“The Perfect Man" - 5 Traits Most Women Find Extremely Attractive

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James Bond: 5 Charisma Tips From The “Perfect Man"
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I was rematching James Bond: Casino Royale and this scene really struck me....
I realized that in many ways Vesper is speaking for the audience because James Bond represents our cultures masculine ideal. Whatever he is, is what so many young men are kinda wishing they could become. So in this video I want to investigate who exactly that aspirational man is. Because there is definitely something to be learned, some positive traits we can add to our lives. But there’s also some ideas of “masculinity” that we’d probably be better off discarding. So let's break down Bond in Casino Royale.
0:41 Eva Green as Vesper loves Bond as he is insanely capable
2:43 James Bond or 007 is mostly unreactive and emits confidence
4:40 Daniel Craig as James Bond is loved by women and flirting
6:56 He's willing to die for his ideals as in Casino Royale or in Skyfall
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@TheUpwardsSpiral
@TheUpwardsSpiral 5 жыл бұрын
Key notes: 1.) He is capable 2.) He is unreactive 3.) Women love him, he isn’t scared of rejection 4.) He is willing to die for what he believes in 5.) He sticks to the mission no matter what
@user-wn3xj4kv1i
@user-wn3xj4kv1i 5 жыл бұрын
#1. He's attractive
@byronbaldwyn7330
@byronbaldwyn7330 4 жыл бұрын
1. Being capable for the task at hand (very good). Additionally, make it look effortless. 2. Being unreactive (Don Draper). 3. Two Life Philosophies - I. Stoicism. II. The belief that he’ll be okay, no matter what happens to him. 4... Analyze video further (watch the video after 3:30 minutes).
@randomvideosshideos8508
@randomvideosshideos8508 4 жыл бұрын
He is agent and he has govt at his back
@jdmnissan
@jdmnissan 4 жыл бұрын
Ok boomer
@j.i.s.l178
@j.i.s.l178 4 жыл бұрын
That's a point of view 😉 ...
@DBZMacky
@DBZMacky 7 жыл бұрын
Step 1: Be Bond Step 2: JAMES Bond
@gustafrindestal
@gustafrindestal 7 жыл бұрын
Step 3: ;)
@SiimLand
@SiimLand 7 жыл бұрын
Shaken not stirred
@RN-lz6fc
@RN-lz6fc 7 жыл бұрын
Free Littlefinger. FTFY
@Woody10719
@Woody10719 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks Goku!
@juandelangel1418
@juandelangel1418 7 жыл бұрын
*slow clap*
@RedShipsofSpainAgain
@RedShipsofSpainAgain 2 жыл бұрын
3:57 "Bond doesn't waste energy on needless anger, frustration, threats, or worry. If he can change something to his benefit, he'll act, but otherwise he just moves on. This makes sure that he doesn't get stuck in his head reliving past mistakes or worrying about the future." This is an excellent point and is actually a trait of Stoic philosophy, which essentially says, "If something is in your control, then control it. But things that are outside of your control: don't worry about them, since you have no control over those things anyway." It's a remarkably helpful and practical philosophy. I'd never realized until watching this video that Bond does indeed embody the virtues of Stoicism. There's a scene in the movie Seven Years in Tibet, where the Dalai Lama tells Heinrich (Brad Pitt): "We have a saying in Tibet: If a problem can be solved there is no use worrying about it. If it can't be solved, worrying will do no good." That philosophy is very much embodied in James Bond's: if you can take action to solve a problem that's in your control, then you should take that action. But if the thing is out of your control, then don't waste energy worrying about it getting angry about it. So Buddhism, Stoicism, and James Bond: all have much in common.
@witoldschwenke9492
@witoldschwenke9492 Жыл бұрын
I live by that, started living by it in my late teens. It's not even about making progress or achieving goals. For me it started out being about ignoring the hardships of my life and the endless conflicts with my siblings and bullies. It's a very good attitude and allows me to be a good managerial type as well because it's so easy to move on when meeting obstacles in projects/tasks. Groups of people easily get stuck in cycles of uttering frustration or needles fruitless discussions.
@boostergold3935
@boostergold3935 8 ай бұрын
Throw Christianity in there too
@bookswithbenjamin8902
@bookswithbenjamin8902 7 жыл бұрын
He does excercise, daily. They don't show it in the movies, but Ian Fleming's books are more detailed
@SuperTregs
@SuperTregs 6 жыл бұрын
Benjamin W. Roberts He also smokes 80 cigarettes a day, and drinks an unspeakable amount lol
@DarinDmarkovic1
@DarinDmarkovic1 5 жыл бұрын
We just assume that he does
@Mikeplaysdbd
@Mikeplaysdbd 5 жыл бұрын
What is the best book to begai with?
@reinorekkakuski2312
@reinorekkakuski2312 5 жыл бұрын
@@Mikeplaysdbd Of course you start with the first one, casino royale. Read them in order
@Mikeplaysdbd
@Mikeplaysdbd 5 жыл бұрын
@@reinorekkakuski2312 oh ok thanks
@RealCoachLee
@RealCoachLee 4 жыл бұрын
He stays who he is no matter what the other person is doing. He doesn't feel the need to artificially draw attention to himself.
