Do You Have True Friends In Your Life? Selecting And Making Friends The Right Way

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[@jaypalarora]

Absolutely true Amitji. I left friendships because they expected that I'm available all the time for non-sense activities and talks. Life is a lot better without such kind of persons. I'm thankful to God that those kind of people are distanced now. It also gives time to think, learn new things when we're unburdened.

[@ashitmukherjee5934]

Right you are.🌹

[@sandeshpandit5540]

Same happens with me, I am like a Bakra to all with unlimited time but they also guilt trap me that if I don't stay connected to all then i'll be all alone in my old age. I am also scared bcoz of that.

[@ashitmukherjee5934]

@@sandeshpandit5540 One should involve in spiritual activities.🌹

[@himshikhabansal88]

Absolutely right 👍 100%

[@charubansal5652]

I don't hv friends because l can't waste time on them but at the same time l feel alone and jealous of other happy people around me

[@solutionsbyshaileshsir9597]

I remember in MS Dhoni , his friend came to meet Dhoni in five star hotel (after becoming famous cricketer) , they were not able to even talk freely as they were used to do during struggling days.

[@bittusharma5103]

Dosti ek waqt tak hi reh Sakti hai sabko apne raste pe akele hi aage badna padta hai

[@JagMagZindagi]

Mostly aaj kal ke bachchey sirf selfies mein filter laga rahe hain , friendships mein nahi ! Anyone with whom they can have a good time , is a friend for them. You’ve touched upon a raw nerve for many ! It’s a topic that often creates friction between parents and children nowadays and both shy away from talking about it .

[@simbasingh9576]

Selfie mein filter lagate hai, friendships mein nahi!! Absolutely nailed it👌🏽👍🏽

[@loknathdas3111]

Agree

[@prtyshmishra]

Streaks bhi

[@shuddhodhanshetty5839]

I have filtered out 95 percent of my so called friends in the past one year.. Soon after that, my thought process, outlook towards life changed drastically.. I invested my complete time on learning about the things around me, economics, finance, investments, people psychology etc and felt so empowered with my knowledge that I didn't need any fake friends who were trying to make use of me.. You will know you are on the right path when you throw out unwanted people in your life.. Amit ji is right in what he is trying to inculcate in this video..

[@ashitmukherjee5934]

You are in the right path.🌹

[@atitking]

what r u doing sir?.......i am in the last year of my college and still very confused about my life though i am good in studies and parents are saying that go and prepare for govt job....but still i am very confused

[@ashitmukherjee5934]

@@atitking Chose a path to make a career for living whichever interests you much and do hard labour with very ardent faith in almighty God.🌹

[@divyeshmansatta7216]

You are absolutely on the right track.

[@dikumari15]

What's ur age sir

[@vrahul0303]

Very true. Wealthy and rich people have very limited friends. They spend most of their time in staying and thinking in a lonely place. I will definitely filter out friends.

[@shardasingh1573]

I am senior citizen and luckily I have 4 real friends.We are friends from school time, collage time,and two from when I was working or practicing as lawyer.We don't have any expectations from each other.But at the same time we are just emotional support for each other.Therefore always happy whenever we get chance to meet or talk on phone.I really wish everyone should get true friends in life, it's beautiful.Thanks a lot sir, love watching your videos.

[@sumitthakur1625]

Sir any advice you would like to give to a 21 year old boy who feels like his relationship with his friends is not that strong and he only has friends for name sake ....feels depressing at time too....have stopped talking to most of them ...and not interested in making new ones because scared of being cheated/betrayed, no more exitement left as I used to have when I was young while meeting people ....is something wrong with me .

[@user-fq3yb8mq5t]

​@@sumitthakur1625make your parents and siblings your friends

[@S.m.24]

My hyper emotional brother faced many losses due to his friends. Soon he realised the reality of fake people pretending to be his friends. Today he has friends but he has put a border line between them and him.

