This is really sad. People need to be aware of the dangers of alcohol abuse. It’s important to teach people to say No and not give into peer pressure. The whole culture of fraternities and hazing is messed up.
@maiden54272 жыл бұрын
True. Till this day I have sworn to stay away from alcohol, I dont care if people call me boring or not.
@viktorcheng20612 жыл бұрын
@@maiden5427 very wise 👍
@jisezer2 жыл бұрын
@@maiden5427 extremes always lead to silly problems. Alcohol is easy to moderate and almost never a problem until you make it one. These men set out to make it one.
@VENENOSEASON2 жыл бұрын
@@jisezer exactly
@thejoyofrolling2 жыл бұрын
lolololo
@xxspyrogamingxx47512 жыл бұрын
It’s horrible to think that a single decision can lead to a lifetime of suffering.
@1ne2wo3hree4o5ive2 жыл бұрын
This i can agree
@GhastlyRapidash2 жыл бұрын
Yep even the small ones that we don't think of, something so small as not tying your shoe lace and tripping down a flight of stairs could ruin your life, little stuff can be so dangerous it crazy
@wherethewatermeetstheshade2 жыл бұрын
College where you have and know where people do dumb things. This is America welcome to it nothing is gonna change. Hope all you young who read this have children so they could experience the stupidity of the world while you attempt to protect them from everything.
@wherethewatermeetstheshade2 жыл бұрын
I KNOW THE MAMA IS GONNA LOVE THAT INSURANCE MONEY she even looked off to the side lol
@ababo13862 жыл бұрын
This was definitely a chain of decisions
@theoccultlibrarian53862 жыл бұрын
We live in a society that glorifies alcohol abuse. That is a huge factor in these kind of tragedies.
@Angel-ku5vq2 жыл бұрын
Or maybe be independent and smart , I have a lot of Friends who drink heavy when they party and I never ever drink not even a sip , even when they used to pressure me , this kid was raised weak
@rickyo70612 жыл бұрын
@@Angel-ku5vq yep
@palmbearoftexas20072 жыл бұрын
@@Angel-ku5vq True. He could’ve called it quits w/ the fraternity. Yeah, he probably laid down a lot of money for the process of “crossing”, but was it really worth his life? People have freedom to decide, and Darwinism dictates weakness be culled. This is nothing more than textbook actions: put self in dangerous position, suffers the consequences when things flop…literally, haha. I pity him. I’m sad for him and his family, and I honestly feel the others also had some responsibility to look out for their fellow Americans, but again, at the end of the day, they chose their path, and this was the risk. How sad.
@donnatelliunderwood25922 жыл бұрын
he deserved it who cares it nots a tragedy he shouldve been more cautious its only his fault
@cmja092 жыл бұрын
We live in a society.
@MoistCrumpet8 ай бұрын
Anyone who pressures you to drink that much alcohol isn’t a friend.
@chrisvibz47535 ай бұрын
eh he wasnt pressured he coupdve just said nah
@brendan25335 ай бұрын
At the end of the day, he was still a man who had the ability to make his own decisions and stop before he got completely blackout drunk. It's still your fault if you get pressured into making bad decisions by people you met at college months ago.
@user-xv6sr2xx4j4 ай бұрын
@@chrisvibz4753 He wasn't pressured? Looks like the jury for the criminal trial disagreed with that :)
@jtlast96004 ай бұрын
They weren't friends, they're "brothers"
@lightlybatteredjustcrispy4 ай бұрын
@@chrisvibz4753why do we even have lawyers when people like you exist
@soledisciple2 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry for this young man. We have to teach our kids values over fitting in. Because trying to fit in has devastated too many to count.
@abdulcisse43812 жыл бұрын
He was just having fun not fitting in
@thenormalberries67672 жыл бұрын
@@abdulcisse4381 I guess you don't know how fraternities work.
@abdulcisse43812 жыл бұрын
@@thenormalberries6767 no not really
@DUI6132 жыл бұрын
@@thenormalberries6767 u sound experienced, care to share how it works?
@davidcantor2932 жыл бұрын
No one is to blame besides the kid though. He chose to finish the bottle by the end of the night. No one forced him.
@sierrasix40682 жыл бұрын
The fraternity and university need to be held criminally liable.
@ravenone62552 жыл бұрын
University allows these bad behavior so they could get more students to come in .This is all too common among universities. This kind of behavior should be not acceptable in an educational system.
@BeyondEcstasy2 жыл бұрын
Frat culture itself needs to be held accountable
@blanca2000ify2 жыл бұрын
he did it to himself and now trying to put the blame on someone else its too common these days. I was in college but I never drank just a few beers and I did go to a party school UCSB
@h20lucifer242 жыл бұрын
But did he get in
@BlueFlash2152 жыл бұрын
@@blanca2000ify at a certain point at drinking you lose control. At this point anyone giving you more alcohol without consent is a crime.
@kelseybarton2 жыл бұрын
remember everyone: a high alcohol tolerance isn’t a badge of honor, it’s a problem.
@annies65662 жыл бұрын
Exactly. I’m 25 and can barely handle 2 shots but I’m proud about it 😌
@AwkwardBlackGal6132 жыл бұрын
@@annies6566 People would call you a lightweight but it's not an insult or joke. I was a girl who laughed once. Watch who is pouring your drink. Take time between your drinks, drink water.
@kryeyingface53652 жыл бұрын
When I was younger- being able to drink a lot seemed so cool to me. "Oh you can't drink anymore? Cmon wussy". I took the jokes too seriously when my friends probably cared more for my health. Also, it's so easy to indulge in the vibe (and addiction/temptation). Feel like I intrinsically knew/felt the damage but I made excuses to take it further. Bad ideas! Better way to make memories. I know no one asked + L + ratio but hopefully some random gets some insight from this. What a terrible incident for Danny and his family :( i don't think anyone else is to blame though. I imagine no one at that college would have thought/hoped this would have happened to him.
@gypsy-nr9zd2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Alcohol is a drug like all the others. I’m 22 I had to quit. Only 124 pounds & could drink like u never seem cuz I was an alcoholic drinking everyday. Glad to say I’ll never drink again
@XYZzyx202 жыл бұрын
This is very true statement
@laksamanasuhendra58682 жыл бұрын
"Unable to walk, talk, or see" Dude at this point why not just let him go, the man is probably screaming inside
@rand0mskins1952 жыл бұрын
Thats what im thinking
@Rachel-ff3ze2 жыл бұрын
sad thing is i don't think there's much inside anyways. he had severe brain damage so a lot of him is gone
@patrickmanway290 Жыл бұрын
A fate worse then death.
@meganmiller173 Жыл бұрын
That’s what I was thinking, I couldn’t imagine living the rest of your life trapped inside your mind and body like that 😞 I seriously hope that university and anyone involved is held accountable
@iiCounted-op5jx Жыл бұрын
yeah that's what I'm thinking too, just imagine how much he wants his family to end his suffering but he has no way to get the message across, brutal
@morriswilburn98582 жыл бұрын
When I was growing up, my parents drilled into my head "Be careful who you hang around with". That advice has served me well for many years.
@yourmajesty1222 жыл бұрын
If you run with the dogs sooner or later you're going to start to bark lol
@Former_Pastor2 жыл бұрын
@@yourmajesty122exactly, my grandma said the same thing ! His parents failed him !
@zwebackshyper2 жыл бұрын
same either this kids parents never lectured him or he was just ignorant to their advice and thought a cringey frat was more important than his life
@zqpcydbfoqbdiehdj2 жыл бұрын
Even God advises that. Lol
@kingcj37012 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Very important! As much as I feel sorry for him, I still think he would have avoided this. Or at least get rid of the alcohol. The urge to belong sometimes is what really kills
@dreaminez4722 жыл бұрын
This happens all the time. When I was in college this exact thing happened only the guy died, never woke up the next morning. College kids have no idea how destructive alcohol is.
@orubek3552 жыл бұрын
Omg!
@revit49092 жыл бұрын
No lie, bozos think they can just sleep it off
@b.y.o.p.90352 жыл бұрын
It needs to stop. Hazing and alcohol abuse should be done and over with.
@bjornsama96492 жыл бұрын
I graduated HS back in 05. and all this crazies been going since before me. haha. it's only getting more wild with these new idiot generation.
@lilvcifxr2 жыл бұрын
did u miss the part where he was dropped on his head an thats how he ended up like this
@cactus_pot2 жыл бұрын
Never feel pressured to be part of something especially if you know it’s something harmful
@fynkozari92712 жыл бұрын
Is this America? The greatest country? Why so weird? Alcohol 6x the limit?
@purecuteness77292 жыл бұрын
@@fynkozari9271 yupp
@theyluvshay75282 жыл бұрын
@@fynkozari9271 sadly yes
@nessquake2 жыл бұрын
@@fynkozari9271 yes, no, it’s not weird it’s depressing, and no.
