4 Habits To Get People To Respect You (Avoid Being A Pushover)

[@cali-pranks]

My favorite part of Walt’s story is how he adopts the characteristics of all of the people who he’s killed/defeated in order to empower himself.

[@ameennasar2583]

He respects the fallen

[@Hendori3]

Just like mega man

[@davidci]

*SPOILERS* My favorite part was when he killed Uncle Jack at the end and absorbed his racism and said the n-word repeatedly

[@KastaRules]

Good point.

[@demonsuckafucka6828]

Like how kratos acquires new powers

[@angeloaugusto618]

For me, the truly calm under pressure is shown in Mike Ehrmantraut character. He's the real badass.

[@ighorkingeski8944]

Mike and Gus

[@marcmontalvo787]

Fingers

[@Mayanksabsurddd]

Angry:😒 Sad:😒 Happy:😒 Dying:😒 Left granddaughter alone:😒 Son died:😒

[@daverage4729]

No more half-measures. ;)

[@dirtyunclehubert]

not only a badass ex cop and maybe soldier. but also a deeply disillusioned depressed guy who pretty much doesn't care about a lot anymore because of his murdered son

[@mikemcgown6362]

I never watched this show, but I did learn some things about commanding respect and confidence from my Dad. He wasn't the biggest man around, but when he was around nobody had more attention and respect than him. His air of confidence made his 6 foot stature seem like he was 10 feet tall and bulletproof. He's gone now but far from forgotten. Dad will always be my hero and model for what a man should be.

[@Juan-nu8pm]

Could you please elaborate on what your father used to do to be respected and heard? Thanks

[@mikemcgown6362]

@@Juan-nu8pm First off he remained calm no matter the situation. Second he always spoke clearly and to the point. Third he would listen to opposing views. The response he had was usually given after he took a moment to think. That's command for respect. Flying off the handle and yelling never gets respect.

[@billybob6604]

watch the show bro it’s so good

[@Juan-nu8pm]

@@mikemcgown6362 Totally. Thank you for your answer.

[@tanish181]

@@mikemcgown6362 thank you for this!

[@icemage7739]

not only does talking slower make you seem more confident, it gives you more time to think about what your going to say next

[@thecowboy9698]

"Choose your words wisely, because they will influence your happiness, your relationships, and your personal wealth." It's worth adding: "In some cases, they might even save your life, but the key is knowing not only what to say and how, but also when to speak and when to keep quiet."

[@nak1601]

this show is a masterpiece. the small little details that transformed walt into heisenberg is just amazing

[@Arakko-i7h]

What is the most useful life lesson you have learned? 1. Quit constantly posting on social media. 2. Most people don't adore you; it's a symbiotic relationship. 3. Never use coercion in relationships, discussions, or meetings. 4. Find your inspiration every day and use it to get through the day. 5. Money just creates an illusion of happiness, not the real thing. 6. Most people have no idea how pure bliss feels. 7. Never grow old. It is possible to live it. 8. You can accomplish a lot for someone and still be abandoned. 9. Make the most of your emotions. Let them dominate you only when required. 10. Death is NOT the end, whether you believe in science, religion, or nothing. 11. Invest in good memories with or without money. Age-related needs for them 12. Everything is mental. 13. Love yourself, but also love others. Be kind to everyone, even haters. Kindness isn't weakness. 14. Do good things with no expectation of reward. This is not a deal. 15. Pure heart, mind, and body. Avoid negative energy. 16. DRINK LOTS OF WATER REGULARLY. 17. Eat healthy foods including vegetables, fruits, and yams. 18. Exercising regularly keeps you healthy. Go for a run or the gym. 19. In the end, you'll realize it's all futile. Our endless aspirations of money, excitement, attention, and life. "Yote ni vanity," as we say. 20. Don't pursue someone who won't return your kindness. 21. Love them now, but you'll be surprised how lovely they'll be in a few years.

[@_Bacon_bits]

I'm saving this, thank you!!!

[@Arakko-i7h]

@@_Bacon_bits Glad to help.

