UNHINGED MILs that are on another level - REACTION

[@wick3dwords]

If your mother in law reports you to CPS for killing your children falsely, she should go to prison. This is so messed up.

[@karydoughty3206]

Granny Swat apparently a thing now!

[@ralfvandeven3155]

While terms as abuse and unfit mother are on some level subjective, the term killed is not. This is a clear and provable false report, and is as such a crime.

[@artemis_justiceaizawa5978]

I believe it already is a crime with the punishment being a fine (in the UK and some states at least)- only thing is, it's often left unpunished from what I know

[@PrimateProductions]

​@@ralfvandeven3155exactly this

[@PrimateProductions]

​@@artemis_justiceaizawa5978why would you just make up something like that without doing a very simple, quick check on Google? Just to pass along misinformation and for the attention and having some "knowledge"...you are absolutely wrong. 😏

[@littlelizzi3135]

My mother in law stayed with me 24 hours a day when I was in hospital, sleeping on a roll out mattress next to my bed. She's an angel and I am so grateful to her. I live in Spain so see my mum very rarely 😢. So to have such a caring woman in my life makes me feel blessed. Especially hearing about the women in this video!!! 😮

[@Authorrlee]

❤❤❤

[@jbilotta]

I would NEVER respect a mean-hearted woman who TESTED me to bring me closer to her. I also would have ZERO respect for the meek man who didn't stand up for mean behavior. No prizes won here.

[@raquellofstedt9713]

Agreed. It's not an "honor " to "earn" that type of person's respect. That's sick.

[@deborahbutcher3933]

I don't think it was necessarily Mary going saying you're in. Mary didn't want anymore tongue lashings from Latin queen. She rolled over rather than face it again. But what this says about Matthew ain't good.

[@seeya205]

Who said he didn't?

[@Ciela531]

I *almost* get it, like if she was trying to make sure the gf was able to stand up for herself and in that way she would also stand up against her son and have a backbone But the way that it was done, with the test and stuff, was absolutely crazy

[@GhostBear3067]

Seriously when she was younger did she insist on testing potential girlfriends in trial by combat? Is Matthew McConaughey part Klingon on his mother's side or something?!

[@isabelaandzico]

Brazilian girl here 🙆🏻‍♀️ the audacity of Matthew’s mom is much worse when you know that we speak Portuguese and NOT Spanish! 🇧🇷🇵🇹 Que monstra! 9:00

[@catarinacardeira2828]

Pensei no mesmo, é uma falta de respeito e é xenéfobo!!

[@jaybee2337]

Why didn’t Matthew stick up for Camilla and tell his mom to knock it off? He sounds like he kind of sucks too.

[@sh.4409]

@@catarinacardeira2828 xenophobic is a signal word to know you've been indoctrinated. She's ignorant. I bet you say "their truth" and "authentic" too. You should watch "They live". It will snap you out of it.

[@isabelaandzico]

@ he does!

[@isabelaandzico]

@ eu não acredito que em 2024 as pessoas não sabem que o Brasil 🇧🇷 fala português e não espanhol. Tem mais de 200 milhões de brasileiros na nossa terra. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@keriholland7907]

Just a PSA at least in the state of VA, if anyone calls CPS on you and they do the random visit and find the claims false, you CAN request a form to bring the anonymous caller be brought to court if claims were made with malicious intent. Speaking from experience ❤

[@jessicabunch5726]

I wish they had that law here in Tennessee!

[@keriholland7907]

@@jessicabunch5726 it should honestly be a federal law as much as these things happen

[@charliekezza]

Here in Australia they won't tell you who called and there is no way to find out and fight back if it is false

[@rosietouse686]

​@@jessicabunch5726 I just googled it, they do.

[@graceyoung3771]

​@charliekezza Same in Ohio.

[@heatherw9062]

I'm a 911 dispatcher and yes the police will charge them if they continue (or can prove) that the person is using the police to harass others. Unfortunately it's hard to prove (court-wise) the first time because the person will just claim they were "concerned "

[@erikarussell1142]

Yeah, a wellness check can be a number of reasons why.

[@MsAngelique]

I've never heard of any repeated offenders getting charged with anything for harassing with the CPS. I think it's rare in most places.

[@snopure]

I can imagine that they don't want people to be discouraged from calling 911 out of feeling like they're calling too often for legitimate reasons.

[@snopure]

By the way, thank you for your service along the Thin Gold Line!

[@BrianAndresScott]

This is what I was going to say it's your word against there word I'm not justify there calling CPS for no reason People who abuses kids are good at lying and manipulating the system

[@christiebolden2288]

I had CPS called on me when my son was 6 by my exes mother!! He happened to be home sick from school that day and it was concluded the allegations were false. So I asked what was going to be done about a false report and I was told "Sadly nothing gets done!" Are you freaking kidding me!!! So they do nothing about false calls which is BS!! Love you Queen Charlotte!!!

[@MizMorgue1]

It IS total BS! Sending virtual hugs. Hope u and son are safe and happy

[@christiebolden2288]

@@MizMorgue1 thank you so much! Yes we are fine he is now 26 and a veteran! I had asked what would happen if I filed charges against her for it and was told nothing, more than likely it would be dropped! But there are kids out there that actually need the intervention from CPS and nothing is ever done and those poor babies suffer until they grow up and can escape! And those are the lucky ones because some never make it to adulthood! Things really need to change! Because of that visit I have spent my life trying to help kids who need it as much as I can!

[@erikarussell1142]

Nope. My ex called cps so much we were on a first name basis. They knew my schedule so they knew when to come. I always had cookies and tea ready for them whenever they came. None of them were ever confirmed or anything. Not one. But it needs to change.

