Shuler King - Because He’s Too Nice

[@bimmerdriver5317]

Why do people feel the need to put all their business out there for the world to judge them😂

[@enyin2001]

🎯💯

[@joberry877]

Some ppl don't have anyone, no family, no close friends, etc. He had to vent 🤷🏿‍♀️

[@epiikkhaosgaming]

People want to be seen now more than ever.

[@hallamdyal5730]

That was a blessing in disguise straight

[@MSGgoing]

That's what they do today with this technology everybody gets to voice their opinion

[@RobertSmith-ru1ck]

That was a blessing in disguise, because it's better she leaves before the first date than she leave 5 years down the line.😂😂😂😂

[@melodyringstone3029]

Shows her character not to tell him

[@cj8803]

I agree. She already proved she ain't ish.

[@user-wx2jh6ss9j]

​@@cj8803Like Tupac and Nate would say about someone like her is she so scandalous.

[@macmac9371]

Someone said women like Russell Wilson on the internet not in real life.

[@ramekalawson7956]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 your comments are always on point 👍🏽

[@renee7113]

Thank you for breaking down the difference between nice and good. You don’t have to be nice to everyone. You have to have a spine. Be a good and authentic person! Love this one!!! 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

[@goflolo]

Preach Shuler 👏👏👏 there's a BIG difference between a nice person and a good person

[@sylvianewell9486]

I felt bad for the guy, but your right Shuler he does need to toughen up. Rejection is a part of life, everyone isn't for everybody. He should look at this as a blessing in disguise, she definitely wasn't the one. I just believe it's best to work on yourself and that right one will come along, I'm talking to myself on this one.

[@Macsrus5]

I feel bad for him too☹️ he probably is a nice guy. His voice though🤦🏽‍♀️

[@manuginobilisbaldspot424]

No he doesn't. Women need to be better in how they choose a potential partner. Rewarding shitty behavior as the cost of playing in the dating game is how so many of y'all end up with the same sorry niggas and saying 'ain't no good men!'. If this same logic was applied to women who get abused or cheated on...a man saying it would be called everything but a child of God. But women can be awful in their choices, in their actions (she stood that man up...like, you're an adult...you can tell him you're not interested) and somehow, it's still the man's fault. Yet we're supposed to believe everyone's equal. I've NEVER had anyone take me seriously if I try to blame someone else for my actions. Yet, women are allowed to blame men for the choices they make on a daily basis. Make that shit make sense!

[@user-wx2jh6ss9j]

A message to the young fella, Suck it up buttercup.

[@eunoia3926]

​@@manuginobilisbaldspot424pure facts, men always get bashed, if I'm not interested in a man, I tell him politely " I'm sorry, but I don't feel the same way", neither do I take gifts from them and then act surprised when they feel that we're in something because of that. Proper women don't do that.

[@jbw503619]

Rejection is a part of life. I learned this from Mr. Wilson in Dennis The Menace as a child. He said, “Rejection is a part of life and he needs to get used to it. For one he’s a foot short for his age and he’s cross eyed”. I’m not making this up what a great film.

[@pingpittman3106]

Mannn that was the most smooth playa line ever 😂😂 I would have had a little dinner 🍲

[@tyeprettygirl5591]

😂 totally

[@Tfolife528]

Tell ‘em, it’s a big difference between a good man and a nice guy! ❤❤

[@natiliebooker6527]

Well Rev. You preached that sermon so well, that I’m ready to pass the collection plate. Amen🙏🏿

[@MusicManSeanB]

Her not showing up, clears the path for the next great woman to come in your life. But also, rejection is a part of life. Move on so you don't block your own blessing(s).

[@Bigdic420]

He got no game 😅😅😅😆

[@eunoia3926]

Amen !!!

[@geekelly000]

He's done the right thing. The process is to filter out what's not right for him. It was just one occasion. There's someone who won't stand him up and he'll be glad he was stood up previously.

[@Mike-ii1vz]

What he did speak very loud about his character and why he got stood up on that date. No one did the right thing here.

[@tstewart8698]

🎯

[@clove1471]

THIS BROTHER IS DEFINITELY 💯 ABSOLUTELY 💯 SPIT BALLING REAL TALK FACTS

[@yeahrightuhhhuh4931]

Stay nice young man . . . nothing wrong with being kind. You just need to know when to hold em and when to fold em . . . next time give them only 15 min., not a 30 min. before you bounce . . . and never get emotional just shake it off and say, Next!!

