How to be classy | For Black Women

[@nakkie326]

1. Less is more 2. Always dress for the occasion 3. Avoid skin tight clothes 4. Avoid spandex 5. Don't show too much skin (relative) 6. Invest in basic color pieces 7. Wear the right dress size 8. Wear the right jewelry 9. Watches 10. Learn to walk in heels 11. Always do your hai 12. Keep your nails in good condition 13. Wear the right make-up 14. Wear your colors 15. 5 minute no makeup makeup look 16. Etiquette and manners (listen to the video) 17. Smile (listen to the video) 18. Turbans (listen to the video) 19. Wigs (listen to the video)

[@maamedansowaa1520]

🤗

[@Abbyyena]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[@Phinanollytv1]

I have listen 🎶 to the video and I like it 👌 I need to be seeing more

[@goddesson.youtube6793]

💕💕💕

[@AtizayFantezi_Art]

Skin tight clothes is all i have 😭 i have no natural curves i neeeeeeeeeed.

[@deegoldendust1677]

It’s nice to see my photo being represented in such a elegant way. Who would’ve known I had to be on the cover of someone’s KZbin video. All-around great video

[@samanthamponela6466]

It's been hard finding videos that show black women. Thank you so much!

[@nikstarules5481]

So true!

[@cocoastyling]

Glad you guys are enjoying my videos😊

[@CallMeSaamm]

Righhhhttttt

[@vsilv489]

Yes! I was thinking the same thing.

[@latajanee4410]

I’m glad I found this because I’m trying to dress class and not boujee. That’s a cute style too but I’m getting older and trying to make a wardrobe that I won’t have to replace every few years

[@cocoastyling]

I'm so glad!

[@beautifulqueen748]

Amen to that

[@MissDopeful]

Girl!!!!

[@indigo6485]

I feel you on that

[@maxinefowler1186]

My Mother taught Me this. I guess Mothers don't do that anymore. My Mom wore a mink coat to go shop for Groceries. I am Black, and I went to work for the World's largest Airline. Next, I worked for a Bank, the Man that hired Me said I am glad that airline showed you Black Women how to dress. I said my Mother taught Me, he laughed said that's a fairly tale. I said no, stop being condsending.

[@PeukinsPoint]

Love that you specified the difference between boujie/classy.

[@MeMe-ht2hd]

Correct, for the young female who watches this or older and might not know the difference these examples sets them up for success, because they know what to avoid and what to aim for based off these visuals. Cocoa Styling, does an superb job, I wish her health to continue to bring these videos to us.

[@ItsMeTotally]

This is much needed in the day-and-age of Cardi B and Megan the Stallon who I both enjoy but do not like them to be representing of all black women. We need balance as white women and every other group to be shown not ONE WAY as black women. Not all of us are sexualized and actually many of us want quality gentlemen as well.

[@cocoastyling]

Yes! That's why I like my Style series, all sort of different styles and aesthetics with examples that look like us

[@ItsMeTotally]

@@cocoastyling Thank you, and please keep doing what you are doing. I support this channel 100%.

[@leannewheeler5351]

@kj 100% truth!

[@codishaa]

Amen

[@lisas9462]

@kj Neither is this influencer.

[@JustOnePageAway]

I appreciate you including the beauty of natural hair.

[@pamhatch160]

This was an amazing tutorial. I am clearly a white woman . Most of my girlfriends are black women so I wanted to watch and see the styles recommended. I took away classy styles and advice for myself as well . What a beautiful video. I'll share with my girls too. Thank you Cocoa.

[@latoyairaborofficial]

Soooo glad you mentioned that it’s ok to wear your natural hair. I’ve been trying to find classy hairstyles that don’t make me look like a teacher Or a toddler. Do you mind creating a video about how to wear your natural hair in a classy manner?

[@cocoastyling]

Great idea:)

[@saramyles4750]

can you do a version of this video for plus sized women ... ive noticed that sometimes wearing loose fitted clothes can make plus size women look bigger

[@cocoastyling]

That's a great idea!

