Events from the moment I said I do| I've Been Through the Most| SophiaTshabalala

centTWINZ Innocent Sadiki and Millicent Mashile are the producers of their second online show 'I have been through the most'. It's a documentary series that profiles victims who have been through the most in their life's and are now sharing it with the rest of the world to encourage and to hopeful inspire for the better.
This week on the show, we profile centTWINZ Innocent Sadiki and Millicent Mashile are the producers of their second online show 'I have been through the most'. It's a documentary series that profiles victims who have been through the most in their life's and are now sharing it with the rest of the world to encourage and to hopeful inspire for the better.
This week on the show, we profile SophiaTshabalala.
Follow: @ivebeenthroughthemost on instagram and facebook I've Been through the most who has had endless life challenges.

[@Gynaa]

i learnt something here on suicide:"when you die you don't go with your pain but you transfer it to the next person" i felt this statement

[@dineomotloung8431]

I felt it too😰😭😭😭😥😥😭

[@centtwinz]

Very deep statement!

[@Poshkin24]

I felt it too💔

[@masegomoruakgomo9033]

Such a powerful statement!!

[@eutriciamkateko7406]

Eix 💔💔💔💔

[@annahboshielo]

My mom always said "Your partners friends are NOT your friends" Friends and family are only loyal to their person.

[@sinethembamzolo163]

So wish that was the case, i have a colleague (male colleague) who is being abuse by his fiancé together with his mom and his sisters,his family gang against him with this so called fiancé

[@monicaolwagen9426]

True friends and family are only loyal to their person: when I divorced my husband my family and friends deserted him . I felt the pain. I did not think that will happen. Unfortunately he died 11 months after the divorce. Me and our daughters buried him. They were all there at the funeral for me . Not for him. Only realised now that I still need to heal from that specific pain.

[@Blackberries729]

I have learned that not everyone in Church who claims to be a Christian is really a Christian.(discernment is a key)

[@SuzetteKhiba]

This is so true hey💯

[@TheOlgad]

Very true. I have a bad experience from a church guy

[@mbalenhlezulu8075]

Most of the so called "church guys" are evil. I'm over 30 years old, I was raped several times as child even by the most trusted community members, I couldn't say anything about it for the sake of my life and I didn't want to be blamed for anything. I lived in fear through out my whole life seing the people who raped me roaming the streets and addressing the community and even church. I've never had a good relationship when it comes to men. I tried but I was being abused emotionally,physically and sexually. I don't even have feelings anymore. I cry myself to sleep every single day. For the sake of having a companion to build a family I've always wanted I try to date by it keeps falling apart from bad to worse due to my fears and low libido,I'm accused of being a cheater always,yet it's the other way round. I'd love to have a family someday but I'm afraid I won't be a good wife/patner and good mother to my kids. I am shattered into pieces and I feel so worthless. I don't want to kill myself I just wish I could fall intoa deep sleep and never wake up.

[@sanchezfaust5983]

I learned this the hard way

[@nomsantsoane3984]

That man was a devil worshiper.

[@blackwoman_015]

“I just wanted the pain to stop even if it’s just for a second” I felt that😢💔

[@muofhenethomboni5328]

I felt that too

[@tellyourstorywithlorraine8629]

😭😭😭

[@Tradesiasports]

You are the same age as my daughter, I love you so much as if you my own child, Thank you for making this video, you are going to save many womens lives, This situation is not about race nor Religion, I am 50 years old and listening to you I have seen and heard many things, please remember this.. You are so beautiful and God has a mission for you, if God did not write out the hardship u went through would u have made this video that is going to help other, if you did not go through this pain would u be able to help and heal others. God does not put u through anything without a reason and he does not put u through anything without believing that u can handle it, when u accept his wrath, Trust me years from now u going to Thank him as it will only take u to greater places... Last note.. For a 22 year old, you definitely were born with an old soul that is brought back to heal people, All the best my Child.

[@masasanievechavalala7933]

The most beautiful comment. God bless your heart.❤️✨

[@SecondChanceswithSophiaV]

Thank you for the opportunity to share my life. Normalize talking about depression and actually healing from it. How you die matters, suicide is never the answer. 🌻

[@evezazzle5974]

Thank you for sharing your experience with us dear Sister. May you experience love, laughter, peace, security and joy in abundance ❤️🙏👑✨

[@Gynaa]

you are strong😍

[@pililanikachala6281]

what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. You are brave, strong, a wonderfully and fearfully made woman. may God continue to give you strength.

