How to find "THE ONE"

Choosing who you will marry is one of the biggest decisions you'll ever make. So often we can be blinded by physical appearances and aspects of people's personality that are temporary. Making this decision can be tough, so in this video, we offer a few tips on how to make a wise decision when finding a spouse.
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[@indigofenrir7236]

Make God the ‘One’ and He will find the 'one' for you.

[@ehallam08]

Fact

[@noir_hero7294]

Very true✝️💯

[@DaudiHennig]

Facts

[@junior_-3218]

my first reaction when i saw the title

[@justsomeone2832]

I like how you change the O to describe which one is more important, you get a star 🌟

[@bloom7722]

as 21 year old who has never been in love, it can get lonely but yes God's timing is perfect! THANK YOU for this video.

[@sirzorg5728]

26 looking at 27, with no real hope for ever finding anyone, let alone "the one". I wish I were 21 again. You can't be passive about this. You need to go out of your way to meet potential partners. I've heard that many parishes sometimes organize social events to help people like us meet others looking for love, but my church doesn't have anything like that because there are so few young people in the church that there isn't much point. I don't know where to turn at this point, but I trust God will help me out.

[@sirzorg5728]

This is crazy, but I looked back at your channel, and you have a beautiful voice, you are my age, you are single, and you clearly love God. This is absolutely insane of me, especially from a youtube comments section, but I'm gonna say I'd like to get to know you better, somehow.

[@davidm4566]

Unfortunately I married the wrong person. I married a narcissistic woman who treated me great at first but then slowly began her emotional abuse before leaving me. Take it from me, someone who has been single, married, and now divorced, it's way better to be single and wait for the *right* person. Feeling alone when you are married to the wrong person and then being on your own through divorce is so much more painful. God's got this. When someone you're interested comes along, do yourself a favor and pray right away that he reveals his plan and direction for you regarding them.

[@davidm4566]

@@sirzorg5728 the best way to meet someone is by living your life. Do stuff you enjoy, have fun with friends, and be yourself (maybe tweak a couple things to improve yourself if necessary). Everyone says that it generally happens when you're not looking for it. And 27 is nothing today. You still have time. But put it in God's timing, which is way better than ours.

[@xcobyxzei]

Your 21! You’re so young! I’m 34, trust me I’m lonely

[@jonathanmax7502]

"In a marriage you need more than just a cute face"👌 Thanks!

[@indigofenrir7236]

Yeah, you need money for expenses. True love by itself cannot pay for groceries and utility bills.

[@frqubit]

@@indigofenrir7236 God will provide.

[@Wetrustinknowledge]

​@@indigofenrir7236that's not the point but yeah

[@lovegod777]

Yes, the heart of the person is most important! A heart for God and inner beauty!

[@faithmbenzakimfumu]

@@lovegod777 ok

[@ivegotajousyaccent99]

There’s a young lady in my church that I’ve had a crush on since the day I first visited this church nearly two years ago. I’ve been a member for a year now, but I believe that the Lord is holding me back from pursuing her, for now, in order for me to to focus on Him and my walk with Him. I pray about my feelings for her everyday, and I pray for the patience to wait for the right time to pursue her. She’s the first young lady I’ve developed feelings for since I was born again, and I believe God has given me these feelings in my heart for a reason. I will continue to wait on the Lord and His perfect timing for this relationship to happen, if it’s in His will. So glad I found this channel since I began my walk with Jesus. Thank you for the reminder at the end of every video that “Jesus loves you.” It’s such a wonderful thing to remember every single day.

[@Lili-Benovent]

Keep putting it off and she'll run away with a used car salesman and get married in Las Vegas, when this happens you can blame the invisible guy in the sky for wasting your time.

[@silent3226]

remember that God steers the boat but you must row. If you like her you need to take action, after all love is sacrifice, so you need to put yourself at risk of breaking your heart so you can have the chance of something beautiful happen(even if she breaks your heart Jesus will be there to confort you!). Praying for you my friend. This is an analogy you could use, Jesus wasnt wating for the Father to crucify him, Jesus took action believing in the Father and that lead to the most beautiful thing in the universe(his sacrifice for us)

[@SiennaG013]

You are right, After all Gods timing is perfect!❤️🙏🏽

[@dmkbnin5129]

I have a crush on a girl from my church since almost 5 years xD

[@SiennaG013]

@@dmkbnin5129 you should make a move! Especially bc it’s been 5 years there’s a chance she feels the same. Praying for you if you do end up doing something 🫶🏼🙏🏽

[@Barker1214]

They say there is no “one” but God brought my “one” to me. We met November 7th this year. I’ll tell you that you should focus on God, and when God gives you a gift, he writes his name all over it.

[@kingjam3s540]

at least you

[@frqubit]

My girlfriend wasn't Christian, but she didn't dislike Christians. She didn't know at first that I am Christian, and she appreciated how nice I can be. She was pretty surprised when I told her, but she's started looking into it and warming up to it. That's why I don't fully believe we should avoid unbelievers, because some may just be disconnected or lukewarm and need some help. Edit: I appreciate all the takes people have on this subject. I should clarify that she had been Christian before, but her family had discouraged her. I also made it very clear that my faith was more important and if she rejected that we would split. We're now praying together on a regular basis.

[@somethingtolearn5646]

No.1 rule is he/she should be a Christian

[@bronwilson2390]

I think the point is that you can't commit yourselves to them unless they are already Christian. It's amazing to help someone on their journey closer to God! But if they aren't there just yet, then it's always better to wait😁

[@somethingtolearn5646]

@@bronwilson2390 right 👍

[@frqubit]

On the wedding day, absolutely. She's seeing the light though. It's clear as day, she's more vibrant and joyful. We should definitely be careful, but if she just seems a little lost or lukewarm, there's no harm in giving it a chance. If you aren't sure, pray for guidance first.

[@missplainjane3905]

May she come to Christ

[@honeyandlavender_]

*Men,* “Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.” *Women,* remember what God told Samuel about outward appearances and what He did….

[@Doom0728]

Why should an all great and loving God be feared? Why should anyone care what the Bible says on this?

