Life Update: I Got Married

Maddy is my whole world and when she died I didn’t want to do life without her. Our love and life was perfect and losing her was beyond debilitating. Days before Maddy passed, I cracked and told her I didn't know how I was going to do it without her. I asked her how I was going to find purpose with life and what I was supposed to do. She paused, and responded, "Live it for them and before you know it you will be living it for you again.”
Life without Maddy is substantially harder than I ever could have imagined. Everything without her has been excruciatingly painful. After weeks of trying to make sense of life, I realized that the only way I could properly memorialize Maddy’s legacy was by living the way I know she would want me to. My mantra for life has become, BECAUSE OF MADDY. Because of Maddy, I parent better. Because of Maddy, I want to always be present and live life to the fullest. I spent quality time with my kids playing and helping them work through not having their mom here anymore. I started connecting with other widows and widowers to better understand how to give my kids the best life possible as a single parent. One of those widows was Jessica Dennert. She lost her husband Tyson, her father, two brothers, brother in law, her grandfather and three other family members in a horrible accident. When the accident happened, she had two beautiful children and was pregnant with a third. The life she has lived is beyond inspiring to me. One of the first things she told me is that the pain of grief doesn’t go away, you just get better at carrying it. My first meeting with Jessica just solidified my thought that the best part of life had come and gone. We both felt validated that we had found and lost incredible love and we would never find something close to it again. We had no idea that we would change each other’s minds.
As we talked about Maddy and Tyson, we found similarities in our parenting styles, our views on life, and the special love we both had and lost. I didn’t think anyone could understand my loss or the love that me and Maddy have, but Jessica did. One of my new favorite phrases is that two things can be true. I can experience extreme gratitude, love, and admiration for Maddy and Jessica at the same time. I can love Wren and Andi and I can love Hanley Will and Blakely. I can grieve and miss Maddy every day while simultaneously having an exceptional love with Jessica full of beautiful, and spectacular moments. I can’t explain it, but I’m so grateful for it. I will never be able to understand why Maddy and Tyson can’t be here to see their children grow up, but I’m so grateful for the opportunity to figure out the rest of my life with Jessica, Hanley, Wren, Will, Andi, and Blakely. Jessica and I still have so much to figure out, but because of Maddy and Tyson we have incredible examples of exceptional marriages to build on and exemplify. We will live and love like Maddy and Tyson. For Tyson. Because of Maddy.

[@karenwelsh6094]

There is no denying the love you have for Maddy and we are so grateful for everything you did for her to help her fight the fight. She wanted you to find happiness, and Jessica was the answer. Wishing you both, and those sweet children, a lifetime of happiness. ❤

[@ChandlerDavidSmith]

Thank you so much, Karen! Love you!

[@yogi.myers.]

Love you guys Karen ❤️❤️

[@linak7155]

Jessica has known a devastation that not many of us will ever know. Good things come to those who have open hearts. The children have meshed so well together❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹 +❤️❤️❤+❤️❤️=🤍

[@RABPWarrior]

I feel your joy 🥹 congratulations

[@sandrabowman8935]

God bless you and Congratulations. Prayers and love for you and your new bride❤❤🙏🏽

[@user-yy7on7zc3i]

I lost my older sister when she was 29. She had 2 young children. Her husband remarried 7 months after her death. At first I was hurt by the short time span. I came to realize that while I was grieving, I still had a spouse. I still had that person and that support. My brother in law went home to an empty house. He went home to raise 2 little people that needed a mom. Life is short and we need to allow people to move forward however that looks. I have come to realize that the best compliment to me would be that my husband would have loved our marriage so much that he would want to do it again if I were gone. My hope is that if I go first, he would remarry soon and that he would have an amazing second chapter. That's really what it is, a second chapter to a beautiful life. It doesn't take away anything from the first chapter. It is just a continuation . Best of luck and live your 2nd chapter well.

[@ihndz9824]

Regardless too soon to start a new chapter. I lost my husband suddenly, no time to prepare for that and it took me 6 years to look at another man again and even then it hurt a lot to put our love behind to start fresh but it can be done. Im not against anyone starting a new chapter again but 7 months, a year or two is too soon. Take your time, don't be miserable, be happy but honor the memory of that spouse in a timely maner. There should be no need to rush to replace our partner just because we are sad or lonely, take your time and do it right. Congratulations anyways and God bless.

