Cemetery Visits, Veils with Frankie, Quitting the Pole Studio || Vlogmas 2024

[@curcapsicum]

Such a shame about the previous studio, proud of you though for standing up for your beliefs and keeping your morals strong. Damn though, that Selenite Studio place sounds wonderful. Love that it's witch owned and queer supportive, I imagine that might have been some of the issue with the previous place's owner. Looks and sounds like a cozy and excellent place to be and work and glad that other one, hard candy, also looks promising. One door closes, but a window slams open. Happy New Year to you and everyone who might read this!

[@nattieriri]

My heart melted when i saw that she has a placef or small bussines stuff and for if you make things and sell something… so wunderful🩶

[@brentmartin1981]

The footage of you in that graveyard with the snow and gray skies is absolutely mesmeric. I swear every single one of your videos puts me into a spell. The passion that you put into your craft is so inspiring. I hope that you have nothing but wonderful blessings and love in the year 2025.

[@TheWitchOfWonderlust]

I really appreciate it. I hope the same for you

[@brentmartin1981]

@@TheWitchOfWonderlust Thank you so much!!! I am trying to tap into that early Capricorn energy of 2025 and enjoy the winter months. Your videos have helped me so much with the craft I cannot thank you enough truly.

[@_Moonlight92]

I am so sorry to hear about you quitting (and then the owner being a dill hole about you filling in) but when you showed the selenite studio to me it seemed perfect! And I’d love to see the ‘small’ mundane stuff! How many witchy creators actually do that? Not many if any! Hope you had a good New Year!

[@TheWitchOfWonderlust]

It’s okay, she’s allowed to not want me there after I quit lol. It was just something that made me sad. And thank you! I’ll definitely be more intentional about it then

[@TheWitchOfWonderlust]

I'll do my best to be more intentional about sharing those 'smaller' things!

[@Caroline1025.]

thank you so much for talking about the mundane magick! i never thought about enchanting my crochet hooks! I would LOVE to see any of the crochet pieces you've made. i noticed a beautiful cardigan that you were wearing in the graveyard that sparked some inspiration in me 🫶

[@johnrichardcleland4493]

I'm pretty much a newbie and have learned so much by watching your vlogs not only the skills but the calming vibes you project. I could see, hear, and feel the sadness you were going through and the strength you showed by not giving into the need to bad mouth the previous club owner. Your handling of the situation is to be commended. The moves you have made are to your benefit and you will prosper as well as excell in these new environments. Stay Safe Stay Well and Enjoy Each Day

[@jocelynarroyo1799]

Big hugs to you. It's hard when you're going through a transition, especially when the ending feels really painful. But the Selenite studio seems like a beautiful supportive, community oriented business and it looks like the doors you're walking through are propelling you forward. I love the inclusive aspect and how other people can set up their own shop items and merch. That looks like the sign of a good business and business owner.

[@willerpaulo]

I deeply admire your videos and edits because they go beyond just visuals, they truly feel like a masterpiece of storytelling. The way you combine elements, from the imagery to the pacing and even the smallest details, creates such a harmonious and captivating experience. It’s like every piece you create has its own soul, and it’s so beautifully connected that watching your work becomes not just enjoyable but genuinely inspiring. It’s clear that your art comes from a place of passion and skill, and that’s what makes it stand out.

[@TheWitchOfWonderlust]

This is such a nice compliment on my editing, I seriously appreciate it. I find that good editing draws the viewer in more, while maybe bad editing takes people out of it. So to hear this, just really makes me happy. Thank you for noticing.

[@willerpaulo]

@@TheWitchOfWonderlust Your videos not only shine through the details, but they also bring a sense of freedom that my soul craves. The inspiration I get from your content is immense in my life, and I truly appreciate all the effort and creativity you put into them!

[@chucklemaster9809]

I can't believe I only JUST found this great channel! Good on ya for standing up for what you believe in, and best wishes in your future endeavors at the new studio!

[@TheWitchOfWonderlust]

Welcome aboard!

[@wildandwitchy]

Olvia: what do we do with our grief? Me: we bury it deep down 😂

[@tripleschaeyeon]

hope things turn out for the better for you olivia!! happy new year 🎉🎉

[@TheWitchOfWonderlust]

Thank you🖤

[@stevierysie]

Thank you so much for keeping us up to date. I am working the Snake in the Grass Spell right now. Happy new year.

