Tangled Lies

[@dr0pcandy]

TIL the tree at Limsa is called the Cum Tree now 😭😭😭

[@MorryOnTheFence]

TIL that's not just an injoke to our FC

[@namerif731]

Theory time my guess is that Oliver and Bam planned the whole thing basically get the OP talking to Oliver and doing the hugs while Bam just so happened to be in the right place at the right time to snap the pics. The idea being Oliver may have really though Jennifer was cheating and basically did this to basically make her jealous and hold more tightly on Oliver thus making it so she doesnt leave. As for Bam im guessing his goal was to be that shoulder OP could cry on and soon become a couple but since OP basically shut down Bam simply gave up. OP was simply a sacrificial lamb for dunb relationship plot.

[@BadaBadger]

Oh wait! This would be an interesting series. AITA: FF14 Edition.

[@blkcoffeemage1]

Spam hug emote=making love Thats what a sweaty nerd living in their basement would say 🤣🤣🤣

[@peger]

M'lady send hug emote to me. xD

[@neon9152]

If spamming hug = making love he would be shocked by like, my entire FC when we're on. And in public, right in front of the marketboard with no shame!

[@blkcoffeemage1]

@@peger LMAO 🤣

[@rjhick1]

From the sound of it, literally every single person in this group is one 😂 Like seriously if it gets to the point you are literally running away and hiding under the blankets you need to find another game

[@broth54c]

The OP is a good person, all the others that she called “friends” are problematic. I believe what they’ve done to OP, was planned and too precise to target her weakest point. Just so they’ve get some sick gratification. OP, please stay positive, and know those ‘people’ that pulled that stunt, are the bottom of the barrel. You’re above them. Stay strong.

[@pinksumo]

Whoever Nimmbles was in the chat saying that Jennifer gives Regina vibes...yes. 110%. Please give that viewer an award because that is the EXACT vibe that she had, LMAO!! Once again, always love listening to your videos - you have such a nice voice and vibe yourself!!

[@chewedw1re]

): i’m not staying under that tree now

[@KhallStream]

Some times I get FC invites or friend requests and stories like these flash thru my head right before I blast that decline button into oblivion lol Just here for the MSQ. I’ll get my DSQ off of Panthra’s channel, thanks. 😅😅😅

[@rjhick1]

You are missing out. Not everyone is like that. The thing is with these stories there are huge red flags and because the OP is plays with FFXIV degenerates, and it goes on for months. Be normal and leave whenever you see the red flags. Im a FC leader and honestly I swear its like its a different game than what I play. Theres none of this drama among my FC and friends

[@Meka-qq1tj]

The only FC I want to be in is the Squall. Good vibes, good vibes.

[@okaeli2473]

being describe as being the bad one when you never intended to even have such a situation at first is very sad, defenitely not guilty, you can't do anything to those situation since the people involve "usually" don't really want to get reason or a way to fix this, they just want drama

[@Ailwynn]

I can so relate to being im the middle of it and logging out. I don't know if it's right but it helps so much mentally

[@goodbyefe]

Hey OP. Every point of the story had others reaching out to you. Your reaction to most of them was to retreat away. You seem to still be worrying about this drama in 2.0. I think you're being empathetic and thoughtful and I don't think you're part of the problem. Actions you took might've made things worse, but you didn't fan the flames at all, just got swept up in drama of others. I hope your anxiety has gotten better or gets better, and that you can let this series of events go.

[@benjeezyyabeezy]

that was a fun (messy) one, also so trippy seeing my WoL hanging out in one of these videos lol

[@lisahayakawa1191]

as the chat say "OP is not GUILTY!" i feel bad for op and understand that you dont you want to get into a drama in game especially ff14 and i dont understand why they had to go that further to shame on OP instead of maybe talk about it and why would they like screenshot it and send it via despite. internet world is scary.

[@RvnWolf]

The problem with two sides of a story in that instance of bein in the call. Running away takes away any credence in your side of the story. She needs to get over her anxiety and push against the trouble and stand her ground. And Oliver is a coward really, blacklisting Op instead of clearing the air with Jennifer. Man up and confront Bam.