[@ooglespoogle1929]

Mike Ehrmantraut and Saul Goodman are starkly different characters with very different mannerisms, yet they both are able to get what they want and recover from seemingly hopeless and difficult situations. For example, despite his age and seemingly frail appearance, Mike should have been punked by the gangsters he is surrounded with, but he has this calmness, confidence, and ruthless mannerisms that inspire fear into his adversaries and "coworkers" so to speak. Saul is a sleazy person who is very hard to trust when you look at all of the dishonest and sly things he's done in the past. Yet he still is able to use his charismatic and confident personality to get what he wants without much resistance. For example, he is able to project confidence and power, even when he has little or none (Tuco and the "skateboard scamming" brothers negotiation in the desert). Just some suggestions for some characters you guys could break down in future analysis!

[@thetexassaint6571]

That transition from the video to the. Charisma University pitch was the smoothest thing ever

[@Nylak-Otter]

That's actually how I got so much more confident. I've gotten out of situations where I should have died three times now; the most recent situation I had years to come to terms with it, and multiple hospitals and specialists told me to just make myself comfortable. I was able to recover, and having already come to terms with my mortality, nothing else seems really risky anymore. What's the worst thing that could happen if I put myself out there--I could die? I'm supposed to be dead! 🤣

[@luketimewalker]

My compliments!

[@SquibToast]

#4 just reminds me of a self made quote I always use to tell if you have a good villain, if you’re gonna act like you’re better than everyone else, you have to BE better than them

[@gracieavinado4015]

Hey Charisma on Command, thank you for this video. I learned a lot.

[@OPservatorV2]

Memento mori? Man, i'm shitting my pants when it comes to plane flight or talk to crush, but i don't see a frickin problem goin 170mph on bike through city, i'm just built different, okay?

[@InfinityVista]

How to be stronger -Be Cancer -Be 52 years old -Be Danger

[@tsarfox3462]

The best way to dominate any social situation is have a hit squad you use on anyone who crosses you. Past that poison a child and carry a gun without a serial number. You'll command respect in any situation.

[@capy6314]

can anyone recommend some books that talk about this particular subject, i just got into reading so that'll be really helpful

[@michaelmaloskyjr]

#1 -- one practical problem with continuous eye contact -- you're unprepared for surprise attacks. Every fighter says you look at the shoulders to detect torso changes telegraphing attacks. Also you missed with #1: Don't smile. Smiling has evolutionary roots signaling you're NOT trying to start conflict. Primatologists see this with bonobos trying to defuse conflict.

[@playerxz9988]

1:50 got me like " yuh eh- but the kid is not my son "

[@alemsf]

Yall ever noticed how the thumbnail changed from "Copy this habit" to "The stoic method"

[@CanisoGaming]

Memento Mori is the philosophies behind every strong & productive person

[@Mma_tips]

We badly need psychological break down of 'Barney Stinson' From How i Met your Mother.. Notice how he used 'we' instead of 'I' to signify not only his own need but also the need of the other viewers who may benefit from it. When using 'we' instead of 'I' in any social situation makes your case more substantial because it shows the will of other people as well. You might have often observed how some managers take all the credit for a project and leave the employees discouraged. Contrast to this, a manager who shares the credit with his entire team gets the appreciation of his subordinates and greater respect from the upper management as well.

[@erickgurke1660]

My favorite part of Walt's story is how he poisoned a child

[@nesdanziger3741]

Good reference to Stoicism, also thank you for your amazing channel and I look forward to going to charisma University once I have more time.

[@ameennasar2583]

As a person who wish to explore 'stoicism', I have encountered many fake stoics, who demand others to be not offended, while themselves getting offended for petty matters. Stoicism should be widely explored

[@dylanlahman5967]

I could write essays on this show. Greatest of all time

[@romanvladimirovichpetrikov4947]

I have never watched a whole video on the channel before! Now I have watched the video fully several times! It's really useful and superb! Keep it up!! Thanks for the wonderful work!