[@user-yy7on7zc3i]

I'm so sorry for you loss and experience. I think women do things differently. It takes us longer to process it all. The other thing is that a loss after a prolonged illness is different than one that is sudden. You have the time to start the process and to talk out what the future looks like. Again I just know that people have to grieve their own way. I don't think there is a right or wrong way. Just a your way.

[@CherylAnderson0]

I am very happy for you.

[@scopeyourpeace3975]

@@ihndz9824you need to understand that every person is different… I fully understand both perspectives. You just need to be understanding that everyone is different and that there is not wrong from right… That’s the beautiful thing about people… Everyone is different. You should really try to be more understanding of that. I know if I were ever to pass away, I would absolutely want my wife to find someone new that could help her to raise my son as quickly as she is ready… I wouldn’t want her to ever feel alone and sad for any stretch of time. I know I would never not be missed or not be loved by my wife or child. I would always only want what is best for them and their happiness

[@ggrace1133]

Yes, thank you for sharing your experience. I hope your sister likewise found someone to be with on the other side too so she’s not lonely without her husband and children from this side here. Heaven wouldn’t be heaven without loved ones.

[@andyvaldez212]

"live it for the kids, and before you know it you'll be living it for you again"...........damn that was a powerful statement.

[@katherinemitchell9003]

Congratulations, what a beautiful story! I was a widow. As my husband was dying he told me to live and get remarried. Six months after losing my husband I met a widower at my church. A year later we were married. It’s wonderful to be happy again. I am so very happy for you and Jessica. 😊

[@MeetKevin]

Our entire household is so happy for you and your family, Chandler! We love you all!!!!

[@ChandlerDavidSmith]

Thanks so much Kevin! Thanks for all your help through everything!

[@dawsonlinde9542]

This video has me in tears. There are not enough like buttons. In world full of division and self-numbing, this vulnerability and leaning into grief and suffering and finding hope and restoration is a story we all need to experience more. I subscribed to your channel because I have a few rentals, but this wisdom and perspective blows away all investment advice you’ve ever given. Blessings to you, stranger. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@ChandlerDavidSmith]

This comment means so much to me

[@trishthedish2790]

Chandler I have watched you for a while now I lost my husband 4 years ago with bone cancer I’m 54 an I don’t think I can ever remarry but I’m so excited for you God Bless!!

[@Amber-dx6dy]

It will happen to you again one day. God Bless you

[@user-yq5fr3gs5t]

Congratulations! It sounds like Maddie & Tyson brought you two together. May you live a long, happy life as a family of 7. 🙏🏻

[@AllDayRayRay]

I can't imagine losing the majority of the men in my family, all at once. Brothers, cousins, father, grand father... That's insane. What a strong woman. Your family looks like it blends so well together! Congratulations.

[@catworld8119]

I completely agree! I don't know this man or his family but just from this video, I feel these two adults who tragically lost loved ones far too soon, had some heavenly help to find each other. Whether or not people believe in that, I feel Tyson and Maddie were guiding the way. :-) Looking at the blended family, I cannot see whose kids are whose. They all look like Daddy and Momma! Such a great story and a beautiful family.

[@rieb9365]

Maddy saw your struggles... She brought you & Jessica together! Maddy wants you & the kids HAPPY!

[@bobs1356]

Oh that bull crapp.

[@nelm7526]

@@bobs1356I have never heard a spouse with a terminal illness say “When I’m gone I never want you remarry and I prefer you stay miserable without me”

[@bobs1356]

@@nelm7526 Well that was kind of fast. Couple of our friends it took 3 years or never got married and they where in their 30's. This nan didn't even mourn his wife.

[@nelm7526]

@@bobs1356 To say he didn’t even mourn his wife is a bit harsh. Anyone who has dealt with someone who has a terminal illness mourns their partner way before their passing because eventually , mental capacities go down and they are no longer the same person you married. There is no textbook on how to deal with grief or a specific timeline on when someone should get remarried. This life is hard enough, I prefer to extend grace and well wishes to someone who has been through something I couldn’t even begin to imagine.

