeThe thing is, with women there are 2 EXTREMELY likely scenarios 1: If she dumped him. ANY mention of him from then on, even if she just overhears it from another room, prompts her to ask "Why are you still friends with him" and now she's upset with you for several days. 2: If he dumped her. It's either the same as #1, or she never got over him and asks you about him constantly. Those two sum up about 80% of possibilities, any other possible option is 20%, and that's if I'm being generous. This educated guess is mainly from my 3 sisters, secondarily from other women in my family which is approximately 20 women, otherwise from all the women I've met through my bi-friend who raves and has a weird trait where he can befriend ANYONE which equals to about 30+, granted almost all of them were under 30, ravers, and live in California so... if you know people in general like that... well, you know. And if I made the percentage purely based on the type of women I've seen online who I've never personally interacted with, it would jump to 95% minimum, granted people who are chronically online like that will usually watch a video that gets popular and think it's gospel, and I don't think I've ever seen a video of a woman talking about healthy ways to deal with an ended relationship that got popular...

[@Aesc_the_voyager]

This is why you never tell girls the bro code

[@emmanuelwil-jeff]

girls are just to comfortable with eachother and they think everyone is like that but there not they'd probably be surprised to know there are other girls like this but in all seriousness it's so weird to look at your bro with his junk out piss and men understand why that is you just don't do it no one needs the allegations xD

[@bastionsea2829]

Can't really be helped when it's all over the internet

[@CantEmPayTaxes]

Traitors

[@walkman8461]

I would be just as confused if someone explained woman stuff to me

[@CantEmPayTaxes]

@@walkman8461 i wouldn't even understand. One night stands are so better. They validate your existence and love you with no expectations 🙂

[@techead23]

Many rules are on a case by case basis.

[@joshuawillingham6363]

Ya. A lot are more like guidelines. The not dating family members of your friends is really dependant on the relationship and is mostly to avoid drama, especially if it doesn't end well

[@techead23]

@@joshuawillingham6363 Ya like I wouldn't stop a good friend of mine from being with one of my sister, only if I could see them stay together. If I knew he was a player though I would tell him to come nowhere near her

[@bastionsea2829]

It's the 'bro code', not 'bro rules'

[@victoriazero8869]

Violating bro code is rude, but if your friendship broke over it maybe it was never that strong to begin with

[@miguelpeinado6402]

​@@victoriazero8869 This literally happened to me a couple years ago, like me and my brother realized after the fact that the friend wasn't a great person to begin with

[@Pablo-ndk]

3:10 bro can only date your sister if he 1. Genuinely loves her 2. Intends to marry her, and 3. Make your sister happy

[@CantEmPayTaxes]

I would throw hands first

[@Pablo-ndk]

@@CantEmPayTaxes ah yes he also must be able to protect your sister better than you can

[@sushisashimi8320]

Yeah but I’d generally avoid it because you don’t know if that’ll happen beforehand and I feel like if things go wrong then it ruins your relationship with your bro

[@auluadenbartolli6755]

Dated my best friend's sister in HS.... he was chill with it. We ended up splitting upon because she decided she wanted to date some other dude, and my best friend and I were still chill after. He knew I wasn't just looking to hit and quit, and that I actually liked her a lot.

[@kakapupupupuu864]

Or else...it's gay.

[@christianedwards6364]

Dating a bros sister is not cool unless u marry her.

[@Noh-Mask]

I don't think so

[@bluejaywarrior2439]

I have no room to talk since I don’t have siblings but I feel like it’s another case by case rule.

[@quinqx8236]

@@Noh-Mask nah clearly you dont want the homie in the family not the real homie

[@Noh-Mask]

​@@quinqx8236 My real homie was with my sister once. then they split and look at that. we still are real homies. I already made the experience and yes. I really don't care

[@quinqx8236]

@@Noh-Mask its not that deep bro just adopt your homie

[@AudibleFist]

The rule is for the urinals if you can hold it until one opens up it is best, but if it’s an emergency do what you gotta do. All rules are negated if there’s large enough barriers between the urinals.

