What were the most impactful parts of this talk for you?
@Human_Evolution-5 жыл бұрын
The humbleness of focusing on getting better all the time rather than stroking your ego. (The Metallica part).
@fellow9yro5785 жыл бұрын
Malcolm X part....I love the idea of using your deadline to your most alive time....the idea that every moment in some way we can get stronger and stronger is so inspiring
@DailyStoic5 жыл бұрын
@@Human_Evolution- an amazing example of adopting the student's mindset
@DailyStoic5 жыл бұрын
@@fellow9yro578 If Malcolm X can turn jail time into alive time, we can turn our days of freedom into alive time certainly
@PerryBattles5 жыл бұрын
Daily Stoic The internal vs external score card part was big for me.
@teamwpventure5 жыл бұрын
Each night before bed I always find myself thinking about how lucky I am to be alive and able to experience the precious moments life gives us.
@vatrweaver51695 жыл бұрын
Out of 2 billion spermatozoids, end up a winner? So upsetting !
@Grimenoughtomaketherobotcry5 жыл бұрын
A great antidote to the Golden Age of Narcissism.
@outdoorflowsports5 жыл бұрын
exactly my thoughts...
@j.72325 жыл бұрын
wow so true!!!
@umapuma5 жыл бұрын
perfectly said
@mzwandilemhlongo70745 жыл бұрын
"Do not place your identity in the outcome, but rather, in the input of your efforts"
@raymondtendau27495 жыл бұрын
"Where i am putting my identity is not in the outcome but in the input...Wow i love that.Thats solid for me.14:10
@carolmosher77455 жыл бұрын
If there is no outcome what is the point?
@raymondtendau27495 жыл бұрын
@@carolmosher7745 you got it wrong bro. He never said there is no outcome.Read again i recommend.
@carolmosher77455 жыл бұрын
@@raymondtendau2749 Ok, so you compete but you don't win? You build but you don't complete? What is the point of that? Ego is all about outcome. It's why we exist!
@raymondtendau27495 жыл бұрын
@@carolmosher7745 Unfortunately,you still decide to Misunderstand it,thats your choice tho,you are right i think😂
@happiness.of.pursuit5 жыл бұрын
"you focus not on how good you are, not on what you've done, but on how much better you can get"
@cautious13435 жыл бұрын
Well said!
@YuchanLeo4 жыл бұрын
The best thing happened to me during this pandemic : Robert Greene, Ryan Holiday, then it leads me to Stoic Philosophy 🙏🏼 Hard time, but I start appreciating everything happening to me 🙏🏼 I’m slowly but changing !!!! Thank you
@rationalmystic55 жыл бұрын
I'm just 8 min into this talk and already I can see how good Ryan has become in delivering his talk. He is sharper with great flow and punchlines in between. Really engaging to watch. I have seen most of his previous talks and I can really tell the difference in the before and now. Great job sir. Great job.
@faustopf-.5 жыл бұрын
I can't even explain how grateful I am to have found your books and KZbin channel. Thanks for this jewel
@laytonfrancis30364 жыл бұрын
You've just blown my head off🤯 !! I always look at the world with a positive attitude and try to be humble too but I just had to subscribe to your channel sooooo much truth in what your saying. Love ❤️ what you do ! keep up the good work!👍🏾🙌🏾
@cautious13435 жыл бұрын
Keeping ego at bay by always striving to get better could be the most impactful part for me. But the part that exposes how ego limits us is very useful also.
@True385 жыл бұрын
Working, studying, learning and working out, and be around other people are great methods for keeping yourself humble and gracious. Staying home alone and engaging in social media will easily create a puffed-up ego and false image. This is why having any kind of job is so important.
@climbeverest3 жыл бұрын
I am crying as I hear this, I wish I had been schooled in this. I should have known this 60 years ago. In middle to high school and college.
@creepinwhileyousleepin3 жыл бұрын
Very easy to lose sight of these things day to day. Good talk
@shimishiba23175 жыл бұрын
Super inspiring for everybody. We all struggle with our ego. Its so much more attractive to have your own personal successes yet remain humble throughout.
@andreasleonlandgren30925 жыл бұрын
Shimi Shiba yeah.
@pinkvalentino4 жыл бұрын
This message takes on a new meaning during those crazy time! Instead of watching tv, scroll though SM, take a book, learn, so we can leave the isolation better than when it's all started!
@anahopkins70065 жыл бұрын
What a great video! The most impactful were the examples of leaders who do the right thing when the right thing affects them negatively. Such an aspirational goal!
@DailyStoic5 жыл бұрын
Selfless leadership is incredibly inspiring
@makaylahollywood36774 жыл бұрын
I hope this will be mandated curriculum in every classroom from this day forward, starting in 8th grade, or high school. Your ideas are big. People will see how valuable this is, probably late.