[@Astinel]

Definitely No 1. Wear the drippiest the hardest coat

[@prathmesh6886]

Make a video on Charlie from 2 and a half men

[@princevegeta9980]

"You don't want to be like Walter in everyway" *Naah man, i do!*

[@theironrubberduck]

"Copy this habit" Points at Walter White aka Heisenburg

[@nazbolonomegle12]

I will become cool like walter white now

[@Nafiur13]

Waltuh

[@dirtyunclehubert]

can we please notice the 50 000 thing, that both walt and mike demand in both series from the salamancas? and they both "get it" by being fearless and willing to risk everything.

[@misterkai83]

Another tip is to be a complete psycho and betray your friends

[@pixigfx1477]

What about GUSTAVO FRING. I think making a video on him would be very apriciating vuz Gus was a real sigma and able to have full control on himself and his emotions.

[@arsen.khachikyan]

I think 'irreplaceable' should go first. I know quite uncharismatic, jabbering, slouching persons who are truly smart and hard working, and they are pretty much respected and well off.

[@anesshwimdi5012]

can you take a look at captain Flint in the series Black sails. keep up the good work !

[@grandfisher3346]

This is good stuff

[@flamingonion27]

I’m a simple man. I saw Walter White, I clicked.

[@quarter_moon_and_a_guitar]

FIrst example is ridiculous. If you talk like that you better know how to fight, and if you do, you talk with your hands up by your face to block a quick punch. He'd get flattened

[@Zhorez1321]

Don't fear death and be irreplaceable. Easy)

[@lotstodo]

Brian Cranston is a great actor.

[@NN-cc8uo]

This is the exact moment I became Heisenberg

[@hrenzapomnish]

Haven't seen the video yet. Is it about how to poison a child in the most effective way to achieve your goals?

[@BeanRatz]

I didn’t hear you say don’t become exactly like him plz the DEA is at my door 😭

[@tvm2209]

TLDR: Become an irreplaceable meth cook and beat cancer in order to dominate any social situation.

[@exyronylfa]

I was searching for how to cook video

[@DinMamma2200]

Sure thing, gonna morph into walter white from breaking bad real quick

[@antichristlucifer9292]

Great for me ,i don't have to pay some 30days confidence and Charismatic program cause i already earn all of it from my own will power, it's all about mindset. You can't make see a blind man what you want to see with him

[@Dethmaster64]

You forgot the step where you call Saul

[@doctorsketch7476]

Lol

[@morlarav602]

No one respects him in BB either BCS

[@_yvngxak]

@@morlarav602 huel does

[@guesty924]

@@morlarav602 Kim and Howard??? ( i mean they used to)

[@loaiatef6032]

@@_yvngxak huel is more respected than Saul

[@Cosmefulanito2812]

Walter White has the best transformation ever, it's like the actor was born for the part

[@avgjoe-cz7cb]

Just remember he was once Malcolm's Dad.

[@Cosmefulanito2812]

@@avgjoe-cz7cb lmao

[@sporperino]

waltuh

[@theultrafish9884]

@@sporperino put your d away waluth

[@TheControlStick1]

Cranston is perfect for the role, but it’s a combination of masterful writing and acting that truly elevate it.

[@SabbaYT]

Recap: 1) Body Language: Eye Contact, Straight Shoulders and Chest Out. 2) Slow Speech. Keep tension between the key parts of the speech and the rest. 3) Memento Mori. Live life fully. 4) Be irreplaceable.

[@lusoverse8710]

None of those things will work unless you shave your head bald though😅

[@Starkkcoyote]

@@lusoverse8710 NAHHH💀💀💀

[@dragonfish5729]

@@lusoverse8710 How about Waltuh in the last episode? He had hair

[@thetheory6159]

Irreplaceable is unattainable. Anyone can be replaced. If you, or me, or your neighbor dies, we can all be replaced. There are over eight BILLION people on this planet. You are not unique. I am not unique. None of us are, and no amount of posing will make any one of us irreplaceable.

[@dragonfish5729]

@@thetheory6159 All of people are unique.

[@cetycon2613]

Now you guys have to do an analysis of Saul Goodman! There are so many things about Saul's people skills that make him charismatic and it would be awesome to get more depth on how he does it! :D

[@tokendaley3218]

SAUL GOODMAN

[@riggs234]

Agreed!

[@Mayanksabsurddd]

Hes like the jesus of social skills

[@saladinsaif417]

This. I want this

[@davidramms]

Would love to see this!

