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@prabhasaxena41223 ай бұрын
1 one
@arjuntyagi58603 ай бұрын
If your parents compares you start comparing them with other parents I did, it really works😅
@hpaik61043 ай бұрын
Same 😂😂😂 I was always a debater the day I did it in class 8 they stopped
@jitabratanath36313 ай бұрын
Same bhai ....maine bhi try kiya tha ...😂😂it works
@leelar82503 ай бұрын
I will never compare my daughter's with anyone else, this was a very useful video 😊
@Apar-1-23 ай бұрын
I did the same too
@RamLal-er3ox3 ай бұрын
And after few years your children😂
@FlowersAmazing3 ай бұрын
1000% true! But it is useless to share these type of videos with them. They only want videos where they are praised.... our generation has pure Narc parents (except a few)! Its high time to talk of such issues and make everyone around aware... breaking this cycle is necessary... now its best to compare these so called biological older ones with other good parents! Thank you for bringing clarity again!
@MPatel843 ай бұрын
We three bhai bahen are blessed to have our parents. They never compared us to anyone. Always guided us in very polite way. Never scolded us. The same parenting we are doing with our kids. I was weak in my studies. Still never compared with my two studious brothers. Still i studied MBA and doing my own business. I think the confidence of a child comes when your parents believe in you.
@Travel_Junkie0073 ай бұрын
7:55 which clg sir
@manjular36783 ай бұрын
Comparing your child to other's is a personal assault on the child. These toxic parents feel it will encourage their child to do better. Shame on them. Thank you guruji 🙏
@prayashmudi19993 ай бұрын
My parents always compares me with others. The problem with Indian parents is, if the child says something to the parents they get offended very easily. They just don't want to listen to their children.The Parents have an "Always Right" mindset.
@muskan31-j7d3 ай бұрын
Lesson of the day:- we are nothing but just an Amazon delivery😂😂 btw great video sir🙌🙌
@deccanass2 ай бұрын
Responsible parents for future. 1. Fitness routine . 2. Pay medical insurance . 3. Have clear goals in life . In my experience these 3 points are vital for happiness and wellbeing .
@San_home-chef3 ай бұрын
You have spoken my heart out. My mother always compared me, she always tells me that as I couldn't get a government job, I am a failure.
@simranseera92793 ай бұрын
My parents have not compared us to anyone, nor have they openly praised us. They do, however, sometimes tell good things about us to others (maybe to increase their pride), but they hardly praise us directly. Which category is this sir? 😀
@prateekgupta87903 ай бұрын
these are the bestest parents, teaching you to fight this competitive world, and they don’t praise because kahin aap hawa mein na uddo
@avssrikanth93 ай бұрын
It depends on the impact they had on you. Comparing with others generally decreases a child's confidence. However, being neutral can also be beneficial, especially considering how many parents blame kids and leave a negative impact on them.
@vijaydeepborde79083 ай бұрын
Exactly i told my mother one day that' what a careless visionless irresponsible mother she was. She stopped poking me then. Now I think what took me so long to show her , her very reality
@vaibhavarora203 ай бұрын
Sir yaar aap kamal ho... 100% match. kahan se itne pain points ko late ho... I have lost interest in my relatives due to my mother's constant complaints from last many years
@fwefhwe42323 ай бұрын
better to reach out to relatives directly and present your point of view. NEVER let anyone do misbranding for you
@rockysharma19297 күн бұрын
@@fwefhwe4232 Kis kis ko jawaab doge aap Possible nahi Parents se dur ho jaao Aur log kya sochte hain is par dhyan mat do bas
@t.c.00013 ай бұрын
ऐसेही पेरेंट्स को बच्चे बुढ़ापे में पूछते नही हैं, फिर वो इस बात का भी रोना रोते हैं की हमारे बच्चे तो हमको पूछते ही नही। और लोग भी बोलते हैं की "ऐसे बच्चो को पाप लगेगा, ऐसे बच्चे होने से अच्छा हैं की बच्चे ही ना हो।" काश ऐसे लोग बच्चे पैदा ही ना करें और पैदा ना करके उनपर एहसान कर दे🙏🏻
@ShubhamSci-jn7ld3 ай бұрын
Sir numerology ki baaki videos bhi complete kar dijiye It's a humble request 🙏🙏🙏
@ShubhamSci-jn7ld3 ай бұрын
It will be a great help 😊
@ast.deo963 ай бұрын
@@ShubhamSci-jn7ld he won't, he has already told it before.