[@TheWitchOfWonderlust]

I hope it brings you clarity and clears your paths for better ways🖤

[@stevierysie]

@ thank you!

[@LearningToLiveWithM.S.]

Thanks for giving a little tutorial on how to physically wrap a veil. That's been my problem. That's mostly what my practice looks like too, is little day to day thing's. I never thought to enchant my makeup! I just recently got back into wearing it. I'm going to have to give it a try. So great you found 2 studios.💜

[@TC-mb2dl]

I wonder if the owner found out that you were leaving because your values don't align with theirs and that's why they essentially said, "don't come back." I've had former employers essentially block me from conversing with other coworkers as long as I stay on the payroll, I'm fairly certain it's because they don't want me to "poison the pond" as it were, and potentially influence others to leave too. It's hard when bridges get burned.

[@TheWitchOfWonderlust]

Wow, I'm sorry that that happened to you. I mean, when I quit originally, I told the owner why I was leaving, and that it was because my values don't align with theirs. So I'm not sure what made her change her mind the day of, but that's her decision and she was in her rights to make that for herself and her business.

[@TalesOfBalkanMagic]

It's always hard to leave, but that's how you move forward. Good job sticking to your values 😊

[@bm1167]

Thought I recognized that graveyard. I would drive by it when I took back roads to Blackhawk when I was house sitting for a friend a few years ago. Have a happy new year.

[@Feedyourhead369]

I love the community of your new studio. Supporting the outside endeavors of your employees! Awesome! As for needing your alone time.....I live and travel in a van with a man and a dog! Both are so respectful of my time.

[@sineadnicant-sealgar3758]

The new studios. Both look like a great fit. Good for you for standing up for your beliefs! Love the witch and queer supportive environments, too. Have a Great New Year!

[@emilygaynier]

I'm in a similar situation with my job as with you and your former boss. I've cut back on my hours and gotten a second job. I'm hoping 2025 will be the year that I move on from this toxic work space. I'm really sad to be leaving behind coworkers I love, but I need to look out for me

[@Katamaricilla]

I hope 2025 brings you a better situation! You already made the best first steps so I am sure you will succeed!

[@TheWitchOfWonderlust]

Absolutely. You can only grow in good environments.

[@bethysbarn]

You’re such a great example for not only being bothered by whatever their values were that clearly weren’t anything good but also following your moral compass so strongly and stepping away from there asap, you’re such a strong person for that, I really love that about you! 🥰❤️❤️ I think this new place sounds much better and from the get go you’ve got to switch up the class name to fit you better and the values seem more aligned to you (and everyone who isn’t a douchebag really 😂) its cute that you’re able to sell little bits that you make there too, I really hope you’ll be much happier here 🥰❤️❤️❤️ I hope your friends and clients will come here to take your class instead 🥰❤️ love that you allow yourself to grieve about that loss too! So important and we usually forget that it’s ok to mourn the loss of things other than the loss of a person to death! I just adore your videos! Wishing you all the best at your new studio! 🥰❤️❤️❤️😘😘

[@pyenygren2299]

15:37 This flag! Oh dear, _I love_ seeing it. 🥳 🤩 🥰

[@morgonerlenstar]

Beautiful graveyard Blessings for the new year ❤

[@seekerowl3260]

You make Colorado look like such a fun place to visit! I hope the new year treats you better. I definitely understand the grief/loss that comes with ending a teaching gig. Wish you the best, you got this.

[@TheWitchOfWonderlust]

It's beautiful for sure, but keep in mind that it's a super small city, and if it weren't for the mountains, I don't think it would be nearly as trendy as it is at the moment, haha. However, if you do visit, just be sure to bring sunscreen and chapstick and drink a LOT of water so you can fully enjoy your visit!

[@seekerowl3260]

@@TheWitchOfWonderlust If you have some nerdy stuff, some witchy stuff, and at least a place I can eat/make food I'll make it work 😅 But I will for sure keep that in mind! I really want to visit the nature-y stuff, I love Chicago, but if would love to be able to just explore another area, break from routine, and do my silly figure photography.

