CHAOTIC UNFILTERED DAY IN THE LIFE WITH A NEWBORN AND 3 TODDLERS | LIFE OF A STAY AT HOME MOM 2023

✨John 3:16✨
I hope you enjoy this Unfiltered day in the life with a newborn and 3 toddlers! This is what it sounds like in my house everyday but I usually put music over all the crying and whining haha. For all the moms out there that think they're doing something wrong because their child cries and "influencers kids are angels" I hope this makes you feel better!
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[@brittanydaniella539]

This video is what I needed today. I’m a mom of 4 girls - ages 13, 4, 2 & 8wks (exclusively bf) - and I do feel like I’m doing it all wrong because my house is like zoo all the time with screaming whining fighting kids. Thank you for showing this side, I would actually appreciate more “less edited” videos. I find them to be reassuring in that I’m doing okay and this is just what normal life with little ones looks and sounds like ❤

[@libbygarcia3554]

I have 3 children ages 8, 6 and a baby the same age as Lincoln (3 months). I clean my house but shortly after it is a mess again, there are noises all the time and sometimes I feel very tired. But don't worry, you are doing good! You must enjoy each stage of your children because they grow up very fast, let them enjoy their childhood. That's why I like this channel because Madeliene being so young is a great mom!! Motivates me!

[@marajadeskywalker6510]

You are for surely doing a great job!❤I have 2 girls, it‘s like having twins sometimes because they are only 19 months away from each other. You are a great mum🙏i often feel like I am only changing diapers and cleaning their mess the whole day over and over again🤣😀

[@Mum_2_8_kidzillas-x]

I know the feeling 😕 I'm mom of 7 aged between 13 and 3 and its none stop especially the mess and my lot also fight your doing great hun especially with all girls they are hard work I have 3 girls and 4 boys xx

[@kimberlysanchez4869]

Wow you look so beautiful without makeup! When you said you look like a zombie I was like huh? 💀 no way! Lol

[@morganwickman8451]

Just to reiterate what someone else said, I’m SO appreciative of the unedited chaos of having small kids. I have 3 kids and currently pregnant with number 4. My house is loud, there are crumbs and I’m definitely not waking up before my family to make a lavish breakfast. This is super reassuring that I’m still doing it right, even if it’s not perfect!

[@MadelieneVanMarter]

When I first started making videos I wanted everything perfect because that's what everyone else was doing and I wasn't being true to my real life. The more I thought about it.. who has a clean house 24/7 with babies and toddlers?? lol I like the mess and "chaos" its part of motherhood!

[@rzi777]

Hello, I am from Turkiye. My baby was born the day after Lincoln. But she is the 1st, not the 4th like him :) So watching you inspires me. Thank you so much... You are a very good mum. I wish you happiness with your family🥰

[@dayanae.9962]

Mústela newborn shampoo I’ve heard it works wonder on cradle cap.

[@Danniii8888]

For the cradle cap you can put a small amount of coconut oil on his head every day. Then just very gently brush his hair with a very soft brush. Over time the cradle cap with lift off. Sometimes it comes off in chunks. There’s also a product called silky tots that you can put in Lincoln’s bed that will stop his hair from breaking off in the back. Might help with the cradle cap too.

[@lisaveenstra7098]

That is so awesome your hubby gets a nice long paternity leave .. im sure that is so helpful. You do a great job!

[@tanyastalking8495]

Girl I found this cradle cap system on Amazon from the nose frida brand and it’s bomb. I had to double check it’s called dermafrida. And I’m so glad your husband has the time off!!

[@MadelieneVanMarter]

Yes I just started using it and it’s starting to go away!!

[@tanyastalking8495]

@@MadelieneVanMarter so awesome to hear!!!!!! 😍😍😍😍

[@freyachandra1869]

My daughter had cradle cap when she was born. When I would shampoo her hair, I would kinda massage her head with my fingers. And then I would brush her hair a lot. Both of those things helped exfoliate her head. :)

[@motherofmanychildren]

I congratulate you on the birth of your baby! I have 9 children, this is a great happiness!🎉

[@GenerationX3333]

I'm an empty nester- my wonderful son will be 27 this year & he is my best friend

[@tesssklena]

Yes! You finally got a Nespresso! Every time you make a pot of coffee I think, “can we pls get this girl a Nespresso machine!” LOL Love your content btw - you’re the only ‘mommy blogger’ I watch because you seem so real and down to earth❤

[@MadelieneVanMarter]

Hahaha 🤣🤣 thank you so much!!

