How to find "THE ONE"

[@indigofenrir7236]

Make God the ‘One’ and He will find the 'one' for you.

[@ehallam08]

Fact

[@noir_hero7294]

Very true✝️💯

[@DaudiHennig]

Facts

[@junior_-3218]

my first reaction when i saw the title

[@justsomeone2832]

I like how you change the O to describe which one is more important, you get a star 🌟

[@bloom7722]

as 21 year old who has never been in love, it can get lonely but yes God's timing is perfect! THANK YOU for this video.

[@sirzorg5728]

26 looking at 27, with no real hope for ever finding anyone, let alone "the one". I wish I were 21 again. You can't be passive about this. You need to go out of your way to meet potential partners. I've heard that many parishes sometimes organize social events to help people like us meet others looking for love, but my church doesn't have anything like that because there are so few young people in the church that there isn't much point. I don't know where to turn at this point, but I trust God will help me out.

[@sirzorg5728]

This is crazy, but I looked back at your channel, and you have a beautiful voice, you are my age, you are single, and you clearly love God. This is absolutely insane of me, especially from a youtube comments section, but I'm gonna say I'd like to get to know you better, somehow.

[@davidm4566]

Unfortunately I married the wrong person. I married a narcissistic woman who treated me great at first but then slowly began her emotional abuse before leaving me. Take it from me, someone who has been single, married, and now divorced, it's way better to be single and wait for the *right* person. Feeling alone when you are married to the wrong person and then being on your own through divorce is so much more painful. God's got this. When someone you're interested comes along, do yourself a favor and pray right away that he reveals his plan and direction for you regarding them.

[@davidm4566]

@@sirzorg5728 the best way to meet someone is by living your life. Do stuff you enjoy, have fun with friends, and be yourself (maybe tweak a couple things to improve yourself if necessary). Everyone says that it generally happens when you're not looking for it. And 27 is nothing today. You still have time. But put it in God's timing, which is way better than ours.

[@xcobyxzei]

Your 21! You’re so young! I’m 34, trust me I’m lonely

[@jonathanmax7502]

"In a marriage you need more than just a cute face"👌 Thanks!

[@indigofenrir7236]

Yeah, you need money for expenses. True love by itself cannot pay for groceries and utility bills.

[@frqubit]

@@indigofenrir7236 God will provide.

[@Wetrustinknowledge]

​@@indigofenrir7236that's not the point but yeah

[@GodLovesUs.LoveOurGod]

Yes, the heart of the person is most important! A heart for God and inner beauty!

[@animelover-n4j6v]

@@GodLovesUs.LoveOurGod ok

[@ivegotajousyaccent99]

There’s a young lady in my church that I’ve had a crush on since the day I first visited this church nearly two years ago. I’ve been a member for a year now, but I believe that the Lord is holding me back from pursuing her, for now, in order for me to to focus on Him and my walk with Him. I pray about my feelings for her everyday, and I pray for the patience to wait for the right time to pursue her. She’s the first young lady I’ve developed feelings for since I was born again, and I believe God has given me these feelings in my heart for a reason. I will continue to wait on the Lord and His perfect timing for this relationship to happen, if it’s in His will. So glad I found this channel since I began my walk with Jesus. Thank you for the reminder at the end of every video that “Jesus loves you.” It’s such a wonderful thing to remember every single day.

[@Lili-Benovent]

Keep putting it off and she'll run away with a used car salesman and get married in Las Vegas, when this happens you can blame the invisible guy in the sky for wasting your time.

[@silent3226]

remember that God steers the boat but you must row. If you like her you need to take action, after all love is sacrifice, so you need to put yourself at risk of breaking your heart so you can have the chance of something beautiful happen(even if she breaks your heart Jesus will be there to confort you!). Praying for you my friend. This is an analogy you could use, Jesus wasnt wating for the Father to crucify him, Jesus took action believing in the Father and that lead to the most beautiful thing in the universe(his sacrifice for us)

[@SiennaG013]

You are right, After all Gods timing is perfect!❤️🙏🏽

[@dmkbnin5129]

I have a crush on a girl from my church since almost 5 years xD

[@SiennaG013]

@@dmkbnin5129 you should make a move! Especially bc it’s been 5 years there’s a chance she feels the same. Praying for you if you do end up doing something 🫶🏼🙏🏽

[@Barker1214]

They say there is no “one” but God brought my “one” to me. We met November 7th this year. I’ll tell you that you should focus on God, and when God gives you a gift, he writes his name all over it.

[@Meaincubus]

at least you

[@GREYSYFITNESS]

@@Barker1214 this is absolutely beautiful. God bless u & your beautiful marriage. 🤍🙏🏽

[@ihavekalashnikovyoudomath9275]

With how oblivious I am, God needs to write his name all over it, put it in bold, highlight, stick it in a hi-vis vest, have airplane guide lights, and a megaphone saying it's for me

[@wrongperson1692]

i remember once in high school, i had a crush on a boy in my school (my non-Christian public school) and then i found out he was super involved in MY church, just on a different campus. i also started going to a bible study at a friend’s house and realized he went to there too!! i thought it was perfect, i thought we were meant to be. that was until he stopped going to the bible studies, and i learned he only went cuz his friends went but they stopped going. he eventually got an unbeliever girlfriend. i fell out of love because i found out he was a Christian, but he wasn’t a man of God.

[@svnnahtafireyi]

Love that you were able to recognize the difference between a Christan and a Man of God!

[@EddieNarrea]

I'm sorry about that.

[@jujuoof174]

Darn, tough lesson but glad it ended well for you! God bless!❤

[@warriorofthelord4142]

You dodged the Bullet

[@DoomguyIsGrinningAtYou.]

​@@svnnahtafireyi What's sad is there shouldn't even be a difference...

[@maddierocca7285]

as someone who was not a believer before getting with my now boyfriend it is important to be equally yoked. My boyfriend pushed me towards God and he took it into His own hands. We are now equally yoked and have the same values! There are still things we are working on but we know that whatever we go through God is the answer and we know we want to get married 🎉

[@jujuoof174]

Yippee! God bless!

[@r9birth]

Hey guys please Pray for me. I'm going through this at the moment. Not marriage but feeling confused and worried about having a relationship with this particular person. I can't confirm if it's just me worrying or something else. I pray for clear discernment and that this person opens up their heart to accept Christ Jesus.