@argha53273 ай бұрын
I don't know how you find all the real issues and highlight in your video,I am also within that 95%,now my parents have been changed,beacuse of that I never utilised my full potential,hamesha lagta tha mai bekar hu
@Apar-1-23 ай бұрын
My parents were very realistic.They will tell the truth to us.They will never tell in front of others .
@prashantjadhav93122 ай бұрын
Aapki har video dil mai change kar deti hai mujhe kai content creators se itni kick nahi milti lekin Apka content is straight forward Har kisi ko hajam nahi hoga you are like Osho
@akashd3y3 ай бұрын
I feel blessed in this matter, my parents are critical when they need to be but not too harsh. Probably because I am an only child, I think that's a privilege
@ijustfelldown3 ай бұрын
Nawazuddin Siddiqui recently said there's no need to marry. You might want to address it since he has a lot of influence on young males.
@manjular36783 ай бұрын
I don't think he can influence anyone. Only you seem to be influenced 😂
@chaturvediclassesagra3 ай бұрын
Sir secular samuday yahi chaahta hai ki aap marriage na kare aur ve 5_6 paida kare. Aage kya hoga aap jaante hi ho. Ve chaahe star ho ya aam secular sabka agenda set hai bas hamara agenda hi kuchh nahi hai.
@maahijain54863 ай бұрын
@@chaturvediclassesagraसही बात कही आपने हो सकता है आप के अनुसार तो आगे बहोत बुरा हाल होगा
@bapparawal24573 ай бұрын
The same guy who has committed love jihad , domestic violence and then left his wife on streets. Then found another. If men are listening to such people , then they need to recheck their idols.
@t008623 ай бұрын
Nawaz khud shadishuda hai.
@schumi932 ай бұрын
Its a very common habit in punjabi families... This demotivates the child.
@pallaviyadav35462 ай бұрын
Jindagi barbad krke rakh di h Indian parents ne
@yogendranautiyal99943 ай бұрын
third category of parents: who don't speak abt kids at all. They are supposed to be best ......
@crabsdiary529913 ай бұрын
Wonderful topic to discuss on. Thank you for speaking on it so frankly. This is the true reality and realisation is always bitter at first.
@Ayoooowtf3 ай бұрын
Ngl mere parents dono mai se koi nhi hai sahi ko sahi aur galat ko galat bolte hai kabhi kisi rishtedar ne 10th 12th ka result nhi pucha they respect my privacy and I respect them
@nachiketdaithankar44053 ай бұрын
Brilliant, once again. Talking about things that no one speak of in the public sphere. He's absolutely on point about this.❤
@leelar82503 ай бұрын
Guruji.. enjoyed this video ❤ I am mother of 16 year old, I will definitely prove to be a better understanding mother now on.. Thanks 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@ashishsheokand61413 ай бұрын
Guruji, ek request or hai.... I know ki aap upper middle class ke liye videos banate hai but kaffi saare issues lower class me bhi common hote hai... Jaise ye wala issue. Am belongs to lower class. Mere parents english nahi samanjh sakte, Agar me ye video uhne dikau bhi, to bhi kuch-kuch english words includes hone se aapki baat ka pura matlab nahi samajh payenge. Like kuch kuch ple padega unke but saara ni... So request is, jo videos lower class parents ke liye hai waha english words use na karya kro jisse bilkul illiterate person bhi full samanjh jaye🙃
@sonalsharma52933 ай бұрын
What about those naughty kids who everyone knows about anyway in family n building etc? 😂. It’s difficult to advocate the devil . My relative aunt use to lie so much about her sons n daughter in laws protecting them that it was a cringe as everyone knew the truth about them. But it was sweet of her I agree. Woh bhi ek dukh hai parents ka.
@twinklesharma44863 ай бұрын
My parents are not like comparing us with anyone so cool.. Not said us anything for marks etc.