[@santiaguo21]

Bro, no. You gotta pick one. You just can't stand there watching other bros piss because there isnt enough space.

[@Catnaps101]

Nah I’m not holding it. There’s a certain power you can feel when taking that last urinal spot and you see the other guys tense up from your peripheral while you are unfazed when pulling up lol

[@LaughingOrange]

There is also an exception in cases where a line has formed. If it stretches to outside, you use any urinal that is open. Like at concerts or sporting events during the break. It is more rude to expect many other men to hold it, just so you don't go between two other men or get the bottom of your shoes soaked in piss.

[@endergolem9977]

I was at the theater recently, and I was using the urinal. There was five at least. I was using one at that moment, then an older guy came along and used the one next to me even though there were plenty of others. (He could've used urinal in the far corner.) I kinda felt pissed (typed into that one) because performance anxiety for performing bodily functions is real. Some people can't even talk around others, so pissing and shitting are another level. My rule is to establish as much distance as possible. More distance = more privacy

[@x0gucx]

Idk about holding it in but if every other urinal is taken, everyone looks to the stalls😂. It was such a bro moment when I went to Hamilton and this exact thing happened. Only after the stalls are filled do you file into the remaining urinals if not for you, for the guys waiting.

[@DeadDevilDying]

"The other thing about the sister rule is, you often use your bro to bitch about your sister too. You can't do that if he's dating her."

[@Noh-Mask]

fun fact: Yes you can

[@Sizzox]

Lol why not? xD

[@scpfoundation9604]

No, you’re kinda off there buddy, it’s like having a bonding experience over a shared difficulty, turning bros into true brothers. He’s also your informant, tell you some flags that you might like or not and working with it, as a family member who’s lived with her for a long time.

[@emeye6452]

​@@scpfoundation9604that's soo weird. Disclaimer: do not try at home.

[@stevencolor3389]

Dating a bro's sister is a high risk, high reward option. If it works out it can draw everybody closer together. If it fails it risks ruining the bro relationship depending on how and why the couple splits.

[@travisperkins9920]

Skip the risk, date your bro instead.

[@CantEmPayTaxes]

​@@travisperkins9920only valid option

[@shadesinsertlastname1631]

@@travisperkins9920 w move

[@buildinasentry1046]

@@travisperkins9920Now we’re talking

[@LordAinzEditz]

That’s way it’s called a bro code

[@Gopal__S]

The bro code of covering for them when their gf asks where they were is ridiculous. If I know my bro is cheating, I'd go and tell the gf myself and drop the bro. A cheater will never be my bro and if someone abides to this bro code I assume a high chance of them being cheaters themselves.

[@glazredfield9489]

Or the GF is being overbearing

[@TheMelnTeam]

I refuse to support cheaters. In most cases, I won't know where a friend is unless I'm with them though. It's not like I keep tabs.

[@angelikaking1560]

I agree with this. There’s a clear difference between an overbearing partner and you literally knowing that your friend is cheating on them. I’m not a bro but me and my friends all made a pact that if any of us cheated all of us would do what we could to tell their partner and then cut them off. A cheater is not a best friend of mine no way. Obviously if my friend wasn’t cheating and their partner was overbearing and never let her be alone, that’s different for me and I’d protect my friend. But never catch me protecting a cheater 👀 ❌

[@whade62000]

I don't think it's implied for cheating specifically, it's not even for when they're hiding It's more like, a lot of times you just don't get involved, you don't let people use you to get around somebody, you let them settle things on their own terms be it their gf or family or whoever

[@shalashaskaseven4841]

There is plenty of situations which it’s not about cheating. If you don’t want him out drinking or late or shit, call your man. I’m not his babysitter

[@johnmartinez-valentin5427]

Same goes as you can't date your bro's x

[@mr.niceguy9394]

exactly

[@CantEmPayTaxes]

Yeah

[@dr_banks]

The urinal protocol is no different than that of public benches. How would you feel if you had a bench to yourself and you’re at the end of it and then someone else doesn’t choose the other end but sits right next to you?