[@sakshi_bairagi]

Sir, I have already started filtering out people after following your advises & it's benefitting me

[@megha90mehta]

Whatever you said is 100% true... Just got 5 friends... All of them are my friends for over a decade.. and we hardly stay in touch other than 1 friend... Whenever we do, we start from the same place.. no expectations from anyone... No going out on coffees/movies together... Hardly get to meet for 1 hour in 1 year.. sometimes not even that....

[@amardeep9643]

Best line - have good network of people and acquaintances but don't make friends because it create obligations

[@indranilchanda946]

I've reached my 30s, whatever you said is 100% true🙏

[@sunnysinha5174]

Same bro

[@sriramgopalkolachana9348]

Agree with you 100%. "A person is the one who goes longest and farthest is the one who walks alone" -- Parthasarathi Rajagopalachari.

[@Jam.S.]

Laughed heavily on "Parents do jhappad lageyenge aur bolege GET A LIFE" 😂😇

[@gassyalways]

😁

[@gaganajadhav8299]

🤣

[@debajyotibanerjee1897]

You r 100% correct. Real friend is rarest of rare in life

[@KuldeepSingh-zq2pd]

A very eye opening thoughts, we are having disguised friendship, we all laugh and dance in groups, but that's only for party, not realistic meaning to the so called friendship. Great story sir

[@prisurya1]

Women don't have much time to invest in frivolous friends who are not at similar phase and context in life ....that's why we lose networks over time which sometimes is not good to move forward.

[@samkumar3281]

Men don't have time for this shis shit too....

[@drravindrakumarchauhan1680]

Thanks.. you made a real story..real friends are those who celebrates your success by heart, Not by mouth. Who become Light house in Dark time..save you being depression Real friend enjoy..with a cup of tea.or coffee.. Not with PAG. ?! If you want friend..Never Do business with him in Partnership .and never asked for Money. Never Competite..Never be jeolous or depressed to see his progress. Enjoy your own means..and let them enjoy their assets.

[@hameedjillani7708]

Sir, You're always right but this video is worth watching more than 4 times so that it's digested, absorbed and assimilated. Thank you very much. We're learning a lot from you. May God bless you. 28.11.2022. Lahore, Pakistan.

[@gassyalways]

👍

[@vivekshivdasani9521]

Even though I am not a youth I am learning lots of clarity from your channel.

[@ashitmukherjee5934]

"Dost vah hota hai jo aapke khushi mein khush ho dukh mein toh sabhi aa jaate hain." Kya sutra hai.Bilkul original thought hai.Amit sir ji ko bahut bahut dhanyavaad aur koti koti pranaam.🌹

[@dyutichatterjee5486]

Bahut sahi bole hain aap sir. Since childhood I never had more than 2 close friends. In adulthood too, I have only two real friends. I am happy with this. There are some people to talk with, we share ideas and knowledge, but they are not really friends. I can totally relate with you. It's good to know that you actually supported this. Because growing up, my lack of so called 'friends' made some of my elders worried for me, I too sometimes thought that am I weird or something? That I don't have more than 2 friends at any time.

[@InderjitSingh-jo2dg]

I too believe in this.... have filtered' friends' as and when required, Dosti door ki,roti tandoor ki 😃🙏

[@prabirpanda3164]

Ek dum sahi Roti tawa ki nahi😅

[@ashitmukherjee5934]

Vah ! Kya baat hai.

[@Ayush-yn3np]

Already was in this belief. Your 2 videos on this topic Just reinforced my belief and gave me more reasoning to this belief.

[@ashitmukherjee5934]

Right.If you are a jobless and spending time with many does not mean you should keep them when you are doing job.

[@pragathiprojects6692]

Guruji, I wish, you or some one made this video 10 years back. Ethics, Values and Morals in a friendship, between 2 friends , is never the same on both sides. It will be exposed when actual critical situations come.

[@vasundharasherkar7862]

I filtered my friend few years ago now no one remained the same...girls who I thought as my besties got married and busy with their own lives..I'm very lonely..to the extent of going crazy.I live in negative household and have no one to talk to.. suffered from anxiety depression hypertension. Recently lost my mother and no one even asked if I'm alright.