@oj81992 жыл бұрын
@@fynkozari9271 girl America is not the greatest country. This is coming from an American. Only boot licking, naive Americans view our country as flawless.
@DEATHCHICKEN1337 Жыл бұрын
So sad and haunting how he was blindfolded during his last moments of sight.
@saramorin47927 ай бұрын
bro was not drunk out of his mind there, if he was pass out drunk he wouldnt make down the stairs
@dale90427 ай бұрын
@@saramorin4792 🤓☝
@heavenlyramo1017 ай бұрын
He was already drunk with thos body and was drinking more. dont be dumb @saramorin4792
@restingwitchface6665 ай бұрын
@@saramorin4792you can be blacked out and seem fine. Your brain can’t process its short term memories or something like that but you’re not asleep yet. Like your PC still working but lagging out bc of lack of ram. Scary and sad and I have been there.
@KyleCorwith2 жыл бұрын
I've never understood why the hell these rituals in college were ever acceptable. It's bullying and destructive.
@NotTrolling3992 жыл бұрын
Why would colleges care? It’s about money
@MikuXP2 жыл бұрын
Seems like you have described any system of power 😅
@lockethomas71652 жыл бұрын
Bullying??? He drank to much ya dork
@Unoriginal32 жыл бұрын
All part of the life scam your trying to get out of
@TobbeStorm2 жыл бұрын
@LL I stopped drinking even before I got to college. Had no interest in joining any of them either, hanging out with dumbasses isn’t really my thing. I saved a whole bunch of money not drinking which I instead used to go abroad after every semester and graduated with no regrets in that regard.
@JunoSuede2 жыл бұрын
I do not get the idea of this foolish pledging hazing nonsense. I never understand it. Maybe because I raised in the Caribbean. Why would I need to prove to people equal like me (students) that I am worthy?
@mikivanduyn96302 жыл бұрын
right... and to get a change in a business you like,join LinkedIn...
@KillenEMsoftly2 жыл бұрын
its a white ppl thing
@olsenlibra6232 жыл бұрын
@@KillenEMsoftly their privilege...
@darknes95562 жыл бұрын
@@KillenEMsoftly 👏
@shyryTsr2k2 жыл бұрын
No I'm from California and I too don't understand it.
@dragonskull473slayer92 жыл бұрын
Yeah a highschool student that went to my school was allergic to alcohol. They slipped some vodka into her orange juice and she was completely unaware. She became very intoxicated and drowned in her own vomit cause no one checked on her. She died of suffocation and multiple organ failure. Things like this shouldn't be taken lightly and charges to the full extent of the law should apply to anyone involved.
@xxXxXxGxXxXxx2 жыл бұрын
Did the people get charged who spiked her drink?
@tecumsehdc2 жыл бұрын
This is not a case of someone spiking a drink though. Don’t compare a crime to a situation where a kid consented before consuming the alcohol
@lastsong71592 жыл бұрын
@@tecumsehdc hazing is literally a crime. One did not consent, the other was pressured by a community, both didn't know the danger, both (almost) died from negligence and for the entertainment of the other party. But I guess it makes you look more like a tough guy when you can judge someone behind a screen and tell yourself you wouldn't be in his situation.
@dragonskull473slayer92 жыл бұрын
@@tecumsehdc you're right this is much worse
@dragonskull473slayer92 жыл бұрын
@@tecumsehdc also this is a crime and I can compare it
@NoahBailie Жыл бұрын
im nauseous just imagining being in this situation. deep condolences
@HalfNHalf.2 жыл бұрын
I can’t imagine what Danny is thinking, just living in a shell of himself for the rest of his life. This is heartbreaking and everyone that made him do this needs to be held accountable to the fullest extent.
@williamsnowball42672 жыл бұрын
No one made him do it, he is a big kid now. He makes his own choices and he chose to drink like that. He didn't have a gun to his head being told to drink all of that. He made a bad choice and now he has to live with it.
@daphneyspiritrue70082 жыл бұрын
@@williamsnowball4267 exactly
@mariea.81002 жыл бұрын
@@williamsnowball4267 He was a teenage boy in college who drank like almost every other teenager. I doubt he realized that much vodka could kill him. Most people actually DON'T know that overdrinking like that on your first few goes can kill you. This isn't a "bad choice he has to live with," it's a horrific accident. Lots of people drink and this doesn't happen to them.
@bluelight86642 жыл бұрын
@@williamsnowball4267 he chose to be in a fraternity not to end up brain damaged it makes me sick people put the blame on him .Once you said you want to be part of the brotherhood it is very complicated to backtrack they won t let you and they coerce you in to doing these stupid things
@duckychanduckychan51552 жыл бұрын
@@mariea.8100 it should be common sense to not chuck a whole bottle of vodka on the first go, he probably felt terrible going through just one sip but keep pushing. This is sure tragic but still his fault.
@nowhere19562 жыл бұрын
Just shows you can't trust most people. So freaking sad to see this happening. God bless you young man. You deserved better!!!
@tamilcocky70992 жыл бұрын
he deserves better b/c he was a spineless little loser? lmao... I feel sorry for your family for having someone like you who clearly has notion about taking accountability
@marcuscarana92402 жыл бұрын
@You can trust most people. It's when they become a group when you can no longer be so trustful. A single person is almost all the time trustworthy when you build up your relationship. A group can have high tendencies to abuse, use, and treat you like a bag of garbage and won't even mourn for your death. It's not just fraternities or sororities. Even religious groups ironically often treat their members like tools. Like Mormons and JW's. When you become a member, your goal now is to preach and find new members. They don't care about you as an individual.
@workemail62832 жыл бұрын
There was an 80s Vietnam movie called Platoon. I thought it was cool how they separated units in camp between William Defoes unit which was laid back, not racist, cool and weed smokers. Then there was the hard ass, alcoholic, racist group that everyone was miserable in. Crazy to think this is still true today and powers that be that keep it that way.
@africaart2 жыл бұрын
He has internet and is a university student. Could have resisted peer pressure. Even Russians don't drink a while bottle of undiluted vodka. I wish his family should not try to ruin another students life.
@user-vr3mr5eu7y2 жыл бұрын
Can't trust who the kid who drank a bottle lol
@sakurafalls24682 жыл бұрын
My mom's worst nightmare when I went to college was exactly this: me being desperate to fit in and doing insane things to make it happen. I have never even been tempted. I'd choose a bit of loneliness anytime over endangering my life.
@uriel60182 жыл бұрын
is this a trend? if it is, wtf?
@chasingitsuki2 жыл бұрын
@@uriel6018 fraternities? Yes. Very much a trend alot of students feel the need to join one as soon as they get into college.
@zakosist2 жыл бұрын
True. But its important to make sure the teens actually realize the risk of both death AND and lifelong handicaps for doing things like this. I think the risk of getting crippled for life should deter just about anyone. If someone still does it after that, regardless of peer pressure (unless outright threatened/forced), they're just being an idiot and got no excuse. But its still a punishment more than they deserve.
@cavemanlovesmoke43942 жыл бұрын
*tumbleweed rolls by*
@springsnapped54352 жыл бұрын
Fr
@alexanderjefferies77402 жыл бұрын
I’m 21, finishing up college. Was at a hall of residence in 1st year where obviously there’s booze everywhere and even in the “non alcoholic building” it was quietly rampant. I refused to give in to peer pressure and play drinking games, which truly is just a euphemism for alcohol abuse. I hardly drink now. I used to a lot then but after a scary experience of lacking control after 6 well-filled glasses of wine within two hours I decided to give drinking up. I’ve never been fully drunk but just seriously tipsy. Always have water and food with alcohol. It’s so sad that young students glorify drinking and voluntarily abuse their bodies for the sake of “fitting in”. I feel amazing, but it’s sad that people admire you for saying you don’t drink only to subtly build peer pressure and ridicule you if you don’t participate. But if that happens then you’re hanging out with the wrong people. Your body is your temple guys (I know it sounds kinda tacky but it’s true), you’ve only got one.
@NopeSecret Жыл бұрын
Only the least intelligent people in society glorify drinking.... They get what they deserve.... Save your empathy and sympathy for actual victims..
@joshrodriguez60232 жыл бұрын
If any “fraternity” requires you put your life in danger as a “test of loyalty”, they do NOT have your best interest in mind.
@lockethomas71652 жыл бұрын
HE drank to much if you think that is anyones fault but his own you might be a bit of an air head
@heyitsmaddox2 жыл бұрын
@@lockethomas7165 It is the fraternity's fault for pressuring Danny to drink an unhealthy amount of alcohol. If you think otherwise, you're just as bad as the fraternity.
