Childlessness:It's Complicated - Editah Hadassa Trip

The ability to bear a child is taken for granted by many. In this eye opening talk, Editah Hadassa Trip opens up about the challenges of being childless.
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[@wantted6707]

Am now 43 years and am chirldless...I have a loving husband too.. thanks for reaching out.

[@felistermutua3777]

Thank

[@williamsamy8072]

I know someone who can help you get pregnant again

[@trizanjiru2137]

Thanks for sharing

[@faithgitau1347]

Dear God, Look at all those women waiting upon you for children. Give them heirs Lord. As they wait strengthen their faith in you and love for each other as couples. In Jesus name, Amen.

[@faithmumbi]

Amen .

[@thedragonernestevans3976]

Amen

[@brighterdays1322]

Amen

[@evekembumbulu1599]

Well, most women don't learn from previous mistakes, they instead repeat the same abuse and worse then the previous error. And the still claim "it can happen to anyone" syndrome. God will test you also before attempting to bless

[@gracewaiharo4786]

Hi Hadasa, God is faithful and I have walked the same journey as you. My daughter came at 14years of marriage and 7 years later the brother showed up last August and is now 5 months. Our 22nd wedding anniversary is on 1st February. Read psalm 113:9 Bible says he settles a barren woman as a happy mother of children and he has done it. God is God no matter what.

[@githuab]

Thank you for sharing, very inspiring and that word of the Lord is true and Amen!

[@sharonjumba4648]

Oooh God is good.

[@AggiesVine]

Reading this on my 18th wedding anniversary today. Still yet to hold our child in my arms. Our biological child. Never lost Faith. Trusting God fully and always. Bless you my sister. Hadassa Mungu atatutendea. Amini.

[@francelaudo7713]

who else cried when she said her name and how much of a queen she is in her husband's eyes?gal you so strong and God will shock you someday

[@milkaanyango7578]

I did! So heart touching. I'm like her, shading tears for her n for me

[@departmentagricengineering8483]

Amen

[@mercymutheu9482]

Inspiring. I too, suffered from endometrosis but God is faithful. After 2 miscarriages i have a beautiful daughter now. I hold on prayers and scripture Exo 26.

[@Ed-wt8hp]

Beautiful testimony. Amen

[@bfelixo]

@@Ed-wt8hp Amen

[@ilovejesus9303]

Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉❣️❣️. I just had a second miscarriage. I won't give up and thanks for your testimony, that it's still possible

[@karuragirljustus5555]

Congratulations 🎉Amen

[@tracyasami218]

Amen

[@suziethebride2018]

How great is our God! Eight thousand members had no one to speak for them, they were crying in silence! He decided to raise a Hadassa.. Bold, articulate, warm enough to speak on their behalf.. I celebrate you!

[@leahmwalubalile3661]

God is going to bless you with multiples!!! In no time

[@gospelayoti7861]

Am childless but trusting God for greater greater MIRACLE.🙏

[@johnjimngugi6053]

I have listened to this so keenly,am amazed how you have adressed a very critical issue yet you made it so easy and humorous...am proud of you am even more proud of your husband for not letting lack of kids break your marriage...am still so confident you just parents in waiting,your kids are coming... thank you for sharing this

[@Ed-wt8hp]

Thanks alot

[@Muchechemera]

My heart bleeds for childless women. Lord have mercy.

[@Ed-wt8hp]

Amen. Thank you

[@94110mission]

It appears in your culture it would be difficult for a woman to make the "choice" to not have children, perhaps to focus on a career. Such a woman would likely be harshly judged. But does "every" woman want children?

[@taalizi]

@@94110mission Most women want children, yet to see one who does not..but the family/societal pressure is the biggest driver...

[@cactuskabiru70]

Me too..it's a Budden I have to pray for them. May God bless the fruits of her womb

[@Muchechemera]

@@94110mission Very few women stay childless by choice, especially African women. Societal pressures aside, almost every woman desired to be called "mama" by their biological child. I am sure we all have seen how difficult it is for one to grow old and there are no children to look after them .............you agree with me that old peoples' homes are not "stylish" in Africa.