[@mildamilda3211]

You're all psycho to accept it's ok for a man to engage another woman just within 4months and be married within a year of losing a wife to cancer.

[@kaden56]

Hell ya man I’m so happy for you! Those kiddos have a bright future after your tragic loss because of the outlook you chose to have. You are killing it!

[@ChandlerDavidSmith]

Thank you so much for this comment! Means the world!

[@noahromar7415]

We missed you so much brother!!! LETS GOOOOO. Glad to have you back!

[@angelacrimmins6074]

Maddy was part of the same cancer support group as I am in. I'm a stage 4 fighter myself. Maddy was awesome. I can't lie it kind of breaks my heart you remarried SO fast. I do however pray for you and your family's happiness. You all do deserve to be happy even if it was moved fast in our eyes 💙

[@thainac1732]

I’m surprised he remarried so quickly as well. I’m glad he’s happy and found love, but wow 😮 I’ve heard men tend to move on quicker than women.

[@acs1993]

You don't know his situation they are most likely helping each other through there losses. Not everyone is the same I'm sure he loved Maddy he now has to try to move on and if this is his way of moving on let him be.

[@nancyellen8006]

Well said. Men often feel the strong emotional need for love and companionship and some men remarry quickly after losing their wife. It’s okay if they make the choice to remarry. We don’t know what they’re going through. It must be horrible. ..

[@thainac1732]

@@nancyellen8006 Of course it’s okay to remarry. I was just surprised at how quickly it happened.

[@diannedao]

I am sooo happy not only for Chad and Jessica but also for those precious 5 young children. When God closes one door He definitely opens another. We can plan all we want but when He has other plans for us, you just got to grab it with both hands! I know this because I too experienced the same thing. After the loss of my husband I was left with 2 young sons age 2 and 4 years old (and we were working on our 3rd baby) I had to pick up all the pieces of our broken dreams and make new ones. I soon found myself going on the same path of a very close friend of my husband and mine (I’ve known him as long as I have known my husband). This friend was left with a devastating divorce 2 years prior and he had to learn to be a single dad of 2 boys same ages as mine. We found ourselves getting together to do fun stuff for our boys. The love of our years of friendship was already there so as we spent more and more time together it was undeniable how our feelings grew to love and our kids enjoy being with each other. 15 years later we still look at each other and amazed how we ever got together and grew 4 amazing smart responsible young men all in college and medical school and we have 1 still at home (our 14 year old son that’s ours)! We would NEVER EVER imagined we would have that second chance of happiness and of raising a blended family!! But here we are! God is truly Great! Even though it felt so fast within a year that I moved on, honestly everything just FELT right and his kids and my kids being so young made the transition so much easier. So CONGRATULATE Chad and Jessica for finding each other and giving yourselves second chances at happiness and making a HUGE difference in your children’s lives by having a loving stable happy family!! God bless each and everyone of you. No one can truly know what and how you feel and what all you are going thru. The only things that matter are your big beautiful growing family!! ❤️❤️👏🏻👏🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🎉🎉

[@sznlaura]

Thank you for sharing this with the world. I lost my mother to cancer in a similar age as your kids, my dad remarried around 6 1/2 months later and for me it was the greatest gift ever. Very happy for you the kids and wishing your family the best!

[@Bel-ri4vz]

For Me ....the opposit. 😔

[@cindiegrimm5983]

How wonderful!!! I've been a widow for nearly 15 years, after being with the love of my life for 41 years. I was 57 when he died, and just felt I was too old to start over. I have to say, I regret those years I lost 'stuck' in grief and not letting myself out. I've spent the last 13 years telling people with loss that grief never goes away, it just changes. That the open wounds tend to toughen with scars we will always carry, but we learn to move forward. I am so very happy for both of you and those beautiful children. You have 2 guardian angels watching over you and cheering you on. If you had gone first, this is what you would have wanted for them. LIFE . God Bless and BE HAPPY!

[@justinev7846]

Ever since you started sharing Maddy and her story, I felt so drawn to her, she seemed like such a kind soul and you are so lucky to have found a love like that and to find love again. Many congratulations, wishing your family all the best

[@PaytonClarkSmith]

Love you brother. It’s been so hard to watch you go through this but amazing to watch how you have responded. I’m amazed at how deeply you love Maddy and the lengths you went to get her better. We sure miss her. Im so happy for you and Jess and the kids. Love you guys!