[@TheWitchOfWonderlust]

@@seekerowl3260yes! I’m planning to make more Denver/Colorado based videos for the time I’m living here! Also can you be more specific about nerdy? I have a lot of friends but on the wide spectrum of nerd so I need niches lol

[@elvia3068]

Eyyy girl the scene's at the graveyard with the snow were so magical and the sunglasses look really nice on you...stay safe 💜🖤

[@monikahthehuman2365]

Random detail i love is the music title in the corner. Why. No idea but i love it!

[@thenerdykrisz]

i was just coming down here to say this!

[@TheWitchOfWonderlust]

People often ask what songs I'm using, so I thought it'd be a fun way to add it. glad you like it~

[@RSkies]

@@TheWitchOfWonderlustthank you for including it! 😊

[@skeeterwhitley9191]

were just gonna ignore Frankie absolutely breaking their neck in the background

[@TheWitchOfWonderlust]

This ain't about them.

[@ChaoticWitchAunt]

I do be moving in weird ways.

[@corriemcclain7960]

Question: Do you think the way things ended with your last studio was due to the Snake in the Grass candle? Is that the kind of event that spell would create? Thanks

[@TheWitchOfWonderlust]

I don't think so, interstingly enough. This ended up coming to the surface Beginning of November, and I usually do my snake in the grass in January/February of each year and see those results play out until about July.

[@angelasweeney3683]

I am sorry your last studio proved why you needed to leave. You deserve more respect. I think Selenite studio sounds like a great new start!

[@RoseGoddess11]

I got into pole because of your videos, and I've enjoyed watching your journey. I hope you find your new path exciting. On a side note, I love the name Hex Appeal. 🖤

[@janettesalisbury4263]

Love the top hat😂 and congrats on finding your new studio home(s)!

[@CherieHeyn-hf2sy]

Here's to New Beginnings 🥂🌄 Wishing you all the best for the New Year. Blessed Be.🌛🌕🌜♓️

[@jaynedavies2757]

have a great new year, and the way you do your vail is like those who worked in the factories in the UK, in ww2. it was a surprise to see it.

[@Hauntedlavender222]

LMAO the chicken with the top hat 🎩 😂😂

[@Ari35485]

12:30 girrrrlllll i love that green! 12:35 THE GLASSSESSSS omggg 😮

[@pleaseuseturnsignals]

THANK YOU, for the book mention and thus recommendation. I had not heard of Hell Bender or the series. So awesome, I have some fantasy to read among the reference books. So good! Happy New Year Lady!

[@lai0801]

I think the friction between you and the owner was due to your snake in the grass candle. And what's also interesting this year is the year of the snake, according to the lunar New Year.

[@TheWitchOfWonderlust]

Possibly, but this all happened early November, and my Snake in the grass candles are done first or second month of the year, and I see results up until July usually. Maybe this one had longer results.

[@asash21]

Not sure about the timing, but you spoke about the candle spell snake in the grass… could this be the result of your spellwork with the owner showing their true face… just a thought!

[@TheWitchOfWonderlust]

Haha you’re certainly not the first to suggest it! It is very possible, and this is exactly what I designed the candle to do. However I usually only do that candle in the new year and this began beginning of November so I’m not sure I’d give credit to a spell I did a year prior, but hey if so good for me!

[@feralmeditations8520]

The Selenite Studio reminds me a lot of Head over Heels in Longview Texas.

[@xcgbfdsc]

New year means time for some new witchy merch! ❤ please and thank you

[@SunshineDawn7]

I am sorry you had to leave a job you liked but good for you for standing up for what you believe in. The new studio looks really Great! I hope you like it there even more! I would love to see your everyday mundane Magic or whatever you like to post😊Hoping you have the very Best Year Ever! ❤❤

[@monicabooth2812]

Your leaving the one pole studio and finding another that hopefully is a much better fit reminds me of the Death card. Change is hard and it can really hurt, but it can also lead to something so much better than you were expecting. I hope this move to the new studio proves to be that for you. How are you liking Hell Bent? I discovered Leigh Bardugo this year and I think Ninth House and Hell Bent are my favourite books of 2024.

