Chasing Vs. Claiming Your Woman

The difference between chasing a woman for attention & validation vs. claiming her as your own.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who says there is a subset of women who say they want to be chased and wanted by a man and that men not bringing up the relationship first will cause these women to not to fall in love. He’s obviously confusing being passive and weak and letting women do all the work vs. being masculine and taking the lead that results in a relationship initiated by women. It’s a good email to illustrate the difference between chasing women for attention and validation vs. being masculine and leading women to fall in love and wanting to be exclusive.
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Corey Wayne

[@chrischerry4076]

"Insides blown out by Chad, thundercock." My gawd Coach, tell it.

[@00-CD]

I know who Chad and Tyrone is but who the fuck is Chad thundercock? lol Is he and Chad the same 'person'? LOL

[@zoraster3749]

It’s actually his last name... Chad Thundercock 😆

[@chrischerry4076]

@@zoraster3749 haha so no comma necessary

[@goodboyconformist]

HAHAHAHahahahaAHHAHAHAHAHA

[@shardoolask7226]

Well got me a good username to use else where 🤣

[@kvs7876]

My girlfriend told me the other night that she doesn’t care where we go or what we do because she knows no matter what when she’s with me she is safe and I won’t let anything happen to her. Where have we heard that before……

[@00-CD]

Congrats bro, keep being masculine

[@SomeGamer1111]

You are Chad Thundercock

[@ChrisPBacon-nd7qe]

@@SomeGamer1111 🤣

[@nhl4264]

Whatever it is you are doing, keep doing it. For a woman to be saying that, wow. We all yearn to feel safe around our man, there is no other feeling like that in the world for a woman.

[@TheMarmar1988]

Hangout, have fun, and hook up! Best motto in the dating life! Thanks Coach!

[@mmasteak]

The best relationship/life coach on KZbin.

[@alexmcpherson6366]

I think the most important thing is seeing if this girl is a good fit for me and what she can bring to the table

[@willyp22]

Chad thundercock is my hero!

[@aleksandarruben9395]

Women want him, men want to be him

[@chrisgraf1304]

The best relationship Coach in the world. Ranking #1 🌎🥇

[@Jordantzd]

Broke up, dated, new relationship. And here I am, still listening to you during nearly every shower I take

[@victorlima2166]

I drive a lot between clients, and I usually have the audiobook or a video playing on the stereo

[@tonyslizoski7360]

Coach I have been listening to you and reading 3% man on repeat. I used your no contact with an ex that I was 100% certain I would NEVER hear from again and In less that 60 days she reached out to me and I followed your techniques and lined up a Netflix and chill.

[@Jordantzd]

She’s an ex for a reason tho don’t let her hurt you twice my man

[@emptysoul2757]

@@Jordantzd correct. I’d never fully commit i.e move in / marry

[@victorlima2166]

Guys- Netflix and Chill sounds like FWB, so he is making the right moves

[@masina7960]

Update?

[@MichaelSmith-ls8fb]

Man.. I felt like you were talking to me right through the screen. I feel like I'm doing everything right with this girl, man she really makes me feel like a good man. I can't wait for what the future holds

[@Culinarybadboi]

Coach, big love from the UK! You changed my life man! Thank you so much, big love for your work! 💪

[@freewilly7220]

Yes indeed!

[@paddy4627]

Normal, healty women are rare nowadays!

[@johnzachariasrealtor7906]

Yup mostly single moms who hate men cause Chad Thundercock slipped one past the goalie and left her

[@Jordantzd]

Or lunatic feminists

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

Fact check: true

[@victorlima2166]

I find that to be true of everybody, not just women. Everybody has a thing or a trauma- especially after the shit show that was last year. What makes people healthy is the way they choose to unpack their baggage on their own time.