[@Jon_Fury]

the dating a bro’s sister is ONLY FINE if the bro and the sister are alright with it. I told my friend jokingly “shut the f up or I’ll make your sister my girlfriend”. He said “Because it’s you, it’s ok. If it were literally anyone else like Jeffery or James… I’d kick their ass and send them to the immediate care center. I trust you with her. Even my parents would be ok with it. I’ll even give you my blessing right here and now!” Of course, I didn’t take him up on it cause I wasn’t looking for a relationship at the time, it violated bro code and i didn’t find her personally attractive imo This is an example of the ONLY reason it would be ok.

[@kw____]

Good that clarified that a relationship with the sister is only morally clean if the brother AND the SISTER are alright with it. I almost skipped that and went to my bro asking him for his sister before promptly stealing her in her sleep. Now I know that she also has to be alright with it. That makes more sense 🤔

[@SofosProject]

That's a wonderful level of trust right there.

[@Good_Hot_Chocolate]

​@@kw____ wtf.....?!

[@MXCN_El1011]

Jeffery, James, Jon. Is the last friend Jim?

[@Jon_Fury]

@@MXCN_El1011 no, it’s christan, dillon, Jordan and jarrad. We were called the inquisition when we were in high school. ‘Cause if you saw us individually, you’d never expect we were a friend group. Miss those mfs

[@okname5335]

0:34 its normal human decency

[@bgill7475]

Well yeah

[@JayK4322]

"You'd think so" goes hard tough

[@CantEmPayTaxes]

If connor marries Mousey from that 1 in billion chance i feel like this is gonna come back to bite him😂

[@ipikachangaming]

If they come out saying they are fully dating, it won't be a shock to either community LOL.

[@CulturalUneducation]

Isn't she 50?

[@V6AReign]

​@@CulturalUneducation4chan user spotted

[@gazelle_diamond9768]

Unlikely, he doesn't seem to be interested in her.

[@vinroycrossman-walker6465]

@@CulturalUneducation Where you getting 50 from?

[@imbigwes]

"Why can't you date your bro's sister?" Because it introduces family into the friend dynamic which can shift everyone involved's attitude towards each other. If I am dating your sister, I can no longer be candid about sexuality, my friend knows the things I'm doing too closely and worst of all if the break is bad, you're involving your bro in a way that he shouldn't have to deal with from his bro. Just don't date your bro's sister.

[@endergolem9977]

Perfectly articulated

[@XGD5layer]

You don't date your bro's sister, but you may marry her and make her happy.

[@HarleyAMV]

Connor turning into Ludwig before our eyes!

[@victorgomez6330]

3:38 "What if your bro was amazing" Ironmouse does NOT understand bros💀

[@pumpkingamebox]

Iron mouse will be even more flabbergasted when she finds out that the ability to pee gets really delayed if someone is in the same room when we pee. And the delay is literal seconds. Idk why I watched that research study. They explained through shyness.

[@freezerbong420]

only for some people, most dont have any issue. so i dont think that "research study" was any good lol

[@endergolem9977]

Performance anxiety

[@Kaylersick]

you don't date your bros sister because if you break-up your bro is no longer your bro.

[@Agent719]

I feel like whether you're okay with your bro dating your sister is the ultimate test of your opinion of them.

[@jonsutton7218]

Bro code is like the pirates code. It's more of a guide line for any situation. Girls don't get it, not enough punches to the face.

[@victorguapoako]

Generally, the way it works is that if you're close friends with a dude, you don't go dating his sister. This is because if shit goes south, two relationships are affected: Your relationship with your bro and your relationship with his sister. It is an entirely separate matter if your sister is dating a dude and then you get to know him thru that relationship and you become bros after. That one is absolutely ok because your friendship with the bro is secondary to his relationship with your sister. Shit doesn't get AS messy. So rule of thumb: If you were already close friends BEFORE he started wanting to date your sister, that's a no-go. If your sister was dating a dude that you end up being close friends with thru your sister introducing the dude to either you or the family, that's safe.