@jmcenanly1
@jmcenanly1 4 жыл бұрын
Drawing attention to oneself can be lethal in Bond's line of work
@abdisamadadam288
@abdisamadadam288 3 жыл бұрын
The big problem is need of attention in our generation
@bengough6772
@bengough6772 3 жыл бұрын
@@abdisamadadam288 infinitely magnified via the cheery picked images we show off through the social media lense
@abdisamadadam288
@abdisamadadam288 3 жыл бұрын
@@bengough6772 the cheery picked images we post in social media effect and hurts our personality and confidence
@thecowboy9698
@thecowboy9698 3 жыл бұрын
@@abdisamadadam288 - I think it can be very accurately said that "needing" attention is a form of greed, and like all forms of greed, no matter how much you have it'll never be enough. I think the real secret is trying to be the very best man or woman that you can be, with how you take care of yourself physically, both your appearance and your health, and how you strive to conduct yourself, which I hope is in a positive and decent way, in how you treat others, and how you treat yourself.
@ivanstayner8818
@ivanstayner8818 Жыл бұрын
I was diagnosed as a "high functioning" sociopath. And I have been told I kinda act like James bond. Since I struggle with feeling emotions. I tend to keep them bland, and too the point. I don't let outside forces change how I feel. I chose how I want to feel. Iv been told I'm very charming by multiple women in my life. That's why they hooked up with me. (And yes. The relationships I've had unfortunately ended quickly once they kinda figured out I didn't really care all that much for them) For some reason. Society likes emotionless men. But let me tell you this. Not being able to feel grief, anxiety, sadness, depression, empathy, along with a few others can and will get to you. You feel like you are missing a part of you. So instead of being emotionless, be emotional with control. Chose how to feel. Pick the level of reaction you want. Be...in...control.
@yosuancolon
@yosuancolon 5 ай бұрын
Interesting. If you could be a sociopath or not, what would you choose? Also, what do you mean you were diagnosed as a sociopath? That is not possible; it’s not a medical term
@ivanstayner8818
@ivanstayner8818 5 ай бұрын
@@yosuancolon Diagnosed with ASPD. And IDK. Iv always been this way so it's hard to say if I would like being normal or not
@yosuancolon
@yosuancolon 5 ай бұрын
@@ivanstayner8818 It’s really interesting to me that you’re a sociopath yet would be open to being normal. Thought anyone with ASPD would never want to be normal. Probably naive from me
@noalane3626
@noalane3626 5 ай бұрын
Dude get over yourself you wanna be sociopath can’t tell you how many wannabes like you I’ve met…you can’t handle a real one so just be quiet lmfao you’re a wannabe dude you’re nothing at all
@dark_SDKR
@dark_SDKR 4 ай бұрын
yea... except if you were like Bond you wouldn't seek validation on you tube comments.
@harveyts3
@harveyts3 5 жыл бұрын
Confidence and getting over things quickly with a sense of humor served me well when I was single and still does married.
@hudibitekthesecond3235
@hudibitekthesecond3235 3 жыл бұрын
I think you meant "served me well"
@harveyts3
@harveyts3 3 жыл бұрын
@@hudibitekthesecond3235 Indeed I did. Funny how I have not come back to this since making a comment, and it is a pretty well-liked comment. You are the first to correct me, and thank you. I hope this finds you well.
@rogeliorodriguez8518
@rogeliorodriguez8518 3 жыл бұрын
Survive should be a common verb now. Yeah those cooking skills, have survived me well. Those street skills? Have survived me well too. Those French language course? Have survived me well too.
@harveyts3
@harveyts3 3 жыл бұрын
@@rogeliorodriguez8518 The number of upvotes this has with that spelling is amazing to me. lol Good call out. I don't go back and look at comments often and for sure don't check the spelling apparently.
@IAmTheSupremeEmperorOfFails
@IAmTheSupremeEmperorOfFails 3 жыл бұрын
@@harveyts3 I like how you didn’t get upset about it, you just said “oh yeah algud”
@charleslung7984
@charleslung7984 5 жыл бұрын
Maybe he just doesn’t spend his first 20years scrolling on KZbin.
@MementoMori1001
@MementoMori1001 5 жыл бұрын
@@r3str1ctor25 consider it one
@imanmukhlis5241
@imanmukhlis5241 5 жыл бұрын
Triggered
@06livefast
@06livefast 5 жыл бұрын
Niko Lahajner are you triggrrrd?
@keaeyhechem
@keaeyhechem 5 жыл бұрын
Better late than never
@faraz007
@faraz007 5 жыл бұрын
Ouch! That hurts.
@mogullnstinct575
@mogullnstinct575 3 жыл бұрын
Bond is so fluid. Like Bruce Lee said “Be like water my friends.” Bond is so focused on his goal he doesn’t care about anything else. That is why he is so successful as well. He keeps one goal in mind at a time and goes at it 100% he is calculated and cool about it as well.
@brianjetton6912
@brianjetton6912 5 жыл бұрын
The bit about not getting stuck in our own heads, worrying about the past or future, is a major tenet of stoicism. Much of our worry is built up in our imagination. So much energy is spent thinking about what others think. It took me years to get that point where "I don't care," but it feels good being in control when others are losing their minds...
@parkerdodson3350
@parkerdodson3350 5 жыл бұрын
I love Daniel Craig's Bond. He is the only "rough" Bond of them all. The rest are very clean cut, always in shape, and always suave. And there's nothing wrong with that, but Craig's Bond is sort of the everyman's Bond. We all see a little bit of ourselves in him. We deal with personal issues like bad relationships, health (I think Bond fails his physical test in Skyfall), and loneliness. But he stands resilient as we all try to do.
@aikonoklas
@aikonoklas 5 жыл бұрын
Parker Dodson yes, exactly. Glad craig fits perfectly in this bond.
