Christian Channel Being Homophobic for Pride 🌈

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I'm so happy to be a boring old dude that doesn't have to go around blabbing on and on about my sexual preferences or believing in made up gods!

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@@markmountain7981 Cut your losses, mate.

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[@myrddinwyllt3383]

"Everyone hates us for our bigotry. We need to double down on our bigotry."

[@dansaber4427]

It plays into the narratives there involved with. They're playing bible. Bible cosplay.

[@simongiles9749]

The Bible tells them that if people hate them for being Christian, they're doing it right. Doesn't help this cry-bully mentality.

[@glampixie]

It’s the Christian way

[@baeljr666]

Doesn’t just apply to religious nutbags.I’m pretty sure most bigots feel this way.

[@AGK1999FE]

Random, but love your pfp, Merlin all the way

[@ratzomimic8987]

I remember being afraid of telling my friends at the card shop that I was bi. I remember being scared that I wouldn't be allowed in the group anymore. One day I came out and the immediate response was, "Cool, it's your turn."Nothing happened and I felt so stupid.😅

[@heitorpedrodegodoi5646]

They pulled a Diego card on you bro.

[@denverarnold6210]

Probably the best reaction. They either already figured it out, or just didn't care, because you're still the same you 2 second before you said it.

[@vieira2a177]

I feel the same about atheism to my more conservative friends, ironically my LGBTQ+ friends and my straight friends that don't have any topic that can't be made fun of (essentialy dark humor) are the ones who I have no problem in telling about my atheism because a) they are more open b) they can relate

[@VeraExora]

"okay, but you're not getting an extra turn"

[@oliviawilliams6204]

Glad it worked out fine to you.

[@hunterv9983]

Conservative Men: "Unlike you snowflakes I don't get easily triggered." Emma: "I'm bisexual." Conservative Men: "REEEEE!! HOW DARE YOU BELIEVE YOU ARE BI!?"

[@TurbopropPuppy]

don't do the "ree" thing. it's ableist (mocking autistic people)

[@hunterv9983]

@@TurbopropPuppy I'm autistic too, though. Sorry about that.

[@mackingcheese]

@@TurbopropPuppy i'm autistic and have never seen that used against us but maybe it is idk

[@VetsrisAuguste]

@@TurbopropPuppyan important thing to remember when urging people to change for the better is to avoid using commands, especially those that begin with the word “don’t”. Simply negating someone’s actions or speech does not empower your message, nor does it inspire the outcome you desire. Perhaps you might suggest an alternative approach to the situation using thoughtful affirmative language.

[@sgtjasonbond]

@@hunterv9983 Pretty much (agreeing with your original comment) and by the way gotta say love your profile pic, that's a really good game still to this day, I still play it from time to time.

[@RobertTempleton64]

"To those with privilege, equality seems like oppression." And none do oppression better than the religion with the most followers.

[@thelittlerussian3042]

This is it👏🏼👏🏼

[@manifest2963]

So on point!

[@jennymckenzie5304]

This man hides his prejudice against being LGBT with all the grace and subtlety of a tactical carpet bombing.

[@FriendofFantasy]

As a Bisexual Christian, Im happy you called out the fact that there can be overlap between the two communities.

[@roseproctor3177]

came here to say the same as a trans and bisexual Christian!

[@Daniel_Coasters]

OMG finally I found people that are Christian and lgbtq.

[@roseproctor3177]

@@Daniel_Coasters hi there 👋🏻

[@BlanBonco]

You can tell the shallowness of the believers if they are obsessed with scapegoating gay people. Glad believers fight back

[@nafrayu9832]

A few points, I am a gay black man and I've always found it more triggering when black people spread homophobic hate. As black people we have all experienced a lot of the same kind of hate. Everything that he is saying about the LGBTQ+ community as far as what rights and freedoms we want or what we think or believe we should have, there was a time when black people were fighting for those very same rights and freedoms. In many ways, we still are. So to see my fellow black people fighting to deny my fellow LGBTQ+ family of the very same rights that black people have fought for and are still fighting for is incredibly hypocritical and disgusting 😤 Anytime someone says something about the "gay agenda" 🙄 to me, it's basically an admission of them being homophobic. As Emma explained beautifully, our existence is not an agenda. I truly hate religion 😞 Christianity most of all. Religious people are among the most judgemental, hypocritical, hate filled, violent and blood thirsty people on the planet 😕 and they will always use their religious beliefs to justify the most horrific acts of violence.

[@kamion53]

I always baffled me how intolerate minority groups can be against other minorities. In my naIve younger days I thought they all should consider themselves and would find natural allies against the oppressive capitalist regime. Less was true.

[@URFTBOUND4LIFE]

The issue is slavery has been the the earliest point of our heritage we go back to do to it being stripped away from us and a lot of us used religion as a way to cope with our oppression. Not understanding that slave owners taught us the Bible before even allowing us to read or write as a way to control us and have us be content with our oppression. While we are no longer slaves and we have more rights (even though they are constantly undermined and violated) we are still holding on to the codependency of organized religion which is still being used to control us. A lot of White Evangelicals say things that make most blacks uncomfortable (their response about police brutality and misconduct and BLM)and would strongly disagree with but they co-sign on everything their black pastor says who's likely regurgitating the same talking points(Lgbt issues) as our churches holds on to conservative values in spite of us never truely benefiting from it. White Evangelicals always makes sure that what they preach(baring anything that controversial regarding race relations) trickles down to our communities to better control us and have us content. That's why we are so behind when it comes to progress and acceptance. They pit us against one another ( black women, LGBT people of color) so we never vote for anyone who doesn't pass the religious purity test (are they pro choice/LGBT rights) This is something I didn't realize until I left Christianity and started watch more secular news and news commentary. We need to abandon black conservativism/evangelicalism because it's keeping us at a stand still.

[@anne9742]

I feel the same way about woman who don’t seport lgbtq+ or pro choice. How? Why? Don’t you see it is the same thing? As a woman I want to be free to choose what is right for me. I want everyone to have that as long as it doesn’t harm others!

[@Dubois_tada]

That's exactly what I told my dad! They know what it is like to be hated for simply existing how can they do that to another human being? How can you scream "Black Lives Matter" while being violently homophobic? But the logic in that statement was lost on him. One of the great things about being black is having a leg up on empathy and compassion. You can more readily understand the suffering of ppl who are judged for things far out of their control. I know it is fucked up to say, but I really lose empathy for individuals that are from marginalized groups and still mistreat others. That includes a bunch of my fellow blk ppl that complain about mistreatment while being sexist and homophobic.

[@nafrayu9832]

@@Dubois_tada I agree with you completely 💯

[@salyx]

The thing that’s cracking me up about the “who they believe they are” stuff is that it’s a lot more applicable to straight/cis people. How many of us started out believing we were straight and/or cis and eventually were like “ohhhhh…”

[@vforwombat9915]

it's more applicable to Christians. you BELIEVE you are a Christian. your Christian identity is literally based on belief. you believe in Christ and the resurrection, that makes you a Christian. you ARE male, or tall, or a tiny elf who does KZbin videos with puppets, you ARE straight or gay or bi, you ARE right or lefthanded, but you BELIEVE in Christianity.

[@FonVegen]

Oh hey, that was me in March last year.

[@updlate4756]

"straight / cis people".... or how about Christians. Belief is in the definition. 😂

[@iwiffitthitotonacc4673]

According to Eclipsion 7:11 "Christendom is an identity." That's just what the Bible says folks.

[@salyx]

@@FonVegen I knew someone would understand!

[@Lenci_the_Nugget]

We had a gender bender day at my highschool and it was a really fun experiment for me. I went all out and even got a wig for it and showed up at school and noticed that I was the only one. Other girls just wore baggier clothes and put their hair up and still wore makeup, which is totally fine, it was just fascinating to see how everyone interpreted the day. Would have been even better if they had taught us about gender struggles and inclusion that day.

[@nobody.of.importance]

Makes you wonder where the cries of "GROOMERS!" was then, eh?

[@Jpeg_skeleton]

Bruh I want my school to do that. Skirts are so comfy and cool.

[@Brynnthebookworm]

@@Jpeg_skeleton Haha, that's funny to me. As a non binary AFAB person, I am "allowed" to wear skirts, but I usually do not because I find sitting "like a lady" to be uncomfortable and therefore would rather wear shorts. I do sometimes wear them with leggings or tights underneath though, for the swishy factor.

[@YouKnowImOnMyPeriodYah]

@@Brynnthebookworm Well, I mean, of course it’s more comfortable for a guy, they have balls lmao

[@ryaneaston3487]

@@YouKnowImOnMyPeriodYah Fun fact, if a person with testicles sits incorrectly, said testicles will explode. I know. There's a very funny meme about it.

[@ATurnip]

"Christians need to be more like the LGBT community!" So... Loving, tolerant, and accepting of everyone? "No! Loud and proud!" *Insert "okay, that was always allowed" meme here.*

[@blindey]

As if they have ever just shut the f up and been quiet. Ever.

[@wolfgangpreier9160]

@@blindey Not even during or after the crusades where they were killing indiscriminately children, women or animals left and right. No.

[@blindey]

@@wolfgangpreier9160 Didn't say they have. Except in the bible I guess. But I never mentioned any of that before now so...what are you replying to?

[@zemorph42]

@@blindey It reads like an agreement and expansion on your comment to me, but the last word does seem to undermine that a bit; perhaps that was unintended?

[@jjevans1693]

The LGBT community isn't nessasarily, loving and understanding and accepting. They just want everyone else to be. I'm more accepting of gay people than religious people. Gay people are who they are. Religion is a choice.