[@rahmaiya1809]

Am in tears i have been married for five years no child yet thank you for your support

[@margaretlubia9274]

Haddasah you are blessed! I waited for 4 years, lost 3 children and finally the Lord blessed me with 3 children. I am so encouraged by your testimony and want to tell you, conception may tarry, but it will eventually come to pass. God Almighty is above all medical terms since He alone is the creator of everything. Just hold on to the Lord and He shall surely appear when you least expect. God loves you so much together with all ladies out their and men who are in this situation. Keep on trusting in the Lord!

[@ilovejesus9303]

Sorry to hear that sadness. Sorry did you mean you had 3 miscarriages or you gave birth and then they died? Sorr

[@nkosilathi9800]

I cried listening to you, i felt finally someone understands my pain. Thank you for sharing

[@phoebewendo7115]

Never give up..We are so many but one day one time,,,,God will make a way

[@-sue-unwind]

I got operated 4yrs ago because of cysts and am four months pregnant now. Doctors thought I may never bear children. God has a way for everyone and I wish you the very best

[@sueshi3792]

Nothing is impossible with God.... My friend waited 10 years and when they were in their 40s, God answered their fervent prayers, they got 3 beautiful kids 2boys, 1 gal... cutest kids ever. So don't give up on God, he's the Children giver, not you or biology But God alone... Keep praying...

[@tomnyakiti6841]

That’s my big sister Hadassah. Proud of you DT. ❤️

[@mwaselamanga8824]

I always feel so bad for people who have no children. God please remember them and make a miracle of children in their lives.

[@enarmi17]

Amen🙏

[@linakamau6701]

You don’t have to feel so bad since you know who blesses people with children. The plans He has for His people are greater than we can think of. No need to put God in a box. So no reasons to feel so bad my dear sister. Being childless can be a ‘beautiful heartbreak’.

[@zilashally9787]

May God remember you Hadassa just as He did for Hanna in the bible

[@eunicewangari5607]

You are a queen girl. I waited for 5years and finally they landed. You have entered in my prayer list and I know God's time is the best...you are a lovely soul.

[@SM-fu1sl]

I have cried, repented of any time I let my tongue get sloppy and thanked God for any gift He has blessed me with. Thank you for this thought-provoking and inspirational message 🙏🏾 The sun will shine on you too, continue trusting in God.

[@skemunto7649]

May God open your womb Haddasa,, may you carry its fruit someday, Amen. ❤

[@beak3958]

I see you on that stage. With a sleeping bundle, two, in your arms. Amen.

[@sharonjumba4648]

Amen.

[@samuelmukuria5387]

This one of the most emotional episodes of engage talk so far... I'm not used to commenting on youtube videos but for this I've to. If I was to choose the man of the century, Editah's husband beats them all. Haddasa may God see you through you're surely a strong woman.

[@auntymo9147]

woooowww thank you for this great encouragement. I'm 43 and still waiting. Isiah: 1-9 is my strength.

[@sharonjumba4648]

God's still on your case....He'll cone through for you....may He give you peace for the journey.

[@sikhumbuzodube7670]

Thumbs up to Ken. This man cares. Few men stand beside their childless women. May God bless this couple. Demythologising childlessness.

[@Ed-wt8hp]

Thank you for your friendship and support. We celebrate you too

[@sikhumbuzodube7670]

I appreciate that. May God expand your territory

[@lilianotachi2897]

It's not anyone's fault to live without a child..... well said my dear... wish I could meet with you face to face. Its been 12 years living without children

[@nurugizani3075]

Look her up through waiting wombs All the best Hugs 🫂

[@Amanidulah]

I cant stop crying 😭 oh Hadassah may the Lord bless that waiting womb!

[@annemwaura3910]

Hadassah hugs you shall testify the goodness of the Lord...lots of Love

[@danielkaranja4130]

Of all the episodes I have watched, this is the most educative. It's very enlightening that I see life from a completely different perspective. I have 2 close families who are childless and I can just identify with the pain they have to go through perpetually dealing with this strange phenomena that is a taboo in the society. May there be a baby cry in your city!

[@chelangatkitur8015]

Wait on the Lord my uncle waited for 15 years they now have 2 beautiful boys. Mungu ni mwaminivu atakupa watoto, I see it in Jesus name

[@sharonjumba4648]

Amen.

[@everlynondego8113]

Can't believe there are 38 thumbs down to this. What a shame. Love you Hadassa.

