Incel’s New Favorite Dating Coach

[@agatao3793]

she was like "I'm not politically correct", yeah we know hun, you're not correct in any way.

[@mollyallen2400]

I found the winner!!

[@marcuswalters8093]

The opposite of a correct answer is a wrong one.

[@annikala]

Truly, “politically” isn’t even in the top 10 on the list of ways she’s incorrect

[@3ortune]

@Moonlight no

[@maryamdiao1509]

She just likes to pander to authoritarian men and bitter incels

[@howimetfries7489]

I love how she said “women are growing up in a different age, we’re there’s a feminist movement” like feminism just came about

[@stupidass69420]

i just got the feminism galaxy S13 😤😤😍😍

[@Chuck_EL]

​​​@@stupidass69420 just like the they act like social media is a Boogeyman they all do it... Its like the alt right's approach to social media I think it's because social media has exposed con artists like Anna and the other incel/Mgtow/ manosphere and alt right channels for only doing this for money or being exposed as hypocrites Americans have a weird obsession with empty vague concepts of having a "villain" to blame for all the ills of the world and having a lone savior look at how much they worship Kevin Samuels and Donald Trump as saviors and treat feminism, sjws or Alexandria Cortez as the villain in reality there's always many reasons for the way things are in life good or bad

[@ashv9565]

Yup. Suffragettes weren't feminists or anything. Just bored housewives.

[@seethreepio]

feminism is a new, WOKE ideology, like the belief that the clitoris exists and that idaho is a real state

[@egg4666]

@@stupidass69420 damn how good is it? Thinking about upgrading from my old Wave 2 pro max lol

[@Punk__pixie]

[edit] trans now old comment doesn’t apply Have a joke instead Two windmills are standing on a wind farm. One asks, “What’s your favorite type of music?” The other says, “I’m a big metal fan.”

[@verjiggawich]

This changes my whole perspective tbh

[@KingOfGaymes]

Wha

[@nelson_smith]

As another gay dude I can confirm this is every gay man's life goal

[@thatoneperson3990]

As a Pansexual person I’m here too say that I applied her advice too all my dates, I am currently in jail.HELP.

[@mikael4839]

as an aroace guy i agree

[@BirthquakeRecords]

Imagine blaming single motherhood on women.

[@RyanPancakes]

Silly me, I always forget humans reproduce asexually

[@espeon871]

Then shame people who abort, i swear conservatives will blame the woman and never the man

[@arcane1282]

lmfao fr even tho they’re the only parent who stayed

[@pavlovsdogman]

I believe the term is "Auntie Pam"? I might be wrong though?

[@kassassin_brahgawk]

Ope, single mom here to tell you, that's exactly how society treats us. If I bring up my kids dad turned into a full blown junky after I got pregnant, I get blamed for his actions. If I bring up the fact my kids dad's don't pay child support consistently, the court literally tells me to not rely on them for what they're legally responsible for, and im not talking hundreds of dollars. I'm talking $150 every two weeks. It's absurd.

[@user-vc9mv8jw8d]

I hope she knows the reason why she's even able to wear that red lipstick is because of feminism.

[@illiatiia]

Gross 🤢 Creepy comment.

[@lutchien]

@@illiatiia why is it gross? A two minute google search reminded me about how suffragettes handed out red lipstick to white women as a symbol of female empowerment. I think it's a valid point.

[@alh7197]

Completely true. And the fact that she’s able to wear pants instead of long ass skirts and dresses. Oh and vote. And own land or a business (for which she makes these shitty little videos). Most of the freedoms she enjoys in her life are thanks to feminism and the vapid little twat will never have the awareness to even see that😂 it’s nearly a laugh but it’s really a cry

[@alh7197]

@@illiatiia She literally would have been called a “slut” (as she likes to label others) if she wore red lipstick in times before feminism grew in power. Red lipstick was considered indicative of whorism and harlotry. And of course sex work/sexual agency of any kind meant a woman had no value as a human being 🙂

[@thatsantforyou7717]

@@illiatiia hey, maybe search it up before you make a comment abt it

[@brandyc9645]

People who say women are more emotional seem to forget about anger. Every man I know who thinks he's "non emotional" because he never cries, has a decade of pent up frustration they carry around every day and they get irritated and angry at the tiniest convenience. I also know men who aren't ashamed with their emotions and actually attempt to cope with them and they are just overall better people. They are kinder and more patient.

[@i10i60]

This

[@johntodd6413]

I would add that this trait comes from toxic masculinity, but it doesn't mean it only comes from the father. Weirdly I feel toxic masculinity from mothers is worse only because it has a mix of toxic femininity with it too.

[@Treeeboy]

I can't remember where I read it but "The Patriarchy rebranding anger as not an emotion was one of the smartest things they've done"

[@FocusedFighter777]

They love to mention only anger, but pretend nothing else is happening. (Jealousy, fear, sadness etc are all emotions & men go through them daily. They just pretend nothing happens. Anyone telling me I have more emotions than a man and talks more than men : needs a F reality check and I am never to speak to them again. RUN.

[@johntodd6413]

@@missgreen101 However you want to put toxic relations relating to sex is fine, though until your mother tries to pimp you out to her childless coworker that's the same age as herself, I will keep my bias about toxic femininity. I do get the struggle women have to face, but to make me feel less validated for a conflict over semantics is just upsetting. Both can be toxic in the same way black on black crime can still be racist, it's all about context, which I'd be more than happy to share if discovering the correct term for what I threw as a blanket statement on would help you sleep better at night.

[@TangentialTif]

She’s completely right about Mom Guilt but she doesn’t want to say the reason is because of societal pressure on moms.

[@666kittycat666]

Weird how societal pressure only seems to apply when it can somehow be bent to blame women when it comes to responsibly 🤔🤔🤔

[@terrystevens3998]

It’s weird how men just threw their hands up and called all reproductive responsibility the woman’s problem and then started yelling at women.. like shouldn’t a mans insurance cover half of the bill for a pregnancy, half the cost of birth control, half of the cost of tampons.. women’s responsibilities are all shit men benefit from too.