@Lightningstrike12202 жыл бұрын
It's called a "cult"
@jonathancasillas60332 жыл бұрын
They dropped him on his head probably what killed him.
@TobbeStorm2 жыл бұрын
@@lockethomas7165 Anyone who suggests finishing of that amount of vodka during one night is obviously way beyond an airhead
@mira96672 жыл бұрын
I'm a freshman in college and glad my parents always had a talk with me about these stupid and harmful things that happen in college. I don't even go to college parties and in the very few ones I've been to, I never felt peer pressured. Fortunately I can strongly say no and no one can budge me from my decision to not drink
@marilyn26672 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏
@thomasbeardslee7342 жыл бұрын
Keep strong!!
@chrispbmw87322 жыл бұрын
Keep it up 👍🏻
@hansterone2 жыл бұрын
High school and college means nothing.. its just a small part of ur memories. Just get passed it safe.
@valorgaming71142 жыл бұрын
Well you don't have to be a lame-ass either
@frost31932 жыл бұрын
Fraternities won't do you good, fraternities would lead you to bad things. I joined a frat in my college days and it was my most regrettable decision I've ever had.
@slipperylatex8722 жыл бұрын
explain, i’m about to go to college and i’m on the edge about joining. i already drink about everyday tho
@babbzkash2 жыл бұрын
what's a frat ?
@frost31932 жыл бұрын
@@slipperylatex872 a simple explanation, mate a frat is a bad influence. Go fight him, go fight them, maim him, maim them. Though forming brotherhood but it teaches you to not to be an independent person and keep on relying on someone.
@JaslineXD2 жыл бұрын
When I tried to join, I asked them “what do you guys stand for? Or simply, what do you guys do?” No one gave me an exact answer and only talking about socializing, building community bonds, this and that, I decided not to join any.
@dewantoroo2 жыл бұрын
@@slipperylatex872 just find your own "brothers" and form your own group
@HackiePuffs Жыл бұрын
Wow I can’t imagine just having so many abilities just stripped away from you. I wish him and his family the best going forward.
@theyoshman31592 жыл бұрын
This just breaks my heart and I cannot imagine how horrible it must be to have to go through this.
@Cittie2 жыл бұрын
It’s so sad how he can be normal and then be like that not even too long after 😨
@paigebooks64192 жыл бұрын
its his fault his weak everyone drink the alcohol but only him got brain damage
@PepTalkTillYouDrop2 жыл бұрын
@@paigebooks6419 he isn't weak. Everyone's body react to things differently. The earlier we realise this, the better for us.
@BestBallerAlive6092 жыл бұрын
@@paigebooks6419 It's his fault he's weak? Paige not sure if you knew this but people don't choose their strengths and weaknesses before they're born. They're just born. And I agree with Cloud Nine. Everybody has things that make them appear strong/resilient, everyone also has things that can make them appear weak/vulnerable. Might be spicy foods, a sport, you're physical strength.
@SleepyUncleSam2 жыл бұрын
He didn't HAVE to go through it... he basically volunteered
@gabrielakiki31682 жыл бұрын
This also happend in the Netherlands. A boy died.... You don't need to be part of a fraternity... just make your own friends.
@thomash72942 жыл бұрын
Belgium*
@anonangel19382 жыл бұрын
Exactly plus you’re technically paying for friends
@bobolh2062 жыл бұрын
Fr
@JudgeDredd_2 жыл бұрын
When they asked me to join a frat I told them I’m already a part of Phi Beta Me
@thejoyofrolling2 жыл бұрын
lolololol
@dili_m2 жыл бұрын
I go to the university of Missouri. This is so common it’s ridiculous. I know about 5 people that have died of drug overdoses. I heard about this case but it was like last year. Sadly this is just one of many. That poor guy
@Miss..Mia.2 жыл бұрын
This still happens. Why? I am genuinely curious not only why this happens but how everyone just gets away with it all?
@rosesweetcharlotte2 жыл бұрын
Him dying may have actually been kind
@nathanwilliams40052 жыл бұрын
@@KennyMcCormick5467 I know you're trolling, but in his case living seems to be a lifetime of misery. Your trolling needs work buddy.
@neoxistudios25392 жыл бұрын
@@nathanwilliams4005 Don't bother giving him/her attention, he/she most probably has a poor self-image and tries to suppress it by being malicious and welcoming other's pain. He/she doesn't have any good purposes .
@raiden46192 жыл бұрын
Do you know if he ever managed to recover?
@AxelQuinnUnleashed3 ай бұрын
That’s worse than death unable to walk, talk or see.
@RaikaSTiАй бұрын
At least he can hear
@ThisReckless2 жыл бұрын
Anyone who pressures you to drink alcohol is sadistic. They don’t care about you.
@godsire62172 жыл бұрын
And a POS.
@kevinbond89662 жыл бұрын
Yup, im a regular drinker but pressuring someone to drink is disgusting.
@dereinzigwahrenico81562 жыл бұрын
It was his choise He could have said "no"
@watermelgurlie10yearsago512 жыл бұрын
@@dereinzigwahrenico8156 ya ever heard of peer pressure
@uselessoutdoorsman28262 жыл бұрын
Shut up and have a beer.
@fernanmontevista2042 жыл бұрын
I wonder what kind of "brotherhood" the fraternity really shows. It's very very heartbreaking for any parents to see their child almost die for just joining them.
@NathRebornsK2 жыл бұрын
They're rich but shows don't care. This what happened.
@mann252452 жыл бұрын
@@KennyMcCormick5467 it's very funny that Drugs ratio'd you 🤣💀
This is why it's important to teach your children about critical thinking and independent thought. I hope my children would look at this situation and say nope.
@lexislifestyle.2 жыл бұрын
I feel like not being able to walk talk or see is worse than dying. You can’t do anything at that point…
@ghoulx27792 жыл бұрын
Exactly your just a human vegetable at that point. It’s so sad.
@Tonshmar2 жыл бұрын
Do you know if it’s permanent? Have you seen any updates on this story? Truly sad.
@somanosanghirun15802 жыл бұрын
@@Tonshmar Very likely it's permanent, I'm not a doctor, correct me if I'm wrong but but recovery from such a catastrophic event does not look possible.
@Tonshmar2 жыл бұрын
@@somanosanghirun1580 Wow. Damn man. He can’t even see. 😔
@paradoxillusionist45532 жыл бұрын
literally my worst fear, and i know for a fact my parent would try to force me to keep living like this
@Helennn632 жыл бұрын
My God. I didn’t even know fraternity’s still hazed. You have got to teach your child to not engage in peer pressure and never be afraid to GET UP AND LEAVE!! Edit: feel the need to add that I am not trying to take away from the tragedy that occurred. It really is heart breaking what happened to him. The “my God” was more a “my heart breaks to hear that” my God. As a mother and teacher, I really try to stress the importance of never being afraid to walk away from a bad situation verses feeling the pressure of staying because “you’re in too deep”. I realize people on KZbin can be negative and cynical and I hate that my comment might have come off that way.
@xxcapxr36112 жыл бұрын
Or just realize every choice has a consequences I don’t feel bad for danny. Just like I don’t blame my drug dealer for when I overdosed. I knew the chance I took . That’s life.
@legoshirocha2 жыл бұрын
Parecen pendejos la verdad!!! Pobre Danny :(
@mopes27132 жыл бұрын
Or teach them not to join a frat, even think of that?
@fscorpion6782 жыл бұрын
@@xxcapxr3611 You don’t think peer pressure has any role to play at all?
@bitmes29102 жыл бұрын
@@fscorpion678 it did but you can’t just blame peer pressure. He is also at fault.
@celestialknight23392 жыл бұрын
This is really sad. Almost makes me want to cry. I commuted to college while living with my parents and barely had any friends, mostly spending my time reading in the campus library (I’m a nerd lol), but seeing stuff like this honestly makes me grateful. Perhaps if I was a frat boy things could’ve gone south in many different ways…Either way, people need to wise up and stop these dumb “frat pledge” dares. It’s more like a “suicide pledge”. So pointless and tragic. I really wish this kid all the best.
@alohavalerie15252 жыл бұрын
What happened? I don’t get it
@Suki-hl6vg2 жыл бұрын
Nothing bad in beeing a nerd🌹
@ivy1818u2 жыл бұрын
Better alone than with bad company ❤
@eduardochavacano2 жыл бұрын
Suki2669🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺 Not to brag about either.
@bamf66032 жыл бұрын
These things happens really rare, no need to limit yourself, just dont try to drink whole bottle of vodka in one go, and you will be fine.
@missqt48 Жыл бұрын
Wow! I was not expecting those results! That’s extremely sad!
@riverrebel12 жыл бұрын
Poor kid. It sounds terrible but sometimes I think surviving is worse. I can't imagine not being able to see, or even talk. Must feel like a never ending case of sleep paralysis. I don't know whether it's empathy or common sense so many people lack. If I see a dude that messed up I'm checking on him multiple times. Aside from the hazing nonsense
@henny65662 жыл бұрын
You can see during sleep paralysis.