[@clutch236]

Yeah, just shake it off like ducks do to water. But never "walk" like duck - or quack either, because then people will start to think that you ARE a duck. Then they'll want to cook you.......and that's when the fear sets in.

[@PullOverItsDaPopo]

Shuler really gets it, being nice is a ploy to get what you want out of someone, being a good person is a character trait that's embedded in you. Women know that but can't explain it.

[@AEvans36963]

I get what Shuler is saying but it's not all black and white.Not all nice men come off overly sensitive and good men can be nice. This man pouring his heart out is probably a good man but by airing his feelings so publicly he has opened himself up to being used and taken advantage of by some female who would not appreciate him. It's alright to have feelings sir. Just don't cry on social media. The vultures will eat you alive.

[@Bigdic420]

Yall the only one crying on social media about hoes

[@dmblake4]

Amen!

[@manuginobilisbaldspot424]

Which is to say, it's the WOMEN that are fucked up. There's nothing inherently wrong with being honest and open...women claim to want that. Anytime someone has to basically be deceptive about who they truly are, and their character/ethics/actions aren't illegal or harmful, the problem doesn't lie with them. That says everything about women who for whatever reason, are drawn to shitty men. Don't blame this man...I'm tired of this logic being upheld by everyone. It's gaslighting this notion that if you're not a thug or criminal or dangerous or whatever else seems to attract these kinds of women, you have no value. I didn't raise my son to be ignorant in the world like that...and I'm not gonna make it be some problem HE HAS because our community seems to think you have to inhibit who you are to be seen as attractive. Eff that.

[@Bigdic420]

@@manuginobilisbaldspot424 you gay

[@GoldenLady1007]

​@manuginobilisbaldspot424 Somebody dogged you around something fierce, didn't they? All women aren't bad. If that's what you keep attracting, that's a mirror issue. 💛

[@SagittariusQueen1980]

Whoever stood him up should be a blessing to him. God has a way to remove people who are aren't deserving to be in your life out your life and bring in people who are deserving.

[@rondaallen7211]

yea right. he's just another 30 year old virgin who wasn't around enough men growing up.

[@oldmanjesus9855]

Maybe he got stood up because the other person realised her blessing before making a mistake. And judging by him crying about it on social media, she dodged an emotional bullet for sure...

[@tristinhall1275]

I gotta be honest, all that nonsense about how that was a blessing and God has somebody in the store for him is a bunch of bullshit. Nobody wants to hear that being stood up was a blessing when you’re on the verge of tears because nobody likes you for who you are

[@JesusLovesEVERYTHING]

​@@tristinhall1275 it's true.. it's better to be stood up than to force a life long relationship. Rejection is for your protection

[@msthang5366]

Schuler said it ! We prefer “Good men” not a nice guy!!

[@sabrinagaddy1272]

I promise I didnt want to laugh at this. I feel for the brother, but doggone Shuler King had me rolling throughout the video😩🤦😂😂😂

[@rkallday2841]

Schuler ain’t lying boy

[@heal_to_evolve]

@@rkallday2841 I agree. I did not want to laugh, either.

[@GigisLocGarden]

That heffa done stood me up 😂😂

[@theprofessor3961]

Shuler you dancing around this subject very delicately 😂

[@Bigdic420]

Yall simps crying about hoes . They the only ones crying about a hoe not liking them 😅😅😅😅

[@DonnaB1]

He sure is being a gentleman about it😂

[@THEITALIANBLACKGODDESS]

@theprofessor3961 🤣 Lol😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 yours😎is the best 👍🏼comment ever!!!!😂😂

[@angelastallworth4347]

What Shuler want to say... grab your ba..s and man up. That's nice.

[@LeaveItG]

Shuler was spitting facts💯

[@bimmerdriver5317]

He don't realize he just dodged a bullet😂

[@clutch236]

He might be a Ninja.

[@blackbutterfly8338]

Absolutely. He dodged a train wreck.

[@deed8915]

THAT part!

[@lilithdemonia74]

So did she.