[@MrRetroDev]

I will never understand how these people think Pro-Choice people are just having babies and getting abortions for the fun of it. Deciding to have an abortion is easily one of the toughest choices someone can make.

[@audiblek]

I'm convinced pro-life Christians who use the Bible as an excuse haven't even read it, so I doubt they care about reality. I spent time researching what the Bible actually says about it, and it's clearly fine with abortion and worse

[@dalefleming6427]

I am pro-choice not because I like or agree with abortion, I am pro-choice because that decision is the choice of the woman and is not for me or ANYONE else to decide for them and boils down to NONE OF MY FUCKING BUSINESS. It's NOT my right to decide how others live.

[@vforwombat9915]

" are just having babies and getting abortions for the fun of it' you never had an abortion for fun? oh, it's the latest thing. you go out and have wanton depraved sex- orgies are the ideal, i hear- until you get pregnant, and then go out and get an abortion. it's a blast! i hear you get extra points if you want a long time.... ... i like to point out, in the US, abortions have been steadily declining for decades. started out after Roe that there'd be over 2 million annually. in 2019 or 2020, the last number i saw, it was about 630,000 i could do an essay on why, but the bullet point here is that the problem was gradually solving itself.

[@Callimo]

It doesn't even matter to me if someone finds it "fun". It's a personal choice that should be up to the uterus owner for a variety of reasons. Anyone who doesn't want an abortion doesn't have to get one. But the whole evangelical mindset is that they have to spread their opinion, they are strongly encouraged to gather more and more converts for the tribe. I doubt that mindset would ever be satisfied, even if the whole world did become Christian.

[@user-yn5sk5ru5g]

@@Callimo bazillions of different denominations..."my christianity is the right christianity" 🤦

[@shelliegilbertson9828]

Allowing gay rights doesn't take away from non-gay rights. It's not pie.

[@chrissighful]

I am a straight cis guy. But I've never had any issue understanding how LGBT+ people can exist. For instance I find women attractive, so me understanding why lesbians, bi people or anyone else finding women attractive sounds perfectly logical to me. All I need to do to understand the rest of LGBT+ is to extend that logic to the same extent. But I have never understood why bigots and other angry people can't follow similar simple logic to it.

[@Magekind]

Yup. That's where I stand. I grew up as an extremist; when I say that, I mean to express that I firmly believed these extremist viewpoints. Then my brain stumbled across a very interesting perspective: if I didn't decide, consciously to be straight, how can someone decide, consciously, to be something else?

[@autohmae]

Honestly, in large part I blame religion.

[@ekadria-bo4962]

Acephobic..

[@Magekind]

@@ekadria-bo4962 Whom?

[@ekadria-bo4962]

@@Magekind sometime LGBT People.. same thing as sidephobic in gay comunity..

[@michellejean11]

To a hater like Parr, equality is oppression of his christian right to be a bigot.

[@Faction.Paradox]

For people like him, being reminded that anyone not exactly like himself existing feels like oppression.

[@MightyAvengingLeo]

From my interactions with people with these attitudes, some of these Christians live in such an echo chamber of friends, tv, radio, and social media that they come to believe the lie that they're a tiny minority fighting to save the world. They have a persecution complex, despite being a provable majority. Others understand it's a lie but prefer to fool themselves out of cognitive dissonance and rationalization. As David Hume said, reason is a slave of passion. And many in tv, radio, and KZbin simply spread the lies for the sake of building an audience. It could be any of the three. But that's why it's best to stay away from toxic people (if possible): it gets tiring trying to decipher if they're lying, ignorant, or some combination of the two.

[@michellejean11]

@@MightyAvengingLeo The ones "saving" the world are the same people voting for trump and authoritarianism.

[@HuxtableK]

Which is a strange thing to see of a black man speaking for a religion that was used to keep his demographic as slaves, and even after the abolishing of slavery, to keep black people down in society.

[@michellejean11]

@@HuxtableK The indoctrination starts early in church and school and continues through life. Pushed by fear of a 'loving' god that will burn you in hell if you step out of line. Look at how far Uncle Thomas is down the rabbit hole, he's as rabidly right wing as a proud boy.

[@Vahlee-A]

I was a Christian once but left because of the January 6th event. Only then did I finally have a word for what I had been feeling my whole life - I'm trans. When I came out to my mom recently, she launched tons of anti-trans bullshit at me, citing Gays Against Groomers. I had to listen to two hours of her because I didn't want to be rude and hang up on her. Then I had a massive panic attack and left the house during a thunderstorm so I wouldn't wake up my roommates. My experiences with Christians I don't know has been horrific. I get called a groomer every day. I can't believe I was ever a Christian. They are among the most hateful, violent people on Earth.

[@someperson2789]

So what are you trying to say exactly? I think that you were hurt by unjustified and irrational responses from someone close to you. If so, that's an issue between you and the other person. Secondly when I was a teenager I rationalized and justified some hatred against the church, or rather a church that I previously went to for a certain period of time, after I more or less was atheistic after having my faith shaken and a number of things happen. Stuff like that happens, obviously you'll have a different opinion in 1 or 5 years or at least it will be more reworked or refined. As for me, I now clearly see that back then in my life no one truly owed me anything to the extent that I couldn't fully blame my problems on a church that I went to for their fault of not "fully preaching everything as they should," even if I was right that some missing elements could have been infinitely better if that church had them. Lastly as someone who is a Christian but with problems in my life and heart, I want to say that nowhere in the Bible does it state or imply that mere believers in God's existence somehow meet heaven's criteria and that intellectual acknowledgement of God's existence is the beginning and end of the whole process of being on the road to heaven. People become "culturally" Christian, so it would better or less worse if you categorized people by their nationality or social class rather regarding the harassment you're experiencing because it's a dead end and pointless to use the "Christian" card, although it's pretty shallow and dishonest to group people in your case by nationality or socio-economic status as well. Obviously, a person can be kind and nice to you and maybe their kindness and smile would brighten your day, with you later finding out they're Christian, so I doubt you and all the people in the comments of this video are as _"centered against Christians or Christianity"_ as you may currently think you are.

[@Vahlee-A]

@@someperson2789 - According to the Bible, ABSOLUTELY NOBODY meets the criteria for entering heaven, which is why God let his son die to forgive all our sins. Also, about people owing other people things, you're right, but many Christians think I owe them respect just because they are Christian and living the "righteous" life while I lead a life of sin. I don't CARE what kind of life they live, and I don't want it forced on me! Lastly, my mother spewed a ton of Christian hatred at me after I came out to her as trans. Obviously she was close to me, but so many Christians I DON'T KNOW say these things as well. People I've never met before calling me a groomer, a pedophile, and a rapist. I mentioned it briefly in the comment you just replied to asking me what I was "saying exactly", and I don't know how you fucking missed it all, so next time try reading my whole comment first.

[@killypad6616]

@@someperson2789 The point is not to be against Christianity, but to be against any system that would hurt someone in this way. A mother hurting their own child? Unforgivable, and something I also lived with when I came out. Our parents use the rhetoric they were taught to hurt us, and that is the real problem. Are all Christians bad, of course not. But after leaving the church and hearing how many awful things many Christians do to queer people on a regular basis, I can certainly say I'm better off now than I was before. I'm not anti-Christian, Christians are people after all. I just don't like the system of Christianity, what it represents, and the values it spreads. I don't blame the original poster for their anger because that sounded like quite the horrible experience, but the more people share stories like this, the more there may be a fundamental problem connecting them together. But the point is that following a systems of rules so antagonistic to the existence of so many people just doesn't work for a lot of people. And when that system works to make lives actively worse, that's worth getting upset about.

[@cheezbiscuit4140]

Don't mind them they're just projecting

[@lilRaivinPoe]

@@someperson2789 Its not ALL Christians because people who call themselves all have differing beliefs but like Killypad said its the problem of these harmful bigoted beliefs being taught to people. We could all just not care about gender and sexual orientation but society hasnt been built that way and many conservative christians are trying to keep it that way.

[@marcusvachon845]

As a heterosexual, atheist, Black man; I have some points to make. It irks me when Black/African-American people are conservative and they have problems with people demanding equal rights. It's like they are so blind they are not able to see themselves in the mirror. These conservative, right-wing, working class people are not able to see the slippery slope forming. Various states are making it more difficult for homosexuals and Trans people. Both the various states and the Supreme Court have come down hard on women's right to choose. This is not going to stop with this. It will continue with the right to vote, restricting immigration, and so forth. There has to be some sort of concerted effort to bring this to a halt.

[@autohmae]

Reminds me of: First they came for the socialists, and I did not speak out- Because I was not a socialist. Then they came for the trade unionists, and I did not speak out- Because I was not a trade unionist. Then they came for the Jews, and I did not speak out- Because I was not a Jew. Then they came for me-and there was no one left to speak for me. Having said that, it will be like the boss fight but after that it probably was the last time they had this much power.

[@maryeckel9682]

The right to vote is already threatened in many states.

[@darrenwithers3628]

Yeah, but he also hates black people fighting for rights.

[@christopherrichards2350]

I’m an atheist as well

[@GumSkyloard]

It's basically trees supporting chainsaws.

[@jeffm9770]

I've never understood and never seen an explanation of how same sex marriage hurts anyone else.

[@tommytwotacos8106]

It's probably right next to their explanation of why weed should be illegal while alcohol is perfectly fine.