[@oliver2001]

I think this guy said in another video that you can try to fast to help with your decision.ill pray for you as well

[@lkae4]

It's not confusing. Don't date unbelievers. Hand her off to a sisters group and keep it moving.

[@Danae78]

I have the same problem, but the guy I am interested in, isn't there for me like I want to be there for him. So if I'm going to feel more alone with him, he's not for me. I hope it gets less confusing. Look at everything objectively not emotionally. I hope that helps. I'm going to miss him but I'll have to let him go.

[@psalm118v26]

Yes. There is no confusion. But making a hard choice in obedience to God. Do not yoke with unbeliever. Praying for strength be upon you and courage to obey God. Remember, obedience means blessings.. disobedience means curses.

[@r9birth]

@@oliver2001 Haha funny you say I just came off a fast this morning and I did pray about it and then saw this video get posted! hence why I'm feeling confused. Thank you so much I appreciate you and your kind words!

[@nonsonoplainjane]

It does get lonely as a 25-year-old who's never met any man who loves me truly. But I figured out it's more important to be sufficient in God first before looking for a man. For there's no way we can meet true love, if we're not connected to the source of LOVE.

[@Babylion2311]

He’s got ya have a blessed day

[@thereal4815]

Amen, god bless you

[@OnwardsUpwardsMinistries]

As a 26 year old who’s only ever had one relationship in my life, I can’t stress enough how important it is to put God first before pursuing a relationship. Matthew 6:33 says, “But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all of these things shall be added to you”. God is a being of infinite wisdom, and you need to draw on His wisdom when making the decision of choosing your lifetime partner. My previous partner and I were both new in our faith at the time, and trust me, things went sideways because of our weakness in spirit. Don’t rush the process. Patiently wait for God to reveal the right one for you with His perfect timing!

[@luropodaai]

"Don't just trust how you feel, because our feelings always change."

[@honeyandlavender_]

*Men,* “Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.” *Women,* remember what God told Samuel about outward appearances and what He did….

[@Doom0728]

Why should an all great and loving God be feared? Why should anyone care what the Bible says on this?

[@bam-dh6tj]

⁠​⁠@@Doom0728Fear of the Lord is belief in the Lord. You do not fear what you do not believe in. Fear is the Lord is useful as it persuades people to follow the Lords word. People should care about what the Bible says about this because the Bible is the truth of this world, and it holds wisdom and is Gods direct word. Anything God says should be followed.

[@Doom0728]

⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠@@bam-dh6tj Well, I’m an atheist who used to be a Christian For 16 years and that whole statement kind of falls flat on its face. A kind and loving person, let alone a God should not need to be feared. He’s basically forcing people to follow and believe in him out of fear? That doesn’t sound right or ethical… As for your Bible, I care very little about what it says as it is actually NOT the truth of the world. It doesn’t hold wisdom because everything in it is barbarian, immoral and contradictory. “Anything God says should be followed”. So you’re basically saying we should have blind obedience, and not question anything. Not very helpful or smart…

[@itsvick4255]

@@Doom0728 God doesn’t force anyone, we all have free will. You freely made the choice to become an atheist didn’t you? I’m very sorry if that sounded harsh. But God is love, He loved us so much that Jesus came in the form of flesh to die on the cross for our sins so that we may believe in that and be receive the gift of salvation. No one is forcing this, instead people want others to also receive this gift from God so that they may be saved. And if you truly love God and are truly saved, you would want to change your sinful ways and no longer do the things that He hates. We don’t live by the system of law anymore since it is the New Testament. However, how you live life should reflect your faith in God. And the “blind obedience” is the whole definition of faith. We are saved by grace through faith, and we are told to live life through faith. As an unbeliever this may sound crazy, but many don’t care what man has to say, rather than what God has to say

[@urielcastro3835]

@@Doom0728 its not fear in the same sense we think of it today. I see what you mean, I asked myself this question too about a year ago, since I'm fairly new to the faith. But to have the fear of the Lord is to have reverance, knowing that God has all power and knowledge. Knowing this causes you to run to God for help instead of away from Him. Knowing that God has all the answers you need makes you revere and respect God in a healthy fear that causes you to hate what is wrong. I hope that made some sense! I used to go to church for about 12 years and had these questions but I never knew God for myself, until 2020 when He gave me a dream and His Spirit fell upon me. I could never describe that experience but I Know that it was God and He changed me and I found that to be Jesus. I know Him NOW!! And He hasn't given up on you. People may misrepresent Him but He is known by His Word. I found that in the short time that I have been saved, that the church, and men often fail to live as Jesus says, but he doesn't call us to follow men but HIM (Jesus). He died for you, that you may not be held by sin and death, but be set free by His grace in FAITH not by a checklist or prayer. Jesus is the Way and Truth and the Life. Blessings.

[@Victor-ml8wr]

Don't try to find the one yourself because you won't, you need to ask God to bring the one to you

[@b.st.8050]

You are so right 🙏❤️

[@mrmrlee]

There's nothing in scripture to say there is only "one" for you, you are actually free to marry whomever you choose as long as they are likewise born again as you. By over spiritualizing everything, you are actually missing opportunities to simply meet and mingle and get to know people. That's how you will find the person you want, just be friends and let the relationship grow!

[@Victor-ml8wr]

@FruityPebbles111 I don't know how you can think that God (who loves all the same) will give everyone else a partner but not you? God loves marriage, he has created a partner for EVERYONE so no one will be left alone. Just because you might be ready that doesn't mean that your partner is ready, but one thing is for certain that if you don't stop believing I PROMISE YOU that he will bring you two together, it might take some time but the important thing is that it WILL happen, if you just focus on getting closer with God, you two might get together sooner than you think, God loves marriage, he has created it and wants to give that beautiful gift to EVERYONE, and i'm not saying this just because i believe in him, im saying this because he gave me my wife, what i had to do to get to that point was to get closer with him which means stop living in sin and start growing your relationship with God, you MUST have a relationship with him and not just go to church or read the bible but have a relationship with God like Father and son or like a best friend, in the bible God himself said that if you believe in him you can ask him for ANYTHING and he will give it to you (only if your motives are clean, for example if you ask him for a 1 million dollars just to spend them on cars and stuff he won't give it to you, but if it for something important like paying out a debt he will give it) so don't be discouraged because it takes time, everything good takes time, if you rush things they will break apart, so just focus on your relationship with God and he WILL give you your partner, he knows how much you want to be married, he HIMSELF desires REALLY MUCH for you to get married, he wants you to be married, if you read the Bible you will realize that God loves marriage, but a real marriage is the marriage that God is in, because every marriage without God results in divorce, so be sure not to forget about God when you receive what you want, and don't try to force it, you will only hurt yourself, so if you see someone that you think you like don't just jump and the first chance you get to be with them, you don't have to look for someone, God has already made the perfect person for you, the only thing you need to do is focus on getting closer with God and he will bring that person to you, you don't need to look for the person yourself, when the time is right he WILL bring you to together and you will be together for ever and you will never leave each other, you won't divorce because you will have God in your marriage, and whatever God gives you is yours to keep for eternity

