Cindy Gallop: The Surprising Benefits of Staying SINGLE! How To Talk About P*rn.

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[@chez4648]

I'm definitely subscribed...all your content is so informative!

[@chloevaughan5353]

I’m 20 minutes in and had to stop to comment! This woman is so wonderful !! The way she speaks her truth and goes against society’s normal grain is so inspiring! So refreshing!! Xx

[@dew_africa]

I'm at 13 mins, coming to do the same thing!!! I so need to be hearing her wisdom right now!!! What an amazing woman! I'm getting divorced, been feeling weird and this is like a fucking breath of fresh air!!! 😅 😊❤

[@berts1045]

Same 13 min in and I'm goobed gagged and humbled. My entire being took a shift with what she said about Love ❤️

[@andreapearson4180]

This woman is my HERO. I'm 43, child free and single, been made to feel worthless by family members.

[@zuzana511]

Hi, I m almost same age, no kids and single. Not care anymore what about others think. Sending greetings 🎉

[@oyandakona5994]

Amandla✊🏾 Womandla❤️

[@Sheldon1411]

WOW! As a young woman, this woman is the type of woman I dream about becoming. A person living vivaciously and on her own fucking terms.

[@glamupwithkatrina]

This was so refreshing and Cindy gave us all a totally different outlook. I'm 58 never married no kids my choice and iv been chastised for it my whole life. I loved this. It was a very important insight to freeing us all from societal norms. Bravo🎉

[@AoibheannDoyle-SoulTherapist]

I adore this wise, spirited, joyful, empowered woman!!

[@lolamar6064]

I soooo agree. My last relationship lasted 10 years, he was 10 year's younger. He was 30 and I was 40 when we met. It was the most fun, adventurous relationship I'd ever had. We fell out of love at the end but remain friends. Im now 51, just ended a 8 month relationship with a 53 year old man who was an utter bore, grumpy and drank way too much. I've been online dating with older men in their 50's, and they're just so boring and way too serious. Definitely going back to younger!!

[@oyandakona5994]

🤣🤣🤣

[@persiancat19]

Love this and it's made me feel a lot more positive about a different outlook on dating , instead of finding the one ..

[@rhodacampbell]

Just listened to this and I’m really grateful to hear of another woman who lives like this. I have been this way since I was in my early twenties but thought I had to do the whole relationship/marriage thing, so spent parts of the last 20years failing at being me. I’m back to myself again- not doing conventional relationships but have wonderful lovely relationships of respect and authentic (both sexual and platonic). Thankfully I do have a daughter who I have a healthy relationship and co-parent with her dad, and am supportive of my married friends and family that their choice is right for them. I’m so glad, I’m not the only one, so glad Cindy talks so openly, it’s great

[@NikkiLifeInBloom]

I love this woman! She speaks right to my soul ❤ thank you so much for this incredible conversation

[@ashleysoldera8414]

I think she loves herself and doesnt need anyone. Be true to yourself and work on self esteem and confidence. Thats true power. What other people reveal to you says more about them not you. But only if its true.

[@Samantha-bq8bo]

I’m living exactly like her .. we figured out it’s the smartest and safest thing emotionally to do .. these relationships are beautiful with respect , learning , and this caring love.. they all come back lol she’s right! Zero expects create the perfect vibe !!!I’m so glad she validated me because every once in awhile I think I should get a husband ..you think you need the safety but dread the idea of it lol

[@DanielleGowenlock]

Being true to yourself looks good on everyone. Really enjoyed listening to her points of view.

[@Cluckkin]

Thank you Paul for having Cindy in your podcast!!! I have been asking some popular podcast hosts to look at her work and YOU did it!!!! I first heard you on diary of a ceo and absolutely loved them, still on my list of favorites.

[@PaulCBrunson]

Much respect!

[@rhodacampbell]

You interviewed Cindy so well, so so well. Definitely want to give credit to where it is due!

[@alexandracooper3560]

Absolutely amazing interview 👏 I've had to go back and re-listen several times. Great woman

[@tshidig]

LOVE HER. PERIOD.

