Child Support Orders - When you don’t pay

Too often situations come up when someone can’t (or just chooses not to) pay the child support that was ordered by the court for various reasons. But what happens when you don’t pay? How does this negatively impact you, and what can you do to avoid problems.

[@briannabooher7621]

Crazy how many videos of how to avoid child support legally ...but no videos on how to help custodial parents help enforce when theyy courts wont...

[@20ilunga]

This is why i am single and will remain single probably for the rest of my days, because i don't want my HARD EARNING MONEY to be enjoyed by some lazy bum. ( she may have a boyfriend ) and some of my money for sure she will give it to him and he the Bum will go buy weed.

[@v1111.]

Or u could get married n not worry about child support 🤔

[@nonapplicable3055]

Nah, he's right. I'm just going to pay for hookers and cut my losses. 😂. He's got the right idea.

[@PoyTroy]

Smart man. I’m going through this now smh

[@robertbrown785]

It’s still constitutionally illegal.

[@TheMerFree]

Are you a deadbeat parent who abandoned their children and no longer wish to have anything to do with them ever again? If this is you, and you don't want to pay your court-ordered child support ever, then move to the state of TN! Tennessee is heavily lenient toward deadbeat parents, and shows no justice to children and custodial parents--even with a court order for child support in place! A non-custodial parent who chooses to no longer be involved in their children's lives can remain perpetually unemployed or underemployed, racking up all the arrears and interest, until they are finally deceased, then they will never have to pay what was ordered by the judge. Hence, in the state of TN, you will never suffer any significant legal repercussions whatsoever for not paying your child support. It does not matter that you are essentially in contempt of court--it won't go anywhere as long as you are able to keep a low income or neglect to report income you are making under the table. This should come as a tremendous comfort to the deadbeat parents who already don't care. The custodial parents, like myself, and our precious children, don't need help through financial hardship, we can just keep supporting everyone no matter what--not providing for our children is NOT an option, nor would we ever want it to be. We love our children enough to provide for them, it is our God-given role to provide for them, to love them, to support and provide security, to nurture, to always be there for them. People who refuse to provide for their children make me physically sick. The court system in the state of TN fails children and mothers. The only true justice is God's justice, and woe to you who are guilty of mistreating your children, for you will face God's perfect justice and wrath on the Day of Judgement.

[@lavadasolomon1624]

California also

[@maylerma1720]

My ex owed $17,000 2yrs stop paying child support this was ordered by Court. He refused to pay and I was informed by the Child Support agency that his driver license been suspended since July 2021 but we found out that wasn't the case. California it's been a "deadbeat"dad State. They don't really take care of children and the full custodial mother. Unless you have money to hire an attorney. I am really at lost.

[@MMMHUMMEL]

Here's the thing the state is not allowed to harm the DB, He could sue the government. They take away his license. He has no way to make money. They have to be careful what they do , The problem is they lead us on to believe they have more power than they actually do. They can only put pressure on them to they still have their day in court, which they can give their answer. And if it's satisfactory to the court well... However, I think they should be a little bit more aggressive when an order is in place. Especially, you just went through court proceeding. And they saw the evidence enough to issue this order, And when violated, that's what gets them, put jail. Not just that they don't pay as this is a no debtors nation, or at least not supposed to be. 😉

[@vincentgatekeeper1421]

Child support is a contract, plain and simple. It is ALSO a Voluntary contract run by a third party company who's only interested in making money for it and the state, NOT the child. I do advocate BOTH parents pay EQUAL amounts monthly that CAN be verified. CS is NOT a fair practice business, it's NOT part of the govt., It has a contract with the govt to receive 60 percent from the fed govt for every dollar it brings in. Lawyers, judges, clerk's , receive a percentage put into funds for them. So you think your gonna get a fair shake when the courts are committing crimes? Please..

[@Classy_Lady23]

Vincent Gatekeeper I understand what you saying compared to that other that Leo person you have to explain clearly anyway it is best to try to work it out with the other parent but in a lot of cases they can’t seem to work out the differences

[@Sight2Behold]

@Classy Lady So in that case, you're involving a 3rd party system to resolve it for you that making payments into it thinking it benefits the children when in essence it benefits the STATE instead😑👎🏾

[@PeterPan-pz9ch]

Be mindful of other jurisdictions to resolve your case. You may have to measure the issue and bring complaints for proper service.

