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my new motto is: anyone can share anything and know nothing about nothing. the amount of tik tok professionals I’ve seen giving out of touch advice is making me think someone is messing up my algorithm. I’m sure you’ve seen accounts and pages on social media dedicated to teaching you about specific topics. Like finance, health, gym stuff and how to speak to someone like an AI-generated human. this video was inspired by a strange tiktok where a therapist shows you the best way to break up with a friend. friendships come and go because of people drifting apart - but you can you could also speed up this process by being a bad friend and using the words “I’ve treasured our season of friendship”. We’re exploring the HR-rification of relationships and rich people giving financial tips for the average person with 900k in their bank account. Chronically Online Advice From Tiktok #edvaisan

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@Edvasian
@Edvasian Жыл бұрын
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@reaper-mf
@reaper-mf Жыл бұрын
First respond to the king cuz yes
@reaper-mf
@reaper-mf Жыл бұрын
Also yes!!!!
@lookupsenomyx2942
@lookupsenomyx2942 Жыл бұрын
ed the ad man over here
@Mr-pn2eh
@Mr-pn2eh Жыл бұрын
I already take my own supplements without care of. You sound like you're chronically online Dr Eric berg for those who are wondering where I get my supplements from.
@kaelakeluskar
@kaelakeluskar Жыл бұрын
I forgot that your name is actually Edwin. I was surprised when I saw it on the little pill package
@sadayokumbera7809
@sadayokumbera7809 Жыл бұрын
"I saw it on TikTok" is gonna be just as credible as "I saw it in a Buzzfeed video"
@bandanarathore
@bandanarathore Жыл бұрын
Here it is I saw it on Facebook and WhatsApp University.
@Luke-cifer
@Luke-cifer Жыл бұрын
“I saw it on tik tok” = “drake really doesnt use auto tune”
@peachesandapricots5010
@peachesandapricots5010 Жыл бұрын
@Malhadado Epígono | Daybreak my mum keeps following the remedies she sees on there 😭hv to convince her not to lol
@baby.nay.
@baby.nay. Жыл бұрын
@@peachesandapricots5010 fr our sweet moms need protection in this new internet era. My mom keeps buying cheap clothes off Amazon she doesn’t need and she used to say a person only needed 4 shirts . What is happening to our mamas ?!
@peachesandapricots5010
@peachesandapricots5010 Жыл бұрын
@@baby.nay. honestly!! my goodness, she bought 5 bottles of rosemary oil because she saw that it was good for hair growth! 😭 i know that it’s not wrong, but i feel they’re more influenced than us
@tj_6224
@tj_6224 Жыл бұрын
the fact that i'm watching this within 10 minutes of you posting means that i'm on a new level of chronically online
@moon6036
@moon6036 Жыл бұрын
Same bruh same
@fal4thought
@fal4thought Жыл бұрын
why is this so true 😥
@RatioOfOne
@RatioOfOne Жыл бұрын
"I've evaluated my life and have decided its time to go" - a nice succinct suicide note
@sunettas9738
@sunettas9738 Жыл бұрын
You okay?
@ashleyc.4596
@ashleyc.4596 Жыл бұрын
If u need help bro there are a lot of hotlines unfortunately KZbin doesn’t let u put links but have hope it gets better ive been there 💚
@aisha5156
@aisha5156 Жыл бұрын
Now I’m concerned. You good?
@ijustdocomments6777
@ijustdocomments6777 Жыл бұрын
I think it was just a joke, guys, I mean I LOL'd 😂
@crystabell8448
@crystabell8448 Жыл бұрын
Why didn't laugh so hard??😭
@emerald_greeen
@emerald_greeen Жыл бұрын
Moral of the Story: Don't trust people online.
@white_isnt_a_race2338
@white_isnt_a_race2338 Жыл бұрын
Just take out the online part
@Apudurangdinya
@Apudurangdinya Жыл бұрын
@@white_isnt_a_race2338 irl at least the people (that you know of) think twice before pulling bullshit out of nowhere
@g76agi
@g76agi Жыл бұрын
@@white_isnt_a_race2338 let it all out
@sugasweet435
@sugasweet435 Жыл бұрын
Mm, idk if I can trust this advice🧐
@adettessubs444
@adettessubs444 Жыл бұрын
Wait...👀
@s0ftysenpai
@s0ftysenpai Жыл бұрын
That psychologist lady got her PhD from KZbin Apologies and had a Masters at Better Help
@bandanarathore
@bandanarathore Жыл бұрын
Ha ha... The friendship therapist reminds me of the videos where people tell you how to speak passive aggressive in corporate lingo 🤣🤣🤣
@kelseyf1239
@kelseyf1239 Жыл бұрын
My college roommate talks like the first video and it’s devastating to fully express your emotions and receive a HR response
@chromberries7329
@chromberries7329 Жыл бұрын
That's horrifying yet hilarious. I'm sorry you were cursed.