[@bam-dh6tj]

⁠​⁠@@Doom0728Fear of the Lord is belief in the Lord. You do not fear what you do not believe in. Fear is the Lord is useful as it persuades people to follow the Lords word. People should care about what the Bible says about this because the Bible is the truth of this world, and it holds wisdom and is Gods direct word. Anything God says should be followed.

[@Doom0728]

⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠@@bam-dh6tj Well, I’m an atheist who used to be a Christian For 16 years and that whole statement kind of falls flat on its face. A kind and loving person, let alone a God should not need to be feared. He’s basically forcing people to follow and believe in him out of fear? That doesn’t sound right or ethical… As for your Bible, I care very little about what it says as it is actually NOT the truth of the world. It doesn’t hold wisdom because everything in it is barbarian, immoral and contradictory. “Anything God says should be followed”. So you’re basically saying we should have blind obedience, and not question anything. Not very helpful or smart…

[@itsvick4255]

@@Doom0728 God doesn’t force anyone, we all have free will. You freely made the choice to become an atheist didn’t you? I’m very sorry if that sounded harsh. But God is love, He loved us so much that Jesus came in the form of flesh to die on the cross for our sins so that we may believe in that and be receive the gift of salvation. No one is forcing this, instead people want others to also receive this gift from God so that they may be saved. And if you truly love God and are truly saved, you would want to change your sinful ways and no longer do the things that He hates. We don’t live by the system of law anymore since it is the New Testament. However, how you live life should reflect your faith in God. And the “blind obedience” is the whole definition of faith. We are saved by grace through faith, and we are told to live life through faith. As an unbeliever this may sound crazy, but many don’t care what man has to say, rather than what God has to say

[@urielcastro3835]

@@Doom0728 its not fear in the same sense we think of it today. I see what you mean, I asked myself this question too about a year ago, since I'm fairly new to the faith. But to have the fear of the Lord is to have reverance, knowing that God has all power and knowledge. Knowing this causes you to run to God for help instead of away from Him. Knowing that God has all the answers you need makes you revere and respect God in a healthy fear that causes you to hate what is wrong. I hope that made some sense! I used to go to church for about 12 years and had these questions but I never knew God for myself, until 2020 when He gave me a dream and His Spirit fell upon me. I could never describe that experience but I Know that it was God and He changed me and I found that to be Jesus. I know Him NOW!! And He hasn't given up on you. People may misrepresent Him but He is known by His Word. I found that in the short time that I have been saved, that the church, and men often fail to live as Jesus says, but he doesn't call us to follow men but HIM (Jesus). He died for you, that you may not be held by sin and death, but be set free by His grace in FAITH not by a checklist or prayer. Jesus is the Way and Truth and the Life. Blessings.

[@luropodaai]

"Don't just trust how you feel, because our feelings always change."

[@Victor-ml8wr]

Don't try to find the one yourself because you won't, you need to ask God to bring the one to you

[@b.st.8050]

You are so right 🙏❤️

[@mrmrlee]

There's nothing in scripture to say there is only "one" for you, you are actually free to marry whomever you choose as long as they are likewise born again as you. By over spiritualizing everything, you are actually missing opportunities to simply meet and mingle and get to know people. That's how you will find the person you want, just be friends and let the relationship grow!

[@Victor-ml8wr]

@FruityPebbles111 I don't know how you can think that God (who loves all the same) will give everyone else a partner but not you? God loves marriage, he has created a partner for EVERYONE so no one will be left alone. Just because you might be ready that doesn't mean that your partner is ready, but one thing is for certain that if you don't stop believing I PROMISE YOU that he will bring you two together, it might take some time but the important thing is that it WILL happen, if you just focus on getting closer with God, you two might get together sooner than you think, God loves marriage, he has created it and wants to give that beautiful gift to EVERYONE, and i'm not saying this just because i believe in him, im saying this because he gave me my wife, what i had to do to get to that point was to get closer with him which means stop living in sin and start growing your relationship with God, you MUST have a relationship with him and not just go to church or read the bible but have a relationship with God like Father and son or like a best friend, in the bible God himself said that if you believe in him you can ask him for ANYTHING and he will give it to you (only if your motives are clean, for example if you ask him for a 1 million dollars just to spend them on cars and stuff he won't give it to you, but if it for something important like paying out a debt he will give it) so don't be discouraged because it takes time, everything good takes time, if you rush things they will break apart, so just focus on your relationship with God and he WILL give you your partner, he knows how much you want to be married, he HIMSELF desires REALLY MUCH for you to get married, he wants you to be married, if you read the Bible you will realize that God loves marriage, but a real marriage is the marriage that God is in, because every marriage without God results in divorce, so be sure not to forget about God when you receive what you want, and don't try to force it, you will only hurt yourself, so if you see someone that you think you like don't just jump and the first chance you get to be with them, you don't have to look for someone, God has already made the perfect person for you, the only thing you need to do is focus on getting closer with God and he will bring that person to you, you don't need to look for the person yourself, when the time is right he WILL bring you to together and you will be together for ever and you will never leave each other, you won't divorce because you will have God in your marriage, and whatever God gives you is yours to keep for eternity

[@von8357]

Proverbs 18:22 ; “he that FINDETH a wife finds a good thing” we have to seek for one on our own and take risks; not saying we won’t have to pray abt it, but have discernment on choosing the right one.

[@Victor-ml8wr]

@von8357 well don't you think that since God wants us to marry he won't prepare a spouse for you? So you just have to ask God and be patient and he will bring the spouse to you, by trying to find one yourself you are trusting your own ability instead of God and will go through pain and much suffering, God just gives you the spouse without any need for you to seek it, he has made a spouse for everyone

[@r9birth]

Hey guys please Pray for me. I'm going through this at the moment. Not marriage but feeling confused and worried about having a relationship with this particular person. I can't confirm if it's just me worrying or something else. I pray for clear discernment and that this person opens up their heart to accept Christ Jesus.

[@oliver2001]

I think this guy said in another video that you can try to fast to help with your decision.ill pray for you as well

[@lkae4]

It's not confusing. Don't date unbelievers. Hand her off to a sisters group and keep it moving.