[@verali9815]

Try using mustela's cradle cap shampoo and lotion. It's very efficient for our baby!

[@arobaquazi8119]

This is the first time Iam commenting a video on KZbin. Thank you for sharing unedited version how it truly is with toddlers and baby at home. I am a mom of 3 kids(5 year, 4 year and 4 months old). I can so relate to this routine. Thank you for showing a real day! This is a feel good content :)

[@MadelieneVanMarter]

You are so welcome!

[@lakliams]

Use breastmilk and coconut oil for his cradle cap, ut works like magic, i used to scratch my sons gently his hair didn't fall, but it was a never ending story till a friend told me about breast milk that's why it's called liquid gold☺️

[@lexyeppley]

When my first had cradle cap I used coconut oil and would put one of the thin baby hats on to both help it soak in and keep it from getting smeared on things. And then I'd gently comb it off with a fine comb in the bath. Love this video! I'm due with my fourth boy in less than 3 months 🥰

[@TheSiobhan12]

For CC: Oil and brush or comb after the oil sits for a bit, like 30/45 mins and you’ve massaged it in of course. Then I like to gently rub it a wee bit more to loosen things and then a soft brush or comb with fine teeth so it gets the flakes out. All done slow and gently of course. Good luck 😉

[@Flowerchild5]

I second coconut oil 😊 you have to consistently apply it and brush his hair for it to stay away. Worked for my now 1 1/2 year and currently in the process of getting rid of it on my 3 month old. It smells grosssss when coming out but it’s worth it. Alsooo thanks for this lol. I have 3 kids under 4 and sometimes it feels so lonely. This video was so relatable ❤

[@MrsLopez28]

The Frida mom cradle cap set is what I used for my 2 month old and it worked so good, it’s very gentle and I recommend it :)

[@katieelogann]

This vlog really gives me hope 🙏🏼🙏🏼 I still think you are a super mom 🥹🥹 it’s nice getting to see a relaxing and unedited day in the life 💕

[@jana8363]

Hey. I was sooooooo sick for the last few weeks and in 3 weeks my second son will born. I had no time and was not motivated to watch your last couple videos. But I did now. You did a good job on editing and showing „the real deal“. That’s life. Inhalte to laugh your husbands changes the diaper and just saying „oh nooooo, iiiii, oh no“ all the time. Yes my husband is always SCREAMING at me when my first son was that little hand had the „accidents“ all over the place. The diaper explosion. 😂😂😂😂 he always needs help. What was the ingredient after the oat creame? The delight bottle. In Germany we don’t have this. So I could buy a substitute. I do have heartburn since many weeks. I have to skip coffee. Otherwise I need medicine. Soooooo your coffee looks so great. I need this too after the baby is born. In the other video you talked about your skincare. Yes. I do wash my face too with just water or whatever I have. But I want to take care of my self a bit more. I have pretty dry skin. So do you have video about that? Or a recommendation? Did I miss any information? So stay as you are, such a real sweet mom. 🎉😊 Ah forgot. This Nespresso Maschine is on my list for a while. Which coffee you use? The golden one, with flavor?

[@AmericasGotGermans]

Lincoln😍Cutness overload 😊😍

[@Tori-to9jm]

Your nails are always so pretty!!! I want to always have pretty nails as a mom! Haha I try but I HATE polishing my nails and waiting for them to dry. Baby needs me then they get ruined. How do you do your nails? Do you get them done? Any tricks and tips? Lol

[@justwanttowatchvideos9647]

I really enjoyed the style of this video, I used to prefer music dubbed videos but with a toddler running around I have KZbin playing on the Alexa so I’m not always able to look at the screen. I still think you’re super mom! Do you plan on expanding to tiktok? As for video suggestions I’d love to see meal ideas and maybe like random get ready with mes. Anything where you’re talking forsure your voice is really calming you should be on radio 😁

[@yvonnevankan4607]

Hallo dear, I love you and your kids, I am a grandma and see your vlog for the first time. Lovely to watch....