@KatyWantsToGo5 жыл бұрын
My ego is my friend, we hang out... Some say they have a soul, I am a soul and I have an ego. When I finally learned the difference between the the two voices, everything changed...
@MrBanks20244 жыл бұрын
Great summary. I'm fairly familiar with stoicism and keep it close to my hear but this brings it back down to earth well.
@zynetik2 жыл бұрын
I´m almost done with this video, but the one thing that caught my attention is post-traumatic growth. I once injured my whole back practicing archery and I was forced to take an 8 month break. When I came back, I had the best season of my life and that was even better when I missed half of it due to the injury
@Abheydeep4 жыл бұрын
Hello Ryan. How the fuck did you learn so much at such a young age. I have a tremendous amount of respect and gratitude for you. You are a great student, teacher and a mentor. Thanks and wish you all the humility .
@stephentimoney5 жыл бұрын
The idea that you should lean on confidence over ego and confidence is based on your experiences, learning and practice of your craft! Leaning on ego is like walking with your shoes untied, eventually you will trip up.
@carolmosher77455 жыл бұрын
Ego is the engine that drives confidence. Without Ego there is nothing.
@El_p4ancho3 жыл бұрын
“Why shall the Roman people suffer if I don’t feel it first “ absolutely love that
@andreasleonlandgren30925 жыл бұрын
Learn it till you earn it. Great video. Love this perspective.
@SWAENC4 жыл бұрын
As a guitarist , you touched my soul
@getstarted71683 жыл бұрын
"I write about the ancient stoics a lot in my books" -- Ryan providing the greatest understatement in KZbin history.
@sandilekhanyile3 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@satnamo5 жыл бұрын
The death of the ego is the awaken of the soul; ego is the enemy.
@edwinvalentinocamacho72203 жыл бұрын
The reality of his words and how he defines this mindset to live freely with being intune with oneself " humility and being present , learning to not worry about anything ...
@ivybanerjee58654 жыл бұрын
For someone so young...yr insights are wonderful...just shows how a soul is ageless.....bravo!👍
@knelson5 жыл бұрын
I'm impressed by how clear and moving your message is, officially a new subscriber!
@tinahansen63774 жыл бұрын
One of the best lectures I have ever seen!
@carlosf34215 жыл бұрын
He who humbles himself will be exalted, he who exalts himself will be humbled. - Jesus Christ
@easylife63485 жыл бұрын
Just like buddha says, "learn how to suffer so you wont suffer no more."
@veggi234 жыл бұрын
The majority of the worlds religions teach the same thing - be humble and learn. This makes sense that this universal idea was.echoed in the religions and major secular thinkers before, during and after Christianity.
@prometheus94893 жыл бұрын
Such an enlightening lecture. Simple yet profound. Thanks Ryan👍👍
@groovekiller4 жыл бұрын
The fact you mentioned Joe Satriani made my day!!!!!!!! These are guys are looked up to my child hood, Kirk was also mentored by Steve Vai btw :P
@charliesheen30195 жыл бұрын
This is such a brilliant talk, I loved it!
@coreysmithson96855 жыл бұрын
KZbin : "Here's a speech on stoicism." Me: "Okay, sure." Ryan : "This is Kirk Hammett..." Me: *Subscribe*
@michaelho77274 жыл бұрын
Wish I could give this 10 thumbs up. Literally first thing in KZbin where I turned on my notifications
@billytinsel954 жыл бұрын
I subscribed yesterday. Just listened. Very good. Im learning
@christopherarmstrong27104 жыл бұрын
18:25 Q: “Where did you go to college?” A: “BOOKS” - Malcom X
@ry5174 жыл бұрын
👌🏽
@KingMinosxxvi3 жыл бұрын
Prison
@PratikRajNahata4 жыл бұрын
Can’t get over of this amazing video. I get so pumped. Thanks for sharing🙏
@jennamarsey32475 жыл бұрын
I have ur book and I love ur videos. Keep doing you man.
@learninghowtolivetakesawholeli Жыл бұрын
Great speech ryan you got me thinking
@lovealways26094 жыл бұрын
you definetly are developing your gift of identifying and broadcasting~ the simplest~ concise~ yet~ most helpful ideas and concepts for well adjusted life~ This ~ helps ~ Alot ~
@splonkdesplonk4 жыл бұрын
Incredible insights for a truly balanced life. Wisdom at its finest, great job Ryan
@kaboyonicholas20944 жыл бұрын
Because of this message of all I have listened to from u...I wanted to subscribe twice🤣, infact I wanted to like twice, but truth is i needed this so much
@jeremyjensen43855 жыл бұрын
You are awesome Ryan thank you
@AlbertoSalas5 жыл бұрын
Awesome information. Thank you
@JB-nn3rz4 жыл бұрын
I watch your videos and I think it's working out many thanks iv led a HECTIC SELF CENTRED APPROACH TO LIFE IM TRYING TO BE A BETTER PERSON THAN BEFORE AND THESE ARE HELPING ME 💯💚✌
@Tykoon253 жыл бұрын
I learn so much from you, THANK YOU!!!!!!! social media is the enemy it distract me from being my best potential, it consumes my mind an I feel drained afterwards
@sinistergeek5 жыл бұрын
Amazing talk..we need to embrace of what we are ? Don't let ego get the best of you...