@meenakavali7378
@meenakavali7378 5 жыл бұрын
No that just takes away what makes James Bond James Bond. Craig’s not as charismatic in my opinion
@ThorstenWieking
@ThorstenWieking 5 жыл бұрын
While I do enjoy Craigs Bond, it is the clean cut, suave, well educated and elegant man that started my fascination with him. Just as I prefer Remington Steele to Rick Simon. But at the same time in the real life, I prefer Jeans, Leatherman and sneakers over a suit.
@meenakavali7378
@meenakavali7378 5 жыл бұрын
ThorstenWieking thankyou
@thefruitdealer4970
@thefruitdealer4970 5 жыл бұрын
You are objectively wrong though, Timothy Dalton did the "rough" bond 20 years earlier, and 10 times better than Daniel Craig. But Daniel Craig timed it better, as the audience wasnt really ready for a darker, more serious Bond in 1987
@JamesRDavenport
@JamesRDavenport 5 жыл бұрын
I find being an authentic man is knowing who you truly are no matter what the rest of the world does, and acquiring wisdom. When you've become seasoned by experience and knowledge you automatically gain some confidence.
@todd2962
@todd2962 4 жыл бұрын
I can definitely relate to number 2. That’s something that I need to work on. Being able to quickly realize what you can and can’t control and being in complete control of your emotions, shows a lot maturity. Being in complete control of your mind and emotions is HUGE and is a big part of masculinity. Nobody has much respect for someone who loses control over small things that you cannot change. If you can’t control the bad thing that happened to you, have your brief moment of being pissed off for a second, throw that aside and handle it.
@ElEternoPoetaLuis
@ElEternoPoetaLuis 7 жыл бұрын
Daniel Craig is my favorite James Bond.
@anonymoussvp3031
@anonymoussvp3031 6 жыл бұрын
ElEternoPoetaLuis i agree
@JPCPSeto
@JPCPSeto 6 жыл бұрын
In my opinion though: Daniel Craig has portrayed one of the least attractive James Bonds. Partly he just doesn't have a lot of 'natural' charisma, like for example Pierce Brosnan did have. His version also jokes a lot less and he makes the jokes not work as well. Next, he doesn't have the captivating smile, the fine facial contours or nice hair. Pierce Brosnan was a slick, cool, charismatic James Bond. Daniel Craig is just a tough guy in a suit.
@charlieshin9868
@charlieshin9868 5 жыл бұрын
Sean Connery says hi
@Hardeneer
@Hardeneer 5 жыл бұрын
Undoubtedly
@MycroMatter
@MycroMatter 5 жыл бұрын
@@JPCPSeto I like them both. Thier manly and cool in thier own way. Daniel broke the mold that a Bond doesn't have to be this fancy face doll. But a confident unreactive and very capable being.
@bsn0730
@bsn0730 2 жыл бұрын
Omg "letting go" of stuff like anger at someone cutting me off driving is something I adopted before seeing this video and it helped me so much! I will not give someone the power to allow them to ruin my day. It's helped me have a lot more good days and even though I sometimes forget it, I come back to it regularly which helps me be more forgiving, more at peace, and somehow, more assertive.
@alexogilvie9668
@alexogilvie9668 7 жыл бұрын
The clickbait version of this is "why every man SECRETLY wants to be like James Bond" XD great vid as always
@relinaskye9620
@relinaskye9620 7 жыл бұрын
I think you should do a video on how Teachers can win over a classroom. Because that is not taught in any way, shape, or form in college. You either sink or swim.
@xplays7992
@xplays7992 6 жыл бұрын
good idea
@meganhartmann180
@meganhartmann180 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent video! Definitely one of the most inciteful and useful on this channel. I can definitely vouch for Lesson #4: pushing on in the face of adversity. It is one of the most attractive traits can a person can have. Also, I love the message here, that we should strive to emulate the strengths of our idols (realistically), and learn from their more negative traits.
@meganhartmann180
@meganhartmann180 2 жыл бұрын
As a side note, Craig's James Bond does eventually learn to re-open his heart to love, which is one of the reasons why his character arc works so well in the latest movie. He gives a final goodbye to the woman who broke his heart and gives himself fully to his relationship with Madeline.
@justinz9225
@justinz9225 5 жыл бұрын
To be fair, he was terrible at parkour. He was just running and jumping and falling. The entire point of that scene was to demonstrate what a wrecking ball of an athlete he is, compared to the finesse and agility of his opponent. The beauty of James Bond is that he IS the embodiment of masculinity. All the positives and negatives thereof. He's a womanizer, but it always bites him in the butt when he's left betrayed and unsatisfied and alone. He's strong but too insensitive to others. He's wise but untrusting. It's why men are drawn to the series. It's everything they want to be as men, while also being a caution against the challenges that often come with masculinity. This is why a female bond will never make sense or draw a crowd.
@TheGeorgeD13
@TheGeorgeD13 4 жыл бұрын
They're not making a female bond, though. Just a female 007 when Bond retires. She recruits him for a mission and then after that, Craig goes off into the sunset. Next bond will still be a dude. Bond is a dude. 007 can be any gender or race. They're not necessarily the same thing.
@intelcom4964
@intelcom4964 4 жыл бұрын
Loooool
@kungfuman82
@kungfuman82 4 жыл бұрын
@@TheGeorgeD13 Ian Fleming would disagree.