@chickenbutt8825
@chickenbutt8825 Жыл бұрын
The way he’s always sarcastic in his videos is so funny 😭😭
@aniram.mp4
@aniram.mp4 Жыл бұрын
i treasured this season of friendship, i hope we can get to hang out again next season
@stinkygoose666
@stinkygoose666 Жыл бұрын
How did they answer? Find out right after this commercial break!
@librarianontheloose
@librarianontheloose Жыл бұрын
I don't know why you'd unnecessarily "break up" with a friend for no good reason other than "we've been through a season of friendship" when sometimes friends drift apart and back together. Condescendingly talking down to someone in a way that implies you're just too important to be friends with them ends a friendship in a way that I'd find it hard to pick back up at a later time even if that person approached me again. It just feels like you're being used.
@wonhonamchan
@wonhonamchan Жыл бұрын
sometimes you outgrow your friends and that’s normal. of course that never means you’re better than them, but they just no longer belong to your life, at least that’s how i see it. but of course, outgrowing people happens naturally, not forcedly
@fancychancey9253
@fancychancey9253 Жыл бұрын
I’ve had to help advise my friend to break up with another friend. Friendships can be toxic too and it got to the point where every time they hung out she got belittled, berated or was told she was not a good enough friend, even though my friend was going above and beyond. Trust me, my friend did all she could and slowly phasing the other girl out, was not working. Some people need the conversation of, “we can no longer be friends because we are in different places in our lives. I cannot fit your needs as a friend anymore and I think it’s best we go our separate ways.”
@zebnemma
@zebnemma Жыл бұрын
@@fancychancey9253 Yes. I can relate to your story a bit. The only times I have done the "goodbye speech" type thing to anyone was when I realized the friendship was extremely toxic and one sided. That type of speech is only usefull in such situations where you are 100% sure you want to never speak to them again and don't care if the reciever gets butthurt reading your message. But even so that womans message is even more cold than I ever talked to anyone. I always wrote the reason why I no longer want to be friend with them in DETAIL giving multiple examples, while all this woman did was just say "I'm not gonna tell you the reason I'm sorry if it's confusing". Yes it is confusing... Just tell the reason! If it's just a simple example of friends falling out of touch there's no reason to do a goodbye speech lol. Cuz there's always a chance you can find time down the line to start hanging out again, but maybe just not so often. Maybe you can call eachother on the phone if you live far away and visit eachother once a year? You can find time for people if you want to, no one is busy literaly 24/7. That woman just want to burn every friendship bridge she has and make sure they never contact her ever again lol, that's how you lose all your friends but that's none of my business.
@stinks7065
@stinks7065 Жыл бұрын
@@fancychancey9253 I still think there are better ways of phrasing it than the person in the tiktok did, even more so if the friend just can't be phased out because clearly they're not getting the hint and probably won't settle for something vague. Just be honest an say what they're doing is really hurtful and that you don't feel like they treat you like a friend should so you've made the decision that you don't want to be involved with them before. Explaining why you're 'terminating' a friendship can also be a healing moment for YOU - you get to finally say why their treatment of you is hurtful without having to be afraid of it sullying your friendship. It allows the person ending the friendship to gain back some of their power and autonomy. That being said, I do think that that woman's example speech is a good example of a wider discussion that is happening around the commodification of friendships. Due to things like 'emotional labour' and 'trauma dumping' being injected into the common vernacular through short-form content such as tiktoks without the adequate time to explain the concepts, people have started thinking of friendships as a purely transactional commodity, which is also why language that resembles something out of a HR manual (a context in which people are treated more as tools for a company than as human beings) has creeped in.
@parkchimmin7913
@parkchimmin7913 Жыл бұрын
I didn’t even talk to my old friends when I cut ties with them. I just straight up ghosted them and tbh I regret doing that to one of them because she deserved an explanation. One of them rarely talks to the friend group in the first place, so it was a natural separation. The other one was toxic and verbally abusive. I couldn’t talk to her without her lashing out at me. Every time I tried to comfort her through her grief (she’s had lots of loved ones die during covid/senior year), she would berate me for not “comforting her right”. And she expected me to know how to comfort her because she thought we were similar (she flat out told me that). Not only that, but when whenever I mentioned crushes, she hated it. She once went into a rant how she would’ve harmed one of my crushes. I eventually found out she had a crush on me since 8th grade. I only have one friend now and I’m fine with that.
@once.upon.a.time.
@once.upon.a.time. Жыл бұрын
tbf if a friend was trying to 'break up' and they told me "I get that it might be hard to understand" or "I'm sorry if this feels painful and confusing" I think that would give me the boost of spite I need to just laugh in their face. 😫 So maybe there's some merit to what she's saying lol
@Anonymous-bi5pv
@Anonymous-bi5pv Жыл бұрын
There's nothing wrong with either of those sentences tho, in fact they were the only good part of that tiktok
@straberryshinigami15g97
@straberryshinigami15g97 Жыл бұрын
As an autistic person, I feel like those sentences are good, because it acknowledges the other person's emotions. It also is direct, open and honest which are my forms of communication, and unfortunately a lot of people aren't willing to be direct, open, honest and are intimidated by me.