[@debarghyapal8782]

You're the man Corey Wayne

[@christopherarmstrong2710]

0:40 There's a big difference between being a *passive beta male* who seeks attention and validation from women, vs. a *masculine man* who leads women to where he wants to go. 2:40 Men should be the leaders. Men do initiate the dating and the courtship, get the number, make a date, pick her up, go for the kiss, seduce her when the signs are there that she is open to being seduced. Your job is to just facilitate having fun and hooking up. 3:40 Women love mystery. They love a man who they have to work to get to know, instead of a guy who just lays all his cards on the table, talks about all of his flaws and faults like he saw in the movies, and then gets predictably friend zoned or rejected. 4:00 You want a woman who's into you, who's excited about you, who wants to know things about you. As a man, you want to feel wanted as well, you don't want it to be a one way street. It's much more easy and effortless to go out with someone who has high interest, that's what you're looking for. You're also vetting. You can't make good wine from bad grapes (don't try to fix a woman who's a train wreck). 5:20 Ideally you're looking for a teammate, an equal, who also has her life together and who knows what she wants, why she wants it, and is going after it. 6:30 The idea is to slowly reveal your cards, like playing poker (women are more attracted to men who's feelings are unclear). Because if you go out on a first date and just lay everything out on a table, and you tell her your whole life story, she gets bored really quick. Go out on enough first dates and talk about all your flaws, your shortcomings, about yourself and your accolades, and how successful you are, and see if you get a second date with that approach. 6:50 The idea is if you're the man, you're the leader. You're initiating a date, you're initiating a get-together. *When you create the conditions that every time a woman is around you she feels good - mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and physically she starts to like you more - especially if she has to earn **_you._* It's just like anything in life - if we don't have to work for something, we totally take it for granted. If she has to earn your attention and validation, and it's not just given to her automatically, she's going to appreciate it more. 8:10 Just being direct and decisive, making a date is being masculine and rare this days in soy-boy-millennial era. Says and shows that you desire her, that you want her. In a playful way, you're telling her what you want her to do. 9:10 Important to be a woman who you actually like listening to, or has something interesting to say, and is fun to be around. Because if you enjoy the sex but are turned off as soon as she opens her mouth, that's not what you want. You want somebody you actually respect, you like listening to and how her mind works, and she's fun to be around. 10:00 We make all decisions based on EMOTIONS and use LOGIC and REASON to justify our decisions. *Applying the principles in 3% Man pushes a woman's buttons emotionally the right way, in a natural way, that causes her to feel safe and comfortable expressing herself & her interest.* Ask a woman, "what do you mean?" "I don't understand where you're coming from?" Being a good listener and asking high-quality questions will allow her to tell you what she's thinking and feeling, because she feels safe with you and can trust you, and can tell you what's in her heart. 11:10 *Women can feel when you're into them, and when you're just using them, and also when you have no confidence and you don't know what you're doing.* 12:30 Long term relationship material women won't be out dating 15 dudes, because they're very selective - they know what they want and they're not going to screw around with F-boys, douchebags or guys that don't have their shit together. They don't need attention and validation from men, they're looking for a teammate, they're looking for an equal, and a man who actually knows what he's doing - and very few do. 15:00 There's no force / dripping with masculinity in their personality. ***When a woman is with a very masculine guy, she's going to become submissive, girly, and just totally submit to him and be putty in his hands.*** For a long term relationship, you want a woman who's easygoing and easy to get along with. 3% Man will bring out really bad behavior and lunatics really fast. 15:59 If you've chosen a good woman who comes from a good family background, there's a good chance you're gonna like the people in her family. If you're dating a lunatic who's a hot mess, her family is typically going to be a mess as well, and you're probably not going to like hanging out with them very much. These are things that just come with experience and time.

[@rimtutitukiification]

In my opinion, this video is perhaps your best so far!

[@Mark-mo4bo]

Chad Thundercock. Fkn classic! Haha

[@Giorg189]

This is a very very important video. One of the best from coach.