@stephanienguyen55395 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video!
@MikeWoot655 жыл бұрын
So so good
@formisfunction18613 жыл бұрын
Where is the video where Ryan talks about the toxic news cycle? He talks about how news is always "breaking" or "developing" and how news is designed not to inform but to sell ads.
@robgoodsight62165 жыл бұрын
Memento Mori is often a very and awkwardly misunderstood meaning: Lots of people do not realise how life can end abruptly, i.e. my own life can cease at any instant, and then my questions would be ...what have I done with it? Have I done the right thing? Just hope to have revealed it in the end. Very good speech.
@JohnM...5 жыл бұрын
Memento Mori is actually, if you read it, one of the principles of The Bushido Code. It prompts every Samurai to imagine himself on his death bed, looking back at his life, and asking himself what he regrets and what he would have done differently.
@shiceta3 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@nancyvasquez94124 жыл бұрын
Awesome video, thank you!
@ChristChickAutistic4 жыл бұрын
Taoism brought me here. Subscribed!
@millionairejeffjr4 жыл бұрын
Great content. Thank you for sharing!
@alexandreals4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@True384 жыл бұрын
Do not put too much emphasis on humility and gratitude no matter how nice these qualities are, because they won't necessarily drive you forward. Also, every person is wired differently and someone is more naturally humble than others. But there are many ways to Rome (ego or not), and thus - what people really should be focusing on is their strengths and abilities and go their own way. There are many more people out there with a sense of false humility who are too scared to take big risks and really make it (and thus secretly hate and envy those who have a more grandiosity spirit) than people who have the guts to be who they really want to be. Being constantly humble, following the herd and keep your head down with gratitude is not a great recipe for success... It's just people deluding themselves to think they are so "good", but really just afraid...
@N_Patil803 жыл бұрын
For me, inner scorecard makes most sense because lot of other things I am already familiar with and have been practicing lot of it with some success; inner scorecard and external scorecard is the key for me. It also keeps me humble and keeps me stay away from ego. After watching this video now I sleep well because now I know I am doing my very best and measure myself against my internal scorecard…I still need to find what I would like to have in my inner scorecard but I have few things and already helping me. I see this concept relatable to ‘ Not giving F**k’ mantra of Mark manson’s book.
@charlesfrey6605 жыл бұрын
Kick ass, well said. Keep it up. Real Deal Stuff
@geninelizon73824 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@carlcandiano15173 жыл бұрын
Great video
@ConnectedInvestors5 жыл бұрын
"Fake it till you make it." Another meaning: Act he way you want to be and one day you will become the way you act.
@reidhorne63985 жыл бұрын
That's how I interpret this phrase.. Subconsciously we need to believe that we can achieve our goals..
@timmiriajay60062 жыл бұрын
The one who puts the finishing touches on their life each day is never short of time.
@deefraijo31485 жыл бұрын
Love your example of the guitarist for Metallica. That's the difference between someone who creates from the heart with passion as a supposed to someone who does it for money. Wonderful, terrific presentation. It's just important to meet one's own needs. To go within and listen to your own guidance. I took over a month off on social media it was wonderful. Sure I missed it at first but, I've learned solitude is a good thing if you want to hear what you have to say to yourself. Thank you...do the next right thing. It's my moto to too!
@swabby4295 жыл бұрын
I sincerely wish that our world's most powerful leaders would absorb the amazing message in this video.
@mnewt7125 жыл бұрын
Love it! Thank you
@StoicEvolution1 Жыл бұрын
Marcus Aurelius: "Never let the future disturb you. You will meet it, if you have to, with the same weapons of reason which today arm you against the present."
@willbrink Жыл бұрын
We can all learn from Buddy! :)
@davidjoseph7885 жыл бұрын
Great video. You Rock
@t-bone64674 жыл бұрын
Glad he knows about John wooden and his approach to success.
@spyfawkes5 жыл бұрын
“The greatest ego-trip around is getting rid of your ego.” - Alan Watts You can’t avoid ego bc it doesn’t exist...it’s an idea you have about your who you are.
@pedroarrosi63245 жыл бұрын
So what we should do?
@OrangePenguinTF5 жыл бұрын
@@pedroarrosi6324 That is the question. Isn't it?
@spyfawkes5 жыл бұрын
Why do you need something to do?
