Co-Healer Roulette

[@MekareP]

People need to start sticking up for themselves. Sheesh. 70% of all problems could be solved with just saying No.

[@zaytovian]

^

[@wildemary]

Omg truth, especially when its people you barely know and/or can't stand. If I enjoy the group I could care less as long as we are progressing.

[@cheers2023]

If you speak up, they just accuse you of causing drama.

[@aki6760]

@@cheers2023 so what who cares, just play to have fun and do your thing. it's god dang vidya game -_- couldn't feel bad for the OP on this one, dag their own grave.

[@thejinks-lx4qf]

It’s not that easy, this coming from a person that has no problem saying no I can really understand why people can’t just say no

[@TechneMakre]

on god i hate hearing ppl sing in vc idc if they're good, it's my fave song etc, instant deafen for me lol, i would've left that static after like the second song🤣

[@Machinist_Main]

yea like a random line or something is whatever, but entire songs I'm outtie. I'm tryna focus here lol

[@SageTigerStar]

I was in an FC who would do maps but it was "owner needs, everyone else greeds", and I only ended up running with them twice. There was one officer who had multiple maps on his person/saddlebag/mailbox/retainers and the FC Leader always insisted we do theirs first so they can "put a dent in their collection" (which would never happen because of how they made this rule). Needless to say, after hours of running maps, the only one who ever made any actual gil was that Officer, and he'd stock up on maps again by the next time we were supposed to run them. It was a broken system meant to make the Officer rich because we assumed the Leader had a crush on him (she wasn't subtle).

[@harukuroma376]

Bruh wtf i thought common courtesy is outside portal owner need everyone greed but inside portal EVERYONE NEEDS, and each use up minimum 2 maps so everyone get their chance...

[@SageTigerStar]

@@harukuroma376 that makes too much sense for that group. :P

[@mysterycookie_]

6:40 "let us get down to business guys, come on, let's get down to business" I totally thought another Disney song was about to happen lmaooo

[@TheamayaonnaotakuBlogspot]

"To defeat, this boss. Are they really memeing? I feel it's a loss!"

[@RicardoSantos-oz3uj]

@@TheamayaonnaotakuBlogspot You the saddest bunch I ever met. But you can bet before we are trough. We will clear this boss out of loot.

[@talonmage40k]

"Let's get down to business/I don't got no time to play around, what is this?/Must be a circus in town; let's shut the shit down on these clowns/Can I get a witness? (Hell, yeah!)" ...oh, is that not the right song?

[@AgrPerez]

My main takeaway from this story is to get Pathra into a Disney karaoke raid night. Who's up for some DSR: Beauty and the Beast style?

[@ElZamo92]

I remember a friend told me a story of a couple that were the raid leader and a healer. Main difference is that this healer was absolute TRASH, but no one dared say anything because they didn’t want to be on the leader’s bad side. Apparently the other healer carried the GF’s ass all across Asphodelios.

[@yabiyabi]

the babe babe babe part got me🤣 Also... I went through extremely scarily familiar thing as the OP with transfer/static promises/filled while they put me in their static, then found someone else and kick..............it's scary similar except it was not in behemoth so ....... it's common I guess

[@theswearjar5909]

It blows my mind why people get so attached to someone on the internet she should have just said no to the server transfer

[@nyeonii]

I know a girl in real life that acts similarly to Moon. She has an inferiority complex compared to other women, and hungers for the male gaze. If there is a guy in the room, she will constantly try to one-up the other girls she’s around (even her friends) in order to be the center of his attention. It’s kind of unfortunate. Previously I kinda liked her and planned to ask her on a date, before I realized she flirts with everyone. We are still friends but I hope she figures her life out.

[@bellamango6708]

lmaoo I was just gonna say bragging about a high healing parse (with zero damage) is the opposite of what they think LOL means they aren't very efficient

[@schmidth]

It's just like in wow, high healing parse only means your co healers are mouthbreathers, you snipe alot of healing unnecessarily, or your raid is taking a shit ton of damage cause they suck. Pick your poison.

[@kmelfina]

As a healer main, it's rough for this savage tier. Some parties I communicate what oGCDs I will use, others I just listen to the sound effects and coordinate better if they have a pattern each raidwide. The struggle is using Swiftcast Rez at the same time on 1 person then another gets KO'd after.