[@danae5578]

I have the same problem, but the guy I am interested in, isn't there for me like I want to be there for him. So if I'm going to feel more alone with him, he's not for me. I hope it gets less confusing. Look at everything objectively not emotionally. I hope that helps. I'm going to miss him but I'll have to let him go.

[@psalm118v26]

Yes. There is no confusion. But making a hard choice in obedience to God. Do not yoke with unbeliever. Praying for strength be upon you and courage to obey God. Remember, obedience means blessings.. disobedience means curses.

[@r9birth]

@@oliver2001 Haha funny you say I just came off a fast this morning and I did pray about it and then saw this video get posted! hence why I'm feeling confused. Thank you so much I appreciate you and your kind words!

[@Goody-babe.]

As an 18 year old who just started college. Looking at all the other cute young couples around me made me feel left out. And here i was considering dating the first person who'd say i like you even if I don't like them. I've never been in love before I'm so glad i watched this. At this point in my life my priority should be GOD first. And i hooe to do just that. Give GOD my everything. When it's time things will fall in place according to gis will. Thanks a lot bro

[@izzye2866]

Your future spouse will really appreciate that!

[@wrongperson1692]

i remember once in high school, i had a crush on a boy in my school (my non-Christian public school) and then i found out he was super involved in MY church, just on a different campus. i also started going to a bible study at a friend’s house and realized he went to there too!! i thought it was perfect, i thought we were meant to be. that was until he stopped going to the bible studies, and i learned he only went cuz his friends went but they stopped going. he eventually got an unbeliever girlfriend. i fell out of love because i found out he was a Christian, but he wasn’t a man of God.

[@svnnahtafireyi]

Love that you were able to recognize the difference between a Christan and a Man of God!

[@EddieNarrea]

I'm sorry about that.

[@jujuoof174]

Darn, tough lesson but glad it ended well for you! God bless!❤

[@warriorofthelord4142]

You dodged the Bullet

[@nonsonoplainjane]

It does get lonely as a 25-year-old who's never met any man who loves me truly. But I figured out it's more important to be sufficient in God first before looking for a man. For there's no way we can meet true love, if we're not connected to the source of LOVE.

[@Babylion2311]

He’s got ya have a blessed day

[@thereal4815]

Amen, god bless you

[@djsterf]

Father, in Jesus' Name, bring people here who need healing from relational pain, and give them clear focus in seeing You as the lover of their soul. Grant them clarity and blessing in relationships that honor You. Help us all be fruitful and multiply in every area of our lives for Your glory. Bless people this month with favor and send Your angels to prepare the way for Your children to enter into the right marriage relationships, in Jesus' Name, Amen. Prov 18:22 ❤

[@EddieNarrea]

God bless you man.✝️❤️

[@a-b0t633]

I remember I bolted to my computer as soon as I watched my first Christian Mingle commercial. 😅 I prayed the wisest prayer of my life. "Please God don't let me waste my time on a man you don't want me with." I was ghosted by the first guy who contacted me. He wasn't the one. Then my husband messaged me and 13 years flew by. Last month was our 10th wedding anniversary. We're still in the honeymoon phase but i think it's gonna stick.

[@svnnahtafireyi]

that's amazing! very happy for you 🩷

[@jujuoof174]

GOD BLESS!❤ congrats! I’m very happy for you! Let’s praise the Lors for guiding you!

[@maddierocca7285]

as someone who was not a believer before getting with my now boyfriend it is important to be equally yoked. My boyfriend pushed me towards God and he took it into His own hands. We are now equally yoked and have the same values! There are still things we are working on but we know that whatever we go through God is the answer and we know we want to get married 🎉

[@jujuoof174]

Yippee! God bless!

[@king_vlad]

If your reading this please pray for me.I am struggling with my lustful temptations and its really taking a toll on me. Im really doubting my salvation and if god exists. I am starting to backslide so please pray for me 🙏❤

[@ImpactVideoMinistries]

i prayed for you

[@joehankers7176]

Salvation is a free gift

[@indigofenrir7236]

Same here. But here's the trick: whenever your body starts to feel the lust, yell out loud that you've offered your body to Jesus already (Romans 12:1). Memorize Colossians 3:17 and repeat it until the lust has yielded to God.

[@officialasim6772]

Romans 6:23 for the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ. A gift is free and of no cost, after all it is NOT our works that grant us salvation. I am still dealing with lust till this day, has it gotten better over time yes id say so but i still have more to change. One way I learn to defat temptations is with the verse that paul wrote to Timothy, Timothy 2:1-2 I think, "Be strengthned by the the GRACE that is in Christ Jesus!

[@-SonOfGod-]

I have some advice..don’t lose hope..you might feel as though you’ll never get better but keep fighting the good fight and repent and ask for help to change you’ll see a change in time but always believe that the lord is with you and you will make it..and I encourage you to attend a church tell them about your struggle so you can be encouraged.

[@khamelion7189]

After I tried my shot with a girl from church, after many past opportunities I had I felt this was the one... But she wasn't pursuing a relashionship right now/is looking forward to her dreams... I'm glad that God gave me an opportunity to be calm about it, I'm happy that I had the courage to say it, when I find the potential one.. I'll be ready with Him by my side!

[@kingpluto898]

Hello everyone , i know this is quite a random comment and all😅 but i just wanted to say I am a 19 year old Male who has been struggling with love and stuff yes i know i am Still young and all ,but all i wanted my Entire life literally since the moment of my first ever Crush was to get married and have a beautiful house with a bug garden and over the past few months ,and for my whole life ive been chasing women not caring about myself or nothing i would literally look at a female and if shes beautiful i would fall in love with her ,but i realized that ever since i gave my life to God last year that that cant be my goal for life anymore somethings need to be removed and Next year i have made a plan to try my best to focus on God, trying to improve my Fitness and Piano Skills and this video has helped me and made me realize that its not the end of the world if i dont get married one day ,If i have God i have all i need I know this is a long message 😅 but i hope u have a fantastic day. may God bless and keep you and your family safe to whoever is reading But i would also like to say Impact Ministries, YOUR videos are amazing. Keep up the good work, and im grateful to God that he led me to ur channel ✝️🙏🏼❤️

[@EddieNarrea]

What a lovely message God bless you.✝️♥️

[@jacobrobinson6603]

I'm coming up on being 16 years old so I'm still very young and have my whole life ahead of me. I met this one girl several months ago who was extremely Christian. I was in a dark place before talking to her but she made me want to grow my relationship with God and we both felt like we were meant to be with one another because everything just aligned. But the final month or so of us talking she was talking to me less and less and said she wasn't into me anymore and one of my buddies told me that he found out it was because she liked another guy. So ever since then I have felt like I may never find love when I'm older but I know deep down God has someone better out there for me to meet one day.