[@WhatTheWHAT524]

I also dealt with something similar from one of his exes. Sadly they absolutely do NOTHING. Even after REPEATED false claims. It's disgusting and WRONG. There needs to be consequences for false claims like that as well as just bad behavior in general. Sending you my best wishes, thoughts and prayers!! 💖🙏💖🫶

[@boohankins2993]

God bless you! I understand what you went through. My ex MIL's family did the same thing. They also would spy on me by listening on phone calls and interrogating my daughter every time she went over there. I think it's child abuse to do that to a child so I tried to never to talk bad about them, they did not feel the same way. It's crazy that a person can abuse the system and not face any consequences. Though, I'm kinda of surprised that they told OP who called them or that it was cops instead of CPS. I guess procedures differ from state to state 🤷

[@tjfromalaska4520]

Throw the whole grandma away in that first story!!😂😂

[@sandrashevel2137]

Yes 😂

[@evelynneufeld7610]

Why the laugh emoji?

[@kathryntownley2988]

I’m going to leave a positive MIL example. I had the most wonderful, amazing, Christ loving MIL for 29 years. ❤ I absolutely hit the jackpot when I married into my husband’s family. Myrlie was loving and kind…funny as all get out and could cook then lay out a feast so big that the table would groan. She was an awesome MawMaw and loved our daughter fiercely and her face would literally light up each and every time she was around her. We lost my sweet MIL in 2019 and I miss her terribly. I’m so fortunate to have known her and can see so much of her in her wonderful son, my husband of 34 years. Love you to the moon and back, infinity times a trillion zillion, Mama. ❤❤

[@juliameares5268]

Our daughter died and we raised our grandson from day one. We were completely committed grandparents and we love our grandson. He turned 21 years old 2 days ago. Great young man~ Not all grandparents play these sick games. God bless.

[@mishmish2261]

I'm sorry for your loss. I'm happy to hear your grandson had an awesome upbringing! Glad you were able to be there for him!

[@Sujowi]

God bless you! You are awesomely awesome!

[@alexashays]

My grandma raised me the first four years of my life and has been in my corner every day of my life since. She's my favorite. Some grandparents are amazing! I'm dedicating my first ever book to her.

[@Hannahtheseal]

I am so so glad that I got such a good mother in law. She took us in when my husband and I got into a car accident that damaged my spine and I lost my job. I was bedridden and crying in pain every day for three straight years and she would come into the room when she heard me sobbing to pet my hair and bring me ice and hold my hand. When I got stuck on the floor from muscle seizures she came and helped me back to bed. She brought me food and water whenever I needed it. Her ex-husband wanted to charge us rent for staying in the spare room and she told him “don’t you dare” (yes my husband is his biological son and oldest child). She did everything for me as if I was her own child and I love her so dearly. She will never be in a nursing home if I have any say, she will be in our home and I will care for her how she cared for me

[@brenningestiehr8762]

Aw, that's so kind. Better than my own mother 😅

[@danilotusflower]

I love that for you!

[@moonhunter9993]

That's amazing. I hope you are doing better now. I had a spinal i jury, couldn't walk properly for a year (and longer). My 12 year old daughter had to look after me because my own mom couldn't be bothered (she lives a few streets away). All she did is cause me stress and yell at me when i was in pain. You've got an amazing mil.

[@Hannahtheseal]

@@moonhunter9993 I am doing better now after three long years of treatments. I hope you are doing better now too

[@draconicfeline6177]

She's a keeper. Treasure that woman.

[@crazymissdaisy]

When I met my husband he started thinking for himself. He started questioning the path for him and what he wanted in life. Of course, my MIL and SIL thought this was a grave offence and I was controlling him (honestly SIL was projecting big time). They badmouthed me, which made him withdraw - they claimed I controlled him. Especially SIL was very vocal and even stalked me on social media. They showed up the week before the wedding yapping about me and begging him to not make the biggest mistake of his life. That was 19 years ago. SIL got divorced, we are still together stronger than ever.

[@mistypedhi]

This I can relate to a bit. When my husband and I first started dating he was honestly a bit of a kiss *ss. He put up with so much disrespect just to not step on anyone's toes. I always thought he was just so kind, then I started to notice he had people around him who used him for his kindness and they did not do for him the way he did for them. I pointed this out from time to time and he finally started reflecting and realized he needed to stop reaching out to those people and man were people pissed they couldn't walk all over him anymore. Suddenly, I was "brainwashing" him.🙄

[@RedPanda74]

See, I’m so petty, I would remind my SIL of that fact EVERYTIME I saw her 😂😂

[@sharim]

The best revenge is living well. You go girl!

[@sweetandkindhearted]

The woman who told her boyfriend that his mom lied is a true one. Her loyalty is with her man and I respect that so much! That MiL is so jealous that this woman has her son’s attention.

[@donnaj9769]

I have been watching my grandson, now 12 & in 6th grade, while my daughter & son in law work since he was born prematurely. He’s my buddy..BUT….when I’m watching him on parental time, while they’re at work, I follow the rules they have in place. We communicate well & all want what’s best for him. However, when he spends the night or weekend I get to play Grammy & spoil him 😄. That works for all of us. I wouldn’t trade it for the world 🥰

[@kellycrawford4145]

I've never appreciated my sweet, devoutly Catholic MIL more than I do after hearing these stories. For context, when I met her son, I was freshly divorced with 2 kids from 2 dads. Both kids were out of wedlock. I was 100% sure she was gonna chase me off with a stick😂 She ended up being so accepting and loving. Honestly, she treats me better than my own mother did. I love her so much! P.s. we've been together for almost 22 years now😊

[@KatiB5587]

