ONCE YOU STOP CARING… SHE STARTS CHASING?

[@CoachMelannie]

FREE MASTERCLASS - LEARN HOW TO STOP WASTING YOUR TIME ON DEAD-END RELATIONSHIPS AND JUST GET YOUR IDEAL GIRLFRIEND 🙌 coachmelannie.com/5-steps-to-your-ideal-girlfriend-masterclass-sign-up/ P.S. What part of this video did you find the most interesting/helpful? Tell me in the comments! 👇

[@brianbcpryor112]

SPEAK🏆🏆💋💋🎉🎈🎉 COACH MELANNIE!!!!

[@waudicas]

TOTALLY!!!

[@thomasgallegos2832]

The very last part. I'm busy and she is busy. Obsession leads to jealousy. That will be a huge turn off and make the room and bed cold.

[@charlieswank8820]

Thanks you good job 💯👍🏻.

[@raphaelanyie5140]

When I pursue, i was called needy and desperate. When I stopped, women kept coming but the toxic ones. All the other dating coaches are only interested in mind games and one night stand. All I ever wanted was a good stable relationship with a woman in Christ. Exhausting...

[@CoachMelannie]

I'm sorry to hear that! I have a video coming out on this tomorrow actually. Be on the lookout, it will help you tons!

[@carlosdixan112]

You're a male, your goals shouldn't be a relationship, you should be pursuing your purpose

[@raphaelanyie5140]

@@carlosdixan112 that's my point

[@aeganratheesh]

@@raphaelanyie5140 maybe that's why white people don't have enough kids lol

[@JT-gm4fk]

@@carlosdixan112 That's a toxic way of thinking. "You're a male, your goals shouldn't be a relationship". If one of your goals in life is not to find a quality woman to share your life then I would argue you do not have very high goals. A quality woman will be by your side and help push you to those. You have primitive thinking

[@chrismcevoy2503]

I’ve experienced these scenarios Coach Melannie.

[@bobmorgan5636]

Then why do they back away when a guy pursues....they call it needy, etc

[@chimakalu41]

Good question

[@luckgalaxy8548]

This is what I'm saying we chase and they call it needy can you respond.

[@mettauttam7346]

Then don't chase... Just don't give excessive of anything.... Do your job and give some free time.... Every thing will work....🙂🙂

[@luckgalaxy8548]

@@sweetness34km ohh that does kind of makes sense ok this is good sometimes us guys get confused on situations like this. No wonder 🤔

[@CoachMelannie]

This can happen for a few different reasons. Remember that pursuing is only effective when it's done the right way. Pursuing can come across as very needy if you don't have the right strategy. It doesn't matter how many times you pursue the wrong way you won't get the result you want. Also, it's important that you aren't pursuing a toxic woman. If you are then she will treat you badly all day long because she gets a thrill out of the fact that you pursued her. But she isn't really interested. Here are some videos that will help you with this kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA The last thing to pay attention to is that pursuing doesn't guarantee that a woman will be interested. It's important to know how to tell if a woman is interested first and then pursue if she is. Here are some videos that will help you with this kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN Thanks for your question!

[@SeanB-wi5yh]

That concept are these lyrics in a nutshell "You want them when they dont want you, as soon as they do feelings change" - Eminem

[@spencercarey1512]

Just heard that from spacebound the other day and thought the same thing. On point.

[@jinnbone5244]

💯

[@scott27288]

This video hit the nail on the head. Thanks Coach Melanie. I've been in relationships where things seemed to be progressing then things as i like to say "went off the cliff" because the woman either said I was "pushing her" or "wasn't chasing her enough". I thought the same thing as you said in this video, as long as two people are chasing each other or as long as one is chasing the other, they're never getting any closer. I was once told by a female "The man is supposed to chase the woman". I replied, "No the man should pursue the woman not chase her" Then I resisted the urge to say, "If you want to be chased, you need a dog, not a boyfriend." lol

[@CoachMelannie]

I love the dog analogy!!! 😀😀😀

[@mryankee3566]

This is true. I tried NC with an ex, we literally went like 7-8 months of doing it and no one reached out. Sometimes people do move on and I began to know a new lady who is great and my advice would be especially for those who got dumped, just move on with your life and it will bring you peace.