[@nixx8840]

Chandler. Regardless of whether you personally know us, we're your community and your family. We always want you to be happy and want to be there when you're struggling. These people in the comment genuinely care for you and your family. KZbin is a strange thing.

[@ChandlerDavidSmith]

Thank you so much!

[@Wired1200]

Your pain is very relatable. What brought me joy again was giving back to people less fortunate than me. I'm not a multi millionaire like yourself but buying Christmas gifts, toys, etc, to children growing up without parents, orphanages or easing the pain of children growing up in poverty is giving me purpose in life.

[@vallivergano239]

This is beautiful ❤

[@spicytoyz1183]

Welcome back, and thank you for thinking of us! I think it's absolutely amazing that all of you found each other! I support your decision, and admire your strength! Thank you again for sharing your story with us!

[@blake2492]

Chandler, I have been rocking with you for years, through the tear downs, the evictions, the new properties, the cars, all of it. Watching you go through this life battle was so hard to watch, yet so inspiring. You are such a strong, patient, humble, and grounded guy. I know I don’t know you personally, but I can honestly say I am super proud of you, and happy for you. You deserve it! Congratulations to you both! God bless you and your new family! 👊🏼

[@ChandlerDavidSmith]

Thank you so much! This is such a kind genuine comment!

[@user-od5sh1ck5g]

Chandler, I’m so happy you found someone to share your journey with. I don’t doubt for a minute that Maddie and Tyson brought you both together. What a beautiful blessing for all!

[@HolyElkGaming]

Hey Chandler, you're all very amazing. Thank you for sharing an update. I'm happy for what you've found and allowing your life to continue. Your family has grown now, congratulations! May God continue to bless you and guide you through your journey!

[@oliverwhisper]

It’s uncanny how much Jesse looks like Maddy! God bless your new blended beautiful family. Family is everything. Stop the guilt. It’s all love.

[@susanwagner9443]

God bless you! You are honoring Maddie by continuing to live fully and well. 🙏🏻

[@krissmith8671]

Nothing but love and admiration for you, Jessica and those five beautiful grandchildren of ours🥰

[@amymac41890]

Yay! I don’t even know you but so incredibly happy for you all ❤

[@NoahKettle]

Great to see you again wishing you and your family the best, extremely sorry to hear about your loss

[@phenix1307]

So happy that you are okay and have found your way forward. Thank you for sharing your inspiring story. Praying for you brother!

[@lilianario3538]

I lost my boyfriend and soulmate 11 years ago to cancer. It's a terrible pain and I fully understand those feelings and emotions. After all these years I found a new love ❤️. And I believe it was sent by him from heaven. I just wish you all the best in the world for you all. You deserve so much to be happy!! All of you ❤

[@blockchainprofessional]

This is no longer just another KZbin channel. It is so much more. Thank you for sharing your journey.

[@alexjohnsonbro]

This is powerful. Thank you for sharing your experiences!

[@linak7155]

I came across your channel a while back and sobbed with you. Maddy died, and you were so broken. You have now climbed back out❤ So wonderful you have chosen life. Your Maddy was a beautiful young woman who knew she was dearly loved 😍

[@ninakoch1799]

Congrats, wishing you guys nothing but love and happiness!❤ Madds would be proud of how you are making the most of life and taking care of your shared kids. And I am so happy for you that you found love again.

[@blakevotaw5033]

Orchestrated by the ultimate conductor…..GOD is GOOD!! Continued prayers for you all as you start this new journey together

[@MissMariQueen]

Yeah, a bus conductor.

[@cbowman78]

I am so incredibly HAPPY for you and Jessica!!!! You have a whole lifetime ahead of you with your beautiful children!!! Mady will never be forgotten. She is an amazing spirit! I will continue to keep you in my prayers!! Beautiful video. You did a great job! ❤❤❤

[@brynmichael8029]

Great way to spend a night! Absolutely in tears! God bless you and Jessica and your new family! You’ll be a great dad to 5 just as you were to 2. Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 Maddie & Tyson are watching proud!!

