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I could listen to her talking about chicken nuggets and still be motivated tbh.

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[@aaliyah5737]

It funny how I'm watching this and I don't gives shite about what ppl wanna say. I'm at the stage in life where I'm just done with people

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Navyrdie same

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Navyrdie saame. I'm soo tired of ppl. I don't give a shit anymore

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Teach me your ways

[@jslife1038]

When you start being yourself people are eventually going to stop saying things or calling u things because they will notice that u don't care about there opinion so they will just stop entertaining u and not caring about what u look like anymore.

[@humaira347]

So true!

[@cjyoutube1294]

And when ever someone says something bad about me I think about it for weeks. I don't know why everyone calls me s freak or weird when all I try to do is blend in. I've got type 1 diabetes and I'm a "freak" for having that and people have threatened to take my insulin pump off me . And people call me fat even tho I'm not but I still don't eat when they call me fat. I care to much about what people think because I never feel good enough

[@justinsings6039]

Oh another thing. Don't be too worried about your weight or shape. Most of the people especially girls think they aren't looking how they should be. And want to look like models from magazines, tv shows etc. Don't let them fool you. Because what the most people seem to forget is that most of the models and such have a special unhealthy diet or are underweight. Don't be an example of that, and don't be what others tell you to be. Just be yourself. Don't worry about models and such. Your perfect just the way you are.

[@humaira347]

JustinSings woah true words :) thanks for writing this.

[@justinsings6039]

Humaira Tasneem No problem, I think this is really important to know. It's just what she says. We want to be like the society

[@nirupamau8980]

Isn't it weird and bad that such people are called models? Cuz model means example, and it's like whoever thought of calling these people models was trying to tell the world that we should all look a certain way. And I think that's horrible. Just a thought.

[@common_inconvenience9924]

@@nirupamau8980 Interesting... I agree with you👌

[@taylor-st1fz]

"Trying to be someone else is a waste of the person you already are" -Kurt Cobain

[@H1ddenB1ades]

I can relate to this so much. When I was in middle school I was wearing band shirts and liked to wear dark clothes and at that age people didn't really care. I was the horse crazy girl who had a unique style but in high school things changed a little. I'm naturally blonde but I wanted a change before high school so I dyed it black, I kept the same style that I used to go with in middle school however it had gotten a bit more mature and I had started to wear more makeup. Sure I had always been a loner and been the outsider, but I had never really been bullied. I do have depression and anxiety and I had it back then too but that's besides the point. When I started high school all of the people started off friendly. But they would always comment the way I dressed, they thought that my heavy music taste for metal and screamo was strange for a teenage girl like me, they probably saw me as some kind of "emo" kid. I fell for the peer pressure, to be able to fit in and be one of them I started to wear colorful and "preppy" clothes and makeup and be like them. I even stopped listening to the music I loved and started to listen to things just because others did it, but I always used to listen what I wanted to when I was alone and when I felt I needed it the music I love has been my way of coping with mental illness and as I didn't listen as much to that anymore and listened to music that didn't mean anything to me made me feel very empty. I didn't feel like me wearing preppy and pretty clothes. So in my second year of high school I slowly started to change back to what I felt was more me but I didn't go all the way at once. I started wearing darker clothes and I refused to wear skirts and dresses, and I got my layered hair back. During the winterbreak I decided that I wanted to be myself and I didn't want to be what everybody else wanted me to be. I learned how to do my makeup until I was pleased with it myself, I listened to the music I wanted and after the first year trying to be someone I wasn't had made my depression and anxiety seem worse. But I felt myself coming back and it felt good. But that also came with a prize the "friends" I had left me one by one, people stopped inviting me to parties and at the end I was alone. It made me very depressed and I had a very dark period where I started to do harmful things to myself and I felt like I didn't want to live anymore. But despite all this I prefered being myself and be alone than pretending to be someone I wasn't and have friends. But things did get better after all I may not have made friends in my school but I made friends that liked me for who I am and I even found my current boyfriend witch I have a distance relationship with, but we've been dating for over a year now and i couldn't be happier. So yes as you said, always be yourself even if others don't like it there will always be some people that will still like you for you. Keep these people close to you and be thankful that you have them. Update: The guy I was dating isn’t alive anymore due to an accident because of an irresponsible illegal driver, he and his horse got launched into the ditch and the horse had to be put down immediately and Heinz fought for long and despite good prognoses he passed away. So life is a little hard rn... /The"Emo"Kid xD

[@humaira347]

Omg are you okay?

