Christian Advice: Purity & Waiting Until Marriage

[@myronyoder5352]

Hi everyone! Im an 18 year old guy and I just want to tell girls who have decided to wait that, "don't ever change your mind about it for some one else! Like she said, there are guys out there waiting and maturing for you with the same morals!" I know some guys can be jerks, but there are still good guys out there! Don't give up! You wont regret it!

[@hairyballsploppedmenacingl5930]

Thank you :3

[@M2212-w3s]

Myron Yoder Thank you so much

[@fefelover95]

Myron Yoder Thank you

[@michaelacheek7682]

Myron Yoder this is so encouraging to hear from a guy! Thank you, Myron. I know you posted this a while ago, but I really appreciate this.

[@kyleighbreanne9656]

I needed this lol

[@iza595]

Great points! I'm 22, a virgin and waiting until marriage. God blessed me with my boyfriend who is also a virgin. It's so hard sometimes but it will be worth the wait🙌🏾✨

[@mainslservices9831]

IH I completely respect your right to your opinion on this issue. However, what concerns me is that many conservative Christians try to make laws that criminalize extramarital sex. As for whether the Bible require you to be a virgin or not, I actually don't think it does. It definitely doesn't say in any of the 10 Commandments or anywhere else in the Bible that you can't wear a bikini. Here's why: First of all, the Bible also says that you can't eat pig, wear mixed fabrics, cut your hair, and so on. Not to mention, the New Testament says that women have to cover their hair when they pray and that disobedient children are to be killed. Do you follow either of those rules? If not, then it makes literally no sense to use the Bible to condemn extramarital sex. One of the Ten Commands says not commit adultery, but adultery means a married person having sex with another married person who isn't their own spouse. Also, I've researched the original Greek Bible and one things that many people like you don't seem to be aware of is that in many of the verses that appear to condemn extramarital sex, the original Greek text translates to terms that at the time and context in which the Bible was written, meant temple prostitution and people in positions of power raping children. Keep in mind that when the Bible was written, it was fairly common, particularly in Ancient Rome, for people to use sex as part of worship. Sex in the the culture that the Bible was written in was often significantly more violent than it is today.

[@michaelwinn9682]

Mainsl Services: I'm sorry, but you are deceiving people and drawing them away from Truth. The Holy Bible clearly and emphatically states extramarital sex and premarital sex is a sin. Here are a few verses: 3 It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; 4 that each of you should learn to control your own body in a way that is holy and honorable, 5 not in passionate lust like the pagans, who do not know God; (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5) 28 But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. (Matthew 5:28) 6 “But at the beginning of creation God ‘made them male and female.’ 7 ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, 8 and the two will become one flesh.’So they are no longer two, but one flesh. 9 Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” (Mark 10:6-9) 18 Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body. (1 Corinthians 6:18) Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a man can commit is outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body. Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore glorify God with your body.…(1 Corinthians 6:19-20) 4 Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral. (Hebrews 13:4) Your comments about eating pork and covering hair or whatever do not apply to this. When Christ Jesus fulfilled the Old Covenant, believers were delivered from the Law, that is the Levitical Law. God's moral laws still stand and shall always stand. So, yes, you can go get a tattoo and have a ham sandwich, but, no, you can't go sleeping with someone you are not married to in the same sense that you can't go around killing people. Regarding your comments about bikinis... The Holy Bible is clear in regards to modesty, as well. You are not supposed to dress in any manner that draws attention to yourself and away from God. You are also not supposed to dress in a manner that may cause others to stumble. Remember, we are supposed to love God and love others. The comments written about modern interpretations of scripture being changed by translation are simply untrue. The Bible says what it says and has been preserved by Almighty God. It is a common tactic of the enemy to twist verses to get them to say what people want -- usually saying sin is OK. Christ Jesus call us to forsake the world and its values and to live righteously and holy. Jesus cautions us about being lukewarm Christians. Don't be fooled by people who try to water-down what it means to be born again of the Spirit. We are called to be new creations in Christ!

[@michaelwinn9682]

IH: Kudos to you and your BF. You are making the right choice. Holy Scripture is perfectly clear on this. May God bless both of you with a lifetime of happiness!!!

[@BethanyLoyola]

IH You guys are goals! God bless you both! 💕💕💕💕

[@BethanyLoyola]

Michael Mann Wow I was blown away. I took time to read your comment and I learned something new. (Like having a tattoo and wearing a bikini) I love how you made an effort to refuse the lies of the enemies through that man's comment. God bless you! 👍💕💕💕💕💕💕

[@JustinKhoe]

Mad respect for this decision. It's so much easier to follow the trends of society. I support you!

