Very Strange Texting or Testing Behavior?

[@hamtramckchronicles]

"If you are confused about her interest, it's usually because her interest is low." 100% spot on!

[@curiosityshop2297]

Why is her interest low though? What is the reason behind that?

[@hamtramckchronicles]

@@curiosityshop2297 could be anything really. The key is to back off and keep it moving as soon as you discern that her interest isn't at the point where it is flowing effortlessly.

[@MrMind-lr1hb]

@@curiosityshop2297 some men are unattractive or not the douchbag type which women like and want to conquer (they think they can change him into good, therefore they accept rude behavior or even violence). Even if you are not a bluepill beta simp husband provider candidate, she can see you that way no matter if she only sees your appearance or even know you from talking and doesn't allow you to break out of this friendzone even if you behave alpha and want to lead. She doesn't allow you, BECAUSE IN HER EYES YOU ARW NOT WORTH IT but she dated you anyway because she got bored from babdboy who suck her energy and time. Overalls she isn't attracted to you. She thinks maybe she can like you as friend and maybe become good partners and maybe marry later without even wanting to love you when the alternative is she is getting old and beeing alone and a leftover. You are just a backup plane. Nothing more. You don't deserve time or response and she will just behave strange on WhatsApp. You know this feeling if something is odd? You feeling something is not right? Yes that feeling no matter what she tells you (everything is Allright) is on point. Trust your guts. You don't see ghosts when others tell you to chill and don't be stupid and don't mess up. No, you are right. This feeling deep inside you is always right. No matter what they tell to manipulate you. Because if everything were ok, she wouldn't behave this way giving you strange feelings.

[@m2024passingby]

Not really. I am the opposite, when I am really and truly interested in a guy I just completely freeze and I am completely aware that I show lack of interest. Keep overthinking, rarely text them first, I never set dates and find myself playing some mind games to test the guy, but if they text me I do reply and if they set dates I end up going. On the opposite side, if I am not that interested in a guy I don’t have any problem texting them first, calling them or even asking them to hang out

[@BlatentlyFakeName]

99% of the time yes. But I had a strange once recently. A women (who I had spoken to in the past at an event and we got on well) approached me and asked for my number, initiated contact via text more than once and asked ME on a date. I asked when and then nothing. WTF am I supposed to do with that, it just annoys me. Guys like clarity and to make plans. Not be kept guessing. When guys dick other guys around they stop being friends.

[@jarradhurley4866]

I think it's pretty obvious when a girl isn't interested but us guys try to lie to ourselves about it. Fact of the matter is if she isn't going out of her way to see you, she isn't interested. It's that simple. She might toy around to inflate her ego but a woman who is genuinely interested in you responds to every question, and responds even when your message needed no response. Anything less is a waste of your time.

[@TheSantos173]

Let’s not forget some woman might wanna see you but doesn’t mean they should or deserve to!

[@alexwarthen9229]

I was married for 18 years and when I re-entered the new dating game it took me a while to figure this out. But once I accepted that fact (and learned not to take it personal) the game changed completely for me. Thank God for Corey Wayne, his book and videos helped me immensely.

[@williamgoggins4984]

I think the Tennis analogy is the best I've heard when it comes to relationships. You can't play with someone who doesn't hit the ball back.

[@daking9911]

Correct

[@WildBillHickums]

Women are absolutely attached to their phones, if they are taking more than an hour to text back, they are 100% managing the guy in some way.

[@bluesmoke8826]

If all men would completely get off of all forms of social media this would change the game completely. Guys liking photos and gossip talk is why we are in this position. I've never had a Twitter or Facebook account and never will. And dating apps are a complete no go as that is free validation central. God bless gents

[@lotsosoul]

There will always be s1mps to feed these out of control egos, unfortunately.

[@snufte]

Remove all attention from onlyfans and social media, and suddenly women wont be as independent anymore. JK But, yeah, I stopped liking basically anything that has a woman in it unless it is something the woman has done that I like. Big silicone tits in a bikini is so mainstream now anyway

[@RanalL72]

It is quite satisfying to give pretty women zero attention.