[@kenamada5451]

What I do to circumvent this is having a raise order. WHM has raise prio if not rez mages are available and we go down a dps priority list. Healers first, tanks second (mechanic interdependent like if a swap is coming up) rez mages, melees, ranged. We do not raise instantly. We wait on the healers call for who they have and weave it into a gcd. Of course it's not 100 perfect but it works in my group 95% of the time.

[@broth54c]

Oh man..Look, singing is fine in general. I don’t want to judge anybody’s singing talents. Though if I sound judgemental in anyway, let me know. I wasn’t trying to be. Hearing someone sing in voice call on Discord, I feel like my patience is getting tested. I have to keep biting the bullet so I don’t be rude to the person. Now, if the person sings in a middle of a Raid, or hum the song, I would have to mute my headset and mic until the raid is finished. I enjoy talking to friends in call, don’t get me wrong. Singing or humming completely destroys my thought processes, and concentration. ;w; It’s just a pain trying to get my thoughts back together afterwards.

[@Wolfnicshadow]

This gotta be one of my favorite drama stories, I love the way it's written

[@Takusaiasmodeus]

I love when I can heal and I never have to communicate with my co-healer if we have that bond. Its like we know each other well enough and what we will do without communicating, I had that once and it was so awesome. I was an astro and they were a sage-- so we were a powerhouse healers. Singing: 100/10!! Maps: I run maps in the FC I am and we do the map need and everyone else greed unless we change it up to whoever is the map holder. Makes it fair for everyone without everyone getting up in arms hahaha. But we all listen to each other.

[@superfantasic3169]

That’s a person that’s is begging to be muted…. As soon as she would have started singing, I would have left…. But yeah back in my raiding days it was basically the same, all the guys simping for that one girl in the group, treating her like a queen… developing an ego that is bigger than the sun… But it seems like it’s the “norm” to have that one person in a group that’s just a weirdo or is really bad at the game, and gets pulled trough anyway because someone’s friends with them or because they are funny… Been in a group for a long time, with a guy who was just not good enough to raid he was really slow to react and so on, but everyone defended him because he was funny… he got all the loot first because he needed it most because of low dps…. We wiped so many times bacause of him nobody cared, if others fucked up or made mistakes they where bullied and made fun of….

[@erdnuzz8368]

Im Doing all maps from our FC Treasure-Runs - because i frickin LOVE finding spots. And im fast at it :D im even mad when i dont find a new spot in under 3 seks XD But never ever- would i command anyone to step back from loot. Everyone can roll, because everyone helped to archive the goal.

[@roninlifting]

I used to have a "friend" that demanded to play tank but also felt entitled to take long extended breaks mid content so everyone could just wait for them. Shit is super annoying

[@coldchillin8382]

I’m a sprout lvl 50 Paladin been playing only 5 days so I haven’t raided yet, but I used to play mystic (support healer) in Tera and yea, healing can be stressful especially if you’re new to the dungeon, don’t have strong gear, etc. I always worried about dying or the tank dying cuz then it’s rip. I liked co-healing in raids because it meant I had some help with heals.

[@SusyViverosTeran]

Ahhh I remember I used to be the only girl in my static and also got laughed at by the guys for having the "kitty sneeze". However, I never felt like they were "simping" or anything since I have a very foul mouth and am constantly cussing (like the typical mexican girl I am), so it felt like me being "one the boys" lmao. I wanted to have other females friends in the group so badly tho, until eventually we had to replace 2 static members and I recruited two girls from Mexico and Puerto Rico. We got along SO well, both between us as girls and with the guys. It was the best static I've ever been in, we raided for 2 whole years together. I am no longer in that static because most of them took a break from the game or some just decided to no longer do endgame stuff and just keep it casual, but we still talk to each other out of the game. Honestly I would never understand this rivarly between girls in game :(

[@dione2610]

Finding a good co healer is a struggle indeed. The only healers i ever had an amazing time with all had statics. (they would just help me get my weekly clears because my static just wasn't there yet) All healers i ever had in a static sucked BIG TIME. Never communicate and were annoying in general as well.

[@dione2610]

@Phoenix the race? And the good ones or bad ones? Because both cases used the same race lol. Miqote and lalafell

[@cheers2023]

It's actually refreshing to hear someone peace out knowing if they say anything, it'll just cause more of a headache. Nobody's got time for that. Good for them.

[@spetsu1]

I do maps on war, so I don't really need a party, but if I invite people, it's because I collected so many maps from gathering I can't hold anymore. So I'll put a treasure hunt night together with ffa rules just to get rid of them.