[@Naoto-kun1085]

Yeah, OP is worse than Bocchi when it comes to anxiety!

[@sunayocarissime5309]

5:25🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 OMG!! OOH that poor guy. Hilariously painful is how to describe that.

[@AgentPanda15]

Granted we only have OP side. But it sounds like people having drama and OP being thrown in the middle of it and put in situations. I would of logged off too. OP these were not your friends.

[@annieg202]

Woah I’m so glad I came across this channel I was looking for exactly something like this to watch 😊 My opinion on OP’s situation is that it looks like this friend group already had problems and OP was caught in the middle of some rough tension

[@starspeakerarts]

Wait WHAT ABOUT THAT TREE?! I've sat there some times when I was farming the event moogle tomestones 😨

[@CTN404]

Omg. I been playing this game for years… and I never have come close to drama like this! Maybe I’m playing the game wrong. All I know is that I will never hug anyone in game again

[@Rayshaze]

Yayyyy pathra video!! I hope everybody enjoys the eclipse today btw :D/

[@yugifrolife]

Tell me lies, tell me sweet tangled lies~!

[@Xylus.]

I just heard it called the "ERP Tree", but okay

[@moonfiend9259]

OP doesn't seem like they were doing anything wrong? All those other people come off as literal children. Like I've never heard that someone spamming the hug emote as "making love". Good riddance!! Either they're kids being dumbass kids but if they're actual adults, then they need to go outside. Yeesh!

[@williek08472]

I'm picturing Bam as a little male Lalafell in the bushes by the Maelstrom HQ, watching Oliver and OP "make out" with a Polaroid like Nashu's stalker

[@bransonchic678]

Omg , i'm so glad to see a story from ya after class! I feel of the op i just wanna make friends and those boysnwere acting like a bunch of teenagers in a crwppy romcoming trying to compete for thr popular gurl. I agree with ya don't always need tomfind a gf

[@Jaxu27]

The catfish in this video reminded me of that "guess the players gender" video you did on female characters awhile back. you should do another one. Great story telling btw!

ohhh this kind of thing happened to me, in game and in real life, people just use someone as scapegoat and vent the group bullshit at them, is just a teen drama

[@ArchonZach]

OP apologizing to a bunch of people who were acting like high schoolers they're to nice D:

[@tanukiwi]

THE WHAT TREE

[@ADreamCalledEternity]

I wish OP had a spine and put their foot down. They deserve self respect. I'm a shy introverted person myself but I'd NEVER let anyone accuse me of stuff I didn't do. I hope they're doing better now, and screw all of those faux friends

[@ねこ男の子]

''what kind of whack ass mods'' at 24:38 LMAO

[@Genotox]

13:55 That's why MMORPG stands for Many Men Online Role Playing Girls or the other acronym GIRL is Guy In Real Life. A lot less true now than it was in the 90s with UO and EQ.

[@OGDeafz]

New drama pogpogpogpogpog

[@YueXiong93]

Incompetent adults..... If that was me, I'll say... Dude, it's a game, just play it.

[@invadererc2365]

I struggle with this one. Who knows what's actually true. OP could just be lying, also could've just been a victim of circumstance.

[@cozyfloret]

breaks my heart that OP thought they did something wrong... ):

[@ArikaStack]

Honestly, OP, if you read this: There was another person who posted a story, a very spicy Caribbean woman who has the right outlook and gave everyone the best advice I've heard in years. All you need is a red chair, so all the b**ches who can't stand you can sit tf down. Screw those people

[@paganflute3989]

The crusts in Limsa Lominsa .... thats not salt from the ocean! :P ;)

[@Infinitenull]

....this is like some highschool level stuff. What's wrong with people? I can relate on some level to what OP was going through but this group of people was just playing off each other...

[@l.m.8492]

Made an fc for myself and got a house so i can avoide all my past ffxiv drama all over again

[@smnthdms]

NOT MY TREE!!!

[@JEGOJAMS]

Tis true. The Limsa Tree is still the slime tree up until today. Check Jenova lmfao

[@ColoxrI]

That group of friends are the problem. Also body shaming someone? I thought we're not supposed to do that? Or does that only apply to a certain group of people when it benefits them?