[@chrismcevoy2503]

I would never start a relationship on games.

[@chrismcevoy2503]

I’ve been hurt I’ve been burned I’ve been played.

[@chrismcevoy2503]

I wouldn’t want a relationship that’s hot cold hot cold.

[@Prentice-cv3xv]

Yes, thank you so much for sharing this information. I have learned a lot from your videos. I am working to learn more about meeting high quality women that value my time and energy

[@ghostoferlock]

Great video. Makes a lot of sense, and the honesty of your words comes across very clearly. You don't double talk, or be rude to anyone watching. I can tell stories about the chasing games, being dumped, ignored, and the list goes on. There is a very strong sense of maturity, and strength in the vulnerability being shown in pursuing a woman, on both sides. If either person doesn't put some hope and faith into a relationship in the beginning, it will be games, and not the overlapping of love and caring towards each other that it could be. Sometimes, as one person sees what they lost, they can begin to understand it, and feel the days that could have been. A quick story, a girl that I had seen at one time, had come in to work, and was talking with me a bit. Conversation went to her walking out on me, and what have you, and she quite loudly said 'Because I love you' to me. It actually made me feel quite badly, because it seems that she realised. It's a very painful memory, because to see that kind of love sometime after, that can't be changed. Anyways, if anyone thinks they are the only ones that struggles with memories like this, they are wrong.

[@CoachMelannie]

I'm so sorry she did that! God bless 🙏

[@krakent8791]

Thank you. This is what I need. What you're talking about is totally make sense. Come to think of it, those mind games and tricks are for the immature and toxic people.

[@CoachMelannie]

I'm so glad it was helpful! Thank you so much for your kind words 🙏

[@Geforcepat]

Thank you Melannie. I've been wondering about all this stop caring and she'll chase stuff for a few months now. Thanks for explaining it. i definitely won't be trying that in the future. One of your best of the year. Oh, and yes.

[@CoachMelannie]

Thank you so much for your kind comment! I'm happy the video was helpful. I'll keep them coming!

[@bkirn4846]

Exceptional content. I have listened to more than a few of those evade to be chased strategems on you tube and they make me sick. I've also been through a relationship like that. It's toxic as #3!!! I would never want to go back to that kind of torment. In any case you nailed It. This is so much healthier. Thank you for your message.

[@CoachMelannie]

Thank you for your kind words! Have a great day 😀

[@lingomansradioshow4447]

"Many thanks Coach Melannie" for giving your time and skills."

[@CoachMelannie]

I appreciate that! Thanks for watching! 🙏

[@ruskinjetter5799]

I love your tongue work at the end of your videos. Thank you sweetie !!

[@laninafinance854]

Dude you're creepy!

[@mikelee2583]

Yes, I learned about contradicting of what u teach and I believe u are right, so happy that I can learn from u for long lasting relationships, thanks and keep up the good work

[@josephmunyao6639]

This video has virtually impacted me Positively. Thanks you coach!

[@CoachMelannie]

Glad it was helpful! Thank YOU for your kind words! God bless 🙏

[@Melafx-consult]

Conventional dating advice encourages flirting, but you advice in this videos builds friendship.

[@chrismcevoy2503]

I would never attract toxic women.

[@chrismcevoy2503]

I’m enjoying this video.

[@klewis4377]

Thanks! You really are the BEST coach ever. Keep them coming!

[@CoachMelannie]

Wow, thanks!

[@richardtenorio7750]

This is the dest gavi e I've heard life shouldn't be a game. Well done.