[@1GodofLaw]

Pursuant to 45 C.F.R. § 302.10, the IV-D agency was required to enter into a 45 C.F.R. § 302.34 IV-D contract with County courts and law enforcement officials to provide for collection of IV-D order money. § 10:110-1.2 (c) Region 2 oversee the delivery of child support IV-D services involving Contracted service providers of the Child Support IV-D program operating in New Jersey.

[@MMMHUMMEL]

A child support order/ comes from the court. The child support collection agency is just that a collection agency. The courts or agency don't recieve any money collected from childsupport unless due through other welfare cash programs that were recieved by the CP. The processing company may charge a fee. I'm not sure how you can call it voluntary when your served , It's not like you get to choose how much Child support you pay. The agency lacks on collection, it's more of administrative mediator to keep it out of the court.

[@TheMrLoucent]

child support is not for the custodial parent or child and you should know that as an attorney blessing vs. freestone stop it please

[@jeremymenning56]

owe support and interest on earnings you never earned. right.

[@rlstone1096]

I really enjoy your videos! Here in Virginia there's a law here that if the NCP is proven to be willfully unemployed to avoid CS that they will still have to pay the same amount and a modification to CS wont be granted (which my ex has said he filed for). Is this commonly done? I recently have found PROOF of his fiance from 4 years ago till last year advertising on social media to get him side work but also had made a business logo. They seem to have no license and not claiming wages. Will photos of these fb ads help my case or do I need more to show that he is trying to avoid CS so that I can request that it not be modified. I'm not even sure what to do next with this info, I just opened a case with DCSE... do I make my case to them or do I need to file like a show cause or something? Any advise would be so much appreciated!

[@shalmarichter4088]

Did you ever get an answer to this? I'm in the same position.

[@Jhihmoac]

You know when parenting has become a HUGE irresponsibility issue when mothers and fathers are referred to as "Baby Mamas" / "Baby Daddys", and shows such as _Maury_ now hold standard daytime TV programming timeslots to the tune of millions, if not billions of viewers! It's gotten to utterly disgusting proportions!

[@californiamarianenabecerra]

Sad part is him or his family wants anything to do with the baby. No letters, Birthday Cards, presents,pictures,gift cards etc yet they have money.shame on them people. What can you do to help a Mom in that scenario who doesn't have money?

[@fidelgarza347]

Hi I open child support in March we are going to court since she stated that I was abusive to her that extended to April for this year I went back with her to be with her for holiday but she was so mentally abusive to me we split since a spank my step daughter since she was hitting my daughter zn and she wouldn't tell her nothing do I have to pay or wait till court order

[@Classy_Lady23]

U didn’t say anything about if u don’t pay like your title says?

[@maxime63ful]

Hi Merissa I need your help because my ex wife put me on child support, she doesn’t want me to see the kids, now I find out she moved to New York with the kids what can I do to have the child support terminated. My name is Maxime Dezume. And I also have a surgery done in my both knees, is being a year I’m not working. I live in Miami Florida can you help me to check if I have a bench warrant against me please

[@Thafoxx]

Please y'all read the case of Blessing versus freestone. You'll find all your answers there.

[@deborahlittle9851]

What about if you owed $50 thousand dollars and he stared paying, but he don't pay mow??

[@georgederek4428]

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[@vehbioksas3429]

Hello i been on disability since 2019. I stopped paying my required child support for the past 2 years. I hired an attorney and filed a motion but i was denied for reduced payment now I got a notice that my passport in denied. My question is will I be able to travel overseas since my passport is not revoked? I was paying $988 a month now I owe $ 26000

[@tyronebrown5766]

Run , I'm about to do the same.. I hate Americkkk

[@andreprado3377]

What about my 4th and 5th Amendment in garnishment withholding rights from childsurport. Like this whole system is fraudulent people,

[@wjmcleanslate1]

Hey. Love your channel. Two years ago I won custody of my kids, but the mother hasn't paid any of her court ordered child support. She's a self employed beautician, but now she's claiming that she doesn't work. What can I do??

[@merissavgrayson]

Willie McDaniel you need to find her income. This can be done in many different ways. For example...private investigators can discover where she works and how often and potentially how much she makes, or you can conduct discovery (look up: form interrogatories or special interrogatories) to ask her to produce documents or info related to her work, you can also subpoena her clients to testify about how much she charges and how often they see her. Finally, you may be able to ask the court to impute income to her based on her earning ability, rather than using her actual income. These are just a few ways and of course you should seek local counsel or look up the laws and procedures related to this in your state. Hope this helps get you in the right direction at least 😊 Thanks for watching!