[@mr.s7031]

Exactly this social media stuff is no bueno

[@johns5148]

This stuff legitimately works pulling back is powerful. Me and my gf are in a rough patch but I won’t go into the minutiae of it. She pulled away and we are now living apart. Every fibre of my being was telling me to reach out. To tell he how much I love her to just show up at her place. To accuse her for no reason of cheating. BUT I stayed strong I waited and she called crying saying how much she needs me and guess what we hooked up that night

[@pereiraplaza222]

And I bet later on she left you anyways??

[@KONGDADDY69]

High value men shouldn't be spending their time on their phone texting women. We aren't 15yro high school girls. Just picture John Wayne or James Bond getting excited about texting back and forth with a female....it wouldn't happen. Set a date, hookup, have fun.

[@edvinass3804]

You smart King Kong

[@Eryeahmaybe]

You know James bond is a fictional character?

[@robert301990]

@@Eryeahmaybe It's about the attitude, not the person per se. What's your point? You can't just get excited like a child that some chick is texting you, but go out there in the world and act like you are a "man".

[@CharismaStrategies]

@@johnq8043 That's where you need to decide for yourself as a high value male if long distance serves you. It wouldn't serve me at all. I like my woman in the same town as me for easy access. After a long day, I like to sometimes have the feminine touch of a woman physically. I can't do that over the phone, so for me, it's a no go. Why have long distance when you can have a woman close by? Makes no sense.

[@MrSilverfish12]

@@johnq8043 I would say employ the let her do 80% of the talking. Don't spend the whole damn time texting about yourself or talking about yourself. Dont do it everyday either, let her wonder about you. On the real though, dont try to hold on to long distance stuff for too long. Move on if your future is not aligned.

[@Rodeo-iz7cg]

Favorite excuses I’ve gotten from women not replying/breaking a date: -my cat got trapped in the dryer -my nail broke and I was too embarrassed to show up -I went to the wrong bar -I found out I’m pregnant (could’ve been true though) -I lost my car keys -I thought you said the date was at 8am -you’re not Jewish enough (my personal fav) -heading inside now! (5mins pass by without seeing her) so I texted asking where she is…she didn’t respond, ghosted me completely lol.

[@glenn8696]

Where is the one where she texts you that she lost her phone?

[@leeolie3728]

Childish

[@jeffstone4624]

Don't care whether she lays, stays or prays. Whatever happens your toes are still tappin'. - Mike Damone Ridgemont High

[@markm.j.lewandowskijr1171]

I was riding business class on Amtrak and reading the 3% man book and a male passenger walked by and said that's a good book. I'm on (blank) chapter.

[@stansmiley9737]

This channel is super helpful to women. I watch your videos everyday. I feel as if men do the same as women too. This channel has helped me tremendously as a woman.

[@Iamtemjin]

I like how the new reader handled by only reading & listening to the book 5 times. Classic textbook responses. I can imagine how much he will be once he makes it to magic number 15. By then, I’m certain he will find a gal who will be enthusiastic about him more than the person he’s currently dealing with.

[@bradleydurbin6784]

This guy is overanalyzing things. Most likely she isn't interested in him, although they made out. But she sounds unpredictable. I wouldn't pursue her anymore at this point.

[@pvpat92]

BUT, Coach is always saying WOMEN are more attracted to guys whose feelings are unclear. Seems like men are attracted to just the opposite🤔 Gay/Lesbian relationships not withstanding.

[@kalvincatlin7777]

Wow, Im so grateful I stumbled upon this channel and a few episodes deep already! I think it'll be appropriate to ask "What would CCW do?" in future dating situations. You're saving mens lives out there Cory, you are a true treasure.

[@greggmeyer5836]

I had a similar experience three weeks ago. Asked a woman on a date and two days before the date I asked her fir her address to pick her up and she said she was coming down with a cold and had to cancel. So I said that when you are feeling better to call ME and we would get together then. Never heard from her. I’m not calling or texting her. I’ve moved on, her loss. The ball is truly in her court and it’s obvious her interest in me is a zero so my interest in her is now a negative 110.

[@AbdulHaq-cj7fz]

Just wanted to say you're awesome. You're a Godsend to men who generally struggling in the dating/relationship world. You almost put our difficulty and womens' difficulty in dating almost on an equal level.