[@martinmagiri9235]

Thanks you Hadassa. You've spoken on behalf of a whole world & enlightened many. I salute your courage to open up & compassion to hold the hands of others. Blessings!

[@lilkimani4795]

I love the way she explains things in easy way regardless the hard situation.Evans Magare.

[@evansomollo9746]

there is nothing that is too hard for the Lord, Hadassa I want to remind you that in God every realm is a possibility, and very soon the Lord will wipe your tears. He is Alpha and Omega. and His time is the best.

[@anniekamau1537]

You are blessed Haddasah,you gotta an angel for a husband,God bless him so much,he is a rare breed. God will wipe your tears.

[@DaudiOJ]

I count myself blessed to have known and met this wonderful lady. Hadassa and Ken Trip, I admire your emotional intelligence, resilience and courage. God is with you.

[@marthamakwata2072]

Thanks for sharing this Hadassah. I'm a product of a 10 year waiting womb. God is still God. May His will be done.

[@shirleyodongo6439]

I celebrate your husband Hadassa.....waiting wombs is an inspiration. God bless you.

[@phoebemisente8315]

Awesome testimony.

[@themuruas4569]

Hadassah.. Means Esther. Surely you are a queen. Queen Esther

[@margaretwambete1228]

You are a mother to all those you are touching.You are blessed.May 2019 be a blessing to you beautiful mamaa.🙌🙏👣

[@ngangajanewdella4145]

You made me remember how much I questioned my Mom for not Giving me a sibling

[@Rae80Rae]

Pray for this family. Thank you for speaking up and raising awareness for childlessness.

[@ludyoluoko9702]

I've got one such hubby too. Thanks so much for sharing this. You don't know just how many are revived through this. Continue lifting your head up

[@amoosusseihn1904]

Very touching I had a similar problem and once told would never give birth, but I have 3 kids now. Keep believing miracles truly do happen. You are not childless ed in the name of Jesus. Am inspired.

[@cerlinemwadeghu5616]

My heart bleeds for these women May God see you through all waiting wombs

[@Nyarasaka]

Wow Editah my schoolie, you are so strong! You have helped so many with this talk and God will reward you for holding someone's hand. I applause your husband. Very few men can do what he has done. I always believe God has a reason for everything. And if He had planned for you to be a mum, then it doesn't matter how long it takes, you will surely be one. But if in His divine plan He never planned it that way, then He surely has a better reason for it. Stay strong and blessed dear.

[@clintonnyamongo7799]

I am pleased to have met the Trip family in Church. Two warm happy people. I am convinced that a baby will be born into this family.

[@elizabethchebby2607]

I had same problem ,opperated of fibroids damaged my uterus bt God intevined I'm now another of one don't give up hadasa

[@mirembehellen5387]

Thanks Hadassa! It is more pianfull when somebody you think is a friend insults you. I have a colleague who sent me an insulting riddle and quote about my situation, I decided to block him. Not having children doesn't make some body less of a human being. Greatly appreciated . God bless you.

[@Ed-wt8hp]

Amen- Hadassa

[@babalwagraceful4306]

Wow! Beautiful. You have liberated me dear sister, I have been feeling so ashamed with my struggles of infertility..

[@sheilarono395]

I feel you am diagnosed with pcos and everybody seems to have medicine plus they have options of relatives second wife I thank my husband he said he married me children is a plus and he is my mentor and never stress that I must children he is open to other options sarogacy, adoption and etc having a supportive spouse heals the wounds

[@treasureforashes3497]

She is beautiful and has soo much humour'

[@Rsturere]

Powerful! God is so faithful and never delays! Please keep up and may your dream come true. We waited for 5yrs and the Lord came through, now blessed with 2! The support from your hubby is so precious, God bless him!

[@cateakinyi1956]

This is so inspiring

[@health6089]

Going through the comments and seeing all the testimonies just gives me hope. As a medic, almost in my 30s with no prospects of marriage or kids, seeing couples walk in with infertility cases breaks my heart and scares me for me cause I want kids, even just one. All in all, the testimonies and Hadassah just gave me hope

[@jennifermbetembete3220]

I feel you Hadassah, bt continue trusting God his time is always the best was married for 12years had fibroids, adenomyosis and alot of complications, bt at 43 "God had my prayer and blessed me with a baby boy. To all with waiting wombs, continue waiting on our God because there is no condition too hard for him

[@sarahmayambala4466]

Wow congrats, how did you manage your symptoms to be able to conceive

[@reginarey3843]

Very informative Editah Hadassa...thank you....your husband is a lucky man....you are such a joy

[@pioneerpio]

What a strong woman...You are blessed with an amazing Husband, some would leave or kick you out...Thank God for your King. Baraka tele

[@evadavid255]

7 years of marriage and still waiting.. diagnosed with PCOS.... I know just how complicated childlesness can get.