[@nataliearsenault2486]

NOOOO ACTUALLY didn’t u see the 5 things women do to avoid blame??????!!!!! It’s clearly their faults 🙄🙄

[@sarahgent2674]

She constantly sounds like she's about to cry in the "women don't take responsibility" video. Anna blink twice if you need help

[@hexonyou]

honestly, I kind of need to see more of her videos to see if she's always like this because I'm kind of worried for her o_o

[@randomtinypotatocried]

She sounds like she's in an abusive relationship and trying to justify all the shit she's being told

[@RyanPancakes]

If I was betraying my whole gender I would be crying too

[@cosmicreef5858]

@@hexonyou Same!

[@cosmicreef5858]

@@RyanPancakes Yeah but people who usually actually believe what they are saying then they are not stressed. She looks like if she have pressured into this.

[@sunbunnow]

Yes, this women is projecting, BIG TIME! I’m not only a woman, but I’m a mom. Yes, once you become pregnant and/or have a baby you do feel guilt a lot. But I don’t get how having guilt would lead to divorce? If you get divorced that would add to the guilt but that’s not a reason to stay married. That’s the worst reason to stay in a relationship actually.

[@hamvulture]

wait genuine question: why the guilt? I never heard that before and i'm just curious

[@vanessa-tn2ls]

@@hamvulture same

[@sunbunnow]

@@hamvulture As a parent you always second guess your decisions and of course, you make mistakes. I made the mistake of being on social media a lot when I had my first 2 kids and would always compare my parenting to my friends and would feel I am not doing enough. It’s the same with having guilt when it comes to life in general. Am I exercising enough? Eating the right food? Working to much? Not working hard enough? And being social media compounds that shame and guilt sometimes.

[@PoombaiNews]

i've uploaded a video of india

[@hamvulture]

@@sunbunnow that makes sense- thanks for answering! I hope with time you’ve found increasing peace with your decisions. if you’re here, i’m going to assume that you have been doing the best you can to raise thoughtful and accepting kids and that’s a job and a half on its own.

[@hjt5894]

She’s totally right. Men do only talk to you when they’re attracted to you. That’s why I never talk to any of my male colleagues or yell I’M NOT ATTRACTED TO YOU every time Greg from accounting tries to ask me about invoices (we all know what that means Greg). It’s only got me two employee tribunals so far, and they were both run by men so you already know how that went 🙄 Excellent advice. Very accurate.

[@Undivided-X]

Best comment lol

[@kylewalter3111]

Damn it Greg!!! We talked about invoices!!!

[@pattygould8240]

You are an artist.

[@mikeydubbs8565]

This was great! You’re a good ass writer

[@zchane]

NO GREG!

[@jfinney225]

MEN are getting the shaft? women just literally lost the right to decide their own destiny today. how ironic.

[@soyborne.bornmadeandundone1342]

Dude here who's life is clearly going more awesome than 99% of the planet. Trust me all other humans. Men generally have it better. Some exceptions of course like in ANYTHING... But over all it's a mans world.

[@mollyallen2400]

In divorce court specifically (and historically) speaking, yeah, men have had a harder time (at least in the U.S.) in terms of custody. But her false equivalency overwhelmingly eliminated any credibility she might have lent that statement, and the rest was obviously just BS, so... yeah.

[@miad6160]

@@mollyallen2400 that’s actually false. Statistically men who go to court in the United States, are more likely to get custody than women. That’s just false propaganda dead beat dads who don’t actually fight for their kids spread. Look up the statistics of fathers who *go to court*

[@mollyallen2400]

@@miad6160 I genuinely wasn't trying to spread falsehoods. I did my research, albeit a number of years ago. I am willing to admit my error if that data has changed. I grew up in a divorced household, and although my parents were amicable towards each other, it's something I kept an eye on now and again. Nonetheless, I wouldn't call it propaganda on my part - just a mistake. Whoops!

[@manicpepsicola3431]

@@mollyallen2400 men are statistically more likely to not even show up to court skewing the numbers if you want to fight for men's rights in court go do that but stop acting like all of this isn't a result of misogyny and patriarchy

[@RNS_Aurelius]

It's a performance. She knows these people will lap up any misogyny and delusion she puts out there and will give her money for agreeing with them. This is why it's all so generic. My favourite part was "They (women on social media) are being rewarded, by having lots of subscribers, lots of followers, lots of fans who are encouraging bad behaviour. What's bad behaviour? Well, bad behaviour's subjective but it's behaviour you don't want your partner displaying to the public." It's clear that this is just to greenlight whatever they think is immoral without any reasoning. She avoids elaborating so that her audience can fill in the blanks themselves.

[@larissabrglum3856]

That's the impression I got as well. Super vague and hitting all the same usual beats.

[@PoombaiNews]

i've uploaded a video of india

[@kaebsieee6360]

ah yes, filling in the blank, the timeless and charming method of obtaining money from unsuspecting men

[@Chuck_EL]

​​@@larissabrglum3856 these redpill/Mgtow/manosphere channels constantly use social media as the Boogeyman none of them are original they just parrot off each other Yet they make "gotcha" videos about bad women "exposing" themselves on the same social media...that shows they lack consistently and of course they know it because they are trying to get insecure angry men to spend money on them or help their algorithms Because for some reason bad people who use people for money only happened with social media Its like their stupid "in the 1950s relationships were the best before feminism" argument that can be easily debunked

[@pxlcowpxl6166]

"They are being rewarded, by having lots of subscribers, lots of followers, lots of fans who are encouraging bad behavior." I thought she was talking about herself lol.

[@corn7087]

anybody else wanna throw themselves in front of a train because of roe v wade

[@bigpooper69420]

yeah

[@alexanon8345]

Nah mate I want to through the supreme court justices and those who put them in office in front of a train. Hate the oppressors, not the oppressed, even when that's yourself.

[@HannahCrier]

Can I join you?

[@Rapture__1234]

Numerous times and I'm English

[@locklengibson3328]

Literally me

[@danielludwig647]

Did she just try to say that “sucker” *rhymes* with “Steve”?

[@nicatnite]

i replayed that part 10 times while editing the video to make sure i wasn’t missing something lmao

[@lexivanclarke6247]

I’m baffled how everyone isn’t talking about this In the comments

[@teekessel]

she probably meant that it's an alliteration. rhetoric devices are hard xD

[@griefgonewild]

why does she sound like shes always on the verge of tears lol

[@666kittycat666]

I think it’s the same reason JBP constantly sounds on the verge of tears.

