CEX Tech, Why I WON'T Have Kids, My Car FAILED

[@thedarkknight6531]

I always watch any Cayle videos

[@cayletalks]

Thank you dude

[@mikeyb0121]

8 times out of 10 in relationships similar to yours, the woman always ends up wanting kids later down the line when she didn’t originally want them 😂

[@tereknor]

Completely respect your decision on children. I have a child (an adult now) but I’ve never understood as to why having kids is something you have to do.

[@ptg3765]

Having children is definitely not for everyone. I totally get it. And the fact that your partner is also on board by sharing your decision makes it easy. That said, i do think you're over thinking what impact you would have on your children with regards to wanting them to like things. As they grow up, you very quickly realize that you're more happy to see them finding the things that they love themselves, rather than any joy you get out of them doing what you'd love them to do. Totally appreciate the decision though. Its not for everyone and only you can know if its for you or not

[@scottferguson7863]

As coming from comparable situation I totally understand your comments on children. I spent a lot of my life debating this question, and didn't have until 43 (in a similar lifestyle(and relationship) to yours. My biggest regret is waiting as long as we did, as I wanted them to have everything I didn't.

[@CorbynsCombo]

Me and my wife are in the same boat. We’ve been sure we don’t want kids since we got together. Our families are always on about “you’ll have kids one day” and it actually causes issues when we back ourselves on the fact we won’t. We have nephews and nieces both sides so it’s not like we’re stopping the family tree etc…. I don’t get why because people are married/in long term relationships it’s almost expected to have kids… so strange to me.

[@mememachine376]

I had a rough childhood and I was adamant I would never have children. I am now 32 and have a 9 year old daughter and she is the light of my life. I have 0 regrets and I am glad she exists. However, I respect any adult who for whatever reason has decided not to have kids. It is a life altering choice and only the the people affected know if they want it. People who judge others choices need to focus on their own lives

[@BouncyTravellerDan]

Another enjoyable video. Completely get where you're coming from about kids. I've got 2 kids and it's the best and hardest thing in the world 😂. I had an uncle that lived with me when I was a kid and he never had kids, he was always just cool uncle and I see him as a big brother now and he was the best man at my wedding so I know how great it is to have an uncle that loves spending time with their nephews and nieces.

[@BenExtremeHipHop]

As a dad myself I respect that you have thought it through. Too many people have kids without thinking. I'm the product of such. I always make the joke that 'I was conceived by two people that loved each other very briefly....3 minutes to be in fact'. Really enjoying these videos Cayle. Feels like a behind the scenes of your life

[@Basedguy1]

Would love to see you do a hidden gems video for both ps2 and ps4.

[@Killysunt]

Nothing wrong with either way. I think there are probably some feelings & experiences in life that only parenting can bring, at the same time some of my family members that don't have kids ended up being my best role models growing up. You're right people that vicariously live through their children are insane lmao, & I don't think you should let having kids stop you from being you, no matter how difficult it may seem. I do think sometimes even if you both feel this way, and you're both safe, that it can still just happen anyway, & these decisions become much more real and difficult when they're actually on your doorstep

[@fizakl]

I'll chime in on this rainy evening. The reason people change their mind on having kids is not because their personal desires change, but because they start giving less of a shit about them. And there's a subtle beauty when you become aware of this. Fatherhood is the ultimate acceptance that you're not the centre of this universe. The moment your responsibilities and desires shift onto another being is the most humbling of all experiences. It’s the moment your entire worldview changes. I hope not to offend, but when I hear guys say the benefit of not having kids is that they can continue to express their personal desires and freedoms without extra responsibilities, I think that person is still open to change. Only when they're not the centre of their own universe and continue not to desire kids do I think someones mind is truly set. So don't close up future possibilities, no matter how certain you think you might be. You can never plan how you might feel in 5-10 years. Think about how much your worldview has changed since you were 16-21; that's how much it might change again when you're 32-38.

[@TheCrimsonBlade666]

We pulled your leg hahahaha. You started the story my friend

[@edensdaddy]

Always said having children wouldn’t change me but it has. My gaming time is in the single figures a week because rightly so my daughter is our priority but working full time and as she’s gotten older the ever increasing amount of after school clubs it really digs into “my time”. Wouldn’t change anything for the world but I do miss my all nighters spent gaming!

[@adamt1729]

Ahh perfect time to eat salmon and watch a cayle vid

[@cayletalks]

Thank you dude

[@tomtomwho]

I have 3 kids hundreds of games and every console since zx spectrum. I still play games and work and I'm a good dad. My kids love gaming and they have a library 10 times Cayle's to play from. We share our love of all sorts of different ip's and its great.

[@herschelstevens8748]

Have you ever had any injuries that's derailed your training. I'm currently recovering from hernia surgery and it sucks. However I've got lots of free time to game haha

[@dexxgraywrestling]

Love these vids! Is it possible to hold the camera differently as there was a scratching noise coming from the mic 👌👌

[@cayletalks]

I must've held the camera higher than usual, my bad 😅

[@VegasAceVII]

I won't be having children either for many of the same reasons. Thankfully, it won't happen by accident either because I'm man and also with a dude. Every man in my family has had to pay child support and the relationship between the father and mother gets so ugly, it damaged so many of the kids in my family. They all have horror stories about their parents at each others throats even beyond the divorce.

[@shaunscott7837]

Totally your desicion not to have kids. I have 2 but to say it's a 50/50 split on whether they will be 'good' or not (like a coin flip) is utter nonsense!