[@jasonmarin7258]

Congratulations!!! Nothing but love for ya, brother ❤. It’s great seeing you back on KZbin. It’s great seeing you smile through the tears.

[@motley06]

I lost both my parents within a year of each other, so I can relate to your pain. I don’t think the pain ever completely goes away. Glad to see you’ve learned to manage that grief and move forward. You’re a great guy. Glad you’ve found happiness. Super excited you’re back on KZbin, but do it at your own pace.

[@NS-lx4hx]

I had a cancer scare a few months ago..I got very I'll fast; i was also first trimester pregnancy.. I told my husband when we came home from the ER( the doctor did a scan and thought I could possibly have lymphoma cancer the doctor said older moms (41) risk of cancer gos up. I need to see a specialist the next day) that night in tears😢and very terrified ..i told him that if I have cancer 😢 ..I won't do any treatment (bc the pregnancy) ...and that if I am to die please get married right away😢! I was extremely upset! I can't put words to it! .... But I knew I didn't want him to be alone the rest of his life. The initial next appointment the specialist wanted me on heavy steroids..( to reduce the swelling) but I needed approval from the pregnancy doctor for the meds .. The next day after was our first ultrasound! ( I was very swollen & in pain) They saw the baby had no heartbeat 😭..(I was so sick and felt I was nearly choking bc of my swelling in my neck)they scheduled emergency D&C😢. And I was on the highest dose of steroids they could give me ...we went through the loss of the baby & still me very I'll & not Knowing exactly what I had for shure.. then after seeing a head and neck specialist and some weeks past & medicine.. It was clear i did not have lymphoma.. but an issue w my glands that would resolve over time. I'm thankful and grateful to be here but it was the most painful physically mentally and emotionally spiritually I ever had in my life!! I wanted the best for my husband and I wanted him to enjoy his life if I were to go. No one wants to go! No one wants to even think about it! but it was the first thing I told him that night after the ER if I ever was to die. he knows my wishes for him to have a blessed life if I die. I have also told family my wishes for him if anything happens to me. I love him ❤ We are going to celebrate 24 years of marriage this year.

[@CaseLucasRobinson]

Congratulations. You are on of the reasons I started posting here on social media. Glad to have you back and glad life is looking better.

[@Mcmillenbrandon]

Thank you for sharing your story! You deserve all of the happiness my friend!

[@1017brose]

It takes so much courage to share your personal story publicly. You have articulated your journeys so delicately. Maddy and Tyson aligned your families to come together for a new chapter of lifelong support and love💞You all deserve it! All the very best!

[@JuanEGonzalez-wr7lk]

We are glad you're back, I know I'm not the only one waiting for content from you. Keep on pressing forward on your new journey with our kids.

[@fasteddie8225]

Glad to see you’re doing well man you deserve it so much! You’re a great inspiration to many glad you found light in your life again!! Much love from the 801!🤙🏽

[@TechieTurnedInvestor]

Was just looking at your channel looking for some new content!! Glad to have you back

[@michaellawrence3345]

Aaaaah mate sorry for your loss Bless her soul 🙏🏾

[@MendandMake]

you deserve your happiness... been following you and glad to see a good guy smile again. Best of luck to your family man.

[@valdezfears5023]

Glad to see you back congratulations on your new family. Much respect.

[@andrewwiggins5505]

I'm so happy your back and so grateful for all the things you've taught me from real-estate to how to handle challenges in life, I've been checking your channel every few weeks to see if something came up and today was my lucky day. Keep up the great work and thank you for the video today it really brought me hope!

[@Ditronus.]

Man, you motivated me to make some of the best business decisions I have in my life, buying my first several--and possibly last--properties (let's be honest the market is crazy high). I tuned out for a couple years (while still using your very helpful app), and was *crushed* when I came back and saw the video of your wife's last year. I was in tears the night I watched it. I'm happy to hear that you and your kids are doing well, pulling together the broken pieces across multiple families into a unified whole again. It's beautiful.

[@ChandlerDavidSmith]

Thank you!

[@VanessaR87]

Congratulations, Chandler! Continued blessings to you and your family.