[@ciaociara]

Oh no I can’t stop giggling when she speaks now

[@mothboy420]

she sounds like she just smoked for the first time and is trying not to cough

[@savi_hh]

because she is :)

[@HexagonSun990]

@@666kittycat666 why?

[@CBrown86]

“Women are so spoiled they get custody of their kids if their partner is an abuser! How dare they!” I just cannot with this person!

[@hoettega_veneta]

Have dating coaches ever... y’know.. dated? Cos it seems they collectively lack all the experience to qualify for this self assigned teaching role idk

[@Chuck_EL]

if escorts and sex dolls count as dating then yes

[@33melonpaws77]

"Those who can, do; those who cannot do, teach."

[@oogaboogabe3464]

I feel like they've like anti-dated. Even someone who hasn't dated would know what theyre peddling is bs if they have any amount of common sense

[@patrickstutz3645]

the "make women great again" comes from the 22 convention. a convention for women by men. basically a few guys got together and thought "hey, feminists are kinda like the kkk(no bullshit)" and decided that they needed to "help" them become "more like women." a few quotes from their website include "get pregnant and have unlimited babies" and "raise your femineity by 500%". kurtis conner made a good video about it a few years ago if you want some info on it -edit- the quotes i mentioned are from their first year doing this, their website now says shit like "your future is patriarchy" and "get yourself a pure-blooded alpha male" while also specifically saying that alpha women don't exist

[@666kittycat666]

These guys really want their cake and eat it too. Women *need* to have babies, but god have mercy when the 5th child they have to raise without help from a partner ruins their figure.

[@fenixphlame]

I came here to say this, it was so gross to see that whole thing happen

[@RenneAtha]

That "pure-blooded" bit is deeply unsettling

[@beththedarkmage3359]

Huh, sounds like they added racism to their awful sexist viewpoint. Not a surprise.

[@keribere244]

I’ve seen their videos, them and their fans are horrible.

[@kranglethecheeselord2602]

Ethan looks more and more like a winter fox everyday and I am here for it.

[@thatoneperson3990]

I feel like one day he’s going too turn into Santa Claus

[@greyisnthere]

@@thatoneperson3990 has anyone ever seen him and Santa Claus in the same room before 🧐🧐

[@aqualuvor95]

Oh my god I can’t unsee it now…🥺

[@thatoneperson3990]

@@greyisnthere hmmm you’re right…

[@PoombaiNews]

i've uploaded a video of india

[@ctorres236]

“Women display on social media because they want validation,” she displays on social media, yearning for validation

[@visaman]

Their tits. They display their tits. Anna is a good girl

[@DM-nw5lu]

The irony. Also, what's so bad about wanting validation? Social media may not be the best way to do so but we all feel good when we are validated by others. It's human and normal. Not a damn deadly sin. Men do it, too. Just maybe not through Instagram. Plus most women who use stuff like Instagram do not post "slutty" pictures. It's usually regular posts for their family to check out. I wouldn't want my family and friends to see me in any sexual context. Then again even bikini pics in appropriate contexts (like on vacation) are slutty to these people.

[@briskettacos]

Because there are no women on social media to keep up with family and friends, entertain themselves, or make connections

[@k4nd1incyb3rsp4c3]

@@briskettacos just because you only follow insta models doesn't mean regular women aren't on social media too. Touch grass.

[@franksbitch]

@@k4nd1incyb3rsp4c3 I think they are being sarcastic, could be wrong tho

[@carrlyrussell3372]

Haha yeah, just like Anna said, my single mother is full of guilt and it’s all her fault for choosing this life as a single mother. She absolutely should be seen as a red flag and is at fault and that makes her a bad, annoying woman and is the problem because my dad died of cancer. Anna is so right about this. (/s. obvi)

[@clownrat5759]

Oh hell yeah. My mom totally made some STUPID decisions getting with a man who was only in our state for BUSINESS, sleeping with him, then letting him find her writing letters to her ex lover.. she was dumb as fuck. That’s all on her, but she’s not at fault for deciding to keep the baby (me) and I can’t fault her for that, because I wouldn’t be alive if she didn’t. She’s not at fault that my bio dad avoided child support.

[@keppakappa5033]

tw: suicide mention My mom is the kindest person I've ever met. Growing up there were rough times but she was always willing to listen and change with us for the better. Accepted my brother being gay and my being trans/nonbinary without skipping a beat and showers us both with unconditional love and support, always willing to help anyone in need. She also happens to be a single mother now because my abusive dad took his own life a few years ago, and I'll be dammed if I ever let anyone tell her she's at fault for that or she's a red flag be default. Single mothers like your mom and mine are the pillars of society and I won't hear anyone tell me otherwise.

[@raveneskridge3143]

my mom loved a man who loved himself more. he left and just never called back one day when i was 8. i used to blame myself, now i blame him but i could never imagine having blamed my mother. she's the one who kept me and took care of me. how could she possibly be at fault?

[@lordskeletor481]

my mom genuinely did choose to be a single mother, and that's not a bad thing. the guy she had been seeing before she went through with getting pregnant didn't want children and she did, so they ended the relationship amicably and then she started seeing a doctor about artificial insemination. she's always been a great mother to me, she's always been there for me, been kind and understanding towards me, always encouraged me to pursue my dreams, and has done the best that she could. but oh, because some weird dating coach has some hang-ups about motherhood and is so seeped in internalized misogyny that it oozes out of each word she says and acts like it's a great thing my mother should be filled with constant guilt. /s (also my snark is not directed at you OP, I am just snarking to the air/dating coach, also I hope you're doing okay, a loved one dying of cancer can be really difficult and I'm sorry for your loss)

[@ameliaparsons5616]

I literally live in the same situation ahahaha - my selfish dad suffered for years only to succumb to cancer, how dare he!!!

