10 THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER SAY TO A GIRL! 😳

[@CoachMelannie]

GET 3 FULL LESSONS FROM HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND FOR FREE: coachmelannie.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend-free-preview/ Tell me what you think about these mistakes! Are they good to know? 👇😅

[@brianbcpryor112]

MELANNIE❤❤🌹🌹!!!!

[@josephparker5312]

Tell me what you think about these mistakes!!! Not exactly sure what you mean by this sweetie😎

[@charlieswank8820]

Show me a video. So helpful you mean if you have never went on a date dude so helpful. When you go on a date it will help you out good job.

[@charlieswank8820]

Yes 👍🏻💯 . Good job.

[@jonathans.9713]

@@josephparker5312 , One of the things not to say to a girl, you just did. Learn and be careful. Melannie is a great teacher and coach for friendships and relationships!

[@dageelenyora9778]

Man...this woman is God sent....thank you coach

[@douglasmurphy6214]

Shes the only one relationship coach ill listen to

[@JonathanBaltzly]

Yes! Please make more videos about what to say and not to say. I’d also recommend addressing the tone used so that it matches what you’re trying to say.

[@chrismcevoy2503]

I can only have your appetizer Coach Melannie I can’t have your ten course meal.

[@ryos555]

A compliment is a compliment; if anyone thinks beyond this, that's a self esteem issue.

[@jimgarland2653]

Thanks for sharing Melannie

[@nwp1976]

Yes! Your advice and tips are very informative. Thank you for sharing.

[@abeegle1]

Yes. This is gold Melannie. More like this

[@tedrodriguez3856]

Melanie please write a book?

[@haronbelmos2872]

YES! MORE VIDEOS ABOUT HOW TO TALK TO WOMEN AND WHAT NOT TO SAY! PLEASE COACH.

[@dubongros3108]

I once told my girlfriend " you sound like my father " . Since I was refering to some of the things she said that were just observations , nothing negative , she took it as a positive remark. You have to look at the context , comparing someone to a family member is not automatically negative .

[@jkd9637]

As long as the context isn't comparing her to another woman.

[@sven_ampleforth]

Hi Coach Melannie!! YES!! more videos like this. Sometimes we do more harm than good with our words. Very impressive how you said all the 10 things in a pretty and tactfully way. You earn 5 of 5 brownie points for each thing you said, 50 BROWNIE POINTS, PERFECT SCORE!!!

[@golfpro908]

You've got an amazing smile. Lots of light!

[@joecarpenter4522]

Oh my goodness Melannie...watching that, I was cringing, laughing, and at points, just totally shocked [that a guy would even think to say that]! Your facial expressions and side comments were...absolutely hilarious! 🤣 I’ve got my notes!

[@CoachMelannie]

I’m so happy it was helpful! Thanks for watching! 😀

[@pacalvotan3380]

Yes! You know, some of these are pretty obvious to me; however, I have to say that I have heard many guys talk like this to woman...a LOT, and every time I hear them talk like that it makes me cringe. It's good to have my own understanding about this validated though.

[@djay6651]

My fellow NCO friend, whom I've spoken of before, recently told me she feels like I'm the only guy who really sees HER. She's very attractive, so it doesn't surprise me that all the young guys can't get past her looks to see what really makes her an awesome person. So it really is quite important to see her as a whole person and not just eye candy.

[@titanas23]

number 5 more details please :)

[@hump1953]

Excellent video, really helpful

[@petershone5294]

Thank you Melanie for your illuminating video. I have to admit to committing your point 2 error. That of asking /telling a woman whom I wanted to see, by giving out my phone number /email address, then wondering why they never took up my offer! I now understand your reasoning and will in future ask for their number!

[@CoachMelannie]

I’m so happy it was helpful! Thanks for watching! 😀

[@petershone5294]

@@CoachMelannie Thank you again Melannie, I so love your vivacity and humour. I can't help but warm to you. You are so engaging.

[@mr.goodwrench8273]

Yes. Another good informative video, and I have "clicked the link" below. Thanks and God bless you.