[@johncody-newinvestments5187]

Chandler, first I want to say I’m glad you took the break you needed for your family and for yourself. welcome back and I hope to see more of you! Nothing I say will ever make things better for you nor can I comprehend the situation and feelings you, Maddie and your kids have felt over the last three years. We’re here for you, we’re rooting for you and we’re part of your community. I’d say the way you handled this chapter in your life was nothing short of incredible. You’re an amazing father and husband. God bless you, your family and Maddy. ❤

[@WranglerCrush]

What an Amazing story! Such an inspiration for the world, I wish you and your family nothing but the best. Thank you for sharing and providing a Light for us all!!!

[@carlasandifer4386]

❤I LOVE THIS FOR YOU ALL! YOU KNOW YOUR HEAVENLY SPOUSES ARE AT PEACE WITH THIS! MANY MANY BLESSINGS AND BUNDLES OF LOVE! ❤ I watched your video and Im from SD and remember praying for her and her family....I'm so glad you two are together!!

[@cqbarnieify]

As a grieving person myself, what you said about the times where you weren’t sure if you would make it, really resonated with me. One day at a time, we must somehow go on. I am profoundly sorry for your loss. You are now inspiring me to have hope for a brighter future. May God bless and protect you and your beautiful family each and every day.

[@cherylthrone8775]

I found your videos a year ago and am so happy for you. It's amazing to see how God has carried your family through all of this. I'm also a hopeful real estate investor, so I look forward to more of that content too!

[@spencerbeesley3955]

Just beautiful how this life works and brings people together when they need it the most. I’m so happy for you… I’ve been waiting for this video to come out ever since seeing the video about your previous companions passing.

[@WoodUCreate]

My Man!!! You've gotten lucky twice in love! Jessica obviously captured your heart and life can move forward with your great family. I'm overjoyed with your new life and know you'll be happy.

[@MrHsvhardhitter21]

Congratulations bro. Was worried about ya after everything with Maddy. Couldn't be happier for you and your family !

[@user-se7ky3hb6n]

When God closes a door He opens up a window. God Bless you & Jessica & kids!

[@theSatanist]

Chandler, your courage to share such a profoundly personal journey is truly commendable. The way you've articulated Maddie's enduring spirit and optimism amidst such daunting challenges is deeply moving. Her resolve to stay positive and present has clearly touched many lives, including those of us who only know her through your words. It's evident that Maddie's legacy continues to inspire and guide you and your children. Your ability to rise from the ashes of grief, embracing hope and gratitude as Maddie wished, is a testament to the strength of the human spirit. Thank you for reminding us all of the power of resilience and the importance of cherishing every moment with our loved ones. Keep living your life with the same tenacity and love that Maddie showed every day. Your journey gives others the courage to face their own trials with a hopeful heart.

[@ChandlerDavidSmith]

Thank you so much!

[@jpcommander]

Glad you’re back! Good to see a video again.

[@nareda.]

This just made my heart sing. Stay brave do vulnerability. Keep living. thrive!

[@TAMMYRICHMOND-ll8xb]

Congratulations to you, Jessica and your beautiful new family. You'll deserve all the happiness in the world.

[@ihndz9824]

Regardless what others might think i feel sometimes it is too soon to start a new chapter. I lost my husband suddenly, I had no time to prepare for that loss, I cried every day for almost a year, I read books, google stuff did whatever i could to be sane and it took me 6 years to look at another man again and even then it hurt a lot to put our love behind to start fresh, but it can be done. I'm not against anyone starting a new chapter again but 7 months, a year or two is too soon. Take your time, don't be miserable, be happy, get busy with other things, give your kids if you have any time to adjust to a new normal before bringing in another person to be their parent, honor the memory of that spouse in a timely maner. There should be no need to rush to replace our partner just because we are sad or lonely, take your time and do it right. Congratulations to you anyways and God bless your union, glad she's also a widow because that help both of you deal with the feelings of loss, pain, love, family etc. The pain is real, i feel it to this day.

[@nicolet1982nj]

I agree 100% those poor children didn't even have a year to process and he already had to go find someone new. Kind of pathetic in my opinion.

[@chabotamasupelo8320]

Just wondering if he truly unconditionally loved her. Cause there is no way one would move on in a blink of an eye! 4months after her death, he remarried. I don’t know am just sad

[@MissMariQueen]

​@@chabotamasupelo8320maybe he was seeing Jessica whilst Maddy was ill.