[@CoachMelannie]

Thanks for watching! 🙏

[@JuanSanchez-tk4vr]

Her advice is the OPPOSITE of what all the men dating coaches say do Haha 😁. But her advice makes sense IF you can find a good woman nowadays which is not toxic. And that's not easy to find nowadays.

[@CoachMelannie]

I teach you how to do just that! Thanks for your kind words! And thanks for watching! 🙏

[@80skid83]

I find women coaches are indeed the opposite of what males coaches say, but I think it's far better to get an opinion from a woman coach as they will of course know women better.

[@TheRhythmKnights]

Well, I don’t doubt Melanie is a good person, and honest … however, women are challenged to say they adhere to the higher standard (desire a “kind” man) but if they actually are attracted to a man who is not kind they will not necessarily admit it. Yes, best to avoid chasing toxic women to begin with, but if your target woman is dismissive (toxic) and admits she needs to change, she may respond in the short term to being ignored as a wake up call

[@chrismcevoy2503]

I’m trying to get that lifelong happy relationship.

[@xjasonxbx1]

A real Christian dating coach. Very refreshing!

[@CoachMelannie]

You’re very kind! Thanks for watching! 🙏

[@JohnBrown-ig5nc]

I'd like to see more videos on bad dating advice. I liked this video because you broke down what is wrong with conventional internet dating advice.

[@CoachMelannie]

Perfect! I will keep them coming!💪 Thank you for your kind words! Have a great day 😀

[@valentinanocross8677]

We high quality women are taught that interested men won't let a great women get away. Playing no games and following your feelings is authentic.

[@PeterAcrat]

Wooaaah up there a sec: If a woman is "Getting Away"... then does that not by definition mean she is moving *Away from* the guy? Could this begin 'inciting' him to pursue and "Not let a great woman get away"?? - Looks like double standards/game playing to me. Be the difference you want to see in the world. No one like games.

[@valentinanocross8677]

@@PeterAcrat no it means there was no games from the beginning because a man saw the value in front of him and a normal healthy relationship begun and communication was/ is key, connection was made and consistency continues. What I more. Importantly understand is that we see things as a projection of our insides. I believe you may be telling me your story and not asking me about mine. I believe I used the words authentic from the beginning. I am thinking you have some attachment style wounds that would be a better addressed in order to attract the relationship you want and not what you are. Theorie states we attract what we are not what we want. I have done enough work now to attract what I am ( authentic) and not reaching after what I want. I hope I didn't write too abbreviated so you understand this better this time. All the best.

[@carlosdixan112]

@@valentinanocross8677 your shaming tactics don't, who hurt you is what you're saying jajajaia 😂

[@carlosdixan112]

@@PeterAcrat you catch her bro , it's a double standard

[@valentinanocross8677]

@@PeterAcrat you're right. Poor wording on my part. I can see that

[@scottlasley4593]

This one had some eye-openers... It makes sense. There have been times where I attempted the "I don't care" attitude, and of course it doesn't work. She got mad or upset, and our feelings were both hurt. Never again, for sure. Thanks for the advice.

[@CoachMelannie]

Thanks! So glad you liked it! 🙏

[@staycasual7203]

I love you coach Mel. The best x

[@francinevassell7374]

This was a real eye opener. I thought the guy I liked a few years ago seemed alone and I tried to go after him to hopefully encourage him to help feel apart of the group. Honestly, I was chasing him because I was attracted to him and convinced myself that while chasing I can be a good friend. After watching this, I noticed he wasn't really genuine in getting know me and I fell for the chasing game and I was encouraging the bad behavior. Thank you for helping me realize what was actually going on and for helping me not develop toxic habits.

[@CoachMelannie]

Thanks so much for your kind words. I am SO happy it was helpful! God bless! 😀

[@karenransom4177]

I don't know why I'm drawn to this show, all I can say is it's interesting to hear what other people are actually going through.. I myself am in a tight relationship and we truly get along totally 100%wonderful.. I do like this show though. You're doing an excellent job.. Keep it up..