[@no_prisoners1]

Marriage success Tips eh bahn

[@no_prisoners1]

God bless ❤️

[@BlackRose-rk7zs]

What an articulate story teller and such a beautiful woman. Thank you for sharing your story. 🌺

[@MuhaliStartingOver]

If something doesnt give you peace, its a sign from God to run. Im glad you are in a better place dear.

[@Zyl.ghy.678]

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[@anymoreshindi7386]

@@Zyl.ghy.678 0]0

[@LeratoWomanOfFaith]

True, the peace of God always guides us

[@zintleayanda63]

👌

[@jarjar5497]

@@Zyl.ghy.678 jokingly km

[@millymashile]

I always have something to say. But this left me speechless. I'm so sorry for what you went through Sophia.

[@SuzetteKhiba]

I feel the same way too.. Ah but Jesus is Lord😭🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@fungaimabuda3377]

Ah! is all I can say

[@johanneskapeuasha9498]

As i listen more and more i realise that, sometimes we think we are ready for something when in actual fact we are not. Your story is indeed powerful lesson to other

[@SylvieSij]

Not everyone who calls upon the name of the Lord will enter the Kingdom of God. Eish! How can a church person mix with sangomas. I am not married nor have children but every day I pray for my children. I pray that my future inlaws will respect & love me. I always speak peace between us. Even though I don't know them yet....my fear has always been leaving the family i have known all my life into a new family just to be mistreated. Her story reminds me of Righteous who shared her story here of her marriage of 5 months & how her church husband mistreated her. The church is housing wolves. Thank you for sharing

[@mahlatsemkhabela3662]

Thank you so much for sharing your story, I’m in the same situation with my in-laws and I have gathered the strength that is possible to leave sending you light and love❤️

[@maidanaiej4064]

Very true I share the same sentiments that church is housing wolves in the name of men

[@sarahmaluleke9841]

Your story has healed me because what you went through is what I'm going through.

[@SecondChanceswithSophiaV]

Sarah Maluleke i pray that your story has a happy ending. Sending you love and light 🌻

[@ritobaloyi8934]

Praying you come out victorious.

[@minenhlemamngomazamisa2075]

Same here, im still treating the depression and it is not easy but i always count my blessings

[@lady_sits]

@@minenhlemamngomazamisa2075 May God be your comfort.

[@LethoHali]

Haven’t watched yet but I have a feeling I will feel like you. Just pressed play.

[@LeratoWomanOfFaith]

That man failed at the most important part of marriage, loving and protecting his wife. I'm so sorry that you went through all this. Thank God for saving you

[@queenbndobe7309]

💔💔 Dear Man Cooking and cleaning is a basic life skill NOT a gender role!!

[@lindamwundra2910]

Damn. This is deep. Every woman should watch this!

[@sibongilesibanda624]

In life never disconnect yourself from biological parents: NO MATTER what.They are your shoulder to lean on

[@cheejokonya8403]

Brilliant

[@asterialucas4680]

So true

[@gomolemobokabam4456]

100%

[@MoniqueJackson-t8t]

You can only do that if you’re parents wants and love you

[@vallerybaloyi8198]

This reminds me of righteous tshawane story, may you find healing vutomi

[@preciousramalwa4496]

This reminded me of my journey, after he had paid my lobola, I moved in with him and the worst happened a month before our wedding.. I found out that he was actually bisexual and by the time I was preg...depression is real and I'm glad that she survived

[@bridgetjones6819]

precious ramalwa So sorry sisi❤️❤️❤️

[@SuzetteKhiba]

Eish askies mylove 😭🙏🏽

[@nombinintlahla8325]

So sorry my dear❤

[@lw8zi]

Divine intervention, God really kept you from driving off the bridge. I hope you continue healing from the trauma. 🌸

[@millynkonyane61]

thank you for sharing your story, be blessed and may God strengthen you more

[@thefixwithrighteous4031]

I admire your strength sis💔💔you were young to expirience all of this. My prayer is that, may we learn from your experience, I am born with 3 galz and 1 brother my prayer is that I treat my sister in love like one of us. The things we go through in people's homes ayi... Continue healing others through your testimony 🤗🤗🤗

[@mpumesibiya8899]

23 dislikes are from the devil husband and his cruel family.

[@beckynakachwa7195]

Ohh God!! Heal her completely.. She went through the most most most... You are a strong lady baby girl.

[@swazi4769]

Thank God for your healing my sister. You are too courageous and May you raise you little one in the fear of God. We can only change our future. Let go of the hurt and may God bless you with all your hearts desires.