My mom is the unhinged MIL in my marriage, so I'll give a palate cleanser from the angel that is my MIL. My husband legally adopted my first kid (I was a teen mom) and the day the paperwork was finalised she hosted a dinner full of "it's a boy" decorations, and a "welcome to the family [son's name & date of birth]" sign, gave him a happy birthday grandson card but crossed out the word "birthday" and wrote "got you day" and she has never stopped loving on him even with bio grandbabies. She makes a point of making up for lost time with him and he doesn't know yet but for his 18th birthday (coming up in March) she's handing over an account with money to help him with college or trade school so he doesn't have to worry about struggling to get by. She's protected me like one of her own, and if anyone gives me a hard time as an immigrant when we visit her (she's in a red state, we're in a blue state, I'm Swedish Australian) she isn't afraid to start a post office bar fight with anyone. And I'm the only veterinarian she recommends to anyone, especially if they have livestock. She is amazing and I love her. I've felt more like a daughter to her in my time with her son than I ever have with my own mom.

[@mayas883]

That's so sweet! Thanks for sharing ❤

[@MsMcCoolio1221]

So glad for you!!

[@r.altman6458]

❤❤❤

[@lejovy]

Thank you for sharing your MIL sounds like an angel. Bless her 🥹🫶🏾

[@DiZoSoMom]

Your MIL is incredible! I am so lucky to have a very similar type of MIL. Life is so amazing when people aren’t crazy! 🤍

[@stayathomeserial2653]

I am honestly so lucky to have the mother-in-law that I have. She started calling me her daughter-in-law around month two of me and my husband dating. She welcomed me with open arms from the moment I met her and she truly is one of my best friends almost 20 years later. You would think that you would want to love and build up the person your child is with. Makes me sad that women see their sons partners as competition and not a new daughter.

[@agnes15101968]

I would never even waste a breath to a MIL who tried to "initiate" me. If you do not welcome me without some crap thrown on each other "just for fun´s sake", then forget me.

[@Rikrobat]

@@agnes15101968- Exactly. Even if it was meant as a test because being married to a celebrity is difficult, just have a conversation! But also, shame on any partner who doesn’t put their mother in her place when she pulls crap like that.

[@karencotlar2023]

Same here! My MIL is the best! We got off to a slightly rocky start because when we first met she didn’t hardly speak to me at all. I thought she hated me from the beginning. It turned out that her ears had closed up on the flight to visit us, and she couldn’t hear anything and was in pain. By the next morning, her ears were open again, and she apologized for her behavior the day before. She’s been nothing but lovely ever since. ❤️

[@purepunk18]

My God we have the same story lol. I used to have more fun going to the bar with my mil and her friend rather than going to the night clubs with our own friends! 😂

[@danilotusflower]

Same here my MIL is the best! She welcomed me from the get and has always been there for us ❤

[@lorimetallickuttelfisch6273]

That first story took my lunch break from 0 to 60 in 3 seconds!!!

[@loveli420]

Lmao ON GOD, I was like EXCUSE ME???

[@wick3dwords]

YES!

[@YayItsCaroline19]

NAW, THAT SHIT TOOK. ME. OUT.

[@MariaBareiss]

Same here, lunch buddy!

[@kristie825]

I almost came UNGLUED. The audacity. Next step, restraining order bc just oh hell no 😯😡 My ex husband (we have a 23yo daughter that doesn't speak to him now) has a 13 year old daughter with my ex bestie (long story). The daughter has autism and is being raised by her maternal grandmother bc my ex is still a pos. And his mother doesn't believe autism is a "thing) 🙄 This story hit me hard

[@msCabins]

NOTHING sets off my delulu-meter as much as "Other women are always jealous of me!" 😅

[@arlenesmith7883]

Amen! It’s always them and no one is jealous of them!! Ugh

[@genevievelaperriere1571]

My mother in law has a white board with mine and my daugther's birthdays/allergies/ favorite foods/important upcoming dates, supported me through a charity when I lost my job, always welcomes me home when I show up, help with my daughter like she is her grandma, hugs me when I cry, call to take news, always have my favorite food ready just in case I show up, etc. I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months. She is a miracle and I adore her.

[@sarahneverly1627]

From the wife of a paramedic, it IS illegal to call in false claims to the police, especially emergency calls. It can result in fines and/or jail time.

[@flowerpower3618]

It’s also illegal to say who called them in.

[@lotstodo]

That is SWATing and it's harassment and illegal.

[@BrianAndresScott]

I thought this was the facted

[@RachelGidner]

If only they enforced this…

[@FluffyHetsche]

That highly depends on the country, in some places it's not or straight up not enforced.

[@LisaSimplified]

I am a new MIL and can say my son would never let anyone disrespect his wife. New boundaries can be expected after marriage, but it's not a line in the sand. It happens bit by bit as the couple discovers themselves over time. It's part of maturing and is emotionally healthy for all involved. BTW, my DIL is a gem and my son is over the moon in love with her. I call them the lovebirds. They are so happy together and I hope that feeling never ends for them.

[@berryhij1]

Part of the reason your son won’t let anyone disrespect his wife is because he was raised by a mother who taught him well. ❤

[@otakelblanchemanor0659]

The one where the boyfriends mother caller OP a Shetland pony... Shetland ponys are bad arse little beast! Anyone that have been around them for any period of time will agree. I'd take being called a Shetland pony not only a compliment but also a challenge! Let the fun begin!!

[@reze3416]

Plus they’re really cute animals!

[@dianeportal224]

I totally agree. My Shetland pony was cute but sassy. He would buck me off then turn around and stomp on me. He would nip at me when ever I had my back turned. Bad ass.