[@benhood4248]

Some women will intentionally not respond even when they miss you and like you, because they like holding the power and feeling strong/independent. They use more “strategies” than men

[@asianstud7]

You really believe that bud?😂😂😂

[@principeyuu]

Sadly I broke up recently. But for the best. I apply listening, setting dates, but she was difficult. Life is short. Got the audiobook, five ours in, loving it. Thank you couch.

[@rolandjones8500]

“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law. And they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts. If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit. Let us not be desirous of vain glory, provoking one another, envying one another.” - ‭‭Galatians‬ ‭5:22-26‬‬

[@stingray9126]

The alpha/beta test.... When a woman has to test you, she doesn't trust you or your ability.

[@mariusk5360]

They all test in the beginning, if you pass they stop.

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

They never stop testing

[@marco18979]

@@CoachCoreyWayne i was gonna say that ...spot on

[@teddymatun1303]

@@CoachCoreyWayne my girlfriend went to hospital operation is now quite only answers my text is it a test?

[@adimalaviya]

Girls who try to play games are kept out of my life, do you really want to be with such a flaky and low interest woman ? Coach himself always says date only women who show high interest

[@curiosityshop2297]

99% of them are like that.

[@adimalaviya]

@@curiosityshop2297 not in my experience, most are not in my experience

[@Getout249]

@@adimalaviya You're a woman, how would you know unless you are lesbian

[@pvpat92]

@@Getout249 FASCINATING!!!!

[@explicitantony9421]

Thanks for this video Corey, I’m dealing with a situation similar as this guy in the email nearly everything lines up besides meeting online, we met in person and went on two dates there were great. However when I went for a 3rd date the same situation happened, said she’d get back to me and just never did. I’ve been kicking myself looking back seeing what I did wrong or miscalculated. I mean if she saw me twice there has to be some interest right? Well the ending to this video helped me with a little bit of clarity. Nonetheless thank you again this helped me

[@stevemellin5806]

If they are not that interested I just go to the next .and when they reach out I say .oh iam busy . And not call her again .

[@Ben-fc3pi]

when they reach out you arrange the date

[@MrYoungbert]

The other night I asked my “ girlfriend “ if she wanted to talk on the phone ( 10:30 pm) she says” um…… maybe I don’t know! So in response I asked her it’s either yes or no so I can get on with my evening and not have to sit back wondering if you’re going to be calling.. so she absolutely said nothing .next morning I wake up and text her and said . I do not appreciate my time and energy being wasted ! And she said I wasn’t ignoring you I was just doing my own things lmaoo haven’t spoke to her since.

[@RachelGerrard]

You should have just called her if you wanted to speak to her :)

[@MrYoungbert]

@@RachelGerrard That would be the day that she would answer her phone! It’s all good though! 😀🤟

[@semakulageorge2302]

@@RachelGerrard naaa stop the cap,if someone doesn't want to text that means they don't want to be called and also it depends on the timing

[@jeffmcguffy8380]

She was probably with another dude

[@pvpat92]

@@jeffmcguffy8380 ALWAYS. Or wishing this guy was another dude.

[@GTS300Coupe]

This video is perfect and so true. Thank you coach

[@QuantumArchangelGabriel]

Thank you coach for that life hack reading and actually listening the book make our mind retains more information.

[@VeriousSmithIII]

These video newsletters will always be relevant

[@Dennis-highlights]

I don't seem to find a video where Coach Corey talks about guys pissed off their girlfriend and they started to ignore them completely.... I pissed off my girlfriend now she is ignoring me 100%... Any Advice?

[@johnblue8029]

Corey has helped me a lot for the last 11 years watching his videos. Today I was supposed to go hang out with this girl she hasn’t got back to me. Fuck it I’m going surfing because I know I’ll meet girls out at the beach hahahaha Thanks Cory for everything that you do. #FloridaLife

[@the_bowiekid]

Almost to 500K !

[@buzzcountry1178]

Mirror Her movements/actions....She has low interest. Move on.

