NoFap is ruining your life.

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Chi

Chi

Күн бұрын

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@tanksbeni2583
@tanksbeni2583 10 ай бұрын
Leaving this comment here so that i'm always reminded of this video when you like
@crazycano18
@crazycano18 7 ай бұрын
i got you fam
@shatatsu
@shatatsu 7 ай бұрын
made it so far ?
@jck2658
@jck2658 7 ай бұрын
Reminded
@worldgenres
@worldgenres 7 ай бұрын
Reminder
@Rayan-wx2wl
@Rayan-wx2wl 7 ай бұрын
The purpose of the video is not to come back , u shouldn't even think about it , it has to be natural
@1Hmmmmm
@1Hmmmmm 10 ай бұрын
No bs, no over exaggeration just face to face and straight to the point, thanks dude
@Eternal_inquire
@Eternal_inquire 9 ай бұрын
Facts
@narrowroadtraveler4167
@narrowroadtraveler4167 9 ай бұрын
No way that's only for some people
@BuffedAcheron
@BuffedAcheron 9 ай бұрын
I’m glad I’ve never gotten into the hub, and I will never go there
@luvdvno
@luvdvno 9 ай бұрын
glad 4 u bro❤️
@Eternal_inquire
@Eternal_inquire 9 ай бұрын
@@BuffedAcheron bro that’s insane! Don’t even look! Keep your eyes pure !!
@axstrostories
@axstrostories 4 ай бұрын
Boys, like this to remind me everyday not to relapse.
@YEZxEX
@YEZxEX 4 ай бұрын
Dont give up
@USSR1791
@USSR1791 4 ай бұрын
Do not give up
@WarzoneMob79
@WarzoneMob79 4 ай бұрын
I‘m starting tomorrow I relepsed on 9 days streak just don’t quit bro I feel like a loser and a nerd
@Tpr_1808
@Tpr_1808 4 ай бұрын
​@ExercicesAtHome keep going bro. Be strong
@angel-2009-v4x
@angel-2009-v4x 4 ай бұрын
I’m on a 20 day streak you can do it
@TheShadowOfInnocence
@TheShadowOfInnocence 2 ай бұрын
I’m so tired of feeling like a slave to porn, like many others I’m now holding myself accountable by leaving this comment here as a reminder to keep staying strong. We can do this guys, stay strong.
@shavonnwhyte1453
@shavonnwhyte1453 Ай бұрын
Here with u bro, 6hours clean ✊🏾
@alisalman5917
@alisalman5917 Ай бұрын
If you want good advice, journal your feelings. Whether it’s you typing it in your notes or laptop, or a physical pen and paper. And practice mindfulness meditation everyday. It’ll help you identify your emotions and regulate them healthily
@TheShadowOfInnocence
@TheShadowOfInnocence 5 күн бұрын
@@alisalman5917 That’s a good idea. Thank you!
@TheShadowOfInnocence
@TheShadowOfInnocence 5 күн бұрын
@@shavonnwhyte1453 Thank you! Hope your streak is only getting longer.
@zk_jepsi3238
@zk_jepsi3238 10 ай бұрын
17. Y/o, stopped by my self, and began going to the gym, got better in school, makes more money by working more and got more confident. 100% worth it
@chiyinde
@chiyinde 10 ай бұрын
Proud of you bro
@mr.incrediblememes6771
@mr.incrediblememes6771 10 ай бұрын
🙌🙌
@michaelscaccia1454
@michaelscaccia1454 10 ай бұрын
Good for you man. I'm finding myself quitting now at 24 after doing it for the last 10 years. It truly does poison your body and mind. I don't even know you kid - but I'm so proud of you please stay strong!
@Gs20098
@Gs20098 10 ай бұрын
I've stopped at 14
@edwardb911
@edwardb911 10 ай бұрын
You need Jesus you will never feel fulfilled. You will make that million and say to yourself what changed and you will realize nothing in fact you will look at life and try to find meaning or purpose but your spirit cannot be fulfilled by materialistic things but by spiritual things. So when you get to that point remember what I said Jesus is the only who can fill the missing link and give you hope and meaning to this life.
@Sewibl
@Sewibl 10 ай бұрын
This video is awesome. It explains exactly what NoFap should be, not some bullshit that turns you superhuman, but just being how you are intended to be. To everyone struggling with porn addiction, it's absolutely worth stopping, and you will 100% feel better about yourself. You can do it.
@chungye8937
@chungye8937 10 ай бұрын
Yeah but Johnny always gets out of control when I’m 4 days in and the urge to do it begins to constantly grow😭
@vhuawelomakhuvha
@vhuawelomakhuvha 10 ай бұрын
@@chungye8937 just stop counting. Simple.
@chungye8937
@chungye8937 10 ай бұрын
@@vhuawelomakhuvha ok I’ll stop counting 👌
@Sewibl
@Sewibl 10 ай бұрын
@@chungye8937 Forget about it. Put porn blockers on your phone, go outside, do stuff with friends, and fill your time with productive tasks.
@6ickles
@6ickles 9 ай бұрын
I've stopped for a week bro I feel so good I JS feel so energetic
@maricoleman5622
@maricoleman5622 7 ай бұрын
Boys hold me accountable, like this so I can rewatch as many times until it’s drilled in my head
@maricoleman5622
@maricoleman5622 7 ай бұрын
Thanks fellas, currently watching it a second time
@maricoleman5622
@maricoleman5622 7 ай бұрын
Third time watching this, temptation was creeping in, but quickly shut down
@baer28
@baer28 7 ай бұрын
@@maricoleman5622this is the person i wanna be😭 like this so i can watch it w u
@maricoleman5622
@maricoleman5622 7 ай бұрын
I’ve watched this video 6 times, everytime at night I get this surge or hormones. This helps calm them down
@reyz7923
@reyz7923 6 ай бұрын
Write down all the key words in a notebook
@Ινπορταντ
@Ινπορταντ 4 ай бұрын
someone get this guy a medal
@fraserr851
@fraserr851 3 ай бұрын
@l-ixirit’s someone get this guy an Oscar but that’s still
@casperwijnmaalen6620
@casperwijnmaalen6620 5 ай бұрын
Imma leave this here so I can keep being reminded of this video
@lenoxpI
@lenoxpI 4 ай бұрын
You really gotta stick with this. I’m telling you your mental clarity, confidence, work ethic, view on women, and just overall happiness will be so much better.
@mirsyad9828
@mirsyad9828 4 ай бұрын
Daily reminder for ya!
@YEZxEX
@YEZxEX 4 ай бұрын
Do not give up. Its that simple. No matter what, do not give in. You have no excuses
@josesoto8163
@josesoto8163 4 ай бұрын
keep it up, one day at a time brother.
@Flightsimnewsuk
@Flightsimnewsuk 4 ай бұрын
Remember
@petrthingsilike8487
@petrthingsilike8487 10 ай бұрын
Mate, it is so REFRESHING to actually see a young man, who has a complete common sense and is confident to talk about his mistakes and describes the ground he moved to by learning from those mistakes!!! I wish I had somebody in my environment with your knowledge 20 years ago when I was a teenager. :) I hope your video will go around for a long time and will allow younger men, maturing men, growing men, to learn and follow a better path!
@Dodgerzden
@Dodgerzden 10 ай бұрын
I second that. Very impressive and wise beyond your years. When I was a teenager 50 years ago, no one talked about masturbation or ever admitted doing it. It blows me away to see the younger generations talk out in the open about it and that's a good thing.