[@CoachMelannie]

Awesome, thank you! Please let me know what you think about it! Thanks for your support and thanks for watching! 🙏

[@oshooluwafemicharles7881]

How to talk to a girl would be a perfect video. Kindly do a video on it. Thanks a million

[@mathyalaganhillarion8952]

Your Advices are really great 👍, I really enjoying watching and you are really cool 😎

[@CoachMelannie]

Happy to hear that! Thanks for watching! 🙏

[@markraines7476]

Yes...please do...because...I being Christ centered now...find it hard to have the words to say to someone I want to be with

[@fernandoboissen8242]

Your smile is enlightening. God bless it.

[@CoachMelannie]

Thanks for watching! 🙏

[@brentkanuckel2660]

yes make another video about 10 things not to say and some of the 10 best things you can say... I think you're great Melanie

[@CoachMelannie]

Thanks for your kind comment. Be sure to check out his link. coachmelannie.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend-free-preview/ It will show you how to do these things and so much more. It gives you so much more than a list. You will learn to be your best self and be confident in what you say while just being you. And the best part is all that I teach you is easy and fast to implement! Let me know what you think! God bless!

[@brentkanuckel2660]

@@CoachMelannie okay I will coach Melanie.... you've taught me a lot already you're a godsend... toxic girls which are easy to pick up at do absolutely nothing for you in the long run they can't I get along with themselves.... it's just a lot of good information you've given that certainly helps me and many others as well

[@DaddyWesker7]

Yes! I love the previews! I think I'll register for the course

[@CoachMelannie]

Yay! I can't wait to see you on the inside! What was your favorite part of the free preview? 😀

[@jonathans.9713]

Hello Melannie, Yes, I want to see and hear other videos on what to say to women. You may have more information on what not to say to women also. Thank you very much for sharing. God bless you and have an amazing day! In Christ, Jonathan S. 😄

[@CoachMelannie]

Sweet! I’ll get to it! 👍

[@JohnJones-nq6pi]

YES!....If you have made the mistake of giving a woman your cell number and told her to call you?

[@trevorcast8209]

I was about to call the girl that is my friend a sweetheart. Thanks for telling me I would of made a terrible mistake I also made the second mistake by comparinga girl to my ex. I dont know her that well I'm glad you told me not to say that. Wow your really helpful thanks my friend! 👍

[@CoachMelannie]

Glad I could help!

[@philipsoliz3178]

Yes please, I eat up all these videos! Super helpful and super informative, Thank you Coach!

[@CoachMelannie]

Glad you like them!

[@DC7BQC]

Something a woman shouldn't do (but most do anyways): Playing 'hard to get' and acting as if she doesn't care about a guy who's crushing on her. I don't know if they realize this.but it's also hurtful to the guy.....

[@CoachMelannie]

So true! Have you seen these videos? kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA I talk a lot about that in these videos! God bless! 😀

[@johnfiveash6733]

Yes! I have known this lady for a lot of years. I was a boss yesterday. It was a very hot day in Texas yesterday. The temperature was around 100 degrees. But it did not stop me. I wore khaki pants and a dark shirt. After the date she ask me why I dress up. I told her that I wanted to dress to impress. I did of what you have been talking about in your You Tube videos. My glasses are very sharp with the transistant lenses. I also bought a citizen eco drive watch. There will be another date with this lady. Thank you Melannie for all you do. God bless you and family. Stay well and safe. Have a great evening.

[@CoachMelannie]

😀 I'm so happy for you!

[@sarathw5740]

Yes, this is great advice.

[@maxbrandt3012]

Yes, more Talk Tips, please

[@sharadsinghi8543]

Great one ! Please also make one more video on 10 things you should say to a woman to impress or get more close to her

[@CoachMelannie]

I'll see what I can do!

[@thegray5730]

Basically, don't talk to women...gotcha.

[@jacksparrow9182]

😂😂😂

[@chrismcevoy2503]

I couldn’t agree more.