@TheGeorgeD13
@TheGeorgeD13 4 жыл бұрын
@@kungfuman82 Well, he's too dead to say anything about it, so who cares what he thinks? The franchise right now still thinks Bond is a guy and will always be a guy. 007 can change. It's the BOND Franchise, NOT the 007 franchise.
@TheGeorgeD13
@TheGeorgeD13 4 жыл бұрын
​@@notlNSIGHT Casino Royale, Goldeneye, and Skyfall make a weirdly good trilogy to watch even though the middle part in this just now made up trilogy has a completely different Bond.
@mattlewandowski73
@mattlewandowski73 4 жыл бұрын
"can you imagine James Bond (practicing)" well yes I can... but he does it off camera... we mainly see him "on the job". I expect every bit of his free time is spent training, or with his nose in a book learning something new.
@lazytime9788
@lazytime9788 2 жыл бұрын
" Real strength is not walling yourself up from getting hurt It is shown by opening yourself up to getting hurt because caring is worth it All the while knowing if the worst happens you have what it takes to pick yourself back up and move forward"
@url4345
@url4345 5 жыл бұрын
Love the analysis here of masculinity and I couldn't agree more. In the real world, developing mastery isn't sexy, it's slow and difficult but personally rewarding, and being a 'man' means accepting you are vulnerable and that you can fail, be wrong, be hurt badly etc. And yet connecting with people and pursuing what you love sincerely anyway.
@JamesBondsLibido
@JamesBondsLibido 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you, everyone!
@marlo5424
@marlo5424 5 жыл бұрын
James Bond you better change that picture to sean
@zizobriencavanough721
@zizobriencavanough721 5 жыл бұрын
Anytime my man's
@Honsou472
@Honsou472 3 жыл бұрын
To be fair, Bond Background is supposed to be british SOF before he even joined MI6 with its strict selection process. So we just dont see his amount of suffering to gain all his abilities.
@Rvxigga
@Rvxigga Жыл бұрын
I am so happy Jason Paul was included in this video for the Parkour mention
@fernandao.5001
@fernandao.5001 4 жыл бұрын
"Confidence is throwing your heart through every brick wall"- Selena Gomez
@hifives2
@hifives2 5 жыл бұрын
Also helps if you happen to drive a DB5
@rhaegal5650
@rhaegal5650 5 жыл бұрын
Or any Aston Martin apart from the crazy racing specialised ones. They just ooze class
@MrCool-qi7cy
@MrCool-qi7cy 4 жыл бұрын
@@rhaegal5650 they oooze money.
@rms-vp6hf
@rms-vp6hf 7 жыл бұрын
The point ISN’T to shut down, or wall up. It’s to immediately focus on the mission even if it means rejecting “love”. Clearly you’ve never been in a gun fight to know there is a time when you MUST shut feelings down to focus ALL your energy on killing and surviving. THAT is Bond.
@MrDroenix
@MrDroenix 6 жыл бұрын
For those who aren't secret agents, what is the mission?
@iammrbadguy9706
@iammrbadguy9706 6 жыл бұрын
I guess the mission are our believes.
@later_daze_4080
@later_daze_4080 5 жыл бұрын
Ok tough guy
@Aldo7899
@Aldo7899 5 жыл бұрын
Even for the proverbial trained assasin, there is an appropriate time to put the killer instinct aside, if he doesn’t want to scare any potential friends or lovers away.
@MGM261
@MGM261 Жыл бұрын
I can tell you as a musician & tutor. That every skill worth having takes time to aquire... Repetition, practice, frustration but most of all determination
@WhySooSeriouslol
@WhySooSeriouslol 4 жыл бұрын
“Perhaps you’re just out of practice” dang.. that is clever and smooth. I’ll have to remember that one
@swapneil5549
@swapneil5549 4 жыл бұрын
What does this line exactly mean
@matsrudeng5355
@matsrudeng5355 4 жыл бұрын
Swapneil Basutkar exactly what it says
@johnbingaman3645
@johnbingaman3645 4 жыл бұрын
@@swapneil5549 he said to her you're probably out of practice, meaning she probably cheated and has low Integrity from before, but with his charm she went along with him..
@hughforeman9768
@hughforeman9768 3 жыл бұрын
Very well done. Interesting that we have much to learn from our heros from days hone by. Much is about being comfortable in your own skin, not letting others or outside forces control your attitude or emotions. Then the old golden rule...treat others as you wish to be. This is why we turn to our faith. The moral compass. The singleness of focus. The love and empathy for others. This was an excellent piece. Especially for men but not just. Stimulates thought. Good job.
@modernman7576
@modernman7576 Жыл бұрын
Never be attached to outcomes. Put in the work and practice to better yourself. You may or may not receive the outcome you desire but you will be positively changed for the process.
@andrewgrey1551
@andrewgrey1551 7 жыл бұрын
I think you missed Bond's most important quality: Everything he does, is for a purpose Bond always has a mission that he needs to complete, and whether he's winning poker games, or sleeping with women, the end goal is to complete the mission. If he were to get rejected by the girl or lose the big hand at poker, he would find another way to complete the mission. That's why he doesn't get flustered; he's not doing it for himself, per se, he's doing it for the sake of the mission. So in his mind, it doesn't matter if he'd lose that poker game, and it doesnt matter if he got slapped by the women for coming on to them. Those things were never his real purpose, they were just steps that couldve been taken to help complete his mission. If they didnt work out, he wouldve find another way to complete the mission and never given any of his other "L's" a second thought. It'd be like walking a path and coming to a fork in the road. Both ways still take you to where you want to go, if you start on 1 and find out that the path is blocked part way through, you just go back and use the other one. Once you get to your end destination by taking the 2nd way, you don't dwell on the fact that the first way didn't work out for you. Taking the first way was never the goal. The end destination was. I think that's how more people need to think when they go through their lives. Of course you can't have this purpose with every single thing you do, but if you look at the big picture, things will get easier. For example, if you're a guy out at a club with your friends, your end goal is to have a good time that night. If you approach a girl and she rejects you, it doesn't matter. Because the end goal is still to have fun, and if it doesn't happen with her, you just find another away. And if you end up having a fun time, you're not going to dwell on the fact that the girl said no.