[@mikalgibbs715]

When Charisma on Command keeps making videos on how to learn charisma from villains: “HE CANT KEEP GETTING AWAY WITH THIS”

[@Calebe311]

Cringe

[@doctorsketch7476]

@@Calebe311 no u

[@ryancornwell8563]

@@Calebe311 “Cringe,”- 🤡

[@Stryfe52]

@@Calebe311 “Cringe.” - 🥸

[@Vaultboythefightingmachine]

@@Calebe311 Someone with a weeb picture calling others cringe?

[@GrowthMindsetChannel]

"A leader must be humble but not passive; quiet but not silent." ~ Jocko Willink 💪🏻🚀

[@straightupES]

True

[@MUHAMMADFIRDAUSBINJAURIKPM-Gur]

What is the different between quiet and silent?

[@redead8513]

​@@MUHAMMADFIRDAUSBINJAURIKPM-Gur quiet is a short-term state to maintain silence for a short period of time, it helps you to not expose your weaknesses and your personal info to their will, someone that doesn't have to show who they are through their words but through actions while being silent is someone that is silent for a long-term state of time, you do something they don't like, they will remain silent forever, usually is related to shyness, insecurity and being unable to speak or act

[@change3329]

Amazing videos and thank you for breaking it down!! Despite the economic downturn, l'm so happy have been earning $60,000 returns from my $9,000 investment every 21 days.15

[@gassining5455]

[@pantrmtrowse5856]

I'm currently earning $13,000 a week. God bless Donna and his platforms, he has been a blessing to my family.

[@thasortnia.786]

@Maeorgia How can I reach out to Mrs Donna Weren't? urgently need his management on my INVESTMENTS!

[@thasortnia.786]

@Maeorgia THANKS A LOTI CONTACTED HIM NOW AND HE'S RESPONDED

[@bianca6569]

I'm a long term investor I withdreW my profits of over £56,000 during the covid-19 pandemic

[@Beot78]

4:44 he hasn't lost confidence, he actually is putting on an act to put his plain into fruition. only a few seconds later he is very confident and is in control of what is happening.

[@LSqre]

Walter does that a lot. Act weak when you are strong, act strong when you are weak.

[@spacemann1425]

Waltuh

[@OncelerKidsAreCringe]

Yeah my thoughts exactly

[@TheJofrica]

Yeah agreed. He might have actually been stalling a bit to buy Jesse a few moments to get ahead of them to the apartment

[@fareseno]

Did you even continue the video? He exactly explains that 10 seconds later, yet you couldn't resist yourself from being the smartass who knows it all

[@janofb]

Fear is the mind killer.

[@madmarlowe1422]

I was diagnosed with terminal cancer 6 years ago and it made me much less afraid in general, like the fictional Walter White.

[@lukemarcollo9979]

So didnt end up being terminal? Thats awesome I am so happy for you man

[@madmarlowe1422]

@@lukemarcollo9979 Thanks!

[@kingdeespadas]

you started a meth empire?

[@madmarlowe1422]

@@kingdeespadas I'm thinking about it

[@imsodamnlazy1191]

@@madmarlowe1422 😂😂

[@tyw2675]

I just drove past Walter White's house today, and ate at Los Pollos Hermanos. Perfect timing for this.

[@claymationgloves3662]

4:16 Oh my god! It's Walter black!

[@JustenHarden]

3:55 - you don’t know how bad I needed to hear that, man. It’s been a tough week. Thank you for your content always!

[@aebious8886]

[@josefdrapak1889]

@@aebious8886 kinda rude to send that don't you think

[@Toyhub2345]

@@josefdrapak1889 i agree with the user above

[@idclol2883]

@@josefdrapak1889 how

[@araoluwaogundairo9012]

Please do one in Gustavo Fring. His emotional composure and ability, to play on people's ego and person interests is unparalleled. It's scary watching him because you cannot predict how he will respond. At any point

[@ameennasar2583]

In that regard, the character traits of Stan Edgar should also be analyzed

[@spacemann1425]

He's OCD. Too careful.