[@lightvox6152]

My gf is 55 and isn't on her phone much... No social media etc. She sometimes doesn't text me back for a day or two. She's also left me hanging in the middle of a text conversation for over an hour. It's been about 6 months..so I'm seeing how it plays out. Her other actions are high interest, e.g.., driving almost an hour to see me and spend the night or weekend. It's definitely confusing though..when we're not together and the flakey texting behavior starts back. I've mentioned it and how it's kinda?disrespectful. She apologized and changed.. but it happens over again after a week or two

[@mae88b.16]

I think you text her too much like paragraph?

[@marks-0-0]

Its good that shes not constantly on her phone but even so. I think the advice to most men is to simply be too busy being yourself to worry what your woman thinks. Be present when you're with her, have standards and show less or equal interest.

[@semakulageorge2302]

The real deal is she's investing her time with you .you don't have to really care if she takes long to text ,maybe u over text or she is not a texting type of person

[@lightvox6152]

@@mae88b.16 No. I definitely don't text too much

[@lightvox6152]

@@marks-0-0 Coach says women will chase..but since she's not, it's puzzling

[@stevesmyth7413]

Lol I was at a bar in Boston this week and they had a big bumble advertisement inside the bar. 2 girls at the bar said they need to have a Coach Corey Wayne advertisement instead that were seated next to me at the bar. I was currently on a date and my ears perked up and it was hard to keep a straight face but it definitely distracted me a bit from whatever my date was talking about lol

[@freefinancialadvice]

Hilarious man. They know the deal.

[@NotTellingYou-]

Lol what bar was this? I’m from Boston.

[@azull1189]

For some reason whatever situation I’m in Corey Wayne comes out of nowhere with the exact thing I needed to watch 😂

[@GhastlyMange]

I just straight fumbled asking a girl out. Didn’t feel right to begin with but the week prior when I saw her I felt a real connection but didn’t want to rush it because I knew I’d see her again. Doesn’t sound like it makes sense but trust me. I guess the anticipation messed me up or something. Just been feeling odd this week actually. Noticing old habits/tenancies.

[@brachiosaurus6541]

Looks like this guy is a good student of your teaching Correy. You are leaving a good legacy.

[@Blorenzz]

Best Audio Book Purchase I've Made!!

[@BrotherLeegro]

Coach I have a question, I’m feeling with the female who says I have to show a lot to impress her. Should I keep talking to her how pursue someone else. I like her but I don’t want to feel like I’m jumping thru hoops and hurdles.

[@badbrownbadger]

Why do you believe you like her? In my opinion, it sounds like she's not worth the time.

[@BrotherLeegro]

@@badbrownbadger right if I have to do that much for her I better just leave her alone

[@masina7960]

Look at what she does not what she says. She probably doesnt even know what she rly wants. Just do what 3% men book says about attraction and ignore how SHE wants you to chase her. She has to chase if its not a beggining of you 2 dating

[@badbrownbadger]

@@BrotherLeegro The most valuable thing you have in this life is your time, once given to anything you can never get it back. Just about everything else is replaceable in one form or another. Therefore, make it count as much as possible for you.

[@w.e.572]

She wants you to be "emotionally available" to her and the moment you do that, she will drop you. So continue to be mysterious and book dates with her when you feel like it. If she is interested, she will make it easy for you. Keep her guessing.

[@frankiesmom8478]

My hubby wasn’t sure I was that into him when we first started dating because I was new to dating (out of a long relationship recently). I even asked my friend on advice on how to text. Not all women are testing we are just unsure of texting

[@MrMind-lr1hb]

all women rejected me and now i am over 30 and wouldn't accept a women who had other men before me. If I was not good enough for all of you don't come now. The truth is you wouldn't want me in the past but now demand good men. Other dudes didn't have to fulfill standards and now me setting rules and standards. Nope I only take virgins.

[@marks-0-0]

@@MrMind-lr1hb i agree with you but you'd be better off playing the game so you can at least take what you want from it. I could be bitter but realise i made alot of mistakes aswell as women having sky high standards of course. Remember single women are suffering more than single men as they get older, after 35 women become invisible while men can easily gain more value. Good luck.

[@MrMind-lr1hb]

@@marks-0-0 Well I did play and tried it and be the best version of myself but hundreds of rejections are hurting. Always. I live without having a chance and many people don't know this and think i have plenty women and many say i am not ugly or are irritated when I tell and say I look good and ok. This life is depressing. I mean come on I don't look so bad but even ugly or drunk or old women reject me and I am treated like scum. And then there are women who look good and are nice to mee and don't understand why women should reject me but of course they do it too lol haha. I can't live with this anymore.