[@thisgoddamusernamestoodamnlong]

@@tommytwotacos8106 because Jesus drank more than 50 frat boys, but never had the chance to hit a fat blunt

[@tommytwotacos8106]

@@thisgoddamusernamestoodamnlong And you know what? I think that's half the problem right fucking there. Imagine if the Pharisees had been kickin' back will some ill nana in the hook and goin', "Wait, man, so he created everything, including Satan, but he hates Satan and is at war with the dude? Why does Satan even think he can war with the one true god of everything and whatever, bro, I mean he's just like some dude and god's like god, right?" It would take a week before the ancient Israelites had become rabid egalitarians and prospered mightily due to having started and proliferated the world's first hemp-centric economy. Romans show up and want to fight? BOOM Fattius Igniticus the newest, most chillest Governor a Roman province ever had, and you know what? Because they're no longer obsessed with the smoke god who lived on the mountain and was named something that definitely wasn't Jehovah, they don't give a fuck who the Romans want them to worship just so long as the Legion stops harshing their mellow, man. Once the Romans take in the new Jewish god of baked goods and ball trippin' and add them to their pantheon, that's when it's really on. All the Romans blazing it up, the Carthaginians being like, "Yo, Rome, what were we on about, dude? I mean, that's was truly unrighteous shit, I think we both can agree, but maybe it's time to move on from that and embrace the dawning of a new day. Word?" To which the Romans would reply, "Yo, dude, you're speaking English bro, what's up with that?! This is totally like the wrong continent and millennia for that shit, yet here you are and I can hear it, bro, fucking English..." while two Carthaginians look at each other, nonplussed, waiting for their Roman interlocuter to catch up to the fact the he too was also speaking English at that moment...

[@stefanowohsdioghasdhisdg4806]

it hurts God apparently. My best guess is that He sees everything all the time and He just doesn't like gay sex. And an unfortunate side effect of omniscience and omnipresence is that you are literally incapable of not seeing it, so He has to ask everyone to please stop having the weird sex. He doesn't want to see it. So if you have gay sex you are hurting God's feelings, and you know how fragile those are! He needs billions of people to tell Him how great He is all the time. He's very insecure you see.

[@ethandollarhide7943]

Because Christians need a enemy.

[@blackfeathercrafts]

My wife (trans male to female) came out on KZbin this Pride. We are glad we did!!

[@nobody.of.importance]

Yoooo, congrats! I wish her good luck in her journey, and good on you for supporting her through it. Be sure to be patient with her though, when I started hormones all those new emotions hit me like a friggin BRICK.

[@azsli2]

Congratulations 🎉 i came out to my ex-cult mother a few weeks ago. Was raised very feminine and it was so nice to finally feel safe enough to tell her I’m non binary and explain what it was and that i want to be called a more ambiguous name. 😊

[@blackfeathercrafts]

@@nobody.of.importance it’s been okay. Other medical issues have been the problem. :(

[@blackfeathercrafts]

@@azsli2 sounds like she’s good with that! I’m glad! One of my kids came out as non-binary in college. It did not surprise me. :)

[@tommytwotacos8106]

Mozeltov! I hope our world turns into a place that can just appreciate the real miracle of two people who love each other being able to find their own place and live/love in peace.

[@bokang6377]

I am a Christian, gay, pro-choice man. We don't all think the way Allen does. How ignorant are all his points! Insensitive! Oh my word... In the bin - that's where he belongs. A rainbow colored bin (just for the fun of it)... What an annoying man.

[@WellHeyyy]

Yeah sure...

[@lonewolfgamingplus379]

I really get tired of this excuse "Oh we're not like him", I'm sorry if I come off as ignorant, cynical but these people have a louder voice, more control, more of bigger than anyone else. They are incredibly privileged. We lost Roe v Wade to these people. We are going to lose many more of our individual freedoms a long the way. They are apart of you guys if you like it or not.

[@benry007]

How do you reconcile identifying as Christian and being in open rebellion against God? Or do you prefer to cherry pick which parts of the bible to agree with and which bits to throw out?

[@kotadis2919]

@@benry007 you mean like how every pastor cherry picks which part of the bible to propagate

[@benry007]

@@kotadis2919 depends on your church I guess. My church usually picks a book of the bible and goes through it. Reading every single word and preaching on that. We also encourage people to read the whole bible themselves.

[@TheRogueCommand]

Christian here; pro-choice, pro-queer rights, pro-keeping Allen Parr as far away from a microphone and camera as humanly possible.

[@_MECHA_]

Lol

[@asdasdasd-o5b]

you live your life in a state that is offensive to God

[@wevsmachina9514]

​​@@asdasdasd-o5bLouisiana?

[@sarahwithanh4272]

:)

[@Vickmobile]

​@@asdasdasd-o5bDo not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. "Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?

[@Chasecharb]

As a bi person who isn't out yet it's crazy to me that he thinks there's no stigma. My Christian parent would not take kindly to my coming out

[@nycbearff]

Good luck on your journey to a better life - it's not particularly easy, but it is extremely rewarding when you are finally out and have a circle of friends who like you for who you actually are.

[@1th_to_comment.]

Relatable

[@4dojo]

That’s what I keep trying to convince my family. Gay and bisexual people are often shunned and mistreated and that’s why pride month exists and not straight pride month. I have been in a lot of relationships over the years with bisexual women and I always hear the same stories over and over again, either they have never told their family that they are bisexual because their parents would be disappointed and shame them, or their family knows that they are bisexual and won’t talk to them anymore. Nobody has to hide being straight and that’s why there is not straight pride month.

[@kermitthorson9719]

i literally had a small confrontation with my parents. we were driving and the pride flag came up and i identified it as the equal rights movement. my mom was like "you mean gay rights" and i politely reminded her "the goal is rights equality"

[@davebeach2343]

Did your mother understand your point? I have a brother that has trouble with equal rights for everyone in the U.S., racism was an issue in the past but doesn't affect society today. I'm trying to use current examples that show incidents where someone's skin color or sexual preferences lead to unequal treatment by authority figures, and how a pattern emerges over time. But it's exhausting trying to change long term behaviors. I hope that you have better luck than I have recently.

[@Jinka7]

@Studzee Nubian I'm pretty sure they are saying what the brother is thinking. They probably didn't mean it in that way

[@timberwoof]

I'm pretty sure they are thinking "special rights for gays." During the 1992 campaign against Colorado's Amendment 2 campaign, such people told me explicitly that I didn't deserve equal rights and that my desires for "equal rights" meant I was asking for special rights. During the campaign for gay marriage rights, that was considered a special right. All of this completely unselfconsciously: they think they deserve some things and we don't, and that's the way it should be.

[@simongiles9749]

There's a clip of Jordan Klepper interviewing some Maga lady, as he does, where he gets her to admit that "They [homosexuals] want more" really means "They want equal".

[@kermitthorson9719]

@@davebeach2343 we are a very non confrontational family. its mostly mom saying something old and bad and then me correcting her. earlier this year she used the term orientals to refer to Asian peoples. i dont think she thinks less of Asian people as a whole, she's just aging and was never really educated. their objection to the idea of lgbt+ is entirely forced on them by the church and by them never having a lgbt acquaintance. they are very midwest white

[@asaajubrown1122]

As a black person, I find it especially egregious when people of colour and especially other black people are the ones espousing views likw those discussed above. We know on a syatemic scale what it is like to have our rights and freedom to exist in our skin colour infringed upon, yet here many of us are spewing this kind of vitriol towards another group and those who intersect within these communities.

[@mikesimons8839]

I understand what you're saying about wondering how another black person could ever act all hateful towards others like gay people. I feel the same way about black people!!! I'm a gay, white man, myself!!! But, I always wondered how a gay person (knowing what it is like to feel hated at times and be discriminated against) could ever be a nasty racist. I know I definitely couldn't be!!! I try to be there for everyone and I try my best to LOVE everybody. Love is so much better than hate!!! This world needs MORE love!!! Not hate!!! tRump and the repugnant Republicans created a LOT of hate and division in this ALREADY Great Country!!! Gotta vote the ones still in office OUT of office!!! Get rid of the crazies!!!

[@barlauch9292]

Even more, everytime I see a black Christian, I think about how their ancestors were forced by slave owners or colonists to abolish their own religions and become christians.

[@noellalexander9527]

Sometimes victims of oppression believe that the only way to not be the victim is by being the abuser. It's a variation on "I hit my kids because my dad hit me". When really nobody should know better more than someone who grew up being hit.

[@Dalton_Boardman2000]

Just like how anyone can feel love the same is true in that anyone can feel hate. Even in the most optimistic version of our future we'll never get rid of the hate since it exists solely to counter love.

[@cutienerdgirl]

A lot of Black people think that oppressing another class makes White people like them more or puts them on the same class level as White people. It's just how men who are losers hate on successful women whereas successful men support successful women.

[@residentsatanist5028]

I know I'm late to this video. I am a trans autistic woman from Texas, I came out when I was 12, I got expelled from a private school, beaten, threatened, assaulted, humiliated, ignored, and tormented for years my my peers. I'm 19 now, and only now have I met people who just accept me. There is transphobia, there is homophobia. Be there, be strong, be proud

[@stephenconnolly3018]

Good luck in the future.

[@yabutmaybenot.6433]

Watching you dismantle and give detailed explanations as to why he's both dishonest and bigoted was inspirational. Gay rights are human rights, full stop. Also love the yellow shirt, very sharp.

[@KateryReminiec9399]

Maybe someone should remind him that are " people" who hate him because of the color of his skin

[@tigerbattle]

@@KateryReminiec9399 And a lot of those that do are radical Christians, what a coincidence

[@ZackKcaz]

Try explain the spread of monkeypox between men having relationship with men before think about your lustful private part.

[@CarlCoppinger]

Gay rights are human rights. Allen parr is a disgrace and a bigot.

[@LauraGonzalez-dj5de]

I had to learn a foreign language, leave my country to find a job in a new culture, cutting all ties with my past to be able to come out. Only three years later when my life started settling somewhere I managed to tell my mother. All so someone over the internet can tell me that I just "believe" what I am, as if it was a game, or a random thing I chose in a saturday evening because it's cool. I want to think it's just ignorance, or lack of empathy, but at times it's hard to tell.