@_n_a-ez5pc
@_n_a-ez5pc Жыл бұрын
You'd feel spite because they told you they don't want to be friends anymore and then proceed to laugh in their face? Is that what friends do these days or do you just react immaturely to someone maturely addressing their feelings?
@once.upon.a.time.
@once.upon.a.time. Жыл бұрын
@@_n_a-ez5pc It's just the way it's worded that's the problem. The first phrase reeks of condescension and the second is akin to saying "I'm sorry IF I hurt your feelings." It's just empty and bizarre and yeah if someone I considered a friend said either of those to me, I would have no problem with ending the friendship 👍
@KezanzatheGreat
@KezanzatheGreat Жыл бұрын
@@Anonymous-bi5pv It's corporate lingo. It makes the whole thing sound condescending as heck - particularly when it's coming from someone who doesn't usually talk like that. Obviously there can be exceptions (it really takes knowing the person to decide how to appropriately respond), but when someone starts talking to you like this out of the blue one day, spite isn't all that illogical. Nobody likes their friend talking at them like a disappointed boss. Friends aren't bosses!
@kimiko11150616
@kimiko11150616 Жыл бұрын
The lady hurt my soul, because I ended a friendship with my ex-friend for talking down to me like that to "correct" my behavior that upset him while being vague and making his issue everybody’s issue.
@yumine_
@yumine_ Жыл бұрын
Good thing you ended the friendship
@raejae3755
@raejae3755 Жыл бұрын
This sounds like a breakup of two therapists, not normal people.
@diegosuarez9117
@diegosuarez9117 Жыл бұрын
I'm really sure my sister started watching those friendship TikToks. She was talking to our family about a friend of hers who was distancing herself and the way she talked about it was really similar to the TikTok you showed us. I made fun of her for pretty much proposing a contract to determine if the friendship would stay on and of course she got mad.
@aprilianindy3200
@aprilianindy3200 Жыл бұрын
💀💀💀💀
@adrianghandtchi1562
@adrianghandtchi1562 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes people are looking for answers to anything, it’s never so simple to dismiss it so perhaps get to the root of the problem and see if there is a way for her to communicate with her friend what she is worried about. You can walk her all you like, but at least you know in someway that she’s just trying to find some answers, even if the sources are not the best.
@adrianghandtchi1562
@adrianghandtchi1562 Жыл бұрын
@Crickets I think that’s very fair. Answer and boundaries should be taught. I wish that there was more sources available out there for young people to access.
@_n_a-ez5pc
@_n_a-ez5pc Жыл бұрын
Making fun of her way of addressing the situation would make me mad too. She was trying to make peace and put out a suggestion to see if the friendship would continue and you thought "hey this is funny" and decided to laugh at her? Wow. People have different communication styles and address matters in a way that let's her see if things would work out visually on paper. Should she laugh at you for your way of doing things? Instead be understanding and try to find ways you can support her or learn how to cope with these things in a healthy way. I agree with @Crickets here in the comments.
@diegosuarez9117
@diegosuarez9117 Жыл бұрын
Reply to n. If you have siblings then you already know how it is, say something that's a bit ridiculous, like a "message me x amount of times a week" friendship contract, and you'll get made fun of. Even more so when our youngest brother is 25 and she is the oldest one, we're not teens who don't know how to make/keep relationships (apparently she is tho). Still, us making fun of her doesn't mean we didn't have her feedback and how we deal with stuff later. Not disagreeing with the other replies, in fact I like their take. Only yours seemed dumb to me in how no one would laugh at it.
@thisisnancybot
@thisisnancybot Жыл бұрын
Me: I’m an introvert, and sometimes don’t know how to sound like a real person. My therapist: Try this, “I value our season of friendship…” Me: Um…I don’t think real people talk like that either.
@RaspBerryPies
@RaspBerryPies Жыл бұрын
LOL that’s so funny! Also for some reason ppl in the comments here are saying that it sounds genuine and is a good thing to say… so weird! I didn’t expect ppl here to be defending it. Especially when it’s pretty obvious that people don’t talk like that
@A---BMaitriSarkar
@A---BMaitriSarkar Жыл бұрын
Ngl that sounds really cheesy lol, I will never say that in real life
@user-i9z
@user-i9z 7 ай бұрын
@@RaspBerryPies I mean, I grew up making fun of the dialogue in movies and TV, and then I visited the US and people just spoke like that lol. It's possible this might be some kind of culture clash... or the people thinking this is good advice just don't go outside often.