[@emmajohns6586]

Absolutely loved watching this episode ! This woman is so inspirational!, I have just turned 47 and if I can live out the next part of my life, with as much confidence and conviction as Cindy, I'll be one happy Woman xx

[@sj06-sunrise]

I contacted Cindy to ask if she had any merchandise - and shortly afterwards I became the proud owner of a cute pink t-shirt with the strap line 'Make Love Not Porn' across my chest. As we are all finding, Cindy is liberation 🗽🕊👵 Thank you @Paul Brunson for finding this unique, pioneering woman to cause 'glimmer' in our lives. Congrats all round to all involved! xx

[@PaulCBrunson]

Love this!

[@serenaroseauthentics1391]

What an incredible, wise and intelligent woman! She’s magnificent!

[@lizzie2820]

It’s refreshing to see someone who is that unattached from what society expect. I like her confidence! On the other, hand STD are on the raise for older women. I do love myself too much to share my body with a stranger, who might have slept with so many women that are careless about their health. Better be single and choose abstinence instead of catching something. 🥴

[@cindygallop5910]

I always, always use condoms 🙂

[@romiozzo]

Well, if you plan on living a dull livetill you're 95, then stick to abstinence. Besides, most STDs are perfectly and easily curable these days, and even aids is no longer a quick killer

[@nikevabrown6614]

STDs are on the rise for married couples too. It is important to realize many people aren’t being honest and STDs can happen in any relationship construct.

[@barbara6840]

I'm 48. Had my fair share of Blue Pill F-Boys. Thinking this lovely woman has gotten me to open my prospects to younger men.

[@Safaeesworld]

I loved this so much, I woke up at 2am and tuned in .. trying to go back to sleep thinking oh my god who is this woman…. I’m obsessed … 4am invested in make love not porn ! Boom - what a woman and what a vision- thank you for introducing me Paul

[@stef3337]

Wow! Thank you so much, I’m 43 and wish I heard this in my 30’s, the pressure for women to marry and have kids can be so consuming, self love is liberating, living authentically and finding your life purpose❤

[@Sacred_Em]

Wow, what a woman ❤ I am in absolute awe of Cindy. Fabulous paul. Thank you.

[@DenaJ]

Definitely an interesting and insightful interview.

[@phylliewilly]

She's brilliant. This is so encouraging and illuminating for so many women

[@LauraHammond-m9b]

Omg I feel so seen !!!! I didn’t plan on dating younger men and it happened so accidentally.. I’ve had long term relationships with multiple men who have made me way happier and treat me better than my ex from a 30 year marriage!!! It’s the best thing that ever happened to me

[@Respectthejourney19]

Paul so happy to see you in this space ive been following you aince the beginning and really enjoyed your Mentor Monday's..i enjoyed your first book as well..keep up rhe beautiful work you add ao much value to the world!

[@PaulCBrunson]

Much love and respect 🫶🏾

[@laurenShilling]

THIS unapologetically herself what we should all aspire to be. Stuff the people who will try and shame you for not wanting what society says we should want. This comment section is fantastic. Women realising they're enough all on their own

[@shawnlove4502]

I adore this woman!!!! She speaks to my soul.

[@AuthorAnaBarreto]

I just love Cindy and her wisdom. She owns her authenticity and is a great role model for every woman who was ever told they were not enough

[@gabsradience1]

This has literally put the literacy to every feeling I’ve been having in my being

[@gigilou]

Oooh I'm super early today!!! I absolutely love listening to these conversations so already can't wait to listen to this one ❤ xxxx

[@PaulCBrunson]

🫶🏾

[@annapurpose]

Laughing my ass off. Amazing! The conversation is so entertaining and still makes you think and reevaluate! I am delighted:)

[@jmk1962]

Love that your podcast doesn't have huge microphones in your face.

[@PaulCBrunson]

Much respect 👍🏾

[@toyinkezia5181]

Loved this

[@melissabuckland7737]

Great episode, really enjoyed it and lots to reflect on myself!

[@carolineb7796]

Love this. So refreshing

[@rachelx230484x]

What a completely different and bloody amazing lady! Really enjoyed this interview, the advice about talking to your children was very welcomed too! Can't wait to check out make love not porn!!❤

[@KristenUchida]

Omg I LOVE this woman! Thank you for this wonderful interview 🤍

[@charisma4200]

I told my self this when I was 17! Glad I choose childfree and single life ✍️

[@Missenden]

I used to date an older woman, it's so much easier and they are more confident in every way. Everything she says I agree with.