[@dripthanos2703]

The show got spoiled for me but I still couldn't predict his reaction so that is some next level character

[@dreamscape405]

Gus Fring was a psychopath. That's why he was able to keep so calm, and emotionally detached. Pull up any video on psychopathy, and it'll describe him precisely.

[@markmorris76]

Walt, Hank, Saul, Gus and especially the bourboun soaked voice of Mike - what a great cast.

[@xkdjdnskdnscndjdj984]

Waltuh, put your fear away waltuh. You are not supposed to back down from the challenges life given you waltuh

[@spacemann1425]

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[@oneworldonehome]

"That which is fearless must guide that which is fearful. That which is great must guide that which is small. That which is strong and wise must guide that which is weak and fallible." _The New Message from God » Fear and Fearlessness_

[@garimasingh8530]

Awesome 😎💐

[@thereligion4169]

So essentially, that which is human must be placated by that which is supreme?

[@francoispellicaan4946]

Beautiful

[@thereligion4169]

So how does one that can never be supreme comprehend or identify supremacy? It’s all a human fallacy.

[@ramensar]

You should do one on Mike Ehrmantraut. Very brave and likeable character with a lot to offer in terms of tricks to be more confident and brave!

[@b.d.eleague4453]

finally someone said it

[@spacemann1425]

All of those things come with a lot of experience. The only thing Mike is, is experienced.

[@francisgallardo4351]

Thank you for this amazing breakdown. And now that we're here, please do one about Saul Goodman. He is truly one the most charismatic and xharming caracters ever created. And the fact that he know how to win the confidence of a lot of people to actually scam them is amazing. He has a lot of power because despite what he does nobody can hate him

[@dmitriy21rrrr]

I love the episode when Walton Woke said 'It's breaking bed, Jerry' and winkled to him alluding to sexual intercourse

[@doctorsketch7476]

Yoooooo💀

[@Chris-0113]

What?

[@irenekatona7856]

Fav episode ❤

[@timia6959]

​@Hello Therethis sentence made me burst out in laughter lolol 😂

[@douglasdobson8110]

creepy

[@JamesRDavenport]

The key in most of these clips is Walt is perfectly willing to go where his adversaries are afraid to tread. What they fear most means nothing to him.

[@markmorris76]

Yes his medical issues made him in a way fearless his opponents couldn't match.

[@jjrobotnik]

Seeing "copy this habit" with Walt made me think this seems like pro drug Lord propaganda

[@Arnond35]

1. Eye Contact 2. Speak Slowly with Purposeful Pauses 3. Memento Mori 4. Be Irreplaceable i. Ability ii. Likeability

[@luketimewalker]

many thanks

[@Briaaanz]

Loved the bit about stoic confidence

[@chemloaf3020]

Just stare at people like a psychopath. Charisma +10

[@_the_mandible_]

The thumbnail is so funny to me

[@eurodad1]

for me too 😂😂😂

[@handletemplate]

this is the exact moment when heisenberg copied this habit

[@egorex7735]

Go bald... Thats all

[@eldar971]

1. Adjust your body language 2. Speak slowly and uses pauses 3. Build stoic courage 4. Be irreplaceable 5. Cook meth

[@IAmJac8794]

starting with 5, hope this works!

[@mosqit4324]

make a tutorial on how to be 3D like Saul

[@enzolaurence5402]

I'm basically walt but only with the lung cancer

[@airesartz7196]

luckily there is a solution

[@eurodad1]

Have you found your Jesse yet?

[@epbicfortnitegamer]

we gotta cook

[@lookupthereupinthetrees9860]

This set of ideas is so effective, give it five or ten years of practice in social or work situations and you will not even know yourself anymore. It will change your inner world. Confidence breeds more confidence, it's a feedback loop. Never ever look weak, if you get that much right you're half way there.

[@zachpedde2412]

Would you consider doing a video about Patrick Jane's (Simon Baker) character from The Mentalist? I believe there to be some great charismatic nuances from his performance that would be valuable to analyze with your methodology!

[@jsv4874]

never break eye contact first or looking down

[@nimzi4479]

This can escalate the situation. Look to the left or right to break the tension. This allows you to stand your ground while communicating that you want to solve ithe conflict without a fight.