[@von8357]

Proverbs 18:22 ; “he that FINDETH a wife finds a good thing” we have to seek for one on our own and take risks; not saying we won’t have to pray abt it, but have discernment on choosing the right one.

[@Victor-ml8wr]

@von8357 well don't you think that since God wants us to marry he won't prepare a spouse for you? So you just have to ask God and be patient and he will bring the spouse to you, by trying to find one yourself you are trusting your own ability instead of God and will go through pain and much suffering, God just gives you the spouse without any need for you to seek it, he has made a spouse for everyone

[@frqubit]

My girlfriend wasn't Christian, but she didn't dislike Christians. She didn't know at first that I am Christian, and she appreciated how nice I can be. She was pretty surprised when I told her, but she's started looking into it and warming up to it. That's why I don't fully believe we should avoid unbelievers, because some may just be disconnected or lukewarm and need some help. Edit: I appreciate all the takes people have on this subject. I should clarify that she had been Christian before, but her family had discouraged her. I also made it very clear that my faith was more important and if she rejected that we would split. We're now praying together on a regular basis.

[@somethingtolearn5646]

No.1 rule is he/she should be a Christian

[@bronwilson2390]

I think the point is that you can't commit yourselves to them unless they are already Christian. It's amazing to help someone on their journey closer to God! But if they aren't there just yet, then it's always better to wait😁

[@somethingtolearn5646]

@@bronwilson2390 right 👍

[@frqubit]

On the wedding day, absolutely. She's seeing the light though. It's clear as day, she's more vibrant and joyful. We should definitely be careful, but if she just seems a little lost or lukewarm, there's no harm in giving it a chance. If you aren't sure, pray for guidance first.

[@missplainjane3905]

May she come to Christ

[@khamelion7189]

After I tried my shot with a girl from church, after many past opportunities I had I felt this was the one... But she wasn't pursuing a relashionship right now/is looking forward to her dreams... I'm glad that God gave me an opportunity to be calm about it, I'm happy that I had the courage to say it, when I find the potential one.. I'll be ready with Him by my side!

[@a-b0t633]

I remember I bolted to my computer as soon as I watched my first Christian Mingle commercial. 😅 I prayed the wisest prayer of my life. "Please God don't let me waste my time on a man you don't want me with." I was ghosted by the first guy who contacted me. He wasn't the one. Then my husband messaged me and 13 years flew by. Last month was our 10th wedding anniversary. We're still in the honeymoon phase but i think it's gonna stick.

[@svnnahtafireyi]

that's amazing! very happy for you 🩷

[@jujuoof174]

GOD BLESS!❤ congrats! I’m very happy for you! Let’s praise the Lors for guiding you!

[@djsterf]

Father, in Jesus' Name, bring people here who need healing from relational pain, and give them clear focus in seeing You as the lover of their soul. Grant them clarity and blessing in relationships that honor You. Help us all be fruitful and multiply in every area of our lives for Your glory. Bless people this month with favor and send Your angels to prepare the way for Your children to enter into the right marriage relationships, in Jesus' Name, Amen. Prov 18:22 ❤

[@EddieNarrea]

God bless you man.✝️❤️

[@Andrewshorts07]

This is so helpful I’m on a church where there are a bunch of teens that some are in love but they need to hear this to make the right decisions for their life PLEASE PRAY FOR THEM GOD BLEESH YOU ALL!❤

[@ImpactVideoMinistries]

i prayed for them

[@Andrewshorts07]

@@ImpactVideoMinistries thanks god bless you in this hard times

[@Praise___YaH]

Guys, Here is The TRUE Savior YaH The Heavenly FATHER (Genesis 1) HIMSELF was Who they Crucified/Pierced for our sins and “HERE IS THE PROOF” From the Ancient Semitic: "Yad He Vav He" is what Moshe (Moses) wrote, when Moses asked YaH His Name (Exodus 3) Ancient Semitic Direct Translation Yad - "Behold The Hand" He - "Behold the Breath" Vav - "Behold The NAIL"

[@ItsMeZee-c9k]

@@ImpactVideoMinistries Is it okay for teens to date?

[@Man_and_phone]

I don't worry about love i worry about spreading the gospel and repenting in this part of my life💯

[@memetchipizza]

Praying for my sister to stop being in a unequally yoke relationship :(

[@mrmrlee]

If your sister is married, there is no scriptural permission to divorce, unless in case of adultery...God hates divorce, so if her husband is unsaved you pray for his salvation, not the end of the marriage. That's not God's will.

[@memetchipizza]

@@mrmrlee she is not married, is just in a relationship with someone who isn't Christian, she wants to marry him, that is why.

[@mrmrlee]

@@memetchipizza Then you are absolutely right, don't marry unequally!

[@sebendipitous]

Waiting on God's timining honestly sucks in the moment, but it'll be worth it in the end. I'm trying to be patient, but Glory to God and our Glorious Savior Jesus, I'm going to wait on the Lord!

[@thereal4815]

God loves you, be steadfast and good in working for him and he will reward you.

[@king_vlad]

If your reading this please pray for me.I am struggling with my lustful temptations and its really taking a toll on me. Im really doubting my salvation and if god exists. I am starting to backslide so please pray for me 🙏❤

[@ImpactVideoMinistries]

i prayed for you

[@joehankers7176]

Salvation is a free gift

[@indigofenrir7236]

Same here. But here's the trick: whenever your body starts to feel the lust, yell out loud that you've offered your body to Jesus already (Romans 12:1). Memorize Colossians 3:17 and repeat it until the lust has yielded to God.