@godzillazfriction
@godzillazfriction 8 ай бұрын
​@@Dodgerzdennots so much as a 'good' thing where there's countless videos like these who just want to gather attention for views (it doesn't matter if they believe it to be deemed as right or not) telling ppl to 'stop' as its ruining your life based on that thing that is supposedly detrimental against and basing their own arguments as an objective fact that everyone would supposedly share... its a completely baseless argument because of that notion right there, the guy in the video talks about how he doesn't like those 'corny' nofap videos yet literally delves into that idea that those videos have when you're in a 'nofap' zone then your sexual experience will be automatically or progressively better with women (or men) as well as meeting your friends (which alludes to not succumbing into that urge when you're alone), going outside and going to the gym...
@Dodgerzden
@Dodgerzden 8 ай бұрын
@@godzillazfriction Good point. In my day there was no information and no one ever talked about it and today it's information overload and everyone talks about it. I also wonder if these people talking about no fap are causing people to feel guilt or shame about masturbation in the same way religion tries to do that.
@godzillazfriction
@godzillazfriction 8 ай бұрын
@@Dodgerzden i just find it strange how this culture that has been brought up from mostly or definitely American side of things is always about Males and not Females as in that Females are just out of the equation for some contradictory reason for the sake of 'self-improvement' and how you should stop what you're doing, and it's ruining your life...
@NobreZ07
@NobreZ07 10 ай бұрын
17:05 "a man who isn't embarrassed of the things that he does behind close doors" that hit me like a bullet
@konyvnyelv.
@konyvnyelv. 8 ай бұрын
Anyone should not be ashamed of what you do behind closed doors.
@MNAHN-T.GOF-NN
@MNAHN-T.GOF-NN 8 ай бұрын
@@konyvnyelv. What are you saying?
@Howaboutyes11
@Howaboutyes11 7 ай бұрын
op
@infoatniro9055
@infoatniro9055 6 ай бұрын
​@@MNAHN-T.GOF-NNgo away
@The-subtle-ostrich
@The-subtle-ostrich 5 ай бұрын
​@@infoatniro9055?
@KOMORA9
@KOMORA9 4 күн бұрын
You have no idea how relatable this is. This is almost literally to my story to a tee. Thank you so much. It’s time to fix up.
@spacebuddy5339
@spacebuddy5339 7 ай бұрын
The shame is the hardest part guys. Overcome the shame and you'll gain control over it.
@zeethree
@zeethree 7 ай бұрын
What if you don't carry any shame from this? Like how much shame do you walk around with because you pick your nose when nobody is watching?
@rondoudoushiney3868
@rondoudoushiney3868 6 ай бұрын
So you would beat your meat looking at pixels in public ? Because I think picking your nose in public is fine.
@relaxandfocus5563
@relaxandfocus5563 6 ай бұрын
@@zeethree A lot.
@envfynestt9132
@envfynestt9132 6 ай бұрын
​@@zeethreebuild discipline. It doesnt have to outright stop shaking the shaft, but from small things like wake up early and forcing yourself to write or read or do some house chores. The most important thing is do it strictly, beating an addiction may be bigger food than you can chew so eat it in small portions. Means do strict schedules from small things. Just small, and then get bigger portions. Remember, the peak of the mountain can be one feet away only if you walk towards it
@firenftw3517
@firenftw3517 6 ай бұрын
Find god
@sidharthsharma7661
@sidharthsharma7661 5 ай бұрын
boys you know the drill, like this comment everyday one person at a time to remind me i wrote this comment, 365 likes=365 days, we are in this together.
@RajProX08
@RajProX08 5 ай бұрын
hehe 69
@JackRumer
@JackRumer 5 ай бұрын
​@@RajProX08hehe 69
@HyperLexus
@HyperLexus 5 ай бұрын
don't do streaks bro, no 365 days shit. just stop watching porn. and don't stop doing both at the same time, you will likely fail. start by cutting porn out from your life and fap here and there just to your imagination, and i promise you you will slowly lose interest
@FinnishEmpire
@FinnishEmpire 5 ай бұрын
Yo
@gstudioss1
@gstudioss1 5 ай бұрын
im 365th like stay strong
@keeferearthcenter
@keeferearthcenter 8 ай бұрын
You can't quit, if you quit you're doomed. Just increase the interval. I havne't quit smoking cigarettes but it's been fifteen years since my last one. Counting days is a recipe for failure....
@meltzz9548
@meltzz9548 7 ай бұрын
So fap once every 5 years
@nc3k631
@nc3k631 6 ай бұрын
Is this more of a mental strategy
@westsidegunnfan123
@westsidegunnfan123 6 ай бұрын
it seems like if you set yourself to quit it puts more pressure on yourself rather than just trying not to do it
@batistaefraim6918
@batistaefraim6918 6 ай бұрын
Bull
@kristapsvingris395
@kristapsvingris395 6 ай бұрын
​@@westsidegunnfan123 This helped me a long time ago with smoking, I quit my pack in about middle, and carried them around 2 years after with a thought, if I wanted to I could smoke, but my only objective was not to touch them. And yes it worked :)
@knowledgeseeker5466
@knowledgeseeker5466 3 ай бұрын
I’ve had enough of this compulsive addiction/ poison. I’m posting this to hold myself accountable for my actions, this starts today, i will not do it anymore. We’ve got this guys.
@DannyVibes1
@DannyVibes1 3 ай бұрын
I got you bro, come back every 2 weeks to give us updates, let’s know if you still on it.
@f7had721
@f7had721 3 ай бұрын
Stay strong my bro! U freaking got this ❤ in the bag. Even if you relapse, keep trying your best !
@Qason2
@Qason2 3 ай бұрын
Yeah right
@momentt-uw9ct
@momentt-uw9ct 3 ай бұрын
@@DannyVibes1 i know u didnt reply to me abt this, but im gonna come back every 2 weeks
@DannyVibes1
@DannyVibes1 3 ай бұрын
@@momentt-uw9ct let’s goo 💪🏾 see you in 14 days time
@Zaqeem
@Zaqeem 5 ай бұрын
Like this to remind me to stay locked in 🙏🏾
@BlackShankss
@BlackShankss 5 ай бұрын
lock in brother
@infernochills4145
@infernochills4145 4 ай бұрын
Still got it? You feel better?
@danielpittaway
@danielpittaway 4 ай бұрын
Stop seeking dopamine from our gratification
@Zaqeem
@Zaqeem 4 ай бұрын
@@danielpittaway i actually started getting in the gym and started boxing outside of work. But when i feel the urge i turn on my console and play a couple games of madden to relieve the stress. Getting rid of twitter was when i noticed the most significant change in how much i see explicit shit. This isn’t for dopamine its more of a “ people are counting on me” mentality. Sorry to the others above for the late response. Stay strong
@DillMoowa
@DillMoowa 4 ай бұрын
1 month later. Stay locked in bro
@Rosti-
@Rosti- 11 ай бұрын
No Fap isn't really about the fact and activity of stopping to fap. It teaches you discipline to not do something even tho it feels good. its all mental.
@chiyinde
@chiyinde 11 ай бұрын
Many people aren’t aware of this man. They spend most of their time staring at the day counter.