[@jlg395]

I hate to have to tell you this, but sex isn't a trend. It's a biological function that serves to perpetuate the species. It's so hardwired into your brain that no amount of Bible verses can ever get it out. Accept it. Embrace it. Be safe and responsible with it. But above all, ENJOY it.

[@FarAwayDistance]

jlg395 Hi! Justin was talking about society's trend of having sex before marriage. This idea has changed a lot throughout history. The Scarlett Letter is a perfect example of how differently societies used to view sex before marriage. The Bible's take on sex has always been the same. Hope that clears that up!

[@andreisiulea252]

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[@youngatnaruto]

“No function is so exhausting to the whole system as this. If excessively indulged in, no practice can possibly be so enervating. J. Bradford Sax probably over estimates the amount of energy consumed in coition when he says, “Probably more of the nervous fluid or influence is expended in a single sexual crisis than would suffice to carry on all the vital operations, perhaps for a day. At any rate the energy expended is very considerable and if the act is indulged in daily, or even weekly, the indulgent individual need not hope for health and strength. Man is sexually perverted. He is the only animal that has his `social problem,’ the only animal that supports prostitution, the only animal that practices self-abuse, the only animal that is demoralized by all forms of sexual perversions, the only animal whose male will attack the females, the only animal where the desire of the female is not the law, the only one that does not exercise his sexual powers in harmony with their primitive constitution.” “Who can say,” interrogates Dr. Dixon, “that these excesses are not often followed by direful diseases, insanity and consumption? The records of our madhouses, and the melancholy deaths by consumption, of the newly married, bear ample witness to the truth of this assertion. Are they not transmitted to posterity? Look at the frequent mental imbecility, and the pallid hue, and attenuated form of the children who are the earlier products of marriage, and see the parents vibrating between life and the grave, until the candid physician, or the terrors of death teach them to abstain Of all members of the mammalian family, civilized man alone is a victim of an exaggerated and morbid sexual urge, a condition which he has inflicted, to a certain extent, on the animals which he has domesticated and which have adopted his diet, especially the dog. Wild animals in a state of nature practice copulation only at certain mating seasons for the purpose of reproduction. Civilized man practices this act at all times, and in most cases without intention to conceive. On the other hand, so-called savages and primitive races leading more natural lives and who follow their natural instincts to a greater extent are far chaste in their sexual behavior, as noted by Havelock Ellis. Such considerations must lead one to the conclusion that the sex life of civilized men is unnatural and that the excessive manifestation of the sex urge among them is due to certain aphrodisiacal stimuli rather than to natural instinct; among such stimuli are a high-protein meat diet (accompanied by physical inactivity), the use of tobacco, alcohol and coffee, sexually stimulating literature, dramas, motion pictures, conversation, etc

[@therepublic7708]

God told his final messenger Prophet Mohammed may peace and blessings be upon him that when society becomes so promiscuous in the future new unheard of diseases will spread and become common to the people which they don't know before.And it true go and look at society today how backward it has become people have become like animals sleeping with each other with no thought whatsoever.Aids hiv is rampant every where you go.

[@evelynreiman6420]

I'm not Christian, but the way you explain everything is so sincere and it really send a good message

[@platinumfate5671]

I'm an atheist and I'm not that focused on staying abstinent, but you presented this in a very well way and I hope this video does end up helping young Christian (or religious) men and women who want to stay abstinent. Good job!

[@FarAwayDistance]

Thank you so much! :)

[@crystalqueenb9458]

Are u still an atheist,

[@harmonicaThomp]

I agree with you completely! People say it's unrealistic to wait till marriage because no one will do the same for you. That isn't true at all! I am getting married in about two months. I've had several people that were shocked that we aren't living together yet! Don't let any one tell you that your standards too high; because there is someone out there with their standards just as high.

[@mr.pinecone]

Well aid Hannah! Thank you FarAwayDistance for your encouraging video.

[@dyllan6303]

27 and waiting for marriage😎 thanks for the encouragement

[@justjessie8968]

Oh hunny....virgin for life? Poor guy

[@faithwisdom788]

@@justjessie8968 Nah. Disagree. Christ is more important than the temporary things of this world such as sex.

[@justjessie8968]

FaithWisdom Santa Claus, Easter Bunny, Witches, Christ.

[@faithwisdom788]

@@justjessie8968 So do you believe there was a historical Jesus/ St Nicolas? There's the question of if there was an historical Jesus who was He? Are you an Atheist? If you want to have a calm discussion feel free to reply.

