Anyone that thinks they're gonna be home 100% is delusional. Adrenaline is enjoyable. Bluntly put: if nobody died, it wouldn't be as fun. Without risk, there is no reward. I respect the dead person for taking such risks. Or course, I feel horrible for the family, but I also feel good for the family since they had a boy healthy enough to enjoy climbing. This is a perplexing life we live.