@debangshukantha6210
@debangshukantha6210 7 жыл бұрын
Inder Grewal you killed it bro!!
@joaoguerreiro52
@joaoguerreiro52 6 жыл бұрын
Inder Grewal I
@0017Bulldog
@0017Bulldog 6 жыл бұрын
Watched this again for the second time. I have to tell you, there is something to this. Big and powerful. Thank you so much.
@Charismaoncommand
@Charismaoncommand 6 жыл бұрын
~ Thanks for the kind words!
@nicholaspayne6912
@nicholaspayne6912 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely love this video. I think a lot of people could benefit from deconstructing the meaning of positive masculinity. I would watch more like this.
@AlexGreeneHypnotist
@AlexGreeneHypnotist Жыл бұрын
Preach this from the mountain. This is the fifth video to come out this past few days alone which has shown the exact same thing to do to face rejection. In fact, in the last video I watched, the presenter recommended to the viewers to go out and actively seek to get rejected, just to practice your reaction - which, by the way, should be precisely what is described here. Spot on 100% right, all the way through. There have been two themes these past two weeks - train yourself to master being rejected gracefully, and Teslas coming a cropper when they meet swimming pools. Learn the above skill. Avoid ever going behind the wheel of a Tesla.
@paulglover6525
@paulglover6525 7 жыл бұрын
As an MI6 agent I'm sure he's done his fair share of paperwork. Who wouldn't want to get out of the office and learn how the world works?
@nagarajaraogangodu5184
@nagarajaraogangodu5184 5 жыл бұрын
I watched this video over 10 times now. Every time I learn something new. But this time I learnt something, bond is not emotionally numb. He is just wants to get over her and wants to focus on his mission. However, he does exact his revenge in Quantum of Solace for Vesper's conspiracy to get himself a closure. Its about baring the pain and making it personal to not be revealed to others. To strike at right time and wrap things up to move on.
@murphsviews
@murphsviews 3 жыл бұрын
Being a real man is not about protecting yourself from getting hurt, it's about opening yourself up to getting hurt, because it's worth the risk, all the while knowing that if you do get hurt, you'll be able to pick yourself back up again and keep on going. That's wisdom right there folks.
@programmiererin
@programmiererin Жыл бұрын
Hands down, this short video tought me more than hundred self help videos did. Thanks a lot. Really, this changed something
@suhailmall98
@suhailmall98 7 жыл бұрын
Step 1: be attractive
@MrMindwavess
@MrMindwavess 7 жыл бұрын
step 2: don’t be unattractive
@FancyPantsUSD
@FancyPantsUSD 7 жыл бұрын
Step 3: Have money.
@ECytchannel
@ECytchannel 7 жыл бұрын
Step 4. Profit
@PerfectlyLostMySanity
@PerfectlyLostMySanity 7 жыл бұрын
alright I got that one down... What's next?
@BlancoMD
@BlancoMD 7 жыл бұрын
I guess I got something wrong , there is police out of my house
@basingold3651
@basingold3651 5 жыл бұрын
The part about rejection is fantastic, it reminds me of a story if you care to listen. Their was this really nice girl that worked at the counter of my local grocery store, she was really nice and we always had a chat everytime I went there. After a couple of months I wanted to ask her out, I felt the best way to do it was when everything was paid and I was about to leave I'd hand her a prewriten piece of paper with my number on while saying "If you are ever free, I'd like to get to know beter over a coffee or something (hand her the piece of paper) here's my number, or just throw out, but make sure it's a recycling bin if you do" I already had the rejection part of the rejection taken care of, if it was going to happen and with a little joke too. Yeah, she never called me and I can't shop there anymore.
@milossavkovic6994
@milossavkovic6994 5 жыл бұрын
You had us in first half xD
@IsrarTaj83
@IsrarTaj83 5 жыл бұрын
You need to go back there. She probably might have lost your number. Furthermore, just because she rejected you now, chances are that she might take you up on it later on.
@bighennybihh8532
@bighennybihh8532 2 жыл бұрын
Bruhhhh
@DevilFrog61
@DevilFrog61 3 жыл бұрын
People misunderstand “emotional numbness”....it’s not an internal numbness AT ALL. it’s strictly how you present yourself on the outside. There’s a time to cry and grieve, but that time is not in front of your team when you’re their leader. Men must not SHOW their emotions, but everyone needs an outlet. A balance is necessary, but nonetheless, there’s no doubt that being “vulnerable” and being incapable of deception (in terms of how you’re feeling) makes you significantly less powerful in life.
@TheEternalOuroboros
@TheEternalOuroboros 7 жыл бұрын
Could you do a video on how Charlie Manson was such a prolific manipulator and charmer? This video was amazing, I love Casino Royale.