[@flightforlight157]

Whoa 27!? I'm 24😏

[@phumephewa4294]

Hi I'm 23 years old from South Africa I'm also waiting ... it good to know that there are people who're also waiting 💃💃

[@chaks4466]

Yeah we are waiting 😊

[@lucasherring6433]

Same here😁

[@thatimokoena8357]

I'm 19 years old & I'm waiting to ....

[@PaoE17]

God uses you so much. I pray that you keep inspiring souls along your journey

[@yohannesgedefaw2765]

lucky comment

[@thedreamingbeauty8476]

Amen girlfriend! My hubby and I waited and were each other's first. Gods design is the best 💕

[@jacylane8940]

I love all of your videos but this one stuck out to me as a teenage girl. You communicated all of the points so well. Most of my friends aren't waiting until marriage to have sex so hearing you talk about it gives me so much confidence knowing that I'm not alone in it.

[@slug237711]

I feel ya. It certainly isn't easy watching other guys with girls I know they're using, and then having to listen to them brag about their immoralities. I turned 22 a few months ago and I just need to remember that life isn't a competition. And I shouldn't envy others, even though I wish I was married by now. What's really tough is that a lot of people I know have gotten married recently.

[@jacylane8940]

slug237711 It's so easy to be jealous and want to hurry up God's plan. I know I struggle with that a lot. I'm 100% sure you are right where you need to be. All we can really do is pray for the girls and guys out there who don't have the right morals but that does feel useless sometimes even though I know it's not.

[@fluffypuppy0]

same girl same. I have on my own decided but i really feel all alone

[@yohannesgedefaw2765]

OH jacy your opinion also stuck me to see what i do in my real life and the teenage time .i really learn a lor of things from the video and from u.GOD bless u a lot.

[@mariamendez4062]

@Yanina Etcheverry Unfortunately God gave men stronger sex desires than women. We can't necessarily blame men. He created men to crave sex. And God created women with more body parts for me than vice versa. It's just the way God created humans.

[@janellylianna3048]

I’ve had my purity ring since I was in 4th grade and I’m in 12th grade now and it’s been difficult in a sense that, there aren’t a lot of people who are waiting like I am. But with videos like this they remind me that people are still waiting and that I’m not alone.

[@aemilialhalley9145]

u r not alone ! ♥︎

[@bassmarine5650]

Thank you for this video. Hi, I'm a 27 year old guy from The Netherlands. I decided to wait until marriage on a young age. And I have always been open and honest about that, when I was in a relationship. and yet, all four of my past relationships, ended with me getting dumped, after a few months, because they didn't want to wait any longer. So video's like these really help. And It let's me know, that I'm not the only one, waiting for that special someone.

[@kmpaterson11]

He has forgiven me so much and made me feel new countless times and I am forever grateful to God. Honestly started crying lol he loves us all so much more than we deserve

[@mariposarn8038]

As a *33* yr old Christ follower who is still waiting and following the Lord's guidance, I must say I'm impressed that someone as young as you (hope that's not offensive) would create such a video. What an impression! Your video was recommended in my feed awhile ago and I finally watched. I was 12/13 yrs old in middle school when I received the same wisdom and made the decision to wait. It's so important and out of this world to be different and set apart, but so much heartache saved. When I thought I was feeling left out, I remembered the Lord was protecting me, not neglecting me. Over time I'd run into so many old and new friends who gave away their gifts, had children out of wedlock with no support, had their hearts broken and created soul ties with their guys at the time and mostly all of them ended with a breakup and heartache. So very refreshing to see other like - minded individuals set themselves apart for the glory of the Lord. His favor rests on you. God bless.

[@avalonjustin]

34 y/o Christian man here. How you doin'? :P I also decided to wait because the bible forbids fornication. It is a protection for us, as all scripture is inspired of God. I've often felt left out and unwanted but praying for faith and strength has fortified me!

[@Rinker379]

This video gives me hope that there is a lady out there waiting for me as I am her. Please keep your purity until marriage. From a guy who is waiting as well and with the hopes of finding someone else who has also waited, it's something so special to give to someone out of love.

[@adogsupreme1739]

I want to wait till marriage but these days its so hard to find someone my age(19) who shares the same views. Great video by the way

[@harmonicaThomp]

It is hard yes! But I know plenty of men that do wait!

[@williamhartsock9222]

Do you live in the city?

[@williamhartsock9222]

If you live in America try moving down South where there are a lot of wholesome women still left.

[@immts6475]

Hey I am 16, I get the struggle! Never stop fighting the good fight! Best of luck and God Bless!