[@Monoriss]

01:57 Yes yes and yes! And if she does so what? Im supposed to stay silent and not tell my bro? Ofc ill tell him... Ive caught my fair share of cheaters and reported them to my bro that way and you know what? I dont regret it!

[@Kirakiraoof]

People like you who report cheaters r the reason some ppl can start the healing process. It sucks so much being cheating on and knowing others knew.

[@Slauj]

If my bro's girl telling me he told her he's at my place, and I know he ain't and he hasn't told me anything about the situation, I'm snitching. I ain't letting my bro go cheat or non of that. My bro is better than that.

[@GhostingAbout]

9 times of 10, im a cover story, and it's normally completely fine why they're being sneaky. The cheating percent if I'm the scapegoat has happened once, and they weren't a good friend anyways so it was easy.

[@shalashaskaseven4841]

I’m not his baby sitter, don’t be calling me over your relationship problems.

[@UzumakiheroGaming]

I am loving the rabbit & steel ost in the background

[@hathorliderc]

Dating a bro's sister is generally frowned upon, especially if there's a breakup later. It makes things VERY awkward.

[@_Dio_Brando_69]

Apparently Mousey doesn't see anything wrong with strangers watching her pee or being within her personal space as she does 😂

[@XGD5layer]

Considering her physical condition, it might be that she has had no choice but normalize it

[@spikespiegel1754]

The rule I got from Friends is "Sisters are ok, maybe a hot aunt. But not a mom, never a mom" Ended up being true with Chandler too.

[@Professor_Ethical]

Generally, you shouldn't date your friends family. If you want to, check in with dude first. Even if he denies you, it's up to you whether you wanna test that relationship with another.

[@CCCARRACK]

Connors like "damn I can't show her my mouse wearing an Ironman suit tattoo now"

[@pumpkingamebox]

About dating bros sister. The reason is the same as why people are afraid to confess to their best friend. Because you’re friends right now, no strings attached, but as soon as you confess, the dynamics of the relationship is gonna change no matter what you do. So by dating bros sister and then breaking up in a bad way, forces bro to then chose a side between sister or his bro. We don’t want bro to make that hard choice, so we don’t date his sister.

[@DtWolfwood]

Funny how the unwritten rules of the bro code is universally acknowledged and followed by men lol i know I've never been taught yet some how i know them 😅

[@Ridlay_]

I love how bro code is something that every guy agrees on inherently, there's no debate it's just the code

[@Noh-Mask]

Eh.. 50/50

[@The0-2DemonKing]

The other 50 are damage sponges

[@Zinlain]

except the lying about where your bro is one. It may seem true but men dont actually keep track of each other as closely as women do their friends so most of the time i legitimately dont know where my bro is. And even if he did get in touch before to tell me to lie to her, I would need a damn good reason like "Hey, I am picking up the engagement ring but i dont want her to know yet so lie." I dont enable cheaters because I believe in do-unto-others-as-they-should-do-unto-you. If someone was cheating on me i'd want to know. Any "bro" letting me know he is cheating would know that I am telling the person they are cheating on. Granted my friends know that about me so I would be left completely out of the loop unless I stumbled upon this myself. Which as I mention isnt liable to happen given I dont keep track of where my friends are.

[@TheAtlusJack]

Rabbit and steel going hard

[@ChiquitoChorchos]

All "FAMILY MATTERS"

[@dc_kdart19]

Bro I completely read the title wrong 😂

[@lggsretrofinds4461]

connor gets ironmouse name tattooed haha

[@MrSonictheOtter]

Cdawg is correct in his statements. I'm glad he represented us bros with Mousey. A man we can trust

[@GelatinCoffee]

Girls saying the urinal rule is weird: Also girls when guys say "then remove the stall doors between toilets in the women's restroom when you pee. Would you pee right next to each other?": sicko

[@thomasrad5202]

The bro code is more like a list of things that all guys intrinsically understand, things that don't need to be explained. For example, if you have a bro who you have known for years and years and you're best friends... Dating his sister is weird at that point because if things don't work out then it could create a divide in the relationship between you and your bro. Things won't be the same if your bro's family doesn't like you. Basically, it is not worth taking the risk, and is ultimately an extension of the bros before hoes rule. You don't date someone that could jeopardize a relationship between you and your bro. Also it puts your bro in the worst position of all time where he has to choose between you and his family. Everyone knows that bros come before hoes, but family is the one thing that does often come before bros. You leave him no choice.