[@anatavares9013]

We hear we don't judge😊

[@maggiedavis5670]

Who else is going to immediately watch her Ted Talk from 2009 after this?

[@Eurshanie]

One word... REFRESHING! I absolutely loooove this conversation!

[@chikamsoodume3601]

I like this lady ..minus the dating younger men part. She makes me want to be myself more

[@bernigallagher9665]

She's right. I've done the long term relationships. Life is so easy not wanting a partnership good on her. 🎉

[@christelnielandt5117]

Loved it ! Didnt’ know the conversation would turn towards porn, however I enjoyed it. I LOVE to hear people talking about NOT caring for society standards BUT to dare to live your life according to your true morals / values in life. I do not live the standard life and for many years ( and it is still going on ) I have been critized. HUGE thanks ❤️🌟❤️

[@mohamedelfatih9826]

It's surprising how things someone is used to see as instinct like getting married having kid is not taken for granted by some body else What a big world a person Lives in !!!

[@PM-lr8xv]

Found this good- agree, let go of pressures of finding the one, it's definitely freeing

[@abeba5936]

Thank you so much for your effort ❤❤❤❤

[@Millionaireyl]

I did it once and went against my own principles. He left me totally broken, and it took a real man to repair the damage never again, especially when citizenship is involved.

[@PM-lr8xv]

30.50 - sometimes I don't just think the woman is thinking 'no way he'd be attracted to me', sometimes the woman feels creepy getting with someone that much younger than her both chronologically and mentally

[@sweetdivine2701]

Love it❤❤❤

[@shirleykilbride4555]

Also there are also many fit and healthy older women about these days ..put younger women to shame ..no wonder .as well as older people know what they want...i also date younger men ..very happily ..too ..❤

[@jmk1962]

What an amazing lady. She should be employed by the government to design sex education for our children as they currently failing and the result is generations of people/adults who have no clue about healthy sex and relationships.

[@queenmaevev2]

I listened to Cindy years ago & I’m here still single- yah it’s fabulous - NOT

[@nicholle82]

It’s not? Say a bit more please

[@shawnlove4502]

Everyone isn't the same. It's okay to want a relationship.

[@michaelaedwards8317]

Oh this lady amazing! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@PeaceMatters5]

My god I love her😅

[@farrahlipsham5533]

Yes! Younger men DO want older women! I would get hit on by guys in their early 20s and I would tell them "honey, thats so sweet but Im late 40s" and instead of the kinda shocked "oh whoops" reaction Id expect they were so much more excited and interested. Most older women are just so comfortable being themselves, being assertive and honest enough that the young men know exactly where they stand with us. And no pressure to get married and have babies

[@GeorginaHolt-w3x]

I love what Cindy has to say! ❤

[@kirstyhowarth5781]

Cindy is brilliant and very inspiring! I’m hoping this is the start of a sexual revolution. Very refreshing conversation.

[@Magical_Makeup_UK]

I’ve disowned every single one of my ‘family’ they all know me and my daughter are homeless not ONE have offered to help.

[@barbtki2239]

Nice 👍

[@Mary-Mar]

I love the "self care" comment! I had a guy tell me that he is astonished I wake up looking effortlessly "pretty" in the morning. I'm 43 years old. I told him "Oh, that's because I've never been married and I don't have children." I never heard another woman say something similar until now! That's so great! Also, on the dating younger men front, we older women who have never been married and dont have children, tend to date younger because our same age dating pool is pretty small. Most relationship minded men our age are already in a committed relationships. Many men my age who are not in relationship, are not interested in relationships, or they have kids and ex-wives, and I find dating those men very difficult. They don't really have the time to date because they are busy co-parenting and raising children.

[@sourceinsights]

narcissists will love this i.e. the brand of confirming how others perceive you. seperate to that, she has confirmed what ive come to know at this point in life....DGAF just do and stop caring what others think or need from you. Thank you!

[@VonWellness]

Narcissists live by that latter point.

[@ronicajefferson7272]

An icon

[@ViagensGringa]

I aspire to be her! Shes dope af!!! 😅

[@melissaroshan]

Thank you so very much for your content ❤. I’d love to be a guest (humbly stating this). I feel drawn to share that.