[@bamarock929]

So what happens when the dad says no thanks lock me up ? Where does the money come from then?

[@rlstone1096]

Im new to this a bit and still researching but theres other measure that child enforcement can take, like garnishing unemployment, tax refunds, a lien on their vehicle, reporting to credit, taking license... im sorta at this stage myself, i dont want him locked up but since hes done this before he seems to not care if hes going to court or what could happen either, when i try to figure it out im told im making threats smh

[@Geck_Gxng]

@@rlstone1096 Why do you have custody of a kid you can’t financially support? Probably spending his money on Gucci.

[@sharonda8485]

@@Geck_Gxng probably bc the non custodian doesn't want the kids either.

[@strategygalactic]

YOU!!!!!!

[@strategygalactic]

​@@sharonda8485 Adoption.

[@julianarmijo8042]

My interest never goes down What do I do?

[@strategygalactic]

They rarely modify it down.

[@romanrosa8487]

Does this include in Houston tx law

[@hinatahouga]

I need help urgently can you please help me?

[@teddyshrader8037]

Who remembers the "Law of the Land" The Constitution"? .. The child support agency is not"judicial" they are"Executive" and have no Laws. Anyone who is Contracted under Title iv-d is Independent: agents/Employees/Police/Sheriffs/bailiffs/lawyers/Judges. No powers at all. You can't be jailed for a debt that you can't payoff anyways. They don't investigate anything about your situation because it dosen't "PAY". They have no authority of you"Jurisdiction".. They trick u into consent.. Verbally/signing/responding to Hearings/warrants/summons. Numerous unlawful ways. So ask yourselves this, when did i sign up for a loan? I mean this is all about a debt of monies..no? So when did you take out a hefty loan and never paid a cent back on it? Tell them you want to see that contract. These lawyers/judges watch each others backs so be weary. Child support is "Voluntary".. They get paid fromcthe Fed Gov't to lie to you and Coerce you into signing on that dotted line. Referees aren't judicial judges. Actors and the badge wearing court officers are"Private Security". .. Start fighting back on this Unjudicial system. You want your Case files and you wanna see the Contract you signed for that Loan? Guess who actually owns that Loan?

[@felton6886]

Ok so you work at McDonald’s you make 230 a week. Child support takes you down to 90 a week. Somehow you have to buy food and pay rent. So you eat for free at work once a day and live in a shit hole .... you go down to child support to modify your unfair amount. And that costs you 140 dollars you don’t have. When the sytem knows you can’t survive but garnishes you anyway. What’s your answer ... go to school .... not if your a white male. You can’t get help for that unless you have good credit

[@Sight2Behold]

No, you fight this system by having them prove jurisdiction over you (THEY DON'T HAVE ANY POWER OVER YOU) and have them show you the contract you signed for you to garnish your wages

[@carlostosado8965]

Be in your kids lives 50 percent

[@lavadasolomon1624]

My daughter is 32, her father has never been I. Her life. There was a csu order started in 93 he has since moved to another city gotten married 2 x and has about 6 children. The order started at $100 was modified to $60 and he has never really paid the support although we would receive a $5, $11 check from time to time as a result of a garnishment of some kind. Now the amount owed is 48,000.00. Did I mention my daughter is 32? I’ve raised her she is an adult adult. They know where this man is yes they continue ye to collect this small change? Thank goodness she didn’t need him to survive. What can I do to get that 48000.00?

[@strategygalactic]

Nothing.

[@Mrchong405]

Jokes on you witch she’s 32 move on ! Lmao

[@nonapplicable3055]

Yeah, that's over with. Choose better in your next life. You got played, charge it to the game and live your best life.

[@lavadasolomon1624]

@@nonapplicable3055 been moved on we both are gainfully employed, live an amazing life traveling the world we want for absolutely nothing. I already knew cs was a waste of time. I thank him daily for the gift he gave me because she brings joy to everyone who knows her. She has unconditional love which you can’t pay for and despite his lack of support has grown up to be an absolutely outstanding woman. His loss.

[@Mrchong405]

@@lavadasolomon1624 yet 32 years later you continue being miserable about it !!! Move on lady

[@Yobydobie]

God how I wish he would just relinquish his parental rights. Then he could continue not seeing his child *and* he won’t owe any money we will never see.