[@softshell812]

My tips are: if you have a clothing staple that's good enough quality to hang on to for a while: GET IT TAILORED! $15 Investment will make you look so much more polished. Also, DIP NAILS. Short or almond, chill and neutral dip nails take 20 mins.

[@alexandrajames3174]

This channel was much needed and I hope it continues to grow.

[@yupthatsme89]

I'm so glad I found this channel. I'm to enhance my wardrobe for my 20s.

[@cocoastyling]

Welcome aboard!

[@_CDeville]

I’m so obsessed with channels like this!!🥰🥰

[@kaylahreed8899]

What other do you know of?! I love this one as well

[@Wooddweller]

I am so tempted to change my style to the classic style. I am 30 and no longer a teenager but I am having such an issue with trying to grab the attention of my future husband. Wherever he is.

[@AbdulKareem-uy6hk]

My Sister, you will find him. Less is more. Quality Gentlemen attract feminine, articulate and well dressed women. The key is to be confident in your skin and attire...

[@MologadiMakhafola]

He will find you with the classic style. Mine did 😍

[@adorablebelle]

1. Less is more 2. Always dress for the occasion 3. Avoid skintight clothes 4. Avoid spandex 5. Don't show too much skin 6. Invest in basic color pieces (she offers color analysis for black women!) 7. Wear the right dress size 8. Wear the right jewelry 9. Watches 10. Learn to walk in heels 11. Always do your hair 12. Keep your nails in good condition 13. Wear the right makeup 14. Wear your colors Bonus Tips on... No makeup makeup look Etiquette and mannerisms Smile Turbans Wigs

[@wendyrs1087]

Black women so beautiful

[@taj6090]

Suggestions for tips on other styles - Dark Academia - Preppy - Romantic - Edgy - Boho

[@cocoastyling]

Thanks! I will definitely work on those as well

[@angellover02171]

@@cocoastyling maybe cottage core as well

[@angellover02171]

@Baddie Kayladoll is it?

[@SisterSister18]

It’s weird because I’m such a creative person that emboy all styles I can’t just pick one.

[@thecomplexion7524]

Sporty

[@Asteriyea]

Love the pictures you selected to demonstrate your points. Keep up the good work!

[@cocoastyling]

Thanks so much!

[@veronicapurcell6239]

These looks are so functional, and versatile while being quite beautiful. Very much enjoy and appreciate all the care tips. Thank you so much for sharing.

[@Eraya254]

I could listen to you talk for hours🔥

[@cocoastyling]

Thank you!

[@PinkYellowGreen2023]

Love this video!!! Black women come in a variety of ways! Time to let the world know

[@deniseoates7147]

Very good content and with melanin skin women in mind, very valuable information. I really like the selection of pictures used. Thanks for sharing and blessing to you and all in the many days to come,

[@CC-pu6qn]

This is my first video, subscribed. I’m light skinned but I’m here for this. Any type of black female empowerment, I’m here for it!

[@cocoastyling]

Welcome! And thank for your support:)

[@renatamitchell9535]

I love a classic look that never goes out of fashion. Thanks for this video. 💝

[@naydrasnowfield8404]

I’m 17 and even though I wanna dress classy, I don’t wanna look too serious for my age. Do you think this would be right for me?

[@cocoastyling]

The classy style work for everyone, however, you can mix it with a few preppy elements to make it a bit more youthful. This is my video on the preppy style:): kzbin.info/www/bejne/o2PHiZybl5x4itk

[@naydrasnowfield8404]

@@cocoastyling thank you so much!!!

[@TULIP.1689]

Great video! I am streamlining my wardrobe to be all classic. To do a classic style you can wear things that skim your figure but DO so tight it looks like you were poured in. If it’s gaping or pulling anywhere it is TOO tight! Focus on good quality basics. Less is more with this style. You can find great pieces second hand. Window shop the better stores so you can recognize the labels if you happen to thrift. Quality is better than quantity. You don’t need labels and too much flash with it. You don’t need designer necessarily especially when you’re starting out. You could even sew your own clothing and it would be just fine. Stay OUT of the leggings, hoodies and the like. You can wear slimmer sneakers preferably in a solid colors. Unless you are doing something active stay out of the athletic wear.