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Humaira Tasneem I’m ok I guess

[@okandnowlol9947]

The Outsider i know it's been a while now but i would ecually like a update on how you're doing now. I'm sorry for you're loss and hoping you're doing better now.

[@lanaleys99]

THIS! When I was younger I always wanted to please everyone else. I did what other people expected from me. I never really stood up for my opinion, I just went with everyone elses. But while growing older I stopped doing that. More and more I was standing up for my own opinion and for what I wanted myself. I lost friends when I stopped doing what they wanted me to do or stopped acting like they told me to act. But honestly I don't need friends who only wanna hang out with me when I act like that want me to act. Or when I always agree with their opinion and can't say my own opinion. I'm now 26 and I'm always standing for what I believe in. But I also accept the opinion of others. I think that's very important. Love your videos btw!

[@SimplyShannonK]

yep... this is where I am at right now. Two years out of college and I have absolutely no idea what the heck I'm doing and what I want and I really needed this video. I have no idea what I am at all.

[@humaira347]

Hey are you okay?

[@nariyah8066]

How Do I move on? Can you talk about that?

[@nessew7835]

Can you do a poem about social anxiety disorder? :)

[@BluezConcepts]

ohhh im early :o also , really helpfull. Tomorrow school starts again , im having so much stress rn ;(

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BluezConcepts same here

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Dont be nobodies bitch my G. Wipe the dust off your creps, get a clean ass lineup and start handing niggas fades as soon as that school bell rings. #1hunnit

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I love the tone of your voice somehow

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Can't wait to just sit down with a brew and watch this video ❤️

[@215AxD]

I cared so much about my appearance for most of my life. After struggling with anorexia I discovered CrossFit for me. My body turned really sporty and I stopped caring what other people told me: stop training, else you'll look like a male, or: being strong isn't ladylike, stuff like that, but the strength in my body really strengthened my mind.

[@zeft2817]

this is basically social anxiety

[@poetikalyanointed_lionofju3019]

Tazz, you are so on point here! I found myself smiling and nodding my head throughout this video. It's Great to see YOU in this light....you know! This was a wonderful topic to speak on and you nailed it!

[@KoreanwithMissVicky]

Thank you for this, Taz🌸

[@juliebinks303]

Wow, this was so spot on!

[@Mary-jv2fx]

So inspiring for someone who has felt so lost recently! Thanks.

[@goretti3528]

I just subscribed to you recently (yesterday actually), but I already love your account. You seem like such a nice, genuine person and your videos are so uplifting and enjoyable and I just really love watching them. You give such great advice and I'd like to say thank you for making this particular video. I've struggled with this for the longest time and it has really affected me a lot. I find myself getting so closed off and I second guess everything I do. I get too inside my head and I don't even allow myself to feel free or do what I want because I'm so concerned with what others think of me. It's the new year though and I plan on working on this and a lot of other things about myself so that I can truly be the best and happiest verison of me. I just wanted to share that with you I guess, I hope you have a good day!!

[@jessemendoza9193]

I must say taz ur a free thinker , kinder reminds me of my self ! And that’s what makes ur videos stand out! Don’t lose ur passion for what u love and stay humble as you grow on social media.

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First! I love you sooo much, you really inspired me 💖

[@hypnotizedkahuna7332]

I love you. You're amazing. I needed this. 🙇

[@KevinMeyerSSK]

Be you. But fit to your society.

[@chloepayne2561]

I know I'm really late watching this but I'm quite new to your channel. But... I really appreciate you saying this. It made me realise how much society has changed me so much (and I'm only 16). This video is really important to me and I'm glad you made this. Thank you Taz!! I love you, your videos and your poems💕

[@melv.1112]

Yes I need this so much right now! I don't shave my legs & I've been confident & it hasn't even become a thought anymore. Now that school is starting, I'm feeling anxious about it. Your video has definitely given me some confidence! I will certainly re-watch this video the day I go back.😁

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You're absolutely amazing person. I love the way you talk about all those thing. You give so much power and just... You're gorgous.

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your videos are so inspirational, I love them

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Thank you taz,, you really do help and are such an inspiration. So thank you :)

[@VinoVenitas]

I loved this one. I have always tried to live according to my own rules and what I feel is good or bad. Its really hard but this video just reinforced my feelings of doing it though.