[@Some_Idiot_on_the_Internet]

It's the same principle as seating on the bus or train, you take whatever seat gives you and everyone else the most space. You only start sitting next to other people if there is no other option.

[@Mortisk]

The sister one makes sense. Guys like to talk about their intimate life's with each other, and it would be awkward saying that stuff about a guy's sister

[@BlamedAxis]

for the “can’t date your bro’s sister” one, think of it this way- if you are dating ur friend’s sister, and you break up, then not only do u lose your girlfriend, but you lose your friend, too, because it’s likely that they will side with their family over anyone else. It’s not worth the risk

[@narkreean6490]

As much as we all want to be family, *"DATING A SISTER OF A BRO IS A DISRESPECTFUL TOWARDS THE FRIENDSHIP YOU MADE"* especially how on and off a rs is and now you have that awkward tension looming in and you had to infect the family of your bro

[@noble_wine]

Mousie is learning.

[@MrPonytron]

The only time it's OK to date your best friend's sister is if your best friend is cool with it

[@LuckOfTheDrawReborn]

The reason you shouldn't generally avoid dating your friends siblings is because things start getting real fucking uncomfortable for everyone involved if things go wrong.

[@KingOpenReview]

But isn't that just something you have to figure out with almost any dynamic of a group of 3+? Like, can you not be close friends with the sibling of your friend?

[@mrobligatory.5234]

Bro code is something ethereal. You feel it, -you grock it. Anytime someone tries to codify the bro code, it usually sucks. This stems from the fact that the bro code is inherently built upon the qualia of human (predominantly male) friendship. Therefore words literally fail us, as the vibe of friendship supercedes any societal norm or any precedent.

[@WingManFang1]

Idk dawg 1:29 Connor sound kinda sus looking at his friends PP’s 😂😂😂😂😂

[@noblekatana2270]

Remember bros: the mom of a bro is off limits, but a step mom of a bro is fair game if she initiates and has one article of lepoard print clothing

[@Official_MikeyT]

Does she have to be wearing the leopard print item or does she just need to simply own the garment?

[@wandering4104]

Just needs to own it. You gotta earn the privilege to see her wearing it.

[@Uhh16]

For the “ bro can’t date a sister “ thing for me & many others but if he’s been my “ bro “ then I know some of his thoughts what he would do yk etc so that could mess with you mind & then if they breakup that’s a whole different situation entirely which I will choose not to explain bc I don’t have the energy BUT it could work i know there are some people that made it work with “ bro “ sister & everything is fine but most of the time that’s not the case

[@nyeeeofthestarsz1804]

The dating his sister thing is the only rule i struggle to follow tbh

[@orpheusdrakos1911]

Another reason why you don't date your bro's sister is because if it doesn't work out and you're hanging with your bro, it's gonna be so awkward and have such a weird tension just hanging out if your bro's family is around. I'm not saying it can't work out but honestly it's just better to not do that. Which is why it's in the borough code. My friend had a similar situation, but it was slightly different. He was dating his sister's boyfriend's sister. Which also had the same name as his sister. So that was weird as fuck too. It did not work out for either one of them and it was just a very messy situation after. So not quite bro code but very similar vibe.

[@worri3db3ar]

The don't date the sister thing is because if anything happens it puts the girl's brother in a really tough spot cos one if family and the other is someone you feel you can take a bullet for.

[@0Ten1]

3:56 "🤨"

[@gravelurkstm]

Wowowow Mousey If my sister is always with horrible guys (true and real) and my bros solid, even if i were to vouch for him My sister will still pick horrible guys over him. Most woman do this. This is not the fault of the bro code.