[@issaskarkautoorora2296]

IS SUCH Ñ POWERFUL VIDEO PLEASE COACHMELANNIE CONTINUE... 🌀⚡🔥🌦

[@rickyvasquez2133]

I’ve had this scenario play out so many different times oh help me because I’m a need you’re a such a great guy but I think we should just be friends it’s the typical story that most guys like myself who play the nice guy all the time to be genuine end up getting played the most but I appreciate what you said today coach Melannie you’re always right on point!

[@CoachMelannie]

Thanks for your kind words! I'm so happy you like my videos. I'm sorry you have had this experience with women. Have you seen these videos? kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA Often times toxic women play off of nice men. And nice guys deserve nice girls!! Just sayin'! 😀😀😀

[@MrMockingbird1313]

Hey Melannie, I have been doing the online dating game for quite awhile. I will suggest that half of the online interactions are with toxic women or outright scams.

[@jastixier]

yes. i have done what you said not to do. thanks for what you are saying

[@CoachMelannie]

My pleasure! Thanks for your comment!👍You can totally turn things around!

[@dougrayburn8179]

I took her free master class and it helped me deter whether a female likes me for sure or not and her way of explaining both pros and cons is informative both mentally and emotionally she helps you understand that giving too much isn't good but not giving enough is also bad too and how to realize staying focused on yourself while pursuing a female shows them you still care about yourself and you want a mutual relationship plus she has other key points that make you see a females opinion matters too and how to apply those daily.

[@CoachMelannie]

I'm so glad you liked it! Thanks for watching! 🙏

[@_Trakman]

missing detail attachment styles: Avoidant attachment vs Anxious attachment (runner-chaser)

[@PulseCodeModulate]

What a magnificent breath of fresh air...

[@rtsbeyond]

I had stopped caring for years but it was all because I was convinced no one cares. I didn’t even care about chasing. Being alone and single gave me time to think about what I’d rather be doing in life and work on making it happen. I’m hopeful that who I really am will show and that I don’t leave everyone with the impression I’m a hateful person. Working on it all has made me happier and I went from not caring to not obsessing. You’re right too, the internet is full of so much stuff I don’t need to be viewing. I followed you here and on IG in the interest of replacing it all. Men deserve better...something of substance and I’m grateful you’re thinking of us 😢

[@CoachMelannie]

I'm happy to hear my videos are helping you! Thank you for your kind words! If there are any questions I can answer for you feel free to email me ([e-mail]) or DM me on IG!

[@Lee-dd6nq]

Yes u r absolutely correct get hurt Loving a drama queen 2years one-sided thanks for the useful advice

[@CoachMelannie]

I'm sorry to hear that! Here are some videos that will help you avoid women like that in the future kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA Thank you for your kind words and let me know if I can answer any questions in the future!

[@jahjahbless547]

I like you. You got substance. U managed to get my attention. U represent yourself well melanie.

[@grizzlyrick2437]

I literally just started watching you and you seem to be the only person giving actual useful information. I’ve seen other you tubers about this info and there advice is pure shit garbage trash. You got my subscription.

[@eddierodriguezii1295]

yes P.S love your bloopers they're really funny

[@CoachMelannie]

Thank you for your kind words! Have a great day 😀

[@freepressright]

If you have to constantly pine for someones attention, beg them to be noticed or play reverse psychology to get some intimate connection, you are with a toxic, broken woman and you cannot fix her.

[@freepressright]

Believe me, I've been there, and been messed up from the rejection issues it caused. For years. This is especially common of love avoidant types. They wow you off your feet only to become absent right before your very eyes, leaving you to begin a toxic chase, but things never improve. You keep trying to become sweeter and more wonderful, but the more you do, the worse it becomes. It is not your fault, but convincing your mind of that is not easy. They actually came into the relationship with this dysfunction, and they will carry it into all others until they resolve it with professional help or an honest, dedicated effort.