[@lifewithlisa4925]

I don't understand why someone would marry you just to hurt you.... I hope you find strength and happiness 🙌

[@mlanduliandiswa5083]

Oh my word What on earth is wrong with some people. Seriously! Imagine now she is linked forever with this crazy person because there is a child. Yoh thanks for sharing💔

[@lifewithceecee9035]

The dislikes on the video are from his family 🙄

[@zolamakaula6228]

🤣🤣 I agree

[@Peace-wm7vc]

💯 agree! You are spot on

[@delphathoko6646]

🤣🤣true

[@onlinecasinotopslothunter5052]

Bar 1

[@lady_sits]

Vele, nxc!

[@othandwayomahlangu1591]

Women lose themselves to marriage and refuse going out when all the warning bells are ringing. We are so scared of being labeled as failures that we would rather sacrifice even our beliefs just to make things work. When in truth, a man leaves his mother and father to be with his wife, you go on to start your own life of were you walk your own path. Problem starts when your husband starts sidelining you, you will be seen less as his wife and more of his doormat and maid. We bless the Lord that you were able to get out with your life intact. Love and grace to you❤️

[@kgomotsokeasitse7798]

I always say MARRIAGE IS NOT A PASSPORT TO HEAVEN...

[@bettykhuboni8758]

100000% on point!!!!

[@HisPresence326]

When you are in a relationship u don't see those ringing bells no matter how loud they are.... It's easier to judge when you are not in the situation

[@othandwayomahlangu1591]

@@HisPresence326 my dear did you truly listen to what she said in the beginning, this man had given her an altimatum to marry him. 2. she went on to tell us about the fighting between the 2 families after the wedding being another sign. 3. She feeling obligated to leave with them even though in her heart she knew that is not what she wanted.. I can go on about when she reached her inlaws home on how they were ill treating her from the word go. When you are a true believer the Holy Spirit will never fail in warning you what is ahead. She decided to put her beliefs on the shelf to make the marriage work(Big Mistake).

[@puseletso98]

I am so sad...

[@milaniinalim3357]

The things we go thru in the name of ‘love’ ah ah! 💔

[@nothandodlamini3192]

As sad as it she articulates her story so well. May God reward her pain with every good thing she desires 😘

[@onephiko5669]

Amen

[@tintswalomukansi6378]

I pray that from now going forward u rila mihloti ya ntsako (you will only cry happy tears) in Jesus name 👐

[@jedidiahgodsbeloved6605]

Amen

[@TitBit.]

I felt the "all this time I was praying for me" baby, God has pulled though for you. Thank you for changing lives with your testimony. God bless you.

[@Ndaps1]

She endured so much shame but the Lord is faithful, am glad you escaped such life.

[@abigailrethabileramocheki2479]

You are a beautiful strong woman Vee... May the heavenly Father continue to protect you.

[@SoulDeepZim]

Keep healing, sis. You are loved. God bless you. ❤️

[@LethoHali]

Crying so much! Big hugs sis! And so happy you never got to drive through that bridge!

[@Ladynilow]

“I remember that day like it was yesterday, because it was the last day I was happy” yerrr

[@kellylerry2068]

Very powerful testimony ..said very eloquently .May God restore all joy in your life.

[@tebogomasipa5349]

You are an inspiration Sis. I wish all the women who are in an abusive relationship can see watch this. God loves you.

[@chel-c1904]

Your story touched me girl..... never cried so bad in quite a long time. God will surely bless u with a man u deserve, one who'll love and appreciate the kind and loyal woman u are. Some day u'll look back and see just how going through that was worth it. U've been perfected and made stronger. Nothing will ever press u down. And I believe your faith and trust in the Lord have grown more than ever, now that u see how much He loves u enough to get rid of that which wasn't good for u. God just wants u closer to Him so it's great u let those who believe otherwise, be. I'd like to share with u these 2 scriptures I love the most: Psalm 119:71 and 2 Corinthians 12:9-10 U deserve the best and that's what God shall give u....mark my words!!!

[@nellahm]

Everytime I listen to Vutomi's story, it feels like it's the first time. I am glad that God gave you the strength to overcome it all. God's mercy rewrote your life 🙏

[@MsTrashie]

Thank God for restoration 🙌

[@kudzaimari]

Let not "but I invested years in this relationship" be a reason to stay with someone who isn't treating you right ....if it's not well with your soul leave !