[@LauraB86284]

My 3 month old son has reoccurring cradle cap, i talked to a nurse practitioner, and she said by 6 months it should be gone. I guess we will see 😬🤞🏼

[@jaelynmartinez959]

Can you make a video showing us how you sleep train your babies???? seems like your boys do well self soothing themselves to sleep

[@samu6874]

My midwife told me to soak the babies head in oil and leave it there for an hour then gently wash and massage. It May take a couple times. But she also said there is no nead to remove the cradle cap. We didnt with our 2nd and she just lost it all before her 2nd birthday. Our first had those oil treatment and it came back till he was 4. My pediatrician said its fine, but I shouldnt use soap or shampoo on his hair because he has very sensitive skin. He was right water is enough most of the time.

[@teresajaramillo1978]

To help lincoln with his gas. Put a piece of peppermint in some warm water. It will help him. I did this when my daughter was a baby and she was gassy.

[@kimsmith6054]

My daughter and I play with the animal pouch by one of us hides the animals around a room and we flip the animal cards upside down and take one at a time and find the animal in the room. Good activity for physical movement. 👍

[@motherofmanychildren]

❤ Nice to meet you, I'm from Russia. also opened a channel! you have very nice videos

[@cherylshaimas8238]

my mother used to put baby oil in my baby brothers hair and take his baby comb and gradually comb it out.

[@jennyeliza706]

Put coconut oil on before his bath and then use the dermafrida on his head while you shampoo to get off the chunks.

[@madimulholland]

Give me a 2 hour version of this and I’ll be set. Lol this looks exactly like my day 😂 I’m loving seeing the things you do like miss Rachel!! We also have the same book I try to read to my almost 2 year old and it goes about the same way as Hudson! I loved this!!

[@adelejonker581]

4 boys. Wow what a blessing. I have being trying so hard

[@bmani9930]

Baby oil and a soft brush or I have used lavender lotion

[@HarrisonHammond]

I need to get ready because my friend

[@HarrisonHammond]

My friend had cradle cap

[@dreamerdem28]

Just wanted to say that I love your videos so much! I had my first baby girl on 03.12.2022 and your videos are the only thing getting me through the night feeds 😅💕 so thank you for that!

[@marajadeskywalker6510]

Congratulations🎉I have 2 girls😀I watch her videos at 5 a.m as my little girl is daily up then😩😀

[@dreamerdem28]

@Mara Jade Skywalker thank you! 💕 oh wow that's an early daily wake up time 😅

[@laurenagresta8973]

I suggest lightly brushing in circles in the bath. Don't wash hair everyday. And use coconut oil or breast milk for cradle cap! 😊

[@MadelieneVanMarter]

I've heard a lot of people mention using breast milk. Might have to give that a try!

[@forit6338]

8:23 the cutest🥺🤍

[@OrdinaryEnglishMum]

You're so gorgeous and your boys are so sweet ❤️

[@abbolunda2736]

Which month old

[@starfish3156]

If you pick at the cradle cap, you can pull more then the hair out, it’s ripping the skin open and can bleed and hurt!! Cream /oils and leaving it alone baby will eventually grow out of it.

[@GenerationX3333]

Sweet beautiful Wonderful Madeliene- thanks so much! I absolutely love your videos

[@taniabonillac.7323]

I love your video. Every family Is diferente. You have 4 Littles and beautiful kids. The noise and cryings are natural. I'm proude of you strenght and your Energy . God bless you and your boys. Greets from Chile

[@alyssab170]

Baby Aveeno Eczema lotion works miracles. It worked for my child’s cradle cap. I only applied a tiny bit and it eventually went away.

[@girlfromthevillage403]

Love you ! You're killing it ! I wish you and your beautiful family the best 😊🩷🩵💚 Edit : by the way I'd recommend a silicone hair brush for babies for the cradle cap. Use every time you wash your little ones hair and it should clear up 😊 and sudocrem is good for moisturising dry skin anywhere ,including the head

[@briannatisdale8215]

I found the best method for cradle cap is simply Vaseline! Smother his head, put on a hat you don't mind getting stained, and repeat until it's gone. Works like a charm and very quickly!

[@Tori-to9jm]

Also you are seriously such a natural beauty. Such a beautiful mama. The first time I saw your videos I was like wow she’s sooo beautiful then realized you weren’t wearing any makeup or anything!! So pretty.

[@katiepowell6897]

Avery had really bad cradle cap on and off for a couple months too. I used coconut oil when it was really bad but it eventually just went away in its own.