[@officialasim6772]

Romans 6:23 for the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ. A gift is free and of no cost, after all it is NOT our works that grant us salvation. I am still dealing with lust till this day, has it gotten better over time yes id say so but i still have more to change. One way I learn to defat temptations is with the verse that paul wrote to Timothy, Timothy 2:1-2 I think, "Be strengthned by the the GRACE that is in Christ Jesus!

[@-SonOfGod-]

I have some advice..don’t lose hope..you might feel as though you’ll never get better but keep fighting the good fight and repent and ask for help to change you’ll see a change in time but always believe that the lord is with you and you will make it..and I encourage you to attend a church tell them about your struggle so you can be encouraged.

[@florinapleter7804]

"MY BELOVED ONE IS MORE BEAUTIFUL THAN THOUSANDS OF THOUSANDS"✝️💓🕊️

[@cassandrapreston2196]

These videos have been hitting home recently. Thanks for all the work you’ve done

[@vascomatos7653]

Please pray for a girl that was hit by a car today!!! She was going or leaving the cathecism and she needs help!!! I Think she can die or becoming disabled!!!

[@ImpactVideoMinistries]

i prayed

[@EddieNarrea]

I pray that she's ok, God bless the both of you. ♥️✝️

[@Stoac502]

I pray that she's okay ❤

[@yourlocaltrashbin9432]

@@vascomatos7653 How is she doing?? Is everyone alright? Prayers 🙏

[@Bunnygottalive]

Hi, it’s ten months later, I’m curious how she is ? Is she alright?

[@Cherrysburg]

I don’t even try anymore because I know that no one likes me, or will EVER like me.

[@martaswatek4157]

I can relate

[@svnnahtafireyi]

God loves you and he has someone for you! Don't allow the enemy to destroy your identity and tear down your self-esteem. By making this statement, you are stamping agreement with the lies of the enemy. God truly loves you friend!

[@smicro4469]

God loves you so much.

[@ArtemiiShalan]

The reason no one likes you is because you have this exact mentality of how no one like you man up and stop being so sorry for yourself

[@RincyJoeEveVin]

Jesus loves you. Seek him first and all things will be added into you !

[@sadhawksfan12]

No matter how much I try to improve myself spiritually and socially, every christian girl I meet either ignores me or treats me like garbage. All I do is try to engage in natural, light-hearted conversation, yet nobody cares. I've had a fear for years now that nobody wants to marry me, and it just becomes more true by the day. I've asked God to give me peace for my situation time and time again, yet he won't do anything. As a result I feel trapped and very alone...

[@Acid0999]

Well first, what kind of christian treats other person that way? This is very alarming and not ok! Second: You have been worrying about getting married for years, you say? Well, me to! And thats the problem. Many people tend to focus all their attention on getting married, its very important and they are trying as much as possible to make that dream come true. And thats not what we sould do, we should put all our focus and attention on god! God should be the first priority, not getting married. God's will will happen anyway, so if it is his will for you to get married, it will happen! That means that you don't have to worry about it now. Instead, you can pray that the desire of getting married disappears, and the desire of living for god, serving him, reading his word etc grows. Pray that god will be your first priority. Trust him about his will, and ask him what his will for your life is. Remember this verse: Luke 12:31 31 But seek his kingdom, and these things will be given to you as well. First, seek his kingdom. Then, trust him that he will give you the other things (like a wife) as well! I prayed for you, now remember that god is with you!

[@kaisen5823]

brother, be discerning. no true Christian who lives by the word of God will treat others like garbage. and I'd like to add that God must be our first priority in everything, He is the big picture in all things. And other things will follow, be it finding the one, being your best self, and having good relationship.

[@sadhawksfan12]

​@Acid0999 my only problem with that is that I have been focusing on God. Or trying to, anyway. My relationship with him was going pretty good until this summer. Then he cut off communication with me. I prayed and did devotions daily, and he still wouldn't say anything to me like he did before. Now I'm mad at him, because he doesn't talk to me or answer any of my prayers. I ask for a girlfriend. Nothing. I ask for the opposite, which is to help me control my desires and focus on him and the good things of everyday life, and to have peace about the thought of the future. Didn't help me with that either. Isn't he known as the prince of peace? Because he sure hasn't given me any, even if I beg for it. I can't have God as the number one in my life if he keeps ignoring me and letting me down. My trust in him has been broken.

[@Doom0728]

@@sadhawksfan12 why not date an atheist then? Atheists are great!

[@acs1602]

​@@Doom0728In the name of Jesus begone with your bad insinuations!, He is a child of God

[@Aya_is_a_gamer]

God created everything and already knows what's gonna happen so its nice to know that i was created for a particular person... very romantic ❤

[@kingpluto898]

Hello everyone , i know this is quite a random comment and all😅 but i just wanted to say I am a 19 year old Male who has been struggling with love and stuff yes i know i am Still young and all ,but all i wanted my Entire life literally since the moment of my first ever Crush was to get married and have a beautiful house with a bug garden and over the past few months ,and for my whole life ive been chasing women not caring about myself or nothing i would literally look at a female and if shes beautiful i would fall in love with her ,but i realized that ever since i gave my life to God last year that that cant be my goal for life anymore somethings need to be removed and Next year i have made a plan to try my best to focus on God, trying to improve my Fitness and Piano Skills and this video has helped me and made me realize that its not the end of the world if i dont get married one day ,If i have God i have all i need I know this is a long message 😅 but i hope u have a fantastic day. may God bless and keep you and your family safe to whoever is reading But i would also like to say Impact Ministries, YOUR videos are amazing. Keep up the good work, and im grateful to God that he led me to ur channel ✝️🙏🏼❤️

[@EddieNarrea]

What a lovely message God bless you.✝️♥️

[@jacobrobinson6603]

I'm coming up on being 16 years old so I'm still very young and have my whole life ahead of me. I met this one girl several months ago who was extremely Christian. I was in a dark place before talking to her but she made me want to grow my relationship with God and we both felt like we were meant to be with one another because everything just aligned. But the final month or so of us talking she was talking to me less and less and said she wasn't into me anymore and one of my buddies told me that he found out it was because she liked another guy. So ever since then I have felt like I may never find love when I'm older but I know deep down God has someone better out there for me to meet one day.