[@luigidibenedetto338]

love is not just looking into each other eyes but looking the same direction. When two people running the same direction and even if they dont each other yet, they will meet and the fulfillment of your hopes and dreams will be realized.

[@CoachMelannie]

Thank you so much! Have a great day 😀

[@luigidibenedetto338]

@@CoachMelannie i am in Australia coach

[@ronfarrell776]

I totally agree with you 100% from experience.

[@CoachMelannie]

Thanks for watching. 🙏

[@danieljolson5884]

I need help Melanie! My girlfriend fell in love with me, and now says she loves me but not in love with me. I’m confused. She has said she loves who I am. We are new in the relationship and have had some real tresses come along which I think turned her away! I love this woman dearly!

[@DaddyWesker7]

Yes! I have a question that one of my friends asked: when a guy pursues why do girls call you needy? Is that a sign of a toxic woman?

[@CoachMelannie]

It depends on how the guy is pursuing. If you don't pursue the right way it does come across as needy. However, there are toxic women who will tear you down no matter what you do. This is why it's so important to know the signs of toxic women. Have you seen these videos yet? I'm sure they will help you kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA Thanks for your question!

[@tompeterson4628]

It gets old if your the only person who appears to be interested or always having to make the effort.

[@CoachMelannie]

A gal may be sending you signs she is interested, but you have to know how to read them. These videos will be very helpful! kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN God bless 🙏

[@akashpandit1123]

Thank you, looking forward to your videos.

[@CoachMelannie]

Thank you so much! Have a great day 😀

[@darrenbutler4508]

Your very good, and a very honest coach your smart and your awesome thank you for bringing the 2021 in the right way, Darren.

[@CoachMelannie]

I appreciate that!

[@Gbienek1]

Thank You Melanie! Needed to hear sound counsel

[@CoachMelannie]

I'm so glad it was helpful! Thank you so much! 🙏

[@NathanSmutz]

How does this relate to the no-contact pull-back thing people suggest to get out of the friend-zone?

[@cliveedharris1353]

Will put right direction 🌈🥰👍

[@rjc7289]

One chasing the other -- kind of like 2 negative or positive charges on a magnet. They'll only repel each other. There's a reason they say opposites attract!

[@rayc1692]

Thank you for another great and insightful video, Melannie 😁 Oh, that song in your bloopers (if memory serves me right, lol) is Nsync's "Here We Go" 🤣

[@Geforcepat]

That's what i was thinking lol

[@CoachMelannie]

You are so welcome! Thanks for watching! 😀

[@jcsaito4780]

Makes a lot of sense to me 👊🏽

[@CoachMelannie]

Thank you for your kind words! Have a great day 😀

[@goalieczar-adamcooper6900]

Love this topic and the video Melannie! You are definitely on to something here for guys who want to have a meaningful relationship. I’ve pulled back to be chased before and it backfired. There not many others debating this topic. Everything is about balance. Women love a guy who takes initiative for dates or activities but texting too much for example during the day could get her annoyed and come across as needy. It might help to show more examples to guys on when pursuing can turn into needy behaviour.

[@CoachMelannie]

Good way to put it!! 😀

[@UnexpectedWonder]

Thank-you!!! 😁😁😊😊🤗🤗👊👊 This is what I keep sayin'!

[@CoachMelannie]

Boom! You've got this 💪 God bless!

[@thomasverslycken2563]

I only get a crush on women i'm very close friends with for long enough because makes chances of having a relationship with a toxic woman usually very small because you already know them quite well, also having a crush on a very close friend doesn't completely remove the risk of failing completely by messing up, but it does lower that risk

[@antd2733]

When you are just dating are you supposed to talk on phone everyday?

[@CoachMelannie]

That's a great question! Are you asking because you do or do not want to talk on the phone every day? For the most part it's up to the couple and what they would like.