[@victoriousmuscle8632]

In my best Kurt Carr voice: 🎶God blocked it. He wouldn't let it be so.🎶

[@joemomma3208]

This gives a new meaning to “nice guy’s finish last”💯

[@DHankins19]

Corney is Corney Joe.

[@jlang3]

@@DHankins19 your spelling is “corney” & incorrect.

[@keepmoving2023-ku7nb]

Exactly 💯

[@Kinmy0921]

Smh it's funny how men expect for women to not consider their looks and flash material possessions in front of her then get upset if she doesn't treat him well or uses him for his money. Men will NOT date, let alone talk to a woman if he finds her unattractive. Dude lives in LA of all places and a lot of the women there are gorgeous and materialistic 😂. I notice that most of these "nice guys" aren't the best looking...

[@joemomma3208]

@@Kinmy0921cash & flash means nothing. Whoever does that gets what they deserve. Looks are important but intelligence and depth of conversation are the main keys of interest. Generalizations are pointless and irrelevant cause they are false as the day is long.

[@kellygirlaj]

I dated a nice guy once. My mom liked him a lot, a whole lot. She thought I should marry him, and I was like, "No Mom, he's not The One. He's too nice all the time, he's not assertive at all." That's why I married The One when God took me to him.

[@theghettoracle]

He's been sheltered I feel, cause anybody who says they wanna "fall in love" ain't never been in love before, the hell you wanna do that for?.. For what it's worth I hope homeboy takes his time to worry about himself and love himself first and allow things to come to him naturally. Sometimes people are searching for love when its not even the right time for them to be in love you dig?

[@judyledbetter3915]

Hopefully Just Move. & Find True Love. God Bless 💗🙏

[@meyokon4101]

Hell, a guy cancelled our dinner date 2 hours prior (via text) & IT WAS MY BIRTHDAY!!!!!! This was just recently to! (7/21) I kept my cool & said ok! So I took MYSELF OUT TO DINNER instead!🎉🎂🍽🍸

[@scottdaniels2500]

That sucks!!! Sorry that happened to you. Happy Birthday 🎂 🎉

[@meyokon4101]

@scottdaniels2500 Hey thanks, I appreciate that! But no need for you to apologize for another grown man's mistreatment of someone else. In some cases, we have to wash our hands of a situation, be done & walk away. Anyways, sweetheart, thanks again!

[@pip6602]

🎉HAPPY(BELATED) BIRTHDAY!!!!

[@meyokon4101]

@@pip6602 Thank you😌

[@deedotson3687]

🎊Happy Belated Birthday!🎉

[@cj8803]

He'll be okay. People get stood up, it HAPPENS. You're right, he does need to toughen up and learn how to handle rejection. There really is a difference between a nice man and a good man.

[@DialloMoore503]

What’s the difference?

[@manuginobilisbaldspot424]

@@DialloMoore503they don’t seem to know until having children out of wedlock or getting completely emotional and physically run through by ‘bad boys’. So many people actively are full of shit online.

[@mindgrindhustlellc9531]

@@smbgirlygirl3437 I liked the way you said that.

[@rickyrunks510]

It isn't toughen up to handle rejection, it's toughen up to put a woman in her place

[@donnah5378]

My ex was upset because I did not go downstairs with him to confront what we thought was an intruder. I thought I was to stay behind to either call 911 or jump out the window to get help. I blame his mama for sheltering him too much and not letting him learn how to be tough and sensible. It took me a while to figure why I was wife #3. SMH 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@crystalmallet1163]

Mr. King I absolutely agree with you 💯 percent.

[@tstewart8698]

"The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord: and he delighth in his ways." Psalm 37:23

[@joemomma3208]

I was once called a “Good Guy” & she called me “Chucky” she found out though I may be “good” but I DO NOT accept “Child’s Play” and I let her go and moved on! 💯

[@darrionreed1240]

Been there done that too bro lolol

[@joemomma3208]

@@darrionreed1240ESTL fa life! 💯👊🏽

[@darrionreed1240]

@@joemomma3208 yes sir 💯 bro

[@spartty]

You couldn’t have explained that any better!!!

[@ilikesquirrels9039]

Facts Mr King…FACTS!!! 😊these youngsters don’t understand…some old heads too. Bless you sir.

[@angelheaven2826]

It happens get over it.

[@calvthomas6153]

Exactly! - Nice is just surface, but a good person is viewed as good, from the inside out.