[@knights4eva981]

I purely clicked on this video to comment about how awesome the thumbnail looks. It's so detailed and accurate and has be dead laughing. I love it. ❤😂

[@Marykate.smith1995]

I absolutely love your videos. I look forward to every single one you post each One of them in their own way helps me with the pacific topic you speak off and I think most Christian men and women struggle in finding their future spouse God knows that I’ve been struggling to find my future husband and 28 and still single. In my community if a girl my age wasn’t married she was left on the shelf as they say. but I know that God is taken care of the man who will be my future husband. I’m just not ready to meet him yet because Jesus knows my heart and feelings and I don’t want my feelings to get in the way of me loving God first. So the key is continue to be patient continue praying and continuing loving God with all that you’ve got he will deliver someone special to each one of us ❤

[@ImpactVideoMinistries]

Thanks so much for the kind words. Yeah, it can be hard choosing a spouse or even meeting someone suitable these days. We’ll definitely be praying for you.

[@salomeadam1082]

wow.. there are no words that could describe how thankful I am for finding your channel.. through you, God speaks directly to my heart.. and the words and examples you use are full of wisdom and power! It's amazing how one can say soo many truthful and wise things and advices in less than 9 minutes! God's amazing and I thank Him for you! May He bless you richly, both heavenly and earthly! ♡

[@Didymus_incredulus]

Never forget some are meant to remain single for the glory of God, that's also an option. I am not being pessimistic and understand the purpose of this video is for the ones searching for the one. But most of the time people forgive the prerequisite which is to ask God His all mighty plan for us. Keeping you all in my prayer, be blessed. Thank you for this very instructive video !

[@MS-1917]

@@Didymus_incredulus being single sucks. I am 50s never married.

[@amitbhu]

@@MS-1917 yeah almost all the characters in the bible were married too you can serve god through your family, much greater impact

[@red_phoenix0570]

I need a little advice, if anyone sees this comment by chance. I'm a Christian guy, been single my whole life, and very deeply desire to be married. I'm fairly young still (19) but I want to make sure I'm doing things right. I have heard very conflicting pieces of advise and dont really know what to do. I have heard from some that if I want to be married I need to go out and actively pursue finding a wife. I don't even know where to start there, that's about as deep as that advice goes. But I have also been told a number of times that I shouldn't go looking for them, and that I should just focus on my relationship with God and working on myself and they will come to me in God's timing. I know God often wants us to do things for ourselves, but also sometimes he gives us gifts without our input. What should I do? I want to do right by God but I also don't want to be alone forever. It's very painful.

[@IsabellaVallejo-v8j]

That’s a really tough question to get advice for just because all experiences are different but that’s what makes love and the Lord so awesome!! I’d say definitely keep pursuing your relationship with the Lord because that should always be your number one priority, but it’s also letting it all go into the Lords hands. Yes we do things ourselves but God is who blesses us with all the things we need, we do our own wants and sometimes that leads us to wrong paths, but the Lord always provides what we need and that’ll never fail to lead you down the path that’s best for you. So when it comes to relationships just trust that Gods got your back ok? If you find a girl who fits everything you could want and fits all your standards for a relationship then yes totally pursue it!! But don’t go out physically looking for one because that leads to desperation, and just like Saul before he became king he was desperate and disobeyed what King Samuel had requested of him which led to him disobeying God (1 Samuel 10-15). Don’t be like Saul in that way, find peace in the singleness and be content with all of your circumstances (Philippians 4:11) and the Lord will provide! I’ll pray over you that you find peace. And don’t forget you’re still very young!! Lord gives spouses to people at their own time, so just wait for yours :)

[@red_phoenix0570]

@@IsabellaVallejo-v8j Thank you so much ❤️

[@IsabellaVallejo-v8j]

@@red_phoenix0570 ofc! 😁❤️

[@paweljasiekdawidziuk]

I am not even from USA but I love Your work and videos. Thanks to You I am trying to be better Christian and person. Thank You very much!

[@chloengk_]

Marriage is a beautiful thing ❤❤❤

[@ee.enhle_]

The "Always remember, Jesus loves you" at the end of every video really has done so much work in me and I never thought about it until I found it constantly playing in my head. It is really appreciated💚

[@henryrogers7284]

Praise the Lord brother, I was in prayer today that God with give me knowledge when it comes to finding the right woman to marry, and I told myself before going to bed that I was going to watch one yt video. Well this was the first video that popped up.

[@lamulapaintservicespaintco458]

That was the best advice I ever heard, after 9 years of relationship I am alone and searching for God and I feel alone without my partner but I will do the 4 and hopefully God will introduce me to my future Wife. God bless you!

[@Didymus_incredulus]

I went through the same brother. What I can tell you is, focus on this period to get closer to God. Once in a relationship, time and lots of parameters drastically change (for the best, of course!) but will never be the same as the freedom of being single. We should enjoy the time God gives us for growing on knowledge and wisdom. Be blessed. Jesus loves you so much

[@markimbing8018]

I am currently doing an assignment on my opinion on whether true love exists. This video is helpful for that. Thank you! ❤

[@BoughtByTheBlood]

My Pastor teaches that the most important factor in a potential spouse is that they must love God more than they love you, so that their love for God will give them the strength & motivation to do their part to make the marriage work. I think your videos are just AWESOME! God really uses them to minister to me & my Mom. Keep up the good work!

[@GregoryMcCarty-l2o]

Thanks for giving me hope, brother. May your fountain be blessed and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth

[@Jamesbringoh]

My cousin was pondering getting married to a guy coming from Peru then she prayed about it for a while and got her answer from god and it was yes they are getting married soon

[@ddandrea]

In my case God told me who the one is right away. But He's been making me wait and go through a long healing journey first. He knows that marriage is the number one desire of my heart and if He didn't show me who the one is I wouldn't be pushing myself so hard to heal. I also would never be able to deal with the heartbreak of a failed relationship so it's nice to know ahead of time.

[@fixer1140]

In my case God told me "you're broke and ugly, but I like you".

[@iLikeDEERz]

​​@@fixer1140God was so excited with the idea and image of you in the beginning, that he had to bring ypu to life. Your blemishes and imperfections are absolutely perfect in God's eyes because *he* made you who you are. You are beautiful.