[@genestanfield9943]

Omg you hit it right on the head. With this one. Long story short. A woman I like keeps switching from we have very different lives she's not moving here im not moving there . Various reasons. She's a city girl, I'm a mountain man. Eat. We love each other but then if I say something like we'll then let's b friends forever but I need to find someone to hold and love she switches again and says she loves me we can do it. Seems like she's just getting my hopes up. And you are right I a m too needy and lonely. You are the master thank you

[@CoachMelannie]

I'm so sorry that is happening. I hope these videos will help you! kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA God bless 🙏

[@Flameonish]

I need your help Melannie

[@CoachMelannie]

Be sure to watch the masterclass I told you about. Here's the link for you. coachmelannie.com/5-steps-to-your-ideal-girlfriend-masterclass-sign-up/

[@pakbesar3815]

This video liberates me, i can finally let my fear go because now i know i did well but my mistake was i attracted the wrong person. i become very self-aware and doubting myself. Then i stumbled this video, I finally realized who i was with. i hope god gives you the happiness i currently feel too. Thank you

[@CoachMelannie]

I’m so happy it was helpful! Thanks for watching! 😀

[@michaelsmusic3532]

YES !!! Thanks for your trusted advice, you are a real blessing Melannie :~) God Rocks !!! Michael & Emalie

[@CoachMelannie]

Thank you for your kind words! Have a great day 😀

[@michaelsmusic3532]

@@CoachMelannie Not just kind words either ... %100 Truth in every way possible ! There's so much bogus information 'out there' You're channel is one of the very few that aren't into KZbin with ulterior motives I appreciate U Melannie 😍

[@michaelsmusic3532]

🎸 U ROCK MELANNIE !

[@SanderBastiaans]

For two people to truly connect, both must be willing to invest in the other and thereby being open and vulnerable. As long as one chases the other, closeness cannot be established and their bond will be depending one person

[@ronaldclark9948]

What if she has no feelings?

[@ohannesmatchoulian4826]

Nice , thank you for the truth and clarification , Christ Rocks 💪

[@CoachMelannie]

You are very welcome! Thanks for your kind comment! God bless 🙏

[@sven_ampleforth]

Hi Coach Melannie!! I have a question: What is the difference between and ? Because you said: The concept of one person chasing the other is actually flawed. And in your videos you recommend we need to persue her, in order to she feels safe, and femenine and she sees us like man; and because that is the way we are wired by God. Maybe you could do a video about this. Thanks for the lessons. 14:46-14:52 The blooper that is not a blooper but is funny because the truth is, in some sense, something amuse.

[@CoachMelannie]

If you'd like to email me I can help you with this. coachmelannie.com/contact-me/ Have a happy day! 😀

[@rash1dreading659]

Instead should i ask her if i can join whenever i want to just not to be needy?

[@fleadoggreen9062]

Well I for one realized my answer too late! 1) decide if you really want this girl, not just seeing if you can get her to like you , 2) make sure you are ready for her,like you have a job, take care of yourself or at least try, dress neatly , 3) get ur confidence up and lay your cards on the table! Just be honest like “ hey Mary I’d like to ask ya, we’ve been friends for a while, always have fun together, I’d like us to be more than friends , I’d like to try that new Thai restaurant that opened, when is the next night you are free, I’ll pick you up and take care of everything, all you gotta do is look cute lol !

[@Dj.D25]

I did try the "No contact rule", planned to do it for about a month, like someone suggested, after losing patience with her. After about 2 weeks of avoiding her and hiding online, ignoring texts, it seems there's a chance God decided to get involved and forced me and her to spend more time together at work, with our recent schedule changes. I am able to have lunch with her at work once a week now and she wants to hang out soon. (Maybe she saw something interesting in me with one of those conversations?) And she's been more open to me lately. There's been a lot of other things that happened between us lately that don't look like a coincidence. Maybe God knew the No Contact Rule was silly and wants to bring us closer, even though it's been kind of slow.