@twinklesharma44863 ай бұрын
Safar plz read my poetry on twinklesharma 4486 huge favour from you.. All
@deepikasingh35683 ай бұрын
I m really blessed to have such parents who have never complained about me to others❤they always supported me and stand beside me...
@divineray78223 ай бұрын
Clarity for Parents karke ek channel banaiye aur uspe daliye.
@meenakshisingh20492 ай бұрын
Bache bolna bhi chahe to bhi Darr k mare nhi bol pate parents ko. Ghar m ashanti na ho isliye bhi bache chup reh jate h
@RounaEdorume-ov5qv3 ай бұрын
I Always check your videos for updates! Our government has no idea how people are suffering these days. I think disabled people don't get the help they deserve. Thank you Mr Basant Maheshwari, imagine you invested $500 and earned $2,500.
@RounaEdorume-ov5qv3 ай бұрын
she's mostly on Telegrams, with the user name.
@RounaEdorume-ov5qv3 ай бұрын
Basant410 👈💯
@RounaEdorume-ov5qv3 ай бұрын
@Basant410 This is it👆👆
@jyotideshpande35933 ай бұрын
Sir you addressed Nitin Kamath's opinion abt kids..please address Navazuddin's words abt marriage as well
@Lavanyachawla553 ай бұрын
Unhone already bana di hai aur kitni banaye
@pallaviyadav35462 ай бұрын
Jindagi barbad krke rakh di h Indian parents ne
@atulkumar-lm7cg3 ай бұрын
8:28 , best logic against reservation
@Yt.WebVideos3 ай бұрын
मैं अपना सामान और PC पैक कर रहा था घर से जाने के लिए फिर आपकी वीडियो का नोटिफिकेशन देखा और अब में पूरा वीडियो देख कर आपकी बात खुद के हालात से रिलेट कर पा रहा हूं अब मैं कन्फर्म हूं की मेरा डिजिशन सही है अब करके दिखाना है ❤ थैंक्स फॉर योर गाइडेंस 😊
@NitinKumar-pc2no3 ай бұрын
My mom never ever said bad about me and my sister, everyone is jealous of our family... Just tell absolute truth
@bikash.choudhury3 ай бұрын
Bhai mne to kehta hnu ki baccho ke ware mne baat hi nai karna cahiye… Na hi positive aur na negative… Jyada positive baat karenge to ristedar bhi jalne lagte hne…
@tejasvita19763 ай бұрын
Eye opener for parents!! Too good
@AlkaBabbi3 ай бұрын
Sanskar hai sanskar.. Ki hum kuch bolte nhi...
@stuti00373 ай бұрын
Mere ghar me... Nando ki bahut tareef hoti hai..Wo dur rehti hain.... Bahu bete sath rehte hain... Unki burayi hoti hai...
@prashantjadhav93122 ай бұрын
I’ll surely invest in your channel membership bcoz it’s extremely beneficial
@AditiSingh-ho2euАй бұрын
One of my relatives from inflows side keep calling my husband even wk 2 to 3 times and talk for hrs aur unke bacche Kitna nikamme hai batate rahte hai.....unki life main to so called jahar ghula hua hai unke baccho ki wajah se magar mere husband ka damage bhi kharab kartte rahte hai.......and he's from my inflows side main sidha sidha phone mat Karo is baat ke liye aisa bol bhi nahi sakti
@San_home-chef3 ай бұрын
Till date, even after my marriage, motherhood my mother always curse me
@manindersingh823 ай бұрын
Aisa bhi hota hai ki ek parent 95% mein hai aur doosri 5% mein, tab bachon pe kya impact padta hai?
@ruchiraasharma52783 ай бұрын
50% ऐसे ही माता-पिता होते हैं
@vraj36022 ай бұрын
Yes sir, mera bhi same yahi haal hai. Mujhe bhi society wale bohot troll krte hain and mere parents ko influence kr dete hain fir ye meri baat nhi maante. I'm also suffering from this. 😢
@mamtamodi67913 ай бұрын
बढ़िया कंटेंट के लिए धन्यवाद। आंखें खोल दीं आपने।👍
@rajeshgulati12962 ай бұрын
Addiction for misery........Comparison is thief of joy
@NightMare-x72Ай бұрын
I don’t think today’s parents compare .. it used to be before 90 born kids.