[@MythicBeanProductions]

Make God the number one desire of your heart and your healing will be easier and stronger and you will grow faster and stronger in him. I want to be married very much but I understand that it isn't supposed to be the thing I desire most because marriage can fail but God will not. I believe you should work hard to make yourself good for whoever you want to marry and you should work even harder to be better for God. In the end, if you never get married, you will still have him.

[@davidm4566]

We tend to make relationships an idol in our lives. That's awesome that God has revealed that to you. Take your time and let God work on you (and her as well).

[@DiamondWorldYoutube]

I don't want to get married i just want to be kissed by a girl at least 1 time in my life, then I'll die happy

[@b.st.8050]

God is awesome 😂 I just thought and talked about this with my mom, and here he gives good advice. Thank you Lord and thank you brother 🙏❤️

[@VinisPiano]

This is a really helpful and deep knowledge about relationship, but when rejection comes and the person doesn't want you, it's really tough

[@cadenhowell1386]

Thank you for this video! I’ve been seeking God about leading me to “the one” and getting worried that I may never find her. These past few weeks I’ve been seeking God for help and guidance in following Him so I can be the man she has called to marry, and I am called to be. I still haven’t found her yet, but I feel like I got this video in my recommended for a reason. Keep up the amazing videos!

[@nathanmoreno4640]

Great job with the video! The Lord has anointed your channel with great wisdom. Continue walking with the Lord and He will continue to prosper your channel and bring glory to His name. May God richly bless you, brother!

[@Clement_Shu]

Thanks for your useful illustrations!

[@nellymckenna6552]

Thank you for this, also to add; Finding your person means meeting them, not searching for them. If you are (desperately & actively searching) stop. We shouldn't get a partner through our strength nor might. Read Gen 2:21-22; while man serves God, God makes/prepares a suitable helper for him. Men are not told to go fourth and search (as we usually assume) rather God brings the suitable helper to you as you rest in Him. Adam could have gotten a helper from the animals he was naming BUT they were not Suitable for him. Yet when God presented Eve, he called her his own and named her. She was first Suitable for him and in that, the helping came automatically. I picture it this way: You are busy serving God somewhere and God visits you. After your chat, He says, '' I want you to meet someone'', brings the person in and alas, it's the bone of your bones and the flesh of your flesh. Then God says ''Well, would you look at the time! I have a meeting somewhere, gotta disappear...'' and leaves you to bond😆 In short, Men, labour in God's work. Women, be transformed as you serve. Blessings.

[@AlessiaTricaricoAllie]

I've been going through a tough breakup right now, I'm 30 and trying to keep the fear of ending up alone away from me with prayers. Your videos on the matter are a real comfort for me at this time.

[@Joseph-vy9er]

We should be opened to the idea that there is the possibility that there are MANY "THE ONE" as God is truely the One

[@faithfullyme456]

I really hope that my future husband finds this

[@fluffy-sz8by]

God is so good. Every time I have a question, Impact video ministries releases a video on that topic. Thank you IVM team for blessing us with this knowledge

[@redsoilstudiosreal]

All of this has been very helpful for me! I’ve been in a relationship for a while and it is definitely not all sunshine and rainbows, but all of this is so very true and helpful

[@jerrodcastillo8330]

Finding a girlfriend has been a struggle for me. I need lots of prayer in this area. I would greatly appreciate your prayers and I rebuke singleness

[@thezenlife4728]

I'm single again and yes it's so hard sometimes, and we question whether we will find our person but true it all we must realize that being single is not a curse it is an season we use to pursue God fully with less distractions. I too struggle with this sometimes but my daily prayer is for God to be number 1 and help me zoom on him while I have more control of my time, activities money and basic direction on my life. I also pray that God helps you in this.

[@jerrodcastillo8330]

@@thezenlife4728 thank you for the prayers and support. I too will pray for the process you are going thought✝️🙌🙏

[@KamiNoRanger99]

Same, never been on a date and I’m 32, but I’ll be praying for you

[@1rgam3r]

Dude, SOLID council. Great job! (Been married over 25 years)

[@Favvlatina]

I've never fallen in love but I'm also only in highschool, there's been a few boys who I've had my eyes on at different times. Each one has flawed in these Christian standards, but it's good to know that we're only like so young that God is still working in each of them. I hope I find a man of God, obviously if it's his will, in the future that will be "the one" for me. Thank you for this video!!

[@HomoEucharistica]

Usually, the best way to find a certain type of people is to become like that yourself. I mean, isn't it a bit hypocritical to require some characteristics from other people that even we ourselves don't meet? If you want to find a man of God, then you are to "seek God and His righteousness first" and to grow as His child. Godly women attracts godly men and vice versa, if they just have ears to hear and eyes to see... But as Christians, we ought not to forget to show clemency and be merciful to other people. We all flaw in every single Christian standard (some just more than others... and then there's me, the first of sinners) and there's always room to grow and improve.

[@Favvlatina]

@@HomoEucharistica Thank you so so much for this comment. I’ve been told I’m deep in my faith especially for someone my age, and an old soul. So it’s hard to find (even just friends) guys that are at my same level of mature. I’m not looking for someone at the moment because I definitely think I need to focus on my relationship with God before anything else. Thank you for this advice and I will continue to seek to be that person

[@HomoEucharistica]

@@Favvlatina There's no doubt you are very mature person, even for your age (though it's also well-known fact that girls are typically more mature than the boys at the same age). As someone who is not even 25 years old but finds himself from talking like 40-year-olds, I agree it's hard to find Christian friends who are around your age. I have few, and I'm very thankful to God for them... But on the other hand, we all are equally brothers and sisters in Christ. Just like there's no rich or poor, man or woman, in Christ, similarly there are no teenagers or seniors (in a certain sense). Surely we are to know all children of Heavenly Father, not just those of our generation. I would also add that having a partner and focusing on the relationship with God are not mutually exclusive. It's good to make sure you are ready before having a boyfriend, but don't make that an obstacle. People in marriage and people who live willingly in "celibacy" (lacking better term) for God have very same goal and destiny: to commend ourselves and one another and our whole life to Christ our God "as living sacrifice", to abide in Him and love Him with all our heart and soul and mind, and our neighbors as ourselves. The path to this is just a bit different for married people and the single. Both ways have their struggles and benefits. As a single, it's easier to focus on God (that's why St Paul recommended it to all), but in marriage you learn by experience what it really means to "love your neighbors as yourself"

[@HCoRE8]

This channel is a blessing. I really enjoy the content as a Christian. Keep up the good work!