@Scaffchief
@Scaffchief 11 ай бұрын
Facts
@XeLYoutube
@XeLYoutube 10 ай бұрын
and joke about saving 30 second and 5 calori, but its free exercise! lol most improtant part for me is transmute the sexual energy into goal focused grind im way more productif if im nofap, than lazy boring sleepy and nonchalent eyes of the tiger is no joke
@Daniel_CH_
@Daniel_CH_ 10 ай бұрын
Exactly
@Whatevermancer
@Whatevermancer 10 ай бұрын
We're supposed to watch a 20 minute video for you to remind the dumbest of the bunch the entire point of doing any of it to begin with? That's ridiculous. Content creators are the worst.@@chiyinde
@aspireforchange6793
@aspireforchange6793 5 ай бұрын
Please like this comment do I can come back and watch this. I needed this so much
@wisemysticalangelo
@wisemysticalangelo 5 ай бұрын
Just download it
@GroozTV.o8
@GroozTV.o8 5 ай бұрын
Straight up 😂 0:05
@jjaden
@jjaden 5 ай бұрын
npc and like beggar
@aspireforchange6793
@aspireforchange6793 5 ай бұрын
@jjaden NPCs don't have typos in their dialogue ya cornball. Also jokes on you, you got me to come back and watch the video again loser.
@BlackShankss
@BlackShankss 5 ай бұрын
comeback watch it right now, u need it
@nickolasbess-zk3gp
@nickolasbess-zk3gp 3 ай бұрын
God bless all my brothers out here on their journey 🙏🏿
@BrainfooTV
@BrainfooTV 8 ай бұрын
I believe you are right, to conquer any addictions you eventually have to come to the mindset of i no longer.. smoke, drink, fap, or anything else. And if you fail, dust yourself off and start again
@Asrajzz64
@Asrajzz64 8 ай бұрын
So basically relapse over and over without any progress at actually quitting your addiction, that doesn't help anyone at all.
@BrainfooTV
@BrainfooTV 8 ай бұрын
@@Asrajzz64 No. I believe you have to accept you are not perfect, and the goal is to be slightly better every day. If a relapse occurs you have two choices... 1 give up and not be better. 2 try again with a benchmark to apply yourself against. So if your not perfect and no one is, you quit and stop or get up and try again. Which are you?
@Asrajzz64
@Asrajzz64 8 ай бұрын
@@BrainfooTV Sounds like an excuse in disguise. Of course though you always have that choice even before you relapse, give in or you can put your energy to something else. We need more solutions than to just tell us to relapse and start again, thats not truly progress.
@BrainfooTV
@BrainfooTV 8 ай бұрын
@@Asrajzz64 obviously you are perfect, well done 👍🏻
@Asrajzz64
@Asrajzz64 8 ай бұрын
@@BrainfooTV Clearly I'm not, but doesn't mean we should just take the easy way out and not actually try to progress in life. There has to be a point where it's day one or one day.
@FaencyDE
@FaencyDE 7 ай бұрын
Thank you man, I’m 21 and I’ve been fucking up my whole life and I’m starting to realize i need a change and this is one of the things i need to fix if i wanna keep changing my life around.
@hannankhan5589
@hannankhan5589 6 ай бұрын
truth.
@IsmailIsmail-py2xq
@IsmailIsmail-py2xq 6 ай бұрын
Goodluck brother, you got this 💪🏽
@isMiIes
@isMiIes 10 ай бұрын
This is probably the best video related to this sh*t. After 16 years (started at around 11 yo) I feel like my mentality changed for real, even if I am not in my longest streak, I really feel like this is a thing of the past already (I don't even know what my streak is anymore). Thanks for this video, hopefully more people get a chance to watch it entirely.
@ForThePremium
@ForThePremium 10 ай бұрын
yeah i can relate because i started when I was about 8 and I've stopped for a couple days now. Another thing I heard is that addiction is controlled by proteins in your body which gives you dopamine, and that the less you work that protein by doing it, the weaker it'll get. I don't know if that's helpful, but that's just something I wanted to share.
@oofoofson4654
@oofoofson4654 10 ай бұрын
11!!!! i started way later wow
@fatloaddropper4201
@fatloaddropper4201 10 ай бұрын
@@ForThePremiumthis is absolutely horrible. I hate this society so much that you started at fuckin 8 years old. Hope these dudes that make these adult films are punished when they die. They profit off our suffering absolutely disgusting stuff
@coolgamer1815
@coolgamer1815 9 ай бұрын
i started at 7💀and i'm 13 now this is the first video i seen of this and didn't know what it was before but i'm stopping
@coolgamer1815
@coolgamer1815 9 ай бұрын
@@oofoofson4654i started at 7💀
@UFOSpino
@UFOSpino 3 ай бұрын
I became addicted at the age of 11 and I've been hooked for 3 years now. Every time I finish I feel so guilty and say that I won't do it the next day, but it happens again. And I say I will stop again. This is the most moving video I've ever seen in my entire life and I just want to thank you for lifting me out of it. I'm so grateful.
@Bez618
@Bez618 3 ай бұрын
Same bro, I'm praying for you
@Opiumphoenixx
@Opiumphoenixx 2 ай бұрын
Me too
@Fermin-hw5pd
@Fermin-hw5pd 2 ай бұрын
14? Jesus christ what did the internet do to us...
@andybond5002
@andybond5002 Ай бұрын
Don't feel guilty, you are punishing yourself. Most of these influencers after they make the video and cannot find a woman, they do it anyway. Having a sexual drive is normal, there is nothing you should do about it. Learn to control it as much as possible but don't feel guilty if you still do it. You are criminalizing something that is just part of life. You have a body and you have biological functions, don't hate the body you live in.
@Diamondroboboy
@Diamondroboboy 7 ай бұрын
Dude, i usually don't comment on videos, but this... this is what i needed. No screeming, no BS, and no lies. Just down to earth man to man. Thank you so much for the video and your support. You've earned my eternal respect. The least i can do it sub. Thank you man.
@BT-be8rh
@BT-be8rh 7 ай бұрын
Not saying “bro” every other word!!
@jaydenvanhelsdingen3046
@jaydenvanhelsdingen3046 8 ай бұрын
This is the single most real video I have ever watched on this platform
@aceyyyyyy
@aceyyyyyy 10 ай бұрын
honestly, scary how relatable this video is I remember when I first tried to quit my addiction. I didn’t even think it was an addiction until I started getting thoughts in the back of my head trying to convince me to relapse that I knew weren’t even my thoughts I’ve been on and off with trying to quit this, but I think this video is really going to be helpful.
@GavinGentles
@GavinGentles 3 ай бұрын
Can someone like this so I can keep the streak like these other guys here. It’s a rly big problem and I can’t stop
@intensifiedjay69
@intensifiedjay69 2 ай бұрын
I liked ur comment, in return u like mine so i can too go back to this vid
@Fermin-hw5pd
@Fermin-hw5pd 2 ай бұрын
​@@intensifiedjay69Nah man make sure to like mine, because I saw the parrot in your pfp and I thought it was a butt, I need help 🤣
@intensifiedjay69
@intensifiedjay69 2 ай бұрын
@@Fermin-hw5pd No Probs G🤣🤣 How does it look like a butt🤣🤣
@ike8962
@ike8962 6 ай бұрын
I literally just rubbed one out a few minutes ago and this shows up.. Drop a like. Help me quit.