[@cocoastyling]

Those are great tips!💖 Quality over quantity is definitely important in this style, but that doesn't mean it has to be expensive, especially with timeless pieces, they are easier to find.

[@MeMe-ht2hd]

Thank you , for saving our community in the day-and-age of the trashy look becoming so mainstream. The more regular black women explore this classy look it changes what we attract, how we feel, and what could be. I have noticed since I dress more classy people actually treat you better, and the people I attract now are of more quality. Who wouldn't want an upgrade? Let's get her channel to a million subscribers, send these videos to your friends, family members anyone who can benefit and grow, it's only a copy and text away, Let's go girls!

[@soumyapande678]

As a dusky, overweight indian lady with 3c hair, I'm glad channels like this exist. They're a lot more relatable than channels showing white women and primarily catering to a certain beauty standard. They're nice and I've learnt a lot from them as well, but certain topics such as natural hair(anything other than straight hair or blow dried hair) is rarely if ever addressed there

[@tinaswisphers3433]

Thank you for creating this video! and this channel dedicated to black women! this means so muuchhh!! ive been searching for a channel like this!! also your accent is so pretty!!

[@cocoastyling]

Thank you!

[@normajean7882]

Every race of women. Telling. the black woman how to dress. What colors not too wear on their dark skin what you know with your accent. Scared too help the white woman because millions of them need help. But you are looking at their best and our worst. I don't need you. Go figure

[@lisas9462]

@@normajean7882 Thank you because I agree. Within the first few minutes of the video I knew that this wasn't a blk influencer. But she uses the name Cocoa styling for blk women and even gives a reply that she is blk. OK...Rachel Dolezal.

[@cocoastyling]

@@normajean7882 Well, if you read the description you would know that the reason why I made the channel is that I am both black and a fashion stylist.

[@bcoral8101]

I'm completely biased, but wow...black women are fine AF

[@queenofthesouth4205]

Great video. Thank you for showing us at our best.

[@AbdulKareem-uy6hk]

As a Married gentleman (outsider), I hope I may contribute to this wonderful channel.... Ladies, less is more. Quality Gentlemen attract feminine, articulate and well dressed women. The key is to be confident in your skin, attire (clothing that fits well to your body type) and most of all have impeccable etiquette...

[@iusedtolovecheesecake2205]

This is a true statement; however there are so few quality men.

[@AbdulKareem-uy6hk]

@@iusedtolovecheesecake2205 , interesting observation. However, that said, I believe it is down to upbringing and a lack of Masculinity and traditional values... The quality men are out there. I meet them daily....

[@iusedtolovecheesecake2205]

@@AbdulKareem-uy6hk I agree with the first statement, but the second is a little difficult for you to gauge. Keep in mind you know those men a friendship basis. You aren't looking to date them, so there will be characteristic flaws that you're oblivious to.

[@AbdulKareem-uy6hk]

@@iusedtolovecheesecake2205 , ***disclaimer*** I never mentioned these men I see daily are my friends. Secondly, both male and female, usually judge ones character based on mannerisms and the way one conducts themselves. Thirdly, how do women today judge a good character? What is one's definition of a quality man today? Lastly, perhaps the "few quality men" today are either Married or those that are single may also find it a challenge in meeting quality women 👀

[@iusedtolovecheesecake2205]

@@AbdulKareem-uy6hk of course, any logical person judges a person overall on mannerisms etc. Also keep in mind you can also meet a person's representative as well. I've dated a man whom everyone would give him praises on his kind gestures, his outgoing personality, his "big heart" little did people know he was suffering with a personality disorder and a whole host of other issues. He kept these things under wraps. No one believed he was like this. A good quality man is a man who's honest with himself and what he wants. A man of integrity, one who's selfless, you get the point. I can agree, trying to find someone of quality is like a needle in a haystack. Too many people again, put forth their representative to use you for personal gain. Neither side trusts the other.