[@TheWitchOfWonderlust]

I know Death well, but it doesn't mean its easy haha. Thank you so much. I'm enjoying Hellbent a lot, I liked Ninth House a lot too, the first book in the series.

[@kylaallen822]

Taking Grief to the graveyard! What a wonderful philosophy!

[@WitchyNectar]

Hey, grieve that studio and the people and spaces you put a lot of love and effort into. It makes sense to me to leave somewhere you don’t align with. Also, “step Frankie” floored me. I so very much love and appreciate you and these videos. I’m just watching while my youngest son and I color.

[@TheRed-HeadedStrangeGirl]

Beautiful friend, I am so sorry for your hurt. I am going through my own personal hell this week too❤sending you love and light ❤️🫶🌻The new studio is beautiful ❤️🫶🌻🍄

[@teevell1069]

I thankfully am able to live alone right now, but the apartment walls aren't the thickest. I do sometimes wonder what my upstairs neighbor thinks I'm doing when I'm being witchy. I'm depending on them having headphones in 24/7 like most people seem to these days. But I do think that witchcraft feels so personal at times, that it can be a weird feeling to practice knowing there's someone on the other side of the door eating breakfast or whatever.

[@indigosnow_]

learned a new word from reading the comments. mesmeric. Feels very apt

[@unseencerberus]

You and your vids inspire me so much!! Keep being awesome dude

[@tias78]

I hate physically veiling just because I feel suffocated with things on my head or around my neck but those look beautiful and wonderful quality Frankie! And Olivia you look beautiful with them! I love the variety in style and color

[@TheWitchOfWonderlust]

I usually go with a hat or beanies, if I don't go for my full bandanna.I totally understand feeling kinda smooshed lol

[@DestinyGodden]

Bummer about having to leave the other studio but sometimes the universe has other plans for you. It seems like the new offers landed in your lap and are a better fit.

[@Wooltiti]

The small mundane macig is the most interesting.

[@Raowolf]

I love Hard Candy Dance Studios! I take one of my Kpop classes there. It is a good little community and I am glad you found places that more align with you and your values.

[@TheWitchOfWonderlust]

Me too! Hard Candy is such a great studio, hopefully I'll see you around Hard Candy!

[@michellegraham2736]

Love the jacket/sweater you are wearing in the graveyard. Where did you get it?

[@TheWitchOfWonderlust]

I made it! I have a video about the process, it’s called “The Offering” crochet cardigan on my channel

[@jadedjhypsi]

This new studio are starting out looks amazing. I would definitely take classes from you If I lived near 💕

[@TheWitchOfWonderlust]

If you ever visit come by!

[@jadedjhypsi]

@@TheWitchOfWonderlust For sure. Am supposed to visit family in the new year but not so sure I wanna´ tread the states right now...

[@TheWitchOfWonderlust]

@@jadedjhypsithat is completely understandable and highly recommended to avoid rn 😅

[@dannimoon3240]

I so love you and your life...thanks for sharing ♥️

[@jennyg.225]

I wish, just one day in your shoes! You are so beautiful, blessed and very talented. Happy new year and keep posting bc u make my life happier💜✨

[@TheWitchOfWonderlust]

This is so sweet thank you. I am indeed very blessed with the opportunities and people I have in my life. I wish you all the same and joy in your life!

[@angelablanco6671]

Love your weekly vlogs so much! 💌

[@PleochroicRainfall]

also, Frankie has mastered the Art of the Veil

[@lilsheba1]

Ok florida water I have but what it is in your divination spray?

[@ToniaOlivera13]

Happy New Year 🔮🧿🪬

[@lawrenberghanson4401]

Sorry to hear about your previous employment; it's so awesome that you found other places to work. Oh, I just learned about a book you may like called The Butterfly Garden. It's a murder mystery novel with a garden aspect. So, if you like murder mysteries and gardening, you may like it. I am not into murder mysteries, but I figured you might be interested.