@evansackin5090
@evansackin5090 5 ай бұрын
Brother listen. Idk how long I’ve been off the corn, but the ABSOLUTE best two things I did to stop was 1 find God, I went to God for forgiveness and strength and to other people for advice. And two, sorry to say this, but you’re just a bitch, like is there nothing better that you can do with your life. What I mean is, whenever you feel like doing it, think about how idiotic you’ll feel after, and instead of doing that, get up, and get off your phone. Hope this helps
@ProdectOnYoutube
@ProdectOnYoutube 5 ай бұрын
I hope ur doing good bro
@trent0748
@trent0748 5 ай бұрын
I believe in you my friend. You aren't alone brother
@ike8962
@ike8962 5 ай бұрын
@@ProdectOnKZbin I am not, I completely forgot about this I have failed myself 😓
@Alostcause27-mp1ks
@Alostcause27-mp1ks 5 ай бұрын
@ike8962 we all have been there just keep going I am still struggling too man but discipline yourself brother and you will get through
@Ziggle-ky9kv
@Ziggle-ky9kv 7 ай бұрын
The fact that nobody talks about the book NoFap Rebirth Project, speaks volumes about how people are stuck in life.
@ironmanjaimz
@ironmanjaimz 6 ай бұрын
Who wrote the book. I can’t find it
@NewAge-wr7sn
@NewAge-wr7sn 6 ай бұрын
cuz of OF, they are earning money off addicted ppl
@GhostRiley-zs8zb
@GhostRiley-zs8zb 6 ай бұрын
@@ironmanjaimz he is a bot
@HolyPlush
@HolyPlush 5 ай бұрын
@@GhostRiley-zs8zbthere is so many bots in comments these days
@BbSs-hn7yj
@BbSs-hn7yj 5 ай бұрын
​@@HolyPlush gotta be a bot if they disagree
@saltyc165
@saltyc165 10 ай бұрын
theres no man or boy on this planet that shouldn't watch this video. i teared up for the first time. im 19. longest "streak" was about 3 days and i never had more than one streak in a single month. So Basically everyday since i was 14. For the first time, for the last 4 days i have changed everything in my life, only goal of the day is to do better than the previous day. i feel like ive never even done it in the first place because i have completely un-identified myself as a fat, unfit, pathetic, junk-food-eating, fapping, lusting, vulgar, unholy person. I turned to God, deleted social medias, committed to hard work and my goals for the first time. And yes. i =m completely alone in my college dorm so its all u to me. The most powerful thing to remember always is that God is your best friend, He literally believes in you. He's waiting for you to realize the potential of the body and mind he gave you. I Thank Him everyday because of the blessing i have to change anything and everything about my mind, body and situations. You can literally change everything. Believe.
@firegames52123
@firegames52123 10 ай бұрын
w bro, keep going
@awakenwithoutcoffee
@awakenwithoutcoffee 10 ай бұрын
you are very wise for your age. Keep this up and you will have a bright future ahead of you.
@marleyythebishop
@marleyythebishop 10 ай бұрын
I'm 19 as well bro.. and tbh I unknowingly implemented all of chi's advice about a year ago, I just wanted to stop it and subconsciously I kinda already had most things he listed figured out. My longest "streak" was 11 months and he's right.. it doesn't exactly go away but the less you see or even remind yourself of it, the less you'll think about it, honestly. And even when you do, it'll be just that; a passing thought. It's like your brain gets reset back to normal.
@montrailockwood7276
@montrailockwood7276 10 ай бұрын
Best comment. Jesus is King🙌🏾
@palsunkilambu5156
@palsunkilambu5156 10 ай бұрын
AMEN
@novamarpo3
@novamarpo3 2 күн бұрын
This is my declaration- I am going to crush this addiction, and take control of my life.
@jameshall401
@jameshall401 10 ай бұрын
I don't have have a pornography addiction (I'm thankful to God for that, especially considering I'm in my teenage years). But this was an AMAZING video, that's important for all men to watch, this is definitely something I'll be sharing to my friends. Thank you so much for this Chi
@MarqueeliusThe_III
@MarqueeliusThe_III 10 ай бұрын
Same, I’ve gotten much knowledge about porn and its harmful effects prior to my teenage years. So entering my teenage (and still am) years I thankfully never developed an addiction to porn or fapping. And I agree, this should be shown to more men (especially those in teen years since hormones are at peak) because porn and fapping is because more socially acceptable. It’s disgusting, and those who defend it saying “oh it’s not bad as long as you use it moderately and know it’s not the real world” or “you don’t want testicular cancer so it’s fine” are foolish and delusional.
@fotis3v480
@fotis3v480 10 ай бұрын
You ain't got one yet wait till you get around 25-30 and see what dating really is and you'll beg for a quick sneak peek at Abella or sumsht
@KevinKunta
@KevinKunta 10 ай бұрын
I don’t have porn addiction I only struggle with lust
@losfromla1480
@losfromla1480 10 ай бұрын
​@@fotis3v480 you make a good point here. Eternal vigilance is the price for remaining free from this scourge. I believe keeping on the "sigma male grindset" is the way to stay free.
@livetochange974
@livetochange974 10 ай бұрын
​@@KevinKuntawhat is lust
@Oluwademiladeak
@Oluwademiladeak 7 ай бұрын
I love this video so much. It's literally perfect. Chill, refreshing, understanding, caring, honest. I think the best part about this video is that he didn't suggest self-pleasing with sleeping around. This is the one. Thank you for this. Thank you ao much. ❤️
@doraemon402
@doraemon402 10 ай бұрын
Hey, I just wanted to say thanks. I'm not a porn addict but I appreciate this video anyway because you are one of the first people who actually framed it correctly and thoughtfully. Changes aren't measured in time, they're supposed to be something eternal.
@nolackin60617
@nolackin60617 10 ай бұрын
@chiyinde
@chiyinde 10 ай бұрын
Respect bro
@Messi-102
@Messi-102 10 ай бұрын
@@chiyindeso nofap is bad bro ?
@pn7600
@pn7600 9 ай бұрын
it feels wrong seeing doraemon being a corn addict 💀, MY CHILDHOOD
@jigarbhinder42
@jigarbhinder42 8 ай бұрын
bro what?@@pn7600
@JamesonDolan318
@JamesonDolan318 3 ай бұрын
Im very young and I keep doing this, I want to stop but cant I am startong my journey tommorow. Please keep liking this so it reminds me to not relapse.
@pavek7193
@pavek7193 10 ай бұрын
I am 16 but I've already watched lots of videos like this and relapsed many times, but this video really made me think about all of it, I've gotta say you are really calming and I felt like my older brother was speaking to me, thank you man
@offdalove
@offdalove 10 ай бұрын
You 16 brother stop beating your meat an become a real man rn kid I’m tryna tell you. I’ll be the most difficult thing in the world but u can accomplish it through are lord and savior God Jesus Christ 💯. I’m 18 finna go my life 🩸💯
@IntegraDIY
@IntegraDIY 10 ай бұрын
When I was 16 many many years ago, I didn’t even know what no fap and SR was.. I had no issues with fapping and corn. That just tells me there’s a greater issue with teens nowadays, having instant access to corn and it’s creating a huge issue.
@chiyinde
@chiyinde 10 ай бұрын
Good luck brother
@Donewithgambling
@Donewithgambling 10 ай бұрын
It’s easier and easier if you let yourself go along time then relapse, just like quitting alcohol I went a long time without drinking and now if I do go drink and I’m down for 3 days it’s just like what’s the point? Gets easier over time, let yourself go 7 days you’ll start talking to people and excelling, then when you relapse watch yourself push the people away, watch yourself feel like your on pins and needles you’ll think more and more what’s the point?
@1Shotice
@1Shotice 10 ай бұрын
@@IntegraDIYalso the lack of in person interactions too… when you can have literally anything delivered to your door and see anything you want from a handheld device you can take anywhere, it makes for such a huge issue, considering at one point people had to actually GO OUT to socialize or get things they wanted. Dopamine naturally takes us to the easiest path or shortcut to do something and with how things are nowadays, it only gets worse
@skydivcali
@skydivcali 4 ай бұрын
can yall like this so I know there's people that believe in me?