@misoompa882 жыл бұрын
There's actually a Name for the "never ending sleep paralysis" I forgot the name but it's my worst nightmare ever and if it happened to me I rather die than live with that condition
@ShineBright5062 жыл бұрын
He is not a kid anymore
@temra70632 жыл бұрын
@@ShineBright506 i dont think thats the point though
@extremeking4252 жыл бұрын
@@temra7063 yes it is, he had a choice
@loreleii21732 жыл бұрын
Seeing the videos of him running around and smiling at the end broke my heart. He didn't deserve this and this is why it's important to teach your kids to stick up for themselves. I hope he finds enjoyment in life
@nothinginparticular64192 жыл бұрын
Right he looked like a real sweetheart in those. I'm so sad to see what happened to this young man. Poor boy just wanted to fit in at college 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@lupohutchington2692 жыл бұрын
Technically he chosed that
@lupohutchington2692 жыл бұрын
He chosed that uni, he chosed to enter a frat house, he chosed to drink instead of running or saying no,
@danthemanrob12 жыл бұрын
At least he can hear that's good part
@dimitrygornomelikov31462 жыл бұрын
This news made my day 😀
@burneshortliver21612 жыл бұрын
This is so sad. I genuinely can't tell which is the worst way to go, losing your limbs and senses to a landmine like the soldier from Johnny got his gun or your own friends leaving you on your own and then losing them when they come back to rescue you. My condolences go out to him and his family, and the university should be held responsible as well as the other Frat boys.
@Cittie2 жыл бұрын
Their probably gonna leave him now after this 😓
@swat007jp2 жыл бұрын
why should a school be held liable for a kids stupid choice, If i die in war should I sue you for your freedom?
@docwiz2 жыл бұрын
@@swat007jp if you gave me your kid so that I could educate them, you would hope I would watch them, teach them, feed them as if they were my own. Now imagine what happened to him and how he came back after being given to this educational facility. Their negligence on this hazing process must have caused physical and emotional trauma that could even extend beyond this incident.
@sandasturner95292 жыл бұрын
@@swat007jp pretty sure they college knows this stuff exist.
@VoiceDivine2 жыл бұрын
@@swat007jp if they punished them things like this will stop happening. This is simple math.
@day6atemywallet782 жыл бұрын
It’s baffling how poorly they handled him and had all those hours to get him medical attention. Where’s the brotherhood when he was in that state?
@pro-socialsociopath76911 ай бұрын
They were all drunk.
@AraAra63672 жыл бұрын
They “prohibit hazing” and yet the conga line of dozens of kids says this is a regular thing for them. Closing down the chapter isn’t enough. Those students need to be held accountable for endangering barely legal teenagers and putting them in dangerous situations.
@GameChanger5972 жыл бұрын
Exactly. And the chapter isn't closed until the criminals pay and the victims get justice.
@teejaygibson43152 жыл бұрын
I agree. They should be held accountable. Negligent carelessness that pretty much cost that young man his life. What kinda life can he lead now. They too everything from him and I think they should be held accountable for it
@2Bad4YOUuu2 жыл бұрын
Manslaughter
@whistlingtoe73502 жыл бұрын
That young man made his own choice. Now he has to live with it.
@2Bad4YOUuu2 жыл бұрын
@@whistlingtoe7350 He won't be "living" ever again.
@rcnewman51.2 жыл бұрын
“We prohibit giving alcohol to minors” the most dismissive naive thing you could say. “That chapter is over” what a lack of ownership. Disgusting.
@OraclesandBeyond2 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@mackenzieheffel80432 жыл бұрын
the chapter should have never been opened period.
@cyrusthegreat74722 жыл бұрын
Good old prohibition days
@spmn31702 жыл бұрын
Thats their way of saving the Frat and throwing anybody in the frat that were 21+ under the bus for their stupid decision and take all the blame.
@atrainbrady32082 жыл бұрын
That whole fraternity needs to be shut down.
@CJ-tx3tm2 жыл бұрын
Let this be a lesson in peer pressure. Know your limits. Know what position you’re going to put yourself in and know who’s around you to trust if you’re in a bad situation like he was. Poor Danny. Sad he had to pay the price just trying to fit in 😔🙏
@SoraOfTheDarkness2 жыл бұрын
I keep seeing comments say that the people he was with were untrustworthy but they weren’t. If anything they were incredibly trust worthy and were worried for his well being the entire time.
@gabrielfernandes58552 жыл бұрын
not so poor Danny, noone pointed a gun and forced him to do that, he always had the option to say no or to stop drinking, still extremely sad that this happened but it's what it is
@ethanarnold87952 жыл бұрын
@@gabrielfernandes5855 yes, poor Danny. He’s a kid and made a mistake, do not strip him of sympathy because “nobody held a gun to his head”. We all make mistakes, he got the worst end of it. Sorry Danny and I hope you do better ❤️🩹
@mordekai_wildeАй бұрын
"almost dies" isnt strong enough. He lost his life, as he knew it.
@paletteandeasel51672 жыл бұрын
It’s sad that they were able to revive him. I say that because he’s trapped inside his body now, and if it were me, I wouldn’t want to be trapped in my body, nor would I want my child trapped like this. If someone has been deprived of oxygen that long, it’s better to let them go. Poor Danny, this is so sad. His life was over that night
@heathercarpenter54972 жыл бұрын
My biggest fear as well. To be trapped inside my mind. Gosh. This is the most tragic thing I've ever heard
@unijaggerflax29752 жыл бұрын
Push me down the stairs, please!!!
@Spalbeert2 жыл бұрын
I would tell the doctors to kill me tbh i cant imagine living like that
@zimenoschosch67642 жыл бұрын
hes probably such a veggie that he doesnt notice tbh
@vela-62 жыл бұрын
Eh, I'd rather be alive if I didn't have to worry about costs to my family and loved ones.
@hotbbqporkbun82142 жыл бұрын
One stupid mistake changes your/ your loved ones lives forever. Just WOW…
@hotbbqporkbun82142 жыл бұрын
@JoJo to be cool, to fit in, to not “look” like a loser who backed out from downing a bottle.
@GalacticStudios692 жыл бұрын
@@hotbbqporkbun8214 actually it’s called peer pressure
@hotbbqporkbun82142 жыл бұрын
@@GalacticStudios69 or that yes.
@Tribuneoftheplebs2 жыл бұрын
@@hotbbqporkbun8214 it's fun. I've gotten blackout drunk at a frat before. Forcing them to drink X amount of hard liquor is very dumb though. I've only seen those kind of challenges for beer. Hard to get brain damage from chugging too many beers vs. vodka/spirits.
@tazmaniandevil23352 жыл бұрын
It's outrageous that the college is still allowing those fraternity "brothers" to stay enrolled there, this school should also be held accountable for what happened to this young man..sad. This makes me alot more thankful that the only friends I ever needed or wanted were my family, fiancé and MAYBE 1 or 2 childhood school-mates. Screw trying to "belong" or fit in
@prodoz14282 жыл бұрын
The colleges cant stop it, its a group of boys who all pay to live in a mansion
@mageniahunter2 жыл бұрын
It’s insane they still get to go walk around freely on the campus after hazing these kids!
@Jb642712 жыл бұрын
They saved him he drank to much and had no pulse so they took him to the hospital
@altairali69642 жыл бұрын
@@Jb64271 I agree, stop blaming the guys lol, like no offense but he chose to drink that much and it’s no ones fault there
@mochamocha10402 жыл бұрын
@@Jb64271 They dropped him on his head
@jillgiachino8086 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, for reporting.
@blacktinkerbell23242 жыл бұрын
Luckily I was able to stop my daughter from participating in hazing. She was about to inspite of her better judgment. I feel horrible for this family and Danny. Praying that he recovers and that his family gets justice.
@fleurdemeraudee2 жыл бұрын
What is hazing?? Is that like “AKA”??
@J.W.G.L2 жыл бұрын
@@fleurdemeraudee It means any activity expected of someone in joining or participating in a group that humiliates, degrades, abuses, or endangers them regardless of a person's willingness.
@kf42932 жыл бұрын
Recovers? Nope. Not from that kind of injury.
@sameerolail2 жыл бұрын
@@fleurdemeraudee it's similar to cult initiation. If u want to belong to fraternity or sorority, u have to execute anything they put u through.
@katherineforbes47932 жыл бұрын
@@fleurdemeraudee hazing is very rarely taken to this extreme though. most fraternities will make you down a few shots, shotgun some beers and that’s about it. maybe run around campus half naked. i’ve never seen someone have to chug a whole bottle of vodka, that’s beyond absurd.