[@memetchipizza]

Praying for my sister to stop being in a unequally yoke relationship :(

[@mrmrlee]

If your sister is married, there is no scriptural permission to divorce, unless in case of adultery...God hates divorce, so if her husband is unsaved you pray for his salvation, not the end of the marriage. That's not God's will.

[@memetchipizza]

@@mrmrlee she is not married, is just in a relationship with someone who isn't Christian, she wants to marry him, that is why.

[@mrmrlee]

@@memetchipizza Then you are absolutely right, don't marry unequally!

[@WhoWellOk]

@@memetchipizzabecause of looks that why

[@andresgaming4378]

This is so helpful I’m on a church where there are a bunch of teens that some are in love but they need to hear this to make the right decisions for their life PLEASE PRAY FOR THEM GOD BLEESH YOU ALL!❤

[@ImpactVideoMinistries]

i prayed for them

[@andresgaming4378]

@@ImpactVideoMinistries thanks god bless you in this hard times

[@Praise___YaH]

Guys, Here is The TRUE Savior YaH The Heavenly FATHER (Genesis 1) HIMSELF was Who they Crucified/Pierced for our sins and “HERE IS THE PROOF” From the Ancient Semitic: "Yad He Vav He" is what Moshe (Moses) wrote, when Moses asked YaH His Name (Exodus 3) Ancient Semitic Direct Translation Yad - "Behold The Hand" He - "Behold the Breath" Vav - "Behold The NAIL"

[@ShontelBeaton]

I’m 22 year old woman. I’ve never been in a relationship, never kissed or been intimate and all my friends I know are in relationships, happily married or engaged. It seem like God want me single. Guys do approach me but they’re mostly unbeliever 😞

[@justinjohn5114]

@@ShontelBeaton I know it's a tough time for you but God is letting you go through this for a reason. Even I'm going through this. Looking at all those couples makes me feel like a true loser. But I'm not, neither are you. Trust in God and he'll show you the right person ☺️

[@vascomatos7653]

Please pray for a girl that was hit by a car today!!! She was going or leaving the cathecism and she needs help!!! I Think she can die or becoming disabled!!!

[@ImpactVideoMinistries]

i prayed

[@EddieNarrea]

I pray that she's ok, God bless the both of you. ♥️✝️

[@Stoac502]

I pray that she's okay ❤

[@yourlocaltrashbin9432]

@@vascomatos7653 How is she doing?? Is everyone alright? Prayers 🙏

[@cassandrapreston2196]

These videos have been hitting home recently. Thanks for all the work you’ve done

[@knights4eva981]

I purely clicked on this video to comment about how awesome the thumbnail looks. It's so detailed and accurate and has be dead laughing. I love it. ❤😂

[@pappa_panda]

God created everything and already knows what's gonna happen so its nice to know that i was created for a particular person... very romantic ❤

[@sadhawksfan12]

No matter how much I try to improve myself spiritually and socially, every christian girl I meet either ignores me or treats me like garbage. All I do is try to engage in natural, light-hearted conversation, yet nobody cares. I've had a fear for years now that nobody wants to marry me, and it just becomes more true by the day. I've asked God to give me peace for my situation time and time again, yet he won't do anything. As a result I feel trapped and very alone...

[@Acid0999]

Well first, what kind of christian treats other person that way? This is very alarming and not ok! Second: You have been worrying about getting married for years, you say? Well, me to! And thats the problem. Many people tend to focus all their attention on getting married, its very important and they are trying as much as possible to make that dream come true. And thats not what we sould do, we should put all our focus and attention on god! God should be the first priority, not getting married. God's will will happen anyway, so if it is his will for you to get married, it will happen! That means that you don't have to worry about it now. Instead, you can pray that the desire of getting married disappears, and the desire of living for god, serving him, reading his word etc grows. Pray that god will be your first priority. Trust him about his will, and ask him what his will for your life is. Remember this verse: Luke 12:31 31 But seek his kingdom, and these things will be given to you as well. First, seek his kingdom. Then, trust him that he will give you the other things (like a wife) as well! I prayed for you, now remember that god is with you!

[@kaisen5823]

brother, be discerning. no true Christian who lives by the word of God will treat others like garbage. and I'd like to add that God must be our first priority in everything, He is the big picture in all things. And other things will follow, be it finding the one, being your best self, and having good relationship.

[@sadhawksfan12]

​@Acid0999 my only problem with that is that I have been focusing on God. Or trying to, anyway. My relationship with him was going pretty good until this summer. Then he cut off communication with me. I prayed and did devotions daily, and he still wouldn't say anything to me like he did before. Now I'm mad at him, because he doesn't talk to me or answer any of my prayers. I ask for a girlfriend. Nothing. I ask for the opposite, which is to help me control my desires and focus on him and the good things of everyday life, and to have peace about the thought of the future. Didn't help me with that either. Isn't he known as the prince of peace? Because he sure hasn't given me any, even if I beg for it. I can't have God as the number one in my life if he keeps ignoring me and letting me down. My trust in him has been broken.

[@Doom0728]

@@sadhawksfan12 why not date an atheist then? Atheists are great!

[@acs1602]

​@@Doom0728In the name of Jesus begone with your bad insinuations!, He is a child of God

[@sebendipitous]

Waiting on God's timining honestly sucks in the moment, but it'll be worth it in the end. I'm trying to be patient, but Glory to God and our Glorious Savior Jesus, I'm going to wait on the Lord!