@GabrielSouza-sr6jr
@GabrielSouza-sr6jr 7 жыл бұрын
Pleaaaase! I would love it
@brandonknable7890
@brandonknable7890 6 жыл бұрын
DeathCreationist same
@impetuscreations8503
@impetuscreations8503 2 жыл бұрын
Bond walled himself off within the context of his duties as an agent. M had warned him saying he should deal with his duties 'in a dispassionate' manner, in Casino Royale and he basically said he was cool at first, and maybe he thought he was. He admitted to Vesper that she stripped him of his armour and right when he was vulnerable and bare a flood of pain swept in bringing his to reality of the nature of his line of work. Its not toxic to set harsh boundaries that protect and increase your chances of survival in hostile environments, and its not something you can just 'turn off' when the predators arent around anymore.
@HyperarchFasciaTraining
@HyperarchFasciaTraining 7 жыл бұрын
If James Bond has a 8 to 5 job, he won't be attractive. He is attractive because the type of work he does that makes him capable.
@jukiantunen
@jukiantunen 7 жыл бұрын
Chong Xie My school lasts from 8 to 16 and i go to the gym 6 times a week.
@FantasticExplorers
@FantasticExplorers 7 жыл бұрын
I have an 9-5 and I'm attractive, so...
@martialharpistmatthew1837
@martialharpistmatthew1837 7 жыл бұрын
I work from 6-4:30 I get home at 5:30 I practice BJJ and play the harp. I also take care of my bed ridden dad. It's NOT easy but most things are possible with effort.
@tuomashirvonen8473
@tuomashirvonen8473 7 жыл бұрын
Chong Xie you can be capable in every day life. Like if you know alot of things and are physically able to do those things. Then you are capable. Things that help with this are having lots of hobbies and different types of friends (you will learn from them)
@ttgreat54
@ttgreat54 7 жыл бұрын
He Just Plain Attractive !!!
@yeshv1989
@yeshv1989 2 ай бұрын
Oddly enough, so many of Bond's qualities/strengths apply to women as much to men. His stoicism (responding instead of reacting to situations and people), competency (from years of committed, consistent and disciplined practice in whatever skills he takes up), handling rejection with grace/playfulness, etc, etc, are all qualities that people can learn from.
@Hamza24434
@Hamza24434 7 жыл бұрын
Character breakdown of Ragnar Lothbrok next!!!!
@leadingmuscle485
@leadingmuscle485 7 жыл бұрын
Like this! Want to see. Also Brad Pitt
@PafoChannel
@PafoChannel 7 жыл бұрын
YES, yes please!
@Sellipsis
@Sellipsis 7 жыл бұрын
I'll throw my hat in for this
@jesseholywood1161
@jesseholywood1161 7 жыл бұрын
Hamza24434 Yes!
@niklasschwarz5468
@niklasschwarz5468 7 жыл бұрын
Hell Yea!
@FixesAndStuff
@FixesAndStuff 7 ай бұрын
I do like your videos, usually, but this is the first one that doesn't feel like advertising. Really deep and interesting thoughts in there. I love this movie and many things that you said I had thought myself before. Well done!
@diogeneslantern18
@diogeneslantern18 5 жыл бұрын
Everything you've described describes Stoicism.
@Ambienfinity
@Ambienfinity 7 жыл бұрын
That's because he doesn't exist. In the real world a famous secret agent would be dead before the end of his first assignment.
@simplythebest286
@simplythebest286 7 жыл бұрын
Nodge X exactly
@kungfuman82
@kungfuman82 6 жыл бұрын
Besides that, we all know that Sterling Archer is the world's greatest secret agent.
@justinewellsen1224
@justinewellsen1224 6 жыл бұрын
Jesus lighten up
@ognjenradic3172
@ognjenradic3172 6 жыл бұрын
Google this name Dusan Dusko Popov.
@Marcus280898
@Marcus280898 6 жыл бұрын
"You probably shouldn't tell people your a spy" "Then what's the point of being one?"-Sterling Archer
@marcusatm
@marcusatm 3 жыл бұрын
10:28 I am guilty of copying other ideals.
@nottommywiseau4359
@nottommywiseau4359 7 жыл бұрын
hi. please make a video on Tommy Wiseau charisma. he is very good look and he very great American actor.he is has very much charisma . please make video on him thanks
@lesaswain6835
@lesaswain6835 7 жыл бұрын
Not Tommy Wiseau Hi Mark!
@thegrammarpolice69
@thegrammarpolice69 5 жыл бұрын
Very great american actor? "NO I DID NAHT HIT LISA! NOT I DID NAAHT!" "Oh hi mark"...
@ColtSSR
@ColtSSR 5 жыл бұрын
I did nahhht
@mikenicholas7256
@mikenicholas7256 5 жыл бұрын
Hi doggy
@PrototypeFTW
@PrototypeFTW 5 жыл бұрын
I love this comment in every way.
@monmailcest
@monmailcest Жыл бұрын
the idea taht one need lots of unsexy repetition to learn is the side effect of lack of composure, this is what makes James special, he is able to remain grounded in whatever happens most people are afraid of failure and subconsciously most of their energy is lost in that fear making people unable to learn quick many things happened in you life once yet you've been able to memorise them the proof that the brain pathway can be created in one itteration awareness , presence and full focus are the first elements need to learn fast however we live in a high distracted world learn to mater you emotion and the rest will become easy
@sarthakyelne1452
@sarthakyelne1452 3 ай бұрын
Your character breakdown is just too charismatic😂
@flowerpt
@flowerpt 2 жыл бұрын
Nice insight about him working on the things that can't be taken away. I think Shirtless Craig implies some heavy time in the gym, though. Maybe on mission he doesn't want a sore day
@18_Bruce
@18_Bruce 5 жыл бұрын
Bond is a textbook Stoich. It's not that he isolates his emotions or ignores them, he just never lets them control him.