@Horsefighter155
@Horsefighter155 3 ай бұрын
How you doing so far
@skydivcali
@skydivcali 3 ай бұрын
@@Horsefighter155 it’s going pretty good, I started reading the Bible and I convinced my family we should go to church. Hoping to continue growing closer to god and joining him in heaven one day 🙏
@Horsefighter155
@Horsefighter155 3 ай бұрын
@@skydivcali Proud of you bro, I really am. Keep it up!
@eaziye
@eaziye 2 ай бұрын
As a muslim you have my respects for quitting this thing and turning to god and your own religion great job brother
@skydivcali
@skydivcali Ай бұрын
@@Horsefighter155 as of right now Satan is really throwing everything he got at me but I know to just run to god and he guides me through it!
@krijt.2
@krijt.2 6 ай бұрын
I have watched more than 20 such videos. But this one was really the last for me. I'm leaving this comment here so that I'll be reminded of this video when someone likes it. Hopefully in a few days, weeks, months or even years I can come back here and feel proud of what I am about to start.
@Renewed-RNWD
@Renewed-RNWD 6 ай бұрын
I stopped like 7-8 months ago and i would do it all over again. Very good decision. Just waiting for marriage
@Bruh71734
@Bruh71734 6 ай бұрын
Gooby
@thecamouflaged1
@thecamouflaged1 5 ай бұрын
Good yute, now come and clap my cheeks🍦🎀
@LunarLuvzYa
@LunarLuvzYa 5 ай бұрын
​@@Renewed-RNWDi wanna get married to bro. No fapping save all our sexual energy for the love of our life. Doctors dont teach u the truth. Yes fapping can cause ur penis not to work or feel anything. So just wait till u have a girl you trust or wife.
@JustCare69
@JustCare69 5 ай бұрын
Update?
@tru1y_p3yt0n2
@tru1y_p3yt0n2 3 ай бұрын
Please like this to help me remember to stay locked in and to not relapse. I want to move on my addiction.
@vincentprice9156
@vincentprice9156 10 ай бұрын
I'm in my late 30's and iv'e tried it all. I find no fap is one extreme, and fapping everyday is the other extreme.. I find both to be very uncomfortable...Iv'e had many long term relationships and a few one night stands..Porn can ruin a relationship even with a woman who likes it too because it prevents the relationship from ever going into a deeper level. This man really hits the nail on the head, he's describing the way to really hack your brain... He's right at the end of the day you're just staring at pixels on a screen and accomplishing NOTHING
@divergentthg7925
@divergentthg7925 10 ай бұрын
Maybe pixels on the screen but it's a lot better than getting your whole life ruined over a lie
@ichigotheg.o.a.t
@ichigotheg.o.a.t 10 ай бұрын
yeah thats true
@ichigotheg.o.a.t
@ichigotheg.o.a.t 10 ай бұрын
​@@divergentthg7925yeah that's true yeah that's right
@centurion6378
@centurion6378 10 ай бұрын
2 extremes both uncomfortable, 1 it takes you in a hole and keeps you there, the other gives you energy to go out and do something out here.
@ichigotheg.o.a.t
@ichigotheg.o.a.t 10 ай бұрын
@centurion6378 for some reason it doesn't affect the mass population at least though according to studies though at least
@guavacake
@guavacake 6 ай бұрын
Popped up on my recommended when i needed it the most. Hold me accountable boys. To all those on your journey, wishing you the best.
@Alostcause27-mp1ks
@Alostcause27-mp1ks 5 ай бұрын
@guavacake how are you holding up man?
@The-subtle-ostrich
@The-subtle-ostrich 5 ай бұрын
hey are you doing good?
@ArceusOne
@ArceusOne 3 ай бұрын
As a 20 year's old, this is truly helping me to change my perspective of NF. I'll appreciate it if someone liking this comment so I can return to this video again.
@Fermin-hw5pd
@Fermin-hw5pd 2 ай бұрын
20 years old also, see how I do as well
@discreet-criminal14
@discreet-criminal14 2 ай бұрын
How’s it going
@jawnjawnson525
@jawnjawnson525 6 күн бұрын
I just don’t want to be here anymore. I’ve been fighting for months. Long streak after long streak but the urges never go away. There is no end.
@JacksonProvo
@JacksonProvo 5 ай бұрын
This is why I still have hope. Because of amazing people like yourself. I swear from this point on I will try my absolute best to not lose control again. Thanks bro, you’re helping people everywhere in the best way possible. ❤
@Ethioboy98
@Ethioboy98 10 ай бұрын
I’ve been doing this for 10+ years twice a day now I’m on my 16 days clear thanks to the lord and guys the super powers are real
@sammymoises2953
@sammymoises2953 10 ай бұрын
Keep going bro
@adriankovacs4133
@adriankovacs4133 10 ай бұрын
Im not trying to be condescending to you, but there are no super powers to be gained from this, you just revert back to normal. I have done a 90 day Nofap before, you do feel better relatively speaking, but it is nothing special, it is just for your health.
@joshuachurch5702
@joshuachurch5702 10 ай бұрын
I CANT 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Ethioboy98
@Ethioboy98 10 ай бұрын
@@joshuachurch5702 addiction funny to you huh?
@Ethioboy98
@Ethioboy98 10 ай бұрын
@@adriankovacs4133 nah bro confidence, mind clarity, muscular gains, more energy…..
@thebsmoke
@thebsmoke 2 ай бұрын
he literally went through all the things that im going through, and i decided right now to stop and get my life my mind everything right. I appreciate u for this video bro
@alexc8354
@alexc8354 Ай бұрын
The honesty and openness in the way you speak is admirable. You articulate your points incredibly well. Even the music is on point. You're helping a lot of people here. You should be so proud of the man you are. Inspirational bro!
@keremjdb
@keremjdb 8 ай бұрын
Preach brother. I've seen countless nofap videos but this one is actually the most influential and realistic it ever gets by far. Appreciate you for being real and sharing your experiences with us geniunely.
@Most_Comp
@Most_Comp 10 ай бұрын
Dude I just wanna say THANK YOU and I rarely type in all caps.. but man you are the most straightforward KZbinr I’ve seen talk on this topic. I am 16 turning 17 in a few weeks and you covered every single area I was confused about, What u said you struggled with is highly relatable with me regarding the cycle of repetitively stopping and starting over and over and over. I’ve heard people say stop counting the days before, but you gave a legitimate reason on why and from now on I promise to stop counting and to say I just don’t do it anymore. You seriously weren’t lying when u said this is your first and last video, you covered everything. Thanks alot bro🖤
@Heisduke_.43
@Heisduke_.43 9 ай бұрын
I gotta agree with you,it is true like sometimes after a day from not doing it,it would come so strong
@Most_Comp
@Most_Comp 9 ай бұрын
@@Heisduke_.43 Yeah, that always got me so I ended up constantly relapsing from the urges, but If you’ve been through it enough to realize it is the farthest thing from worth it, you’ll be okay💯🙏
@jerimiahlopez2640
@jerimiahlopez2640 10 ай бұрын
brother. as soon as you relayed your routine about instagram and upgrading intensity, i knew you relate exactly to me. im making great progress, and you’re idea of shedding the streak to just declaring i dont do it anymore, will help change my life. thank you man, you’re a blessing.