[@angcoleman9040]

@@nicolet1982nj Life is so damn difficult sometimes, it’s all some people can do just to survive. We never truly understand what any other human is going through and we all respond to trauma in different ways. Open your heart and remember that the way you think you might deal with a situation in your head might not match reality.

[@012345678982877]

@@nicolet1982nj I agree, and we should not judge, but, where is the respect for that he say's he has and what about those babies they had no time to grieve there mother before he threw them into more heart break by another lady, how they must feel, confused maybe, hurt, but this guy thinks he can act like nothing happen and expect those babies to get over her in a short time selfishness and I bet when they grow up they will let him know that, he is looking for conveience and help to raise his children he could of had that, in time but he gets on her with his big smile and happiness for a new start he should have asked what about my kids what will this do to them..he figures they will get over it, simple to him, because he got over his wife in a short time but again what about his kids, he open the door to criticism because he posted this he should have just kept quiet and did his own thing instead he deserves to get negative posts and it makes us all wonder about our own husbands what would they do if it happen to us?

[@annchavez1494]

I’m so sorry for the losses of Maddy and Tyson 😢 May you and your beautiful family be blessed with love, peace, and so much happiness ❤ Your story has given me hope that I will find a way to find some peace and happiness on my grief journey. I didn’t lose a spouse, I lost my eldest daughter, and have been struggling for almost 13 years to find a way to stay present, and bring love forward. Your love that you share with your family and your story really resonated with me, and I hope to read your book someday ❤ Much love going up to Tyson and Maddy ❤ Congrats to you and your new beautiful wife. ❤

[@Pat7629]

This story is just incredible. I was listening to this while driving from my Cape Cod house back to Boston and sobbing my eyes out. So happy for you and best wishes.

[@Serene_jl]

You both, as well as your precious kiddos, deserve a lifetime of happiness and joy. You're a testament to resiliency and hope. Thank you for sharing your story with us ❤

[@unofficialnation7033]

I've felt so beyond words for the loss you had with Maddy. No one deserves to go through that and during your hiatus there were times id often think about you and the kids hoping you were doing ok. I'm so happy for you and Jessica and the life the 2 of you will give those 5 beautiful kids! This is your happiness that you both deserve and its the family those kids deserve. Much love bud!

[@brc9064]

Congratulations 🎉- I know she is smiling and happy that you have found someone to love you and your children ❤❤❤

[@KarenRoss-qp3sl]

Hi Chandler. Greetings from the UK. Wow, what a powerful video!! You speak so eloquently of your love for Maddy and you will love and miss her forever. However, life has blessed you with your two beautiful children and now with Jessica and her three additionally besutiful children. SO glad you have found each other and all you bring to each others lives. Maddy and Dylan will be thrilled for you all. What a truly beautiful story Chandler. Life is short and i wish you nothing but the best. Live your lives and continue to honour and remember Maddy and Dylan. With love and light. Karen. 😊❤ xx

[@ElizabethJW]

I hope you truly do know that it is okay to love someone new while still loving and grieving your late wife. I’m sad to read so many judgmental comments regarding the timing of the new marriage because I just don’t think there is a “right” or “wrong” way to move forward after such a tragic loss. You and Jessica can relate on a level that many others will never be able to fully grasp. I hope your now blended family can find joy, peace and love after losing so many important people 🙏

[@taking98]

Thank you for sharing Maddy’s story. I’m so very sorry for your loss. She looked like an amazing person. I wish you and your family all the best.

[@asimon8313]

What a blessing! Heartfelt congratulations to ALL 7 of you. 💗

[@joshuacluff4959]

Such a cool story. Thanks for sharing it with us Chandler!

[@juanalzate9453]

Chandler, I’ve been watching your videos for years. I am praying for you and your family. That you would continue to find joy during this time. You’re an amazing father and husband. Keep it up, one day at a time🙏🏻 God bless you all!

[@tedramos3195]

WOW😭😭😭, what a testimony, I’m SO HAPPY FOR YOU GUYS! You deserve this and God always has His way🙏🏼God bless🙏🏼

[@DadLifeGaming]

It takes a lot of courage to create a video like this,. Only you know how you were feeling and how you are feeling now. I'm glad you were able to get out of that dark place because you deserve to live your life and continue to be a great father to your children. The best part is that the kids get along very well. Wish you, Jessica and the kids nothing but the best!!