[@jesusislord9755]

Adog Supreme Are you a Christian? If so, then pray to God and tell him the qualities that you are looking for in a future husband. God knows who the best person is for us. Also a God ordained marriage is a blessed marriage. You don't have to go out there and look for this person. God will make you guys meet up at the perfect time and place. Gods timing is everything. For now just focus on growing in your relationship with God.

[@GodsChildJenny1979]

Amen, praise God. We are called to be equally yoked so that we do lift each other up, help each other grow in Christ. All of Gods "rules" are put in place to protect us. The first four commandments teach us how to have a relationship with God and the remaining six teach us how to love and treat each other.

[@NathanAponte]

Amen to u sister. I'm a 33 year old virgin and will get my 1st 💋 on my wedding day. It's people like u that inspire me to do the right thing.

[@brittanyj901]

Nathan Aponte Amen!!!!🙌🏾✨💖

[@NathanAponte]

@@brittanyj901 2 years later haha

[@cambi2797]

One quote I saw somewhere to show that the grace of God covers all: My purity is not about what I did with my body, it’s about what Jesus did with his!! I think I saw it in a Katie Emerson video!

[@radicalantiglobalist5612]

I'm a 29 year old man who didn't wait. I'm single and I wish I did. I want to stay celibate until I find the right person it sucks that our society shoves sex down out throats 24/7

[@s731s]

Radical Anti Globalist God bless you! your story sounds so similar to mind, I have so many regrets about not waiting. by the time I turned 22 I repented and turned my life around, the Lord really does renew your mind and body. I stayed faithful and patient waiting on the Lord in my decision to wait until marriage (while being 22 and single). I finally met my future husband at age 24, and we dated for 4 Years before getting married. marriage is harder than those years as a single celibate young woman. marriage is harder than those 4 years dating while waiting. keep the faith! it gets Better and even when it gets challenging, it's OK too because you have that one person chosen by God by your side through the thick and thin. give your hearts desires to the Lord and he will be faithful. God bless!

[@audreyfenwick5949]

Thank you so much for sharing this! Praise God for young women like you who aren't ashamed to stand up for what you believe in and share God! Keep it up!

[@BethanyLoyola]

In my age, its very difficult to find someone who wants to wait til marriage. But God assured me that there's still someone who sees the same way and you know how I knew it that He assured me? I prayed.

[@lordrahl1241]

we are here

[@gwyndolynmariec.3914]

I love that she tells you she isn't judging you. Some people don't say anything like that, and it makes me wonder what they're thinking about the people who have made mistakes in their lives... So thank you!!!!

[@FarAwayDistance]

:)

[@risenshineofficial]

I totally needed encouragement im also waiting. I am 19. Makes me realise I can never talk myself out of waiting! And I appreciate you for this vid.

[@jessica_nicole]

So, I just stumbled across your videos the other day (subscribed immediately), and can I just say that I am so glad that someone like you exists? You have a kind heart, good head on your shoulders, and you're sharing the love of God with the world, and it's just truly inspiring, comforting, and helpful. God bless! ☺️💖

[@FarAwayDistance]

You are LITERALLY so sweet!!! Thank you so much for this! :)

[@sabrinacoleox]

You are honestly so amazing and I love your heart ! Great video ! x

[@FarAwayDistance]

You're SO sweet!! Thank you!! xx

[@SilviaDwomoh7]

I totally agree with you Sabrina :) It's awesome when the Lord uses us to bless each other!!

[@Yas.271]

FarAwayDistance God is blessing you and loving you always. ❤ this!

[@anneb.3594]

my husband and I waited, though I should say I was very young (19) but my husband was 24 when we got married. I must say that is the most beautiful experience that two souls God has united to be together can have!

[@samanthacaba6791]

Knowing that I’m not alone on this gives me hope. Thank you so much! 🙏🏻😊

[@karenmarie5653]

Three years and a month and I’m extremely happy I made this decision for God .before that it was at least 6 I compromised one time. I have a purity ring now And I don’t know if marriage is in my future but purity and abstinence is . God Bless all you sisters

[@bryanketler9354]

Great advice young lady. My wife and I met and knew each other about 4 months, didn’t date but knew God would make something beautiful out of our marriage. We got married and now 18 years later are head over heels in love.

[@thairypaola9714]

I loved this video so much, Im waiting too and I couldn't be more thankful with God for that because even though the enemy comes with so many lies God's truth is wayyyy stronger. Its such a blessing when God gives you the person that he has prepared for you in all this time, that you just stay speechless.Man God is soo good. Again loved this video with all my heart keep up the good job girl!!

[@johnz4328]

Just understand it doesn’t get easier as you get older many Christians aren’t going to be able to get married. This young lady was very fortunate to get married in her twenties. I wish someone would have told me when I was still young just how difficult it would be growing old with no spouse or children.