@edmundworrell530
@edmundworrell530 2 жыл бұрын
He did open himself up to being hurt. Which is why he was hurt by Vespers death. But he is also a man who hates to be in debt to anyone, and he was in debt to Vespers as she gave her life for his. But overwhelming gratitude would dull his edge and make him vulnerable, so he opts for rage instead, as rage is more useful. M notices his change & informs him that Vespers died for him. She didn’t expect that he would overcome his rage in the short run but she had given him a lifeline that he could use whenever he was ready.
@sasykins3359
@sasykins3359 7 жыл бұрын
Do Hannibal from the tv series!!🔥
@telugubusinesschannel
@telugubusinesschannel Жыл бұрын
Everything boils down to the same simple point. "Keep your ambition above everything else." If you do it honestly, all else follows naturally.
@shadowyoptimism955
@shadowyoptimism955 3 жыл бұрын
All of it is achievable don't ever let somebody tell you that anything is an unachievable because that's only restricted through their own reality
@andrebaxter4023
@andrebaxter4023 3 жыл бұрын
Facts.
@GIORGIOguitaro
@GIORGIOguitaro 6 жыл бұрын
I'm pretty drunk listening to this before going out, lol this was deeper than I expected
@bryanessing3344
@bryanessing3344 3 жыл бұрын
Everything revolves around me. I move for nothing, yet I still find the ability to smile and make subtle jokes.
@athullal7438
@athullal7438 4 жыл бұрын
"Most of us are not to encounter creative types of torture from Le chiffre"
@chaosdweller
@chaosdweller 3 жыл бұрын
Love your name lol
@belog8412
@belog8412 2 жыл бұрын
Remember guys without capability u r just Johny english
@Dishonorablecyberoperative
@Dishonorablecyberoperative 5 ай бұрын
Johny English atleast had common sense
@gaiusbaltar8915
@gaiusbaltar8915 Жыл бұрын
I would argue that Bond's hypercompetence is actually just a cinematic exaggeration of his capacity to *pay attention.* He has a diverse set of skills, ranging from driving to flying to hand-to-hand combat, and yes, that broad competence is part of the fantasy. But the actual trait that is exhibited in most scenes is actually the ability to *pay attention* to what is happening around him, and then to improvise accordingly.
@DaygoG
@DaygoG 6 жыл бұрын
I've always been an observer of the bond character and often in situations that could be considered stressful I ask myself what would Bond do? And act accordingly, try it it makes life pretty smooth.
@da-be-ju
@da-be-ju 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, that's a very simple yet powerful "trick" to improve outcomes, thanks!
@rowanro
@rowanro 7 жыл бұрын
That clip of Jason Paul teaching parkour made my day. :) Love that dude.
@vergiltasev7108
@vergiltasev7108 7 жыл бұрын
Same :D Are you a fan?
@rowanro
@rowanro 7 жыл бұрын
:D definitely! Met him once at a jam. He's a perfect example of charisma
@vergiltasev7108
@vergiltasev7108 7 жыл бұрын
Yup, he is always so optimistic and happy :D
@Muthwill
@Muthwill 2 жыл бұрын
Considering No Time To Die I think the thumbnail's title is spot on..
@cameronmccoy5051
@cameronmccoy5051 3 жыл бұрын
Ideal masculinity to me since the first time I saw it was Atticus Finch in To Kill a Mockingbird. Interestingly, it wouldn't be a huge stretch to imagine a young James Bond eventually maturing into Atticus Finch.
@harsh_4209
@harsh_4209 6 жыл бұрын
After having watched this video I m sure Craig would be very proud of himself and he is worth of it.
@scotchsoda3165
@scotchsoda3165 5 жыл бұрын
10:05 is that an early 1900's Ben Affleck?
@yaminc6758
@yaminc6758 5 жыл бұрын
Ben Affleck is the 2000's muscle-mario-man
@BlaBla-jj6sh
@BlaBla-jj6sh 3 жыл бұрын
Clearly, that's Ryan Reynolds with yet another prank.
@Seer-cw9lu
@Seer-cw9lu 2 жыл бұрын
Your end point is absolutely exactly right my friend
@valuablememories5603
@valuablememories5603 Жыл бұрын
When someone cuts me off in traffic I would think "What would James Bond do" and it works everytime.
@ironcladnomad5639
@ironcladnomad5639 3 жыл бұрын
A lack of emotional vulnerability is a legitimate tactic for some. Closing off can be the only effective way of coping and functioning on a day-to-day basis.
@areebanwar9229
@areebanwar9229 3 жыл бұрын
Romanticize the learning too, who says it has to be alone, who says u can’t practice somewhere nice and have a daily goal
@Mako7eyes
@Mako7eyes 3 жыл бұрын
That line "expect to be terrible at everything the first time you do it" instantly put Harper Lee's "to kill a mockingbird" into my mind. That and how quickly Tony Jah took to muay thai, perhaps exceptions that prove the rule
@drfill9210
@drfill9210 Жыл бұрын
I have an obsessive personality, so I can get capable. I'm also a person of Acton and can do those one liners. I'm still nerdy and gawky. That's fine because it takes a special person to love me, not one who loves a trope. I'm happy with who I have even though it took me a while.
