Codependency and Soulmates

[@great9122]

Hi! When I first started dating, my first ever boyfriend, I was so in love and happy with him, but after about 3 months, I looked at him one day and I just felt repulsed by him. It came from no where. And every time he touched me I cringed. It lasted for about 3 days and then I convinced myself to stay with him for another 3 years. I was 16 at the time and I had sex with him so I felt to guilty to break it off. It was a rocky relationship, but I got over that initial feeling of repulsion. When it finally ended, after 3 years, I felt the same way at the end as I had at the beginning. I felt repulsed by him, so I broke it off. My question is, a) do we intuitively know how something will end at the beginning of an experience? b) if something was energically meant to be a certain experience, like this one where I discerned the end at the beginning, can that be overridden by us decisions? Since everthing starts as energy can you really actually steer an experience in a different direction from the energy that exists? c) if the energy that exists is the basis of our experiences, then do we really actually have free will? Ps. I don't think we have free will like we think. I think it's an illusion.😊

[@wearethesamenergy]

Love this post. Sounds like he was a Karmic. Will put some of these questions on my list to make videos about 🙏

[@wearethesamenergy]

Also, you may want to watch my video entitled "Red Flags and Karmic Relationships." It will answer a lot of these questions in a way. Remember that things are not "meant" to be an energetic experience, but rather a learning experience.

[@zealiabella8553]

Hi Alexx, you have mentioned that you were with a false twin before being with your true twin. If you don’t mind can you please share what was it about the false twin that has misled you in thinking that he was your twin? and what was it that made you see clearly that he was not. Thank you and enjoy your day 💜✨🙏

[@wearethesamenergy]

I know everyone wants me to do a video on FFs. I'll put it this way for now: if the attachment is more how "perfect" they are for you Egoically, it may be a FF

[@thestuffedvegan9471]

I really enjoy your presentation and appreciate the short length❤

[@wearethesamenergy]

🙏🙏

[@notearz76]

I appreciate this.

[@fifiabdullah8276]

I am in a phase where i am certain i don't want to be with my twin flame because i am sure he will never be healed anytime soon. I feel released and sad in the same time.. Is this normal?

[@wearethesamenergy]

What does "normal" mean? 🙂

[@fifiabdullah8276]

People go through this too? 🤦‍♀️

[@wearethesamenergy]

It's common, yes 🙂

[@All.is.energy]

Always inspired by the content from you😊 Looking at my entire soul family and connecting the dots, a particular pattern revealed itself. Don’t know if it’s by “coincidence” or if it actually IS a pattern, but it seems like the soulmates I have come across gently and almost quietly “fades away” whereas karmic seems to “cut off/eksplode” and disappear… Pattern or “coincidence”?🤔

[@willwrx8997]

Is it weird that while I’m in separation I don’t really believe in love anymore and have no interest in anyone but from time to time I miss my DM but not 3D physical connection more like their energy

[@wearethesamenergy]

That's not weird

[@magdalenawiko5158]

I have never met a soulmate, unless it was the person who brought me to the place where I met TF. That's why it was so hard for me to understand TF connection...🥴

[@wearethesamenergy]

People in your family may be Soulmates

[@magdalenawiko5158]

​@@wearethesamenergyThis makes a lot of sense. When I met TF, I had the impression that he was a mix: my mother, my brothers, me, although I am very different from my mother, and... my beloved dog. I know it's stupid to compare someone to a dog (he's already dead), but during this "journey" I dreamed about my dog ​​almost every day. not about TF. 🙃🙂🥰 thx

[@wearethesamenergy]

It's not stupid to me to compare someone to any animal. We're all the same anyway.

[@GodKnowsWhoAmI]

Is there anything called "Symbiotic twin flame" . I got this in my dream last night or probably was given this information by the guides.

[@wearethesamenergy]

Not that I know of

[@Alexxx492]

Can a twin flame have known you in a past life?

[@wearethesamenergy]

"Twin Flames and Past Lives"

[@jessicahinojos654]

What happens when your soulmate dies? My best friend died two years ago and I feel like a piece of me is missing. No one will ever understand me like she did. I feel like I’ll never meet someone who I can fully open up to and let everything out without judgement and love again. It’s been two years and it’s not getting any easier but harder. I’d appreciate some light on this

[@wearethesamenergy]

I'm going to have a video out in July about when a Twin Flame dies, and it will partially pertain to a Soulmate as well. I'm so sorry for your loss. I will say this: remember that the thoughts of no one understanding you like she did and never meeting someone who you can fully open up to are all Egoic fears and constructs. Many Soulmates will come into our lives and each one is there to teach us a lesson and push us closer towards Ego Degradation. 🙏💜