@Solivagant19082 ай бұрын
Mere parents na hi ninda krte hai na zyada tareef. They dont comment much on us with others. And just moderately
@rahuljagdale9113Ай бұрын
This is the most generous video you have made which should be listen by all paternts & to be paternts also.
@mdabidraza44653 ай бұрын
My father don't compare me with others but also don't praise me infront others. When I do mistakes my father never overreact only say agli baar s dhan rakhna samajh m naa aye t pehle puch k chizo ko clear krr lena.
@sahiladkar33933 ай бұрын
Same bro My parents have same mentality❤
@puneet84272 ай бұрын
Agar unke tukde par naa rahein, khud ka kama kar life enjoy karein, aur phir bhi woh hamesha disappointed rahein phir kya kiya jaaye????
@pratisthanamdeo60573 ай бұрын
Indeed i I am blessed my parents never compared me to any one and always made me feel enough of who I was as a person❤
@chaitalivaidya68453 ай бұрын
My parents neither compare with us with anyone nor openly praise in front of others as nazar is real 🤣 but my mil/fil always compares her sons, baki dils ka rona to automatically roti hi rehti h, ye nhi kiya vo nhi kiya ultimately kabhi khush nhi rehte😅😅
@i_g985420 күн бұрын
Guruji True SatyaSang ..😅
@abundant2243 ай бұрын
I almost cried when he said usme bachche ki galti nahi thi ji 😢
@tinugarg7843 ай бұрын
Sir mai apke 99% point se agree krta hu but fir b kuch point se disagy b krta hu
@Drummerboy6193 ай бұрын
Mere majority wale hain, nihayati bewakoof hain
@SimarGill-q1k3 ай бұрын
Exactly yahi ho raha hai
@AristocratePrince3 ай бұрын
Sir hum majority vale hai....😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@vikassharma59373 ай бұрын
Lecture lene ki koshish karta hoon?😂😂
@SimarGill-q1k3 ай бұрын
Jaise foreign mein minimum wage hai india mein kya honi chahiye
@DEEPAK2302611 күн бұрын
You are sach me great, thanks
@jfyt21142 ай бұрын
What to do if one parent is category 1 and other of category 2
@vipulghai103 ай бұрын
I belong to 95% Category sadly ... Although there are a lot incidents that i can share but one that really broke my heart was once when my Mother told one of Her Chamchi that i visit her as i was only interested in Money and Property. I came to know from a common link and told my mother that i know what was discussed. But to my surprise My Mother didn't even called her Chamchi and cleared it out ... I live in Delhi and she lives in Punjab ... From that day , something inside me died and i decided to stop visiting her regularly like before and even if there is an Emergency, i make out ways not to go as she doesn't need anyone although she lives all alone there as My Father passed away in Sep 2022 ... She is too much money minded and thinks that if i visit her i will ask for money or share in property ... ❤❤❤
@fwefhwe42323 ай бұрын
mummy ki property tumhari hi to hui (esp ladke ho to). Tum nahi haq jataoge to aas paas bahut hain to uss property ko chahte hain.
@vipulghai103 ай бұрын
@@fwefhwe4232 Hmmm ... Agreed but she is more influenced by such people only ... Still trying my best to stay calm ...
@babyboy92553 ай бұрын
Let her think or say whatever she wants to. Even if something inside u died, u must must visit her and stay with her as much as possible. These things won't matter once she is gone. Just don't be affected by her immaturity or just her age and loneliness. You are too old to now bother yourself with these petty things. And also u r old enough now to take care of her and let go of any hurtful things she may be saying even unknowingly
@vipulghai103 ай бұрын
@@babyboy9255 Hmmm ... Thanks ...