@zg3342
@zg3342 7 ай бұрын
It’s like if you’re a middle age European nobles daughter writing a flowery letter but not a real one in a novel written by someone who’s never actually read actual middle age nobles letter.
@yeth9280
@yeth9280 Жыл бұрын
That’s how my bf broke up w me, saying that our relationship was last season and they’re moving onto to a new arc and characters LMFAOOOOO
@PossibleBat
@PossibleBat Жыл бұрын
When I had this problem this is how I handled it: I’ve been feeling left out for months, so first I decided to give them a chance to speak for themselves, maybe I was thinking too much of it, maybe they were just minding their own issues, maybe they genuinely were busy, etc. I engaged with them and invited them everywhere, maybe they were feeling just like me, so I took it upon myself to meet up and have fun. Things still felt weird. I told them how I felt for the last months, how I felt like they were purposefully not telling me stuff and they were ignoring my opinions, how I felt a shift in their interaction with me. After 5 years friendships grow closer, not farther apart, so I told them. I got told I was paranoid and imagining things, I felt like, again, my opinions were indifferent to them. So I told them I didn’t like the vibe and that I would distance myself. Not a single one of them (a group of 6 people) contacted me to check on me, or try to fix things so I assumed I was right and kept going with my life. Im not someone else’s leftover. I’m not a second thought, I refuse to be with people who don’t want to be with me. It was hard, I felt so miserable, but I didn’t disrespect myself for "friends" who didn’t care about me like I cared for them. It’s been about 5 years. I reconnected with some people with who, for life circumstances, we did distance ourselves, and I’m very happy. I reconnected with people who actually thought about me they same way I did for them ❤
@stinkygoose666
@stinkygoose666 Жыл бұрын
Good for you! 😊
@KezanzatheGreat
@KezanzatheGreat Жыл бұрын
This right here is how to handle ending a friendship. Good on you for knowing your boundaries and handling the situation with respect!
@SimonaBerr
@SimonaBerr Жыл бұрын
I wish I were you…when I had this problem I gave everyone the silent treatment because I needed to feel my feelings without being rude but when they tried to confront me they were super rude so I told them to f off lol
@straberryshinigami15g97
@straberryshinigami15g97 Жыл бұрын
I’m similar in that a friendship of 6 friends all ended for me at once. It was a long time ago, I may have been a toxic friend, but nonetheless it was very traumatic and still impacts my relationships to this day. And that was 6 years ago.
@PossibleBat
@PossibleBat Жыл бұрын
@@SimonaBerr everyone has a pace, the goal is to be able to acknowledge when something is wrong and if it’s out of your control kinda trick yourself into not caring too much. Because that brings peace of mind, some people need to constantly fail and hit walls to "wake up" and some people with a single bad experience they learn, doesn’t matter which one you are as long as you always understand you have the control over yourself and how you act. It is achievable (I come from heavy trauma so I learned to put to practice this and emotional disconnection really young, 15. Also this happened to me at 24 with people my age, so understand this can happen at any age)
@vesdotmp3
@vesdotmp3 Жыл бұрын
that guy giving advice with plant vs zombies music in the background, i know what hes up to... investing in ugly homes...spending thousands on landscaping to fight the zombies...i see you sir
@jaco3394
@jaco3394 Жыл бұрын
"I'd rather be ghosted." I laughed at that for about 15 minutes.
@sarahjane9644
@sarahjane9644 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes it’s better that friendships drift apart without a direct confrontation…just depends on the situation
@renownedbandanawearer1345
@renownedbandanawearer1345 10 ай бұрын
Yeah, a friendship “breakup” isn’t really necessary if you both drift apart naturally but might be a good idea if a friend is still very invested but you’re no longer feeling the same way for whatever reason. It’s not as common but it does happen.
@aniyamarie8370
@aniyamarie8370 Жыл бұрын
If any of my friends decided to end their friendship with me like that therapist recommended, I’m screaming in their face.
@dangitbobby.3942
@dangitbobby.3942 Жыл бұрын
Fr, someone talking down to me like I'm a child in such a patronizing manner is a great sure fire way to start a fight. We gonna throw hands.
@boo9781
@boo9781 Жыл бұрын
“I don’t wanna disappoint your expectations” I think you just created a new category of how to disappoint somebody, I’m just in awe tbh
@crazyowlgirlcncowner
@crazyowlgirlcncowner Жыл бұрын
Edvasian, you made me die laughing when you said instead of 3 meals a day sometimes it's just a slice of cheese and a dream. 😭😭😭 I imagined that video of the rat sadly eating alone and then Edvasian sleeping in his bed imagining a banquet.
@vv.aa.n
@vv.aa.n Жыл бұрын
My god the last one is literally my dad. He spent years working on our villa. He thinks that everything must be earned in some way. In the end he found himself with more debts than anything and he didn't let us (me and my mom) even have a holiday or go outside our region.
@oliviamartin6963
@oliviamartin6963 Жыл бұрын
“People aren’t just npcs in your life. You can’t just say whatever to make yourself feel better without any consequences”.