[@masanarikhotso5780]

You are strong, you are worth it,you are beautiful. Thanks for sharing your journey with us... Xikwembu xita tshama xiku rhandza sesi🤗

[@boitumelotshwenyego6922]

You fought, and your partner never did. For everything count it all joy for the sake of Christ. God Almighty is faithful. He will elevate you. Stay in him that he dwells in you. He has already made a way. You story will touch and change lives even in years to come. Be blessed.

[@nonoechibs2775]

Thank yu for sharing this, its high time women must stop being overlooked by men or in laws n make decisions on our own nt being manipulated by patriarchal society, this is heartbreaking but God says l will never leave u nor forsake yu

[@yebosuwa]

Nkos yam.. I pray you find healing sisi. Some of these things happen to teach us lessons. You did all you could! He didn’t deserve you, nor did his family.

[@zolamakaula6228]

There is no amount of years that justifies staying for such behavior. Leave. It goes for both genders. If the relationship didn’t serve you anymore. Go!

[@masegomoruakgomo9033]

The number of iyoos I said watching this video, in complete disbelief. But sisi when you said you called your mother to cut ties, I had to rewind and listen again thinking I must have misheard. Waitse this love and marriage will have us ladies doing the most, things we’d swear we’d never do. I hope you heal from this and that the Lord restores your heart ❤️

[@SecondChanceswithSophiaV]

God heals and God restores. I am in a better space now, i don't have my old self back. Hell i don't want the old me back but i have definitely unleashed the best version of myself. Lol i don't blame you for your reactions, i have them too every now and then. Ke flopile, but ooh well. we learn

[@masegomoruakgomo9033]

@@SecondChanceswithSophiaV I’m glad to know you’ve healed and are the best version of you. May God continue to level you up be all you were meant to be. Thank you for sharing your story, other sisters will learn from it and be encouraged. Blessings ❤️

[@khomotsosedibe1224]

The strength that this woman possesses 🙌🙌🙌😭 Good Lord please bless her soul, grant her peace, prosperity and long life. GIRL YOU ARE STRONG!!!!! YOU ARE MAGIC 🙏 Xikwembu xiku katekisa❤️

[@adelaidemakhuvele8911]

You are so strong, and you still have a bright future ahead of you.. Love your kid and love yourself more...rather be called a returned soldier than to come home a corpes.

[@ntokotoPM]

Powerful statement

[@patricialelele1873]

Yohh sis I am so sorry for all you went through. Thank you for sharing your experiences. May God restore all the years that were eaten by locusts

[@carolinehawanga]

Oh Sophia, I cried so much listening to your story. God will give you beauty for ashes and he will vindicate you. I love you lady. May God bless you.

[@choleniaevidence8321]

Heartbreaking🥺.you are really strong sis and powerful

[@inspiredinlife1]

Thank you for sharing. You were so young to be in a tight relationship. You didn't know the man and family, and been so immature to start off, and you were so genuine. The pain can be unbearable. I was in a bad situation like this, the family were controlling. It's hard to come out, but thank God for healing and moving on. For me, I learned the feebleness of man. Watch out for the cruelty of man. Love my independence and the Lord is the Father in my house.

[@joymajani8047]

Your story is powerful, I felt it deep. You have truely been through the most. I am happy you found healing, and accepted to be loved as you deserve. You are strong.

[@queenqueeny9524]

Yooo sorry love 😭😭😭😭

[@penelopemabunda3972]

Just came across this and oh my word my tears can't stop pouring. I know you from a distance but I felt your pain as if it were me experiencing it. May God give you the strength to heal. He did not deserve you at all. You are beautiful and deserve more than what they put you through ❤

[@mpumesibiya8899]

Ay mina this simply means I’m crazzzy. No one would do that shit to me!! Ever! Futhi nje I think I need to forget about marriage coz I’m very protective of myself no one would ever abuse me and get away with it, I’d defend myself at all cost.

[@lungahm7399]

One hundred percent sisi!

[@nomsantsoane3984]

My dear life is unpredictable. Just ask God and pray you don't get into such a situation

[@bakangsento]

Let's love ourselves enough to get out of this shit fast, why let a demon destroy you? She had met a church going demon

[@nomsantsoane3984]

@@bakangsento Girl it is not about not loving yourself. We were brought up in different backgrounds. Mina my mom was so loving that I never knew that people out there could be extremely evil. I used to think everyone has tiny of kindness in them. But no the world doesn't work like that some people carry evilness in them. One advice I always give everyone is CHOOSE LIFE IN EVERY SITUATION. CHOOSE YOUR LIFE

[@rearabetswemositsa5509]

Same yoh any little disrespect and I’d go back to my parents house same time

[@ofentsetswai9694]

Seeing how my mother was treated by in-laws and seeing what people go through in marriage in my adulthood. I wonder if marriage is still worth it.