@bigman72932 жыл бұрын
A lesson for everybody: drinking excessively is usually a terrible idea, and never a good one. Being young and dumb doesn't make you invincible.
@gaby34182 жыл бұрын
Facts 👏🏻
@Limon-cq5zu2 жыл бұрын
And alcohol poisoning is a thing
@augustek53822 жыл бұрын
And parents need to stop funding their spoiled children's partying in college...
@NoLimitsHtx2 жыл бұрын
“Young and dumb” honestly its the parents faults for not putting their son on game
@jonathan13915442 жыл бұрын
@@NoLimitsHtx that's a very unfair statement, you can be very well raised and still end up going wild for a while at uni
@temp_4082 жыл бұрын
"almost dies" no, that boy died that night. This is so heartbreaking
@Keznen2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, what's left is just an empty shell.
@blackham72 жыл бұрын
If he's ever able to make audible noises/grunts with his vocal chords or gesture to them somehow, they should ask him if he wants to be euthanized.
@trinityking2422 Жыл бұрын
He's just a shadow of his former self literally bro can't even see his shadow
@SmartDumbNerdyCool11 ай бұрын
Depends how lucid his brain is, but yeah it's alcohol so I can't imagine it would be good in there.
@SailorMoonFriends Жыл бұрын
It's too bad that the doctors were able to revive him because now he has to live the rest of his life like that, and his mom had to quit her job to take care of him full time.
@irgendeinname92565 ай бұрын
Damn this comment is kinda brutal. Hope they don't see this
@kooI-aiddealer5 ай бұрын
@@irgendeinname9256it's true at that point your not even living
@lightlybatteredjustcrispy4 ай бұрын
@@kooI-aiddealeryou just don't say some things. And if you don't get that, then you have some serious problems with social cues
@kooI-aiddealer4 ай бұрын
@@lightlybatteredjustcrispy its true if i were the family i would of pulled the plug
@lightlybatteredjustcrispy4 ай бұрын
@@kooI-aiddealer your opinion doesn't matter when you spell like an 8 year old
@wees42312 жыл бұрын
I’m a part of a fraternity and we never forced the use of alcohol in any event. It’s incredibly irresponsible.
@jod57832 жыл бұрын
Whole concept of fraternity is soo stupid ...need iq in negative to join such things
@itsa_vine67732 жыл бұрын
W man
@AS-rr9km2 жыл бұрын
Very good. Keep people safe, first.
@jaycedavis46742 жыл бұрын
maybe just not forcing a 130lb stick to drink an entire bottle of vodka, and you do realize this was his decision?, not if the frat forced him to stay and drink it that’s a whole different situation
@lazytrip33562 жыл бұрын
What kind of fraternity is this 😂😭 Saint Simon and Jude
@Jenz1232 жыл бұрын
My heart is hurting so much for this family . This is horrific.
@rdgzunleashed27492 жыл бұрын
I feel for them too. You can hear the hurt in their voices.
@minglee6492 жыл бұрын
Pure wicked kids !!!! My heart goes out to this poor family.
@kernoleary13942 жыл бұрын
I almost died when I was 16 from hypothermia and alcohol poisoning. All my friends left me at the place we were drinking because my gf at the time was there... all 120 lbs of her and 190lb me. She couldn't get me over the fence we climbed to get in and thank God she called my parents without my consent. My parents brought me to the hospital and the doctors told them if i was outside 30 minutes longer I would have died. If it weren't for her I wouldn't be here right now
@gringoamigo81462 жыл бұрын
Hope you didn't lose that girl, bud
@trollingdaddy25682 жыл бұрын
🧢
@haleycross13482 жыл бұрын
@@trollingdaddy2568 nice troll. Not the time
@nena200able2 жыл бұрын
What led you to do this?
@wannabecarguy2 жыл бұрын
same situation but I wasn't going to let my buddy die. I dragged him to my house and kept him alive all night. I was 14 and he weighed at least 100 lbs more than me. we found a bottle he drank the whole thing. our parents were out of town.
@s34nvideos6 ай бұрын
That's the power of trying to fit in and be accepted. Learn to follow your own path in life.
@yourfuturebright2 жыл бұрын
I found it chilling that before the incident he was walking just blind-folded at first to being led on permanently blind afterwards. Prayers to the family.
@BIGSosababy62 жыл бұрын
+ he was the only one with a odd color head band
@user-rn5un7kh2p2 жыл бұрын
:( that’s so sad omg
@BIGSosababy62 жыл бұрын
@@user-rn5un7kh2p tell me about it sometimes it's better being alone cause people's intentions don't be good
@Former_Pastor2 жыл бұрын
@@BIGSosababy6 exactly the truth 👏
@BIGSosababy62 жыл бұрын
@@Former_Pastor it takes the real to know the real gotta keep good people in your life
@anniesossa2 жыл бұрын
This just breaks my heart 😒💔 pls don’t let ppl convince u into doing anything that doesn’t feel right no matter how much they guilt trip u or how bad u feel for them
@GuerinGrad092 жыл бұрын
The kid had no idea that drinking that much Vodka could kill him. At some point he probably had no idea he was still drinking. It's not his fault he ended up like this. He wasn't even old enough to get the alcohol.
@_Just_Another_Guy2 жыл бұрын
@@GuerinGrad09 In all truth, his parents should've better educated him on what alcohol consumption is, and maybe even slowly ease him into recognizing his drinking limits inside the safety of their family home. It's better for young adults to experience their first drink at home under parental supervision so they learn to recognize their drinking limits, and learn how to manage their intoxication do that they'll be better equipped when they do go out drinking in the real world.
@goldendutches52072 жыл бұрын
@@_Just_Another_Guy I agree, I don’t understand who’s fault it is then if it’s not his and anyone who supported alcohol to a minor, but with that said he was well old enough to know what it was and illegally consumed it and well… consumed so much he’s brain dead, it’s not the other guys fault he drank that much nor is it there fault they took the time they did to get him to the hospital, parents should be lucky the boys even cared that much they could’ve all went to sleep and he’d probably be dead currently.
@anniesossa2 жыл бұрын
@@GuerinGrad09 yes it’s definitely not his fault. He probably felt sick but he either didn’t want to let his friends down, was peer pressured, wanted to be on their level, didn’t want to seem like he cant handle his alcohol or all of the above. It’s simply peer pressure… nvm the idiots dropping him on his head. It’s 💯 the fraternity’s fault
@anniesossa2 жыл бұрын
@@_Just_Another_Guy thing is tho no matter how much ur educated on alcohol if ur social surroundings & the social network around u is pressuring u it’s very common to give in especially as a guy because of toxic masculinity making men think they not manly if they can’t handle their alcohol. I’m pretty sure it was peer pressure. I mean I understand wanting ur friend to be as drunk as u but to pressure anyone into taking a substance leads to exactly these types of situations even mentally disabling ppl for life. He probably didn’t want to be called the p word for not being able to handle his alcohol & thought he’d just vomit or pass out. Not knowing everyone’s body is different & u need to do wats right for u not wat makes ur friends n social surroundings happy. Bec that’s exactly what happened here
@fernandop12 жыл бұрын
WHY PEOPLE ALWAYS LET their surroundings to be an influence? Stand up and YOU BE an influence to them. Otherwise, you don't need those kind of friends. Do that which you know is right, not what you which to be right.
@stonerslawth62582 жыл бұрын
That's what I'm saying lmfao it's Danny fault for not stopping they ain't had a gun to his head forcing him to drink he just had too much pride and it was his downfall
@midnightshadow14912 жыл бұрын
I somewhat agree with you, but I'm not out to become a powerbroker. It's not my place to influence the decisions of the ignorant masses. I'll look after myself, and let everybody else do the same.
@Daniel.032862 жыл бұрын
@@stonerslawth6258 exactly bruh and they’re blaming the frat lmao
@henny65662 жыл бұрын
@@Daniel.03286 We always want someone to blame instead of hoding people accountable for their actions. They said this was the worse hazing all time. Where was the worse part, they told him to finish a bottle of alcohol. Nobody beat him like some of the other hazing videos I see.
@jessicawilliams38492 жыл бұрын
Not everyone is raised to be a leader, sadly
@Jackhandless9 ай бұрын
Omg. Poor baby. Oh no this is absolutely tragic
@J.AlexanderTX2 жыл бұрын
Online classes looking real good now
@boutiquebitcoin8092 жыл бұрын
I'm taking online psychology
@avocado3-in-1822 жыл бұрын
Staying indoors as well 😍
@ABlueyFan2 жыл бұрын
That’s not funny in this type of situation
@charkswitlazers2 жыл бұрын
@@ABlueyFan don’t be sensitive. Maybe he’s serious? Maybe he’s joking? Mind your business
@Amlaeuxrai2 жыл бұрын
@@ABlueyFan mate everything is funny if you try hard enough. That "online classes" quip is actually extremely tame in terms of dark humour.
