Good luck, bro. I'm sorry you have to deal with this. God bless
@Savedandblessed233 жыл бұрын
Stay strong brother you not the only one
@slyfly48292 жыл бұрын
Me too. Except my ex got my child to lie. I was literally arrested out of no where. I haven't seen my kid Ina year and a half. Imagine going to court when you were accused of threatening to shoot your children with guns.
@AVH8TOR3 жыл бұрын
Thanks. I took my daughter out of an unsafe situation while we were living with her mother, on the guidance of my lawyer. The very next day my ex went to night court and filed a pfa on a ton of lies. Now my final pfa is tomorrow. I’m freaking out. Literally, The police came and took my daughter, along with my pride. I’ve never been in trouble, or broken the law. Never hit anyone. Anything... Everything said was a lie. It took me totally off guard. I’m sick to my stomach about it.
@Orophile_3032 жыл бұрын
Gosh. Sorry.
@AVH8TOR2 жыл бұрын
@@Orophile_303 Update: Everything went well. We are now 50/50 on almost everything. It’s not perfect but doing the best I can with the time I have.
@juansariles4 жыл бұрын
So happy the judge didn't put restraining order on me my ex was lying so much telling him I hit her I neglected her and I kick them out from the house but luckily the judge saw through her bullshit 🙏🏼
@empowermentthroughtrials66736 жыл бұрын
I love your energy and spirit during your videos! I have been studying and educating myself on this very topic. I am a woman going through a divorce right now. I have decided to brave the social media world and help others during divorce. You are a great example!
@merissavgrayson6 жыл бұрын
Empowerment Through Trials thank you.i appreciate that. Thanks for watching! & I look forward to your videos! 😄
@Lyssa777775 жыл бұрын
Thanks This resonates and I appreciate your guidance. Love and light to everyone Take care
@tashafierce68573 жыл бұрын
This happens ALL to often! The laws and legislation is designed to favor the plaintiff.. Period.. No proof needed.. Just he say she say
@Teewaree135 жыл бұрын
Excellent topic to discuss.
@ericachavez6172 жыл бұрын
Our exchanges are at the school however I also pick up my daughter from the same school everyday. At pick ups I usually see my son and he will run over to me for a quick hug and kiss before leaving with his dad. His dad and his dads fiancé have filed false ROs. He filed first and then she filed when his was denied. Both are filled with false allegations of me saying things to his fiancé, giving her dirty looks, harassing her, etc. I'll be speaking with a lawyer soon but I'm just so shocked all these false allegations are coming from them just being bothered that our son comes to hug me before he takes off to his dads.
@Missprimnproper5 жыл бұрын
My restraining order was real. My child’s father has denied everything. My fear is that the judge will think it was a power move for custody. There is no custody agreement yet. This is his 3rd custody battle by the way.
@luxebeauty53623 жыл бұрын
So sorry you had to endure that. 🙏🏽for your healing. If it’s not invasive can you pls update, kinda in similar boat
@jsue69943 жыл бұрын
I received sole custody with the father getting visitation. The best advice I can give is to remain calm in all interactions. Document all communications. Only respond via email or if urgent text message. Do not engage in bait arguments. Even with abuse involved and a documented police statement by the fathers oldest daughter, he was still given time with child. The safest and most sane way to deal with them is to disengage from any negative behaviors. He had a tracking device put on my vehicle, slashed my tires among other things. Get cameras, protect yourself and stay ahead of the games. Also all child custody exchanges take place at the police department where I feel safe.
@luxebeauty53623 жыл бұрын
@@jsue6994 ty so much for sharing your insight is priceless and so appreciated. Good luck to you and those babies 🙏🏽❤️
@Savedandblessed233 жыл бұрын
@@jsue6994 you sound like the bitter person in that relationship
@CarlosGonzalez-qd6fh2 жыл бұрын
😩😂😂 You Using The System To Keep Your Child's Father Away. Lame 🥱
@BobbyDeuces2 жыл бұрын
I'm going through this with my ex girlfriend. She has falsely accused me of abusing her. She has successfully alienated my child from me where I've had no contact with our child for 2 years now. On top of this I believe the judge to be biased. Her lawyer is a former mayor of her city. The judge is new to the bench since only the beginning of the year. I believe that her attorney and the judge have a previous and friendly relationship that is playing a role in keeping my daughter from me. I really don't know what to do. My heart is broken from not being able to be a part of my daughter's life for 2 years. I don't have the means to pay for all the investigations, to depose my ex, or to retain a good attorney. I need help. I also have no access to any resources to help myself.