[@avinashpadarat6214]

Very wise decision sister to wait and yes it is respect for your future husband. I did fornicate in the past but I was born into a Hindu family and didn't know the truth. Its been 5 years now since I kept myself pure and it was only possible through our Lord Jesus Christ! The best decision I ever made and will ever make. Just want to share something with you that gave me greater encouragement to stay as I am. A few weeks back I was speaking to a friend on Facebook, we were fellowshipping and she shared her story with me and it gave me so much hope that there are actually real true godly women still in this world. This woman is 24 years old, she is a virgin, but what amazed me is that she hasn't ever kissed a guy before because she is saving that for her marriage day. That blew me away, I thought that was simply beautiful,I never thought I would encounter such a beautiful soul and this girl is breathtakingly beautiful, just simply gorgeous, intelligent and very sound in doctrine. For the sad part about it is she left Facebook just two weeks ago, that made me sad for a few days because I never connected with some one on such a deep, spiritual level before. She did tell me she was leaving a few times for important reasons and she'll never forget me, so I do hope we do cross paths sometime in the future. One thing for certain is that she did strengthened me and gave me that extra hope I needed to continue to live as I am for Christ😇😇😇

[@jessicacampbell809]

I am in love with this video! In our youth group we are doing a study on purity! Then if we choose to our fathers will present us with purity rings! I am so excited!

[@hannahjones7098]

My tattoos are my purity ring/conversation starter to talk about Jesus. I love that your ring is that conversation starter for you its so beautiful!!

[@TreadingwithDeefashion]

I HAD TO SUB. I WAITED TILL MARRIAGE, I AM EXTREMELY HAPPY !!!

[@princessjennytran]

thank you I really needed this, this was such a great reminder also gave myself up but you're right if he really like me for me, he'll wait

[@reinaldoalvarez1795]

Amen. This made me feel really better and I agree with you nonstop. Its always best to be equally yoked and wait till marriage. God is going to bless you so much.

[@cristinabaldino3870]

I love this so much, and I think that in today's society and in this broken generation it is so important for us as Christians to stand and be a light. To share God's will to those who don't hear it everyday. Thank you for being that light and sharing with the youth of today that there is another way besides the way of the world! God bless 💗

[@meghanlawrence8466]

Such a great video, I’m 25 and still waiting.

[@Positivityinme]

I'm so happy about this video! I didn't think anyone felt or believed the same things as me but you exist! Seriously thank you for this video. I'm not alone

[@Tat3rCh1p]

Super inspiring talk! I'm 27 and also waiting till marriage. There's nothing easy about keeping it, believe me!

[@makeprincess]

I'm so happy you are talking about this. I've been struggling so much, I guess it has been the hardest thing in my life recently and this gives me courage. Thank you!

[@singtothelord7747]

I simply pray for a woman who will love God more that she could ever love me. That's why I've waited, and will still be waiting until she comes into my life :) God Bless you Ms. Becca!

[@SydneeClaire]

I promised God that i would wait and as i've met a new boy, I really just want to have a fun summer before i go to college. Though, this video really helped remind me how amazing it will be when i meet the man God is preparing me for. It's just hard to not fall to temptation honestly. I've been so torn lately with this new relationship.

[@Coleslaw97]

Nearing the age of 22, i feel that waiting until marriage is becoming a greater possibility every day. I was just giving this some thought and i happened to stumble on this video and i have to say that i really enjoyed watching it. My relationship with God could use more work most definitely, but in time, i am sure it will get better. Thank you so much for making a video like this!

[@kayla3972]

I love this video. I'm 26. I'm waiting on the right person. I felt like I was the only one but like you stated people want us to think that we are the only people waiting. so not true. God is good! Your body is a temple. Thanks for also including verses from the bible. Also, I don't judge others for having sex before marriage either. Its sooo tempting and I find it a bit difficult at times to stay pure. Thanks for the upload.

[@kayla3972]

B B wow thanks for the reply u made my night. Cause I was just sitting here thinking is there something wrong w me y i haven't found that right guy. But i know faith in God and patience is key. Social anxiety is my biggest setback but im trying to be more outgoing with prayer i know i can fully overcome this.

[@mariamendez4062]

That's right. Who are people to judge?