@genere2301
@genere2301 Ай бұрын
This is honestly the realest video I’ve seen on the No fab topic. Thank you bro.👊🏽
@AlexanderX99
@AlexanderX99 6 ай бұрын
Today is the beginning of an end. A beginning of a better beginning.
@Ownsinful
@Ownsinful 5 ай бұрын
How’s it going man
@shoter1930
@shoter1930 5 ай бұрын
how is it going man?
@AlexanderX99
@AlexanderX99 5 ай бұрын
@@Ownsinfulwonderful
@AlexanderX99
@AlexanderX99 5 ай бұрын
@@shoter1930really good
@ymeu.
@ymeu. 5 ай бұрын
W man
@SMJ3611
@SMJ3611 8 ай бұрын
I’m 12 turning 13 soon. I’m so glad I found this video because I already had an addiction when I was 11. I don’t even know myself anymore or who I want to be. The longest streak I’ve ever had is probably a week and now you’ve shown me I need to stop going on social media and I thank you and God that I was able to see this video. Thank you so much man🙏🏽 I think you’ve changed my life in a positive way. ❤
@TBNAfrangsYT
@TBNAfrangsYT 7 ай бұрын
I’m proud of you, bud. I’m not that much older (14), but I can say that especially before you’re done with High School (I just started, lol!), once you forget about your streak and stop going on social media, I promise everything will be better. It’s easier said than done, and I also need to follow in those same footsteps. We both can grow in our own separate ways, and I want to applaud you for being brave and admitting your flaws. It’s a hard thing to do. I still struggle with admitting my own flaws, but I can say that I have also struggled with corn addiction and would keep going back to the CornHub purely for the bust. I hope this message helps in even the slightest bit, and we both can continue to grow to be better in our own directions. Good luck, my man!❤
@-191_2
@-191_2 11 күн бұрын
I'm quitting, if someone like I'll get reminded to stay focused and committed
@michasportelli
@michasportelli Күн бұрын
your a brother from another mother! just amazing how you explain, thank you brother.
@mrwelshaviation_024
@mrwelshaviation_024 7 ай бұрын
I don’t watch it and never will, im just listening to this man for how wise this video is
@jjjoh_13
@jjjoh_13 10 ай бұрын
This is something I really needed. My life has a hit a really big low point and I am ready to start turning myself around.
@redline350zHR
@redline350zHR 10 ай бұрын
Same i need to fix this
@Infact77
@Infact77 10 ай бұрын
you guys got this. everything in life feels too hard for me right now but I'm trying
@chiyinde
@chiyinde 10 ай бұрын
Good luck brother
@redline350zHR
@redline350zHR 10 ай бұрын
@@Infact77 appreciate it you guys always mean a lot when ppl acknowledge one another when in need.
@Lemonade-f2h
@Lemonade-f2h 9 ай бұрын
You can do it bro I’m on the same journey rn
@myystic6865
@myystic6865 3 ай бұрын
Enough of the procrastination bs I’m finally gonna control my life and this is to hold myself accountable and for me to become a better person.
@Jaybxxspz0utFR
@Jaybxxspz0utFR 3 ай бұрын
I believe in you brother you got this
@ash_hull00
@ash_hull00 Ай бұрын
this might be the only motivational speaker that doesn’t mumble. you have a firm voice i can actually understand.
@Danirai_
@Danirai_ 10 ай бұрын
Might be the best video on this matter I've ever heard honestly, hats off
@chiyinde
@chiyinde 10 ай бұрын
Much appreciated brother
@mvh-
@mvh- 10 ай бұрын
I am 18 and have a girlfriend now, and I am happy to say much better self control. However I feel I needed this video in secondary school as a little kid that gave in to my desires. In fact the longer this video went on the more I learned that I can actually put a lot of my shortcomings in school and life as a teen down to an addiction like this. I focused less, I wasn't as locked in to my goals and always told myself, yeh I'll go gym today only to get home and give in to those desires and be filled with shame and guilt and lose all motivation to go gym, or even do my school work. Thank you for this video Chi, This might be the first and last NoFap video I ever watch but it is certainly not the last of your videos I'll ever watch. I hope for all the best for you and your channel, more people need to hear these messages and you're doing it the best of any other 'SeLf iMpRoVeMeNt', Eat Kale, 8 hours of sleep, Drink more water BS channel than I have ever seen. All the best bro!
@morevideotime6904
@morevideotime6904 3 ай бұрын
day one please remind me every once and a while
@Spleentwo1
@Spleentwo1 3 ай бұрын
reminded (1)
@Boldaces
@Boldaces 3 ай бұрын
remind
@myron9
@myron9 3 ай бұрын
Stay strong bro
@khalidmo7573
@khalidmo7573 3 ай бұрын
stay strong breh
@monsieurmig8969
@monsieurmig8969 3 ай бұрын
Lock in bro
@DirectRealism
@DirectRealism 2 ай бұрын
Im 33, and was introduced to p, probably at about 13. watched it consistently to about 27/28. I have so many memories of it over the years, it was there for me through thick and thin like an old friend. I remember stopping when i was 28, i was recently single and its true what they say, the world does seem different and exciting and you as a person improves drastically . I ended up back at my parents in lockdown and through a mixture of things - boredom, sadness, depression, ended back on it and my old friend was back, the routine was back and it was so difficult to stop, the hardest challenge. I am now off p, but recently in the last few months went back on it, i was feeling anxious with some things and needed my old memories. i was searching for my old memories and found them. Your brain is such a powerful thing, you very quickly convince yourself. my advice to anyone struggling is to focus your mind on something positive to improve yourself. You are with your mind 24/7, you need to know it better than the closest person in your life
@oldhpirs4
@oldhpirs4 11 ай бұрын
I think the main factor is we need to find out what triggers us into watching this stuff, I'm slowly cutting down smoking cannabis and iv noticed when I'm bored and I'm really stoned that's when I get the urge to start watching , when I'm sober I don't even think about it or have interest in it, like u said we need to find out what's triggering us everyone is different
@chiyinde
@chiyinde 11 ай бұрын
100% it’s about identifying triggers, that’s the first and most important step
@dariusowens1060
@dariusowens1060 10 ай бұрын
Was the same with cause that’s when it felt the best But once your able to sr For a while you know Who the real culprit was.
@andrewstevens9749
@andrewstevens9749 10 ай бұрын
That's a big part of why I quit smoking,
@michalksi2377
@michalksi2377 10 ай бұрын
Years ago I watched video of a specialist dealing with patients on the issue. He had an acronym BLAST for it. Boredom Lonlynes A don't remember Stress T don't remember
@eutimiolongoria4696
@eutimiolongoria4696 10 ай бұрын
Same but my trigger is alcohol. Combine that with idleness and the Hub becomes inevitable. I hardly drink because of this aside from it just being terribly unhealthy.
@vike-longy
@vike-longy 5 ай бұрын
Its insane how everything you said is relatable, its all true and constantly happens. I believe me and everyone else who has watched this truly appreciates this video. Thank you.
@stunttnb6689
@stunttnb6689 10 ай бұрын
Bro you’re so real for this. I feel understood so much watching this. I’ve learned myself to not put myself on a streak and just don’t do it ever again. I’m probably at least 3 weeks clean now? Idk and idc. Just know if you’re reading this, you can do it. My personal advice is to just never keep track of your days as he said in the video. Anytime you think about doing it, have will power and move yourself out of that situation immediately.
@TasmanThompson
@TasmanThompson 12 күн бұрын
Leaving a comment to be reminded when it’s liked. Today is 10.11.24 & I relapsed, tomorrow I stop for good, I got a garden to grow, the poor habits are weeds & it’s time to pull them out.