[@LadyDoomsinger]

I mean, Allen Parr only has himself as his frame of reference - so maybe he goes through life, just pretending to be something and believe something he doesn't really feel inside.

[@phatchick96]

My best friend from high school recently came out as F to M trans. I'm a practicing Christian and my feeling about his decision is that it's a damned shame that he didn't feel comfortable coming out as his true self until now. He's still the same friend I knew and loved back in high school, the only thing that changed is his gender and appearance. Allen Parr is just full of it.

[@darthvirgin7157]

“we feel oppressed when we can’t oppress everyone else.”-american evangelical

[@CarlCoppinger]

Pretty much.

[@howlercorp6431]

i honestly don't think i've ever heard of a christian or anyone against the lgbtq+ community or womens rights, EVER being silent. This is news to me. Usually they're pretty damn loud about not agreeing and who they actually are.

[@Callimo]

Lol gott get that victim complex down pat for the new converts!

[@user-ft7fq4ou4v]

To be fair, if they were silent then you probably wouldn't hear about it. Still, I think the (mostly silent) majority of Christians choose to focus more on the love/compassion side of their religion than the burn the gays/women are property parts.

[@jursamaj]

I mean, yeah, they tend to be quite vocal. But on the other hand, if there are silent ones, how would you know?

[@Schulazo]

i mean... it would be wierd to hear someone being silent... tbh

[@jazzpear8877]

There are definitely some folks who silently judge and disapprove. They speak to me condescendingly, and with the language they use, it's difficult pick up on, and VERY uncomfortable to be aware of.

[@cloutgodgaming2073]

When I came out to my parents my dad told my stepmom “tell that queer to go to bed” and even to this day I get snide little jabs at ky sexuality just because I’m married to a woman instead of a man with things such as “all he needed to do was find the right woman” or “I know it was just a rebellious phase”

[@MrGorillafist]

Reading this turned my stomach. No father should speak like that about their child. Sorry you have to deal with that.

[@nobody.of.importance]

I'd do the same thing to him. "Tell that dirty christian to pass the salt. Oh, you don't like being called that? Gee, I wonder how that feels. I wouldn't know. *Angry glare.*"

[@purplefood1]

I wouldn't have considered that a little jab tbh but then again I don't have to put up with that kind of nonsense fortunately

[@tamwehwukzdcti8198]

@@nobody.of.importance I would have gone with "hateful, fake Christian", but yeah, do onto others as you would have done unto you. I'm not Christian, but you are so I will return the behavior you're hoping for. Good luck.

[@tommytwotacos8106]

The same people who think that gay individuals are going through a phase or just haven't met the right cis partner tend to overlap almost entirely with the people who think they know more about climate change than the actual professional scientists that study it everyday know. It's all shades of the Dunning-Kruger Effect and personally I think is reinforced by a religious upbringing that doesn't focus on the importance of critical thinking and epistemology.

[@abysmalagender]

My friend is legitimately afraid to enter most churches with her wife. Even if they have acceptance signs outside and seem queer positive, they're afraid to hold hands or sit too closely during a service. People like this guy are why.

[@TheSandyDR]

If your friend wishes to attend church, tell them to look for "welcoming and affirming." This particular phrase means more than "all are welcome here because we're all equally sinners" but means that queer persons can participate in all levels of the church including leadership!

[@AarmOZ84]

Trauma from religion can do that. 😥

[@ariw9405]

I wouldn’t even entertain the thought of being a Christian as a lesbian. They level of hate organized religion has for our community isn’t something I’m willing to compromise on.

[@SoJoever]

@@TheSandyDR no, this friend and their S/O should stay out of religion, they’re homophobic and dangerous. It’s not a coincidence that LGBTQ rights are the most restricted in the most religious nations

[@Schimml0rd]

If god actually existed he would send them to hell since he supposedly hates them. Just stop visiting this sharade, religion is nothing but a tool to enslave ppl and have leverage over them to send them across the globe and kill other ppl for the glory and enrichment of an old white man (who btw, and this is no joke, fought for the natzis in ww2)

[@ExploringExotics]

I came out as queer in high school but hid that I was trans from even my friends until I was an adult. Now I am extremely open. I have had issues at work, with people on the street and with people online. I recently started testosterone and vlogged it for my youtube. The amount of comments I had to delete on youtube and on instagram was ridiculous. I am lucky enough to have an amazing partner, an incredible supportive mom and siblings, a dad thats starting to try, and a boss and coworkers that protect me. But that doesnt mean the fear isnt there and that the hate stops. This guy has no idea

[@Apostate_Alexei]

"When will Christians finally become bold enough to tell everyone that they're wrong??" 🤔😳🤭🤣

[@lakeflutterbyart]

I’m an aroace, pro choice Christian, though I doubt this pastor would acknowledge me as such because I don’t believe *his interpretation* of the Bible is the literally true, inerrant word of God.

[@chiaraimpeduglia1308]

Just the fact that the Bible has different interpretations, should make some people doubt that it is true, Or at least that it needs to be taken literally, I can get behind some of the moral teachings, but if you take it at a literal meaning it is self-contradictory and quite frankly horrifying in some parts. I mean no offence, just my humble opinion.

[@whatabouttheearth]

Of course not, if you are not the exact denomination of fundamentalists than you're in league with the devil to them. They're inherently authoritarian.

[@j.c.5528]

You bring up a good point. Maybe this fellow thinks Christians are a minority because he has a very narrow definition of the word "Christian".

[@DaveCM]

That is exactly why there are about 30,000 Christian denominations. Nobody can actually agree as to how the Bible is to be interpreted and applied.

[@lakeflutterbyart]

@@chiaraimpeduglia1308 I don’t take the Bible literally, but then I like to read enough to recognize that Jesus wasn’t the first rabbi to use parables, and that huge chunks of the Bible are metaphorical. Not to mention the poems, song lyrics, and the parts that say the earth is *flat*.

[@richp4698]

I used to be Catholic. It really hit me hard when I learned such a large portion of christians are so hateful, even to one another. There always seems to be some sort of purity test and I've never fully grasped how some individuals can't do the bare minimum of just letting people be themselves when other people just living doesn't impact their own personal lives.

[@tgbedini]

I recently had a squabble with a "christian" who claimed that christians had never participated in holy wars or religious wars, and one of his first statements was that I couldn't mention the Crusades, because Catholics aren't christians. I'm just baffled by their arrogance and ignorance.

[@Ascend777]

They are afraid of the influence on their children, but it's really sad that hiding their children from many life experiences. I'd still became bi even after decades of repression from Christianity.

[@edlawrence6553]

I was raised Roman Catholic in the Boston, MA area. In the 1980’s I moved to Cincinnati to work at a computer company that was founded by some “fundamentalist Christians.” 98 of them, plus two Catholics. One of the first things I learned was that they did not consider me a “Christian.” ,

[@Raccoon_Chic]

@@edlawrence6553 I can believe it . I was also raised Roman Catholic (now Jewish) and a lot of Protestants think that Catholics aren’t Christians. It always blew my mind because Catholics were the first Christians . Protestant religions didn’t even come around until the 1500’s but an embarrassingly large number of Christians don’t even know where or how their religion started .

[@autohmae]

You would be surprised how many communities have a purity test, basically gatekeeping, it's really sad. She even mentioned how divided the LGBT+ community is.

[@r.e.tucker3223]

I was raised Christian. and people like him contributed to my apostasy and eventual agnosticism. Love your work, by the way.

[@dugebuwembo]

🙏🏿 🙏🏿 🙏🏿

[@ace..of..hearts_they-them_]

Same for me

[@djdrogs]

Respect to you and good luck on the rest of your journey ✌️

[@sethwooten5678]

years ago my gf and I made the mutual decision to have an abortion we were literally pushed, kicked, and I got hit in the head w a rock just walking into the clinic. it was already a really tough personal decision. so much so the gauntlet of verbal and physical assault we endured getting into the clinic was still the easy part.

[@jackieruiz2348]

Imagine what your unborn baby went through..

[@Idiotc]

@@jackieruiz2348 nothing it can comprehend, it doesn’t have the ability to think

[@mussu4859]

@@jackieruiz2348 fetus.

[@Peter_Scheen]

@@jackieruiz2348 You are aware that in the Bible abortion is accepted? Numbers 5 : 11-31

[@jackieruiz2348]

@@Peter_Scheen you are aware that nothing in that text of scripture indicates an abortion.. Or that the woman was pregnant? "and may this water that causes the curse go into your stomach, and make your belly swell and your thigh rot.” 😉

[@Gloomdrake]

Love how he keeps oscillating between "most people disagree with me" and "most people agree with me" without a single hint of self awareness. I'm tempted to attribute malice, since he profits of this

[@0LoneTech]

That would be greed. Malice would require understanding he's hurting people. Not ruled out, just distinct.

[@silvanvanderhorst7366]

That muppet in the sponsor ad was so cute. Am I the only one who is above 18 who seriously adores muppets and other lifelike puppets? I just like that all of these puppets, despite being inanimate objects have their own personality and facial expressions which makes them seem like they are alive. It’s an art form and I really enjoy it

[@MrSeedi76]

You're not alone. I'm a 47 year old man and just recently crocheted a "Minion" 😊. I love crochet, it's so relaxing. Always loved puppet animals, Muppets, Fraggles, hand puppets, etc. I still have almost all my childhood stuffed fluffy animals.

[@nonbinarypickle]

I'm 39 and same!