[@naomia472]

First time on this yt channel just subbed and liked. I absolutely loved this video it made me feel fantastic!! Like a queen! Thank you Mrs cocoa!❤️

[@cocoastyling]

Yay! Thank you!

[@indriadrayton1132]

I love understated outfits...

[@amplyfesociety2570]

Truly enjoyed this video.

[@cocoastyling]

Thank you!

[@whatscbg4875]

Well done. Beautiful esthetic. Classy. Black. Beauty. 💜

[@juliennelomocso6294]

came across your channel and i am in love ❤❤❤ this is so revolutionary! 😍 I hope this channel grows!

[@cocoastyling]

Thank you so much!!

[@Cristina.Antoniuc]

Keep going girl. It was aesthetically pleasing to watch. We absolutely need more content from you 😍🌹

[@gabrielle7374]

I love how you didn’t just say “don’t wear this” and ended the conversation at that - you gave alternative suggestions for clothes to wear. This video helped me so much! Thank you!

[@cocoastyling]

Glad it was helpful! I think it's important to have many option, not everyone likes or looks good in the same garments, so it is important to have alternatives for everyone:)

[@ms.ppettigrew3167]

I just viewed the video and I must say that I am impressed. In an age where everything is sexualized, to be respected one must present themself respectfully. I am a older woman and I must say bravo young ladies.

[@mindfulkento]

Hi ! I found your channel yesterday and I subscribed immediately because I love the content and the fact that you are focused on black women. Can you do a video about accessories please. I am a fan of accessories more than clothes. But sometimes I have the impression of doing too much or badly associates them.

[@cocoastyling]

Sure! They are also a very important part of an outfit

[@shakejackson7513]

Wear what makes you feel good!!

[@shaniyaweaver1072]

This was surprisingly helpful. Thank you

[@cocoastyling]

Glad it was helpful!

[@janeecelamadieu1136]

I love classic style but I also love the Academia style and classic glam styles too

[@FeliciaFollum]

Ok that last Boujee style with the lock knots was sooo cute!!

[@stoneychi8648]

*Just got this recommended after watching Anna Bey and I'm glad*

[@oluwademilade6863]

Thank you so much for this .

[@empoweredwoman1021]

I so happy to find you. Please do videos for older women.

[@cocoastyling]

Great Idea!

[@arimorr]

Just got to this channel! I love it. Is it best to pick out a particular style? I didn't realize until now that I had an affinity for dark academia, Boho, unisex clothing. As I am getting older I have heard that I should pick a particular style, but I don't want to put myself in a box. I do however, want to dress more classy and feminine.

[@cocoastyling]

The best style to chose is your own personal style! You can take inspiration from lots of aesthetics, you don't have to commit to a particular one. I will say that understanding the basics of the styles and aesthetics that you like can help you give them your own personal touch:)

[@So_IJustGotHere]

Thank you for creating this channel. So excited for more videos to come

[@cocoastyling]

Welcome! I'm so glad you like my videos:)

[@Queenshar40]

Happy I came across this!

[@cnashford2]

I was brought to your channel thanks to my love for the dark academia aesthetic. Your videos are so great! Thanks. - a new subscriber

[@luadiva]

a common issue which deserves more attention that it gets is tropical climate classy wear; most times we are treated to images that are very metro NYC, which is *beautiful*, but we need tips for Classy Miami or Summer in Houston, when the weather is unforgiving, and we run up against negotiating the Spanx x Humidity collab lol. I love a structured blazer, but as soon as I see lining inside? I'm out. So, loving your channel, glad I found it, and just sharing the need.

[@cocoastyling]

Great point! I'm in a tropical country and I definitely need to wear fresh clothes, I should definitely make a video on looking elegant in warm weather

[@msmarvellous9597]

Thank you 💕

[@JanelleMac]

This is great advice! I just subscribed! ❤

[@viviancovington7813]

Absolutely brilliant! So helpful. Thank you.