[@melymartinez1346]

Love to see you with your boys 💙 for cradle cap my pediatrician recommended using Head and Shoulders shampoo x2 a week, making sure not to get it on their face. When lathering, also using a baby brush to brush the shampoo in . I only had to do it once and then i switch back to baby shampoo but still using the brush

[@angeljohnson2824]

I found the medicated Selsun blue works really well for cradle cap. Use it probably twice a week leave it sit for maybe 1-2 minutes and it cleared it up in no time.

[@ReeniHeartsPink]

Ok hear me out but I swear by mayonnaise for cradle cap! The vinegar helps break down the buildup and the oils moisturize so it’s super gentle. Just massage it on the scalp for a minute or two and wash as normal. Repeat as needed (but I never really needed too)

[@katievanderport5996]

Cradle cap- cover his head with baby oil. After it sets a minute or so, comb through it with a fine tooth comb. Works so well it's gross 😆

[@lanafoxlisa3686]

Love this video🥰 You are great and your boys are so cute! I'm happy to find your channel - it gives me mental support in my own parenthood. Partly your day looks absolutely like mine - I have two girls 7 and 5 years, and also two boys - 2 years and 6 months. And sometimes it really looks like zoo or madhouse. But I'm trying to love this moments too❤

[@booksarebetter29]

Yes ma'am with the real life vlogs 👍💖 love. Boys are so fun 😂

[@katelynebanks2989]

Try applying breast milk on the affected areas for cradle cap! I would use it on my 1 month old while I was nursing him and it worked!

[@fuzzles93]

Agree about the cinnamon in iced coffee because I love that brown sugar drink from Starbucks too… you can actually make the brown sugar syrup in a batch then you can make it at home

[@jacquelinedeegan5401]

Frida cradle cap fixer. It’s a brush and comb that helps loosen. It also has a spray conditioner. It didn’t make my babies hair fall out

[@Jaidiliasantos]

I only see 3 children in your videos you say 4 but I never saw where the other one is

[@MadelieneVanMarter]

Landon was at pre k but was in the video later after he came home :)

[@kayleighduran3858]

I used coconut oil on my babies scalp. I would let it soak for a few hours then comb the cradle cap out with a fine comb. Worked for me!

[@Madisonclaredaniels]

For Cradle Cap, put some Olive Oil on a paper towel and rub all over his dead sigh it. Let it sit for a little bit then use a baby comb to comb it all out. The oil will help to loosen it! Then bathe straight afterwards! ❤️❤️

[@brittanydenney7348]

Love your videos, you're doing so amazing with all the kids and Lincoln 💙 my boys also love watching Ms Rachel she has so many great learning videos! My #3 baby is due this summer so your videos help me with a lot of inspiration!💜

[@patrickoconnell1580]

Hi Maddie, this is what I used with both my babies and it works every time, use melted butter, and a fine baby comb, rub in the butter well into the areas, leave for five mins then go back and forwards with the comb and u will see it come away, and it doesn’t cost anything!..x

[@txfirefly_lexip]

My little one also has cradle cap right now. His pediatrician suggested washing his hair/scalp with Selsun Blue twice a week. We just started using it this week. Hoping it works.

[@falisfatma1056]

Hey Madeleine 👋 please use pure coconut oil on his head it will get rid of it. It worked for me

[@brummelliana3584]

It’s so wonderful seeing a newborn grow up, he’s already more alert with a personality 😭 but I do like the less edited video! It paints a more realistic picture.

[@traceymadigan1726]

If you cover his head with baby oil ,leave it overnight and use a fine tooth comb it will come straight out :)

[@veronicavelasquez557]

I got the fridababy cradle cap set from target from my baby shower and it got rid of my sons cradle cap in one day it was really bad too it went all the way down his forehead that thing is amazing so I would 1000% recommend getting it🥰

[@katinadiep9268]

It's so cute to see her playing and read books to the boys. I must admit that I've never been the parent who really enjoys kids toys! Thank God my husband does!

[@kristinadalia]

Omg when you pointed and said “you’re the whiner” and he rolled and whined I had to rewind and watch again. That was just so cute haha kids are the best 🥰🥰😍😍

[@judy2068]

I watch these videos to help me decide if I want to have kids

[@MadelieneVanMarter]

hahaha

[@BoymomVida]

breastmilk i used for cradle cap and then bath after it help w my boys..believe it or not

[@juliawardwell7307]

So curious to know more about Darren’s diagnosis! He doesn’t seem to stim or flap, he’s a quiet chill little dude. love your videos 🤍

[@phoenixgarcia-martin8203]

My three oldest were quite babies but my two youngest are very loud when happy or sad 😂😂

[@refiningroots.4269]

My daughter is almost two months and she had the same thing going on . I was told to keep her hair washed daily with a sent free shampoo and it worked great! I didn’t bath her daily but did keep her hair washed .