[@ChankamSangma]

Thank you so much ❤🙌Glory be to the Holy One

[@ashwinpokhrel7809]

As an Atheist myself I can say most of what he says is true and can apply to literally anyone.

[@kaisen5823]

Thank you so much for making this video! Just the right time as i was in the midst of confusion regarding this topic. Thank you Lord!

[@N.O.W.826]

Thanks Impact Video Ministries for sharing this powerful message. Keep sharing God's word and truth. Amen. Amen. Amen.

[@kzngaming7827]

HALLELUYAH!! I REALLY NEEDED THIS!! GOD TIMING IS PERFECT!! JESUS IS LORD!! IN JESUS NAME AMEN!! ✝️🕊🙏🏻🤍

[@CeruleanSycamore]

I'm watching this even as a teen because I might need this in the future. May God bless all of you

[@Combos_Animator]

Me too bro... me too

[@laroldlee4242]

I have found the one GOD ALMIGHTY IN JESUS NAME AMEN

[@m.sofi.p]

I think this is an amazing video to show you how to search the one, but to find it is another story :’)

[@MythicBeanProductions]

Something ive been pondering is this. I don't think theres a specific person that God made us for or a person that was made for us. Rather when the time is right, God brings someone into your life as an option and maybe strongly recommends them to you by way of situations and interests. But i think he leaves the choice up to both of you as to whether or not you want to be together. Theres probably some holes in that argument but the idea of there being one specific person that God made specifically for you doesn't set right with me

[@jacobrobinson6603]

I've been in a couple relationships where i've been with non-believers which at the time I wasn't focused on my faith and I was saying things I shouldn't have been and I was stuck in lust for a long time. It's been 11 months since I overcame lust, but even after I wasn't focusing on my faith like i should have. But then 3-4 months after, I met a girl who was very focused on her faith and she made me want to grow my relationship and be closer to God. Unfortunately we stopped talking because she wasnt giving clear communication like before and she was just talking to me less, but since then I have grown my relationship with God and have been focused on him. From time to time I fear I won't find the one, but I'm trusting the Lord to unite me with the right woman for me, because God's timing is perfect.

[@jada-son9344]

Relationship was a big issue for me because I would fallen in love to easy by feelings, I was a easy target and said things I wish I didn’t say to the lord hope he forgives me

[@TatinTatin07]

This videos truly gave a great impact in my christian life. Thank you very much! Glory to God ❤

[@Suavemente_Enjoyer]

These thumbnails are great, keep up the good work, brother! ❤

[@Desert-edDave]

So much love of self when focusing on finding 'the one'. Focus on God, a relationship with Him, not selfish desires. There's more to life than a trying to find affirmation in a mate and singleness is a blessing(scripturally).

[@FARMERDANNNNN]

You already know this video boutta explode because Giggachad is in the thumbnail!

[@baotranle7918]

I'm praying for "the one" until now, and I know that I need someone who support me to serve God in the ministry

[@chaparral9842]

Two necessary things to enter into a relationship: 1. They’re Christian 2. You’re PHYSICALLY attracted to them. Edit: #2 is not absolutely necessary, but it does describe the ideal circumstances for the start of a relationship.

[@indigofenrir7236]

Number 2 is a bad criterion. It's not about physical appearance because age makes beauty and your eyesight disappear. Appearances start a relationship, but personality maintains it.

[@chaparral9842]

@@indigofenrir7236 yeah I was listing basic prerequisites for entering a relationship

[@tainoloco2361]

@@indigofenrir7236it’s not bad, it’s actually somewhat important to find your spouse attractive. But it’s not the most important thing in marriage because their personality and their relationship with the Lord is more important

[@davidm4566]

It's a lot more than that. Narcissists can be attractive and pretend to be a Christian (unfortunately I know the sting of narcissistic emotional abuse and discard first hand). We need God's wisdom and the closer we get to God and the more we get on the Bible, the easier it gets to borrow his wisdom.

[@187Zaidan]

@indigofenrir7236 though we have to account that beautiful/handsome=healthy

[@kellymangwengwende3857]

I've been praying about this 😅

[@carlozulueta-de9hd]

Any weeaboos here learning about the Word of God and how to be closer to Him❓😊 😇

[@kyrshanborlangkkhongsit]

Amen thankyou so much Brother may God use you more powerful and bless you more and more Glory be to God 🙌🙌🙌🙌❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥🙏🙏🔥🔥

[@pavelgaming5470]

this video gave me courage to text my crush. She is like the finest girl in church

[@cr7fannboiironaldo180]

Don't use looks bruh😭

[@JonathanRobertAlexander]

I've been a Christian for many years, and I *_was_* hoping to find a fellow believer who would be a supportive, long-term companion through this life. However... I'm now 34, and no Christian woman has ever shown *any* interest in me. What's worse, I'm now out of work (I've had three COVID-related layoffs), I've had no luck with any of the applications I've put out, and I lost my place to live when my landlord died five years ago, plus my savings are all gone from paying the bills... and no woman wants a man who's completely broke, let alone homeless. For God to see to it I would *never* find anyone, and I'd be made as undesirable as possible...it makes me wonder what's wrong with me.

[@boxoffisa]

Okay. I watched this and your latest video. I am gonna watch this again and watched the other two times. I will watch again when I am home. A lot to learn here.

[@Ndapandajoseph23]

This channel is so helpful ❤️

[@mousy013]

How interesting, I have been giving Bible studies to my friend on courting, dating, and marriage. Then I see this video.

[@Micstar20]

Is it just me or is anyone else still worried plenty about the future and what can happen.