[@JasonW-mentalHealth]

Hey strange question but do you any chants to bring in money Reason: im filing for emancipation in September and i need money

[@conjure_mama]

happy new year hun 🥰

[@alex-jq4gu]

I love the new studio 🎉

[@wendychorn974]

Congratulations on your next level up... you are surely worth it. 🎉🎉❤🖤🖤

[@josephsage3524]

Hi 👋 i could seriously listen to you talk about anything, your voice is 🔥

[@TheWitchOfWonderlust]

I appreciate it, I feel I chat too much about nothing in these lol

[@josephsage3524]

@@TheWitchOfWonderlust it isn't possible for you to chat to much, I love it 😘

[@PleochroicRainfall]

dang, your vids always go hard

[@WisdomClarity]

Love your art

[@dwynn57]

❤

[@jayachakraborty5753]

Why do I like you? Do we have any frequencies that are matching?

[@pattiekhalil6336]

Hey there Olivia! how are you doing today my friend?❤😊

[@junkinsally2024]

What happened to your cat?

[@TheWitchOfWonderlust]

Nothing, he still exists.

[@lilsheba1]

I'm really glad you are able to stand by your beliefs and quit. I would do the same thing. I can guess what their stances are and I wouldn't put up with that either.

[@JustAGuyWithAPenAndMotivation]

Is this real? Like actually all of this, even the comments feel like a fever dream😢

[@River-xd5gu]

Amazing video aaa!! Also would anyone have some good witchy book recommendations?? (Preferably shipping to EU)❤

[@zakwanshah7442]

she's maga isnt she? the owner. lol

[@ShilenNyx]

Holy Shiii. You had a fight with Jenna? Nooo. Is the relationship irreparable? I vote for friendship, put the differences aside. If it’s about some political shit especially. Rockets fly over ppl’s heads on this earth while we’re shaking a$$ in a safe and beautiful place. It’s a privilege to be together and explore the arts. Think about it please.

[@TheWitchOfWonderlust]

No. Politics is no longer about taxes and the price of gas. It is not a safe space when the owner and other instructors support organizations and movements that work directly against the clientele of minorities that attend the space. I will not agree to disagree and your comment reeks with privilege.

[@ShilenNyx]

@@TheWitchOfWonderlust Having a freedom to be a raging clueless 1st world leftist, discard places and people on a whim and then throw the word privilege at actual minorities and sw is a privilege. K, miss American girl? Learn to compromise. It's a thing in the real world. You'd know that if you actually ever had to choose bw succing d and facing homelessness. Life isn't black and white. Compromise. Patience. Dialogue. Represent. Vote friendship.

[@TheWitchOfWonderlust]

@@ShilenNyxbig assumptions about someone you only know cherry picked information about from the internet. You definitely seem like the super accepting and friendly type.

[@ShilenNyx]

@ If she didn’t personally wrong you, it’s a mistake. Beautiful studios where everyone is welcome don’t grow on trees. I personally want to dance and share space with everyone, a bored housewife, a yuppie hobbyist, a drag queen, or a colfax hoe and even politically unaligned owner. Live and let live. But it’s your life, pumpkin. Stay qunty.

[@TheWitchOfWonderlust]

@@ShilenNyx Huh. From what I’ve heard is you left teaching at Selenite due to political reasons. Whether that’s true or not, I’m glad you can agree to disagree, Sondra.

[@Aubreonnanodars]

Hello I'm the witch of shadows first witch of shadows ever and I love anime and your channel am a bog weed and introvert but I do spells 24\7 on weekends I'm in school and I'm 11 and a gemini I now you mite not see this ...but at least I tried I do spells a 3:00am and that's when I'm at most power I get bullied a lot but when I was younger I would run to the shadows and everyone feared the dark so I was protected my chance is so old and cring please don't look :x bye-bye!!!😋😊😁😝😜😛🙌 good luck with your witch journey😢😭 sencerly~Luna

[@linwong1494]

Sorry to hear about Rockstar. I remember you being with them for a long time and really loving it in your older vlogs years ago, but it does seem like a New Year-sy spiritual restart for you to end working at a place you can’t fully support while opening new doors to other studios that hopefully do. 2024 seemed to have been kicking everyone’s ass, so here’s to hoping for a better and more fruitful New Year. ps: I like how you mention "if you don’t immediately love it, you’re not gonna wear it” YESSSS such an important thing to remember in a world that’s becoming rampantly consumerist everywhere but especially here in HK. While I’d love for Frankie to sell all their wares and get that bag sooner, it’s better that they go to people who will use them and appreciate them as opposed to being left in the closet.