@cc15262 жыл бұрын
These stories should be required to be shown as part of orientation in college. We had to watch sooo many videos about SA and consent and other important things during our orientation, and I think recognizing hazing and the dangers of it should be right up there with them.
@biggibbs46782 жыл бұрын
Alcohol is dangerous? Who could have known. Next you'll be telling me car crashes happen.
@cc15262 жыл бұрын
@@somename5632 considering all of these incidents happen in college, I don’t think your comment is relevant. You can be incredibly intelligent and make one bad decision that can cost you your life. That’s so rude to insinuate that getting caught up in peer pressure at 18-19 years old means you’re not smart enough for college like wth lol
@cc15262 жыл бұрын
@@biggibbs4678 omg ya can you believe it?! Car crashes DO happen. It’s not a myth. It’s insane. And I guess, since car crashes happen and we all know that, we shouldn’t talk about the importance of wearing a seatbelt, because we *all* know we should. It’s stupid to continue sharing how life saving seatbelts can be because so many people know car accidents happen so sharing that type of information with teenagers to remind them about it and reinforce good habits and behavior is just a waste of time! Same goes for reminding people to not drink and drive. We all know it’s illegal and we shouldn’t do it, so talking about it and reminding people not to do it is dumb. Obviously people aren’t gonna drink and drive cause we all know better. Oh wait-
@gummy5862 Жыл бұрын
@@somename5632 It's fine to not really go to parties and not to have any friends, but don't insult people who do and wind up making bad decisions.
@peacewithyou63412 жыл бұрын
With "brothers" like that you don't need enemies
@PeanutsArt384 ай бұрын
I still can’t believe colleges allow alcohol 🤦♀️
@Skinned_fried_n_cut_up_potato2 жыл бұрын
This is why ahead of time I’ve told my family if I ever get to point like this, I want them to pull the plug my only hope is that they realised I was serious and didn’t think it was a joke because one of my worst fears is just to be alive there and not being able to interact with the world in anyway
@benijen2 жыл бұрын
That's a hard decision for the family because you will always never know if you did the right thing.
@Paige0982 жыл бұрын
@@benijen A person's basically dead when they're in that sort of position. And I think the same way. If something like that happened to me, I'd want the plug pulled too. Sure it's not the same for everyone. But in my opinion, there's just no point in staying around anymore. My family would either suffer mentally with my death, or I'd suffer physically being kept alive in a state like that.
@cagada2 жыл бұрын
Yup me too. If I’m ever a vegetable I told them to pull the plug. My family will suffer either way.
@matthewphillips18902 жыл бұрын
Hard topic to talk about
@diamondkivi47212 жыл бұрын
That's true. He's basically trapped in his own body now
@lalakuma92 жыл бұрын
Social acceptance just isn't worth becoming disabled or dying for
@abimaellopezmaylord27lopez72 жыл бұрын
Hazing is outdated
@GrayDogNowIDK2 жыл бұрын
Its indoctrination, they use psychological tactics to keep people in wether deliberately or not. These people cloud your judgment because they get you to trust them.
@မိုး-ဘ၃ဓ2 жыл бұрын
Facts
@empath98142 жыл бұрын
Honstly it's a struggle to say no especially as a young adult. There's days I feel lonely because I'm not doing things like most of the people in my 20s but then I hear stories like this and it reminds me why I don't do these things. Teach your kids about toxic and manipulative relationships even with friends sometimes it not always about fitting in people can brainwash you.
@alexhuerta49692 жыл бұрын
Respect brother
@b.a.26442 жыл бұрын
True & Great Comment!!!
@pins8492 жыл бұрын
Literally isn't. Im 16 and whenever someone offers me a drink or any substance I always decline it. Homie in the video just weak and look where that got him. Saying no isn't hard.
@eee_baek2 жыл бұрын
@@pins849 Its called conformity bias, he feels to go along with everyone else because he wants to fit in. He wanted to join the fraternity and seeing everyone else go along with the hazing, he wants to as well. Don’t blame him, yes he partially made that decision. But that doesn’t mean anyone was liable in this situation to have a drinking game as a hazing.
@thomasbeardslee7342 жыл бұрын
@@pins849 wish I wouldda had your wisdom perseverance and courage when I was 16/ smoking pot was worse mistake s my life..hadda scholarship to Stanford but ended up homeless destitute friendless and mentally. U hang in there young un u will never regret it. Very very proud of u. .u made my you tube night Thanks Thoma s p beardslee Cleveland Ohio
@rajordan7772 жыл бұрын
😢just so sad. My heart breaks for that family.
@dominicr90682 жыл бұрын
Disgusting! My heart and prayers go out to the family and friends of this young man.
@shinjiyoshida1412 жыл бұрын
N juz like all the thoughts n prayers to hong kong n ukraine, it does fkin nothin
@TobbeStorm2 жыл бұрын
@@thatoneguy4209 Same goes for half of the victims in traffic accidents? Because every crash is caused by someone responsible
@yahirs45082 жыл бұрын
@@shinjiyoshida141 How is that relevant to anything?
@shinjiyoshida1412 жыл бұрын
@@yahirs4508 let me know when thoughts n prayers actually does anything
@yahirs45082 жыл бұрын
@@shinjiyoshida141 How about you let me know when you contribute to something useful instead of being an internet troll
@misspoliticallyincorrect20812 жыл бұрын
As a mother of a 16 year old young man this hits home.
@newname30212 жыл бұрын
As a human being man this hits home
@rcg2242 жыл бұрын
@@newname3021 right
@SleepyUncleSam2 жыл бұрын
Hopefully you raised him right and he knows better than to put himself in a situation like that
@biffit90602 жыл бұрын
As home this hits a human being
@typhfanuwu75262 жыл бұрын
I thout it looked like techhsamrt he looks like a KZbin
@dangdoggydog2 жыл бұрын
Hazing is so outdated. Fraternity life never interested me, but fraternities/sororities need to see these videos to prevent unfortunate consequences like this.
@kennyhumble36992 жыл бұрын
No the law needs to make hazing illegal!
@ladydai29532 жыл бұрын
Watching videos like this will never end it..... Unfortunately. It can make people aware but students will only become more crafty at what is done.
@ladydai29532 жыл бұрын
@@kennyhumble3699 it is illegal. That's the problem.
@donnatelliunderwood25922 жыл бұрын
"Outdated" You aint never had fun before, He deserved it!
@Sausboildurr2 жыл бұрын
It's kind of sad that the family takes no responsibility for their sons actions. Like you have to have enough wits about yourself to walk away if that's what it takes to get into the fraternity bro, smh.
@officialstephencoe6 ай бұрын
Exactly
@jeccym87152 жыл бұрын
I was taught about peer pressure since I was little both home and school! Don't let the influence of others overcome you! Say NO if you don't want to engage yourself with whatever they're doing! Am sorry to the young man and his family! It's sad
@Moe-xw1so2 жыл бұрын
i'm 16 and in highschool and i honestly won't ever deal with any peer pressure. if i feel like i'm being pressured i'll leave immediately and i'm positive i'll never drink alcohol. that's where my religion comes into play lol😅
@lennywhere2 жыл бұрын
@@Moe-xw1so you dont understand the concept of "pressure" now do you
@zyourzgrandzmaz2 жыл бұрын
The people who provided the alcohol need to be criminally charged. This is practically negligent manslaughter.
@zpt70932 жыл бұрын
@Rye Bread 😂😂😂
@Jugeum2 жыл бұрын
The family said to finish the bottle of vodka. So I guess they share the blame too
@Ihateopp2 жыл бұрын
So... your mom?
@hus3902 жыл бұрын
@@Jugeum He's a grown-up man and made choices.
@sukamtotedja34252 жыл бұрын
I don’t know what frustrates me more: the fact that a college-aged boy can’t reject a stupid command to finish a whole bottle of vodka or the fact that this hazing culture is still going in this modern era.
@Coop12502 жыл бұрын
You never pledged a frat so you wouldn’t understand
@GojoTheHonoredOne92 жыл бұрын
@@Coop1250 Yeah pledging frats can be quite stupid
@plzleavemealone96602 жыл бұрын
Or the fact that his relatives blame everyone but him for his own actions . Seriously. No wonder he did this without a second thought. This is what happens when parents never hold their children accountable and always tell them how it's "not their fault ". I feel sorry for them but seriously. Calling the other boys disgusting when their son was the one that actually did it...
@Coop12502 жыл бұрын
@@GojoTheHonoredOne9 if you’re not comfortable with some of the stuff you have to do then why pledge?
@BojanKordic2 жыл бұрын
This again one of the US only things, i have never heard of any similar events in Europe. And i find the whole idea of fraternity or whatever where you have to prove yourself and fit in extremely idiotic.