@Ccm20194 жыл бұрын
Ego is like a persona that basis comes from other external factor, like telling yourself you’re the greatest. Like affirmations that you’re special, that you deserve the title or your great because of stats instead of doing things that you want. Ego will remove when you stop measuring yourself based on other people’s opinions and other worldly standards. That’s why when you remove your Ego it’s very liberating.
@Hshjshshjsj727275 жыл бұрын
great talk! worth re-watching
@doctorpete13 жыл бұрын
Awesome!
@robaduna88685 жыл бұрын
Kawhi Leonard - Humble. Confident. Best basketball player in the world. #kingofthenorth
@carolmosher77455 жыл бұрын
Lebron is the best.
@herrweiss25805 жыл бұрын
Bernard King ✔
@sargebeats5 жыл бұрын
Ryan is a metalhead. Fucking awesome.
@katherinekelly64325 жыл бұрын
Ego is a edifice built out of the increasing self awareness of the mortal feeling child in relation to the world it lives in. What it is made out of becomes its expression. Usually it becomes a reaction to suffering and death.
@michaelricketson13653 жыл бұрын
Jalaja Bonheim’s book “ The Sacred Ego” has a unique positive perspective on the ego.
@michaelsmith4835 жыл бұрын
That was great thank you
@JoseGonzalas5 жыл бұрын
Very well said
@fellow9yro5785 жыл бұрын
Superb...
@TejenderPrasad3 жыл бұрын
Brilliant...
@yw64865 жыл бұрын
The beautiful of ancient philosophy. its that you can applied that knowledge to this amazing moment in our lives. and if humanity learn how to management his own egos the world. would be completely different in any sense. by the way! awesome video :)
@rishabhsingh91095 жыл бұрын
Great talk Ryan. A lot to learn from. But if it had just a little bit of humour it would be so much more engaging as a talk.
@animatedsermons44484 жыл бұрын
I don’t think he has much of a capacity for quality humor. He’s doing really well with what he’s been given.
@richardsrensen42195 жыл бұрын
to get better every day dont think you know it all no matter what you already know and have done and prepare for the setbacks in life and fokus on what is in your control . the internal scorecard.
@kathleenuchida1324 жыл бұрын
Aloha Ryan, I love your stoic messages! I want my 11 year old granddaughter to hear them. However, I hesitate due to the not very often but, in my opinion, unnecessary expletives. In the future, could they be beeped out? Please? Thank you!
@UnclePhilsCellar4 жыл бұрын
Brilliant!
@sshoegirl300044 жыл бұрын
Where was this when I was a teen...lol. Better late than never!! 😀
@LauraBellanova Жыл бұрын
Great🔝
@SEP7EMBER103 жыл бұрын
Gold!
@JohnSoloMan50005 жыл бұрын
Thank you @ryanholiday
@reganovich4 жыл бұрын
Malcolm X... absolute genius and incredible human being
@racecondition31764 жыл бұрын
Marcus Aurelius inspires me to waste as less time as possible. I'm currently improving my coding skills and created my youtube channel as a result.
@alegce44975 жыл бұрын
Ryan Holiday 👏👏👏 You are the real MVP. Thanks for sharing and inspiring 😍❤️ “Amor Fati”
@johnnyarroyo23555 жыл бұрын
What's your opinion on the 50th law were Robert talks about people with a strong ego pg 262 I agree that ego is the enemy but do you think you should see ego as an ally and developing a strong ego if only for a day to develop a fearless attitude? Or do you think ego in all its form is useless?
@Ccm20194 жыл бұрын
Ego is temporary
@Onlinesully5 жыл бұрын
the inner scorecard is something i missed
@Onlinesully5 жыл бұрын
it's all bang on. wish i listened to this in my late teens or early twenties.
@JetskiDex5 жыл бұрын
Thats a first step once you grow in awareness you learn to utilise your ego to your advantage thats what it's there for. Not just avoid it, thats silly and immature.
@fructosecornsyrup57594 жыл бұрын
Is that ego or confidence?
@Ccm20194 жыл бұрын
Ego is personal importance. Ego comes in many forms like thinking and saying you’re great or other bullshit words instead of doing the things that makes you happy. Like being shy that everyone will laugh at your work. That everyone thinks of you as something better than everyone else instead of doing the task you reall want to do.
@success_chemistry5 жыл бұрын
Everyday is faster than the last.
@michael73245 жыл бұрын
What is the opposite of ego? Humility?
@carolmosher77455 жыл бұрын
The opposite of Ego is death. Why? Because Ego is life. Humility is weakness entering the body.
@iam1smiley15 жыл бұрын
Open humbleness is the opposite of ego.
@oddviews4 жыл бұрын
selflessness! The opposite of humility can be, pride over humility. Have humility, but have your pride too! I have super EGO: E for energy, and GO!