[@thereal4815]

God loves you, be steadfast and good in working for him and he will reward you.

[@Man_and_phone]

I don't worry about love i worry about spreading the gospel and repenting in this part of my life💯

[@chloengk_]

Marriage is a beautiful thing ❤❤❤

[@Cherrysburg]

I don’t even try anymore because I know that no one likes me, or will EVER like me.

[@martaswatek4157]

I can relate

[@svnnahtafireyi]

God loves you and he has someone for you! Don't allow the enemy to destroy your identity and tear down your self-esteem. By making this statement, you are stamping agreement with the lies of the enemy. God truly loves you friend!

[@smicro4469]

God loves you so much.

[@user-ux1jt9lb3n]

The reason no one likes you is because you have this exact mentality of how no one like you man up and stop being so sorry for yourself

[@RincyJoeEveVin]

Jesus loves you. Seek him first and all things will be added into you !

[@Marykate.smith1995]

I absolutely love your videos. I look forward to every single one you post each One of them in their own way helps me with the pacific topic you speak off and I think most Christian men and women struggle in finding their future spouse God knows that I’ve been struggling to find my future husband and 28 and still single. In my community if a girl my age wasn’t married she was left on the shelf as they say. but I know that God is taken care of the man who will be my future husband. I’m just not ready to meet him yet because Jesus knows my heart and feelings and I don’t want my feelings to get in the way of me loving God first. So the key is continue to be patient continue praying and continuing loving God with all that you’ve got he will deliver someone special to each one of us ❤

[@ImpactVideoMinistries]

Thanks so much for the kind words. Yeah, it can be hard choosing a spouse or even meeting someone suitable these days. We’ll definitely be praying for you.

[@Didymus_incredulus]

Never forget some are meant to remain single for the glory of God, that's also an option. I am not being pessimistic and understand the purpose of this video is for the ones searching for the one. But most of the time people forgive the prerequisite which is to ask God His all mighty plan for us. Keeping you all in my prayer, be blessed. Thank you for this very instructive video !

[@paweljasiekdawidziuk]

I am not even from USA but I love Your work and videos. Thanks to You I am trying to be better Christian and person. Thank You very much!

[@salomeadam1082]

wow.. there are no words that could describe how thankful I am for finding your channel.. through you, God speaks directly to my heart.. and the words and examples you use are full of wisdom and power! It's amazing how one can say soo many truthful and wise things and advices in less than 9 minutes! God's amazing and I thank Him for you! May He bless you richly, both heavenly and earthly! ♡

[@tblade_org]

1) Create Standards 2) Get Wisdom 3) Learn About Relationships 4) Stay In Prayer Nice Video!

[@markimbing8018]

I am currently doing an assignment on my opinion on whether true love exists. This video is helpful for that. Thank you! ❤

[@florinapleter7804]

"MY BELOVED ONE IS MORE BEAUTIFUL THAN THOUSANDS OF THOUSANDS"✝️💓🕊️

[@ddandrea]

In my case God told me who the one is right away. But He's been making me wait and go through a long healing journey first. He knows that marriage is the number one desire of my heart and if He didn't show me who the one is I wouldn't be pushing myself so hard to heal. I also would never be able to deal with the heartbreak of a failed relationship so it's nice to know ahead of time.

[@fixer1140]

In my case God told me "you're broke and ugly, but I like you".

[@iLikeDEERz]

​​@@fixer1140God was so excited with the idea and image of you in the beginning, that he had to bring ypu to life. Your blemishes and imperfections are absolutely perfect in God's eyes because *he* made you who you are. You are beautiful.

[@MythicBeanProductions]

Make God the number one desire of your heart and your healing will be easier and stronger and you will grow faster and stronger in him. I want to be married very much but I understand that it isn't supposed to be the thing I desire most because marriage can fail but God will not. I believe you should work hard to make yourself good for whoever you want to marry and you should work even harder to be better for God. In the end, if you never get married, you will still have him.

[@davidm4566]

We tend to make relationships an idol in our lives. That's awesome that God has revealed that to you. Take your time and let God work on you (and her as well).

[@DiamondWorldYoutube]

I don't want to get married i just want to be kissed by a girl at least 1 time in my life, then I'll die happy

[@Joseph-vy9er]

We should be opened to the idea that there is the possibility that there are MANY "THE ONE" as God is truely the One

[@lamulapaintservicespaintco458]

That was the best advice I ever heard, after 9 years of relationship I am alone and searching for God and I feel alone without my partner but I will do the 4 and hopefully God will introduce me to my future Wife. God bless you!

[@Didymus_incredulus]

I went through the same brother. What I can tell you is, focus on this period to get closer to God. Once in a relationship, time and lots of parameters drastically change (for the best, of course!) but will never be the same as the freedom of being single. We should enjoy the time God gives us for growing on knowledge and wisdom. Be blessed. Jesus loves you so much

[@henryrogers7284]

Praise the Lord brother, I was in prayer today that God with give me knowledge when it comes to finding the right woman to marry, and I told myself before going to bed that I was going to watch one yt video. Well this was the first video that popped up.

[@b.st.8050]

God is awesome 😂 I just thought and talked about this with my mom, and here he gives good advice. Thank you Lord and thank you brother 🙏❤️

[@monkaZETTA]

You can't find the one yourself. What if they're in a completely different city, or a completely different state, or a completely different country? Do you think you can do that in your own human strength or wisdom? Seek ye first the kingdom of God, and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added unto you. True peace is not in taking charge of your life, but in complete submission to God. It also demonstrates faith, which is crucial for pleasing Him.

[@madaleinem8109]

Amennnnn! Whoever you are may the almighty God bless you 🎉❤

[@Andre3k1823]

A lot of the things described about what you should look for in a person, describes my wife, who is not a follower of christ. I have failed her in many ways, But I can't honestly say she has truly believed in God or gave her life to God. But she has most definitely carried the weight of this family, And sacrifice a lot. We are now splitting. She has already move on to some other man. I ask for prayers for my son and I, I just wanna be able to have a house with him. And have a close relationship with God. I feel my wife has turned her back to God... Whatever little she believed in the first place.. My pastor said there's the difference between believing God exists and choosing to live by him, and put him first.