@rainbowblossom143
@rainbowblossom143 Жыл бұрын
Legit, even putting investing the money aside, I could live quite comfortably with the million dollars.
@joannamarieart
@joannamarieart Жыл бұрын
EASILY. 1. buy a house in cash and pay off our debts (cars, credit cards). 2. put the rest in savings. That would free up $2.5k/ month to now be disposable income and we'd still have a massive savings account for future emergencies/retirement.
@jojo-xh5ik
@jojo-xh5ik Жыл бұрын
I'd buy a few apartments and rent them out
@ownedbymykitty270
@ownedbymykitty270 Жыл бұрын
You have such a pleasing voice and manner of speech. I love the sarcasm sprinkled throughout too.
@prosaically
@prosaically Жыл бұрын
I'd treasure the season of a million dollars that guy gave me.
@ajregalia1334
@ajregalia1334 Жыл бұрын
Gotta be honest, i feel like slowly drifting apart and "I've enjoyed our season of friendship" are two opposite extremes of not handling ending friendships well. There's no way to end a friendship without hurt feelings on some level and you want the other person to not feel hurt long term so i get the logic of slowly pulling away from them. But if they ever ask "hey I notice you've been distant lately, is something going on" then are you just supposed to lie to them till they get the message you aren't interested. And that hurts worse for people who are invested in you and genuinely care about you as a person, because the best friendships grow stronger with time. Slowly pulling away, not responding as often, and when you do get back to them pretending nothing is wrong can leave the other person feeling like they're doing or have done something wrong to you. I feel it's better and more respectful to be direct, tell a person you're not feeling things the same way and while you don't want to hurt them that you don't want to hang out with them anymore. Just not with a "season of friendship" line. Obviously there are exceptions like when the other person shows they're abusive or the type to not take rejection without retaliating, those you need to be careful of getting yourself out of for your own safety. But if you called a person a friend I feel you should respect them enough to give them a sense of finality with the friendship being done if you really aren't interested in them anymore.
@jessicajohnston5693
@jessicajohnston5693 Жыл бұрын
Yay, realistic relationship goals! I am glad to be your acquaintance through our shared friend of KZbin 🥰👌
@bluebirdhumming
@bluebirdhumming Жыл бұрын
the throwaway "body builders in their weeb phase" line is so real, i didnt realize how many gym bros were hardcore love live oshis until a few months ago. they all seem to love ayumu specifically... yume e no ippo is really helping them get those gains and i cant even be mad abt it
@sheepishbleats
@sheepishbleats Жыл бұрын
They're so real for that because I also love ayumu and listen to her songs when I'm working out Yume e no ippo does wonders for getting those gains (source: trust me)
@diegosuarez9117
@diegosuarez9117 Жыл бұрын
Ayumu-pyon
@aeoligarlic4024
@aeoligarlic4024 Жыл бұрын
Nice to hear nico isn't relevant anymore
@chesteruwu
@chesteruwu Жыл бұрын
Personally, I’d rather just tell you to your face or let you know ahead of time that I don’t wanna be your friend anymore. I remember “phasing someone out” before and it just made me feel so cowardly and made the other person feel worse because they didn’t know why I was phasing them out. I vowed to never ever to do that again which is why tell ppl now. Especially if we were rlly close, you deserve to kno why I no longer want you in my life. Because if I don’t say anything they’ll just keep wasting their time trying to reach out to me. Being honest and upfront is always best for everyone.
@straberryshinigami15g97
@straberryshinigami15g97 Жыл бұрын
As an autistic person, i absolutely hate the "phasing out". To me its cowardly and a form of ghosting. Please let me know directly if you have issues.
@chesteruwu
@chesteruwu Жыл бұрын
@@straberryshinigami15g97 I don’t think I have autism (I might have it cause it’s in my family but idk) but i completely agree!!
@BabyBear046
@BabyBear046 Жыл бұрын
From the bottom of my heart, I would MUCH prefer to be ghosted lol. That weird sterile language would live in my head for so long. Like just laying in bed at night like “what…. was that…” And I would feel so stressed trying to figure out how to respond in the moment during the conversation. I’d have no idea what was expected from me. Like “okay…??? thank… you…?? I’m sorry… about the season???” I can feel the anxiety just thinking about it lmao. Ghost me, or if they need closure, just send me a big text telling me what I did wrong and say bye forever.
@chesteruwu
@chesteruwu Жыл бұрын
@@BabyBear046 obviously if they were your close friend they wouldn’t use sterile language like they mentioned in the video. I, personally, wouldn’t. I’ve told people I didn’t want to be friends with them without using that language. Maybe you just can’t handle confrontation 🤷‍♀️
@thesealky6445
@thesealky6445 Жыл бұрын
People talk loud when they want to act smart right? CORRECT!!!