[@TheamayaonnaotakuBlogspot]

First. Also I like the map owner rolls need and others can roll greed. We make sure everyone has maps and will give others gil to get maps. Plus offer rides to the treasure chest locations

[@petree]

If you sing in raid, I will ask politely please be quiet so everyone can hear callouts and focus on the raid and not your singing. Very simple. Cause while some people might enjoy that kinda vibe, you need to be respectful of everyone's time there by not distracting others. If people are down with it, that's okay but it isn't for me that's for sure.

[@mayleelove4332]

Almost dropped healing in swb. Was my first time healing in an extreme, was solo healing, no one was dying everything was fine. I was the first to get the mount and it was met with "ofc the person who deserves it the least gets it." And I couldnt even respond, i was stunned. I asked my friend who was with us if theyll switch jobs woth me. Decided to switch to healer again in abyssos because our static had been on hold for 2 weeks. I just said id learn to heal and I loved it. Boring dps phase, but figuring out how to maximize that dps and minimize gcd heals was fun to me. P8S was my favorite to heal.

[@dragkigamer7944]

I don’t do savage stuff but it would honestly suck if someone was singing in voice chat and dying cuz you could not hear the call out or messing up the mechanic

[@dc-13258]

I hope I can find that Disney song-singing healer stream one day lol

[@Mouse-go3gc]

For maps, I only like the rule of the map owner getting to need on only one item, and the rest is for everyone. But I only did this with my fc, where everyone agrees with it. Or we can ask if we really want something

[@RudolvonStroheim]

This person has some of the worst luck. I can some what relate but, damn. These occurrences with random people they have are just unfortunate.

[@suparicky8889]

Ur always the 1st thing I listen to since u upload while I work

[@Glenningway]

Nothing kills an FC faster than an attention drama queen and her army of super simps. Also cliques in game, every FC/LS has this and people are just oblivious to it. I've considered sharing my story of how my FC broke up in a similar matter, but it's been years and I'm sure my deets are hazy.

[@kieixiv]

Nice~ and I agree, keep on trying. And here I found another reason not to go in the woods lol Good story! Good vibes~ 🎶

[@marcmata5574]

I probably would have muted moon. She wasn't even part of the call out structure. So, no loss there.

[@eldenlion5850]

You should do a co tank roulette one to lol

[@hamptonwooster]

Oh my god the karaoke healer. I wasn’t surprised she muted OP, she really wanted to the simps to herself

[@gocrimsonblue]

Someone please submit a FFXIV story that includes longer snippets of Disney songs! =]

[@Bright_Jockhu]

I like my static simply because we vibe 🤣

[@RicardoSantos-oz3uj]

Love that the calcabrinas dance together.

[@PrinnyLord]

I suppose I'll be the odd one out and say that I'm alright with some map groups being owner rolls. It guarantees you'll be getting some items from your portals and incentivises people to bring their own maps. And if you're a broke bastard like me you're still getting money from the runs.

[@SugarBomb69.]

"Pick me girls" Are hands down one of the most annoying human beings on earth!

[@Val_Grnnx]

After raiding a couple of tiers with the same co-healer and developing with them the dynamic of talking healer stuff I cannot for the life of me to go back to healers that you have to squeeze to get any kind of feedback. Why do they even raid with a static??? And I'm not going to even start with the muting and the singing stuff.

[@chikoskiii7767]

moon is giving pick me vibes. id leave that static just because of the singing alone lmao

[@Neoyoshi-FFXIV]

"I pegged moon"

[@unseeninja83]

Yeah party finder can really take forever just yesterday I was in a wait time of 120 min.

[@chikoskiii7767]

i’m a healer main and i haven’t started savage raiding yet but i’m working on catching up with EW content before getting into it (i started playing 3 months ago). BUT i don’t understand why the two healers don’t communicate their healing styles to each other first before starting anything with a static. I feel like that would prevent a lot of drama. like if i was about to join a static but found out my healing style of my cohealer would annoy me, i’d honestly not join to avoid a headache.

[@talonmage40k]

How do you get the dolls to dance?