[@user-cu7jh7ux2k]

Thanks for giving me hope, brother. May your fountain be blessed and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth

[@ee.enhle_]

The "Always remember, Jesus loves you" at the end of every video really has done so much work in me and I never thought about it until I found it constantly playing in my head. It is really appreciated💚

[@redsoilstudiosreal]

All of this has been very helpful for me! I’ve been in a relationship for a while and it is definitely not all sunshine and rainbows, but all of this is so very true and helpful

[@pavelgaming5470]

this video gave me courage to text my crush. She is like the finest girl in church

[@cr7fannboiironaldo180]

Don't use looks bruh😭

[@user-in5vr2xz8i]

Thank you so much ❤🙌Glory be to the Holy One

[@BoughtByTheBlood]

My Pastor teaches that the most important factor in a potential spouse is that they must love God more than they love you, so that their love for God will give them the strength & motivation to do their part to make the marriage work. I think your videos are just AWESOME! God really uses them to minister to me & my Mom. Keep up the good work!

[@cadenhowell1386]

Thank you for this video! I’ve been seeking God about leading me to “the one” and getting worried that I may never find her. These past few weeks I’ve been seeking God for help and guidance in following Him so I can be the man she has called to marry, and I am called to be. I still haven’t found her yet, but I feel like I got this video in my recommended for a reason. Keep up the amazing videos!

[@VinisPiano]

This is a really helpful and deep knowledge about relationship, but when rejection comes and the person doesn't want you, it's really tough

[@jerrodcastillo8330]

Finding a girlfriend has been a struggle for me. I need lots of prayer in this area. I would greatly appreciate your prayers and I rebuke singleness

[@thezenlife4728]

I'm single again and yes it's so hard sometimes, and we question whether we will find our person but true it all we must realize that being single is not a curse it is an season we use to pursue God fully with less distractions. I too struggle with this sometimes but my daily prayer is for God to be number 1 and help me zoom on him while I have more control of my time, activities money and basic direction on my life. I also pray that God helps you in this.

[@jerrodcastillo8330]

@@thezenlife4728 thank you for the prayers and support. I too will pray for the process you are going thought✝️🙌🙏

[@KamiNoRanger99]

Same, never been on a date and I’m 32, but I’ll be praying for you

[@nathanmoreno4640]

Great job with the video! The Lord has anointed your channel with great wisdom. Continue walking with the Lord and He will continue to prosper your channel and bring glory to His name. May God richly bless you, brother!

[@erenmeii]

Thank you!!! I will always remember.. it's not about feelings!! I feed my mind a lot of bad standard from all romance novel I read. I need to learn about the "truth" that only God can provide. I'm waiting and praying.. someday :)

[@SladeChristian333]

I found her. Thanks to the One above.

[@Jamesbringoh]

My cousin was pondering getting married to a guy coming from Peru then she prayed about it for a while and got her answer from god and it was yes they are getting married soon

[@nellymckenna6552]

Thank you for this, also to add; Finding your person means meeting them, not searching for them. If you are (desperately & actively searching) stop. We shouldn't get a partner through our strength nor might. Read Gen 2:21-22; while man serves God, God makes/prepares a suitable helper for him. Men are not told to go fourth and search (as we usually assume) rather God brings the suitable helper to you as you rest in Him. Adam could have gotten a helper from the animals he was naming BUT they were not Suitable for him. Yet when God presented Eve, he called her his own and named her. She was first Suitable for him and in that, the helping came automatically. I picture it this way: You are busy serving God somewhere and God visits you. After your chat, He says, '' I want you to meet someone'', brings the person in and alas, it's the bone of your bones and the flesh of your flesh. Then God says ''Well, would you look at the time! I have a meeting somewhere, gotta disappear...'' and leaves you to bond😆 In short, Men, labour in God's work. Women, be transformed as you serve. Blessings.

[@1rgam3r]

Dude, SOLID council. Great job! (Been married over 25 years)

[@jacobrobinson6603]

I've been in a couple relationships where i've been with non-believers which at the time I wasn't focused on my faith and I was saying things I shouldn't have been and I was stuck in lust for a long time. It's been 11 months since I overcame lust, but even after I wasn't focusing on my faith like i should have. But then 3-4 months after, I met a girl who was very focused on her faith and she made me want to grow my relationship and be closer to God. Unfortunately we stopped talking because she wasnt giving clear communication like before and she was just talking to me less, but since then I have grown my relationship with God and have been focused on him. From time to time I fear I won't find the one, but I'm trusting the Lord to unite me with the right woman for me, because God's timing is perfect.

[@MythicBeanProductions]

Something ive been pondering is this. I don't think theres a specific person that God made us for or a person that was made for us. Rather when the time is right, God brings someone into your life as an option and maybe strongly recommends them to you by way of situations and interests. But i think he leaves the choice up to both of you as to whether or not you want to be together. Theres probably some holes in that argument but the idea of there being one specific person that God made specifically for you doesn't set right with me

[@Gaby-xw3lx]

I can feel that I will probably meet the right guy this year, specially after retaking my path to God after years of sin and not going to church because it’s “boring” to me. I feel like God is leading me into knowing the truth about myself and a possible mental problem I’ve dealt with since I can remember but never got a diagnosis and now after last night huge spiritual attack that I even saw the “prince of witchcraft” I know I’m in the right place and path. Please guys, never, NEVER get into manifestation or law of assumption (subliminals or anything that has to do with “loa”), that is just a cute way to do witchcraft without you knowing and God tried to warn me multiple times but never listened until now. Remember, God always has something better for us, do not rely on stuff that involves spirits that aren’t God’s. Blessings!

[@AimejrEyengue]

Thanks for this blessing advice.

[@AdeelKhan-uu2pv]

May God give us all knowledge and wisdom in this area in Jesus mighty name Lord i pray with FAITH!. AMEN!