@amaljames2330
@amaljames2330 4 жыл бұрын
All you need is confidence! Convince yourself that you totally know how to do the stuff while you are learning.
@2livenoob
@2livenoob 3 жыл бұрын
So the secret to being a world class fencer, helicopter pilot, astronaut. skydiver, ployglot, dancer, marksman, goverment spy is just believing in yourself? got it.
@howmathematicianscreatemat9226
@howmathematicianscreatemat9226 18 күн бұрын
@@2livenoobif you believe in yourself DEEP DOWN, then you will indeed get divine support and then you will indeed be badass at it.
@sreejithng1
@sreejithng1 Жыл бұрын
One of rare videos of this channel which was confusing for me, so sharing feedback. Otherwise keep up the good work.
@emperorpicasso8732
@emperorpicasso8732 7 жыл бұрын
DON DRAPER NEXT MY DEAR FRIEND!
@ezekielalexgeorge4707
@ezekielalexgeorge4707 3 жыл бұрын
This was my favourite video from the channel, thank you
@philipnoonan4721
@philipnoonan4721 4 жыл бұрын
I appreciate this very much. It connected with me. Thank you.
@mr.rainbowlovescoffee
@mr.rainbowlovescoffee 2 жыл бұрын
Some women have more power and charisma than any James Bond ever. My sister knows four languages fluently can kick anybody's butt and she's only 5.4 Take that Mr Bond
@ssj21000
@ssj21000 7 жыл бұрын
Character break down of Raymond reddington from black list. I've learned so much from him
@shoegal
@shoegal 7 жыл бұрын
Study & Game i was bored with this show but might just check it out again because of this
@scorpnz4433
@scorpnz4433 4 жыл бұрын
Attachments would make him weak. He deals in death & anyone close to him is at risk. That is why no tears are shed for vespa. She was dead the moment she became involved.
@AimingAtYou
@AimingAtYou 2 жыл бұрын
HAHAHA "Drivng - kind of! " Had me laugh out loud
@maximind5677
@maximind5677 3 жыл бұрын
The real-life equivalent of James Bond is Vladimir Putin...
@Ankushdas2001
@Ankushdas2001 3 жыл бұрын
No wonder
@drewcamm7901
@drewcamm7901 3 жыл бұрын
James bond did not know parkour in casino royale but the guy he was chasing did James still caught him just by not giving up and improvising when he had to wich is y its so impressive
@SamueITan
@SamueITan 7 жыл бұрын
5 tips, but theres only 4 my friend.
@Ricky2k24
@Ricky2k24 6 жыл бұрын
Samuel Tan there is 5 tips, the last tip is be yourself.
@mobiousm8889
@mobiousm8889 3 жыл бұрын
Not necessarily, i recently realised that i am above average on two wheeler handling, its something i unintentionally did a lot as a kid and the skill set translates to motorbikes. Some people have an edge on some skills makes them need lesser amount of practice than others. It was always a herculean task for me to learn calculus while some of my peers just got it all figured out with less effort.
@eliotglassier5848
@eliotglassier5848 Жыл бұрын
This is such a powerful ending. And one that brings a lot of peace ❤
@СКВИДВАРДЩУПАЛЬЦЕ-р8ш
@СКВИДВАРДЩУПАЛЬЦЕ-р8ш 7 жыл бұрын
Hey! When will you make a video about Michael Jackson? He is the most popular man and star of all the time of the World. I think that you must make a video about Michael Jackson. He was genius of music and he had high IQ. He knew about psychology and he used it. Make a video!
@maruetsane3616
@maruetsane3616 3 жыл бұрын
Bond is a stoic. Being masculine is not evil. Embrace it
@andresfranco8194
@andresfranco8194 7 жыл бұрын
Dose anyone agree with me when trying to get a girls attention you have a better chance getting a girl when you completely ignore them and act like you have no interests toward them.if feel that woman like what they can’t have and what’s the point of wanting something you can already get.its worked more often for me than going all out and showing my feelings.
@rjdiggs738
@rjdiggs738 6 жыл бұрын
andres franco It doesn't always work. I had this one girl who was crazy for me and I ignored her to a point where she stopped being caring. That plan totally backfired on me.
@Un1234l
@Un1234l 6 жыл бұрын
Rj Diggs It's a balancing act. You have to show enough initial interest for her to know you do in fact like her a bit, but then be coolly detached to let her know you're not needy and won't just hand out your attention to her. If you act too cold she'll give up thinking it's impossible to get through to you.
@chuckdambuza3938
@chuckdambuza3938 5 жыл бұрын
thats level 2 seduction Bond is level 5
@ruggsterify
@ruggsterify 2 жыл бұрын
this video is why I subscribed. Well done
@josezerpa8177
@josezerpa8177 Жыл бұрын
This is so true. When you’re unshakeable you become more attractive. Keep you emotions under control , smiling minimal, and strong eye contact, and you’ll set yourself apart from most men.
@EnioVieiraJr
@EnioVieiraJr 9 ай бұрын
Great video! It takes a real man to being open to be hurt. I can attest that showing confidence really attracts women and boosts your outside image! Happy Holidays!
@aikonoklas
@aikonoklas 5 жыл бұрын
Prerequisite : be handsome
@SuperSoldiers
@SuperSoldiers 2 жыл бұрын
Just a side note, there are people who can learn new skills in news. Ofcourse it takes massive practice but they learn exponentially fast. Don't be jealous. U ever come across a man like that, try to make him ur mentor
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