[@46singledad46]

I'm always sympathetic too her feeling when she tells me about how shes feeling.

[@curtisholt2468]

Excellent subject matter, I gave my phone number out and yes, no calls but still going ok

[@timgillenwater5989]

Thank you so much Melanie

[@CoachMelannie]

My pleasure! Thanks for watching. 🙏

[@ricardoseales6501]

Yes make more educational videos I'm impressed by your knowledge .

[@CoachMelannie]

More to come!

[@matthoffman8162]

I would always ask my ex how her day was, and it was always so depressing, i literally stopped caring, because i couldn’t understand why she kept putting up with the BS..AITA?

[@ratm3133]

I used to do the phone number thing all the time! That explains a lot. 😂

[@CoachMelannie]

I'm so glad it was helpful! Thanks for watching! 🙏

[@RetroCaptain]

I made the "Why are you worried about (what someone else said or did)"? She kept coming to me with a beef list, and I always tried to give a Tell them this, response. She eventually was ticked; "I'm just dumping my (uglies) to get it off my chest" "I don't *need* advice, Sheesh".

[@johnprocidano3783]

need more like this one

[@marka.weiler9827]

Yes keep them coming

[@CoachMelannie]

You got it! 💪

[@88KUNGFUMAN]

Wow! Thank you for this video Coach Melanie! I committed the sin(no pun) of saying "I will leave my # vs. asking you for yours. No pressure! You can call me if and when you like" since I saw it as a form of reverse psychology: Women might view asking them for their # as a form of not respecting her privacy. But...thank you for informing me!

[@CoachMelannie]

Thank you so much! Have a great day 😀

[@88KUNGFUMAN]

@@CoachMelannie . I'm not Christian by upbringing though. Can I still watch and benefit from your videos? LOL

[@davedavis775]

My wife hates even when another female uses terms like honey and sweety to her . So she really doesn't like when another man says that . I have noticed women are guilty of this also . Many times waitresses will use this and nurses also . It bothers my wife when a waitress or nurse or another woman says it to me also . It happens a lot . Together we both have experienced this from our waitress when out to eat . I told my wife don't feel special they talk this way to all their customers .

[@wojtekm9604]

3 hours before watching this I did like 3 mistakes from what you said

[@CoachMelannie]

OOPS! I'm so happy you now know these things! Thanks for watching! 😀

[@peterwilliams6239]

You've made me realize that I'm a perfect man 😉

[@CoachMelannie]

I’m so happy it was helpful! Thanks for watching! 😀

[@noorulameen9286]

Great video...thank you

[@CoachMelannie]

Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for watching😀

[@tonyroten4043]

Yes... You're a great help.. Thanks

[@CoachMelannie]

Glad to hear that! I'll keep them coming 😀

[@jaundekoker2141]

thanks coach and like everybody says you have a wonderfull smile

[@CoachMelannie]

My pleasure! Thanks for your comment!😀

[@omtatsatnamaste4780]

I call my friend Sweet Lila and she is fine with that as her friends called her that. That is my pet name and it worked for me but other women may not like that. I end with conversation at nites with sweet dreams and Love and light. I have told several girl friends that I love her green eyes as my dad had green eyes and that is endeavoring to me. None have taken that as an insult and they liked it. I am just being real and sweet and all these things were appreaciated . My ex used Belittling terms and I never say anything that is a put down to any women. I did say that to a friend of mine that she reminded me of my ex but the friend already told me she had no interest in being more than friends with me. I would never say that to someone I want have a relationship with.

[@echotube2000]

Great advice Melannie. Thank you. Would like more on what not to say. By the way, you remind me of a lovely lady I watch on KZbin regularly 😉🙂. Derek

[@CoachMelannie]

I’m so happy it was helpful! Thanks for watching! 😀

[@johnosborne2224]

Now I understand why my wife of 40 years seems to hate me half the time. NOBODY!! Taught this stuff in rural Ohio to me. I guess violated about 60% of her no-no's, even these days!