[@laroldlee4242]

I have found the one GOD ALMIGHTY IN JESUS NAME AMEN

[@AlessiaTricaricoAllie]

I've been going through a tough breakup right now, I'm 30 and trying to keep the fear of ending up alone away from me with prayers. Your videos on the matter are a real comfort for me at this time.

[@Favvlatina]

I've never fallen in love but I'm also only in highschool, there's been a few boys who I've had my eyes on at different times. Each one has flawed in these Christian standards, but it's good to know that we're only like so young that God is still working in each of them. I hope I find a man of God, obviously if it's his will, in the future that will be "the one" for me. Thank you for this video!!

[@HomoEucharistica]

Usually, the best way to find a certain type of people is to become like that yourself. I mean, isn't it a bit hypocritical to require some characteristics from other people that even we ourselves don't meet? If you want to find a man of God, then you are to "seek God and His righteousness first" and to grow as His child. Godly women attracts godly men and vice versa, if they just have ears to hear and eyes to see... But as Christians, we ought not to forget to show clemency and be merciful to other people. We all flaw in every single Christian standard (some just more than others... and then there's me, the first of sinners) and there's always room to grow and improve.

[@Favvlatina]

@@HomoEucharistica Thank you so so much for this comment. I’ve been told I’m deep in my faith especially for someone my age, and an old soul. So it’s hard to find (even just friends) guys that are at my same level of mature. I’m not looking for someone at the moment because I definitely think I need to focus on my relationship with God before anything else. Thank you for this advice and I will continue to seek to be that person

[@HomoEucharistica]

@@Favvlatina There's no doubt you are very mature person, even for your age (though it's also well-known fact that girls are typically more mature than the boys at the same age). As someone who is not even 25 years old but finds himself from talking like 40-year-olds, I agree it's hard to find Christian friends who are around your age. I have few, and I'm very thankful to God for them... But on the other hand, we all are equally brothers and sisters in Christ. Just like there's no rich or poor, man or woman, in Christ, similarly there are no teenagers or seniors (in a certain sense). Surely we are to know all children of Heavenly Father, not just those of our generation. I would also add that having a partner and focusing on the relationship with God are not mutually exclusive. It's good to make sure you are ready before having a boyfriend, but don't make that an obstacle. People in marriage and people who live willingly in "celibacy" (lacking better term) for God have very same goal and destiny: to commend ourselves and one another and our whole life to Christ our God "as living sacrifice", to abide in Him and love Him with all our heart and soul and mind, and our neighbors as ourselves. The path to this is just a bit different for married people and the single. Both ways have their struggles and benefits. As a single, it's easier to focus on God (that's why St Paul recommended it to all), but in marriage you learn by experience what it really means to "love your neighbors as yourself"

[@ashwinpokhrel7809]

As an Atheist myself I can say most of what he says is true and can apply to literally anyone.

[@kzngaming7827]

HALLELUYAH!! I REALLY NEEDED THIS!! GOD TIMING IS PERFECT!! JESUS IS LORD!! IN JESUS NAME AMEN!! ✝️🕊🙏🏻🤍

[@Coool797]

It’s annoying cause the feeling is so strong it seems like absolute fact

[@fluffy-sz8by]

God is so good. Every time I have a question, Impact video ministries releases a video on that topic. Thank you IVM team for blessing us with this knowledge

[@therighteousoutlawrebel]

THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO 🥹🥰

[@iTechMedia-nv2bl]

Hello, I'm a first timer someone sent me this video, it's really educative and there's Alot to learn , I feel something for this person but I want to get to know him, I really want him to be a leader to me and not expect me to be perfect I'm human after all and sometimes I get scared , wondering if I'll be able to keep up, if he's willing to be a teacher then I'm willing to learn, cause I really admire his christian lifestyle, I'm a Christian girl too, but spending time with him and talking about God feels great he's such a good influence, and he's the kind of person I'll love God to bless me with as a husband 😊😊😊Amen 🙏🙏

[@CurlyCath07]

This videos truly gave a great impact in my christian life. Thank you very much! Glory to God ❤

[@kellymangwengwende3857]

I've been praying about this 😅

[@just_man209]

my friend ive known since year 4 I feel like is the "one" because she was next to me in my year 6 class photo, shes next to me in the yearbook, and we actually had a small crush on each other when we were in year 4. she goes to a catholic school but she isn't Christian.... yet. shes also really nice

[@SuperMetalyrics]

I stayed in prayer until it started feeling selfish.. then learned that there's a lotta ANGRY girls out there... Don't know if my being lonely was because I haven't filled out the rest of these prerequisites, or was I protected by the Merciful Father

[@Future_jira]

I’m not interested in a relationship currently but I’m planing on getting one in the future so this video was helpful in what to look for in a spouse

[@kaisen5823]

Thank you so much for making this video! Just the right time as i was in the midst of confusion regarding this topic. Thank you Lord!

[@mousy013]

How interesting, I have been giving Bible studies to my friend on courting, dating, and marriage. Then I see this video.

[@kyrshanborlangkkhongsit4194]

Amen thankyou so much Brother may God use you more powerful and bless you more and more Glory be to God 🙌🙌🙌🙌❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥🙏🙏🔥🔥

[@doriaenamorado6797]

Be a Christian should not be the only thing we should look for but we should look if they have the same values as us or they have good fruits or seeds

[@starbook5]

Amen 🙏 so true always trust in God and put God first and then a future wife and I hope to meet right person soon because I trust in God

[@HCoRE8]

This channel is a blessing. I really enjoy the content as a Christian. Keep up the good work!

[@rogueapache6467]

This is definitely what I needed to see, for I wanted to get married and have a family of my own through Christ, for I wanted a woman who loves Jesus more than me, and that i will can have God in our relationship. And just a side note is that I wanted to say that I literally thought "Yoke" was something about an egg the entire time.

[@leah3795]

Stay connected to God for guidance wisdom and protection Amen

[@honeixstuff]

Hey... - unrelated to the topic, but - could you please make a video on feeling unworthy (and non-sin rooted shame)? Or maybe perfection and perfectionism?