[@miss30427]

🙋🏽‍♀️You win an award for this one!🏆 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🤜🏿🤛🏾

[@JustoWon]

Teach hard ministah!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯

[@tiffianyandrews9902]

😂😂😂I Hear You Shuler!!!👏👏👏💚

[@gotiman3625]

REAL SHIT !!!!!!!

[@cynthiaward4512]

Is she the last woman on earth?? No.. Next...❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@juansalazar3530]

💯💯💯

[@lmy969]

That's right Shuler King, preach it!

[@carmenwright7369]

Preach 💯👏🏾👏🏾🎊

[@gummieworms3909]

I like that Shuler 🙌👏👏👏

[@lulamcrae2851]

He don't realize it yet, but she's not the one for him. 💕💟💕

[@ohgiftedone6473]

She saved her own life because it looks like he was gonna stalk her for the rest of her life😂 He looks a little "throwed off" and like he will sit in the parking lot your whole shift at work. Maybe she felt somthing and decided not to show. Kudos to her. She didnt end up chopped up in a freezer in Ziploc bags‼️

[@kristinab9680]

🤨"She didnt end up chopped up in a freezer in Ziploc‼" ...Truth be told, you could be on to something. The vibes I picked up from looking at him were a tad "Norman Batesish"!

[@ohgiftedone6473]

@@kristinab9680 🎯🎯🎯

[@Kirwina]

Preach

[@lataciajackson6574]

FACTS❤❤❤

[@gloriaray3084]

❤ the way you explain that king

[@MeachumVillage]

Thank you for spelling out the difference. Good women want good men who exude authority and a capacity to protect. I hope more good men and good women find each other.

[@angellg25]

You get it Mr. King!!!! Thank you

[@Valerie-7777]

Shuler need to be teaching classes, mentoring AND coaching! Thank you, sir, for bringing common sense and revelation 💯👏🏾

[@twylasteamer4009]

I AGREE

[@johnathanbarnes6902]

Say it again shuler!

[@bbmoss5781]

If she wasn't feeling him, she should have said so. Now, if he didn't take the hint, that's on him. If an emergency came up on her end and she couldn't notify him, it wasn't meant to be that night. But him posting this online seemed to be a ploy for a sympathy date.

[@ivass42]

❤❤❤💯

[@charlesguy]

Thanks 🙏 for this it really hit home I have ALWAYS been that nice guy, much heart ❤️ felt completely correct info after the laughter and truth. I really hope he finds love ❤️ at the end of the day!!! 😢😢😢

[@claudinegaffney6665]

Period Shuler.

[@QueenConsciousShay2445]

Facts Shuler💯💯💯💯!!!

[@xavierdorsey2160]

Been there done that of being a nice guy I was only like that cause I didn't know any better in my younger years. If I find someone,I find someone if not cool I'm not sweating about it.

[@CWS1985]

Good men don't complain, nice guys do.

[@tanese97]

2 weeks of talking to a woman on the phone and you go on Social media, almost about to cry? She shouldn’t have stood him up though. She should have declined the date. It is definitely something else going on with this guy. Very needy and desperate, for someone he barely knows. Take your time to find people out.

[@tamjeanell]

He elementary in so many ways...

[@ebonyknight5]

Preach Brother Shuler!!!

[@MC-blessed]

Bless his ❤ God will keep us from a lot of people and things we don't need 🙌🏽 thank God and keep moving ❤️

[@ishmaelwilson6702]

Tell that TRUTH Brother Shuler!!!!! There's a difference between GOOD MEN AND nice guys

[@deewilson888]

Truth 100%

[@shealeejaii]

He just needs to date in his league! I'm sure some comic con nerd girl liked him in the past but he want a baddie.

[@dragonray9450]

100% factual from one good brother to another.

[@yahwehmighty5275]

Dammmm shuler😂😂😂😂😂😂😂...you made my day king. You spitting facts. There is a difference.

