Closure Call: She Moved To Be Close To Her Boyfriend And He Dumped Her!

[@Sketch89]

Ladies, and guys honestly … don’t EVER give up an opportunity and move for someone you’re not married to. Unless you have something lined up … It’s never a good move.

[@wbkbeats8724]

I have ptsd for moving across America and have anxiety being in cars and traveling now because I had such a horrible experience… 😢

[@Catturtlelover3000]

Yes that is absolutely a red flag. He wants to get married but didn’t want to live with her? Or have her move in with him? Doesn’t make sense. He should’ve been honest with her. And then he straight up moves away himself. That’s messed up

[@Sketch89]

Also, he sold her dreams. Plain and simple. He thought she would stay bc that’s what HE would do bc he wasn’t all in with her. He shoulda been honest and broke things off when he moved. She’s still longing for him by her response. But she needs to move on. ATL has plenty of opportunities find your niche and have a good life

[@tashachristy09]

Ok i really do understand why yall are thrown by her response t ok his reply. That being said its been two years shes obviously had time to go over every scenario and may be this was the best one in her mind. It could have been a way more personal dig type of reason vs we were young and i was a coward to not be up front with her (dont b talking about marriage and babies if youre not in that headspace young couples your partner may just run with it)

[@okokok142]

1. Gentle honesty doesn’t work with ppl like Megan 2. She had no life to leave clearly 3. She is “afraid” or “hesitant” to “approach him directly for an explanation SAYS IT ALL

[@mommabear1986]

This reminds me of Dr.John DeLoney, when he says choose guilt over resentment. Choose the guilt of saying no/being honest versus swallowing your boundaries and resenting the other person for crossing them.

[@MonicaRicciCoach]

I love John Delony. Smart man.

[@kevincormier7417]

Miss Maam, 1. Somehow, it was decided that I would move to Atlanta translation: I DECIDED TO MOVE THERE & FOLLOW HIM. 2. He helped me find somewhere else to live = HE HELPED U FIND A PLACE TO STAY ANYWHERE BUT WITH HIM 3. It happened two years ago = I've been out there in the dating streets and nothing significant has worked out, so now I'm scrolling thru my mental & emotional rolodex to rehash this situation so I can reblame him for this series of bad decisions that I made when dating him, as tho we signed some contract. Maam, let it go, enter therapy and slowly get back out there in the dating world when ur more emotionally grounded

[@cookiegalleria6916]

Me too Megan. Sadly, I married him and he was a raging narcissist.

[@Mammaj1963]

What a jerk he is. Big red flag , he didn’t want to live with her !

[@okokok142]

Yeah she’s not being honest with herself or you guys - biggest answer to allllll the closure calls are the callers denial of reality

[@kevincormier7417]

Wait, she graduated from College, got a job in ur field and instead of dating long smdistabce for a while, u dropped everything and moved there 4 him? Yeah that makes u stupid. Sorry, not sorry. If yall had been dating a year long distance and u found a job there in ur career field & then u decided to move in with him? That makes much more sense

[@okokok142]

Be honest

[@jenellenelson4447]

okokok we get it.

[@johnnyclay1203]

It’s been two years, get over it. Also, you never pick up and move to a different state for a boyfriend or a girlfriend

[@brittanyamber9066]

I would never leave all my friends and my job for some guy LOL she must be young