Her Boyfriend Cheated On Her Then GHOSTED!

Her boyfriend didn't just cheat on her...he GHOSTED. She never got closure on why he did what he did! We'll get it for her!
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[@Simone-wf6yq]

He's one stray alley cat just wandering around setting up house at wherever gives him a good time.

[@kelseymo8793]

He’s absolutely a coward for doing it the way he did, even he can agree on that. However, his needs were not being met after (according to him) letting her know what he wants. He was truly in a no win situation because had he stayed in the relationship and pressured her into doing something she’s clearly not comfortable with he’s wrong. He knew the reaction he would get from her if he told her the truth so he bounced. Best thing to do would have been to say it’s not working anymore, everyone deserves that respect.

[@Maintenance_Mark]

My mans in the right.

[@mainegardenguy703]

Whybare men's preferences always considered horrible by this show, but the women do all sorts of immoral stuff ans get kudos. She was too difficult to deal with and not worth the hassle to talk to. She obviously doesn't listen and talking to a brick wall is a waste of time. Bunch of simps...

[@Jane-gh7er]

I was thinking the two letters were B O or something but I am obviously miss communicating with their generation.

[@Kayla-kr8tb]

😂😂😂 I can’t even figure out what she wouldn’t do

[@bryannag3887]

@@Kayla-kr8tb Jane got the B right, but she's missing the J.

[@Kayla-kr8tb]

@@bryannag3887 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ lol

[@cindyelle6251]

Can someone clarify snorkeling in the BertShow lingo for me

[@magusdx]

Please

[@KittyandDucky]

I think he is referring to um, oral activities... When Kristen says "is this a store?", it's the name of a wholesale store called BJ's

[@Dani.J.]

I believe the 2 letters were "BJ" and snorkeling means, she didn't like to give oral

[@karendavis2022]

Oral??

[@angelaonly7983]

B & J

[@Iamhimberly]

You know what's funny I was actually getting pissed and thought it was stupid that they wouldn't say what it is, but I actually appreciated the fact that I had to decode it and once I got it I started laughing. And he's right like do you know how many women would probably cheat with some loser if her dude wouldn't go down on her. It goes both ways for sure

[@laurao8099]

I mean he mentioned he wanted it more and she obviously didn't want to as much. I'm just not sure if it would sound any better for him to say "this is important enough for me to end the relationship and be with somebody else if you don't want to do this." That would sound like a pretty big threat. So he mentioned he wanted it and when she made it clear she was not into as much as he was then he took off when she was out of town the alternative doesn't sound much better.

[@joieb340]

I figured that out right away. She wont do "special" things that he wants, I can half understand that. Its a deal breaker for him. Personally I have no problem snorkeling. Actually its faster and easier than the full act. I was thinking maybe he wanted to do some parking in the rear.

[@s.holmes613]

If another woman not only snorkels and enjoys it as much as he does, it can happen.

[@jenellenelson4447]

​@Madisontaylorholmesare you okay?

[@amyalexander1324]

He did find someone else, someone who likes snorkeling. But that was a shitty was to break up with her. It’s not like it was an abusive relationship and he needed to leave without her knowing. Just my thoughts

[@gs2782]

But everyone has needs and preferences. And not everyone is confronting. I think writing her a letter is still valid as some people can pen down their thoughts better instead of speaking. I would give him points for being honest with her, telling her what he wanted and what was not met, instead of lying to her about it (which a lot of women lie about their reasons for break ups). His feelings were valid.

[@kevincormier7417]

Welp in all honesty, I can tell u that to go from being with someone for an entire year and only getting it twice, I can assure u that it was the worst two BJ's he's ever had in his life and she prolly did it like she had a gun to her head. So when u go from that experience to having someone who LOVES to do it and does it with passion, issa whole different world. I still think there's gotta be more to his reason 4 the breakup but 4 sure that was a simp move to end it like that

[@victorialavenderasmr]

The most dumbest way to break up with someone that I’ve ever heard in my life. I think that he’s lying and I think that he did meet someone that likes the same thing he does. He’s a butt head for just dumping her like that especially when when they live with each other he’s a coward and he is an idiot.

[@anthonyb6578]

Do I agree with how he handle breaking up with her? No I do not it was an ahole move , but I do agree with him about the relationship part. He, just like everyone else is entitled to be with someone that makes them happy. If you’re not happy, why be in the relationship?

[@Rudy-oh9wc]

Agreed

[@laurencampbell5064]

Agreed. Probably shouldn't have moved in together to begin with

[@ThesteelLion]

I don't know why she's wasting her time pack your stuff move on and find somebody better that isn't so scared

[@badboygoodgirl]

Wowzers

[@MsGigijenjen]

What are the 2 letters?

[@paulababula9621]

BJ

[@jenellenelson4447]

Anyone asking is too young to be on here. Google it

[@Starchild42]

WHATTTTTT????? I'm lost....help me out!!!!!

[@mikebean.]

Someone said BJ

[@paulababula9621]

BJ

[@ryanford726]

Where you went wrong is moving in with him before a Wedding had taken place. God's original plan wasn't for people to shack up and try out the goods before marriage. I know this is what everyone does nowadays but that's not the way God intended for it to be. People are supposed to date long enough to really get to know each other then get married Then move in together. This shacking up playing house Never Ever works and it never will. 💯

[@St.OlGa.]

I'm guessing this refers to piano playing through the back door?😂😂

[@karendavis2022]

I was thinking, oral.

[@angelaonly7983]

BJ

[@St.OlGa.]

For real? Honestly if my bf didn't want to go Snorkeling I'd totally break up with them too lol

[@jenellenelson4447]

How do you not understand what snorkeling could mean... 2 letter word. Seriously 🤦‍♀️

[@angelaonly7983]

BJ