Fifth Date Update: What Did She Do On Their Fourth Date To Make Him Break It Off?

She went on 4 great dates with a dude, and then he sent her a message saying they aren’t a good fit. What happened? We've got her #FifthDateUpdate!
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[@gerberadaisyluver]

Wait until this woman has kids then she’ll understand. Kids deserve to take up space as they are humans too.

[@ssinssg]

She's not wrong. But acting like a jerk about it is lame. It's something you say in the car on the way home, wasn't that kid so annoying?!

[@jenellenelson4447]

Yeah if she had said later on, "I love kids just seemed like they really didn't want to be there huh?" Something LIGHT like that, not the way she went about it.

[@frenchbluehen]

Agreed

[@laurencampbell5064]

Exactly

[@anniemccasey8032]

Ok. So annoying kids or no annoying kids. It could have been a number of things. Bad service, bad food, bad weather, difficult patrons, etc. But his point was that she was negative, complaining, she herself was as whiny and annoying as the child. I personally would see that energy as just bad vibes and a red flag. Be present with me. Stop letting it ruin our time together. That's the issue. She was just a bad date. My now husband and I probably would have made jokes and tried to make the child laugh. He was looking for empathy. A quality character trait. A kindness. A heartbeat. I totally embrace his decision.

[@Mammaj1963]

I don’t blame the guy, she has no class obviously

[@MysticSageSaga]

Cassie, sometimes I don't agree with you but OMG. I will bow down to your sass any day! You are a queen!

[@meganmoon6197]

Same lol

[@kevincormier7417]

I 2nd that emotion too! I disagree with Cassie 99% of the time. But this snobby girl said, I mean u can take ur kids out" & Cassie sent her an uppercut with "OH THANK YOU FOR YOUR PERMISSION!!" That was one of those Mortal Kombat....FLAWLESS VICTORY!! 😂😂😂😂

[@TiffanyBeat]

People without kids and help with those kids don’t understand.

[@ashleym.2981]

Like my Dad used to tell me and my sisters when we were younger, “Have some couth!” I can understand how she would have been annoyed, but she could have expressed it differently!

[@candacecarroll9033]

She needs to get over herself. She could have asked the restaurant staff to move them, but she was rude about it. I don't blame him one bit for dumping her.

[@catherinebreaux]

I always thought that restaurants would do good to have a glass sound proof room with teenagers there to supervise the kids so everyone can enjoy their time

[@lovespictures2973]

Children are part of society too, miserable sow and sow!!

[@frenchbluehen]

Then take them somewhere appropriate and keep them quiet in normal society. They're annoying.

[@estemeiring3705]

4 dates are nothing! I used to do the same, I want to take time to see the person in different settings and how they treat others etc. 1st few months people can pretend...they put best foot forward etc.

[@joieb340]

I wish her well too!

[@kevincormier7417]

4 dates? Really? It's not like they've been together in a relationship for 6 months. It's a grand total of 4 DAYS around a person and they're treating it like they signed a contract. Ugh

[@devonmackify]

Well, turn it around...if you gave him that reason after 4 dates, would you want a radio station to contact you and dig for a better reason ? If you answer no, then give him that same space. So, now that I have heard the issue...the issue is not the kids at the restaurant, it almost always goes down to the parents handling or non-handling of the said kids...but yeah, that would turn me off because I hate complainers...

[@laurao8099]

I am really horrible with etiquette but I know enough to not complain when I am on a date especially with someone fairly new. Especially if I am really enjoying their company then most other distractions do not bother me. It sounds like he found it very off-putting but the fact the whatever came out of her mouth and a tone that she use was so off-putting even bothered the table next to them made it officially a lot worse

[@n.c.4829]

She's a mean spirited person.

[@kevincormier7417]

Guys should just start responding to the Bert Show and saying "She was too fat. Or she is too skinny or she has a big head" then maybe they'll stop asking. Bcuz clearly huys responding with general responses and wishing her well is getting them crucified

[@vl-c7079]

Sounds trashy...

[@MrThenonchosenone]

I agree with the caller! Don't bring your toddler to a fancy restaurant, because it's a waste of everybody's money. Toddlers don't care about dry aged tomahawk steak with truffle potatoes, which is a waste of your money. Having to hear screaming and smell poop is ruining my experience, so that is a waste of my money. It is a no win situation, so take them to Texas Roadhouse instead of Bones.

[@laurao8099]

I agree on top of that if they had reservations I am assuming they could have just got their food to go so they are only there for a few minutes and possibly one of the parents could be in the car with the kids while they pick up their food.

[@frenchbluehen]

I'm sorry, but she does have a point. Who feels sorry for parents when they bring a toddler past it's bedtime to a nice restaurant? And then the rest of us all have to deal with it. But, she did not need to make so many comments about it. Everybody knows their kids are annoying.

[@brittanyamber9066]

I agree with her. I wouldn't say something but why are you bringing toddlers to a 5star restaurant? Why ruin everyone else's experience?