[@olenametcalf7770]

What if it was never paid now the children are grown

[@dexterziebarth291]

Say the same to women who aren't persecuted for not paying child support like they do men

[@merissavgrayson]

I do. It goes both ways.

[@johnjohnson1681]

just tell them you want to talk in the woods near a cliff and welp

[@antaneiaelliott7350]

Right no more money for friends child support

[@Joeyblackblue1408]

What what what what is the apy apr on that omg

[@estherkabiro6236]

I don't know what to do anymore.. It's been an year n my baby daddy has never gave me any child support..I called him yesterday and he said he has no problem upbringing our child n now am calling him he's not picking up... He relocated from where he used to live to another place where I have no idea where he lives..... I know where his mama lives ..I don't know what to do...

[@solimarjohnson9669]

Hello, Will you please talk about when one of the parents is not paying child support, not calling, not visiting or taking the kids on his days and also blocking the mother of their children on the phone and removing from social media (use for childrens video call) so there is no communication as he ignores the mothers calls and the childrens calls and voice and text messages and also moving without telling the mother of the children, what to do in that case?

[@strategygalactic]

Leave him be. You are a strong and INDEPENDENT woman.

[@jasonfelton7883]

When a court order is unconstitutional it is void statutes are to be in harmony with The constitution

[@peternorthrup6274]

See what the judge does if you don't pay? It's off to jail.

[@jasonfelton7883]

@@peternorthrup6274 do you mean the lawyer pretending to be a judge ?

[@jasonfelton7883]

But yes, you’re correct you will end up in jail because they don’t follow the law they do whatever they want and there’s nobody holding anybody accountable to legal to incarcerated person for a death in America yet we have thousands of people locked up for debt right now…. when the lawmakers find a way to bypass laws …… we live in a lower society and that turns into tyranny, which is the whole reason we fought the revolutionary war only this time there’s nowhere to go to get away from it

[@jasonfelton7883]

They use our children as a leverage to handcuff a huge portion of society, while degrading the other huge portion of society…… there’s no reason why children can’t grow up. Poor people have been doing that for thousands of years. All they’ve done is destroyed entire live and encourage irresponsibility.

[@Mrchong405]

@@peternorthrup6274lmao no it isn’t

[@supa407]

You be a slave to that system not me

[@DrMentalChaos]

Please explain to me how you going to charge me interest on a debt that you don't even have my permission to put me on. You should be teaching people that child support is fraud and be in fighting for that. It is absolute BS that the government charges you interest on a debt that it doesn't even have permission to put you in.

[@stanprocter1]

What’s up married to the luckiest guy in the world 😉. When can grandparent income be used for support?

[@merissavgrayson]

muscle hamster hey! Lol typically, it’s not used unless the circumstances are extreme such as...if the grandparent has adopted the children or otherwise has Guardianship of the children. Then, it may be used to calculate how much support they should receive for taking care of the kids. Otherwise, in some states it may come into play if a child’s parent lives with their parents (the grandparents) and is claiming they have no income (because the parents take care of them). Then, it’s possible some of those expenses being paid by the parent may be imputed as income to the parent. But, it really depends on the state, laws in that state, and the circumstances. Thanks for watching! 🙂

[@PeterPan-pz9ch]

Why you want the grandparents money ?

[@PeterPan-pz9ch]

It's an agency based on artificial success ratings of the assistance provided. They extort money and improperly process proceedings based on miscalculated guidelines. With interest on money that further in debts the payer, may have a chance of property loss and or prosecutions of fines and jail. The organization also conducts itself thru forced authority by not informing you to resolve your case in a jurisdiction court not to face agency charges. They would lose funding. According to the original purpose of the program, no one but the agency is supposed to benefit.

[@TheMrLoucent]

you don't have to file any modification when you didn't give voluntary consent. these are not court orders at its administrative..and this is why there is a separation between men and women and them contractors you talking about are imposters stop lying

[@Classy_Lady23]

Lou Cent what are u talking about she said if anything changes like a child is living with you half time u need to make changes to the order so u don’t pay as much to the other parent

[@TheMrLoucent]

@@Classy_Lady23 no what are you talking about obviously you don't know what your saying regardless what she said child support is fraudulent what don't you understand go learn before you reply to me

[@Classy_Lady23]

I know exactly what I’m talking about cause I file for everything I need just get a life I got better things to talk to ignorance 👋