[@nellysharper1512]

We are together.. Pcos hurts

[@maryanhajir3634]

hold on love

[@gracewaiharo4786]

My encouragement to you is that God heals PCOS as well. I was diagnosed with PCOS in 1996 as I was preparing for my wedding, stayed for 14 years and went through myriad of treatments then in Jan 2011 my daughter was born. Ideally PCOS gets sorted with a successful pregnancy but mine seems to have changed to something else but praise God in August 2018 my handsome boy was born and 22 years later I'm a happy mother of children psalm 113:9

[@ravascombugua6592]

He had the power to calm the storm, power to raise the dead, power to forgive a prostitute, power to save the world. He has power to turn your situation around. And because he listens and speak on this day I say to you next year a time like this you will sing of his wonderful works.

[@evadavid255]

@@ravascombugua6592 Amen to that... That an amazing encouragement

[@WamaithaWamzKaranja]

I stand amazed, the sheer courage and articulate manner she's delivered this extremely sensitive topic. Kudos to her hubby! In His time, may He fulfil all that concerns you and yours!

[@mercymungai812]

May the good LORD remember all the women out there, thank you for sharing your story, very informative.

[@kariminjagi4622]

I couldn't hold my tears watching this strong lady Hadassah talk ! Pure wisdom ... girl you are just special and your time is coming .

[@winniekasavi7451]

You are one of the strongest women I know.God bless you for being the voice of those in similar situations and sensitizing the rest of us.You are blessed

[@antonetteanyira5021]

This is very inspirational. I had Ovarian cysyts when I was 16 and a lot of complications and I was wondering what was wrong with me. I got counselling early in my life and luckily I came out strong

[@Kachechepodcast]

She is a powerful woman the onions am chopping are too many kudos woman😍

[@sheilak9154]

Glad to know I’m not alone in this journey. May God remember us.

[@arlenemuzira2221]

Ohhh child of God....I hold you in prayer. God is faithful. You are a mother,a wife,a big sister a friend. Thank you for sharing.

[@Ed-wt8hp]

Thank you

[@jackymuhindi6804]

Thank you for sharing this, may the almighty bless your womb🙏🙏 Those people who always asks "unangoja nini, Ongeza mtoto mwingine don't understand what most couples go through. It shall be well

[@amboka2001]

I know how you feel, I’m in the same category but we grow stronger each day, every year 10 years now, we have each other, and that’s what’s more important. Thank you Editah.

[@SusanMarusha]

You are such a strong woman Hadassah , some , of us are out here suffering in silence , thank you for talking out for other women out here ,

[@gladysyiga3149]

So touching. God please honour the waiting. They've not given up, they are waiting on You.

[@lindawatiti6853]

You know what Hadassa,the next time you will be here as a testimony.You are such a strong woman.Thank you for holding many hands

[@damarisondiek5414]

AMEN God do it for her in JESUS Mighty name Amen

[@sophiemuiruri982]

You are a strong woman and your husband is just God sent

[@Ed-wt8hp]

Yes he is. Thank you

[@wandiakagema2496]

I am in tears, sending you strength and lots of prayers. God bless your husband

[@maureenjannephar3507]

This remind me of a friend who said "siazae na ako kwake" I went silent for a minute and realized that she has issues to deal with this talk very rude

[@sharonjumba4648]

Totally, we must wear thick skin for the insensitive comments that come our way.

[@jotaya]

Your family indeed, was a straightforward, humble/down to earth, kind and quite loving. And yes indeed, truly religious! Growing up as neighbors, I remember this very well! You are blessed my dear. You’re an inspiration! God has chosen you to do His great purpose as difficult as it may seem, humanly speaking, for now! You are doing it well Nyar japuonj! Now remember also, “man’s extremity is God’s opportunity,” not necessarily to have a child, but to be “the voice.” God, good, is working His purpose out in you, and through you! And may He continue to strengthen, guide and guard both you and your hubby! Be blessed for allowing God to use you as a voice for the voiceless!