[@cheejokonya8403]

If she can let him and his people disrespect her mum, of cause the are incapable of respecting her.

[@ourlight1852]

Marriage scares me to death... Im sure God sees that coz I've been single for 9 years and shame ndi grand!

[@nataliaandreas6466]

Thank you for sharing your story . I'm glad God healed you . Listening to your story taught me a big lesson , that in life self love is very important . That we should not let ourselves suffer just because we want to make other people happy (society /inlaws) ,. As this will break us up emotionally and physically . I am one of the people in the world that find it hard to open up especially with problems to my loved ones for help . Thank you once again . May God continue guiding you and may he bless you abundantly . Much love

[@leratoblos6728]

Your articulation is spot on. I can listen to you the whole day

[@SecondChanceswithSophiaV]

Thank you

[@tshidi129]

She really does speak beautifully

[@mmakgetlaneng325]

You are BEAUTIFUL.......what a WOMAN.........I admire your strength .WOW....I learnt so much from your story...May God use you to lift other women.....You have overcame...You are victorious...much love and respect for you beautiful woman of God...I take my hat off for you................

[@focustime-cp7vd]

What a beautiful and strong lady you are.... what a touching narration. GOD Almighty knows exactly how to heal us

[@AMINAH5916]

I cant stop crying, am glad u were finally healed

[@mphohappiness1736]

I never understand the concept of marrying someone just to mistreat them. Ukukhohlakala. His karma is is waiting

[@alcinachipeiotv]

❤❤❤❤ God continue to strengthen you, beautiful woman of God.

[@charityrwabutomize4246]

Ooooo my days. Shalom to you and your son dearest girl.

[@zikhonanana291]

😭😭😭💔💔💔👏👏👏 I want to get married, but this makes lose hope😭😭😭 But I trust God

[@Psaume23-5]

Mariage is beautiful if you meet the right person. Pray God to send the right person on your way..love yourself first...

[@nomsantsoane3984]

Mina i don't want any marriage. That thing is dangerous and trauma galore. I'm planning to adopt children or become a single mother by choice through ivf. No boyfriend, no fiance no husband

[@Khulismonica]

I am getting married and so excited. Honor God and let him be the foundation. Sleeping together before marriage is a no no.

[@faithramotlhale8761]

I can relate very well with your story. God does not leave nor forsake His elects.

[@Nwa_Ezekiel]

You such a strong woman. May God continue to work through your life 😭

[@asandamlanduli2094]

Wow. This is so painful. Men must stop hiding in churches and pretending to be walking with God. Women please know what is God's love and understand what is the love of God. Women go back home if there is no love. Thank you for sharing. We have learned a lot. You are so so brave

[@tweety07534]

So sorry you had to go hrough so much pain in a young age. Why do we women have to suffer in the hands of inlaws this is not fair xem my God continue giving you strength and new hope in life amen to that💯❤

[@faithramotlhale8761]

Signs of an abusive relationship its to separate you from your own family and friends.

[@masegomoruakgomo9033]

This is testament to the fact that as we pray and hope for a great spouse we should also pray that they are from a respectful, loving family, not this type of family. Eish!

[@ndinaelaomoses1704]

Oh, God. I am so sorry sis. May God bless you and give you more strength. I am glad you've eventually healed ❤️💪

[@fikilerikhotso7619]

Ses Vutomi thank you for sharing your story, you're an amazing strong woman! I love you 💗

[@sue-andragaraba886]

I'm so glad you're in a better place/space....

[@singer.c.619]

Your story is so sad it can make me really cry but i've learnt from it...Just because you grow up with a sweetheart doesn't mean your meant for each other...asking God in decision making is key and please Christians, let's stop compromising doing cohabiting coz it binds your decision making

[@ritobaloyi8934]

I'm sorry you had to go through the fire. But we thank God for the healing sesi vutomi.

[@samzehelephant9578]

I feel that there was a motive behind waiting for this 9 years and becoming an animal over twinkle of an eye. Guys what happened. #intears We thank God you came out alive sis. May God continue to bless you with your baby boy.