[@veerendraingale]

Buddy I kinda feel the same way too... and this maybe completely off the charts but if you'd like to share experiences or talk it out..hit me up!

[@slayr4170]

One thing my mentor told me was “yeah you may not be worthy, you may not be the best at whatever, but when has God conditioned his love on worthiness or works. That’s not love That’s fear, fear you’re not measuring up. And what does the Bible say about fear, perfect love casts out fear. Guess what God is love so he casts off fear, shame and the lot. So that’s from the enemy, not Jesus.” I hope this helps

[@honeixstuff]

There's what God told me: ● ‭‭2 Corinthians‬ ‭12:9‬ "But He said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.'" ● ‭‭Psalms‬ ‭8:2‬ "Through the praise of children and infants you have established a stronghold against your enemies, to silence the foe and the avenger. " And do you remember Gideon? "Yet, you have too many men with you‭‭ for me to give the Midianites into their hand, lest Israel boast over me, saying, ‘My own hand has saved me.'" (Judges 7:2) ● ‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭1:27‭-‬29‬ "But God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise; God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong." Well, isn't it the greatest of shame upon the devil that the weak, the imperfect, the small, the flawed, that these little human beans glorify the Lord?! He could lead His kingdom to glory by picture perfect mighty soldiers, but rather He chose man to carry His glory! Isn't it a shame upon the devil when little children cry out His victory, and the 'unworthy' and those once sinners wear His glory (that he wanted to have as his own so bad) and the crown of life? "God chose the lowly things of this world and the despised things-and the things that are not-to nullify the things that are, so that no one may boast before him." "Fear not, you're more precious than many sparrows!" "The very hairs on your hear are all numbered!" (Luke 12:7) "‭[...] put my tears in your bottle. Are they not in your book?"(Psalms 56:9) ‭ "The Lord your God is in your midst, a mighty one who will save; he will rejoice over you with gladness; he will quiet you by his love; he will exult over you with loud singing. " (Zephaniah‬ 3:17) He loves you so-so much, He cares for you, you mean the world to Him! He gave for you His Son, His Only One, and all the stars couldn't measure up to Him in worth! That is how much you're worth in the eyes of God! His love for you is deeper than the sea! God is good! 🧡💛🤍

[@honeixstuff]

Also! "Merim roshi" = He who lifts up my head. “[...]though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they are red like crimson, they shall become like wool. " - Isaiah 1:18

[@m.sofi.p]

I think this is an amazing video to show you how to search the one, but to find it is another story :’)

[@jes_1296]

In my defense about the creating self standard, I think we should make the kind of standard that fits us, not out partner but us. Like aside from both being believers, our standard should be reachable by ourselves. We can't just create a standard that we do not reach or like something that does not work for ourselves. Like for example, we want someone who's hard working but we do not do the same thing. That's not how standard should work. If we are creating a standard for a relationship, we should make sure that our standard is something that is also one of our life vocabulary. A relationship consist of two people with mutual feelings and understanding. So both should work well with standards that they can each reach. And I saw someone said "Make Him the One, and He will give you the one." Which I agree on. Doesn't mean we want to be in a relationship, doesn't always mean we should be in one. There's difference in wanting and needing to be in a romantic and Godly relationship. Before we look for the one, we should first look for the only One God, which is Jesus Christ.

[@jada-son9344]

Relationship was a big issue for me because I would fallen in love to easy by feelings, I was a easy target and said things I wish I didn’t say to the lord hope he forgives me

[@carlozulueta-de9hd]

This channel is like a biblical and Christian version of Psych2Go ‼️Awesome ‼️😃🪽👼😇👋🙏🤲📿🛐🧎🧎‍♀️🧎‍♂️

[@Desert-edDave]

So much love of self when focusing on finding 'the one'. Focus on God, a relationship with Him, not selfish desires. There's more to life than a trying to find affirmation in a mate and singleness is a blessing(scripturally).

[@N.O.W.826]

Thanks Impact Video Ministries for sharing this powerful message. Keep sharing God's word and truth. Amen. Amen. Amen.

[@HomoEucharistica]

I just want to add that even though God knows who is gonna marry who, that doesn't mean people are somehow "predestined" to belong to each other. There's always freedom to make bad choices and good choices.

[@Melody-kc1tg]

I'm not personally Christian, but I think people with different religions can get along sometimes. Like a Christian and someone from a different religion could get along as friends. Though I will say that if you do dating with other religions there might be a bit of a problem if you two just have completely different beliefs from each other.

[@sharkinator7819]

Christian here and I must say, you aren’t wrong

[@Mr.Doggo83]

I always felt alone, until I realized the one was always with me. His name is Jesus Christ. Psalms 23: "The LORD is my shepherd, I lack nothing."

[@Suavemente_Enjoyer]

These thumbnails are great, keep up the good work, brother! ❤

[@charles3997]

Two necessary things to enter into a relationship: 1. They’re Christian 2. You’re PHYSICALLY attracted to them. Edit: #2 is not absolutely necessary, but it does describe the ideal circumstances for the start of a relationship.

[@indigofenrir7236]

Number 2 is a bad criterion. It's not about physical appearance because age makes beauty and your eyesight disappear. Appearances start a relationship, but personality maintains it.

[@charles3997]

@@indigofenrir7236 yeah I was listing basic prerequisites for entering a relationship

[@tainoloco2361]

@@indigofenrir7236it’s not bad, it’s actually somewhat important to find your spouse attractive. But it’s not the most important thing in marriage because their personality and their relationship with the Lord is more important

[@davidm4566]

It's a lot more than that. Narcissists can be attractive and pretend to be a Christian (unfortunately I know the sting of narcissistic emotional abuse and discard first hand). We need God's wisdom and the closer we get to God and the more we get on the Bible, the easier it gets to borrow his wisdom.

[@DamslettesSIMP]

@indigofenrir7236 though we have to account that beautiful/handsome=healthy

[@random_mf6918]

I didn't have a chance to grow up because i got into the pandemic, but maybe god will know the day i will met her. But im still young so ill be patient from now on

[@Ndapandajoseph23]

This channel is so helpful ❤️