@ree2546
@ree2546 Жыл бұрын
the first 10 seconds was the most parasocial moment I've ever truly felt. I haven't had water all day and was thinking about my neck aching when he mentioned drinking water. I laughed so hard thinking "oh fuck he's right" then drank some water
@phantomkate6
@phantomkate6 3 ай бұрын
Here is your yearly reminder to drink some water
@fancychancey9253
@fancychancey9253 Жыл бұрын
Oh man… if you have never broken up with a toxic friend, then you don’t know what it’s like. Lol it really comes down to talking to them as if you are in HR because no other way actually works. It’s the clean break away that leaves them no room to yell back at you as if you did something wrong. Fighting them makes them happy, ignoring them makes them angry and you can’t win unless you sound like a politician.
@anna.owo.
@anna.owo. Жыл бұрын
I feel you, i have meet people like that that would step my boundaries and act offended when i try to be nice, they could not learn in a nice way.
@rhondaarnold5249
@rhondaarnold5249 Жыл бұрын
Could if been a form of narcissism with your x friend.
@BabyBear046
@BabyBear046 Жыл бұрын
I would literally just ignore them for the rest of eternity. If forced to respond, it would be something like “ok” or “neat”.
@Shirumoon
@Shirumoon 11 ай бұрын
100% this. Do not give them room to argue or debate. It's over and done PERIOD.
@wren_.
@wren_. 11 ай бұрын
@@BabyBear046 unless you’re the type of person that responds like that normally. I had one where she would deliberately push my buttons to get me upset, and then I called her out in it and she would go “whatever helps you sleep at night”, I swear to god if i hear that phrase again i am about to strangle whoever says it and then myself
@danielamontano2696
@danielamontano2696 Жыл бұрын
i had a person friend dump me and it sounded like this and then 10 paragraphs of condescension. it turned like 10 years of my feelings toward them sour entirely so at least it’s a complete break lmfao
@yang_er
@yang_er Жыл бұрын
Oh god that lady really pissed the hell out of me. My ex whom I very much loved and adored told me something similar in that exact same tone, after he cheated on me. Like THE AUDACITY!!!! I'd much rather just he ghosted me out of shame than being told he wants the best for me and what we did (cheating on me) is the best for me 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
@raeganj6744
@raeganj6744 Жыл бұрын
The friendship bit reminds me of this time in middle school when one of my friends got a bunch of her friends together and announced that she had made a list of all of her friends and she was going to have to evaluate us and decide who she needed to stop being friends with to be more popular. We just laughed at her
@caseycronan9217
@caseycronan9217 Жыл бұрын
That intro was accurate. Also, nice hairstyle! 👍
@caseycronan9217
@caseycronan9217 Жыл бұрын
“a few slices of cheese and a dream.” 😅
@sentientplant9658
@sentientplant9658 Жыл бұрын
job interview advice casually leaves out the fact that HR is the most unpredictable hinderance to any job ever
@zenleeparadise
@zenleeparadise 7 ай бұрын
This is an old comment ik but I wanna hear your stories now so bad
@theBallisticMystic
@theBallisticMystic Жыл бұрын
I came to an end of a 'season of friendship' recently and my way was to wait for a chance to tell him he's the biggest nag I've ever known in my life
@dangitbobby.3942
@dangitbobby.3942 Жыл бұрын
I'd respect your honesty way more than whatever bs that lady was doing. Like if you're gonna criticize me at least make it constructive. Nag is something that can be worked on so at least you gave them the opportunity to do so by making them aware of it & also serving them the consequences of thier nagging actions which will hopefully make him more inclined to work on it & if not, then you gave him room in his life for people who accept him as he is. Probably the most optimal turn out there could be in these situations bc nobody was fake or coddled.
@Raithization
@Raithization Жыл бұрын
I am pretty sure the music playing while that guy was shouting bad job advice was the tune that would play when you took your Nintendog out for a walk.
@viiranen
@viiranen Жыл бұрын
I wouldnt call this stuff chronically online, but more along the lines of corporations in human skin trying to appeal to real people. I always thought chronically online being too in the current online sauce? Expecting everyone else to be equally up to date and invested in the most useless drama(or such), that has no bearing beyond the niche(or not so niche) corner of the internet they inhabit? I dont know. Thats how i was explained the thing
@SecretAgentNein
@SecretAgentNein Жыл бұрын
I just put a load of laundry in the washer, made myself some food and sat down to watch this so HA! That intro didn't get me! …. You should have posted an hour or two earlier when I was slumped over in bed.
@indiecloud100
@indiecloud100 Жыл бұрын
Productive day 😊
@choosyduchess25
@choosyduchess25 Жыл бұрын
good for you.
@SecretAgentNein
@SecretAgentNein Жыл бұрын
Thank you, it feels good!