[@marks-0-0]

@@MrMind-lr1hb i do understand but if you feel that strongly you should see your doctor and get therapy. The game has become a complete sh1t show yes especially with social media but as a human you need to adapt I'm afraid. Its a bit like arguing that it gets cold when winter comes around, winter is cold and you cant change it so you have to dress accordingly. Check out some Redpill content aswell, it helped me understand how things are and accept it. Kevin Samuels is good.

[@leeolie3728]

Thats the problem. Even the ones who don’t know what they are doing get advice from experienced “for the streets” friends. So unless you find one who develops a backbone and stops jerking like the rest of them, its all the same.

[@renatofrancorosas1397]

🙌🏼 wow! Masterful video.

[@user-lr9cw9bb3k]

Some cats don’t come around when you want them to, but when they do make sure you pet them😂

[@ethanstewart459]

So they never got back together after she didnt reply to Monday at 8 pm? This email left on a cliffhangar.

[@Vitone22]

I’ve never been stood up but I know when a woman doesn’t have interest and I don’t even bother after that, those that want to see you, they make it so obvious and easy.

[@coastaldiva]

Agree. She’s not that interested 👎🏻

[@quantumgateway]

God Bless this man

[@David-ib8ek]

Thumbs up to the Dude in the story 👍🏾

[@nikhilschandran3686]

Wonderful advice Coach! 😊

[@chrisf6266]

It's almost like I sent this email myself. Same exact situation where she never reached out after saying she "definitely will". Pretty sure she's talking to other dudes, but so be it. Maybe she'll be back.

[@raygipson8896]

Good morning Coach 👍👍

[@trvij]

Hi coach, When will the new book be available for the audible?

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

It’s been available since May.

[@dannygutierrez9637]

So I’m sort of going through this myself, however they’re in a different state. They’re in their last year of college and I’m already a working professional. Had a great time visiting in FL the chemistry was there, but coming back it’s been dry. I know what to do but don’t know how to approach her about it. Help !

[@gerryamansec]

Testing

[@kassachap]

Yes the testing of life!

[@jonathanandreoni60]

Can someone tell corey that "read" is pronounced in the past tense. His assistant hasn't picked up on this and told him...?🤔🤔🤔

[@armandovidal446]

I read. I read?

[@jonathanandreoni60]

@@armandovidal446 when it comes to pronouncing the message notification from Instagram

[@jonathanandreoni60]

@@armandovidal446 "left on read"

[@pvpat92]

“red” is the pronunciation I hear the most.

[@premshankar7125]

Love you coach

[@0chrisborens0]

similar situation, my question is what to do if she contacts me in the future? should I arrange a date like nothing happened?

[@Zeus-william0303]

I recently opened a dating app. Posted my stuff…. 1000 texts a day. Truly based upon the experience. Interest of and contacting all of. Hmm I’m taken back. In this knowledge. Well I closed it. Next day a 24 year old showed up. Stayed the night. It was beautiful. So. Hmm! I’m like I think I’m getting this.

[@raulyaeger]

There is another guy... That's your answer.

[@Blodia1990]

... SEVERAL other guys

[@ralfj.1740]

"My dog got hit by a flying monkey" 😅😆

[@jeffdorris5321]

Nice work 🎆🎇✨

[@fleadoggreen9062]

She stopped replying to my texts She used to reply in a minute or so, not texting anymore, hitting the weights right now

[@BIGHH81]

Same happend to me

[@fleadoggreen9062]

@@BIGHH81 time to start a exercise program dude , don’t gotta kill it but a little goes a long way 🙂

[@BIGHH81]

@@fleadoggreen9062 im not taking it personally. She ghosted me after first date and now she is back but her response time is longer then before. After that she is not a priority no more, other girls come before her 🫡

[@Flordiaman1]

My dog got hit by a flying 🐒 🙈 hahaha

[@joetesta1820]

I gotta pull some weeds in my garden 🪴 😂

[@user-yq7oo1uj3f]