@suchitabharti54003 ай бұрын
Kya parents ke agains gana galat hai tab gab ki hume yeh pata hai ki kya sahi hai kya galat
@savitajakhar619123 күн бұрын
They dont allow to work
@punit4953 ай бұрын
😂😂mja aa gya
@DEEPAK2302611 күн бұрын
Love you sir for this
@CHANDNII11113 ай бұрын
Mere vle to kehte hain ki tu hai hi nhi hamari pta nhi khaa se aayi hai 😂😂
@vinaykaushik69053 ай бұрын
Mere parents toh dono ka mixup haan, Wo kabhi meri burai karte haan kabhi meri tarif karte haan And {[(I RESPECT MY PARENTS ❤)]} Ye aadmi keval pagal bana raha haan youth ko, aur baccho ko bhadka raha haan unke parents se ladai karne ke liye
@chanchalkumar53403 ай бұрын
1
@savitajakhar619123 күн бұрын
So true
@nusratlines49473 ай бұрын
Sir make a video on this topic: books that should we read regarding finances or financial freedom etc
@universeiscalling3 ай бұрын
Bachchon ko actually dard feel hota hai, parents ko dard failane me..... very, very deep words 🙏🙏🙏.....
@prashantjadhav93122 ай бұрын
Amazing content Gajab ka knowledge dete hai sir aap big fan
@satyanrajput79512 ай бұрын
Kindly make a video on topic: “If girls should claim their share in property from their parents or brothers after their marriage?” And if girls should stay for years at their parents home for one reason or other after marriage?
@ASDesai-xw1ws3 ай бұрын
Make one video for youths because after a long struggle we have to be freedoms from angrej n they all follow their culture... Eat wear n shadi matter etc...if possible because our grandparents suffered so much that why...... Build a good culture if possible your own way..... Keep it up🙏
@prasannagore3 ай бұрын
Really good video Guruji! Eye opener for parents as well as for kids. 🙏
@Apar-1-23 ай бұрын
Some people told me not to send my child to hostel for graduation.The distance is too much .They think, I am trying to escape house work in morning.I have told he elders that solar power ke wajah se they are using better electricity.Aur I told that they want to make money out of kids.Isiliye Ghar par rakha hain.
@SanghPath3 ай бұрын
Last 2 minutes....😅 Please listen guys...😂
@subhajitmondal27743 ай бұрын
Guruji, job profile kaise analyse karein iske upar ek video banaiyee...
@Prit20043 ай бұрын
If we feel our kid is best, why will we compare with others. But whatever you pointed I agree for previous generations
@sachinjadhav23063 ай бұрын
Guruji 🙏
@yagyapalsingh45833 ай бұрын
Guruji, kya nikkammo ki sachchai sabko batana kyu galat hai, vo to vaise bhi kuch nahi karte aur na hi karne ki icchha rakhte hai to why we hide their habits.
@garimasaini583 ай бұрын
Agar ye video Mai apne parents ko dikhau to bo bolenge ki yahi chize dekho phone me Bigad jao bass phadna likhna nahi hai
@sudhanshugupta84263 ай бұрын
Guruji aap vdo me hi bol dete h nafrat ki nigaho se dekho.... Dekhne k bad to pakad hi lenge
@divineray78223 ай бұрын
Bacho ke liye to Shravan Kumar aur Ganeshji jaise ideals hain, par parents ke liye koi nhi. 😢
@namannamdev1233 ай бұрын
Production factory😂😂
@itzurboyyapper3 ай бұрын
bhai sahab bura mat maana kya aap ladkiya ladke dekhte hoon shaadi keliye agar haa tu batana
@rohanchhetri73013 ай бұрын
sir is there any video on only child families?
@gossipandvlogging30623 ай бұрын
My parents are constantly compare me with other girls of my age. I m working right now and live away from them but still they want to impose their decision their choice on me fr Marraige, and don't want to accept my relationship with my bf. They have given me a clear cut choice to choose between my father and my bf...... Whenever i visit home, Always do emotional drama infront of me so that I leave my bf..... I don't know what to do
@divineray78223 ай бұрын
Marry your bf
@davinderkum3 ай бұрын
GuruJi, You are back on Your Strength Areas! 😊
@pallaviyadav35462 ай бұрын
We need more people like you sir
@neelamaggarwal40533 ай бұрын
Sir koi parents yeh nahi chahte ke unka bachha ghar se Nikal jaye. Hamare to hai hi bahut achhe
@ritumakwana24553 ай бұрын
Very well said guruji
@History-ih5ng3 ай бұрын
Or jo isliye krte hai ki najar Naa lgg jaye tareef krke unka kya krein ..