[@JoyAle-ks1dw]

Im worried too

[@maidestriza301]

So helpful. Thanks so much. God bless this ministry! ❤

[@lukasandersson1623]

Great video! Im going through a special time lately. I’m 15 years old and I met this girl at a Christian camp in the summer. We liked each other but nothing happened before the camp was over. We still keep some contact but the problem is that we live over 1000 km apart. I’ve never been in a relationship before. We are going to meet later in February but I don’t know how I or she will react. I’ve been praying about this but I don’t feel like things are getting clearer. Has anybody got some tips, it would be appreciated❤✝️

[@Gaby-xw3lx]

I can feel that I will probably meet the right guy this year, specially after retaking my path to God after years of sin and not going to church because it’s “boring” to me. I feel like God is leading me into knowing the truth about myself and a possible mental problem I’ve dealt with since I can remember but never got a diagnosis and now after last night huge spiritual attack that I even saw the “prince of witchcraft” I know I’m in the right place and path. Please guys, never, NEVER get into manifestation or law of assumption (subliminals or anything that has to do with “loa”), that is just a cute way to do witchcraft without you knowing and God tried to warn me multiple times but never listened until now. Remember, God always has something better for us, do not rely on stuff that involves spirits that aren’t God’s. Blessings!

[@AimejrEyengue]

Thanks for this blessing advice.

[@honeixstuff]

Hey... - unrelated to the topic, but - could you please make a video on feeling unworthy (and non-sin rooted shame)? Or maybe perfection and perfectionism?

[@veerendraingale]

Buddy I kinda feel the same way too... and this maybe completely off the charts but if you'd like to share experiences or talk it out..hit me up!

[@slayr4170]

One thing my mentor told me was “yeah you may not be worthy, you may not be the best at whatever, but when has God conditioned his love on worthiness or works. That’s not love That’s fear, fear you’re not measuring up. And what does the Bible say about fear, perfect love casts out fear. Guess what God is love so he casts off fear, shame and the lot. So that’s from the enemy, not Jesus.” I hope this helps

[@honeixstuff]

There's what God told me: ● ‭‭2 Corinthians‬ ‭12:9‬ "But He said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.'" ● ‭‭Psalms‬ ‭8:2‬ "Through the praise of children and infants you have established a stronghold against your enemies, to silence the foe and the avenger. " And do you remember Gideon? "Yet, you have too many men with you‭‭ for me to give the Midianites into their hand, lest Israel boast over me, saying, ‘My own hand has saved me.'" (Judges 7:2) ● ‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭1:27‭-‬29‬ "But God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise; God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong." Well, isn't it the greatest of shame upon the devil that the weak, the imperfect, the small, the flawed, that these little human beans glorify the Lord?! He could lead His kingdom to glory by picture perfect mighty soldiers, but rather He chose man to carry His glory! Isn't it a shame upon the devil when little children cry out His victory, and the 'unworthy' and those once sinners wear His glory (that he wanted to have as his own so bad) and the crown of life? "God chose the lowly things of this world and the despised things-and the things that are not-to nullify the things that are, so that no one may boast before him." "Fear not, you're more precious than many sparrows!" "The very hairs on your hear are all numbered!" (Luke 12:7) "‭[...] put my tears in your bottle. Are they not in your book?"(Psalms 56:9) ‭ "The Lord your God is in your midst, a mighty one who will save; he will rejoice over you with gladness; he will quiet you by his love; he will exult over you with loud singing. " (Zephaniah‬ 3:17) He loves you so-so much, He cares for you, you mean the world to Him! He gave for you His Son, His Only One, and all the stars couldn't measure up to Him in worth! That is how much you're worth in the eyes of God! His love for you is deeper than the sea! God is good! 🧡💛🤍

[@honeixstuff]

Also! "Merim roshi" = He who lifts up my head. “[...]though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they are red like crimson, they shall become like wool. " - Isaiah 1:18

[@erenmeii]

Thank you!!! I will always remember.. it's not about feelings!! I feed my mind a lot of bad standard from all romance novel I read. I need to learn about the "truth" that only God can provide. I'm waiting and praying.. someday :)

[@frjools]

Time to take notes y’all 📝 😂

[@carlozulueta-de9hd]

This channel is like a biblical and Christian version of Psych2Go ‼️Awesome ‼️😃🪽👼😇👋🙏🤲📿🛐🧎🧎‍♀️🧎‍♂️

[@monkaZETTA]

You can't find the one yourself. What if they're in a completely different city, or a completely different state, or a completely different country? Do you think you can do that in your own human strength or wisdom? Seek ye first the kingdom of God, and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added unto you. True peace is not in taking charge of your life, but in complete submission to God. It also demonstrates faith, which is crucial for pleasing Him.

[@madaleinem8109]

Amennnnn! Whoever you are may the almighty God bless you 🎉❤

[@Future_jira]

I’m not interested in a relationship currently but I’m planing on getting one in the future so this video was helpful in what to look for in a spouse

[@Danae78]

Amen... Those characteristics in someone else... do I have those characteristics?

[@Tblade_DareToBeDifferent]

1) Create Standards 2) Get Wisdom 3) Learn About Relationships 4) Stay In Prayer Nice Video!

[@dariodesansebastian]

For any of you guys that want to get biblical about it, for you to find your lady have a look at Genesis 24, when Abraham decides he wants to find a wife for his son Isaac

[@Loomix._.]

Exodus 24 is about Moses

[@dariodesansebastian]

@@Loomix._. Thanks! In my head I was thinking Genesis, but I said Exodus! Thanks for telling me

[@Loomix._.]

@@dariodesansebastian oh lol, went to look for it and was like… wait a minute this doesn’t seem right 😂

[@CoolmUp3]

It’s annoying cause the feeling is so strong it seems like absolute fact

[@chris_dancer]

Seek God first.

[@Odog.]

My standards are so high, I've never met anyone that fits them, so I'll probably just be single forever.

[@anamarijaxx]

I prayed to st. Joseph about two years for my future husband and I was fasting every wednesday for him. I ate only bread and drank water on these fasting days. Then came the day when I met him 😍 We met in the church when we came to pray the rosary. I heard in my heart how God said to me "this man is your husband". At first I thought it was ridiculous, but then we both knew immediately that God wants us to be husband and wife 😍😍😍 I had many years struggling and praying to God for my future husband. But trust God, and be close to Him. He will give you the desire of your heart ❤

[@Doom0728]

I hope God blesses you with a great atheist husband! 🙏❤️

[@anamarijaxx]

@@Doom0728 atheist? We are catholics

[@Doom0728]

@@anamarijaxx But wouldn’t it be better to have an atheist partner? They’re really great people!❤

[@tori_va807]

Uhh okay wait who's St Joseph and why do you pray to him?

[@sharkinator7819]

@@tori_va807 Jesus’s stepdad and Mary’s husband. And by pray, that means asking him to pray to God for you