[@megan204]

I feel changed, thank you❤️

[@aidana263]

This is an old video but you are the first KZbinr I've genuinely related to. I mean your videos are funny and I find myself laughing along when you and Moon are together because it's literally how me and my friend are together. But I understand when you say that people need to take control of their decisions and I've always wanted to try different fashion styles to see what I really like but have never been brave enough because of back in my high school days you would be judged on what you wore so I played it safe and have basically worn jeans and a tshirt (jumper for the winter) since then. And thanks to you Taz I've gone and bought myself some dungarees because I've actually always wanted a pair and they were on special too so that was amazing, what a bargain ;) But thanks for your videos, they're really so good and you should keep pushing yourself out of your comfort zone just like I will 😁

[@dargent2951]

This has really helped me. I’m going up to secondary school soon and there is a group of bullies that has picked on me and my friends before 😓. This has made me feel a lot better about everything!

[@VK-il9kv]

thank you for this video xxx

[@emmeverett1512]

I really love your videos. Thank you so much, Taz! Always makes me feel better. 🤗

[@nechma13]

I find this very important to talk about, and as always taz your videos are very helpful and i thank you for posting them. In middle school i was very different from who i was in high school and college, I've always cared what people think and i think the only time I didnt was high school because many peers were accepting. My only thing is a comment i think its import to care about what your directors, teachers, coaches and bosses think, these are people who will criticize you actively but are workinh to guide and help you understand and encourage you to grow. After being in an abusive relationship almost 2 years ago i shut down and didnt talk about what had happened due to yes the fear of others reactions. I was worried about their thoughts on me for not seeing the signs until it became very toxic that it was toxic. And because of that situation acting as a whole has become very anxiety inducing because revealing myself and being vonrible is very scary after abuse. Yes im worried about what people think but i also want to know what they think about my art and music and poetry and writing, i want their feedback. But what scares me is actions.

[@briiskella4883]

I really needed to hear this today this has been a huge struggle and core producer for my depressing thoughts and anxiety especially today so thank you for saying this and just being unapologetically you😊

[@humaira347]

hey are you okay?

[@smallblueflowers]

Thank you, you helped me so much.

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Thank you. This video was very helpful ! I love your videos!❤

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Hi Taz! Can you please make a video on how to find out who you are and this stuff, thank you :)))))

[@FloridaTesfay]

I'be taken a lot from this video, thank you so much!!! It was really encouraging :DD

[@elizabethteague6400]

Omg I so needed this today!! I'm so afraid to speak up in school bc I'm scared that I'll be wrong, but this video really inspired me to get over my fear!

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I've been subscribed to you for a while but I've been a bit (shamefully) lazy about commenting BUT I wanted to let you know that I truly look forward to your videos and am very interested in how you view things! your voice is also super pleasant to listen to and you know how to speak in a manner that keeps me focused (which I have a bit of a problem with!) so thank you AND keep it up!! =D !!

[@lamosObamias]

i have serious problem with that so thank you for these advices Taz❤

[@Wildchic777]

This video was AMAZING been having low self esteem and I needed this lol you should make a part 2 later if there's any more to say!

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Really helpful thank you❤️

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Thank you so much! This really helped :)

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thank you

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preach gurl preach

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thank you 💚

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Taz, you're like the bigger sister I never had. I really like you

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*Expectations Ruin Experience.*

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you're so inspiring 🖤

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first time watching her and all her contents are relatable. got yaself a new sub!❤

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I love the way your mind works, Taz. You are incredible and you are so intellegent, wow. Thank you💝

[@BrandonLaufer]

Thank you for the video and persepctive!

[@abbysdiary8734]

this was so helpful because recently I've wanted to cut my hair and grow it again and people have been telling me that I'm gonna look ugly because I've never cut my hair before. I really wanna do it but I've been torn between what i want and what people want. I decided to cut my hair and watching this video gave me so much confidence in my decision. i know this might seem small but its actually a big thing to me because in life you always start with the small decisions and work your way to big decisions, so if i could make this small decision then the big ones won't be that much of struggle. Taz thank you so much for your video and please keep on posting more

[@humaira347]

hey are you okay >

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I really cant wait for the day you get really big! You're amazing💜

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you're an ABSOLUTE GEM

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I love how you think

[@Marie-nm2je]

This makes me laugh when i clearly know you don't have go through this because you're perfect.

[@nikkimarie5649]

Your description of what people’s mid-life crisis’ has been my whole 20’s so far.

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I absolutely love this video, i just subscribed because of this, It's so true and I needed that reminder thank you ❤❤

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Love this so much! Very beautiful & inspiring (:

[@quitadiva4235]

Taking back control.

[@ZaneLazdina]

Thanks for being great internet person. And greetings from Latvia. Your weirdness is cute and relatable, just keep doing your best!