[@AnonyMous-pi9zm]

I never "seriously adored" muppets as a kid or as an adult, but I watched the Adam Savage videos on the Fraggle Rock puppets and it was incredible. Those puppeteers are awesome. The puppets have gaze, they have body language, they have personality, it's wonderful. Puppetry is now an art form I have serious respect for, and I am definitely noticing it more and more, the skill and effort involved to make an awesome character.

[@Steve13C]

The muppets are awesome!

[@Dalton_Boardman2000]

Muppets are just fun personified.

[@rna151]

"They want equal rights. They want freedom. They want representation." - And here I am looking at someone straight-facedly arguing that that's a bad thing. But yeah, I feel like my biggest takeaway was how he kept trying to emphasize how few gay people there are so we shouldn't have to listen to them versus how very few Christians (presumably he means something like "True") there are and why can't they get their message out to everyone constantly all the time everywhere? How unjust!

[@mikean7074]

I started calling pro-life people anti-choice sometime ago because it is a far more accurate representation of their position than it is to call them pro-life and I'm really glad to see that it's become rather common for pro-choice people to refer to the other side as anti-choice because a lot of them are opposed to a lot of things that would actually make life better and worth living so they don't deserve that label.

[@connnorfan01]

i don't get the "pro-life-label" either. thankfully abortion is not prohibitet where i'm from. but 50 years ago it was. and there were a lot of women who either killed themselfs because they saw no other way out or they did by accident because the procedure was unsafe. how can someone call themselfs pro-life when they are the reason people are dead?

[@benry007]

I'm happy to be called anti choice if you go with pro murder for your side.

[@connnorfan01]

@@benry007 well there are the extremists who believe that there are already enough people on the planet and advocate for no pregnancies at all. they could be considered "pro murder" as you put it. but they also don't call themeselfs pro choise but anti-natalist so... what would you call those people then? they are activley advocating for mandatory abortions pro choise people don't.

[@benry007]

@@connnorfan01 we could call them a death cult. Its all just word games though. At the end of the day one side wants to give mothers the choice to murder their children and the other side doesn't want anyone to have that choice.

[@azulaspencer]

@@benry007 bahahahahahahahaha you serious?

[@christasimon9716]

6:06 So Allen Parr isn't _actually_ a Christian, he just _believes_ he is.

[@KalebCorvid]

He "identifies" as a Christian (yes, the air quotes are necessary, sorry Emma 😅)

[@nannywhumpers5702]

I'm in America and I don't tell anyone I'm Bi except my kids know. I'm also transmasc, but didn't realize that until recently, when I started watching video's and found the words to express what I've been feeling my entire life. Thank goodness for people like you Emma, that cover stuff like this that helps even older people who are still learning who they are.

[@autohmae]

I guess today I learned a new word which I don't truly understand. I think I understand a description, but not what it means in practice.

[@richardmorin5967]

Dear Whumper, I am 71 year old gay fellow from Central Massachusetts. Perhaps because of my age, l find it more difficult to keep up with the new lingo. Please help me to do just that and tell me what does "transmasc" mean? As an aside, l once responded to someone's comment by saying something like, "l would like to understand what you wrote but I only speak and write in standard English." He answered with "What is standard English ?" ... l guess that's why l didn't understand him. Thank you.

[@autohmae]

@@richardmorin5967 here is a definition, but I don't really understand what it means in practice: "Transmasculine people feel a connection with masculinity, but do not always identify as male. Transmasculine people can include, but are not limited to: trans men, demiboys, multigender people, genderfluid people and nonbinary people, as long as they identify with masculinity. Transfeminine is the feminine equivalent of transmasculine. "

[@russellmiles2861]

I wouldn’t worry so much - we opposite sex attracted are damned for perpetuity on many grounds - in Hell we’ll be in good company, and have the best music

[@Sidistic_Atheist]

I'm 50+ and my deeply religious parents died never knowing that I was bi-sexual.. I would've loved to have told them. But I felt it would be selfish of me to burden them with that knowledge. I'd like to think that they would've been ok with it. But I didn't want to shame them in front of all the homophobic bigots that I knew were in the church. Coming out as an atheist was bad enough..

[@zodiark111]

I think it is best to just come out and tell people about these kinds of things because that's how progress is made. Nothing ever happened to the person that stayed in the closet their entire life.

[@gigachad7127]

That's the most emotional thing I ever heard man u can't even tell the closest people in your life due to Christianity feel sorry for you man rip both🫂

[@nobody.of.importance]

It was selfish of them to judge you. Just sayin. Respect is a two way street.

[@terezacarvalho3392]

Don't blame yourself, you just belong to our generation. We simply didn't share our intimacy with our parents. And I still think it's not always appropriate to do so.

[@KittyKat-ky5us]

❤️

[@syllkive5224]

New sub here lol . I am a Pagan and also part of the LGBT community and honestly people like this are just sad . Just respect everyone , regardless of ethnic group , sexual orientation or identity , religion , culture and age . Why must there be a "right" way of living ? Just be happy and respect each other geez

[@LadyDoomsinger]

I grew up Christian, and my parents, brother and sister - not to mention entire extended family - are all still believers. All of them have accepted me as a trans woman. They also accept that I am an atheist.

[@pollypockets508]

Don't ever apologize for feeling angry. You have every right.

[@internet_user975]

does the same applies to Hitler?

[@pollypockets508]

@@internet_user975 Wow. Yes, Hitler had every right to be angry. What he didn't have the right to do was take away human lives based on that anger. Like how does your brain work? I'd really like to know.

[@pollypockets508]

@@internet_user975 Also, you're a wet blanket

[@ekadria-bo4962]

@@internet_user975 Angry doesn't mean kill. Oxymoron...

[@internet_user975]

@@ekadria-bo4962 pretty sure anger iz the main reason for people to kill

[@MarceldeJong]

We need more loud Christians?! Why, mr Parr? Don't we have enough of those already? Get lost with your church and pay your taxes!

[@yuuseir3391]

Loud Christians, isn't that the same ? they're all loud

[@miriam9482]

I used to be a Christian and enjoyed Allen Parrs videos. I'm currently in the process of deconstruction and leaving faith behind. This year I discovered that I am ace, grayromantic and non-binary. I am so thankful that I got to discover my identity apart from Christianity, although there is a lot to unlearn. I am not out to any Christians in my life, as I know that 99% of them are homophobic and transphobic. I'm close to my parents and am genuinely scared of telling them, because I have no clue how they would react or how our relationship would change. I don't know why I'm writing all if this, but ig I just want to say that it is indeed not easy being queer and having a lot of contact with Christians. Our lives are by far not ad easy as Allen makes it seem to be Edit: Spelling

[@nycbearff]

Good luck with your progress - and commenting on a video like this is very worthwhile, it helps you practice saying these things so that it will be easier when you eventually start talking about it with the people in your life. And - that may be easier if you find a way to move to a distant city and start a new life there. That's been a godsend to lots of LGBTQ+ people over the centuries - it's a tried and true, but difficult, way to find a life you want to lead.

[@miriam9482]

@@nycbearff Thank you! Yes, I did move to another country for some time to get to know myself more and figure things out. It's been so good gaining some distance to everything

[@MrSeedi76]

I'd argue that it's not true that 99 percent of Christians are homophobic. Maybe in the US. In Germany you're Christian if you visit church on Xmas and that's basically it. I am Christian, even studied theology and left the church because of the problems I had with the official doctrine (in particular the fact that even the Lutheran church in Germany, which is basically not as homophobic as the catholics, argued that homosexual couples should not be allowed to adopt children). Especially when comparing it to what Jesus actually said. I became a huge fan of Matthew Vines and his reformation project. I even wrote a book about homosexuality and the Bible (not published however). I think it is ridiculous that the church (doesn't much matter which denomination, behind the scenes they are mostly the same) thinks they are "upholding family values", considering what Jesus said about family. Let's put it bluntly - Jesus was not a family man 😂. Love thy neighbor and God were the most important commandments according to his teaching. I'd go one step further and agree to the apostle John (my favourite) and say - God is love. The rest is interpretation and especially US American Christians do a horrible job at interpreting the Bible. Every interpretation should be guided by love. And all we hear is hatred against everybody that according to these people isn't a "true Christian".

[@nobody.of.importance]

@@MrSeedi76 Yeah, I don't like Christianity as a belief, but some percentage of people who call themselves Christian aren't the crazy jackasses and are actually very kind and accepting. It's the hardcore fundamentalists and evangelists that are making things worse for everyone.

[@kooskoos1234]

@@MrSeedi76 i think they were specifically referring to the christians they know, which makes a lot more sense

[@finnilyenough]

I'm really sorry people online have been harassing you. You are so right. I live in the American south and we have been regressing so bad. This guy talked about how there was no shame in coming out, but I lost my entire social group and family when I came out(trans). I luckily made some new freinds online but the American south is like a whole different county than the coasts

[@dlhawkins5086]

Hey Emma, I’m a bisexual Christian who is pro-choice and believes in religious diversity and plurality. I grew up in churches that are aligned with what Alan Parr teaches, and it is only the past two years that I have broken out, accepted myself and my sexuality, and begun changing my beliefs to be more just, loving, and accepting. Your channel has been very helpful for me on this journey. I have appreciated your critiques of Christians like Alan Parr and Kent Hovind. I have found a lot of solidarity and support in your videos. I still consider myself a Christian, and ironically enough, I am more proud of my faith today than I ever was before I came out. I think that even then I recognized the very things you shared, my earlier faith devalued human diversity and denied others equal rights. I can honestly say that it is Christians like Alan Parr who are the most harmful people to me. Thank you for making a response to this video and all the content you make. I know the hatred from this brand of Christianity can be exhausting and overwhelming. I see the amazing work you are doing, I appreciate it, and I am one of many many Christians who are on your side in these issues.