[@davidabarak]

1. I can vouch for this working. Several years ago I stood up to a guy who was not behaving in a way I appreciated. Despite him being taller than me and apparently in better shape,* he backed down when I stood my ground. (*In better shape than me, except for teeth. As part of my standing up to him I told him to grow some teeth. I guess I'm lucky he didn't smack me for that, but I was ready.) 2. Memento mori and thinking about dying in five years. That one hit home.

[@Yasout]

uh i took this a bit seriously and now my friends think im possessed because i usually look at peoples lips instead of eye contact because i have adhd

[@promiseolajide6394]

Pls, can you do a character breakdown of either Gus Fring or Stan Edgar?

[@subfreak1996]

Is this satire?

[@gmanlive5764]

He shaved his head and that’s what made him BADASS! Real men shave their heads

[@JonBow_]

In your head just think: "say my name"

[@RussellClausse]

This is the moment kid named finger became charismatic?

[@djtdawg87]

Hey guys can y'all please, please do a video on James Spader's character of Raymond “Red” Reddington from The Blacklist, i mean not only is he a total badass but he's also super smart and confident and doesn't care what others think of him at all, he would be great to do a video on i think.

[@sivannatalie]

Walt was a posturing phony, a slave to his ego, and would have done anything to save his own skin, no matter how shameful. He had no moral or ethical code. He was an emotional hot mess and regularly panicking and scrambling and bargaining and sometimes outright *begging* for mercy. Even in his “tough guy” moments, he was a mere caricature. You’d have to ignore the first 4 seasons of this show - and probably share some of his characteristics - not to see that. The show was amazing, but Walt, as a man, was pathetic. I had no respect for anything about him, other than his intelligence, which was something he didn’t even choose for himself.

[@K9River]

Fun Fact: You are replaceable. Don't delude yourself into thinking that you are that important. No one gives a damn about you except you and probably not even then.

[@Tonkerg]

4 Habits to instantly stop looking weak Instructions unclear, I now have lung cancer and I have a sudden need to cook

[@Flowfilms7]

That had to be the cleanest transition into an ad I have ever seen😂🎉

[@evalangley3985]

5:12 You missed the point in Season 3... Walt is playing a game and is manipulative. He makes other believe he is weak, but in reality he his playing his cards until he drop his hand on the table while being all-in. That moment is where Mike understood he got played... he tells everyone in Season 4 that the last thing he needs is for Walt to speak... because he always find a way to manipulate people the way he wants. Jesse is a good example. He understood at one point that he got played.... the whole time.... even if Walt truly care for him as much as a step son.

[@Zirks]

Thanks for telling me these. Using these tips I will become a methemphetamine kingpin.

[@Azazelium.]

So i have to dissolve children, and poison them too, in order to be like walter?

[@Dr-Vegapunk]

Manipulation is not a bad thing i manipulate my family friends and random people to get what i want and its not a bad thing 😊😂

[@indivius345]

Thank you so much this help with my anxiety and confidence talking to people have never felt better reading Chrisma university made my life better and I always wanted to have the same habit as Walter white I appricate your work.

[@azir1595]

Instructions Unclear, Am Now Drug Kingpin

[@lordgekko]

What legitimately worked for me in having confidence in high pressure situations was when I was younger, my friends and I would eat a bunch of LSD and go out causing just enough trouble to get the police called but not enough trouble to get arrested. Taught me there is nothing in can't handle.

[@flandequeso4847]

🤣🤣🤣

[@hindenburg1596]

Yeah LSD also changed my life, it's the real life equivalent of life changing magical, fantastical adventure

[@CaptainTrips560]

Acid taught me that we notice our own insecurities way more than other people do. And I became so much more self-confident after that

[@spacemann1425]

Based

[@kisiel901]

well that might have worked out i guess

[@kausalsikaria3829]

Can you please make a video on what to learn from Berlin in Money Heist because he has got a lot of things I would like to know from your perspective Btw love videos 😁

[@sadphoneoperator8028]

Hi...great video. Could you do some Video about how Saul Goodman /Jimmy McGill makes all people likes him.? Everybody who loved this video sure will enjoy with such idea.