[@priyag1901]

Very good info.. Have filtered out more ppl out of my life in the last 5 years than in my entire lifetime. Focus on what matters! Keep inspiring sir, God bless you!

[@ashitmukherjee5934]

Right.

[@dilbagsingh4857]

Absolutely true sir

[@manjular3678]

I agree with you. Some people you are close to turn out to be fake and jealous but Life is definitely better with True Friends

[@NatureGod369]

Filter , awesome thoughts sir. Kaash aap bachpan mein mile hote , ab jaakar 40 years age mein mile hain. 😀

[@makashkumar9241]

Such a great lesson I have filtered my friends from my life and have few friends right now

[@rajeevgupta7673]

I accept that we should consider what u r saying regarding friendship...only those who are happy with my success and growth is my true friend...

[@jaisriram2530]

Very correct Amit ji… you saw the true colors of people at the time of your success when they react and behaved with so much jealousy… Like minded people connect easily, I am following your channel. 👍👍

[@priyankasingh-fr8gg]

Sir only one truth,God is the true friend.this is the solution of all problem

[@DeepakKumar-rx7wl]

Sir tussi great ho ... Dosti ke chakkar me maine apne irreplaceable and irreversible 10.-12 years barbaad kar die is anmol.jeevan ke... Aur jis din sare dosto ko laat maari uske do saal ke andar govt service lag gai... Now I hate this word and concept like turd ... Ulti aati hai wo filme dekhke jinme dosti ko glorify karte hain.... Munna bhaiya etc... Bollywood ne ek tatti cheez ko leke aise package Kiya ki wo sweet lage

[@avjagdale123]

Sir, this is your third vedio I am watching as I was not your follower till today. But yes all these three videos I liked today spending time on Sunday. And you are absolutely right on all these three videos. 1. Tendering or helping on money to relatives and friends . 2. House buying advice. 3. How many friends you should have. I fit perfectly in all these three videos positively amd have adopted my life since long except on friends. But simce last two years I have learned a lot on friends as well and have filtered out all of them and spending time on learning new things, family first etc.

[@MamtaSingh-sp8iv]

This is very right, now a days youngsters call friendships to this kind of liaisons and waste lots of time which can be used for constructive work.

[@Sk_______]

Time is limited, there could only be a few relationships that could be carried across a lifetime. Thank you🙏

[@itsvpk11]

Sir, you're one of the most rational, logical and clear headed person I've come across.. loved all your videos. Thanks 👍

[@Jaipurforme]

Every word is very authentic..my friendship needs when they have demands

[@shashipatil6522]

So very true in real sense, most don't understand the real concept of friendship, in most cases its the no/strength. In reality it's absolutely just the way you explained. Many think and I know, I don't have any friends in a small place like where I am based for they believe in no. And I continue to seek that different level of friends.......

[@chandrashekharagnihotri3173]

Very true 💯 all your podcasts are so thought provoking. Many many thanks Amitji

[@anuradhamakhe2402]

Amit ji aaj se aap mere dost hain..... Absolute unbiased value addition in my life.

[@mridulakapoor4310]

Perceptive and very cognizant of the real situation. Thank you for making this video.

[@brajeshpatel126]

AMIT JI you make us to think from different perspective in each of your videos... gaining a lot of socialising insights🙏

[@sidd1298]

Bilkul sahi kaha aapne sirf 2 dost hai mere , kadvi lekin sachhi baat karte hai . Aur sahi kaha aapne dost agar hai to kam hi honge , possible hi nahi

[@iAshif]

Well said, in my life all friends are so selfish, now my family is my friend.

[@loosersstudyprogram4454]

This man is gives me a real mirror every time and I like this type for person to face the reality

[@Drvikasdongre]

It was a great clarity giver video. I can relate it with me very much. I m a family man. I Don't have many friends who chat nonsensely or party, I used to feel that I m missing something as I don't have many friends. But now I got clarity that it's ok and rather good to have few friends which can be counted on fingers. But they should be sensible progressive and open to critisizm, Not selfish I fit in your criteria and happy with my family More friends leads to more time wastage more problems even money wastage sometimes.