[@russellmiles2861]

Goosh. Damned in some many ways . I bet you like Jazz too

[@TheCalebMoline]

I am very proud of you. ☺️ I am an ex-evangelical, but ironically, my values today as a feminist, openly gay, progressive atheist are SO much closer to Jesus’ actual stated values than when I was a heavily indoctrinated, closeted, superstitious, Right-wing, Bible-thumping, bigoted, regressive science-denier. And I’m proud of all of the Christians and ex-Christians alike who have embraced critical inquiry and scientific thinking, and deconstructed their fundamentalist, Right-wing indoctrination to start working to make this world a better place for everyone. ☺️

[@benry007]

What do you do about the bible clearly and in multiple places calling what you do sinful? How do you reconcile identifying as Christian and being in open rebellion against God?

[@russellmiles2861]

@@benry007 to be fair; almost all of are damned in perpetuity for one reason or another. The Bible is essentially a long list of don’t. Exodus 22 18 is a favourite. And 2 Kings 2:23-25 suggest best not call a pastor “baldy”.

[@benry007]

@@russellmiles2861 I'm not saying to enforce heterosexuality. Its a choice people can make. But its still sin. The bible calls homosexual acts an abomination. You quoted Exodus 22:18, if someone said they were a Christian and a witch then I would tell them they aren't a Christian. Dont ask me to celebrate something which God has called sin.

[@obelittle530]

My daughter is Bi and my mom is a strict Christian. Their relationship has definitely suffered because she is afraid of my mom’s anger and criticism.

[@mckenna_L_]

I recently had to explain to my straight parents that queer people have to constantly come out, it’s not just a one time thing so for some people that’s just too overwhelming or not feasible

[@mckenna_L_]

@@jarrodpurvis2611 I mean “constantly” it’s kind of hyperbole. Really I just mean when you meet new people, get a job, dating, just a lot of life situations where you might want to express your sexuality as part of yourself. I think some straight people see “coming out” as a one off thing but the world doesn’t automatically see us as queer individuals so we have to explain multiple times, thus we could be coming out quite often

[@Sonjacrow]

@@jarrodpurvis2611 it isn’t coming out again when the media reports a queer celebrity getting married or a new partner. It’s just a report. Exactly, the same way when the media reports on a heterosexual celebrity getting a new partner or getting married. It’s not heterosexuality being flaunted, it’s just a report

[@opiesmith9270]

I’m American and I apologize for my countries worsening open fascism. It sucks and I’m ashamed of my countries regression. RIP freedom and equal rights, hello Theocracy! 😞

[@richardbrinkerhoff]

You should have written 'my country's.

[@markhill3858]

now now :) this might just be the last kicking of the dead horse, dont assume the usa is gonna just die :) you fellas are remarkably resilient historically

[@sherlockwho5714]

My fellow American we can fight by voting and organizing and running for office. See Michigan who has a proposal to enshrine roe v Wade in their state It's hard but I hope you will join the organizations to fight for the republic

[@bharathdeva9407]

well it will only create more aethists .

[@courier-ec6zj]

@@godseed7984 i remember voting for the supreme court justices. oh, wait, they aren't voted in

[@Elementalism.]

Allen: we are the minority Also Allen:we as the majority Also Allen: we are the minority Also Allen: we are the majority ..... dude, make up your mind already....

[@georgem2334]

Fundamentalist Christians should just mind their own business. Gay people don't want to hear your bigotry. Atheist don't want to hear your bigotry. Most people of good will don't want to hear your bigotry either. We lead happy and productive lives. No Jesus required, or desired.

[@petezipardi4022]

Like the cut of your jib, George.

[@colmlooney5843]

Other Christians don't want to hear their bigotry either

[@chrissmith8198]

Friends I want to tell you today that the TRUE Gospel is one of good news! And the news is that Jesus, The Messiah came into our world, died a criminals death, suffered in hell for three days and rose again where He now sits at the right hand of the Father He did this to save the world from their sins, not to condemn it, as it says in John 3:17 "For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him" Jesus is not angry at you and He does not hate you. He did not come for you to just follow a lifeless religion but came so He can have in intimate personal relationship with you! Jesus said He will never turn away those who come to Him as it says in John 6:37 "All those the Father gives me will come to me, and whoever comes to me I will never drive away". All you have to do is turn away from your sins and put your trust in what Jesus did on the cross, openly confess Him as your Lord and Savior and give your life to Him and you WILL be saved! Romans 10:9 " If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved" My friends, universalism won't save you for in John 14:6 "Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." And again, Acts 4:12 tells us "Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved.” Please do not let preachers on tiktok decieve you with "their" Christianity "All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness" 2 Timothy 3:16 I love You and Jesus loves you!

[@emmaruffin-cromer8266]

I am a transgender woman who is pro choice and a Christian. I watch your videos because I disagree vehemently with all the people you feature as subjects and think you deal with them in a smart level headed and well educated manner. My wife and I are currently moving to the other end of the US because we don't think it's safe for me to trans here and the general right wing politics of our state makes us extremely uncomfortable. I was raised to listen to right wing media. Instead of Alex Jones like in your case, it was people like Rush Limbaugh. I slowly realized in adulthood that those opinions did not make sense and did not fit in with the teachings of Jesus as I understand them. This has caused me to have a lot of strained relationships.

[@Morbidity100]

Believe what you want to believe, but don’t associate with any church. They hate you and want you to be who you are. Become an apostate. Otherwise, you are a hypocrite.

[@awkwardukulele6077]

@@Morbidity100 hard disagree. Find God if you want, love God the way you think you should, and love your brothers and sisters in kind. If the first two goals make the third goal impossible, that's your que to reevaluate your religion. You already did that once, that proves you have it within yourself to keep looking for God while loving all God's children.

[@russellmiles2861]

Oh Most Christians don’t think other so called Christians are Christians. So they have you covered

[@emmaruffin-cromer8266]

@@Morbidity100 There are LGBTQ affirming and welcoming churches.

[@benry007]

Do you have a bible part 2 I haven't seen yet?

[@meganjones1184]

I'm from New Zealand and I am straight but I could not live in a lot of America at the moment!! The ignorance and pure hate is scary

[@someperson2789]

Well it's a myth that the average Christian in the west is more ignorant or hateful than a liberally minded atheist (at least in a way that is morally unjustifiable and/or noticeable) for example and part of the myth comes from the cultural baggage pertaining to how certain topics are viewed. Secondly, it's okay to view the faults of Christians even if before God they're just as big or even worse sinners than many atheists but atheists in the west are generally faultless in their average perception of topics relating to morality? Certainly not. A person doesn't need to be a Christian or any other theist to agree with what I just said.

[@ethandollarhide7943]

Then don't. You're literally living in a Nation that ranks higher than the United States in every good statistic.

[@meganjones1184]

@@ethandollarhide7943 yes I agree. But there are genuinely some awesome places in the states I'd love to see. We may be safe but we are also boring. There are a few bucket list places I'd love to see

[@playinglifeoneasy9226]

I’m here-it’s terrifying what’s coming down the line. We are trying to leave. It’s like a slow moving tsunami hundreds of meters high.

[@NZRainbowGillian]

Hey fellow New Zealander! I so agree that it’s hard to watch what’s going on over in the States, and I hope they move in a more tolerant direction!

[@mjjoe76]

“Oh, won’t someone PLEASE think of the children!” 🙄 His greatest fear is that the next generation will be more accepting of people who are different from them.

[@RNS_Aurelius]

(Not so) Fun fact: In some states in America, it's still a viable legal defence if you assault or murder a man to say he was gay and trying to solicite you and if there is sufficient evidence of this, you may be pardoned. The same defence is not afforded to women who are harrassed by men. It's called the "Gay panic defence"

[@burntgrahamcracker2866]

You are not pardoned your sentence may be reduced you can’t get away with murder unless you have a provable cause of a threat.

[@RNS_Aurelius]

@@burntgrahamcracker2866 Ah okay thanks for clarification. Do you know if you can be pardoned for ABH or GBH?

[@burntgrahamcracker2866]

@@RNS_Aurelius can’t say for certain but I would imagine it’s either down to mitigating factors such as threat or that you can only get a sentence of ABH if those factors are absent

[@Codisrocks]

That's why that piece of shit pro skater Danny Way walked after killing a dude.

[@finnilyenough]

You can also get a lesser sentence if the victim was trans and you claim to have been frightened by it. No propositioning needed 🙃😵‍💫

[@gremlin_lorde]

I'm Trans in the USA. And his views are really awful. You're awesome Emma keep doing what you're doing.

[@bradypustridactylus488]

I have been struggling with my anxiety expressing itself as eating disorder and I have been forced to do some introspection. There seems to be a correlation between my unwanted behavior and the Senate Supreme Court confirmations, then the leaking of the upcoming Roe v Wade overturning, the actual disaster, and the promise of coming after me as a gay man next. What the Christians need to get from the LGBT handbook is to adopt inclusion, acceptance, and tolerance, which is the heart of the movement. In Richard Day's movie, Straight-Jacket (2004), there is the line, "The difference between you and us is that we don't wish you harm." I have eaten eight cookies writing this.

[@autohmae]

I don't know if this advice will help you, but I try to do it: buy fruits, etc. not sweets. Just don't have them in your home. When you feel like snacking, snack the fruits, etc.