[@aspiringfemininity8626]

This was an excellent video.

[@cocoastyling]

Thank you!

[@Victoria-up6vz]

Girl, I just subscribed ❤️💃🏾💃🏾

[@DearNiquo]

This an amazing channel. I am obsessed.

[@cocoastyling]

Thank you!

[@Pursuitofsimplicity]

Excellent. Please keep up the good work. It is needed.

[@cocoastyling]

Thanks, will do!

[@susannakitto5655]

I liked and subscribed before watching anything

[@krys_tal1845]

just found this channel, love

[@cocoastyling]

Welcome!!

[@longbranch11207]

I’m Not a woman just showing support

[@cocoastyling]

Thank you! And welcome

[@TheChefSteph]

Very insightful video with great tips!

[@yvettekirkland5950]

I agree with everything. Loved this!

please post more we need youuu sis 🫶🏾❤️🤣

[@looksbysellox]

lOVE IT, Thank you

[@tinamagatti3602]

Does anybody ever get that feeling as a black girl when they want to be elegant and refined but just cannot let go of that, how do I say it, perhaps “hood” aspects of their culture like the oversized hoops, the long nails, the colourful lace fronts, the baby hairs etc. Like I have been really interested in elegance and class but unfortunately those black aspects are not considered elegant in today’s society or any society for that matter. So in an event that you are trying to divert your ‘attention’ towards being an elegant black lady, what do you do when you come across your favourite female rapper (e.g Nicki, Meghan or Saweetie) or that stylish black chic on Instagram that doesn’t comply to society’s rules for elegance and you cannot help your love for the black aspects of your culture and want to dress and groom that certain way? I really wish there was some advice for this because it puts me in a serious dilemma.

[@tinamagatti3602]

@Nubian Empress Well thank you for that, but I beg to differ as well... Firstly, there is no celebrity worship here, those celebrities are merely great examples of such ways of dressing and styling so it seemed the obvious pick as an example. Secondly, the only reason the word ‘hood’ can be used to describe black aspects of culture is because it is part of the black culture and way of dressing and styling that has been maintained and respected by the black community for many years, and most especially you can find that in black neighborhood communities, which is referred to as the hood. It’s only offensive if you only look at the negative aspects that people associate with the word hood and not the fact that it’s the place that has promoted and preserved black culture for years. But all in all, opinions and views differ, so thanks once again for your input

[@cocoastyling]

Culture can play a very big aspect in your personal style. I would say understanding the basic of each style can help guide you, but if you like long nails, hoops, and baby hairs, wear them! Make your own personal style, if you want to wear mostly classy clothes and incorporate one or two elements of other styles you can do that. However, if you do add a lot of rapper elements, it might turn into a boujee style, which isn't bad, it's just a different look. You might be interested in Y2k fashion, it takes a lot of these elements that you like and gives them a preppy and "cute" look. And Y2k does take a lot of inspiration from African-American 90's- 2000's culture.

[@ropafadzodzeka8276]

Girllll I feel you!! I like being classy but still want keep that black woman uniqueness akways.

[@reesesaddler4744]

I try to compromise both aspects. For example, I get short and simple acrylic nails and wear small gold hoops.

[@cecel_reis]

i appreciate this channel so much

[@OnikaThe]

I would like to see who is the voice behind the video.

[@cocoastyling]

You can see me on my blog:) www.micahlumsden.com/

[@ShesooBreezy]

Love this game, queen. 👸🏾👸🏾👸🏾 💯💯💯 💎💎💎💎

[@JaydaSimone]

Glad I found this channel! We need more black content creators for this genre...

[@lisas9462]

Do your research this person Cocoa styling for dark skin women isn't blk at all. Amazing how they are able to say what is boujee and what is classy for and on blk women.

[@JaydaSimone]

@@lisas9462 okay so she's mixed, whatever. Part Jamican is still black to me, I don't care. I know plenty of Blasians who still look black.