[@chanyanyanya]

The embodiment of a pick me girl that never got picked

[@_plantlife]

👏🏽

[@visaman]

Trust me she is married. I proposed to her a few years ago

[@aarasko]

lmao

[@calawendy]

thats pearl ☠️

[@folded_pizza]

I should say, I am assuming if a guy approaches me and is nice to me that he likes me, because 1) we're socialised to think like that and 2) better safe than sorry, I'm scared that he might assault me or pressure me to go out etc. so I immediately act defensive just to be safe. You can smile to someone, damn you can make eye contact with someone and he thinks it's an invitation to harass you.

[@weaverofworlds22]

That's very true. It makes me glad I am getting old, since I get that a hell of a lot less now

[@cozycasasmr4510]

Literally this

[@badhabitrekt6474]

THIS

[@mollyallen2400]

I grew up mostly in the "south" (technically) and after moving to a big metro area further north continued smiling and saying hello in grocery stores etc. because that's what was polite and natural in the cities I'd lived and worked in. I thought I was just paranoid thinking I was being watched until on more than one occasion I was followed down one or more store aisles and even approached for my number (again more than once and often after being followed down an aisle). I started avoiding eye contact!! Once I stayed in the back near a manager who was stocking eggs and talked to my mom on the phone for nearly 20 minutes and the person was still around when I finally rushed to the checkout. It was completely bizarre to me as I was in my mid-thirties at the time and didn't feel that I was in any way particularly appealing, just a few years ago. Scary the lengths people will go.

[@gaybatgosqueak]

I'm just a rude ass mf so i don't have to deal with that nonsense

[@enjoyerofsoup]

dear god that joke about “unwanted shaft” was SO out of pocket, this lady’s content genuinely feels like if someone made an ai script writer that pulls exclusively from alpha male podcasts and reddit

[@Ari-cs3qs]

I know, I had rewind the video because I couldn't believe she said it the first time. What a twisted joke to make.

[@t70281]

I was completely floored when I heard it. I was like wait what just happed what?!? Who?!? How?!? I was so stunned.

[@terenceokane]

My Mom once punched my Dad in the face (who was easily 2x bigger than her) while he tried to kidnap me from a custody court hearing in 1998, I was 10. Pretty sure my single mom could kick the shit out of this "dating coach", even though she would never say a word because shes a fucking superhero who has raised to fully functional empathetic and pacifistic adults.

[@espeon871]

Yep

[@doodlydungeon8576]

love your mom. tell her she's awesome for me if you can!

[@terenceokane]

@@doodlydungeon8576 will do! just found out i’m likely making it home for xmas this year (first time since 2017) and we’re all very excited!

[@soupi2105]

The stuff she’s saying is just sad. Imagine throwing your entire community under the bus for a quick buck and some validation. It’s so sad how desperate they are to be viewed as “one of the good ones” that they’re willing to forfeit their own personhood and dignity for it. The worst part is, the kind of men she’s trying so hard to cater and appeal to don’t actually want women like her (regardless of what they say), they want a strong woman to force into a cage and and they want the feeling of victory for being the one to do it. For those kinds of men it isn’t about partnership, it’s about conquest and domination for their own gain and they don’t even realize it.

[@kassassin_brahgawk]

I had a guy literally tell me he wants a woman to control. He said she needed to be submissive, and not in a sexual way. He quotes Jordan Peterson and talks about "primitive nature" a lot. He hates his mother and is a literal 40 year old Virgin, so at least he hasn't found someone to abuse yet.

[@stop--]

Genuinely. The kind of men who watch these videos are the kind to *marry* a woman like her but then sleep around with other women because he knows she's "submissive" and too averse to conflict to leave him. They think they can have a bangmaid who cooks and cleans their undies for them while also getting to run around and do whatever they want. These kinds of men don't want a housewife to provide for and take care of and love; they want a slave who will worship then unconditionally the way they worship themselves.

[@maryamdiao1509]

Yup they don’t know how to deal with genuine women. They wanna tear women down and settle with it and leave the nice girl for the woman that traumatized him. 🙄

[@Tusisvrivhing]

I saw a comment on one of her videos about masculine women and how they should be « subdued » the dude talked about woman as if they were dogs.it was one of the most unnerving things I ever read.

[@soupi2105]

@@Tusisvrivhing yikes that’s unsettling

[@vickystxr6728]

6:25 i honestly have to disagree; no one who watches dating coaches unironically has ever dated anyone

[@Blueell]

I dated a guy once who eventually admitted to me that before we went out he put me and several other girls he was considering through a series of tests to find out what kind of people we were and who was the most beneficial to date…it was sociopathic and a long with some of his other thoughts and behaviors scared me to death. I was young and trusting at the time and had no idea there were people who thought like this. These pickup artist types feel like they might be exactly where he got that creepy shit from in hindsight.

[@visaman]

Women test men. Anna told me so

[@imjustdandy9799]

This woman is absolutely “pro-life”

[@anushka.7920]

but would absolutely not want the man to support the kid if she does end up keeping it coz shes tricking him into fatherhood for money

[@astronaut2317]

Vdgd everybody says pro-life. It’s anti-choice.

[@_slvgnt]

we have to start calling by their real names, this people are “pro-fetus” once the baby is born they instantly don’t care anymore

[@livi762]

@@astronaut2317 or pro-birth

[@sarcodonblue2876]

@@livi762 she hates many who are currently alive especially most women.

[@avery1703]

It's so hard to follow her weird misogynist rambles. All she needs is to raise her voice at random times and she'll sound exactly like stefan molyneux.

[@meowtaindewd]

both this video and roe v wade being overturned today reminded me that people like her still exist. we are literally evolving backwards and its so mentally exhausting. i want to sit in front of a moving car /hj

[@thilsiktonix]

devolving. I also want to sit in front of a moving car. /srs

[@meowtaindewd]

@@thilsiktonix after doomscrolling through twitter for the past two days, i am also /srs at this point. we can sit in traffic together i guess!

[@hhylia]

bro pls take me with you

[@Jesterisim]

@@meowtaindewd doomscrolling twitter made me so depressed i decided to not open twitter for the next week at least (easier said than done but yeah)

[@gaybatgosqueak]

We aren't devolving, society is continuing to become more progressive by the day. But we have a small minority that are fighting with everything they got against us. And they're are currently succeeding at moving us backwards. So we have to fight back or we will continue to lose rights.