[@bradypustridactylus488]

@@autohmae Several years ago, I developed a system to control my eating disorder. I prepare all my food from scratch using nutritional guides and fresh, non processed ingredients. Literally, everything I eat is calculated to have precisely measured calorie, fat, protein, carbohydrate, and fiber content. I traded one eating disorder for another. Of course, the system breaks down from time to time, but the frequency and intensity of these episodes of binging have increased precipitously. It seems everybody feels under attack and everybody's coping mechanisms are failing. I even detect a note of hysteria under Allen Parr's studied jovial presentation. He's scared too.

[@Mike-rq7ez]

I feel like not enough people say "anti-choice," so thank you for saying that.

[@Wildflower_Sage]

I came out as Aroace and Non-Binary for pride.

[@Somebuffoononline]

congraduration!! your done it! :D

[@robg5958]

Emma, I am so obliged to you for the messages you send out to the world. Only when I broke free from the lies and superstitious nonsense of religion was I able to truly live as I am. I was born bi, but the religious pressure that I grew up under kept me in denial and in fear of my natural sexuality. I am now, at the age of sixty, finally able to live a tolerant, loving and truthful life free from religion and hatred.

[@ariw9405]

Happy to hear you are living your happiest life in truth without fear! Wishing you a lifetime of happiness and love

[@Tupelo927]

@Rob G Your message brought tears (of happiness!) to my eyes. It took me years to deconstruct from religion. I'm nearly 50 & still a closet atheist. *Thank you* for sharing! You inspire me, sir. ❤️

[@DoctorZisIN]

My daughter is married to a woman, and have a child together (thanks, science). I'm cis, but I can't imagine a more perfect family existing on Earth and they all mean to me more than life itself. Pieces of shit like this preacher trigger me to no end. I wish I could meet him in person to make sure he needs dentures for the rest of his life, because from the comfort of his chair he eggs on the haters who do actual harm. BUT I'm not a violent man and I must refrain myself. Ignoring the moron is the second best thing we can do.

[@robg5958]

@@Tupelo927 It's not easy to expose yourself to other people and their prejudices, but you will find the right time eventually. I never look for confrontation from religious people, but if they ask my opinion, I simply state that I am not convinced that God exists. Check out Matt Dillihunty for inspirational videos on how to deal with Theists.

[@Latinarama]

I'm not sure if it's appropriate to bring this up here, but homophobia in the black community in the US especially is still rampant to this day. I have seen many black youtubers who are openly and unapologetically homophobic, and their community is as well. I feel like white people especially are afraid to address this issue. Often times, their homophobia comes from some dubious pro black leadership figures like Umar Johnson, who teach that , as opposed to Greece, there were no gays in Africa and that gayness is a mental illness.

[@richiegomez2769]

It’s an image thing. That’s where the phrase “on the downlow” comes from. Fear of what Momma might think. Indoctrination.

[@fluffysheap]

You're completely right, and what you've shown is how harmful the language coming from some people of "all the evil in the world is because of WHIIIIITE MEEEEN" is. It's not just open hatefulness, it also gives everyone else a pass on their own wrongs.

[@doodle3446]

as a black trans person, I agree full-heartedly. The community is filled with so many misogynistic and queerphobic conspiracies, either fueled by religion, some weird form of spiritualism, or just plain bored ignorance, and it's honestly so exhausting. I think white folks are afraid of talking about it because they'll be quickly labeled a rac!st colon!zer trying to corrupt the pure black cis-heteronormativity, and it really shouldn't be that way. Calling out a very obvious flaw in the black community isn't wrong, it's the right thing to do, regardless of what race the addressing person is.

[@jacksons1010]

Sadly, spot on. There absolutely is some bizarre force field where people of color seem exempted from consequences for homophobia, anti-semitism, racism, you name it. Ice Cube and Dave Chappelle immediately come to mind. Criticized, yes, but still employed, still on TV, still making money.

[@brachiator1]

People are complicated. There is homophobia in the black community. There is racism in the gay community. Often no one wants to talk about it, or they want to pretend that one group are angels, and the other group are problematic. Some people also like to pretend that gay rights and the black civil rights movement are totally distinct and separate, without any overlap or cross communication.

[@brandonparisien2381]

What he's saying is basically what whites said about non whites just 100yrs ago.

[@liamhutfles4113]

My grandma believed that interracial marriages were unethical. Times certainly have changed

[@slipperyboi8295]

Man escalated casual homophobia to ranked homophobia 💀

[@briannamay5459]

I'm a straight Christian transgender woman! I'm in the comments! Though i don't really like calling myself queer because I've been called that many times as a slur that it makes me feel weird. I'm also pro choice and Christian! Yay!

[@kathleenlamb597]

I am also not a fan of the term "queer" as a catchall term. I don't see my orientation as weird or abnormal.

[@briannamay5459]

@@kathleenlamb597 There's that too. I get the idea of reclaiming slurs and people can use that term for themselves if they want but it shouldn't represent all of us. I'm proudly LGBT+ though💜

[@Doodles_The_Noodle]

I am a Christian, and pro-choice, and trans, wow it’s really not that hard to be a bigot

[@citizenVader]

It's incredible that these people just won't accept others, when all the other "normies" know it's non of our business, what people do with each other for love, fun and other preference. This is not the medieval times, were you can do anything and blame it on the Vikings or whatever "threaten" these disgusting hatemongers.

[@Miguel-xd8dd]

@@MrTheclevercat Why the fuck would we let homophobic people decide where our activism should stop???

[@chiaraimpeduglia1308]

@@MrTheclevercat Well, i'll have to disagree on the last bit. Religions tend to teach their followers that these kind of people will go to hell if they dare to act upon something that is quite literally in their nature. Oh, and they do it to their followers too. For the exact same reason. And they also tell them that the followers of other religions will go to hell too. That's why they end up spreading hate even if it is not on purpose.

[@optillian4182]

Your username spells Lars Borkh.

[@RageOfBeef]

@@MrTheclevercat oh how scary, a drag queen teaching kids to be accepting, this is totally on par with teaching kids to be terrified of themselves and indoctrinating them from the second they are born to spend every second terrified of death

[@Chamelionroses]

@@MrTheclevercat now if everyone hated like that that would be believable. Nah it is just like why a Japanese prime minster is shot ...some just like to watch the world burn and hate while other just make excuses for personal issues they have with themselves. Many religions teach to hate and others just cherry pick what ever interpretation, but some like to pretend it is about what people fantasize ( what is other peoples pants) is more evil than forced child marriage some times.

[@MadCat59]

As a Christian, let me express my utter disdain for what this "Christian" person says. Christ himself would be appalled at the message of hate this man is espousing. I'm not sure what he is, but he's NOT a Christian. Also, let me say that one of my best friends is gay, I have a gender-fluid grandchild, and I've had trans family members for over 50 years. Allen Parr's hate-filled rhetoric is definitely not true Christianity, it's just hate for people he won't even try to understand.

[@benry007]

Do you beleive that Jesus Christ is God?

[@kerlhier150]

"Christians" like Allen Parr that spread hate and obvious misinformation, are not really religious or christian. They do it for money. They don't really care about science or religion or even being a decent person.

[@benry007]

@@kerlhier150 are you a Christian?

[@izstrkv]

the world needs more christians like you and a lot less like allan parr. thank you 🩵

[@Random_Traveler_]

Hey, Emma! American here, we're not all crazy, I'm sorry for what you've been experiencing. Please continue what you're doing, and I hope you live a wonderful life.

[@jonathanandrew1957]

Everything he said is ridiculous, all I see is the hypocrisy. Love seeing your channel grow, Emma!

[@chiaraimpeduglia1308]

I mean, i lost count on how many times he contradicted himself. The most egregious one was when he said that christians were the minority and after that he said they were the majority. plus,the bit of the echo chamber and the fact that they argue over details all the time. And he does not realize that this means that probably what he believes in or pretends to, is almost assuredly all fake. I mean no offence in saying this, it's just my opinion.

[@ParanormalEncyclopedia]

My take away from being a Christian: "you aren't perfect and thats ok only God is and he doesn't ask you to be perfect he just wants you to be kind to kind to your fellow humans" This guys takeaway: "Here's all the people its ok for me to hate because I"m Christian"

[@davidjockin6654]

If there is a LGBTQ+ handbook, could I get a copy too? I might be able to learn something from it.

[@Conicee]

I love how he just doesn't seem to understand how exhausting it can be to come out as something. I remember trying to explain to my step mom that I was Aromantic and just the blank stare of utter confusion she gave me after 10 minutes of me trying to tell her I have never been in love with someone just kinda said it all.

[@amygrowls]

You are always so classy and just really display a genuine heart for what you are saying. Even when you’re mad as hell, you show humanity and recognition for the humanity of the person you are calling out. Even if they don’t deserve it! Like this clown! Kudos to you and thank you for speaking TRUTH. Love you, Emma!

[@MG-hz7wi]

I have a daughter who is a lesbian. The last time we had a family gathering, my religious sister privately asked her to refer to her girlfriend as her "friend" in front of her teenage son that she home schools. She didn't want him to know about her "lifestyle". I don't even know if he knows that lgbtq+ people exist. His only associations are with people who belong to her church. He's nearly an adult now and it scares me. How long can she shelter him from the real world, and what's going to happen when he encounters it? What kind of man will he be? What kind of future will he have? How has his potential to lead a full life been restricted by people who have raised him in a bubble? The way I see it, he'll either grow up to be a horrible bigot, or the world will crush him because he's so naive. It makes me very sad.

[@evacarabotta1997]

Growing up, I lived in a fundamentalist household. My father is a pastor and he is determined to abide by God’s word. I am a bisexual atheist living in the ‘secular world’. I find it really easy to come out to most people, except to my father. I know I wouldn’t be accepted. It’s weird, I remember when ‘Finding Dory’ first came out and my dad was so disgusted about the lesbian couple that was displayed for 2 seconds. I found that scene so comforting, and yet I felt uneasy. I still feel uneasy whenever seeing scenes like that, and uneasy to accept myself. At the same time I am so proud of what I am learning and who I am becoming. I just hope I can shake off the ‘Fear of God’….