[@e.williams13]

He said with the "soprano"😂😂😂😂

[@veebee8990]

Aaaahh.... I feel for him. I get it. & Shuler I agree about the toughen up, but I love nice guys & I do respect them. I went to Insta to post a nice response for him. Thanks for bringing it to our attention Shuler😊

[@chyneedaharris7682]

Amen Shuler King 🙏🏾

[@RUDE-boyHall]

😂😂😂😂😢😢😢 I've been off that nice guy s*** for I don't know how long they can't play with me not anymore

[@deborahcarr6536]

Lol Shuler's game tight...I came prepared to pay, I'll pay for your dinner

[@phillipayoung10]

This was on gospel radio the other night. One lady said, God protected him and I believe that. His blessing is coming and he'll be jumping for joy once that Proverbs 31 woman come in his life. ☺☺

[@Jesussaves.7777]

So many times we often say it was GOD protected that particular individual when in fact this was all on social media and as someone who should have been more discreet on this matter and been more sensitive to that young lady's situation. he should have gave it to The Lord and left it alone and moved on . another thing is that we must understand maybe also the young lady was being protected as well we are living in times where narcissism is growing rampant amongst us. If he wants to meet his " person" or " soulmate" he must realize who loves him unconditionally now in all his flaws and who will accept him and know who he is comfortably in Christ and just rest in The Heavenly Father's Love and continue in servicing HIM and not be stressed what man is not doing for himself.

[@swannyriver75]

Its plenty of fish in the sea she wasn't meant for you.. he do look a little tender hearted 😊

[@melissajavier4167]

I have never thought about nice guy versus good guy. What you said, makes a lot of sense! My man is absolutely a good man. Push him the wrong way he will handle business, like a good guy can!

[@sandraking7031]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 mr. Schuler you are correct I do want a man that can protect me so yeah this video was funny but very true 👍🏿👍🏿😊

[@rickeyboston9340]

I saw this video. He was crying and everything. He need to man up. She stood him up because he was putting her on a pedestal. You gotta show women you got options.

[@smcdade4577]

Bless his heart!😢

[@kayjeffs3741]

That won't matter to a woman if she's not attracted to you.

[@smcdade4577]

This outpouring of emotion on social media is a firm "No". But, she was rachet to stand him up. She should have been honest & not waste his time.

[@psho1562]

TY ShuerKing! Teach your young men/women that "crap" happens! Show yo' "FEATHERS", if they don't like it. "Keep it mov'n!" don't settle, the life journey is too long to not be satisfied! 😂

[@LaRennEstherTV1985]

Come on Shuler Ling with the lines!! Lol this was great advice for women and men!

[@deewoo2776]

Rejection is always God's protection.

[@judyledbetter3915]

💯👍 Beautiful Comment. God Bless 💗🙏

[@miss30427]

Cousin, your explanation and opinion is 💯💯. Yessss!!!

[@ioniajones2069]

Listen to him young ma😊n!!! He knows what he's talking about!!!

[@SistahSHEMusic]

Your absolutely right.

[@finessefine]

1:46 Shuler gotz GAME!!❤

[@eunoia3926]

Preach shu'🗣️🗣️🗣️😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@db6881]

PREACH!!!!!!!

[@dorashelton1615]

I am a Woman that is Attracted to A MAN THAT CAN STAND HIS GROUND. I'M with you Shuler on this. 😮😮 Yes shuler a woman can sense he Can't protect her. He is subject to run off and leave her to deal with it.. 😮😮😅😅😅

[@JamiyaDuncanson-x7h]

TOO DAMN NICE🤣🤣🤣

[@reynadojohnson151]

Yeah some people put to much of their business on social media. But I agree with everything Shuler said.

[@audreymorgan]

Well said

[@karenbrown-stovell9503]

Yoooooo ❤❤❤❤❤ you bruh! Let's get you to 1MILLION!!!!

[@valarieprimous3010]

Amen!!!

[@Jovanlit]

Preach brother Shuler

[@jenniferford2481]

Good Man!

[@nik-at-nite]

Rejection either happens when you’re not in a relationship yet or during the relationship. I prefer it happening before.

[@annmcquaid139]

🪻🪻⚘️⚘️ to your comedy relief

[@catastrophic8380]

He would be the one who would stalk her if she tried leaving. Good job on her part

[@Livingmyybestlife]

Yep and the next woman is gonna catch it because bruh has no experience of shaking it off, learning, and moving on.

[@manuginobilisbaldspot424]

Major projection…na’ah, maybe the woman is just a bitch without the decency to say she wasn’t interested? See, I can make wild generalizations too.

[@edithhardy5759]

Teach ❤