[@RogueAstro85]

Your cute little "Hi 👋😀" at the beginning of every video gives me life

[@HappyGoLucky_]

Fax

[@moatrboat]

yuh

[@fawnieee]

The way she talks, it sounds like someone is keeping her hostage and is threatening her with a weapon. It's very bizarre

[@marymargaretmakes]

and it’s like with what she’s pushing……. is she a hostage??like idek

[@randcall5933]

Stockholm syndrome-esque.

[@visaman]

No, she just has a big heart for men, and hates to see them get hurt by women

[@stop--]

@@visaman I hate to tell you this, bud, but men hurt other men more than women ever have. Look up crime stats. Heck, look up cheating stats. Look up abuse stats. Men are winning by a landslide in every category. Male on male violence is at and has always been at shocking levels. Makes you realize maybe men should be more afraid of other men rather than afraid of getting their feelings hurt because a woman won't sleep with them.

[@dwellerinblack7816]

@@visaman ur mum has a big heart because she's dying lmao get owned cucklord

[@blackdog9071]

People like this woman are sick, they are happy to throw women's safety away for some validation and money. I genuinely do not understand it

[@espeon871]

Fr like also more proof we need more accessible healthcare cuz she seems very broken

[@cloverboyblue]

when she said "social conditioning" i thought she might have something actually interesting to say, but then she immediately followed it up with "by feminism" and i lost what little faith i had left

[@randomcommenterurl]

Realizing how little I care about dating compared to seemingly everyone else making me think that I might be asexual

[@thatguy3903]

Being less intense about dating is actually healthy! Not feeling like you NEED a partner, but perhaps wanting one, is normal!

[@chupawup4517]

You could be, but also maybe not, don't worry too much about labels and microlabels.

[@clownrat5759]

A lot of men feel heavy pressure to get with a nice girl, settle down, etc. that’s probably why so many of them are so excruciatingly desperate to the point they’re just self sabotaging their love lives

[@MisterSandm4n]

Maybe aromantic? But I believe it is quite normal

[@rayafoxr3]

Asexuality means you don’t feel sexual attraction. You can still very much want to date someone and have romantic feelings. Lack of romantic attraction is being aromantic.

[@fairy_gvts]

I stumbled upon her channel around a year ago and I thought it was both hilarious and upsetting. As an enby lesbian it was just so upsetting bc women don't want that??? It's not a game?? People are fucking people. Treat them like it.

[@alh7197]

These losers are literally incapable of comprehending that human beings are each unique, intricate, complex, multifaceted individuals. They want some kind of “trick” or shortcut to just generalizing billions of people and it’s pathetic.

[@robbiirvine1038]

"People are fucking people. Treat them like it." Phrasing.

[@PGOuma]

Hello fellow enby lesbian 😁

[@visaman]

Yes, people are fucking people every Saturday at the Steam1 bathhouse.

[@bluestar4408]

Real, some other Enby Lesbians!

[@thesaltybeard1793]

This woman looks perpetually unhappy and I can't imagine why

[@piroshk1968]

🤔🤔🤔

[@peoniesandferns]

I think if I went on a date with a guy and they spoke to me with the tone that she uses when she says “sounds like that’s not working out for you…” I would just leave. Absolutely not, ew, go away.

[@cidevant002]

Reeks of condescending prick.

[@visaman]

The guy dodged a bullet then

[@juliawolf156]

14:27 "Women are growing up in a different age with a feminist movement and they're spoiled; sorry ladies..." Oh no, can't believe women are spoiled with such things as having a choice with men (including not wanting a man at all for any reason), life style, actual life plans as well as rights! Can't have those, right?

[@RyanPancakes]

"Ugh these women are so spoiled! Next they are going to want equal pay and bodily autonomy 😡"

[@espeon871]

@@RyanPancakes me when women want equal rights: 🤢🤮

[@LezbeOswald]

also idk how old she is but if we assume 40s, then she would've grown up at the cusp of the second-wave feminist movement. so is she telling on herself?

[@celshadedx]

so spoiled!! i cant believe they have a right to vote now!! bring back the 1600s!!

[@shtfcker24]

@@LezbeOswald you could assume she’s 100 years old and she still would have grown up in an age where feminism exists. she’s acting like it just dropped or something. does she think men just gave women the rught to vote for fun?

[@violetheise4717]

"Touch grass, eat vegetables." Put that on a shirt and I'll buy it.

[@aloraeback-vt1ck]

Instructions unclear, ate the grass.

[@julesedwards4495]

She infuriates me. I'm single-handedly raising my special needs daughter, making only $24k/year, working two jobs (one of them being a parapro working with autistic children), but her father lives rent free with his mom, with a car his family gave him and they pay his phone bill...and he pays a whopping $300/month for child support...and makes over double what I do....yeah, the poor men. 🙄.

[@visaman]

Do you date men? This is a chanel for single lonely men.

[@julesedwards4495]

@@visaman a channel that is for single lonely men? Uhhhh...pretty sure any channel is for anyone to watch and get a feeling about the content. So, I'm afraid your question is irrelevant in my opinion.

[@julesedwards4495]

@@FireSilver25 thanks so much! It's SOOOO hard, but I know this is temporary. Plus side? I get to hog all the hugs and kisses. 😍

[@doodlydungeon8576]

@@julesedwards4495 you are such an awesome human, holy shit. please give yourself so many hugs, you deserve it!!

[@Alessandro1983]

@@doodlydungeon8576 Bro, stop simpin. She's not going to give you her number, or offer to sleep with you for being a white knight. LOL! Smh...

[@yellobb3848]

She heard someone say the joke “I not only support women’s rights, but also women’s wrongs” one time and centered her whole channel around why you shouldn’t do that

[@bearj7140]

A how much there with you

[@ashegrey3042]

SINGLE MOM OF TWO TODDLERS I WAS IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP I WISH MORE THAN ANYTHING I WASNT A SINGLE MOM DO YOU REALIZE HOW HARD IT IS

[@DanasGoneCrazy]

When she mentioned how "spoiled" women are all I could think of is how a week ago a woman was set on fire in a subway station here in Canada simply for being a woman and another one was pushed into the subway tracks.

[@ThisIsNuckingFuts]

Oh my god that sounds absolutely horrific. Why???