[@jetrhody7558]

I had a buckskin Shetland when I was a child-his name was Dandy☺️

[@lapeliroja3254]

The bad stories are out there for sure, but I do have to give a shout out to my MIL. I went into a marriage without knowing much of anything, my hubby's mother was absolutely excellent in everything....top notch seamstress, excellent cook/baker, managed the family's business, etc. - everything she did, she did well. Even with all that, she NEVER made me feel inferior or tried to take over or wedge herself in our marriage. This is definitely not everyone's experience, but I'm so glad for her. :D

[@naemithomas8119]

In Germany grandparents actually are entitled to see their grandkids- legal regulations can be decided by court- IF and there is a big IF: the grandparents had a good relationship to them previously. It’s all about the kids best interest.

[@tessaritter5339]

This. Grandparents maybe entitled to optain contact to their grandkids. They are not entitled to start having contact whenever they wish to.

[@Wicked-Chick420]

I’m in the middle of planning my wedding and with how my mom acts and how my soon to be husband’s mom is, there will be DRAMA for sure. Can’t wait to tell y’all all about it 😂

[@audreym3908]

Can't wait for the drama too! But I hope it doesn't come to it.

[@vintagebitsnl1440]

I’d elope tbh. It’s your day, don’t let others ruin it

[@Heatherfether]

We on standby here in the chat babe! You KNOW we want the TEA 🍵 😁

[@laura-jasminedeacon5183]

I'm nervous because my future in-laws are drunks and I want an acholo free event because of lots of little ones there and I want the kids there

[@desireefoster1597]

​@laura-jasminedeacon5183 can you put a limit on drinks per person? Sorry I can imagine if they are really bad drunks they might cause a ruckus when they get cut off. I hope all goes well on your wedding day!

[@katypagemusic1260]

Urgh my “mother in law” (technically step mother in law as hubbys actual mum died when he was 16) when told we were finally pregnant after years of trying, before even saying “congratulations”, said “well don’t expect us to babysit” - I wouldn’t trust her to look after a goldfish!! She refused point blank to be called any version of “grandma” so she’s referred to as “grandads wife” or “the thing grandad married” if the husbands not around!😂😂

[@user-blob]

So she doesn’t wish to be called Grandma and she won’t babysit her kids. Sounds reasonable.

[@yelhsasokolova8561]

God, I'm sorry. 😅 When I was pregnant with my first child, I was catching up with my childhood best friend who I hadn't seen in a few years, and when I told her the news, she responds with, "I literally hate children with a burning passion, but congrats!" Like..... okay???? Thanks???? People are so weird. 😅

[@JustwaitNwatch-w]

How are you not EMBARRASSED ;!!

[@ellysetaylor5908]

Keep in mind that the MIL showering her sister with kindness in the last story is also using a manipulation tactic. The gaslighter needs everyone close to the gf to believe the false narrative. This way she feels even more isolated and "crazy" as everyone who should've taken her side turns against her

[@myprincess0875]

8:03 my grandmother did the same to my mum . My mum said you put up with that they’ll keep going . When you put them in their place most mums will back down when they see the wife has a backbone !!!!

[@myprincess0875]

Southern American old school mums are a different bread of woman

[@ReidandGracie]

I googled it too…just cause🙃! It said 16-20 weeks…she (MIL) chose what info she wanted or fit what her narrative.

[@3ch1dna07]

My in-laws are having their own individual fits of anger because they're NOT invited to my oldest child's wedding next year. He has already stated that they only want people there who will share in their joy, not bring it down.

[@o0gothique0o37]

Setting healthy boundaries ❤

[@moonhunter9993]

Good for. FAFO season for some people...

[@Naturefan354]

Omg what happened?

[@3ch1dna07]

@Naturefan354 my future daughter-in-law has a best friend who is in the wedding as the person of honor as they're a member of the LGBTQIA community, and my in-laws are Trump supporters who want us to exclude this wonderful person from the wedding.

[@phillysmom33]

My MIL would drive by our house then call me and criticize everything she thought was wrong. She would walk into our house without knocking, neglect letting me know about family plans, and my ex, her baby boy, did nothing. The kicker? He suggested that I have breast augmentation so that my breasts would be closer in size to his mother's!! I dipped.

[@Heatherfether]

McConaughey was in that movie "failure to launch." The character was a mommas boy. He did it perfectly! 😆 😂

[@kristine3356]

I was just thinking about this. Like he should know better. 😂

[@phillyphan1225]

It has to be tough to have a son or daughter who is rich and famous. You want to make sure they are there for the right reason - and I know he is an adult, but it still is hard I’m sure.

[@karinanicole3665]

@@phillyphan1225 this is a valid point that I hadn’t thought of but still not the acceptable way to do that at all

[@scarletohhaha6938]

​@@phillyphan1225 Maybe but his mother was way out of line and needlessly toxic. I don't care who your kid is you don't do that.

[@scarletohhaha6938]

I was wondering through that whole story what the f Matthew did about his crazy mum! Seemed like he did f all tbh.

[@queserasera1540]

Earlier today I had a chat with my daughter in law. I love her! I'm so happy my son found a wonderful lady to share his life with. What more could a mother want butt the best for her children? I just don't understand these horrible mothers.

[@areneesouder]

Too often CPS wants to believe anything someone else says and treats you like you're guilty, and unfortunately will take the kids to away. I know from experience. I had over 30 people listed as character witnesses and could have gotten more, but they didn't even try to get ahold of any of them, and just believed the lies that family and ex family were saying for their own selfish reasons and ruined our lives. I hadn't done a damn thing wrong and was an excellent mom. I asked why she believed them and why she didn't call any of these people on the list, that they were lying. She actually said to me,"well,if that's true, and they would lie about a good mother like that,then you don't need to have your kids anyway and be around family that would do that to a good mother". I said I was trying to avoid them being around them because of stuff like that. So damned if I did and damned if I didn't? Huh? ... yeah, something needs to be done about how they operate. They don't do the work they're supposed to do to assure the best and truthful outcome, and what's best for the kids.