[@CoachMelannie]

Oh dear! These videos will help you. kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WuesbR1wpmgbm6busP8kPQ God bless 🙏

[@jacktaylor1516]

What about if she is clearly a bit nervous and self conscious about eating on the date. Is it ok to try and help her relax a little and just be herself? ❤️ your channel btw.

[@CoachMelannie]

Yes, absolutely! Thank you for your kind words 🙏

[@BryanLRodriguez]

Great video

[@CoachMelannie]

Glad you enjoyed it! 😀 Thanks for watching!

[@BryanLRodriguez]

@@CoachMelannie your welcome

[@MikeMike-pd5wu]

Yes please DO!!!

[@robsexton9247]

YES , please! and thanks 👍

[@CoachMelannie]

You are so welcome! Thanks for watching! 😀 I'll be sure to make more!

[@andrewdamadlad7270]

Hey Melannie, I'm fairly new to your channel and I must say that I'm very appreciative of the information you're providing! I have one request, is there any way you could do a video about possibly helping toxic women? You have mentioned them in a few videos I've seen, but what happens if I want to help them?

[@CoachMelannie]

That is a great question! From both my training, research and experience I'm sad to say usually you can't help them. Remember that you can only help someone if they actually want to be helped. You can't force them to change even if it's for the better. Often toxic people will tell you that they want help changing but it's only so they will become the center of your world. What you are feeling is SO normal! I know exactly how it feels. What helped me the most was to realize that their change is between them and Jesus. It's not my business and I can't put in the work for them. It's something only they can do. I know that isn't the answer that any of us ever wants to hear. I only mention this so you don't get manipulated without knowing it. I'm not a therapist, etc. but you could certainly contact one with further questions. I hope that helps! God bless!

[@andrewdamadlad7270]

@@CoachMelannie Thank you very much! It's truly sad to face reality sometimes but I do understand that everyone leads their own lives. I hope that the girl I want to help can find her way and make it through this merky section of life. I feel deep down she's a lovely person but there are definitely toxic tendencies from her and naturally I want to help, but I have to pull away slightly and hope she finds something that will give her light. Again thank you for the response! I'll be sure to stay tuned to your videos!

[@bobburch2151]

You are so amazing.

[@Beforethethrone]

They most important thing that men overlook is their God given role of the pursuer.

[@chicklerock1]

I have broken one or 2 of these will a girl I'm talking to online but I think I have worded it in a specific way that I managed to get away with it.

[@TheHornet1fan]

Yes!! Thanks

[@CoachMelannie]

You are so welcome! Thanks for watching! 😀

[@frankvega1508]

You have so many things to say about dos & don’t with I can’t keep up with you and I know it’s all good my wife passed away 5years ago I think because I have not dated a women in that time I’ll just forget about dating thank you

[@CoachMelannie]

I am so sorry about your loss. Starting to date again can be very overwhelming. If I can answer any questions for you please let me know. [e-mail] God bless 🙏

[@johnblevins8916]

Where do you go to take the course?

[@CoachMelannie]

Here's a link 😀 coachmelannie.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend-free-preview/

[@jerryholbrook13]

Right things to say videos please

[@Thermagicalwonders]

I like the one which you tell us not to compare her to our mom.

[@CoachMelannie]

That's a very important one! Thanks for watching! 🙏

[@josephcrafa2694]

Although I agree with most you say there is one exception in this video . It seems to me that the use of “‘pet names” tends to depend on certain areas of the country . For example , I have never been called sweetie , honey , darling , sugar etc. so much until moving to the south . Not have I used those so much before . If I had called a woman sweetie where I used to live I could probably expect a slap for talking down to her. Where as here it’s a normal part of life and to my mind a devaluation of the terms .

[@deanmullen1422]

Yes👍 keep us on the straight and narrow Melanie 👌. Some definite faux pas there 🤭

[@CoachMelannie]

Thanks for telling me! 👍

[@klewis4377]

Great list!!!💖💖💖

[@CoachMelannie]

Thank you!! 😁

[@ycgaming3436]

I really really hurt my Gf she break up with me and still wanna be friends... what should i do in those kind of situation and how i get her Back .. she told me i forgive you but we Will never become togther again as a couple..i did hurt her but i wanna her Back as my Gf not my friend what should i do we broke up ...3 days ago 😣

[@kcrawford3123]

Seeing, saying girls are hot is how you show off your observational skills.