@bcgaming4236
@bcgaming4236 3 ай бұрын
This is the beginning of my new era
@Bjjnerd-qd5vs
@Bjjnerd-qd5vs 3 ай бұрын
How u doing?
@HermanJohnson-t6c
@HermanJohnson-t6c 10 ай бұрын
Good - clear teacher. Very realistic. It's a shame young boys don't get this basic education from responsible males like you,
@ronaldfernandez7094
@ronaldfernandez7094 8 ай бұрын
I've watched many videos about NoFap. But for real, you're the one that really awaken all the consciousness inside of me, like I feel I found the key to stop doing that and focus my energy to the other things in my life. No more broken streaks, I don't need them. I'm shifting from being a guy who faps but a man.
@docd00bier
@docd00bier 3 ай бұрын
Age of 16, never beat it before and I literally have 0 clue what it feels like or anything. Never had sex, gonna wait until marriage. I’ve listened to this no-fap stuff since the age of 12. Scared me away from it my whole life.
@myron9
@myron9 3 ай бұрын
Your lucky people were there to tell you from right and wrong 😔
@Chiefsontop13
@Chiefsontop13 3 ай бұрын
Same bro
@pablodiaz6660
@pablodiaz6660 3 ай бұрын
Nah that’s unhealthy at 16 may have erectile disfunction
@ninjabutnotninja
@ninjabutnotninja 3 ай бұрын
⁠​⁠@@pablodiaz6660huh??? Dude relapsing is not a thing to be proud of without sexual contact. If your jerking off, that’s a problem, I’m sorry. This guy has it good, where he didn’t have to learn or have to persevere nofap.
@charlie_541
@charlie_541 3 ай бұрын
do you have ED? not tryna be rude but that might be a reason why you havent done it
@JTP517
@JTP517 9 ай бұрын
Bro this is the realest video people could find. Hope people take your advice.
@complex3992
@complex3992 10 ай бұрын
This channel is so underrated, he deserves more subscribers
@chiyinde
@chiyinde 10 ай бұрын
Appreciate that man
@YusuffOreoluwa
@YusuffOreoluwa Ай бұрын
My beloved bros Like this to remind me every single day of nofaping 😢 We got this ✊️✊️
@mohavicdelofficial6891
@mohavicdelofficial6891 Ай бұрын
I am 3 years clean bro you got this and I got this and let’s get everyone to stop this shit 🙏🫡
@Kaidon03
@Kaidon03 2 ай бұрын
This video was too relatable, thank you for this bro. To everyone watching this, it’s never too late to stop
@Michael-cn3yr
@Michael-cn3yr 7 ай бұрын
Genuinely the most inspiring and touching video I have ever seen, I started crying near the end. You are right and I simply will not do those things anymore. This has been the most impactful message stated on this topic and this has given my so much hope. Thank you.
@Wizzar_sillymus
@Wizzar_sillymus 10 ай бұрын
and this is motivation. A perfect balance between insulting and giving advice!
@Bro-lw1kl
@Bro-lw1kl 8 ай бұрын
Insulting?
@Menksi187
@Menksi187 6 ай бұрын
I used to do it several times a day. The addiction was crazy, but then I got a crush on a beatiful girl that I liked. That didn't dtop me at first though, but after half a year my feelings for her grew stronger where it felt like I was cheating everytime I did it. After realizing that, I haven't done it by myself since. We are now together and my life couldn't be any better❤
@Kroetosim
@Kroetosim 6 ай бұрын
😊
@wisemysticalangelo
@wisemysticalangelo 5 ай бұрын
Damn. Lucky
@ServantSinister
@ServantSinister 5 ай бұрын
GG i hope you are doing well!
@wisemysticalangelo
@wisemysticalangelo 5 ай бұрын
@@ServantSinister gg? Nah ez
@tromboneman4517
@tromboneman4517 3 ай бұрын
I first had the desire to quit and better myself when I started dating. We broke up, but it changed me permanently. Even though I am struggling again, I hate it and the thought of being ruled by porn sickens me. I am GOING to quit.
@KillerAngel-i6r
@KillerAngel-i6r Ай бұрын
Man I've watched so many "get off corn" vids but not a single one explained it like you do and made me realise that i have to stop
@hazp454
@hazp454 10 ай бұрын
Honestly the best ever video I have seen on this topic, I think you take a great approach to it cutting out any BS
@priyeshapurve474
@priyeshapurve474 10 ай бұрын
I have consumed a lot of content on this particular topic, but none have been as relatable and real as yours. You are doing a great job by being brutally honest on the internet without the fear of vulnerability. Good job man, I wish you and all those who are watching this all the luck and success in the world. Godspeed my friends, we will make it.
@detrimentalgod
@detrimentalgod 10 ай бұрын
Bro just didn’t like her like that 😂
@noonefromyou
@noonefromyou 2 ай бұрын
Please, give me day to day reminder about this so I dont forget. Thanks man. This vid made me think about myself and what I was doing for so long.
@robustsouth35
@robustsouth35 10 ай бұрын
I applauded you brother for making this video. True wisdom comes from learned experience . You speak with a lot of honesty and conviction and its very heart felt. Your truth relates to All men young and old and at my age of 46 I am absolutely blown away at your level of maturity and understanding on this topic. You have also educated me with information I can pass on to others.The greatest skill we as men can learn is self discipline. Much appreciated Sir RESPECT 👏
@TNWSHTH51322
@TNWSHTH51322 6 ай бұрын
Leaving this comment here so I can come back to it when I overcome the struggle
@trev.productions
@trev.productions 6 ай бұрын
Kendrick won 🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣
@annymus4502
@annymus4502 Ай бұрын
100th like
@federicogela
@federicogela 2 ай бұрын
Amazing content Chi. I felt represented by your history. The advice can give you guys is to count days until 3 months and then just stop counting the days.
@DealaBreaka
@DealaBreaka 17 күн бұрын
i was getting ready to look it up and i saw this video. Thank you so much for saving me
@SplinterZ_FPV
@SplinterZ_FPV 10 ай бұрын
Man, this video hits hard. My fateful journey began around the age of 11 or 12 (I'm 15, about to be 16 now), and it's been an awful ride since. There were spouts of time where I could go 1-2 weeks, and maybe even if I was really good, 3 without P but I always fell back in the same trap and I always felt terrible when I did. Last year, around January of 23' there was this girl I really began to like, and I got her number and I thought she was genuinely into me until I told her how I felt, and she shot me down. That broke me. That's when I got really heavy into the addiction, and I was unstoppable. Flash forward to just before new year, I asked her again if I'd ever have a shot with her and she said yes. At that moment, I vowed to quit porn and become a better person because I felt like I wasn't worthy of her, If I'm just a sad excuse of a dude with no mental control who's addicted to porn. Every day I remind myself of what my goal is, and I tell myself that I'd be throwing my chance with her away if I ever got back into it, and it seems to be working rather well, because there is nothing more in this entire world, I want more than her. It makes me sad to think about all the worthless time I've spent letting myself dig deeper into that pit, that ultimately means absolutely nothing, and I know I won't ever be able to regain that lost time, but I can try to make the effects of it less. I pray every day to keep my mind away from the thought of even picking up my phone to look at something slightly suggestive. I still have an impossibly long journey ahead to becoming the person I want to be, someone without any sort of mental ties to anything other than her, my friends and my family. I pray that anyone reading this, if they are still struggling with it, to set your wallpaper on your phone or viewing device to something that will stop you when you open that device. I set my wallpaper to a quote that reads: "Suffer the pain of discipline or suffer the pain of regret." It stopped me dead in my tracks a few times where I had the urge to fall back into the hole I dug. Thank you for this very inspirational video, and I hope that any man still suffering from the addiction finds it and takes every word you said to heart and makes a change! You have nothing to lose, only the world to gain. "Suffer the pain of discipline or suffer the pain of regret." -unknown
@error1316
@error1316 10 ай бұрын
God bless you on your journey
@losfromla1480
@losfromla1480 10 ай бұрын
That's a good goal for now but you really have to develop other goals that you can fall back on should this fickle young lady change her mind. I'm saying you should know that if this one falls through, there are other young ladies you can pursue. To be good enough for them, the same determination you have now, will be required just as much.