@yaoiblfan
@yaoiblfan Жыл бұрын
That season of friendship sure had passed lol
@wonhonamchan
@wonhonamchan Жыл бұрын
great points about the friendship stuff but i just wanted to remind the audience that outgrowing people (even those who were your friends) is completely normal, specially if you’ve gone through traumatic stuff (talking from personal experience). maybe you shouldn’t tell them about it like the woman on that tiktok video but i think you know the drill
@Tito.michael
@Tito.michael Жыл бұрын
Thank you, for this high value content, I will be notifying my superior of your commendable, outstanding work.
@chelledoggo
@chelledoggo Жыл бұрын
"WHY DID I NOT GET THIS JOB AT THE LOCAL LIBRARY? I FOLLOWED THIS GUY'S ADVICE TO THE LETTER."
@gothgoblin_15
@gothgoblin_15 Жыл бұрын
Very close....*drinks water* im horribly dehydrated.
@KangaRuby
@KangaRuby Жыл бұрын
That dude is assuming I get an email telling me I failed the job interview in the first place. In my experience, that doesn't usually happen...
@tinyprettymoon
@tinyprettymoon Жыл бұрын
Completely unrelated to lying on the internet, but I hope Ian and Elle make a comeback soon. I’d love to know what they’ve been up to ❤
@crazyowlgirlcncowner
@crazyowlgirlcncowner Жыл бұрын
Ian and Elle my ults 😭❤️ I miss them so much
@aprilianindy3200
@aprilianindy3200 Жыл бұрын
Ella?
@baebaeluvsu
@baebaeluvsu Жыл бұрын
Who are they?
@tinyprettymoon
@tinyprettymoon Жыл бұрын
@@baebaeluvsu they’ve been on the channel before
@baebaeluvsu
@baebaeluvsu Жыл бұрын
@@tinyprettymoon Are they actual human beings or just characters made by him
@sydneychildress8382
@sydneychildress8382 Жыл бұрын
Her video serves as a reminder that there are some TOXIC therapists out there
@TheOneWifNoUsername
@TheOneWifNoUsername Жыл бұрын
The nintendogs music w the loud guy got me like 😂😂😂 I still have my original copy of nintendogs dog walking theme somewhere. It survived going in the wash three times when I was a kid/teen.
@berenisemendez5223
@berenisemendez5223 Жыл бұрын
That guy with the real estate advice had me dying of laughter 😂😂😂 good thing I’m at work at the emergency room. He’s really serious with his content and the comments don’t correlate with his messaging. Lol
@moyyopia
@moyyopia Жыл бұрын
Sometimes when I'm sad, I remember your channel exists & have a good laugh over your sarcastic remarks & chill personality. Thank you for existing, my guy✨
@sleepysartorialist
@sleepysartorialist Жыл бұрын
The yelling guy is correct for corporate jobs. I have LITERALLY gotten call backs because of that. Maybe it's different outside of California but it's super competitive here and most apps are rubber stamp rejected by an algorithm. Definitely do not use all caps tho 😭
@mak3960
@mak3960 Жыл бұрын
I’m currently in the season of watching edvision. But who knows what next season brings
@wildwitchwest
@wildwitchwest Жыл бұрын
that guy said 📣📢📣📢📣📢📣📢📣📢📣
@rileystenhouse6897
@rileystenhouse6897 Жыл бұрын
Ed, I've treasured our season of my subscribing to your channel....and I'm excited for season 2!
@contentweaverz2438
@contentweaverz2438 Жыл бұрын
I was learning soft skills in my teen years and during an interview I leaned in and the interviewer thought I was trying to flirt with him. Cultural mish mash is wonderful. Not everything you read in a book is going to work out.
@mimmaforreal
@mimmaforreal Жыл бұрын
I really treasure your seasonal content
@GermanyRoseOfficial
@GermanyRoseOfficial Жыл бұрын
That second video reminds me of those loud ass commercials that would come on in the middle of the night and wake you up out your sleep when you forgot to turn the TV off 🤣
@Pax_Luca
@Pax_Luca Жыл бұрын
I think this woman actually thinks it sounds kind because it's "worked through" and honest, with the idea that being honest and open with your feelings always is best
@JeonMishel57
@JeonMishel57 Жыл бұрын
What u said at first is true 100%🙂and I had back pain too
@raneemacintosh6842
@raneemacintosh6842 Жыл бұрын
"Did yo know your headache is because you've been staring at your phone for 3 hours without drinking anything" Can you imagine the EXALTED SMUGNESS I felt when this is the first video I watched upon getting home from 2hrs gym+liter of water while there?
@genericcosplaygirl
@genericcosplaygirl Жыл бұрын
13:31 as a real estate agent I can confirm that is not how houses work 👍
@UmamiPapi
@UmamiPapi Күн бұрын
I had a friend "breakup" with me once. He said something like too many people want to hangout with him and so he doesn't have any time for me. It was one of the most hurtful things I've ever heard. When an SO breaks up with you, you can be like "Maybe she doesn't see us working out in 10 years." When a friend breaks up with you in favor of numerous other friends it's kinda like they don't like you on any level.