@manilkasheran29347 ай бұрын
He was pressured but not forced, that's an important distinction, he made a consious decision to drink the whole bottle in a short span of time!
@patrickmanway290Ай бұрын
Exactly!
@rikimariespiritseether15952 жыл бұрын
I hope he's not conscious in there suffering for the rest of his life. Poor young man. I am so sorry this happened to you.
@dominic81712 жыл бұрын
Probably doesn't know what's going on hes in total shock
@rikimariespiritseether15952 жыл бұрын
@@dominic8171 Hope it stays that way. No suffering.
@patrickmanway290 Жыл бұрын
I hate to say it, but I don't know of anyone who would want to live the rest of their lives like that. To be stuck in your body till the day you die.
@patrickmanway290 Жыл бұрын
Oh YOU BET HE is. Honestly I wouldn't blame him if he tried to commit suicide.
@iiCounted-op5jx Жыл бұрын
@@dominic8171 brutal
@Daria-Morgendorffer2 жыл бұрын
I think I'd rather be dead than live without my movement, sight and speech but I wouldn't be able to tell anyone...this is really tragic, I hope he isn't suffering too much
@SouthernGospelMusic2 жыл бұрын
Same. I’d find some sketchy percs and go out in absolute style.
@katesmith88972 жыл бұрын
Same, I'd rather be dead than alive only existing for others
@carolinemansur71172 жыл бұрын
Yes...I wonder whether he is unaware of himself or his environment or is conscious yet unable to communicate because of severe paralysis. However...if he remains in a persistent vegetative state past twelve months, it is unlikely he will live out his full life span. Lifespans of adults and children in persistent vegetative states is typically reduced to 2-5 years; survival past 10 years is unusual (N Engl J Med May 26 1994). So there is some mercy.
@Keznen2 жыл бұрын
Yeah this is a fate far worse than death.
@rogerkim19102 жыл бұрын
This is sad and it can happen to any young kid that is trying to fit in. Asking someone finish an entire bottle of vodka is just ridiculous. Whoever created that pledge should go to jail for stupidity.
@Drop_The_Mic2 жыл бұрын
i mean... You know what, yes what they did to him was horrible but I also have an unpopular opinion that the parents also have a hand in this. Raise your kids to be able to think for their benefit and say no to stupid stuff. if it was me, there is no way in hell I would have done any of this. Parents nowadays have little to no diciplin when it comes to teaching their kids what is okay and what is not. like did this kid really not know that it is a BAD idea to drink that much? And that when he didn't feel good why didn't he say anything? where was his phone? why not call anybody? so many things went wrong. I am not blaming the kid because he didn't know any better but shame on these parents. and shame on the kids who took advantage of him.
@Town_Country962 жыл бұрын
Just cause they asked him didn’t mean he had to do it. Nobody forced a bottle down his throat dammit
@algumacoisa0_0742 жыл бұрын
@@Town_Country96 theyre still criminals for both underage drinking and giving vodka to other minors. please stop shifting the blame to the victim.
@matthewphillips18902 жыл бұрын
@@Town_Country96 Peer pressure is very much a factor in this situation.
@RX-hb3np2 жыл бұрын
Jail his parents for letting him attend the hazing too then. You wanna ruin the lives of other boys because this one made bad decisions? It's sad but don't blame the other students.. that's stupidity, should we jail you too?
@Kaboomboo5 ай бұрын
Imagine sending your child to college so they can get an education, life experiences, and Jumpstart their future and they come back like this. What awful things they do. Knowing they'll be like this the rest of their life. My heart breaks for them.
@richarddunne98022 жыл бұрын
We don't have fraternities in Ireland but most of us go through a phase of heavy drinking from 16/17-22 where it's completely normal to drink until you vomit and get into all sorts of insane situations. It's all fun and games but looking back on it I'm surprised we all survived.
@shanty0192 жыл бұрын
😲😲🙀😧😯😯
@richarddunne98022 жыл бұрын
@Mr. Fin Gerherr Khunt 😂
@BiG-JuPO1O12 жыл бұрын
For me I never had the desire to do any of that stuff like drinking and doing drugs. I already deal with health problems and don't want anything to do with that stuff.
@konstantinosstamatopoulos26732 жыл бұрын
I recently had visited some friends in Ireland in my age (23) and I understand exactly what you mean. I still wanna throw up just from the scent of vodka
@aminm77142 жыл бұрын
All it takes is one friend that doesnt drink and takes care of the others and everything is gonna be allright
@RP-sb8qf2 жыл бұрын
This is sick. They do it out of spite because they were hazed as freshman and unfortunately it’s just going to happen again. They’re shallow men that think they’re building a brotherhood when really they’re just training their new guys to haze the next rush class. I wasn’t hazed as a pledge for my fraternity and it’s gonna stay that way AS IT SHOULD! This is horrible stuff like this enrages me.
@informationoverload24872 жыл бұрын
I’m pretty sure that’s not why they do it. They do it cus they can.
@Ninja-fd9ws2 жыл бұрын
@@informationoverload2487 just cuz u can do something doesn't mean u should.
@informationoverload24872 жыл бұрын
@@Ninja-fd9ws which is why they should make it where they can’t
@gilian25872 жыл бұрын
If you don't want to be involved in stupid; don't join a fraternity, or a sorority for that matter. Fear of missing out is a very dangerous thing for the non-self-aware. Go to a library and read some Plato -- you'll be better equipped for the future than anything that fraternity or sorority hazing can yield. Don't join a fraternity/sorority/cult and you won't need to worry about this garbage. Never take an action which jeopardizes your survival.
@thatssovenus2 жыл бұрын
@@informationoverload2487 you'd be surprised. It really can be a vicious cycle of "it's my turn now that I'm an upperclassmen" might not be spite but sometimes they do feel a sense of like they deserve to be the hazer now they're an upperclassmen because they got hazed as a freshman.
@ladyterrestrial16792 жыл бұрын
I can’t watch the rest this is making me sick. That poor kid. His life is ruined and I can’t imagine his mothers pain. When my boys get home from school today I’m going to show them this video. As hard as it is to watch I want them to learn from this. 😢
@coldplayfan73572 жыл бұрын
Seriously,who would have thought such a supposedly small incident which almost everyone in the fraternity takes part in would turn out to be a big life changer for one poor kid. His life went from dreams and aspirations to just surviving. So horrible and sad! May he recovers as soon as possible and get the chance to follow his aspirations again. Life can drastically change in a matter of hours
@ziggystardust30602 жыл бұрын
@@coldplayfan7357 sadly he won't recover due to oxygen deprivation causing his brain damage. 😢
@coldplayfan73572 жыл бұрын
@@ziggystardust3060 so there's nothing can be done to make him able to walk,talk or see even a little bit? I thought medicine has come a long way now?
@ziggystardust30602 жыл бұрын
@@coldplayfan7357 No, unfortunately. It's permanent brain damage. It's so very sad. I only hope he can somehow understand that he's surrounded by his loving family. (I work in a county hospital so I've seen these kind of injuries.) 😞
@xty0702 жыл бұрын
@@coldplayfan7357 nothing can be done. His brain was damaged irreversible. How far medicine has come is why they were even able to resuscitate him in the first place.
@JusZard Жыл бұрын
So sad may God bless this man and his family
@mylovesofjoy2 жыл бұрын
I’m an ICU RN and I’ve seen this a handful of times where young teenagers or adults overdrink alcohol or overdose on drugs at a party and they end up coming to us. They sadly end up either in a vegetative state or in a coma . Be responsible!!!!!! Life is too short!!!
@katiebellenger80702 жыл бұрын
Heartbreaking my heart goes out to Danny and his family
@hungovertv87072 жыл бұрын
My heart goes out to you sister
@Sew-Ronica2 жыл бұрын
To the Family, I'm sorry that happened to your loved one. I pray for God to give you strength for the new season in your life.
@AcesPlace222 жыл бұрын
The family is the one that supported the drinking... keep your sympathy for those who actually need it
@sakurafalls24682 жыл бұрын
@@AcesPlace22 What makes you think they supported drinking? I can't think of any kind of parents who would watch their own child drinking their life away.
@666mephistophelesgaming2 жыл бұрын
God is not gonna do anything
@zakosist2 жыл бұрын
I actually hope they let him die. Not to punish him, but because he cant possibly have a fulfilling life after that, his life is ruined permanently. And I can understand that may be sad and difficult for them to do, but then would you rather be the one who is crippled for life in multiple ways? Or the one who has to mourn one of your loved ones but you're at least still functioning and have a chance of finding real fulfillment and accomplish something you want? I would rather be the latter, by far. The most ethical thing (although maybe not legal) would be to put him down like you do with a sick pet that cannot recover
@carolinamurtha3102 Жыл бұрын
When I was in high school and in band, we did some initiations but we kept it fun. I can’t imagine ever taking it to this point. One of the things we did was, because we did an overnight camp, was wake the freshman up early, give them a bunch of ugly clothes and had them do a fashion show during breakfast. It. Was. HILARIOUS. They all took it up a notch and the guys put drag makeup on, the girls brought their inner kings out, they had such a blast. The rest of the day, they were sleep deprived but that’s it. This degree to basically end someone’s life can never be ok or accepted.