[@Bond_MrsBond]

Wow this video makes me feel so good🥰🥰 thank you!

[@maserati925]

Good video, most of these tips I have learned from my mom🙂

[@thanksmudyira3547]

The best video i do not need to watch other videos now.

[@balletickid]

Such a great video! I'm a white woman but clicked on the video because I'm nosy and these women look like beautiful boss angels !

[@anitawashington1208]

Hi you just feel free to enjoy human beings beauty that's fine"! 🥰💯🍻

[@lisas9462]

You and the creator have something in common. So pls don't feel like you are being nosy. And yes the blk women are beautiful.

[@_tshepiiyy]

Just found this now... New subbie😊💕

[@cocoastyling]

Thanks for subbing!

[@gypsymoon474]

Yes!! 🥰❤️ I love these tips!!

[@daniesavage]

I'm just now finding your channel. I'm wondering, do recommend any stores that sell classy not bougie clothes?

[@cocoastyling]

I will be posting some brands on my blog soon! www.micahlumsden.com/

[@candice44441]

This is great because I see a lot of beautiful dark skinned ladies wearing boujee style on the street, long crazy acrylic nails, long crazy eye lashes, tight clothing,etc. I'm not saying there is anything wrong with this style, but I feel like it shouldn't represent the way women in a certain demographic dress.

[@chandrimahalder3198]

Let's be friends all dark skinned people😌😌🖤🖤

[@codishaa]

I needed this video. Thank you

[@cocoastyling]

Glad it was helpful!

[@JayLeiRay]

This was so helpful 😍

[@ldmorrison89]

I like it... if anyone needs assistance I will be willing to come up with a dress board for you according to your size. Thank you.

[@jocelynasante5728]

I need assistance please

[@ldmorrison89]

@@jocelynasante5728 cool...thank you for reaching out. How may I reach you?

[@jocelynasante5728]

@@ldmorrison89 what's your ig? I'd send a hi

[@DriveByConversations]

Really good tips thanks 😊

[@cocoastyling]

Glad it was helpful!

[@mariedunkley4750]

This is so Great!! You’re a sweetie so classy! Thank you for these great tips! Love seeing my people with such chic styles.

[@Phinanollytv1]

Thanks for the video 📹 please do more on how to look simple and classy to a luxury event 😊 I have already subscribed to your channel

[@fashiontisiconic586]

I loved this video 👍🏾👾

[@milliemi4759]

Great! Video and advice. Thanks so much for sharing. I think I'll subscribe ☺️

[@cocoastyling]

Thanks! And welcome:)

[@FaonaBonne]

This was helpful

[@nubi688]

GREAT VIDEO!

[@danaglass1265]

Who is the lady at 5:07 on the right? So pretty and the perfect makeup!

[@cocoastyling]

Adut Akech!

[@danaglass1265]

She is black girl magic personified!!!! 👸🏽

[@Phinanollytv1]

Wow I really love this

[@Rosefleur5346]

I Love this video , thank you .

[@cocoastyling]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@mkalinecpf5206]

I think this is wat l really wanted, l having struggling with colour match 4 my skin

[@shirleyowens9936]

Love it!!❤️

[@cocoastyling]

Thank you!!

[@LittleGameDev]

I'm 27 I've recently gotten out of the hospital, the hospital had lost most of my clothing. I've decided to rework my wardrobe. I've recently been learning to do my own makeup, I am working on losing weight. I am planning on going to California next year. I want to look nice. I have no idea what looks good on me, I spend most of my time indoors but I want to be more out going but still classy. My chest size is large. Its hard for me to find clothing that looks good and wont show off my size G boobs. My chest size is big, my waist is small and my butt is big. I have an hour glass figure tho im a bit plumb in the middle due to my weight 187. I'm working on getting to 130 by next year December. I want to look nice. I want to be more out going. I want to be healthy and happy.

[@TheGetRight]

as a man i loved this video

[@lyfeasmemecsit6203]

🤎Thank you !🤎