[@Kimmypooh2627]

I have to stop watching this video as her perspectives in life doesn’t resonate in me especially dating casually or having sex casually. Or it is not something I would practice. I am open to the idea of dating younger men as well but not to the point where I have to keep my doors open whenever they decided to come back and let’s be so called friends. Why keep the past in your present and future if you don’t evolve and grow. I am single and content no need to re-open doors to people that will not serve your growth and vice versa. To each of its own.

[@VonWellness]

I like this. I’m sure you’d agree that I feel she is oversimplifying, and more so, over-hyping this type of lifestyle. It has several adverse effects. But regardless, she’s found a way to detach from that. She’s a free spirit. She sounds liberal. And nothing wrong with it. As long as she’s happy within her architected reality and not harming others.

[@daisyh8481]

Don’t know what younger guys she’s met but I only meet “road man” types

[@immers2410]

Isn’t bold the same as fearless?

[@YawaTsagli]

I think her thought process is amazing, however my only reservation is the fact that she is preying on 20 yr olds, date the 30+ men. Going lower is predatory in my opinion.

[@yellpatzy2764]

Thank you!

[@immers2410]

Sounds like she’s jusr trying to justify being too disagreeable for a normal relationship

[@MayuriPatel-iw5xo]

Don’t know so Much that this lady isn’t wanting love because she does have BF. Seems to me she’s behaving as men do.

[@lulu-xt5gs]

Wow❤

[@yellpatzy2764]

Men need to stop this narrative that we are ALL emotionally connected with men when we have sex. It’s not 100% true.. And you will be suprise finding out that some women are 1000% detached And for the casual sex, for the type of attachment you have it can be good or not. For an anxious attachment style it won’t work AT ALL trust me. So please her experience it has, and some will resonate with her but not many though.

[@yellpatzy2764]

Does she know it’s grooming or?? Dating men in their 20s

[@whatbringsmepeace]

I thoroughly enjoyed the woman being interviewed, but the interviewer pausing to recap what she had only just said was really annoying, lengthening the interview unnecessarily IMO.

[@bonnieking4913]

2nd interview I've seen of yours. Again another extreme avoidant attachment style. She is making the most of it but thats not the same as healing.

[@asalane20]

Another interview podcast ?? Ugh. This format is so boring

[@kittydonovan1452]

What an awful message for women. Shallow relationships and a life alone. My children and my husband beat any experience, holiday, whirlwind love affair or career I’ve had and still have. I feel sorry for the next generation.

[@ladyt81]

Good for you 🎉..... But why does that mean she is spreading an awful message? What makes you think your way of life is the 'right' way? Why should we all be EXPECTED to want the same things in life? Not rhetorical questions, BTW. It's ok for people to want different things in life 😊

[@daisyh8481]

It’s more awful and selfish to bring new sentiment beings into this horrible world

[@daisyh8481]

Always married women with kids are triggered, what are you even doing here??

[@rosec6680]

Well looking at how you "parents" have raised the future generations and been utterly selfish in the process, makes me ill. The most selfish, shallow people I know have children and husbands and wives who are quietly miserable. I'm pushed to see any marriage that appears healthy. You are trying to convince us or you?

[@illy_6]

That’s you though. I’m married but tbh if I hadn’t met my husband I wouldn’t be surprised if I’d gone down this path - I love him to pieces but not everyone meets the right person. I waited for a lifetime (it felt like) to meet him. So if someone wants to live life on their terms like this and most important BE HAPPY (and not harming anyone at all in the process) - good for them!!

[@gisella91]

Purposefully immersive engagement. This felt like an overdue intervention on mindless cultural convention. Thank you for curating this gem @weneedtotalk-podcast ✨

[@sooticablue1664]

She lost me at ‘I’m that very rare person who has absolutely no desire to be in love whatsoever’ …. It’s just another ‘I’m not like other woman’. 🥱

[@SharonA_14]

She doesn’t have to be and that’s ok

[@stef3337]

She is being her true self and I can relate❤ so much emphasis these days on relationships, I have learned that being single has given me a peace of mind that I could not find in relationships, there is no price for waking up and going to bed in peace…. For those who have healthy relationships power to them but unfortunately for many… relationships can be draining and chaotic, I finally found great love and freedom being on my own❤

[@stef3337]

She is different and it’s refreshing !