[@phoenixmclean1302]

Thank you for this message I needed it .. sadly I am not a virgin i wish I would’ve waited. I recently came to Christ and my life has changed !! it has made me the happiest i have ever been.. Even though I made the mistake of not waiting in the past God forgave me and from now on I will wait until I am married. God bless you

[@channelchanel123]

I believe sex before marriage can leave a person feeling broken, even if the couple is well together. It keeps people from feeling truly free and being their best. Dating is not marriage, so you gotta set boundaries The person that you are with should respect you and want your best, even if it means denying a desire of their own for a while. They should want to see you at your best. That's the highest form of cherish People can offer each other way more than sex in a relationship

[@CkArtGirl7]

It's so sad and strange that people think waiting is 'weird', while their relationships are breaking up and sport sex brings STDs. Good for you for your stand!

[@predicationst405cp]

It surely was worth the wait! We waited until married and 43 years later we're so happy with that!

[@lapreshaflowers7997]

I was just beginning to study purity & desiring to get a purity ring. It's amazing how God works and stir each of our hearts as His daughters! Love your videos!👍😇

[@FarAwayDistance]

Aww so cool!!:)

[@sina12370]

Thank you for making this 💓 I totally agree with this, and its really important for me being pure until marriage too. Keep making videos please, God bless you beautiful! 😚

[@FarAwayDistance]

I will for sure!! :)

[@rmb6864]

Such good Christian advice! Awesome vid!

[@lovebirdsbyday]

Love this video!!! I however didn't wait until marriage at the time I really hadn't thought about morals and it was a very young age for me. However that person is now my husband today so i did get lucky with him being my one and only😊 I do wish I had the knowledge and would have waited and would recommend anyone to wait because of all the great points you gave are definitely ones to remember!

[@aliasreco]

It was surely worth the wait! We're still very happy with that after 40 years marriage. Long term happiness is where you should go for. And obedience to God.

[@avalonjustin]

I got most of you youngun's beat. I'm a thirty-four year old Christian man who is still waiting. I'm NOT ashamed of it at all. Why be ashamed of not doing the wrong thing? You ARE good enough and it IS worth waiting! Pray to God for strength and he will fortify you. You're not alone. If we draw close to God, he will draw close to us.

[@kilrqween]

Thanks so much for this video! Always encouraging to hear about this topic from someone my own age. Very reassuring to know I'm not the only one who's waiting.

[@MatandEst]

the way you pursue Jesus and place him first in above these issues is a massive inspiration to people! bless ya :) -est

[@garrison2holliday50]

It feels great to know that I'm not alone in waiting until marriage because it really feels that way sometimes. Thank you so much for what you do and thank you for your advice and encouragement!! 😌

[@MilesLover03]

i love you!!!! i'm waiting also, i'm 25 ;]

[@JustinKhoe]

Awesome! It's worth it!

[@MilesLover03]

ThatChristianVlogger so worth it, I have people all the time tell me they regret not waiting

[@slug237711]

25? Daaaang, I thought 22 was tough. God bless your strength :)

[@OnlinewithElmachannel]

21 and waiting as ell :)

[@BrentonGandyE]

no disrespect, but where are y'all women?!!! I really want to meet a woman who is waiting for marriage. Instead I keep meeting these sex crazed women.

[@emalston9914]

Hey! I'm starting to go to church, pray, have faith in God, etc. and just wanna know if you can give me some tips on being Christian, and certain do's and don'ts. Thanks so much! I love your videosss

[@FarAwayDistance]

Aww awesome! So I would say don't compare your relationship with God to other people's relationships with Him. If you are a new Christian, your journey and story is going to be a lot different than someone who has been a Christian since they were 3 years old! Don't feel like you have to have it altogether perfectly right away! Allow yourself to learn from other Christian leaders around you and try to model after how they live their lives! If they're truly following Jesus with their lives, then if you follow them, you'll be following Christ! :) A really great verse that I love is Romans 12:2. It talks about how we should not conform to the patterns of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of our minds. This means that we are to not live as everyone else in the world lives. We are to be different and set apart from everyone else. I guess something to tell yourself early is that you WILL look different from other people when you're a Christian. You'll have your heart so transformed by Jesus that your words will be different than other people, the way you dress, the way you spend your time, where you give your money, etc. EVERYTHING will change because of Jesus changing you, and those things will look much differently than the rest of the world. :) I hope this helps!! These were the first things that came to my mind haha. So happy you're starting to follow Christ!! You won't regret it!!! xx

[@beefling5390]

Congrats any updates?

[@cyronoiyo3953]

Begin by reading the New Testament of the bible! Mathew Mark Lukas John, then Pauls letters. That will give you a lot!

[@GraspingLife246]

Amen! You are awesome for waiting till marriage, I'm waiting too though I'm not a virgin. I wasn't reAlly into waiting before I became a true born again Christian, but now I want to wait. Especially if a woman waits, she has a really beautiful heart, you have a beautiful heart. God bless you. To people out there who are not a virgin it's not too late, turn to Jesus and repent and be born again. God has a plan for all of us. I believe! God is good and I'm so thankful.