[@a.life.reimagined]

Happy to hear from you. I was wondering where you went. Good to see you. Congratulations❤❤❤

[@kaltoumtita8089]

Oh my God, I’m so happy to see you back, since last year I didn’t stop thinking about you and your little kids, thinking about your story make me crying many times, and I really was praying for you and your family. I was waiting to see you back with videos again. I wish you the best in the future. You deserve it. You are a good person just by taking good care of your wife. You deserve to live for yourself now.

[@jimbrown1707]

God is good! I followed your posted journey with Maddy and it was truly heartbreaking. Also, the heartbreaking journey that Jessica has lived through would be unbearable. You found each other through shared experiences but I pray that you recognize the higher influences that brought you together. Continue to have faith in the one that provided that and enjoy your new family. You both surely deserve it.... God bless!

[@jenrandolph9313]

What a beautiful story! ❤ I followed Maddy’s story and thought she was such an incredible person and fighter. Looks like you found another gem. Congrats 🎉

[@cherylwaller4826]

I've thought of you often, Chandler. So glad to hear that you stood back up. Chapter Two: Bring it on! Love, life, blessings and all that God has in store for your family!❤️🙏🤗

[@dianagray702]

What a beautiful story. I watch the last video you made about the struggle Maddy had and how much she loved her family. You and the kids deserve to be happy and may God bless you and Jessica and the whole family. ❤

[@brycefedie]

Wow. I respect you. I could only imagine how hard it would be to go through all of that. I’m happy that you’re happy!

[@bart1meuz]

So happy for you. I’m glad you found a life partner and that the kids are all happy. Looking forward to watching more of your content again. Welcome back sir

[@tanyaplatt9585]

God bless you and your family, Chandler. This is beautiful and wonderful!

[@numberline65]

Such an inspiration to those struggling with loss! Glad to see your wonderful story continue!

[@Janice789]

I’m so happy for you and Jessica! I will always be sad about Maddy. I cannot fathom the loss you and Jessica have both experienced. Best wishes to you and your beautiful family 💜.

[@Whylezz]

That song at the end is perfect. So sorry for the challenges you and Jessica and your kids have had to face. Wishing you all the happiness in the world!

[@PubieSaladx]

Glad to see you getting back to life Chandler and finding that light again. You, Jess, & the kids deserve happiness

[@britneynicole8903]

I am so happy that you are back!! And I am so happy for you and your kids! ❤❤

[@Oyimtalkingtoyou]

That's so beautiful!!! I was crying watching your other video just a few days ago .. then this one came into my feed. What a gorgeous, wonderful place you now find yourself. I'm.so happy for all of you in your new journey. God bless you ❤

[@yogi.myers.]

Love you Chan! And we love Jessica so much. And remember the lost loved ones every day with you guys. ❤️❤️❤️ Excited to have you back on the channel! I’ll even volunteer to do any dumb thing you want to celebrate ;) Grateful for you!

[@ChandlerDavidSmith]

Love you G! Thanks for all that you have done and continue to do for us!!

[@dev_alade]

Yogiiiiii thanks for being a great friend to Chandler

[@cloud24patrol]

Love Yogi. Love Chandler. Thank you both for being so uniquely you. Both of you

[@cameroncostley1803]

Thanks for sharing your story, the good and the bad. So glad that you're on your feet with your family.

[@SkiddingF350]

You deserve to be happy and so do your kids. Your journey has touched many lives. My mom was a widow and my step dad was wonderful father to me. I've watched your story and I'm familiar with that deadly plane crash of a couple years ago, such a tragedy. God has a plan for all us, the Plan of Happiness!!!

[@joycemccardell5357]

Blessings to your blended family! Life is so short, as you both know …be happy and enjoy this next chapter in life! Congratulations!

[@sherrykelley741]

You’re future looks bright. Congrats to you and Jessica. The kids are lucky to have you both❣️❣️

[@lawyerup8040]

Prayers up for you and the family! Can't imagine the range of emotions you've been going through the last couple of years. Keep strong.