[@ririkey168]

Omg I felt called out "sometime they wana parse and not heal" LMFAO BUT TBFFFFF i only do it to 4-man dungeon with my friends :'D never raid - cz im a dps main LOL Im too scared to heal in savage raids

[@SuperDarkria]

Me: I'll try starting a static for this tier. *Proceeds to end up being the only girl* Me: ...This might actually work out. I have butted heads with other girls in the past, mainly out of misunderstandings, but since then, I've gotten better with handling communication.

[@Klaide]

Let’s get down to business to defeat the BOSS!

[@marcomedina1324]

No simp zone .

[@milat9287]

I don't get the thing about maps. Why not just get a map so you get loot aswell? The map party I has been part of for ages always had the rule that map owner got the loot of their map unless they didn't want it, in which case greed roll would happen. I mean, it's not like maps are difficult to get. Just go slap a bush once a day. Takes a minute at most

[@justvaith]

I love when Healer flame the Tank for taking damage and they need to do their job and heal. Some people dont deserve anything.

[@RicardoSantos-oz3uj]

Unless you are doing someone else a favor. Never ever get into a lootmaster party. You will get NOTHING for your effort.

[@MyopicMaev]

I would not want people to be singing while trying to clear Savage content. Sounds like a nightmare 😅

[@holymolyjose]

that's a sick house!

[@txallstarking]

Yoo everything you said in personal experience soo facts lol😂

[@RicardoSantos-oz3uj]

Unless you are friends IRL. Never transfer for someone else.

[@DravenNet]

I will NEVER forget my static experience it was so bad and dumb, like I got called out and they didn't even care or bother to ask why I left 😂 obviously a clique

[@xtigerlillyx]

This video just gets worse and worse as it goes on. Dying 😂😂😂

[@bransonchic678]

Omg, lol that couple story sounded so cringey. Poor op being used like that on the maps i would've left straight. Not only did they not get loot but had to endhre the cringr props for them

[@coldchillin8382]

2:30 I pegged moon… Me: kinky

[@wrackspvrts]

Love doing maps sm. The upsetti spaghetti over the loot rules is nuts to me lol Imagine you're the map provider and someone who never provides maps wins on a roll for like.. a big ticket item. Meanwhile, you're the one who has spend their time and gil getting the maps you run. I'd be furious. FFA is great, I do those all the time. So long as everyone brings a few maps with them~ Bring maps, and don't get mad about loot rules when you're not providing as much to the party as you think you are by being there.

[@siyrean]

no not good on her. don't be a doormat for other peoples comfort!

[@peger]

11:16 lol my MAN. He take the loot and say so long suckers :D

[@LocTsun]

Maps should always be free for all. Maps aren't hard to get nor are they expensive after a couple of weeks. Nothing sucks more then your Maps not giving portals and never being able to have a chance to get anything decent. The last time I was in a owner needs party I ended up getting 6 crafting mats from the 50/50 and pissed off the whole group. They were a bunch of randos except for my one friend. I was never invited to a map run. I provided my own maps

[@Local_custard]

I main astrologian and sometimes when there is another astrologian I feel a strange sense of competitiveness. Anyone else get this?

[@Local_custard]

@Phoenix oof yeah I try not to overwrite buffs but it is bound to happen with the awkward timing of cards (unless cards can stack?)

[@QaDri93]

That’s so cringy af 😂 I would have booked outta there, never looked back and just laugh about it

[@powergi3996]

If you go to a map run and you don't have maps and hope to roll on loot, you are the problem.

[@Punkadelic2112]

I still think Pathra wrote this one... >.>

[@pathra]

Sure hope the OP comes out and proves you wrong!!!! FYI there are very good story telling FF14 players ^^

[@orion.6]

TIL calca and brina dance together

[@ishirutaekakura308]

I'm not a fan of the singing stuff in vc, it's off putting, unless it karaoke event lol

[@alexmaganda5827]

parse and not heal must be a noob healer then any decent healer can do both you have enough ogcds for that

[@sorinnoctis652]

All these stories make me not want to raid. Or at the very least have the tanks and healers be who I know. And pf the rest or something.

[@GhostAeonWolf]

Does Pathra change the names? because if not, thats hard on against TOS, calling out all those people. If they get butthurt and report your channel for it, you can loose your ingame account for that. (And also reason why Mike - Preach, changes always names in the stories he gets) The map thing. We do it, we each take one to two maps. Loot belongs to whoever owns the map, its fair. AS someone who always looses every roll, i take that over "you can roll on anything"

[@pathra]

yes of course their in-game name are different to their names in the story! This is entirely all anonymous ^^