[@laurengoldner8876]

I have a purity ring and I made the decision to wait until marriage so this is so inspiring! I love that you are so on fire for the Lord and I have a whole lot of respect for you:))

[@FarAwayDistance]

That's so awesome Lauren! :) And thank you so much!

[@SavannahLewie]

ThatChristianVlogger sent me! :) Happy to be here + to find other Christian KZbinrs.

[@FarAwayDistance]

Aww hi Savannah!! Thanks so much! :) I'll go check out your stuff right now!!

[@MikeZyouthpastor]

Excellent video. I am teaching a purity series to the teens and young adults in my church and I will be showing them this video. I am so thankful to a have a young woman's perspective on a lot of these issues. thanks for posting these! God bless.

[@guineapig0074]

Becca, could you please do a video of how to be a christian at school, how to tell people or how to stick up for what is right cos I am one of the few christians at my school and it has definitely been hard so far, would be really helpful and relatable to many I am sure, lots of love from the uk, you are truly changing lives and have inspired so many (I know this from expirience) xxx

[@aliasreco]

Waiting for each other.... it's an effort but it took us only ...only...a little more than two years. Now we still enjoy we accomplished that effort....with God's help. .we are 40! years later. And happy!

[@wanderwithashley]

It's really awesome to see the confidence you have in this topic. You're an inspiration and I just want to say thank you for making this video. It honestly helped me out a lot.

[@gracechiomababa1837]

I am waiting until marriage too! Not only that I am helping other girls to wait too!

[@BethanyLoyola]

I couldn't agree more because I know I'm not the only one who's waiting. I'm 15 but in my age, I learned to pray for my future spouse (but i started praying for my future one when I was 14) and give me wisdom to avoid being in a situation where I can no longer control myself. Unlike any teenagers who are currently wasting their lives to fulfill their unselfishly satisfaction. God bless you more, Becca! See you when Jesus comes! 💕💕💕

[@fatimabara3437]

Thank you so much for this video! ♡ Its good to know I am not alone, sometimes I kinda forget about it ahah

[@noizybubble1]

i was very sceptical when i started the video because i generally disagree with your views, but i think you explained it very well and i find it impressive that you can stick to that way of life.

[@vitocorleone1462]

My Religious Education teacher told our class of 13/14 year olds that she was still a virgin at 40 waiting until marriage. I believe however that someone who sleeps around all the time, when eventually married, the marriage won't work out in many cases.

[@BeachsideHank]

Your teacher lied about her status- it is likely her religion itself that is keeping her from finding a prospective mate, even promiscuous folks with Downs syndrome find and marry each other and live happily ever after.

[@abbieamavi]

*I respect this so much, just like I'd respect someone who was truly waiting for me! I love how you share your story combined with others stories combined with the bible. Keep shining truth Becca*

[@benjaminmasters5375]

i made a promise to God that i would not date and marry a non christian, i want the good girl, i told God i want someone devoted, just like one verse talks about being unevenly yolked, working out great, it really filters out all the girls, and leaves the good ones 👍

[@benjaminmasters5375]

Costco Wholesale first: of all God exists and is watching us right now, and second: if u dont believe in God why are u watching a christian youtube channel? and saying the opposite of what becca would say? not trying to be mean, but why?

[@jeffreymarchi2386]

Good luck dude. You can do it. Philippians 4:13 states "I can do all things in him who strengthens me".

[@immts6475]

You got this man! Go find a perl in the sea, there is many fish in the ocean!

[@benjaminmasters5375]

Im MTS only problem is that there are so many sharks, stingrays and other bad fish that bite that its hard to find the good catches, the ones that u dont want to throw back

[@immts6475]

Ahh, I see man! That is very true, and I have experienced a similar feeling with a girl whom I dearly liked! The compass tells us what direction North is, however it doesn't tell us about all the struggles and swamps we will encounter! You know where North is! However these struggles may continue! I hope you can bear them! I know you can! I think it is better to be lost in the right path then to be certain in the wrong direction! This world hurts man, I am sorry for those sharks and stinging rays you may have encountered! Best of luck man! God Bless! - Mark W.