[@cryingbecausehollowknightd5748]

WHAT. THE. FUCK.

[@DanasGoneCrazy]

@@ThisIsNuckingFuts the motives are still unclear. there's been a lot of harassment and assaulting towards women in the TTC and it seems to only be getting worse.

[@celshadedx]

EXCUSE ME WHAT

[@occupyislam1657]

Was she a muslim who stood up to her family? Burning ppl alive is very muslim. Real talk, I'm not being rude.

[@okaytessa2481]

Also, when they talk about divorce court, they fail to acknowledge the statistics on men who don't want their children or lose them by moving away (A lot. It's a lot.)

[@Ghost_ieBear]

ethan: *makes joke about how women are marginalized* government: correct *oveturns roe v wade*

[@soggyrecluse7302]

Big fan of neuroscience here! Studies show that brains may differ slightly between femme and masc ppl but size, grey/white matter ratio, and development really differ from individual to individual. Let’s not forget that neuropathy and and the physical brain may develop differently between individuals based on the environment they live in during crucial growth (which is around the first 8 yrs but it keeps growing until mid 20s). Sections of the brain may develop differently based on how frequently an individual relies on it and if one learns to respond to stress in a certain way it can create neurological pathways that last into and sometimes through adulthood. Tldr most studies show that s3x potentially has up to 1% anything to do w brain business if even that and it’s not super consistent. I guess you could say it’s sort of like a spectrum 🌈🧠

[@larissabrglum3856]

I love how she refers to the "emotional center of the brain" without naming it. That's real science right there

[@ahebirds]

I'm so thankful that my 3 sons, ages 21, 17 and 13, have people like you to look up to. The fact that you exist just makes me hopeful and grateful. Thank you Ethan. Truly. ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

[@EmillyOrr]

Um. The video where she went into how women need to take more responsibility in relationships, where she was wearing her "Jesus shirt" (???)--is it just me? She sounded...scared? Like, voice-trembling, nervous, afraid to be saying what she was saying? Did some MRA have a gun to her head offscreen? I'm so confused.

[@gaybatgosqueak]

I think it's her one brain cell, trying to fight against all the bs she's spouting lol

[@visaman]

I think this was her first video. It was kind of unfair for the host to use this one

[@nothingbutfleurs]

i like how she complains about single mothers and how bad they are, and yet complains about how men somehow getting the wrong side of divorce? does she want single dads instead?

[@visaman]

It's a warning to young men not to knock up women they just met, or they could get screwed by the court system. And never live with a single mother, in Canada, the man could be considered the father figure, and made to pay up.

[@kassassin_brahgawk]

It is funny, right? Because the reality of how humans reproduce most times is you need two people... so by that math, for every single mom there is, there should also be a single dad. However, we don't focus on single dads, they're a minority, and most of them are only part time at best. They can come and go as they please and all of the responsibilities of raising a child fall soley on the mothers shoulders. And as a bonus, we also place the mistakes of the father onto the single mother. It's a real fun system.

[@kassassin_brahgawk]

@@visaman I'm sorry Bert, you said, screwed by the court system, when I THIIIIINK what you meant to say is, BE MADE FINANCIALLY RESPONSIBLE FOR THE ACTUAL HUMAN BEING THEY MADE AND WILL NOT BE RESPONSIBLE FOR RAISING.

[@gnat4999]

​@Kassie Prawdzik what a dogshit take.

[@turtleqqqq]

Can Ethan please talk about Matt Walsh? That man is vile and I haven’t seen anybody attempt to counter him. He essentially goes around in public places and bombards people with targeted questions about lgbtq that they are unable to answer and frames it as if he’s uncovering some sort of hidden truth when they become flustered. He sucks basically.

[@joannjames7985]

You could watch Shark3OhZero, he's covered Walsh before, though he does livestreams. If that's not your cup of tea, understandable

[@SuperEkkorn]

samantha lux and jessie gender have covered him i think.

[@ur-local-lesbian-comrade]

I literally was bombarded with his stupid what is a woman thing for weeks

[@lego_the_cat]

Hasan reacted to (and made fun of) his documentary a while back

[@virtueisdead6673]

Just adding here (other than the others cited, jessie's take is very well done) that Conure CC also talked about him Grayson (on graysons project) also reacted to that excuse for a fuckyumentary if you want to see the shitshow it is

[@JustHarperGray]

If it weren’t for feminism she wouldn’t have a KZbin channel, she wouldn’t be able to talk about this subject and she wouldn’t be able to make money off of this crap! So she better thank feminism for her KZbin channel and the money she makes.

[@espeon871]

Ikr or even the right to act like an authority

[@mcr5084]

thank you thank you thank you thank you. i literally am so grateful for you and other youtubers like nick and kurtis and of course Mr Beard......for saying what your saying. It hurts me so badly as a woman to see people like this promote this garbage. Its gross. We are all fucking people.... there is no trick, there is no way to "get woman" its like wtf.... if you get along with someone and respect them, then you get along and respect them. There is no fucking trick. So thank you ethan for being our voice and voice of all people who dont have a platform. Cus when i talk about this shit, no one listens. So thank you. honestly. what you say is exactly how i would wanna talk about it. thank you

[@lizzyizzywizzy]

yknow, i took a neuroscience class and we learned that folks who have experienced a great amount of trauma have larger/more often used amygdalas (emotional center/fight or flight control) and smaller/less often used the frontal cortex (decision-making/rational center) because they have learned that their abusers won’t react to rational responses. so maybe a lot of women DO have larger amygdalas… from the trauma that men have put them through. (i’m not saying that men can’t also be abused i’m messing with her logic and using her own ‘facts’ against her. i do not agree with anything she said.)

[@Jellyfish146]

I was thinking how spoiled I was the other day when I was being ignored by my male managers. I've been brainwashed. I should just be happy with my daily lot of misogyny and accept my place.

[@fawnieee]

I can only hope that she's some kind of grifter instead of actually viewing her fellow women like this. Hell, what am I saying, most pick up artists are grifters. Edit: tired of the single motherhood argument when the majority of time the reason single mothers are made is because the father ditched and ran away from all responsibility.