[@Josey168]

For cradle cap you can use a silicone scrubbie and a little bit of head and shoulders shampoo

[@fatimajaffer8380]

Apply coconut oil on the scalp! Really works for cradle cap!

[@shelbywilliams1603]

I used Vaseline for my babies cradle cap. I would let the Vaseline sit on her head for a while then wipe it off with a wash cloth. It usually came right off with the wash cloth, but I would repeat the process of it didn’t work the first time. I don’t know if that’s technically correct… but it worked for us. Love your videos! Just found you, you do such a great job momma!!!! ❤

[@MadelieneVanMarter]

Thank you! I didnt have vaseline so I just used the tubby todd healing ointment instead and then washed it off after and it worked so well! Thank you for the help! 💗

[@shelbywilliams1603]

@@MadelieneVanMarter yay I’m glad you found a solution!!!! Your doing a great job girl 💕

[@friedafarmwall5034]

Go mama!!! I love your vlogs☺️ my mornings and days look like that too

[@tommi3257]

Mineral oil is a go too. My son had it and it worked wonders and it helped grow the hair back

[@jienethann5203]

This is what I am waiting .. The day in the life vlog 😍😗

[@GenerationX3333]

Yes!!! I love your shopping videos

[@Sarah-ov8dy]

I love Darren's haircut he's so sweet.

[@kathyeshelman40]

Baby oil is good for the cradle cap.

[@ADG247]

Coconut oil removed it all for us ❤

[@jessicareed8005]

Mustella for cradle cap!!

[@chellamc1]

Pls upload long videos.....

[@genniejefferson6588]

I only see three kids.

[@MadelieneVanMarter]

Landon was at school all day and when he came home he didn’t want to be on camera. But he’s sleeping on my bed at the end.

[@kate_700]

This is such an inspiring video. Thank you for the background noise. Mamas needed that. You’re an absolute rockstar. I’m excited to subscribe and watch more. Cheering for you! ❤

[@MadelieneVanMarter]

Thank you so much!!

[@emilyzirk3263]

Love the VT shirt!!

[@jonelle_planningxo2371]

I’m just loving your videos. I’m no where a mother of 4 (I’m carrying our first child) 😅. And I swear whenever baby Lincoln smiles/giggles, I instantly start smiling. Makes me more excited and less stressed to become a first time mom.

[@MadelieneVanMarter]

awe congratulations!! and I know his little smile melts me into a puddle 🫠

[@sarabrown6816]

I just found your KZbin recently and I appreciate how you show real life not edited fake KZbin life. Like your floor has toys everywhere and your house isn’t perfect! As a mom of 3 boys, I watch KZbin moms and see their house so clean all the time and that’s just not real life! You are doing a great job mom! ❤

[@MadelieneVanMarter]

At this point I just don’t care to hide anything! I don’t know how some people have a spotless house with multiple littles. I wish! Hahha. I think it’s important to show the real life stuff!🫶🏻

[@Rach1238362]

I highly recommend coconut oil, specifically vita coco organic coconut oil from Amazon it’s amazing at getting rid of cradle cap :)

[@MadelieneVanMarter]

Thanks for the tip!

[@nursingandmoming]

Just used the Frida baby cradle cap system and it worked like a charm! Also, what baby swing is that? Would love to see an “about me” when you do your new content! ❤

[@MadelieneVanMarter]

I have their cradle cap silicone brushes! They work really well!

[@mrmarcusfarcus]

We just had some moderate cradle cap in our newborn! We would put Vaseline before and after his bath, during his bath I would use a brush with his baby shampoo to gently massage and brush his scalp and hair. Went away in just a couple days! The Vaseline seemed to soften the flakes so they came off with gentle brushing during bathing

[@steff9041]

I used baby oil instead but did the same with great results.

[@user-jpmorgab]

Lincoln is your twin!

[@janinenussbaumer3936]

I love the toys you have for little lincoln. I encourge you to listen to the podcast "the bond" its a christian podcast about parenting with the focus on jesus.

[@MadelieneVanMarter]

Wow thank you for sharing that! I've been looking for something like this💗💗

[@chellamc1]

My lovely four ❤️