[@aresrivera9744]

1:04 personally I wouldn’t even go to Hot Springs. I’m not ok with seeing any man, naked, even my friends .

[@jakob3044]

what about dating your bro? John had a sick verse on this subject: "Greater love hath no man, that he may lay the homie." Thoughts from the fellers?

[@trapezoidboi9368]

Connor’s reaction to not being able to date a bro’s mom is hilarious

[@spandandasgupta5773]

Treat bro's framily like your own, its called bro for a reason. And just like you shouldn't date your sister, you shouldn't date your bro's sister too.

[@Eksevis]

With the whole bro code, more specifically the bathroom thing, it's more about consent then anything. Most people are going to the bathroom, using a urinal because it's faster and because they want to get it over with. In a public bath, you usually choose to be there.

[@nikola71H1]

CDawgVA is horrible at explaining. There are clear reasons why some things in the bro code are done.

[@53thephenix]

"it's like you spying on her to report if she cheat" yhea like women don't have their friends make false insta account to message their boyfriend and "test their loyalty". Hurt a lot but atleast when I break up with her since it was clearly a sign she actually had no trust in me the look on it face felt good for a few seconds.

[@caesurabreak3528]

Jfc, these censorings are losing more than half the context. Bring back potty mouth youtube ffs. This aint youtube kids

[@mrlotobvious]

The sister thing is basically a psychological thing where if you date your bro's sister, 1. You'll lower your focus on bro because you're mainly focusing on his sister. 2. Your bro will feel like he has been used this entire time just for you to get with his sister. 3 sis will likely stop hanging out with bro, and bro will start to feel loneliness again.

[@yanguskhan8513]

depends the bro. if you know your bro is genuinely a good guy, it could be okay. youll know how he generally treats women. if hes a player, hell the fuck no. theres billions of other women. go mess around with the one's not related to me. personally, ive stayed away from friend's sisters, cuz many of them become like a sister to me, so it gets kinda weird. also if things do go bad, i dont want to put my friend in what could be an awkward situation. but i dont have a sister, so its not an issue for me personally.

[@ordoresdojo2150]

I am not letting any of my friends date my sister bro.

[@GeorgeSweet]

Lol its obviously been a long time since shes used a public restroom

[@helbalee1498]

We're Boys. We're Friends. We are Boyfriends.... What? The rules of Engagement in between Men in Public. No words needed. Just silence acknowledgement. Every men knows them, even they were never taught them. It's in the men's nature, delivered in men's DNA through the centuries.

[@kylewilson2819]

The biggest ones I know are: Don’t date your bros sister. Don’t date your bros Ex. Part of it is just courtesy, but it’s also common sense. Why risk bringing tension that could end the friendship? Just not worth it

[@sircrimsonwolf7492]

Bro code has A LOT of rules and so does the code of the gentleman these two do not necessarily contradict one another but usually a lot of dudes usually pick one of the two and sick with it. HOWEVER I would argue Keanu Reeves is probably a model example of both the bro code and the gentleman code

[@MasterCJ117]

I'd say the biggest problem with a bro dating your sister is he feels like a brother, so it'd be the same visceral reaction as if they were your siblings, and thus only acceptable if you're born in Alabama, unless they get together behind your back and get engaged, then the act of him becoming your brother-in-law changes how the brain processes him and it's now okay.

[@VeryButtery]

Don’t date a sister in case the breakup ruins your friendship too

[@KlownPierce]

personally i hold bros for him

[@jelzuku232]

When it comes to bro code, dating a bro’s sister is a sign that the friendship of the bro only exists just to get close to the love interest and the whole thing was a manipulation.

[@NotAnIlluminatiSpy]

Mouse touches on a good point. There are loopholes and exceptions to the code. They're more like guidelines, really.

[@Vugtis_El_VillaVODS]

About the GF asking for their BF. If the Bro is not answering then He is more likely avoiding the GF.