[@NakaidaBeauzec]

Because social workers are the worst people, they need to be psych evaluated before being allowed to become a person involved with children.

[@jetrhody7558]

Unfortunately you two are absolutely correct...it happened to friends of mine n they went through Hell while jumping through hoops of fire-yet were not at all guilty...the vindictive person that did it? Not a single consequence for such a lowlife act...smh

[@robsv2832]

7:53 also... Camila is Brazilian, we don't speak Spanish in Brazil

[@100samanthamarie]

Some do, but it’s a Brazilian minority. Don’t forget that the Spaniard raped killed and enslaved natives to hell.

[@Christina_Moss]

Right!! It’s Portuguese 😂

[@nocturnusrg5389]

@@Christina_Mossno its Brazilian

[@didilidli]

@@nocturnusrg5389I can’t work out if you’re joking or not…

[@foxwindfarm]

@@nocturnusrg5389😂😂😂

[@Good.Morning.Petty.Potatoes]

Good Morning Petty Potatoes! ❤ Ooooo Monster in Law edition! 😮

[@frigid4real]

Good morning! 😊

[@Hernot_2]

THAT HANDLE THO

[@calynnlock6774]

Good morning!

[@surfpixie182]

Good morning 🫶

[@katherinenano1392]

Morning everyone as it's 3am here in Australia

[@cookiebaker2461]

Off topic but a while back my mom and I were driving out of town and she says to me, “ I’m going to turn on this KZbinr I like for the drive. She reads bridezilla stories and she’s hilarious!” And the moment she started the video I was like “omg mom! You listen to Charlotte Dobre too??” She turns 50 this year and I’m just saying I have a pretty cool mom and crack up thinking we have the same taste in KZbin videos lol😂

[@rachaelgibson2330]

Charlotte Fans Unite! ⚡🦸🏻‍♀️😄

[@sunberry_26]

🦹🏽‍♀️

[@laurahudson8210]

For the record, I'm 56... and usually watch Charlotte each day.

[@rachaelgibson2330]

@@laurahudson8210 way to go!! There's no age limit in this community 😉 ALL are welcomed! ❤️

[@jenniferneedham5514]

Im 57, and I told my daughter about Charlotte! 😊

[@patriciapotter6904]

I am so thankful I had a mother-in-law that was sweet & kind to me from the beginning!! I loved her very much!! RIP Bert!🙏

[@NancyM1115]

For those of you with loving MILs, I am so happy for you. You are blessed. For those with the other kind, know I feel your pain. In-laws can be so hateful.

[@DatLobster]

I love how half of these MILs both threaten to sue or call the police but also commit crimes

[@a-a-ron9027]

"is there more?" thankfully charolotte does all the digging and updates so we don't have to

[@dawnlochner3105]

I am BEYOND FORTUNATE!!! When my own mom died at 47, [ovarian cancer] my MIL promised my mom shed always treat me like one of her own. She honored her word for 37yrs until we lost her last yr to dementia 😭😭😭 Im sure urs will be amazting too!!!! 🤗🤗🤗😘😘😘

[@livingwithlivestockguardians]

5:00 in some places grandparents do have rights. But they have to take it to court to gain their rights. But a false report to CPS would likely cause the judge to say no to granting grandparents rights.

[@mcoyer08]

They have to have a documented relationship with the grandkids. There’s also things like a parent has passed or a divorce. I had to look into this cuz my mom was telling ppl that she had rights…to kids she has never met.

[@DawnKellyMedia]

I'm the US it's extremely difficult to get grandparents' rights. It used to be a thing, but those laws changed in almost every state. In order to get grandparents' rights the parents have to be so bad that their kids are in danger or something. It is very hard.

[@kimcorscadden3645]

Sorry to say I was an unhinged mother in law once. My daughter, her boyfriend and my grandson lived in the basement of our home and I heard my son in law yell at my grandson and then my daughter told him off and then he yelled at her. Aaaaaaand I don’t allow that, especially in my home so I went down there and literally got in his face and promised him great physical harm if he ever spoke to MY people like that again, and I meant every word and still do. Well I had myself chest to chest with him and my daughter got in between us and said “I am your daughter and you raised me well so you need to trust that I am handling this” so I left her to it. That happened in the first year of their relationship and they’ve been together for 6 years now and I know that he treats them both well because my daughter wouldn’t have it any other way!!! Anyway I love your channel and I think you’re one of my very favourite people in the whole world, so you keep being you our petty potato queen!!! ❤️🥂❤️

[@jeaniebird999]

21:54 We judge others because it makes us feel better about ourselves. This is why you never have to worry about what others think of you because it's not really about you, it's all about them.

[@Lyla_Daemon765]

I'M HERE FOR THE MIL DRAMA!!!

[@kitchencat1816]

Hearing these stories make me so thankful for my mother-in-law. She is so amazing and supportive and I love her so much

[@iriejane3099]

I have to say I have an awesome MIL! The first gift she gave me was a book on sensual massage. I was so embarrassed because I wasn’t even married to her son yet and I was 35 at the time so I shouldn’t have been embarrassed. I just wanted to share on here that there are wonderful wonderful mother-in-law’s out there and it’s sad that the mean ones get the attention. ✌️

[@lisanull900]

My mother in law was the sweetest, kindest, most loving woman ever. I used to tell her how much I appreciated her all the time. She told me after a few years that her mother in law was absolutely horrid & made her life miserable any time she was around. Mother in law had vowed she would never be like that to her children's spouses. She's been gone 14 years & I miss her fiercely.