@codimarie0902 жыл бұрын
This is so incredibly sad. Danny had a bright future ahead of him and now to be a shell of who he once was is heartbreaking. The boys who caused this 1 million percent need to be held responsible! The campus should be monitoring that these types of things DONT happen! Everyone knows frats and sororities have hazing or a period of time where there could be hazing! That period of time someone should be responsible in making sure things like this don’t happen! NO 18 year old should ever drink a full bottle of vodka! That’s asking for a disaster!! If a system was set in place to avoid this Danny wouldn’t be in the situation he is! If the boys had half a brain they would’ve realized that, that much vodka is incredibly dangerous to drink! Then you don’t call 911 instead try and carry him AND DROP him !!! Why didn’t two ppl hold him??? IM SO SORRY DANNY THIS HAPPENED TO YOU! I HOPE YOU CAN RECOVER OR GET THE JUSTICE YOU DESERVE!
@SpencerFcp2 жыл бұрын
"Finish this whole bottle before the end of the night" Me: "Got it" *dumps 80% of bottle into sink while no one is watching*
@abcdefgh-fb5ny2 жыл бұрын
reminds me of the time i got peer pressured into drinking and when the others were too busy (and drunk) cheering after my first shot, i spit all of it on the floor
@chelseagomez7582 жыл бұрын
Literally sitting here wondering why he didn’t do that….
@romanianfps2 жыл бұрын
@@chelseagomez758 He probably didn't think about that but realistically he could have just dumped out 80% of the bottle and filled it with water, let everyone watch him chugg the 80% volume of liquid, and the other 20% would still taste very "alcohol" like if anyone else were to test the bottle.
@mrcrhartman2 жыл бұрын
Glad I never was inclined to "belong" to a group so badly. I love how the fraternity that crippled him for life got to self-proclaim that this "chapter was over", but they can all walk and talk.
@mattk88102 жыл бұрын
He would still be in the frat if it was someone else and not him. Its a consequence of a stupid decision. He made that decision.
@editsbybee73372 жыл бұрын
He was forced to drink a whole bottle did you not see the footage? The take away should be don’t force people to do anything. Don’t haze, take care of one another .
@ajax37482 жыл бұрын
@@editsbybee7337 or just don't join a frat
@ScoscobabyOGO2 жыл бұрын
@@mattk8810 he wasn’t even in it yet. This is the stupid stuff the make you do before being selected
@rustytoyota2 жыл бұрын
" Belong " aka You never got laid
@emeraldc.87962 жыл бұрын
Honestly no alcohol should ever be allowed in college fraternities, because obviously there’s no responsibility. Peer pressure is too high & no one seems to care. Extremely heart wrenching to see what this young man went through. God bless him❤️🙏
@vilxxblack24722 жыл бұрын
LOL ur funny
@galvatron08102 жыл бұрын
I'm pretty sure most colleges don't allow alcohol on campus but that doesn't stop the frats off campus. Even if they made a rule against having alcohol in the frats, kids will be kids and still sneak it.
@mjjae81222 жыл бұрын
Yeah fun fact: in this particular case the person who was supposed to supervise and make sure that nothing like this was going on helped to supply the alcohol. So, the system is absolutely broken.
@z.22 жыл бұрын
hah nice joke
@thwalesproductions2 жыл бұрын
No alcohol on campus? If this was the UK such a thing would cause mass rage lmao
@515ventures32 жыл бұрын
If your child ends up in a frat house for a "College Experience" then you have absolutely failed them as parents!!!!
@Cakez2532 жыл бұрын
I can't imagine the pain his parents felt.. so proud to send your son off to college just to have something like this steal his future away.. just devastating 💔
@Homedepotorange2 жыл бұрын
He threw it away himself
@raidaridi53752 жыл бұрын
@@Homedepotorange peer pressure
@itslebowsk97702 жыл бұрын
@@raidaridi5375 both sides take the blame
@jonaszahn90895 ай бұрын
Those guys should be hold responsible for that disgusting act
@unijaggerflax29752 жыл бұрын
I went to a big state school in 2008 as a freshman and they were so serious about hazing and alcohol abuse you couldn't even joke about it without facing consequences. Kind of surprising all these years later I'm still hearing incredible stories of outright abuse. Very sad this kids life has been ruined
@Urm0mz2 жыл бұрын
Exactly....this is a resurgence because I was in college in 07 and frats were plummeting in popularity. They must have embarrassed social media toxicity and aesthetic partying to get so many young kids
@gummy5862 Жыл бұрын
That's interesting, I didn't know Greek life took a hit in the late 2000s. Maybe it had to do with the financial crisis of the time?
@xKeville Жыл бұрын
@@gummy5862 No it probably had to do with the Internet and not being able to sweep stuff under the rug like they could in the 20th century
@gummy5862 Жыл бұрын
@@xKeville It’s crazy how culty it can get. I was in a Greek organization that wasn’t even really that “serious,” but it was still unsettling.
@xKeville Жыл бұрын
@@gummy5862 I personally never joined a frat, but I certainly get the appeal. But to your point yea it can be super culty, especially southern schools.
@gabeeecrowell68662 жыл бұрын
My son's going off to this campus this fall. Thank you to the parents for sharing their tragic story with the public. So that many parents like myself can have a serious conversation with our kids. Praying for this family. 🙏❤
@iwillwh00pyoa522 жыл бұрын
BOO HOO FEMINIST! YOU'RE THE KIND OF PARENT WHO WILL CONTROLL THEIR KIDS EVEN WHEN THEY'RE ALREADY OLD!
@rakshanaaaa2 жыл бұрын
@@iwillwh00pyoa52 this is not feminism, this is showing concern for their own kid(s). I'd be a little worried if my child was also going to a university or college that's been spread on the media for its alcohol misuse
@skyOH72 жыл бұрын
@@iwillwh00pyoa52well she is paying for the tuition so it's okay to pull out her kid from a university with a fraternity that they all to walk around on campus as if they almost didn't kill someone.
@cloudshifter2 жыл бұрын
Try to show your kids what it will be like there based on your experience.
@alexcat64802 жыл бұрын
Why don't you as a parent want a serious talk with the college instead, and demand they put a stop to this hazing and torture they have for your son?
@jaceadeva12112 жыл бұрын
I feel really bad for the guy. However, I’m not suprised these actions were caused by trying to get into a frat. Getting into a frat is risky in its own ways with school, your life in this instance, and many other factors. People say it is peer pressure in which at some cases it is, but others reasons why we’re just policy in order to get into the frat. Sad to see. Prayers up to the man
@mr.khorsani87402 жыл бұрын
Why feel bad? He chose to go thru this.
@josebryceleon81312 жыл бұрын
@@mr.khorsani8740 you can’t blame the kid maybe he was weak minded and thought he NEEDED to be in that to feel “cool” or “wanted” a lot of people function like that nowadays
@mr.khorsani87402 жыл бұрын
@@josebryceleon8131 yea that's his fault. He's over 18 years old. In america 18 year olds enlist in the army
@josebryceleon81312 жыл бұрын
@@mr.khorsani8740 no I didn’t
@mr.khorsani87402 жыл бұрын
@@itsame9780 your brainwashed
@joaofelish Жыл бұрын
The irony is they „saved“ his life to let him live in this condition, which is worse than dying tbh
@chiefbrownfart2 жыл бұрын
NEVER let anyone peer pressure you into doing ANYTHING, your life is significantly more valuable than looking "cool" or fitting in.
@SWIFTO_SCYTHE2 жыл бұрын
:/ but if you dont finish the pledge you wont have lifelong frat brother friends.
@Lupasan2 жыл бұрын
Well said
@peterni22342 жыл бұрын
@@SWIFTO_SCYTHE 0/10 unconvincing argument
@toastarkat2 жыл бұрын
@@SWIFTO_SCYTHE I'd rather be *alive,* wouldn't you?
@ninx_music2 жыл бұрын
@@SWIFTO_SCYTHE id take alive over frat brother friends, ngl all your homies wouldnt do you like that
@gthoj88672 жыл бұрын
This is too terrible for a young man who has so much going for him. My prayers to the family!
@youtubevideos39632 жыл бұрын
maybe next time dont go to frat house... danny made a costly mistaked trying to fit in.. stay in your dorm kids.. otherwise something bad can happen then theyll just shift blame