[@jalil3192]

10:42 everybody’s gangsta until Corey becomes serious

[@Flordiaman1]

Awesome information this week coach I don't know what I would do without you

[@valentinepetric3689]

This vid really shifted the whole dynamic in my head from just fbuddies and how to approach her to seduce her into something more serious by asking questions and more importantly leading the whole “relationship” into the direction I want it to go by saying certain things

[@synaesthesia4183]

Haven't seen your videos in a while, missed your boldness haha. As a female even, your confident mindset with specific examples has taught me so much. You also helped me get through the worst breakup of my life. Thank you 😌

[@michaelberthold9658]

Just don’t do it - always be willing to walk away. There’s 1000 Chads for each one

[@victorlima2166]

Chad Thundercock made me lose my mind for a moment. Fucking hilarious

[@brego12317]

Love the mugs. Have three of them. Love the video. Very good insight

[@digitalnomaddude]

Dated a girl with BPD. At the time I didn't know anything about borderlines. It took a while for the red flags to show but something seemed a bit off. Maybe I chose to ignore them because she was smoking hot and the sex was great. Anyways, long story short, those are "good time girls" and you have fun and hook up with them but then you move on. You don't date a "good time girl."

[@Kitchfox]

Honestly can't even get first dates. But the few I have had I usually have a massive back log of things I wanted to do. Actually one of my lesbian friends really likes that I have a endless imagination for things to do. (And she's really fun in the evening)

[@thoomm]

The last sentence lmao Coach hahahah

[@danieltrottier8599]

Thanks again.

[@alfonsofasafuso3179]

I was just reading your book and get an e mail that you have a new video... good job

[@JohnSmith-cw1lf]

A fucking email ahahhahahahahhahahhahahahahhahaahahahahahhahahaahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahaha ok boomer

[@alfonsofasafuso3179]

@@JohnSmith-cw1lf yeah , thats what you get when sign up his website , tell me your e-mail and i will complain about that you called me boomer 😂

[@johnrintala4885]

Never thought Corey Wayne know the legends of Chad Thundercock

[@jonahkai509]

Thank you coach!

[@colindavis2113]

So you’re talking about saying too much early on, I’m very open and struggle with this sometimes, is there anything you can do to reverse the effects of opening up/saying too much or are you pretty much just not gunna not get the girl if you do that?

[@JulienRegoli]

Chad Thundercock !! 😂

[@harry-james-books]

In sales parlance: "assume the order"

[@tony-deslandes]

She was with Chad thundercock on tinderbox jajaaa

[@Spinna1993]

6:47 did exactly this fuckup with a girl I got a massive crush in a matter of a week. She indeed refused the 2nd date as " you are amazing but im not ready to date yet" Year right. I simply said okay and vanished. I'll text her in a month probably but I don't know yet how I'll write it down or if it's at least savagable

[@hritiksingh1996]

Hey, why have you removed your quotes from the description section? They were really helpful! I loved to read them.

[@lukehart7225]

I loved them too, when he would read it, l would read along.

[@hritiksingh1996]

@@lukehart7225 Exactly, man. I really liked to keep them with me.

[@lukehart7225]

@@hritiksingh1996 I was just wondering have you emailed Corey? I’ve tried emailing him but he didn’t get it, and not sure how to pay email him.

[@hritiksingh1996]

@@lukehart7225 I haven't done yet. Will do that though. Thanks! :)

[@lukehart7225]

@@hritiksingh1996 fair enough man, I hope he replies back to you

[@BillyT531]

Cool Shirt!

[@anshulmassey8019]

True 💯 love from india💪🙏❤

[@eugene1052]

I wonder what coach think of Kevin Samuels

[@sammyrobert1332]

Lol

[@johnzachariasrealtor7906]

That guy is gold! Lol

[@eugene1052]

@@johnzachariasrealtor7906 lmao man the dude is beast. Dude has gave me the balls to speak up for myself abs don’t feel bad above it.

[@johnzachariasrealtor7906]

@@eugene1052 yup!! He’s the truth and women get butt hurt about it lol

[@bencassidy2137]

Hey coach, Ben from the U.K. here after reading your book and watching your content been meaning to ask can a man with a medically diagnosed mental illness become a 3% man? Be that confident, positive guy?

[@cubansoy]

The answer is "no" if you have to ask, "yes" if you really believe it.

[@This-Place-Called-Earth]

You can do anything you put your mind too, believe in yourself and find coping mechanisms that work for you

[@adrees]

Great advice and perception of the truth.