[@fiendishsoul6730]

This is high school level, bs, you're better than this. I would have laughed this off and called everyone accusing me, a child. But ofcores this only could have happened if you lacked confidence to speak up on your behalf, so i hope OP gained confidence and sence then and maybe a few good friend to back her up as well.

[@apple_blossom19]

Ngl, it sounds like op was just at the wrong place at the wrong time, and those three have *issues*, projecting them onto op. Dump them. With friends like that, who needs enemies?

[@bellamango6708]

yeah sorry just in the middle of it i tihnk being more upset that someone kicked your minion in a game than someone sexually harassing your friend ? just weird

[@fairytypex]

mmoplayer brain rot, sometimes i slap random npcs because i think the emote looks ridiculously silly lol

[@XxTPHXKonanxX]

ah yea...I am sorry, parts were not mentioned about that minion. Jennifer knew Archie gave me that minion, she asked me to bring it out and did a upset emote? where it looked as if she was kicking the minion. that part was left out but other than that, I still think the editors did a great job. I am illiterate... so I can see why they didnt mention it. after asking to bring that minion out thats when the bad talking started.

[@doinyourdad_6969]

@@XxTPHXKonanxXwait r u op???? :0

[@evrys3221]

It's crazy to me how involved people get into dating people on FFXIV. It's kind of cringe, but I do enjoy listening to these stories, lol. The fact that the OP didn't explain to Jennifer that she was just listening to Oliver talk about her is insane to me.. I feel like she wanted the drama.

[@MorryOnTheFence]

YNTA, OP.

[@crodo123]

I am yet to listen to one of these where at least one of the parties is a normal high functioning adult.

[@sur7969]

jesus, teenagers... while i think OP is just innocent party being dragged by shitstorm around them, they just shut down and ran is what makes it worse. granted, anxiety sucks, and if i was in their shoes, id nope the F out of there too. however, i wouldnt fret over it like OP did. OP needs to attempt to face it, or just let it go completely. and i hope OP can just let it all go now, and nurture self-confidence and respect for themself.

[@ValCaelumXIV]

op would feel bad leaving archie alone....so they logged out and left archie alone? LOL 9:36

[@jgosto1967]

"it looked like your making love" LMFAOOO yo the moment you realize you're dealing with people who never touch grass...just turn it off

[@Hicoyo]

I'll never understand ppl who date through games.

[@fairytypex]

18:16 op had TANKING RIZZ!!!????!!!!????

[@valkyrise1148]

Teamspeak? Whaaaaa. But they sounds like high schoolers.

[@VegasRedStar]

They were all friends, but why are you going out of your way to hug and talk to another girl's boyfriend? Maybe, lesson learned: Don't emote anything physical, or hang out 1 on 1 with someone in a relationship? Is that too harsh? I just think that respects space and allows people not to question your motives. Did these people know each other out of the game too? Why would an emote get you that heated? lol idk Also: Why not just explain to them that nothing happened? Seems like this whole group was juvenile and drama. I'd let someone try to explain, or at least give them a second to clear the air, especially if they were my friend. If OP is being fully honest and nothing happened- these were bad friends, because they didn't even let them explain. : / Communication is key. I know anxiety can make having difficult conversations even harder, but at some point you gotta learn that social skill and deal with difficult conversations.

[@XxTPHXKonanxX]

I honestly agree, I did not mention our age, I am 30 now and this was 10-11 years ago or so, as far as age, we were about 18 to 20's, I am not making any excuses I made the mistake of even involving myself with someone els relationship, I ofc learned my lesson to ever be involved or help anything relationship wise. I appreciate all the criticism comments I see in response to my story. as far as those who take the time to give their thoughts. its giving me a life wake up boost. I will always live by "communication is the key and before I submitted this I was slowly working on myself. thank you for giving the time to give a real response, it isnt harsh I take it as a wake up call to help me and my life.

[@CalvinGovender-hq9js]

Seeing your beautiful smile on the cover would make anyone want to click on this video