[@rahul0526]

A human being needs someone to share feelings, frustrations, happiness, sadness, etc. A friend gives an emotional support system which at times family members cannot give. How can we as humans beings be so Mechanical in our approach all the time and have no friends but only have acquaintances.

[@dahliajaji9547]

Have good and few friends who have similar positive goals and objectives towards life and influence your life in better way

[@ashitmukherjee5934]

Amit ji has already said that this reflects the poor relationship at home that you have to resort to so called friends outside.

[@rahul0526]

@@ashitmukherjee5934 This is not totally true. Friends outside of family can greatly advise/ help/ guide in student life, work related, life etc. Family members are not always experienced enough in different areas of life, work etc.

[@ashitmukherjee5934]

@@rahul0526 Right.But should be limited to the qualitative one.

[@keshabroy6094]

2-3 friends should be maximum

[@nitishamishra5461]

I'll truly filter out my Friendship...Eye opening video...Thanks🙏😀❤

[@shivaniarora4072]

Absolutely agree with this! Keep up in bringing excellent content like this one👏👏👏. We need more videos that can bring more clarity and sense in today's society

[@salonimehra4548]

F F very very true and I absolutely agree. Sir apko sun ke Aisa lagta hai jaise mere papa hi bol rahe hai

[@shivanyatara-jv9ce]

A mind boggling video. I knew some things but you have given a new horizon which is 100% correct. You are so true, raw and kitni intelligent baatein boli hai. An amazing video, mere toh aise dost v the jo mere khoobsurati se jealous hoke mujhe block kr diya😂😂😂😂. I also believe in quality of frns n not quantity

[@srinivasparimi4204]

Absolutely right. You echo my idea of friendship. Super

[@hormazhansotia5982]

ABSOLUTELY SPOT ON

[@shivs.chauhan7787]

Superb 👍 very true...aapne bahut hi sateek analysis kiya h..yahi sachhai h...badai sir 🙏👌

[@adityakaushik2997]

true sir, absolutely agree & young humans, teenagers should pay attention along with those who has same thinking of friendship.

[@saumyapunekar8625]

All time true , applicable to all age groups ❤️😇👌

[@ashitmukherjee5934]

Sir your opinion are very realistic , original , practical and productive.Amit sir ji aapko koti koti pranaam.🌹

[@ShivamGupta-io7en]

Absolutely love it.

[@ritugaba2078]

True sir ,l follow the same concept .and happy .

[@yashwantpatra6272]

I am totally agree with u, I have realised that a small group of quality circle is enough who can be happy with u when u succeed, and jo log he outside fo friend circle they are contacts because times comes when you need those people in certain cases mostly for work related( I think you should touch the point about the difference between:' contacts and friends' in the video.

[@saurabhparkash8025]

Bahut hi badiya video banayi sir ji aapne value added...

[@sushmaraj9136]

Your observation is v stron g,highly apprec iate🙏

[@ravinderkumaryadav2205]

The very good video and truth of modern times.The misconceptions have come in society due to films and social media.

[@binuarora5092]

U r absolutely correct,I think ppl make a lot of friends today in who they dont invest much emotionally also because they dont hv soo much time.Its just to spend an evening in good company. The current generation does not live with the family due to various reasons ,cud b education ,job etc .

[@ashitmukherjee5934]

But mobile and vedio calling is an asset if you stay away from your family.

[@harshitmishra3617]

Thanks sir, aapse bhot clarity milti h. Impractical romantic bakwass nhi krte sach bolte h..

[@monu25m]

Bht hi achha video... M dosto k bina kuchh kami mahsoos kr rha tha... Ab achha feel kr rha hu....

[@manas4752]

I totally agree with this thought and message.

[@changethegame7323]

Wah! Kya baat kyabaat kya baat

[@nareshshah6205]

Perfect defination

[@namansehrawat5435]

I'll filter out a lot of people from my college today itself. I can relate to you 100 times, there are people who use me for a lot of emotional support. They play the victim card mentality in order to look nice and harmless. The only thing that saddens me is if we look from the start of our schooling to our job/business then we have really few friends who can be counted on fingers but somehow we live in an illusion that we have a lot of people around.