@cordova2593
@cordova2593 10 ай бұрын
That wall paper idea is genius, definitely doing that
@cordova2593
@cordova2593 10 ай бұрын
@@losfromla1480real, at the end of the day there are some girls you can’t get back, but use that failure as motivation to be better so the next time a girl comes around you’ll be better than last time
@SplinterZ_FPV
@SplinterZ_FPV 10 ай бұрын
@@losfromla1480 Yeah man. She made me realize that I need to make a change. Even if things don't work out with her, she brought me to God, and I have a better concept of what is wrong, and how to change. I prayed that things would somehow start working out with her, and then right after I started doing that, things started falling in place. I've realized that God is real, and he is a part of everyone's lives and what he's done in mine, is amazing. I appreciate the concern my man
@nuttybutterx4259
@nuttybutterx4259 10 ай бұрын
Excellent video! I am 29, and I've been watching porn since my teens. Everything you said I have been putting into practice, and I wish you made this video sooner! It's not about counting the days but making the days count. The "super powers" people Exaggerate should NOT be the focus, but simply disengaging from an unnatural act and becoming a normal human being should be the focus! Thanks, brother! 🙏🏽
@coutphil
@coutphil 10 ай бұрын
Porn literally destroy young men brain
@ZdravNaukKJV
@ZdravNaukKJV 10 ай бұрын
Awake thou that sleepest, and arise from the dead, and Christ shall give thee light. (Ephesians 5:14) kzbin.info/www/bejne/hqHcnYh6gNd7m80
@niklas9848
@niklas9848 10 ай бұрын
Have you also watched the AoT-No-Fap Video? Because there i got the sentence: I dont count the days, i make the days count.
@CurseKingdom3445
@CurseKingdom3445 10 ай бұрын
Unnatural act? Is this sarcasm or something?
@achmed2pac
@achmed2pac 10 ай бұрын
Jesus Never left you or Forsaken you my Friend Better Believe that 😄He is watching and Cares for ALL of us in this Crazy life we live🙏❤Get your Focus on Christ The Saviour he really loves us:TheCROSS 🙏💟I am not healed out of nowhere from my incurrable sickness (: Better Believe that there is more to life than this Physical World💯Devil doesnt want us to wakeup...Just saying
@n10sityfitness33
@n10sityfitness33 7 ай бұрын
This is hands down the best video I’ve seen on this subject !!! Absolutely amazing! Thank you brother !
@GMan-x5b
@GMan-x5b Ай бұрын
Pulled out the burner for this one. I just wanted to thank you for this video. This hits far too close to home than I ever would have liked, but it's something I needed to hear. I just started dating a girl I never thought I would pull in 100 years. Super kind, pretty, intelligent, you name it. We are a month in now. I've unfortunately tried NoFap several times and failed time and time again, and the addiction continues up until just this morning. About a week ago, her and I went to have sex. Similarly to you in the video, I was into it, but nothing was happening downstairs. I couldn't figure out why, until you mentioned Porn Induced ED. To all other guys out there who continuously watch porn, please stop before you get into my situation. It is such an odd scary feeling that will ruin you. Having said that, I need to cut the bullshit in my life, starting today. No more porn. 10/15/2024.
@Shimiro_frost
@Shimiro_frost 10 ай бұрын
It’s crazy how so many guys actually semi lose their virginity I was one of them too, I respect being able to openly talk about it.
@NoahFredrick-yq2wq
@NoahFredrick-yq2wq 7 ай бұрын
You have done something i though no youtuber would make, thats why ill share my story. At first i had done it because it felt good like you said yourself. But as the years went by i never noticed until my first time, I was scared and very very worried, I didnt even have a job at the time. Im so lucky i have a father that is very direct and picks me up on things like this and tells me why its not ok. And im so sorry for the people that dont have a person like this, and thats why this video really makes me happy you being direct like i had it happen to me, being open about your experience and letting the people in this world have another chance of dodging through sadness and relapse. Much love bro 🙏
@SIAH519
@SIAH519 5 ай бұрын
This was probably the best of these type of videos ive seen on youtube. Will definitely be the last cuz this guy had the answer. He was real. Pure. And direct.💯
@mzalenski1
@mzalenski1 25 күн бұрын
I was a drug addict with around 8 years clean, but what you said about "streaks" is true about a lot vices. This is the most supportive comments section ive ever seen and its resplendent.
@BBLSnatcher9000
@BBLSnatcher9000 10 ай бұрын
I turned 16 a few weeks ago. I saw a similar video to this a while ago, but I never had any thought. But this video puts the right agenda in the right words. Thank you for making this video. It has most likely changed the rest of my life. Stay strong, guys.
@Aubertino
@Aubertino 10 ай бұрын
had the exact same experience as him and ur lucky to discover the dangers this early
@Mr_Menace0
@Mr_Menace0 6 ай бұрын
@@Aubertinome too, I’ve had it a week ago actually and I’ve been just feeling so down and sad that I fucked up my first time for myself and my gf, she keeps telling me it’s okay and that sometimes it happens to boys in their first time but I already knew what the problem was and I’m still so angry with myself for fapping so much. I’ve decided now to completely delete fapping from my life and honestly I haven’t really felt that much different yet but I hope I’ll be feeling better soon. Prayers my second time will be like my first time should’ve been🙏🙏
@jensamstutz3782
@jensamstutz3782 6 ай бұрын
@@Mr_Menace0 its totally normal man, im 17 and i had sex for the first time when i was 14 and i didnt finish as well because i did it everyday with my hand. Don't worry about it, it might feel embarrassing to say but its nothing to be ashamed of because its normal. My advice would be to not force it upon yourself when you know its about to happen, so dont force the act and dont get frustrated and beat yourself up for it.
@pilgrim985
@pilgrim985 3 ай бұрын
This video is pure gold! You are more than a great thinker, you are an enlightened being! I feel incredibly fortunate to have watched this video! Thank You!
@steez-rw7qr
@steez-rw7qr 10 ай бұрын
I just turned 20 and I had a same encounter at the same age of 16 this makes me happy that you used your platform to get this out into the world or at least boys in there teens that are hitting puberty, this is a huge problem now in our would where kids just talk about it without being embarrassed and it just being ''normal''.
@ramdanebylka9564
@ramdanebylka9564 4 ай бұрын
It happened to me yesterday Are you doing better now bro?
@iconxf
@iconxf 19 күн бұрын
This is the kind of video where you watch 2 minutes of it but end up finishing it. It is the realest stuff I have heard in a while and just pure honesty
@FatusNapus-ky3fm
@FatusNapus-ky3fm 10 ай бұрын
My man, this man deserves more love here in youtube. I genuinely got surprised when i saw how small amount of subs this man has. Keep up the good work my man.
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