[@larissabrglum3856]

Well, obviously it was their fault their husbands left! /s

[@kirahamilton393]

i feel like people always consider people talking about their exes as a red flag but as someone who is so tired of being traumatized by men they date, i feel like talking about my exes kind of subtly states some of my “entry-level” boundaries and makes me feel like my past trauma is acknowledged in a palatable perspective by them, which is incredibly important to me in relationships because i also am not very able to acknowledge social cues due to my neurological handicap

[@bflat5274]

Okokok this is probably me and my job field talking (I work in digital marketing), but that review at the start of the video and him asking "why does this mention religion?" - likely, it's for keywords. Having that review for her brand and possibly reposted as marketing material tells online algorithms like Google that terms like "PUA" have strong associations with Anna's book/business. Throwing in things like Anna's name and other buzzwords like "religion" or "favor" is a common SEO tactic when people are fudging reviews. Admittedly, hers is not as egregious as some others I've seen and could very possibly be real, but it's definitely sending me red flags.

[@natrosenquist]

When you hear someone unironically use the word "courting", run. Run far, far away from that person.

[@visaman]

Why is that? On the Beverly Hillbillies, they even had a Courtin' Room for Ellie to entertain her Gentlemen Callers.

[@natrosenquist]

@@visaman Lol

[@user-ld6th3vw8e]

her instant reaction to the concept of single motherhood being "this is bad how can women keep doing this" tells you everything you need to know like. im sorry but what is taking accountability if not raising a child on your own? not all parents are perfect, humans are imperfect, but it takes strength and effort for anyone other than the exorbitantly wealthy to bring up a kid on their own that's taking responsibility for a whole human being? (im sure she wouldn't like other things which might result in fewer people having children they might not be ready for though, she doesn't seem big on bodily autonomy)

[@z.a.o.3843]

The fact that you said “a friend that’s gay and asexual” shows that you’re educated on the subject and made me happy :)

[@loomyloom1011]

You know what tho? 🤔 As a emotionally damaged woman, I do be fighting the urge to always be right. (Idk why it makes me mad, but I am working on it and have made some pretty good strides)

[@disembodied1273]

Same honestly 😅

[@lefu87williford55]

It's important that you have recognized the problem. I like to tell myself that if I am always willing to be the first one to admit it when I am wrong, then I will always be right.

[@clownrat5759]

You’re not alone, I have the worst issue admitting I was wrong, and when I’m right I feel the violent need to project it to everyone because “I was right! You weren’t!” It’s a trauma response for some people. I was constantly beaten down by my parents into thinking all my opinions, all my thoughts and everything was wrong because I’m a child. Now that I’m 18, and have a proper voice, when I’m actually confirmed right? That just makes me feel so fucking good I can’t explain it.

[@carmenplangger9417]

You're self aware, honest, and willing to improve. You're lightyears ahead of ... whatever that is.

[@33melonpaws77]

@@carmenplangger9417 *anna, frothing in the corner* What do you mean? I'm BEaUtFuL dArLiNg!

[@hkc7181]

Seeing Roe v. Wade being overturned recently and then watching this lady say women are so spoiled in today’s day and age is giving me whiplash

[@weaverofworlds22]

My male friends give me attention, they aren't generally interested in getting in my pants. I give them attention, I'm not interested in getting in any of their pants. It's called being a social creature

[@thatrandomchick4004]

Wow, boy oh boy I’m so excited to sit down after getting my basic human rights and bodily attanomy taken away earlier today, just to get infantilised and objectived by a gen x pick me girl the same age as my parents!

[@rosedearman4301]

I’d like an attorney to sue for all the braincells I’d lost listening to all the points this women didn’t make, thanks

[@rosedearman4301]

I’ve *^

[@iamalittler]

“All you have to do is look at the divorce situation and that’s happening in the courts,” you know, like that bodily autonomy they just lost, even in the case of a “unwanted shaft.”

[@mattcottrell3286]

Your hair is looking great, Ethan!!!!

[@marianamauricio]

it's crazy to me that these incels and alpha male dudes always talk about women having a lot of attention online for posting sexy pics. like, do they genuinely think every woman is an influencer trying to sell her only fans??? cuz i assure you that's a very small number of women lmao

[@ktryushi4744]

Well, they’re not wrong because majority of them are like that 🤷‍♂️ you don’t need to feel attacked though 🤷‍♂️ If you’re confident that you aren’t one like those insecure bimbos. Who cares what they think 🤷‍♂️ it doesn’t apply to all women….If you were secure about yourself you wouldn’t comment here in the first place and make a scene out of it.

[@sapphire8644]

@@ktryushi4744 I wouldn’t worry about those ‘bimbos’ you talk about either they are humans just like us, just let them live. At least I don’t judge them It might be a hobby. if they enjoy doing that, I shouldn’t criticise them for feeling confident or posting what they want wearing what they want. Just my take

[@ktryushi4744]

@@sapphire8644 yes but those women are insecure in real life. They probably have daddy issues or low self-esteem in themselves. But like you just said, it’s their life 🤷‍♂️ PS: they’re not confident, they’re insecure, a confident women don’t need attention because she knows that she’s confident she doesn’t need to proof to anyone that she’s sexy. If you post your sexy picture in your only fans or Instagram etc. It Doesn’t make you confident, you post this because you feel insecure about yourself and want to boost your ego when men call you ‘’cute’’ it inflate their pathetic ego and boost their confidence. Don’t feel attacked by this comment. I have a life experience with a women I can read them like a book. Have a nice day.

[@RollingCalf]

Nah it ain't small. If it was so small, my antisocial self should not personally know 3 onlyfans models. That's like 80% of my social circle

[@wow-jz7me]

@@RollingCalfthat is a personal experience. not a fact

[@lamppost67892]

so they wanna treat their romantic partners like a child, and then at the same time have seggs with them🤔🤔. So, she's like a child for them, and also a romantic partner. There is a word for this when it's in literal sense, I forgot...

[@visaman]

A lot of men treat their lovers as mother figures, so which is worse?

[@Tusisvrivhing]

@@visaman How about both are wrong Albert? Both are very wrong. But overall I would say that treating a romantic partner as a child is MUCH worse.