@stardustgirl313
@stardustgirl313 Жыл бұрын
A few slices of cheese and a dream = what a great name for a band 😁
@saami9606
@saami9606 Жыл бұрын
Ngl the guy who gives you interview tips is really helpful, defo helped me get a job at the company I wanted. Though its defo for a coporate job
@andromeda1903
@andromeda1903 Жыл бұрын
edvasian, your hair is BOMB today! when i need a laugh i just binge your videos
@anti_fragile
@anti_fragile Ай бұрын
saw someone say that Therapy Speak is used to keep discussions between you and your therapist objective and impersonal, which is why it sounds so strange when people suggest using it around people you actually like
@vcvcvc9216
@vcvcvc9216 8 ай бұрын
I have treasured my season of watching this video, but as I approach the 15 second outro I can feel my brain that has been absolutely fried by short form content clawing it’s way out of its skull prison. I appreciate the opportunity to watch this video and look forward to the future development of my short attention span and my desperate need for instant gratification.
@kingdomofthecloudsandthestars
@kingdomofthecloudsandthestars 2 ай бұрын
I really love your sense of humour. It would be fun having you as a friend
@LaNoir.
@LaNoir. 2 ай бұрын
"seasonal friend" is like "temporal partner" - just run.
@CB-dj1uz
@CB-dj1uz Жыл бұрын
I was thinking of applying for new jobs. It’s been awhile since I’ve went through an interview. I’ll definitely raise my voice now, thanks!
@renschick463
@renschick463 2 ай бұрын
almost, just a headache and its been FIVE hours. 😤
@Audiophile979
@Audiophile979 Жыл бұрын
I will be here every season 💐💕 You are so good for my mental health ✨️ xoxo!
@user-se5si1xz9l
@user-se5si1xz9l Жыл бұрын
when he said "how close was I?" I immediately took a gulp of water
@_goopho
@_goopho Жыл бұрын
rude of that tiktoker to deliver the sad friendship season finale news without asking first if the other person is in the right headspace to receive that information :(((
@BabyBear046
@BabyBear046 Жыл бұрын
Best comment lmao
@jessw.6250
@jessw.6250 Жыл бұрын
Nooo I didn’t want this video to end! It definitely could be a Part 2 🙏❤
@InvisibleRen
@InvisibleRen Жыл бұрын
7:47 Lmao it’s so hilarious all what you said before this because I was thinking EXACTLY, “This is how I sound when I explain to my therapist why I still haven’t reconnected with or made friends.” 💀
@Seventy4days
@Seventy4days Жыл бұрын
You were spot on I’m so thirsty 💀
@eetadakimasu
@eetadakimasu Жыл бұрын
You're really funny and I enjoy your channel!
@chris1995tina
@chris1995tina Жыл бұрын
Omg how did I miss this upload? U r my fav KZbinr king 👑
@JosieBean.
@JosieBean. 11 ай бұрын
I love your videos, they are so funny😂
@whirlygames7887
@whirlygames7887 Жыл бұрын
6:09 Me and my friend actually do think our relationship in seasons lol. She was there for a season and a half before moving away for a bit. She’ll be back in season 4 though. It’s also because i just wear the same outfit everyday, and the moment i switch that outfit (like once every few months) that marks a new season.
@themissingsock2437
@themissingsock2437 Жыл бұрын
Good vid, love the new hair!
@Kittylyne78
@Kittylyne78 2 ай бұрын
Love the hair and the blue contacts 😉💜
@theoheart
@theoheart 7 ай бұрын
I love you hair in this video!!!
@marql8606
@marql8606 Жыл бұрын
😂 your facial expressions are spot on. You are a handsome young man.
@jmarshal
@jmarshal Жыл бұрын
TikTok becomes more and more unhinged as the years drag on.
@CrumbledStudios
@CrumbledStudios Жыл бұрын
Love the videos
@ericasarts
@ericasarts Жыл бұрын
Bye my friend literally did that boss break up thing with me like she was ending some kinda business deal 😂😂
@rilaxkumah
@rilaxkumah Жыл бұрын
This season of Edvasian is great
@echobreez6624
@echobreez6624 2 ай бұрын
after he was taloking about volume, this kroger ad just destroyed my eardrums when this middle ages white soccer mom sounding ladyscreamed about some fresh producs
@crispy_biscuit
@crispy_biscuit Жыл бұрын
edvasian your side part is side parting, one of my favorite hair styles on you tbh
@garbagegremlins4707
@garbagegremlins4707 Жыл бұрын
I had someone do that first thing to me- with the weirdly clinical language and all that exactly like the skit and it broke me. Don’t do it. Just don’t
@kris.........
@kris......... Жыл бұрын
I just have to say your comedy in this video is PEAK. The patting on the pack I LOST IT
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