She does this only the day before we’re meant to go on a date. It’s so annoying because i can’t then reciprocate the delay. This time i’m gonna start locking her off after tomorrow’s date. Got another few girls

[@hsamzsd]

They know what they're doing. I had a woman do something similar. If I asked her out Wednesday afternoon for a date fridaye vening, she'd respond thursday before midnight. Second time she did it and delayed her response by more than 24h I just asked someone else out instead -- what do you know? The other woman responded to me in literally 3 minutes

[@JakeJones707]

I was doing the cheat code this hole time 🤦‍♂️

[@danieltrottier8599]

Thanks

[@xSWlMx]

Perfect timing

[@axlvino1709]

I supose the woman plays the same game than cory tells us to play.even when she is interested. She also not wanne look very eager.

[@kazama850]

David goggins once said there's a lot of alphas that have delicate egos.

[@anthonym9716]

Agreed

[@hamza1517]

Oooh darn it 🤣

[@laracroft9079]

What a joke. To be 3% men you should try to earn top 3% be fit top 3%. Not using some "strategies"

[@pvpat92]

But there is no strategy involved in THOSE things?🤔

[@TheTrueTrinity888]

If all men strive to be in the top 3%, they will just inflate the dating market even more as women are all decreasing in value and men increasing.

[@andyr.3194]

I read the book 20 times over the past 4 years. It’s pretty much in my DNA. At first, in 2017-2019 it worked flawlessly. At this point in 2020, women simply lose interest in an aloof, busy guy. They have too many options. I won’t change my approach. I’ve just noticed, as more guys catch on, and girls evolve, the flaking increases. It’s become too much trouble to even pursue. I just go about my life

[@siegfriedo]

Same here, paradoxically, the more confident and no BS guy you become, the less options with women you have. The ratio of women who are looking for such kind of guy vs. women who have ton of options with simps and weak men and enjoy it is like 1:100.

[@AmericanBulldogFit]

@@CoachClaytonMurray Bingo!! Online dating is the bottom feeders playground.

[@curiosityshop2297]

Nah bro you gotta be super attractive today. This stuff used to work but it doesn’t anymore.

[@MrMind-lr1hb]

@@curiosityshop2297 I have told my life story many times in this channel and it's late so I won't today. But I can confirm. I am normal average guy but doesn't look like a nerd. I look interesting and nice, charming and sympathetic. I take care of my skin, hair, and cloth (I don't wear sports stuff just menly elegant cloth maybe sometimes sport casual but still menly) and still virgin, 30 years old and over 700 rejections offline and 500 offline. No chance. When I approach and I am brave i can talk to random women on the street or in a shop the worker female and all are nice to me because of my personality and talks 2-15 minutes. I get maybe 8 numbers a year when I approach 200 women a year. Still they block, behave strange or blame me or insult or laugh and look down on me or feel sorry (and this were the nice ones). There are plenty on party's or in the street walking by or in the supermarket who look down on me and see me as ugly and tell me. Yes random people maybe 20 each year will tell me that. Or on Partys when I want to talk to them. And you know what i don't even see myself ad ugly but majority 70% of women World thinks of me this way. I saw it that this fairy tale about personality is the problem her. Some douchbags who look average or ugly getting women will tell you they got a women and personality is the key and you have to be funny, good talker, authentic and make the women feel comfort and also know how to flirt and seduce. No this is not the case. Women this days (majority maybe 80%)like idiot dudes who wear some gangsta rapper outfit, who go out with a Pyjama, who don't take care of his appearance because inside this women brains they are damaged. So the take damaged men. A normal decent or gentleman or educated men (I don't me nice guys) are automatically ugly and not sexually attractive because in this present time women like and love idiot rude abusive guys. Women are just damaged and therefore they take damages men.

[@andyr.3194]

@@CoachClaytonMurray I don’t do online dating. I approach, get numbers, go on dates, and I’m pretty good at seducing. But I’m a rancher and a cartoonist, so even though I love my work, by default I’m not rich and I’m pretty nerdy. In great shape but I’m only 5’8. So I’m definitely no chad, but damn if it haven’t become hard to reel in even average chicks lately. Try to not make a self fulfilling prophecy, but I’m also not an idiot: I can notice trends.