[@OGKILLa9365]

Had a girl I hooked up with a year ago and talked for a few days then we stopped talking. Then a year later we met up again had fun, hooked up a few more times. And she ended up asking me if I would consider dating her, I told her "maybe", it depends. Cause I feel like it's better to leave her wondering. She was being super clingy as well. I know for a fact she really likes me, but I will just be patient with her and see where this goes.

[@modernmanno9943]

You failed to just make the date. Coach wouldn’t be pleased…. “Maybe”…OK cool guy.

[@OGKILLa9365]

@@modernmanno9943 that's fine. I feel like i'm not even ready to date anyways, i got a bunch of other things going on. I've been dating her and and off for the past 2 years. She always comes back around

[@TheGupsterMan]

Why is trying to get a date and be in a relationship with a woman so hard these days? In the 1950s it was simple and easy and you got married in a month lol.

[@andytdm]

17:26 that’s what I’m saying 😂😂

[@terrelltadaski23]

I call hangout have fun hook up. The triple H affect

[@johnzachariasrealtor7906]

I dub this video the Chad Thundercock video. Poor Harry Honda....

[@goodboyconformist]

The king has given his daily address... listen up peasants! :)

[@Nenad.S]

11:45 but i love the crazy ones XD

[@davidwhite1472]

God corey im so greatful for your work but its hard to hear somtimes. Im an ex harry honda. 😉 EX

[@Mikebruno1187]

Chad thundercock 😂

[@lukehart7225]

How can l email Corey Wayne, so he can email me back. I’ve tried before, but he didn’t get it? Please help. Thanks 🙏🏻

[@BlckToothGriN]

He’s a busy man, you need to be patient dude!! It may take time for him to get to it, if he even gets the chance to see it.

[@lukehart7225]

@@BlckToothGriN fair enough bro just impatient, and thanks. Don’t yell

[@BlckToothGriN]

@@lukehart7225 Then that’s something you need to work on dude. As the saying goes “patience is a virtue”. Well I was also addressing the people in back 😜

[@lukehart7225]

@@BlckToothGriN you were addressing the properly in the back? It’s only cause I emailed him in February-March.

[@BlckToothGriN]

@@lukehart7225 As I said he’s a busy man.

[@johnmora5830]

A woman displaying low I Teresa and low sex drive towards u or acting like she don't care and it wouldn't bother her to loose u from I've seen can really kill a relationship. It basically says to the man Im not sexually attracted to u I am not fully about u and I'm gonna be on social media checking out other guys.

[@theworkscw]

Any of you guy’s dated a girl with an avoidant attachment style?

[@beetdiggingcougar]

Yes, you'll learn to filter these types out. Stay far away.

[@Chigo7]

What you mean attachment style

[@BlckToothGriN]

Yes, run!! Run far, run fast!!

[@Caesar-nx9uv]

❤️

[@theoneandonlylg3824]

theres video in these ads

[@thesauce807]

corey you got like 20 ads in one video

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

KZbin premium eliminates ads from all youtube videos. It's worth the money.

[@earthpart3]

If you're on PC u can put ublock origin on chrome and never see another ad again for free

[@chadcobb2285]

Hi this is chad.......you rang..?

[@jondamon1808]

Chad Thundercock lololololol

[@Secretary.of.Education]

Chad Thundercock 😂

[@GodOfMySalvationIsYeshua]

3:14 so fani jao jis féis exprechon yast cheinyes as ji téics a sip of jis cap Yu ar de man Cory!

[@YOLOGAY39]

yii

[@sergeyc5528]

Yep)

[@lulenzemoat]

To many toxic woman on this planet. Goddamnnit

[@olivierfaber8478]

17:27 the 0.1% saying this(the Omega Sigma's) haha

[@angelalibero2770]

You have to explain to guys who fuck around , and building 1000 of relationships that stuff that you saying- doesn’t work in that case Couse they using same model with 100 of them Building 100 relationships and they says they are “ single “ that is why mass is on the door of hause - only safe place

[@Aiofitnessconsulting]

maybe i should stop yelling at her😥