[@TheMsChrisie]

Serving others and fulfilling your purpose with so much Grace. God is Faithful.

[@mildredatieno4852]

Wau your husband is a blessing to your life. He cares for you the way it should be

[@christineajulu2259]

This is powerful Editah, you have opened my eyes, there is so much that I did not know. Thank you. And hey, it is nice to meet you here after our primary days.

[@maureenondire8663]

What a wonderful husband! a strong man, who supported you all through!May God blessed him. Am so encouraged.

[@salomewairimu1355]

I watched this keenly and really felt for you my dear sister and thanked God for how he has strengthened you and preserved you with a good reason. I decided to give out this idea of introducing you to watch Immanuel tv and maybe it can be the last bus stop for your problem for am a witness of worser problems and they're delivered successfully. When we're weak then we're strong for God's grace is sufficient, may God guide to a place where grace his grace is sufficient for his name sake. Where there's love and unity the presence of God is there, i appreciate your husband too for holding your hand to that far, may God bless you and don't give up. Congratulations for your faith and may God intervene in Jesus name i pray.

[@tabbiewachira9334]

Thanks for representing us Hadassa. God's grace is sufficient. I thank God for my husband with you, for understanding and caring and protecting.

[@Ed-wt8hp]

Thank you dear. We are in this together

[@BerniceKaranja2014]

I admire your strength and courage, not just for yourself but for the many women who are unable to carry their own children to birth in this country, you have given them a life line. Kudos to Ken, he should get state commendation.

[@Ed-wt8hp]

Thank you!

[@Ritz2011ful]

Sending you love and light Hadassa - and all mothers & fathers in waiting. You're a brave lady to share -Thank you for changing the world.

[@Ed-wt8hp]

Thank you. Appreciated

[@bethreuben5015]

God is faithful I know u will have kids much love and God bless you are an inspiration to me

[@margaretkamundia8802]

Most sad but amazing thing I have ever heard of. Thanks so much for sharing. May God bless your womb

[@rosettekansiime9441]

May God hear your prayer and bless you with a bundle of joy dear

[@davidogweno5427]

Glory to God. Such confidence and grace. You are blessed Hadassah to be a blessing to many.

[@janendungu3498]

Strong girl ......may God continue shinning in your life. Your husband is God sent . May the will of God be done .

[@priscillarkarani6581]

Hadassa, thanks for your courage and love. God of Sarah is hearing you

[@tracyasami218]

My dear Sister our God is amiracle working God, hes going to do for you, you are going to testify

[@jacquelinekimani7998]

Big ups Haddasha.The God who blessed Hannah n all the women in the bible will surely remember you.May God honor you n other women praying and having faith for fruit of the womb.

[@Ed-wt8hp]

Amen

[@niphakhasambi9633]

This is a true definition of a strong woman! May the Lord remember you Hadassah.

[@mprincess5227]

God bless your union, keep waiting and praying, big up to your husband that's a man and a half.

[@alchemist2327]

The best is yet to come , don't mock someone because of childlessness.

[@jbdebbielish8483]

Blessed gal All is well God does the impossibilities Saudi Arabia watching

[@bennjenga6650]

Such a strong woman with an encouraging story, may the Lord bless you with the desires of your heart. Your husband is a great man.

[@HardlyTalk]

When pain turns into purpose. Endurance and learning to walk through while still trusting is important. May the altar remember all those who are waiting most especially this amazing lady that's raising a banner for fellow human beings who know the pain of not having a child

[@khakayimahero7370]

Thank you for sharing your story. Endometriosis awareness is vital to building effective support systems around us Endo Warriors.

[@zubedakenei896]

I pray for all women who are in waiting. God bless you all. God give you grace and strength. I pray those around you are understanding of the situation.

[@floraosendo7819]

Hadassah, I have had endometriosis for 39 years now; infact stage 4 endometriosis. We will continue to walk walk with our heads held high.

[@Ed-wt8hp]

I can imagine your pain. We are in this together. Praying for you

[@muenianni9367]

Flora Osendo Be strong Another waiting girl here

[@wilsonowuor6292]

I am speechless.... bless you Hadassa