[@mcbby7]

She is what happens when a "not like other girls" girl grows up and needs to make money

[@panshelf357]

"women are growing up in a different age these days where there's a feminist movement" ma'am, you can vote because of feminism. home girl is the ultimate pick me

[@visaman]

Yes, that was 1st Wave Feminism, this 3rd Wave Feminism is a different animal all together.

[@wow-jz7me]

@@visamannothing really changed. we just have the right to vote which white man is gonna ruin our lives more. America's president was a rapist. imagine how bad it is in the other parts of the world.

[@tacticalmisandrist]

Ah yes, all single mothers just choose to be single mothers bc they think they’re just too good for their baby daddies, they’re just ~narcissists~, it’s definitely not single mothers being abandoned at all… never

[@badhabitrekt6474]

Thats a big no on the trash talking thing. I "trash talk" my ex because he was extremely abusive. She is projecting SO HARD

[@zaquepifer2376]

Ethan will you take responsibility for my actions? I don't see a disclaimer in your description saying otherwise 👁

[@arkyraye4406]

The way you said hi was so welcoming 🥺👍

[@annie_b17]

Thanks for some distracting fun today that also calls out shitty behavior, Ethan ❤️ really really needed it and this helped a little

[@egeekmazn1189]

Ommg I'm so thankful for notifications, I already know this is gonna be a good video😭

[@meanjeanmcqueen6171]

Oof...women like that are EMBARRASSING, lol.

[@D1girlkisser]

i love when dating coaches on the internet just say the most bizarre things and just up straight lie and people base their relationship foundation on it 💀

[@Puddsmomm]

I'm the asexual best friend who lives with my best friend and her husband and I honestly couldn't be more offput by the theory that he and I should be...as Anna suggests

[@Notllamalord]

I wonder if she’s sold her soul and humanity to get money from neckbeards or if she actually believes this

[@sapphire8644]

Probably idk

[@joannasldr6456]

why does she sound like she's constantly on the verge of tears? does internalized misogyny hurt that much?

[@selene1291]

Oof

[@biz420]

thanks for posting ethan 💗💗💗 #equalrights

[@Diamondelight92]

As a woman, I do tend to assume that any man paying attention to me is into me but that's not "instinctive" that is 15-odd years of men pretending to be my friend and then suddenly turning on me when I won't sleep with them. I didn't used to assume that but I learned that I have to through experience.

[@moony-666]

"certain areas of equality" no no no ma'am. The whole damn point of equality is in EVERYTHING

[@rosemimic]

I sometimes see a glimmer of good advice from this lady. Then she says something absolutely insane and the spark if hope dies.

[@Tusisvrivhing]

That is the whole point of her brand. It’s a performance

[@JhericFury]

It's amazing how she made "be confident and make sure you actually like her" feel slimy. Maybe you should "assess her value" or in non creep speak "figure out what you like about her" so that you don't try to flirt with someone you don't actually want to be with, not as a weapon to ensnare her.

[@sonichamburgerspecial692]

How to get girl (the right way) > Don't smell/stink look unkempt > Respect boundaries when given > If girl says "we just friends" accept it and move on > Dont be sexist/misogynistic > Dont take whatever course this is and just have manners so easy!!!

[@j.d.s.1837]

1) be 6ft or more 2) have a symmetrical face 3) sixpack 4) green eyes/ blue eyes 5) hairmaxxxed 6) real estate 🤣🤣🤣 the dating requirements of the modern foid resemble more of a shopping list than actual pERsonality, but hey it's all about what's on the inside 😂😂😂😂.

[@sonichamburgerspecial692]

@@j.d.s.1837 Thats a lot of copium from you incel. Mad you cant get any bitches? i can tell why

[@lisameeks4964]

@@j.d.s.1837 Am I a foid ? I have no idea, but that list just looks like something an immature girl would come up with. If that's all you're interested in, then I guess you'd have to check off at least some of those items. I know, for me personally, they're all superficial things that don't matter. I've dated men of different types, but they all had a few things in common. #1 they were a nice person, #2 they had a sense of humor, #3 they were intelligent (not necessarily a college grad), #4 interested in a variety of subjects, #5 liked animals #6 actually listened to me when I talked and remembered what I said etc. I could go on, but height, eye color and fitness level weren't even on the list. I'm older now and not even dating, which is fine with me. Work and hobbies keep me too busy to give a relationship the attention it would deserve. If I end up alone the rest of my life, I'm fine with that. If someone comes along that makes me want to invest in a relationship, then that's fine too. I'm not everyone's cup of tea and vice versa. Life's too short to be angry about anyone not wanting to date you.

[@wow-jz7me]

@@j.d.s.1837 go to therapy and stop being insecure

[@j.d.s.1837]

@@lisameeks4964 > says its all about personality > name is Meeks 🤡

[@kaethanx]

It feels like she’s so insecure and she’s trying to so hard to be like look how different I am omg. Her video clips made me so uncomfortable /:

[@ejrobertson2517]

She sounds like she's trying not to cry half of the time and idk whether or not to laugh

[@downtheriver22]

at 4:16 some mechanics under the rock near the reservoir that I’m at started going off in almost a wordless “awooooga” alarm. i thought anna edited it into her video to emphasize “get her hooked!” and i was like this woman is bonkers what is this edit I’m high this was funnier in my head

[@WhiteWolf496]

Weird women the sequel spin-off to little women

[@AnnAbolika-dr7dw]

"Brains is the same" is my new favourite thing, thank you ethan you make my day everytime you upload a video

[@localmotel]

me n the baby that parted lake Michigan having a staring contest 👁👁

[@sarahgent2674]

I'm also drawn to that one but it's because I can never parse it properly so even though I know what it means my brain always goes "are there baby parts IN the lake? have they renamed it Baby Parts Lake?"

[@LeoScott]

@@sarahgent2674 I’ve always thought of it as like a place called Baby Parts, Lake Michigan

[@izznt]

You're one of the very few if not only youtuber I can listen to about these things without being scared of triggering catatonia or such things. And I appreciate you muchly.

[@hollyjessup3505]

Im so happy that you found the stats that say Eddy Burbackhas the highest alpha levels of anyone ever. Thanks for sharing Ethan ☺️

[@sayomi9562]

your hair is looking extra majestic in this video ethan