[@JohnRice992]

That Matthew M story reminds me of why bullies were allowed to bully up to a certain point in the past. As I was growing up, my father told me that I will always have to deal with people like that. And so that story with Matthew's wife and his mother actually rings true, although it seems a very poor way to earn respect or force the self-respect that MIL was trying to draw out of her. Her own mother should have taught her that growing up.

[@RXbee2]

And Camille still married that dick Matty- the -mommy's -boy who didn't stand up for her against his rude b of a mother? Sorry but now she has what she deserves. Apparently she prefers $$ over character. Matthew is creepy AF in my books-- makes my blood run cold.

[@andreaceleste3531]

Dude, if the first story is in America, im not surprised. I used to live with my fiance, his best friend, and his wife. However old we all were, early to mid 20s, we had this crotchety old neighbor who festerd and fed off of unhappiness and suffering. We looked up county noise times, we would follow them, and we werent even THAT LOUD. He pointed cameras into our backyard, and call the cops more time than i can count on us. Nohing has ever been founded, charged, or been even deemed as a disturbance. One time we had turned it all the way up and the cop stood inside his front door and he said HE COULDNT EVEN HEAR IT! People will do what they want for attention, especially when ppl let them get away with it

[@rM-xk9ob]

Happened to a friend of mine when her daughter was homeschooled. The person who come put a note in the file that the five year old was extremely intelligent, was already able to read, spoke well, was very happy and healthy. She wrote and felt comfortable enough and secure enough to run around and play while she was there and was well behaved. She put a note that said to never bother this family again, basically.

[@Mystic_Paths]

These stories are widely shared online, especially in forums where people talk about family dynamics or vent frustrations.

[@ericasolie1399]

May be piddly compared to others but anyway... I have been in treatment for chronic depression for about 30 yrs. (No armchair suggestions please, you'll see why.) On one visit to the in-laws my MIL was all excited to show me some movie. Ok, whatever. It was a Porkies style movie, Hollywood Knights. One scene showed these "knights" peeing in a vat of punch they were responsible for mixing. At the end MIL say I wouldn't need antidepressants if I had done that in high school - about 25 years previously. WTAF?! I explained in detail why I would not have been included & that my depression was largely based on a narcissist mother. Every time we visited after, "Oh MIL I have a new doctor/therapist. They've never heard of pee in the punch therapy & can't imagine why anyone in their right mind would think it would help." 😂

[@danabryant6138]

19:34 "It's ok- I make lamb."

[@reneethibeault5129]

Omg I was waiting for this comment!!! Love that movie

[@danabryant6138]

@@reneethibeault5129 Me too 🤗

[@thepaintedpoppies1010]

I have not seen My Big Fat Greek Wedding in forever. The aunt is the funniest! "Whatchu mean he don't eat no meat?!"

[@BettyVeronica2.0]

😂😂😂 I love that movie!!! 💜

[@jennybrandon2393]

Joke's on the grooms family that wore black dresses to the wedding - in the summer. They were roasting! Ha ha!😂

[@MorbidKat]

My husband's parents did some shady shit with CPS too! We regained custody after getting freaking railroaded because of course they didn't want to hear our side at first and now have no contact what so ever with those monsters. Even the family judge said all the grandparents and CPS did was traumatize our children (plus my husband and I, I still get physically sick if someone knocks on the door). We've heard through the family that karma has paid a few visits to those assholes though

[@andreabradley5837]

I've had people push me to the outer limits of my boundaries. Mostly when I was younger. Looking back, I'm glad they did because they (maybe some knowingly) were teaching me to learn how to stick up for myself.

[@twistedfrannie9311]

I love my MIL she is one of the most fantastic humans I've ever met at my BIL's wedding she said she's been blessed with her son's not only finding amazing wives but she's finally been blessed with daughters.

[@addiemontgomery4559]

how dare youtube hide this from me for 18 seconds!

[@erikarussell1142]

They do that crap all the time!!! I hate it. Stupid dumb.

[@BrianAndresScott]

😄 🤣 the audacity of them, how are they not embarrassed

[@BrianAndresScott]

​@erikarussell1142 i don't get notifications alot of times

[@addiemontgomery4559]

haha right!

[@erikarussell1142]

@ same. I hate it. The other day they hid her video for 30 min. Even though the dot came up and said there was a new video.

[@tarakeane94]

Starting my day, with Charlotte Dobre 😊❤

[@valsptsd814]

Rhymes! ❤️✨❤️

[@Mama_Bear524]

Starting my day with Dobre yay!

[@rebeccasteinke4357]

21:21 she's absolutely *gorgeous*, I'm sorry but no man is worth that level of narcissistic abuse from their mother. Unless he's willing to cut her off, it'll make your life absolute hell

[@Mama_Bear524]

She probably is. But she’s also heavily filtered here.

[@BarbaraCarr-q4p]

She's stunning and doesn't deserve this

[@strawberrymilk1186]

@@Mama_Bear524Sorry?

[@eltooyo2]

That first woman is a masterful storyteller! I could have listened to several more episodes of that!

[@thesilversurfer7136]

Kindness matters. We have such an aggressive, negative society when people have to “test”. That is just another door slammed to bringing peace in the world.

[@annaartie2784]

Watching all of these crazy MIL stories makes me feel so lucky and blessed. My MIL and I love eachother~she was genuinely happy when her son brought me home for the first time, when we moved in together, got engaged and married, and was ecstatic to have a grand baby. Our mom's even love eachother too. I'm so sorry to everyone that has bad in-laws 🥲

[@ChefSarah4104]

These videos make me appreciate my in-laws even more. My SIL is one of my best friends and my MIL and FIL are like a second set of parents. They're the best grandparents too.