[@megasin1]

Toilets and hotspring, the difference is consent. Everybody got to pee, and consent isn't guaranteed. But with hotspring, you expect to see naked dudes bathing. Same as a nude beach.

[@onlyRicky_x]

The urinal isnt bro code. It's bro law

[@shawnhiggins1005]

Conor sounds like he would cover cheating with how he answered that.

[@garthvanheerden7166]

pulling down your pants at a urinal is not optional... going to the hot springs is a choice. you don't have to go to a hot springs if you are not comfortable taking off your pants around others.

[@jeremykeasbey4145]

Everyone hypes up the bro-code as some mysterious secret-society bs, but it's incredibly simple. All the 'rules' boil down to 2 basic principles: The Golden Rule - Treat others how you yourself wish to be treated Bros Before Hoes - Basically a combo mentality of 'family first' & 'love is deep but friendship is eternal' 'Don't peek at a strangers d!ck' cuz you wouldn't want a stranger peeping at yours. Same with the urinal thing; it's about respecting eachothers personal space during a moment of vulnerability. 'Don't date your friends sister' because you're inserting yourself into their family relationship. 'Don't romantically pursue the same girl as your friend' is about respecting eachothers feelings. Relationships may or may not last, so its better for one of you to cleanly give up since it isn't worth ending your friendship.

[@Nagi2100]

Urinal rule does not apply at sporting events.

[@mechamojureg2166]

We know our bros flaws even if they are good at heart, maybe thats why men generally doesn't want the bros being with their sisters, that being said if i know how genuine and responsible a friend is a would vouch for it IF i had a sister.

[@egnato1165]

As a guy with a younger sister, I never understood the "don't let your friends date your sister" thing. Like. Why does it matter. As long as she's ok with it and there's not an problematic age gap (I'd start worrying at 4+ years between them), go for it bro. Like, don't get me wrong, I'd still be protective. But it's not my relationship. Not my business

[@wandering4104]

I got a younger sister too and you can't deny it'd be weird as fuck if your bro was to date your sister. what if they broke up? Bro can't be your bro anymore. It'd just be so awkward. Bro also can't make sexual jokes anymore cuz it'll hit too close to home. Any relationship related jokes for that matter. Also by your own admission you'd be protective. Which means you're just worrying about their relationship. Its a thing for a reason.

[@moxbroker]

Only name tattoos that are allowed are dead loved ones or their kids.

[@brokenlegend1179]

Its called a bro code for a reason

[@lala-dl5zu]

Isn't there manner towels to cover in sunas?

[@ConzyWonzy1]

Probably but why even bother

[@bastionsea2829]

Only in anime. I've seen a video on why they would actually be a bad idea

[@lala-dl5zu]

No I remember watching video documenting some people have manner towels only big enough to cover parts of the chest and then fold the towel and put it on there head while in the suna maybe it's not everywhere though

[@kfk4441]

The lie to the girlfriend is for the girlfriends that are jealous all the damn time. But if it's a true loving and caring nobody lies to her...In fact bro code dictates to beat the guy if he dares to do wrong to her

[@bigd1348]

I never understood the sister thing I've actually set my friends up with my sisters in the past and I didn't see anything weird about it

[@PricefieldPunk]

You dont date your bros sister cause what if you breakup? The awkwardness is not worth it

[@drwarpp8585]

The Urinal one is common Decency

[@xendordawnburst9969]

I've never been in a hot spring myself, but don't people wear towels before getting in the water? Or is that just an anime thing? I imagine that'd be an extension of the "bro code" if so!

[@ricko3363]

I don't even know that last one is a thing 😂

[@RimuruLNgoat]

I swear how do girls not understand guys understand girl code but when a girl ask about code it's like the most abstract Outerversal concept

[@icouldntthinkofagoodname7216]

Most of the Bro code is either Logically Morally Common sense or to not be labeled as Gay. Change my mind

[@animefan715]

Connor is doing a bad job of explaining this 😂 or he's just having a CHEEKY LAUGH

[@GEIZ-gp7cj]

They aren't really rules more like regulations we sometimes dont follow