[@salilweling]

you are right Sir. i have understand it very late. Now i didn't have any friend which is true to me. friendship and acquaintance are two different things , that I understand very late. Thank you very much for such a wonderful video on this topic .

[@DidYouRunAway]

Good to say I always had never more than 3 friends at a time at a phase of my life. And right now I have only 1.

[@mriduladurgapal1343]

Sir bohot sahi baat kahi apne. College friendship end hone k baad mujhe smjh aya shyd uss wqt mujhe smjh b na aata. Aaj jb already ye sb ho chuka now i can actually realise ki kon dost h kon nhi...or ab to mai kisi pr dost ka tag b nhi lgati. Thankyou for your valuable words 😊

[@navalkishor7120]

We can learn from everyone we meet, and it's important to filter, preserve, and execute the lessons we learn from all interactions, even if they come from a bad person or friend.

[@be-successful-today]

After listening you from last 3_4 months,, I subscribed you today with the motive as. A friend sir 🙏

[@drsangameshwarg226]

Thank you sir, very pragmatic thoughts. ❤

[@BlueOcean_Deep]

It's really really hard to find a friend who can be a sounding board and give a fair assessment of the situation / reality check. Eagles are solitary and fly high. Thankyou for sharing your thoughts Amit ji.

[@Celestialkarma]

Amit ji Great guidance for today’s youth And whoever has taken the steps to weed out the unnecessary burdens Will be successful in life So kudos to your followers who has put this into practice

[@jagadishradder6679]

Perfect Clarity Given

[@gayatrigayatri4596]

Very Cool Message, i used to feel bad about myself that i dont have many friends.Now i feel better. i want to filter out more. Thanks.

[@TV-xo5tf]

Best video on KZbin in last 19 years

[@sairajsakalabaktula1713]

Absolutely right sir , your right in all your points

[@ranjitsingh-qe4zk]

very rightly said sir, I fully agree what you say

[@Vishwaspandav]

Yes. This is how u shud filter out acquaintances. No need to brag ur success story and create jealousy. Lesser the friends whom ubshare some things , better it is.

[@chitrakshiartstudio]

Very well said Khushi me koi bhi so called dost khush nahi hota

[@madhurimamitra1283]

1000% agree with u sir...In present scenario ur video is so much apt 🙏🙏

[@rameshsampath1589]

Very important issue discussed to distinguish between Acquaintances and friend

[@rizwansiddiqui9608]

Very True ...God bless you sir

[@drshaival]

1.Sirji dost wo hai jo .sach hai usko sach bole. E.g. genuine success ko appreciate kare.. aur faltu gain ko shanti se bole ke bhai isme bahut khush hone ki jarurat nahi hai. 2...aap bole ke chhoti chhoti dukhi event muh dikhane aa jate hai wo dost nahi hote.... but sir genuine dukh hai usme genuinely sath nibhaye wo bhi to dost hai.. suppose I have depression and someone who supports morally n emotional level pe.. wo bhi dost hai.

[@ashitmukherjee5934]

Yehi baatein rishtedaaron ke saath bhi equally applicable hai.

[@amus2264]

U r absolutely right sir

[@techtalvi]

This is very true.❤

[@subashn.b5020]

true...awwwsome suggestions

[@victorpatro5364]

Very nicely said Sir , your experience counts a lot , love to hear from you on these topics as young children need to learn more and understand the importance of friendship

[@medhas5052]

Absolutely 💯 correct. I feel in down time i had no frnds even to talk . ..

[@ambreeshkapoor2549]

100 percent true..Very well explained...in very simple way 😊

[@deepaklaishramte7931]

Life is so short and we have been limited with only one life so i filtered so called 99percent of them. Now i am happy with my life and my family ❤

[@aryavikrampratap9914]

वाह! बहुत ही सुन्दर काका श्री💥❣️😊

[@gurmukhsingh5712]

Wow you are brilliant sir wat you saying about not just friendship and orher realationship is very true and they way you explain is very simple and meaningful