[@AlaskanCookie]

Every time I watch these, I am reminded to text my MIL I appreciate her. 😂❤

[@alywitch7189]

0:31 👁️👄👁️ i hope that lady was charged for false report

[@Rickettsia505]

I hope an order of protection.

[@katherine5797]

All of her posts are fake

[@seeya205]

@@katherine5797 That's what I was thinking! CPS doesn't tell you who called.

[@Mama_Bear524]

@@katherine5797are they?

[@LadyMFUnicorn]

​@@seeya205 Yes they will if they have the name. It's when they don't know the name they won't.

[@paralegalkc]

Matthew McConaughey’s mother should be ashamed of herself. That’s ridiculous.

[@arlenesmith7883]

Yes! She and Matthew should be ashamed !!

[@rebeccahayward9607]

I'm SO glad my mother in law is such a sweet nice lady. Hearing these stories just makes me appreciate her more.

[@erikarussell1142]

9:16 this is why we dictate how people treat us. This is not acceptable, but it is what it is. So don’t let people treat you any way you don’t deserve. Don’t let people disrespect you.

[@WhimsicalWorm]

5:14 grandparents can be granted rights HOWEVER they have to definitively prove that they have been a very involved GP, usually when their own child doesn't want to be involved, but they do.

[@MaidAlli]

Yeah the state of West Virginia has grandparent rights. And can take parents to court to see their grandkids more often if they feel slighted. Had a coworker go through it

[@moonhunter9993]

My country also has grandparent rights.

[@nicoleparreira1024]

Yep thank you!

[@littlebottleofink]

My ex MIL was super unhinged. I had worked a double and they had invited me over to eat. I went despite the fact that I just wanted to go home and while waiting on dinner, I had accidently fallen asleep while sitting on the couch. She said nothing when I was there, but on the drive home, I got berated on how I had embarrassed him in front of his mother and how she was so upset I couldn't even stay awake. Needless to say after that I did everything to not go over there. I was never good enough for her "perfect" son. I can say asking for a divorce was the BEST thing ever. While he is working countless odd jobs, I managed to get my masters degree working in the mental health field. Found myself the perfect partner and couldn't be happier!

[@GrandmaLoves2Scuba]

He says that to you on the drive home and you still married him? SMH

[@TheQuestionmarkstudi]

That last story..just damnnn

[@JanelleNicole777]

My version of standing up for myself is removing people who put me through shit from my life. I don't waste energy fighting someone that I think is stuck in their ways or just mean. I will just be gone. Be careful how you push people bc some people will just leave. And then you lost out on a kind and respectful friend who doesn't "test" people and wont be "tested"

[@Xil_Gon_Give_It_To_Ya]

Y'know, there's this wonderful movie called "The Help" about a book of the same name, and how that book came to be. And there's a particularly powerful line in that movie that I think about often when I hear about some of these absolutely unhinged, spiteful kinds of people: "Some people aren't just mean. They're mean for *sport."* (this isn't an exact quote, I haven't watched the movie in a while) Tbh, these monsters-in-law seem to fit that description quite nicely.

[@WhimsicalWorm]

People like that see it as a game. "How angry can i make this person before they lose it, and I can use it against them and be the victim?"

[@rachaelgibson2330]

The Help is such a great movie!! It tells a wonderful story, and has some funny scenes, but also some very emotional ones too! I highly recommend watching it or reading the book! ❤️

[@tinahickman6300]

I remember the scene. This maid was talking about how she worked for this lady and when she died she put it in her will that she would go work for her daughter like she owned her. You're right the line was "mean for sport." I loved that movie! I read the book as well and it was really good

[@moonhunter9993]

Someone who's mean for "sports" is often a sociopath.

[@pixiestxNyomouf]

Reminds me of that horrible family of women who tried to make it "tradition" to haze, harass and bully to new women of the family and the hubby showed them all the door. Misery loves company

[@LadyCaspar]

I have simply the best, sweetest, most boundary respecting mil in the world. I wish my girls knew her better but she has severe physical and mental restrictions and she’s in another state. My hubby is even a huge momma’s boy and talks to him every day but she has never stepped on my toes as wife and mother of his kids.

[@melissafields3376]

I'm a grandma who has a close relationship with my grandkids . They are safe and loved; that's as far as I should have any say in how they are raised . Nothing more; doesn't matter what I believe or think. Their parents are the ones to raise them and they come before anyone else.

[@amandapittar9398]

How could you EVER be jealous of a mother-son bond? My MIL has 4 sons and loves them all and they love her. It’s great - we daughter in laws benefit from it. I’m never jealous, I have my own one son so understand. I love him dearly but I’m not unhinged…that woman was certifiable.

[@mamabear9646]

I'm actually really blessed with my MIL. She cares a lot about us and me and it's great. She might have the occasional moment, but she's human and I love her.

[@CarpeNutella]

Many states do have Grandparents' rights now. There is a flip side to this. My ex BIL was neglecting the kids and my Mom was willing to have them visit, get them school shoes, Christmas gifts, etc. as the BIL was struggling to provide for his 6 children. He would withhold the two grandkids (the other 4 were the other woman's kids, the woman he cheated on my sister with.) My mother is so sweet and did nothing wrong. He was mad at my sister for leaving him. So it's not always the grandparents who are to blame for being absent.