[@COFFEEBEAN23]

I just subscribed to your channel! I love your videos so much! It helps me get a better understanding in life & I'm also waiting until marriage. We need more young women like you! Love it! 🌸

[@FarAwayDistance]

Thank you soo much! I appreciate that a lot! :)

[@michaylalovelygal]

Absolutely awesome Becca!! You are so beautiful and encouraging! Thanks so much for this video. I really needed this the past week! God bless😘

[@hangmaimai5698]

Thank you God. I am really encourge about this. Im 30yr....and waiting...good God plan for my life. Blessing from Vietnam. GBU😊❤

[@GodsOHman]

I waited until I was married. It was the best choice for me.

[@therealdomingo]

I'm proud to say I waited. I have an awesome wife of 5 years and a 1 year old son. Great video! God bless

[@christiandatingwithadamkaren]

Awesome!

[@kayladavis4574]

WOW THIS JUST GAVE ME SM WISDOM AND INSIGHT TYSMMM!!!!!!!!!!

[@elliottbaralo2223]

Awesome video ! I am living in France and being a Christian really isn’t that easy out here, thank you for your beautiful thoughts !

[@lindagal4595]

Stay pure friends! I’ve been waiting for the right man for many many many years! You can do it as well.

[@nakopebrenda6053]

I did get into a relationship that took a toll on me and made me break down so much! I realized then the importance of waiting till marriage

[@danielletripkoff4199]

I was brought up to have a good, pure heart and a good moral character!! And I am very thankful for it to this very day!!!💛💛💛💛

[@فاطمة-ع6ج]

I just discovered your channel & I love your videos & u !! lately I was not quiet sure of what type of person I want to spend my life with but your videos helped me a lot so thanks I am Muslim btw

[@harmonyfimpel3113]

You go girl! That's amazing thank you so much for your input and insight, God is so proud of you!! Your faith and confidence is so inspiring. Continue to shine sister. ❤

[@christiandatingwithadamkaren]

Amen!

[@saraayala205]

Thanks so much for this! You are truly inspiring and this has impacted my life greatly!

[@Brandon-w3o]

I'm a 24yo guy and I wish I had waited.. Now I'm educating myself on religion and hopefully I can find a Christian wife because I find everything the more traditional lifestyle is healthy and just makes sense. Great channel and a very important video. Thank you so much!

[@OndraPleva]

Thank you so much for the video! You speak my mind! And it is so cool to have remaindet why waiting is so good..and especially when such a beautiful girls talks about it! You're absolutely right, the enemy wants us to feel like we're alone in this, weirdos...but it's not even remotely true! Beka know that I truly believe that you're guided by the Holy Spirit, because every video like this comes for me in time when I need it! I'm waiting and never regretted it.. on the contrary, thanking God for showing me such a beautiful path and praying for others to might see it too..so stay on it! :)

[@FarAwayDistance]

God's so cool! I love hearing that so much!!!

[@QueenConsious]

I am 31 years old and still pure your inspiration really makes me wanna go get me a purity ring also this is just confirmation from God to get me a purity ring also because I stay looking at rings I’m definitely getting me one Thanks for your inspiration & encouragement it’s definitely makes you feel like your married to God until the right person comes I’ll make sure I put it on my non married hand so they don’t think I’m married though

[@kyrieneufeld9735]

Thank you SO MUCH for making this video. I've really been struggling with temptation lately.

[@lisettemendoza4424]

I am honestly so thankful for this video! thank you so much !!

[@KristaLeigh98]

You're soo pretty!! I love your videos so much, I look up to you in so many ways. 💛

[@FarAwayDistance]

You are SO sweet!! Thank you so much!

[@dennisphillips8312]

My thought is ,society pressure pushes guys to have sex as a good thing but at same time society portrays women who have sex as loose morally. So glad that God has a better path. Wait till marriage. One man, one woman. Thank you for waiting and encouraging others to live to please God by waiting. Great choice. God will reward you.

[@badabingbadaboom2305]

Love the structure of your videos, it’s amazing that you’re doing this!

[@brodyhagemeier9356]

Super awesome you made this decision! As a guy, this is very inspiring!

[@AiRTaCoS]

Healthy boundaries are so important. I wish I had waited. Having woken up sexuality with pornography and girlfriends, every time I get free from lustful thinking or masterbation I get attacked and repressured into it. It's usually because I start searching for love and end up disappointed when I see how lacking those girls hearts are. It's maddening how heavily I get attacked in dreams by succubi and with desire for intimacy when I go for weeks or months without sinning. Now it's hard to even think of marriage. Our Dad has me so busy high intensity gardening and preparing for what he has shown me is coming, that I don't feel like there's time for me to meet a woman who understands and is willing to help sow so we can reap while the world is starving. You are hyper intelligent and a detailed teacher. Keep speaking the truth that hurts and pricks peoples hearts, it's the only thing that's ever set me free even if it's only been for a time.