[@thomasgallegos2832]

Sometimes it works at work . That's how we started and didn't end well. Now that we don't work together it seems to have released the pressure.

[@Dj.D25]

Thomas Gallegos I know many believe dating a coworker isn’t recommended. My coworker even dated someone she shouldn’t have and hurt herself. But I still believe God can make something happen between me and her.

[@thomasgallegos2832]

@@Dj.D25 I agree . Don't give up and don't smother . All the best to you ! !

[@kingd.6059]

I like what you teach. I hate what the pick up community is teaching

[@CoachMelannie]

I'm so glad it was helpful! Thank you so much for your kind words 🙏

[@paradigm986]

"mind game" one of the reasons that i thought to my self i cant get a woman.. that im weak.. now i know this is one of the traits of a toxic woman.. i didnt realize that im chasing a toxic woman, not a classy high quality woman...ty for this video it really open my eyes..

[@CoachMelannie]

I'm so glad it was helpful! These videos will help you even more. kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA God bless 🙏

[@alexgarciaalejandro7930]

Hi Melannie!! Excellent subject! You speak what's really happening. I Enjoy your videos so much! 🌹 God bless you!!! 👍

[@CoachMelannie]

Thank you so much! God bless 🙏

[@lemuelfranks2013]

Right on, Melannie........!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Everything right on....!!!!!!!!!

[@CoachMelannie]

I’m so happy it was helpful! Thanks for watching! 😀

[@dantiger6406]

One of my ex-girlfriend's I now realise having watched your video's was toxic. She, was never wrong, very bossy, physically abusive towards her daughter's and a complete nut job. Had to save various daughter's of hers on several occasions from being beaten up. Your right it definitely wasn't any fun at all. So all of stuff on the internet is just BS, very interesting. Thanks, so much Melanie...😍

[@CoachMelannie]

That is so very sad! I'm so sorry about that!!!!! These videos might be very interesting to you. kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA God bless! 😀

[@chrismcevoy2503]

I would never want to attract a drama queen.

[@alanmills-rw2pp]

What's it mean when you walk past her in church and her head is down but looks in your eyes she is standing up, and her mouth is slightly open, she looks at you like a puppy dog?

[@waudicas]

THANK YOU!!!, for killing that myth once n for all! People that support that concept obviously don’t know that if a woman is independent n used to a life without any man in it then she’ll frankly DGAF if You the man stops interacting with her. I know this from firsthand experience, altho when we didn’t had any contact that’s when she realized that actually missed me n not just a lil bit but in her own words “alot actually”.

[@CoachMelannie]

Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm so happy you enjoyed it!

[@mikioni]

Beautiful video, thank you 🙏👏

[@CoachMelannie]

Thanks! So glad you liked it! 🙏

[@frankupson465]

Crazy in love in 90s is what we should all aspire to! Thanks coach 😎

[@CoachMelannie]

Thanks for watching! 😀

[@utublky4360]

Good video. I would say you are the only coach that says this. Alll of them says the opposite. Can dramatic toxic people come to their senses n settle in after some time? Solo pursuing seems pathetic but little droplets of carrots here n there by the other party feel like heaven.... just like a roller coaster. How do you know if it's really genuine shyness or toxic drama attitude coming from someone? Is someone who chooses which text to answer .... a dramatic person? Is someone who talks excitedly about dates n pulls away last minute n further drop silent..... a toxic person?

[@CoachMelannie]

These are great questions. These videos will help you with this. kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA And this too. coachmelannie.com/what-attracts-toxic-women-sign-up/ God bless 🙏

[@lakehawklakehawk7830]

Can you do a video about woman afraid of getting emotiinally hurt after abuse but has strong feelings for you. And is scared to see you for those reasons.