[@26conno]

The people saying you don't know what you're missing if you dont have kids are the same people who would have something to say when the parent who didn't want kids isnt being parenty enough for them! How about just letting people decide if they want to bring another person into an already messed up, overpopulated world without telling them they're wrong about knowing their own limitations when it come to being able to look after said kid both physically and mentally!

[@TGWWUC]

One of my first cars was.a Triumph 2000 with wire wheels, which I sold to buy a van that was featured on robot wars I then sold that and bought a white fiat punto which was done up woth a full body kit etc and then I swapped that car with a guy from ebay for a burger van haha and the saga went on till I had a Lancia Y10 turbo which I smashed up and now tgat car if you can find one is apparently 50k plus 😊

[@Bird-Birdy-Love]

In my case it largely depends on the circumstance. I also came from a broken family as my dad was also a scumbag... my mom is well... let's just say he broke her. so i was mostly raised with grandparents along with my sister(she suffered a lot more than i did) So i am kind of hesitant on weather i would want kids not to mention my inherited gene flaw which i fear i would pass onto them but if i ever have a serious relationship with my girlfriend and says she would like kids. i would be open to it but i would need to see all the variable and future responsibility, mostly i need to make sure that we both would be ready as i don't want history to repeat itself and have my kid suffer the same struggles. We shall see how the future would bring. in the end its your choice cayle, no one has the right to make you want or not want kids, so any decision you make as long as your happy is alright in any case.

[@Neo_Player]

For what it's worth it doesn't matter whether you have kids or not. What actually matters is that you're happy. Some people will get immense happiness from their children and that's great. Others can be perfectly happy without that. Each to their own.

[@JessePowellZ71]

I’m 31 still have no children my brother was 17 when he got his first child back in 2009 now he’s 33 with 2 kids ages 15 and 12 but I’m 31 with no kids even my older brother 39 still his no kids I do like watching your videos i also have a PS5 PS2 Switch Wii and Nintendo 64

[@SamKA89]

I said at 26/27 I'd never have kids with my missus of 10 years at the time we are now 35 with a 5 year old girl 😂 and out of all the films and games in my massive physical media collection she is interested in is astro bot and Spirited Away 😅

[@jamessibley87]

Would the turtle be called Raphael Leonardo Donatello or Michelangelo?? lol

[@JakeP.90]

Both 34, both got our careers and have plenty of time for our hobbies. Gaming, Lego, gardening and adult only holidays. Won’t be ever having kids. Just not the life style for us. We are happy doing our own thing. Neithers right or wrong. It’s just different life choices.

What happens when you become elderly?

[@JakeP.90]

We get old and die, like everyone else? I assume you’re insinuating that you need kids to look after you when you’re older? What a terrible reason to have kids. Not only that, it’s not a guarantee. 1. I may not get old. 2. They may not WANT to look after us…. I certainly won’t be.

[@timothyjost2820]

Are you going to start doing game log videos again

[@cayletalks]

Check the description of the video👀

[@halaldunya918]

Gonna regret it in the end.

[@DextroSouls]

not really with you on the kids part, i think its more of a you problem because of your upbringing. It doesn't fit your life style as you say but the other reasons that the kid will be stupid or good thats all on the parents and the enviorment they grow up in. im from the hood and i've done my fair share of things but i'm a teacher now! can't let all the shit in the world stop you from doing whatever you want! keep going tho enjoying these videos

[@ZacharyAshton]

Do whatever you feel is right. No explanation required. But for your own good, don’t let your girlfriend of 10 years hear you say that you’re in a “pretty” long term relationship 😂 lead balloon

[@C20VX]

Love watching your content but as a dad that’s been through a similar upbringing and very similar thoughts pre kids…. You’re so off. You’re thinking of all the issues. Girlfriends come with issues. You still have one. The joy of watching your kids growing up and the love you have for them can’t be imagined. It has to be experienced.

[@Betaaaagamer]

Well said

[@supersoniczombierobbins5023]

Woooo animals a forever growing tarantula collection 40 so far also snakes lizards and so on also the animals pets are so quiet well mine are

[@dreamcazman]

I'm a dad of three with two cats, a dog (also a dashie) and run a business. I still have time to game. Not as much as I used too, but enough. I admit, we would be rather wealthy without kids, but I wouldn't trade them for anything. Being a parent is a blessing and something you'll really appreciate later in life.

[@GamingSafeSpace100]

I’m 30, married no kids. I don’t like kids. More interested in adoption if we eventually do want them. But currently just happy living my life how I want.

[@rlvd]

used airpods?? thats grim

[@cayletalks]

Brother people will lick a booty hole of someone they’ve just met but AirPods are too far? 2024 is weird

[@cozzarino369]

Me and my wife were exactly the same about kids, for exactly the same reasons you mentioned. Hell, I even had a vasectomy. Well i'm 37 now...the vasectomy got reversed, and we have a 1.5 yr old 😂

[@TGWWUC]

It'a great experience having kids m8 and if the simulation says you will have kids then there is nothing you can say or do to prevent it 😊 plus when they are born and they look up at you for the first time then I'm sorry that's just when you are attached for life. If you don't have kids your life will be incomplete and you will always wonder "what if" it's all a game m8 I know because I have 4 and I can honestly say I would never give any of them back. Or wish any of them away 😊

[@BouncyTravellerDan]

I say this as someone with 2 kids, I hate when people say you're life is incomplete without kids, it's just not true at all. I agree with you that having kids is a great experience and I wouldn't change anything about having my kids but there's plenty of great experiences to be had without kids too and Cayle looks to be living a very fulfilling life.

[@TGWWUC]

@@BouncyTravellerDan yea I could have missed that bit out you are right 👍

[@Srlly767]

Alie

[@spiral1407]

Do you have a twitter account?