[@hollyshaw-elliemae]

those arent talked about because those arent the stories we are discussing. we know theres tons of trash parents who dont treat the children OR their parents well. thats for a different story. the majority ends up telling in law stories because, they are far more common. it all sucks, we all, as a species suck. there are some worse than others for sure. i hope the kids in your family are doing ok and things have improved, if not, im sorry :( most grandparents are thought of loving wonderful beings... because as grandparents, they are. as parents, not always so much. i think the family dynamic in general is so messed up these days that its hard. (for instance, i view my grandma and papa in high regard as my grandparents, as parents.....i know they sucked. my papa beat his kids, drank, shot guns off in the hosue etc, but as a grandpa, my grandpa, he was everything. i was destroyed when he died as a teenager. but i know he was so kind to his kids. its a effed up world right)

[@kimmyB9203]

That's very true. When my son was given full custody of his daughter, we made it a point to keep his ex's family in her life even though his ex only had supervised visitation. It wasn't the family's fault that the mom couldn't stay off drugs and had her heroin dealing boyfriend move in with her. The family was always good to my granddaughter, so my son or I would take her to visit her other grandparents, aunts and uncles. We would let the one aunt take her to see other relatives on vacation for a week during the summer a couple times. It's not the family's fault and they shouldn't be held responsible for the actions of someone else.

[@KatieBoyd-e5f]

Just commenting to say how much I love the subtle Smokey wing

[@ShapeshiftingForestFae]

Ik, I've been staring at her face bcs she's so pretty, and how does she make that look so simple, and so elegant??

[@nomadicdramatic2496]

I listened to Matthew Mgcougheny's memoir on audible. He's definitely a momma's boy.

[@sjsimom2]

Tbh, when she was pulling that wrong name bs, if I was Camilla, I would have been like "you know, mama has been getting me confused with others alot. This may be early signs of dementia"

[@berryhij1]

@@sjsimom2 Ha right? Let’s put her in a home. 😂

[@jenmac1716]

@@sjsimom2literally!! Brazilians don’t even speak Spanish

[@andreavantzet1962]

That explains why I don't like him.

[@amethystscorner]

Charlotte, this look is absolutely killer on you! The makeup and the black T-shirt really compliment you. I mean you look stunning and everything, but extra stunning today 🥰

[@madmarrr]

My SIL had a hard time adjusting to our family and especially my mom because we were TOO NICE. My poor SIL was raised in a family where love had to be earned. She wasn’t prepared for the outpouring of unconditional love that my mom (and the rest of us) gave her. She’s now totally used to it and happier than ever. So glad she’s part of our family. ❤

[@mrs_jennings22]

1st story... PROTECTION ORDER! Definitely living in Delululand

[@deborahdicesare9042]

I met my (evil) MIL when I was 7.5 months pregnant with my first child. She lived in Italy, and refused to come to our wedding. Her only words to me were “ that baby is a bastard.” My husband grabbed me by the hand and led me to the car, we left and didn’t speak to her for over 10 years. There’s an entire book worth of evil that she did to her kids.

[@loveli420]

Charlotte your fashion is ALWAYS ON POINT ☝️🔥

[@CharlotteDobre]

THANK U BESTIE

[@bartmongiello]

Honestly, I’m super lucky. I absolutely love my mother in law. Thank god for it too, because she’s been there for me in so many ways. Appreciate the hell out of that woman.

[@smashley86]

i watch these to remind myself how grateful i am for my fiancés mother. she's been super non-invasive and chill for the last 6 years we've been together. crossing my fingers that never changes because both of my sister's aren't so lucky 😬

[@PixieDusted72]

I’m literally shoveling popcorn in my mouth like I’m at a horror show.

[@galactichero_yt]

10:21 are we not going to talk about the beyblade clip 😂😂 LET IT RIIIIIIPPPPPP!!!!!!!!

[@lunag6416]

I had it play it back T-T why stilace lol

[@galactichero_yt]

@ I rewatched it at least 4 times to make sure I wasn’t seeing things 😂

[@sourgummiescureyourpain4555]

God tier editing right there

[@Duckysmultiverse]

Hi Charlotte!! I love your content so much. Your personality is refreshing and so cute. I wish you the best! 🩷

[@CharlotteDobre]

you are so sweet thank you so much! have an amazing week!

[@Szyq003]

21:26 😂 the youngest ones usually are the mightiest. The youngest sibling has spent their whole life having to fight for their place, lol. I am a little sister, and I am definitely the scrappiest of us all.

[@lilnugget5961]

Omg that first mom is hilarious... She sets it up like she said the most horrendous witty thing to her mil but then says I told her " that was trifling, why did you do that?, then i said.... I said..... Screw you!" 😆 Oh damn girl, she might need some lotion on that very very mild burn!😂😂😂

[@runnerchick123kf]

The fact that Matthews mom remembers all his previous girlfriends names says it all 🤣 very obsessed with his life

[@Heather_2712]

20:38 if my husband wasn’t an only child I’d be fully convinced that we share a MIL lol. I was 6 months pregnant when she bought me a scale for Christmas. Proceeded to tell my 2 year old that “she will be a big plump girl just like mommy”. I’m 5’4 and I was 175 pounds at that time. She lost her mind when she found out we wear the same size 🤣. We cut contact with her 2 years ago and our lives have been so peaceful since.

[@ThestuffthatSaralikes]

I thank God EVERYDAY for my AMAZING in laws. After the hot mess insanity that were my ex in laws and seeing these crazy videos… it really makes me thankful for the amazing family I was welcomed into…❤

[@NoraGuy]

I have not one but TWO mothers-in-law (to be) who both so far seem very loving, kind and accepting of me. I am so lucky! I had the father in law from hell (and the mother in law who stood by and stayed out of it) last time.

[@alexsummerRain]

Baptized by FIRE!