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I look forward to your videos, so inspiring, and I love how you say "bye" at the end so cute. Stay blessed 😊

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Wow I just loved each and every word you said ❤️...keep going girl 😀

[@msbee669]

before i even watch it ... i needed this

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Oh god I love this

[@rachys9981]

Thank you, I really liked your video, you're so right about what you say and I think that everyone of us should start thinking like this, me included 😊

[@thegypsysoul7284]

Was having a rough day and I wanna thank you for making my day 💕

[@silverfox9648]

Great Video, thank you so much!!

[@ghadi1721]

This was really helpful thank you dear

[@miaeongg2157]

this really changed my mindset im gonna start shutting off negative opinions / comments and focus on positive ones :-) 💙

[@pondumondu3550]

Your videos are my resident therapy

[@hanxsvtlog]

Taz is my superhero ❤

[@lovemecom3832]

We don't really need to care about what will people say about us, because whatever we do, even if it is good or bad, they will always have something to say about us. All we need to do is to ignore that kind of people.

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btw ur incredibly pretty & smart girl w a lovely smile , i luv ur personality and im a new subscriber ♥😩

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super motivation speach

[@marcofreire]

I never cared what people think about me. Sometimes I think I'm dead inside because I feel nothing for other people and don't care about them.

[@itspaanoo1972]

thank u😚

[@simplykatexo2504]

how to deal with bullies at school i think this would be really beneficial to a lot of people in the world

[@edliamnicole258]

You are amazing 💕

[@hanc724]

You have a very neutral voice, and its very soothing

[@juliamarlowe6960]

please make me a video on how to not compare yourself to others

[@arabellafernandez8703]

I have a sister who don't really understand me. She taught I'm okay, not tired but no I just kept 9n pretending. Im tired coz I study,helped her in her store then I clean house everyday . Only ME. It is always ME they all need need. ME that gives them problem . It makes myself crazy ,tense all day and being sure that i will be perfect always. I'm tired so much😣😥

[@opheliaedits2728]

Lovely video, Taz! School starts tomorrow for me, so this is right on time :-)

[@nikkiavorque]

They'll tell u, that ur parents doesn't also have a choice to decide for themselves during their time, but sometimes i want to stand on my own feet and whether i succeed and fall i know ill learn, in the end it will still be me, it will still be i who will learn not them. Main point is i want to gain trust in myself again even if they show i cant even do something right on my own

[@aishak8772]

This really helped me. Now I know what I want to do in college. Thank you so much.

[@werissa12321]

Love your voice so much 😍

[@jauzamaryammumtazah1470]

The first is getting to know yourself and everything else will be easy. At least from my perspective :)

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I really love your video contents.. it gives helpful messages 💖

[@cjyoutube1294]

I can never stop caring what people think 💔 I always hate how I look and my personality because everyone else hates it. But even when I change people still call me weird or a freak.

[@humaira347]

ITZCJ Lifestyle hun I'm sure you're so pretty and BEAUTIFUL. Your dp is gorgeous.❤ You need not hate yourself, you're perfect, you're amazing, just the way you are. I'm sure pieple love you and care for you and love your personality. I'm sure you've got an amazing personality. I know it's hard to get though all this and it might be hard for you, take care please. Everything will get better hun, I PROMISE. Love yourself, you are perfect. God made you 💕💕 and don't let anyone else s opinion hurt you okay? Do what makes you happy . Stay strong take care and keep smiling, I'm sure that smile would mkae a lot more people smile. ❤

[@humaira347]

Ignore the negativity!! Please. Your opinion and belief in yourself is the most important. Sorry to come off as a stranger thl:/

[@browngirl5905]

ITZCJ Lifestyle They don't hate you . They dislike themselves! I like dressing different from the people in my environment, it makes me UNIQUE and you don't want to be like anyone else. Be yourself and your beautiful the way you are.

[@humaira347]

You should not hate ypourself Im sure you are a beautiful and amazing person, Im sur eyou've got a great personality, and i feel bad for those who think otherwise. Please take care of yourself. Please dont undermine yourself, youre worth a lot, youre not weird or a freak, youre amazing and kindhearted im sure. i hope one day u can get through this, take care and im here if u need to alk to someone!

[@__mayen]

If you've changed and they still see you the same I believe you shouldn't change because no matter what they'll call you weird. You're the one they've chosen to pick on. So be yourself, meet people that are similar to you (people you'd like and relate too), have fun doing the things you like. You can't keep stressing yourself over other people's ignorance and stupidity

[@allieex776]

Your so pretty! Oml