[@siziwerikhotso2585]

Tjhooo , even though you have a very big heart of staying in the marriage that they didn't respect you, thank God you have a job , mother and God that still there, i really salutes you. Your story touched me 😢😢

[@amandashez1296]

I cried😭😭😭may God heal you hun ❤️❤️❤️

[@ronellecandice1536]

Guys this story is soooo hectic man, what a strong woman❤️❤️❤️.

[@luzzetpetjathomas243]

Vutomi we thank the Lord for your healing and restoration,God is God of mercy and love,I believe your ex husband and his family are witches and wizards,and you were spiritually strong to them, that is why they call you a witch because God did not allow them to harm you,be thankful for God's protection,and you are still going to live long to witness God's power,you are a living testimony,God bless you and protect you.

[@owinojesse-bobogembo9602]

I love you... 😢😢😢and ive said this with tears in my eyes...

[@soniatumusiime6835]

You are a great story teller .Thanks for telling your story.God bless you.Cyber hugs from Uganda.

[@aggie47]

Wow... I smiled seeing your comment.. I'm Ugandan too😍

[@soniatumusiime6835]

@@aggie47 😍😍

[@masegothebe3351]

u made it...uve won..uve won ur life back...ur a hero...ur a victor...u made it and got out alive...live...live for u...live for ur son...live because God gave u life..no person did...God is the owner of ur life..and he alone will decide ur fate

[@tsholofelomonare9877]

Marrying young is complex hle. You'd think marrying someone from church(man of God) you hit a jackpot! My love I'm happy you got your strength back, this world is cruel. You choose you. That's a big deal! 💓💓💓

[@fallympipi7077]

Thank God you are alive. Pretty lady.

[@chaks4466]

You have been through the most my sister 😢

[@RadBunny2269]

💔. God still loves you like nothing else no matter how you’ve been treated.

[@sherondhlamini8713]

Hayi Vutomi, leave that man sis. You still young and beautiful don't let that man to destroy you. I just wished I could meet you sesi Shu no marn you went through a lot hle.

[@pamphuthane1860]

Big ups to you Girl!! God is good ALL THE TIME.

[@musaaphane1258]

Bravery!!! You are a wonderful person and I commend you for leaving him and his family. Women shouldn't endure such to prove that you can have successful marriages. Happiness and peace should come first.

[@Maria-ib4js]

Thank you for sharing, you are saving people with your story.

[@evettemm6761]

I cannot stop crying, this is the saddest thing I have ever heard

[@emazhawu4370]

I'm so sorry love. No one has to go through such pain. Some families are evil sies😡.

[@samkelisiwexolo3637]

Aii Mntaka Ma😭😭😭. INkosi impela sidlula ezintweni ezinzima kodwa njalo siyanqoba. We thank God for your life Sis🥰🥰🥰.

[@khensanilindiwemhlari9303]

This is really painful …I attempted suicide more than once but refused to take me in …his relative used to give me false hope but he kept lying and blaming me of all that he put me thru Now that God sent another man to comfort me ,to remind me thats his plans are better & bigger than mine He has came back to try & remind me of our good times Pity for him my psychologist has prepared me for all of this and till today I choose the man God sent to save me

[@kgomotsokeasitse7798]

You don't need a man to be complete... Please start to love yourself because the very same man you feel God send to comfort you may turn against you tomorrow.

[@Mantoa_R91]

Kgomotso keasitse eish human beings you cannot rely on your so right let’s put our faith in God and God along

[@nomsantsoane3984]

@@kgomotsokeasitse7798 yerr Preach Kgomotso. I don't think God sends men to complete us or heal us. GOD Heals us himself. No human being has the power to heal another human being. I also think that men he think was send by God is the enemy. I pray she leaves the relationship and heals first.

[@MissK_Tjimune]

@@nomsantsoane3984 I think that God uses people to heal us. There are some broken pieces that we can see and bring before God and God heals them but He also uses people to reveal more broken pieces and the love (which is from God) that people pour into our lives is very much able to heal us. It is important to feel complete on your own and be secure in God first though. And then, when you feel led by God to do so, we can let other people into our lives like this woman has and God uses every Godly relationship in our lives to minister to us, sanctify us (by showing us our flaws and leading us to repentance) and also heal us.

[@nomsantsoane3984]

@@MissK_Tjimune reasons why marriage don't work this days is because people are looking for human beings to complete them while it is only God who can do that

[@mamoseturumane2813]

Jo.. I feel for you just thank God and count your blessings you came out alive, as for in-laws im lost for words, stay strong.