[@thehowsofzilcziltv5852]

Hello coach melannie

[@enrico6129]

YES!

[@CoachMelannie]

Awesome! I'll keep them coming 😀 Thanks for watching!

[@theflorgeormix]

This is hilarious. But yes should be taken seriously

[@noelgibson5956]

Ooops...... I've said the last one to women several times 😵 I said it for two reasons:- it was true, and to make them feel better about themselves. Oh well.... I'll know for next time!

[@CoachMelannie]

No worries! Just move forward with confidence! You've got this 💪 Go get 'em!

[@johnblevins8916]

One question what do you do if it is used for work? The number part Because my work uses text messages instead of phone

[@bobmorgan5636]

Yes... please!!

[@CoachMelannie]

Thanks for watching! 🙏

[@champbudbubba4485]

yes melanie

[@CoachMelannie]

Perfect! Thanks for watching! 👍

[@jasonarokiaraj9817]

Never tell her that you have a crush on her, either. It’s too flattery.

[@CoachMelannie]

That's true if you tell her too soon. You can scare her away. Thanks for watching! 😀

[@fleadoggreen9062]

Um well I told my ex that during our first make out session! Then I asked her if she had a crush on me she skated around the question until I started laughing, we both had a good laugh about it and helped break the ice even more, I guess it’s all how you two handle it, we both liked joking and she kinda liked puttin me on the spot , maybe it was just the way we joked

[@ikesmarkets]

Oh you're very awesome keep it coming. I love the laugh... it reminds me of coach Melannie ;)

[@CoachMelannie]

Thank you! Will do!

[@fishyjonah6406]

YES!!!

[@CoachMelannie]

Awesome! I'm on it! 😀

[@justvideos3483]

It's all about balance

[@masiyabj]

Thank you

[@CoachMelannie]

You're welcome

[@SeanB-wi5yh]

Early

[@BelowTheApron]

I accidentally said she shares the same life story as my mom. 😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥

[@peterwashington7093]

YES

[@AlanMills-v3v]

What if she calls you dear?

[@josephparker5312]

Melanie when you were growing up you said that you had curly hair you didn't know what to do with it and some people were unkind to you about it the real truth was they knew that you had an interview today about yourself that you were so courageous and beautiful with inside that you didn't even care on the outside it really doesn't matter at this point because you've grown up to be a swan absolutely gorgeous beautiful young woman with a lot about herself and a big heart willing to share her experiences with others in my book you are an amazing young woman stay sweet stay safe and thank you for educating all of us😎😎😄🤗💖

[@et76039]

"Never underestimate a woman...." Unless you're talking about her weight or her age. 😁 I once embarrassed myself complimenting a Hollywood actress about her talents. 🤣

[@johnblevins8916]

Yes

[@CoachMelannie]

Sounds great! Thanks for letting me know! 😀

[@jonahanthony651]

Yes!

[@CoachMelannie]

Good to know! 👍

[@ernestgonzalez7095]

Yes Yes Yes !!!

[@greatness3554]

Hi Coach Melanie! Is it ok to respond to a woman with "huh?" Or "what?"

[@CoachMelannie]

Probably. It depends on the situation...😀

[@michaelowings7791]

How 2 know if she's available

[@chrispenfold-ivany499]

Yes.

[@CoachMelannie]

Fantastic! I'll work on this! 💪

[@joesmith1580]

yes

[@CoachMelannie]

Great! I'll get started!👍

[@koijamgunindrosingh6603]

Yes!!!

[@CoachMelannie]

Will do! Thanks for watching! 🙏

[@ricardoseales6501]

Ive told other men about you I hope they will listen to me .

[@CoachMelannie]

Thank you! God bless 🙏