@CarlosGonzalez-qd6fh2 жыл бұрын
2 Years? How Did That Happened?
@Crownedballer Жыл бұрын
Damn bro still haven’t been able to see your kids?
@stellagriffith3696 Жыл бұрын
It’s so hard to deal with the he said she said. Me and my son are both victims of domestic abuse. My ex was beating me and I threw his phone I was arrested for breaking his phone and they didn’t hear my side of the story. My ex has my son I haven’t seen him in 3 weeks and god know what my son is dealing with. THIS IS AN 8 month old baby! He needs his mommy.
@oneloveoneheart3563 Жыл бұрын
🤥 Child needs it father also! Get out your jealous ways! And learn to be a dam co parent!
@Orophile_3032 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend's ex wife goes on Facebook to slander him and make comments about him like he kept her hostage. He gave her many chances to move out and she goes on Facebook to say things like, she wants to break the chains, fear and chaos etc yet, she NEVER wanted to move out and told him in text she didn't have too and didn't want too. on Facebook she says she wanted to leave so badly. The judge told him and his lawyer he could video chat with them and she also denied him that and he hasn't seen his kids in almost 2 years.
@soolytv1046 жыл бұрын
Can a custodial parent move out of the country with children even though the noncustodial parent has a visitation court order? I know one can move out of state. Most time the custodial parent has to provide the travel back and forth for the visits. But what is the case if the custodial parent wants to move half way across the world?
@merissavgrayson6 жыл бұрын
Rassoull Salaam typically, they must request permission from the court to make that move if the other parent doesn’t consent. But...the non moving parent probably can also file their own request to prevent the move or change the orders to reflect a new parenting plan based on the child being that far away. I would Check your local laws to find out the process to file such a request and then follow those steps rather than wait on the other parent to file. Thanks for watching!
@soolytv1046 жыл бұрын
@@merissavgrayson Thank you and keep doing what your doing. There's a large market out here for doing just what your doing. Blessings
@grndhg86d2 жыл бұрын
This speaks towards if she might make future false allegations... What about when she already has made false allegations?
@hectorlopez38663 жыл бұрын
Saaaame. Forget my baby momma yo, she wack af str8 up.
@Holly-iz6zx2 жыл бұрын
Yes, unfortunately but now my child is making up abuse because her dad hates me. What can I do, it's been 4 years & now she's saying if I fight in court for visitations she will press charges on me for neglect & abuse even though it's not true, can she do this?
@someonereal7580 Жыл бұрын
What do I do? My ex has lied about what happened in our relationship but, obviously being a first time dad and desperate I've called the family, turned up at the house, argued with social services. Is this going to go against me at court?
@jamesc10973 жыл бұрын
Please help me with this issue i live in oklahoma
@13421572 жыл бұрын
thank u for this information, i really appreciate it :)
@Yasmin-wv7sh2 жыл бұрын
Hello Mam, I really need your help, my immigrant brother is being falsely accused in dv case, the lady his wife ruined his life for the sake of U Visa & green card & monetary benefits. She made a propaganda to dessert him & torture him on pretext of these false accusations. He’s totally innocent Mam & he loved her a lot, all she did in the end was this 😓 He had no choice but to leave his all hard work of 5 years studying earning a job & come back. Please Mam I sincerely appreciate any help that you can do to us. He was the bread earner in our home. He’s lost all of his hope. I request you to please help us 😓. May god bless you. Thank you.
@the.scotts59206 жыл бұрын
If you're paying child support and paternity is established what could we do to just talk to my step daughter on the phone? Do we have to get a court order or lawyer for that?
@HadassahHannah2 жыл бұрын
thank you
@johnbob31563 жыл бұрын
Need your help sis how can I get a consultation?
@attiaasad4374 Жыл бұрын
Kindly please answer me soon
@SweetDaddyBarron78 Жыл бұрын
Talk to me baby
@attiaasad4374 Жыл бұрын
I got divorced from my first wife and I did married again But at the moment I want to marry with my ex wife So is it possible to marry again with ex wife when I have already second wife?
@ulybu42902 жыл бұрын
Its real
@lisawilliams94053 жыл бұрын
The other party is definitely extreme. Mine interrogated my child until he said what they wanted him to say. I have proof.
@forwardprogress48723 жыл бұрын
Please help
@jadejoseph17562 жыл бұрын
My baby dad pull a gun on me and my daughter
@katiebarquet87832 жыл бұрын
Same thing happen to my daughter by her baby daddy he pulled a gun on her and the courts still gave the 2 girls to him ugh we are sick and fed up with his lies winning in court !