[@KGRAY-si4hw]

Currently my life

[@davymoose3815]

Yes watch out for toxic ladies but also pray for them that they will come back to the Lord 🙏 Some of them have just lost their way

[@annabelle1228]

Please I became a friend to this lady because I like her. She told me she doesn't like talking on phone but rather texting. Unfortunately she's hailing from different city so I decided to handle over a gift to her before she leaves because she had a few weeks to move. She received the gift. On our first conversation, we had almost 2 and half hours on phone. On our 3rd conversation, she said we can have a conversation with limited time. We have been texing but recently she just ignore my messages.. I dont know what to do again? Should I call her to find out or I should ignore her for a while..Need your help Coach Melannie😊

[@CoachMelannie]

I'm so to hear that happened. This video will help. kzbin.info/www/bejne/nqbMnJR4d9pkZpY

[@jimsmith6547]

Thank you young lady for the info you provide for us I'm so glad I stumbled across your station i guess i always attracted the wrong women in my life so again thanks

[@CoachMelannie]

You are so welcome! Please let me know if I can answer any questions for you! 😀 Thanks for watching! [e-mail]

[@nathanstreitt1033]

Great advice Melannie. U are awesome and on point.i love that u get to the point about real people and real relationships as well as what not to do and u explain with your fun loving,serous,silly and shy personality. And bloopers are awesome. I have applied myself using your advise a couple times so far and i got great outcomes both times. Oh i was going to start with i/ we both played that game and u know it inside that it is hurtful and if u feel that way then y would u do it and want the one u love to feel that way.(bad advise) Or U wouldn't do it, or my fav... toxic... hehe.. i almost lost my love.i will never again do it. I love being close to the one i love. thank u again. Nathan streitt PS oh awesome on the 30k!!! way to go u deserve that and much more...

[@hostmasta]

Seriously Melannie.......You have an awesome smile. :) PS: Love the videos!!

[@CoachMelannie]

I’m so happy it was helpful! Thanks for watching! 😀

[@luciabarquez7274]

Gracias . Thank u

[@abdulmajeedasiri8383]

Can you make a video on how to make a good bumble profile to get more dates?

[@CoachMelannie]

Thanks for the idea!

[@Flameonish]

Yes I would like a long life relationship

[@ruskinjetter5799]

There's not much time left for anyone .

[@JayNohh]

I know I left an angry comment on one other video of yours out of frustration over things, but I will say... it is nice to see an alternative here versus it being so much about games and how to play the "game" right that seem to be geared so much towards what the *guy* is supposed to be doing and how *he's* supposed to change. And alot of it seems so carnal. Good to see an alternative here that seems to be geared towards being genuine, even though in the "right away". Funny how all the stuff you're speaking against is recommended to me here, lol. I tend to ignore those type of videos anyways.

[@roselineaghabalu1575]

Very true.

[@renevilladsen5832]

Is possible to come back from being obsessed?

[@CoachMelannie]

Yes it is!

[@hunterterhun3]

"You have made my day."

[@CoachMelannie]

I’m so happy it was helpful! Thanks for watching! 😀

[@fatherno7133]

Yess! I want help im running out of time and options i wanna have a gf

[@CoachMelannie]

I'm glad you enjoyed the video! I totally understand where you're coming from. Have you seen my free masterclass yet? You'll learn there how to have the kind of girlfriend you've always wanted. Here's a link coachmelannie.com/masterclass/ Feel free to DM me on Instagram or Facebook if you have questions!

[@rakeshmohan6569]

Mam one girl proposed me. But I didnot care about her. But she started adopting revenge .What to do.plz help me.

[@michaelsmusic3532]

Bro ... if she cared about you AT ALL then she would be sad but wish you the best, because she actually cares for you. If she's into revenge it shows that she doesn't care for you - at all ! Would you want to torture your cat or dog because you wanted it to sit on your lap and the pet didn't ? Of course not because you love your pet you would want it to go frolic play with bugs be happy, you wouldn't hurt it out of your own selfish desire to pet it. Good thing you found that out - GET AWAY FROM HER >>> FAST !!!