[@dciking]

I appreciate you discussing the fear of seeing your coffee spill, and the sloshing in the cup. Thanks!

[@jonathanstern5537]

I was watching Doctor Strange and the Multiverse of Madness with my father, and he lost his mind when he saw the scene with America's mothers. I asked him why he got so bent out of shape about it. He replied, "It's not realistic." My response was, of course, "You're watching a movie about wizards traveling through the multiverse, and you have a problem with lesbians being unrealistic." Also, I'm not sure, but I think that America's universe is all female, but I could be wrong about that.

[@jeffmason7013]

I adore Emma. I’m at least a generation older than she. Love her exuberance, passion, wit, intelligence, irreverence, occasional saltiness and most of all her sense of humor. I don’t know exactly why the google/youtube god sent me here but I’m glad they did.

[@imac1957]

Me too. I have queer/gay daughters her age, and it is great to see such clear expression of truth.

[@dav552]

" Back in my day they had to stay quiet " that really puts the hammer on nail on how most (subtle) homophobes think ...straight married man here with 2 kids also black 🖤 lol

[@shawnnosaurus]

I just happened upon and been binging your content for the last few days. Thank you for being such a genuine person, you're an inspiration to watch. Please don't let the hateful get you down, the world would be an incredible place with more of you.

[@AndrewD8Red]

Christians being homophobic?! Well, I never. Also! I just learned recently that wild bears poop in the woods.

[@wisdomandy9361]

Well thanks to all these modern ideologies people tend to be more concerned with how something makes them feel vs if it's true or not. This is damaging, especially to children and being capable of critical thinking skills. Not to mention the laundry list of unforseen outcomes and consequences from that ignorance.

[@joperhop]

Holy sh*t... No wait thats if a pope poops in the woods nevermind.

[@chiaraimpeduglia1308]

@@wisdomandy9361 Some people do not understand, and that's ok, what is not okay, however is to actively try to teach children and adults alike that people who are different from them should be hated and condemned to hell for something that is part of their nature. I mean no offence, it is just my humble opinion.

[@TheBlarggle]

@@wisdomandy9361 How are the consequences a "laundry list" and also "unforeseen"?

[@Chamelionroses]

Not only Christians but yes I expected that too.

[@larsgottlieb]

Hey Emma? Thank you for doing these. Thank you for standing at the front line, tanking all the hatred, homophobia and sexism.

[@yeahminecraft1627]

I remember when I was in elementary school I told some of the other kids that "I didn't believe in god" - I was raised, and still am, very much atheist. I instantly got back a ton of 'whaaaaT?!' and 'wait you don't believe in god?!' startlement. The other kids didn't necessarily directly bully me for it, but I remember that moment being notable - a large number of other kids in the class - certainly those who reacted - were christian. And I don't even live in a super backwards part of the US - I live in a big, pretty damn liberal city. Christians are not 'persecuted' or 'closeted' or 'rare' - they are the majority and the ones in power. The only thing is that that absolute power is waining (thank fuck). But unfortunately any loss of power to the powerful feels like oppression, and they will cry and mope about that to try and regain their absolute power (which they still have massive power - look at how many federal politicians are christian in the US, it's basically all of them). They fear losing the oppressive regime they've built. Fear is what makes people do shitty things - fear is necessary, but it is the root of all evil.

[@hollyhartwick3832]

Fortunately, not every Christian or church is like this. When I was still a Christian myself, I went to a Presbyterian church. I found out that at all levels that denomination is supportive of the LGBT community. As a member of said community, it was a relief. I was able to be open and relaxed without fear of judgment.

[@sebastianbenterbusch4181]

I was raised in a very very conservative household but I had good friends and they challenged my beliefs constantly until I finaly emancipated from my parents indoctrination with age 15, it is sad to see that this moment will not happen for the majority of children from conservative upbringing. I hope you all had a great pirde month, much love!

[@jones1351]

He exemplifies one of the major reasons I left the church. It became less about what we were for, and more so what ‘we were against’. My first weeks in, I was still on - what we called - a holy ghost high. There was a framed list hanging on a wall in the church. Intuitively I avoided looking at, or even asking about it. I surmised what it was about but figured if I don’t look at it, it would just go away. But finally, I decided to man-up; and sure ‘nuff it was a record of ‘Don’ts’. Don’t do this, can’t do that, don’t even think about the other - not a ‘Do’ to be seen, but plenty of ‘Don’ts’. To give somewhat the flavor, Bowling, was one of the prohibitions. What does…, yeah, don’t ask. My heart sank. I think that was the beginning of the end, though it took another 7- 8 years for the inevitable exodus. I look at this guy and see a walking, talking, ‘Don’t, or you're going to Hell’.

[@fluffgreybeard8073]

I always love the way they use "Good, upright and moral" to describe themselves. Also, the people who have no doubt seem to do the most damage :o(

[@JD43081]

Very true.

[@ChristianCatboy]

Well... this is what always confused me, as someone who was taught to fear and hate queer people as part of my duty to God, and then ended up being queer myself. Major cognitive dissonance!..

[@gonzalosebastian8864]

As an Ace person it's incredibly funny the idea that the LGBTQIA+ is unified, since at least 50% (approximation based on my own experience, not actually researched) of the community are as or more Aphobic than Straight people. Also the idea that all LGBTQIA+ are out and proud is so ignorant, I haven't come out to my parents because of all of the internalized amatonormativity they have displayed all of my life.

[@maryeckel9682]

I have been erased a few times as demi by people all across the alphabet. It's infuriating. It took me too damn long to even learn that my sexuality has a name to ever back down now.

[@ekadria-bo4962]

I see Aphobic is so tremendous in LBGT+ Comunnity. And its why sometime A-Comunity do not want to became part of LGBT+ (Hetero/Non-Hetero, Cis/Trans Dichotomy) and embrace Allo/A-Spec Dichotomy Maybe i thibk the Apohicness of LGBT Birth with more and more sexualizing of their own Comunity (i belong to people said that A-Spec is nt LGBT+ but embrace Allo/A Dichotomy)

[@ekadria-bo4962]

@@maryeckel9682 its hard to life as an A-spec person in amatanormative world

[@petrichorbones]

yeah im comfortable calling myself ace but less comfortable calling myself lgbt bc people can get so angry about it ... i usually try to disclose that even though im ace and agender i dont necessarily consider myself lgbt just so i dont get angry replies. although in the last few months i've only had one person say thats right and a few others have told me i AM lgbt. but i just feel still like im not allowed to call myself that. so i considered myself an unnamed third option this whole time lol idk not straight not lgbt just neither i guess

[@Demonetization_Symbol]

What you said about abortion reminds me of an analogy I thought of. You don't see people screaming at patients about to receive a life-saving organ transplant, and you don't see people debating on whether or not people should have the right to an organ transplant. Abortions are also important medical procedures, so why debate one's right to them?

[@reinaroberson9913]

As an American, I apologize. You're completely right, we're taking a step backwards in our social standards. I understand your struggles with the hate. I'm sorry that people treat you so poorly for who you are and for sharing your voice on the internet. Continue to do what you're doing, we're incredibly proud of you. Thank you for never giving up

[@mjdoombreed]

From my house, I hear church bells every Sunday and every holiday. Christians are plenty bold, and definitely not in hiding.

[@nycbearff]

Where I am, besides the bells every day - every day - they set off fireworks on their numerous religious holidays. I have great difficulty believing that closeted christians exist anywhere. Well, maybe Pakistan or Indonesia - but certainly not Cleveland or Dallas.

[@richardsuplee8137]

He reminds me of so many American Christians I grew up with that drove me away from religion. And their arguments change on a dime to where queer people are both so small they shouldn't be seen and so big and accepted they shouldn't worry.

[@HappyKat-wc4ld]

Maybe some Christians don't want to "come out" because they're afraid people will think they're jerks like Allan? I think "professing Christians" like him are a vocal minority like they say the LGBT community is...at least I hope so! Since getting out of a sheltered Christian community, it seems like a lot of people get along just fine despite their differences.

[@amandamcclain2009]

I think the majority of Christians are decent people with good views on the world. but like with all communities you have that radical minority that just shouts at the top of their lungs and proclaims to represent everyone in their community, without giving others the chance to speak.

[@RegebroRepairs]

Christians ARE out. There are not any significant amount of secret Christians in all of western society, don't be ridiculous. I guess it can happen in say, a Muslim or Jewish family, that somebody converts and doesn't tell their family. But that's it. What they might not do is push it in people's faces, because they realize that would make them jerks. Just like I in social situations don't go around and scream "I'm an atheist!" But if somebody asks, I'll tell them. And so will Christians, I promise.

[@HappyKat-wc4ld]

@@RegebroRepairs I did say "some" Christians, that doesn't necessarily mean I'm talking about a huge number of people. It'd be really off-putting to be "loud and proud" about your religion, which is what Allan is saying Christians should be. Also, a lot of people have been really hurt by Christians (including me) before. So if I'm just getting to know someone, I'm hesitant to mention my fundie upbringing until my actions can show that I'm not like that anymore...

[@jamespowers1641]

My wife and I love your content Emma..when you mentioned bingo card,, we came up with an idea for one... CRINGO.. c: cultural appropriation; r: racism; i: ignorance; n: nationalism; g: gender; o: outrage...hope you take this idea and make it your own.. take care of yourself and keep your brilliant content coming.. :)

[@errrkt]

I'm trans in america, you were not wrong about the queerphobia in June. It has just kept getting worse since.