coming out to my bestfriend, does it get better?

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Jesse Duke

Jesse Duke

11 жыл бұрын

My twitter- @JesseDuke8
Thought id make this, let me know what ya think.

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@Randolphsw
@Randolphsw 10 жыл бұрын
Straight guy here.. There isn't anything wrong with you bro. Remember, there will always be douche bags in the world. Your not one of them... Well unless you do something that actually makes you one, and sexual orientation doesn't qualify.
@kwodell8694
@kwodell8694 10 жыл бұрын
I hope you share that with all the str8s around you. We need allies like you, Randolph.
@Randolphsw
@Randolphsw 10 жыл бұрын
I do my part
@kwodell8694
@kwodell8694 10 жыл бұрын
Carry on.
@tinabebry8158
@tinabebry8158 10 жыл бұрын
Respect.
@Randolphsw
@Randolphsw 9 жыл бұрын
***** Respect bro
@Jukahuna1
@Jukahuna1 8 жыл бұрын
Proud of you, It took me 60 years to accept it...I am finally me....Thanks so much for posting
@tomgray7049
@tomgray7049 6 жыл бұрын
Took me 35yrs to come out
@leatherscent7831
@leatherscent7831 6 жыл бұрын
I came out 46 years ago... I'm 63 now. I just can't imagine not being true to yourself and others for so long. 60 years?? That must have been horrible for you. I'm not trying to mean or rude... it's just unfathomable to me to be in such a shroud for so long. I'm so glad you finally did it and I am definitely proud of you Larry!!
@quietman702
@quietman702 6 жыл бұрын
Larry Froemming same here
@Charlotternzdf
@Charlotternzdf 6 жыл бұрын
what crap im straight as and i would never want to be gay
@aramax1001
@aramax1001 6 жыл бұрын
+dan davies well, dan. here's how I see it. I'm gay, and I never would want to be straight. no offense
@naomieadair5635
@naomieadair5635 9 жыл бұрын
Your best friend is right, to call you brave, & right to be proud of you for taking that huge step. But I want to advise you on something...when you come out to people, don't think about them "accepting it", as you put it. Think about it as them accepting YOU. Being gay isn't bad. Being gay isn't a choice, so you are being YOU. And since you are not an IT, but a human being, accepting "IT" just sounds wrong to me. I'm not gay, but I go to a church that is all inclusive & welcomes all, so there are many homosexual couples in our congregation, our pastor (before she moved on ) came out to us, and we have a young teen who is transgender. Be strong, be brave, and be YOU. God blesses EVERYONE.
@jimbass1664
@jimbass1664 9 жыл бұрын
Good news is statistically homophobes are dying out. Far more positive comments than negative, far more people don't give a shit about sexual orientation. Smile, it's getting better. Cry all you like Tankin, you lose.
@naomieadair5635
@naomieadair5635 9 жыл бұрын
^^Right...THAT PART!
@firefox39693
@firefox39693 9 жыл бұрын
***** I'm an openly gay male. WHAT UP! TELL ME I'M AN ABOMINATION! "Fucktard
@naomieadair5635
@naomieadair5635 9 жыл бұрын
***** nothing brave about bashing people because of who they're attracted to or love either. Maybe YOUR problem is, you don't have HALF of what they have and wonder why. Maybe you're just envious that they can be themselves & love themselves & you can't. Anyone spewing that much hate, is unhappy with their own life. Too bad for you...YAY THEM. Get over yourself. YOU'RE the abomination for trying to judge someone. YOU'RE 10 times the threat that they'll ever be, because all you're doing is spreading your venomous hate around. You know what hate does? It festers & eats awsy at people. THAT'S why you're
@naomieadair5635
@naomieadair5635 9 жыл бұрын
^...a threat to humanity
@petrucci973
@petrucci973 8 жыл бұрын
You are who you are. Being gay, straight, Catholic, Jew, Hindu, Buddhist, Muslim etc.. In the end we are all blood, flesh and bones.
@livhughes9614
@livhughes9614 8 жыл бұрын
Preach
@danisnotontop1675
@danisnotontop1675 7 жыл бұрын
abdulla noor What if your a skeleton???
@petrucci973
@petrucci973 7 жыл бұрын
Penelope Lagshare whoever you are, your sense of humour is terrible. Lol
@natesantino6931
@natesantino6931 7 жыл бұрын
ive already been drafted for the skeleton war man, hard times
@7MonarC
@7MonarC 6 жыл бұрын
Only you, im made of pixie dusts! :p
@jd7x7
@jd7x7 9 жыл бұрын
Best friends like this are like angels walking the earth.
@davidmoore1094
@davidmoore1094 4 жыл бұрын
Just found this in 2019 but a really nice video. Looks like your enjoying life to the fullest
@MrMrMrprofessor
@MrMrMrprofessor 10 жыл бұрын
It's moments like that that tell you who your true friends are. And it looks like you have a pretty true friend :) it takes a huge amount of guts to tell someone that. You're awesome
@jacobperez8959
@jacobperez8959 7 жыл бұрын
You coming out to your best friend and him accepting you for who and what you are is a true friend. He is someone who will let you have total freedom to be yourself and especially to feel. Or, not feel. Whatever you happen to be feeling at the moment is fine with him. That's what real love amounts to-letting a person be what he really is.
@jamescarlii9392
@jamescarlii9392 6 жыл бұрын
Good video Jesse, and more power to you. Came out to my sister about a year ago. Everyone else in the family have already passed on, so she and her family are the only ones that know.
@tytaylor8762
@tytaylor8762 7 жыл бұрын
Things get better. I am 47 now , I denied being gay to please the family until I was in my mid twenties. I excepted who I was and finally told my family after I left my hometown. it may take your family some time to adjust but it's better for you to be honest than for them to hear it from someone else
@anthonyalvarez4788
@anthonyalvarez4788 4 жыл бұрын
Hey man, I am a gay male and still have yet to come out to friends, Thank you for giving me the courage to do it . as I will do it this week to the rest of the family. My mom knows but that is about it. I am terrified , However I am not out at work but I am doing it after this. I dont care . I love you bro. I wish i lived closer so we can be friends and I could have someone to talk to . Thank you . You are such an inspiration.
@GettingLean99
@GettingLean99 8 жыл бұрын
Beautiful Video, Great Scenery, Handsome Guy!!
@tealeo22
@tealeo22 8 жыл бұрын
That's one hell of a best friend
@paulguimond7548
@paulguimond7548 9 жыл бұрын
Dude, what a beautiful soul you are. "You moved me like the mountains, you moved me like the sea." That's a song, and it fits you perfectly. Take care, and, be proud of yourself and be HAPPY!!!
@lockjaw06
@lockjaw06 10 жыл бұрын
Proud of you too man. Stay strong. We are all here for you.
@randallcobb2993
@randallcobb2993 6 жыл бұрын
Jessie Calvillo You. Are. A. Great. Friend. It's. Hard. To. Trust. People. With. Your. Life. I. Have. Had friends. Turn. On. Me. ,. Use. Me financially. ,. Hurt.me. ,. Don't. Care. About. Me ,. Verbally. Abuse. Me a. And. Physically. Abuse. Me,. Lie. To. Me. ,.then. Leave. Me. . I. Just. Needed.a. Friend. They. Took. Advantage. Of. Me. . Until. I. Found. God. To. Help. Me. Overcome. .
@richardb7495
@richardb7495 8 жыл бұрын
I love how unscripted and natural this is...great..you're a stronger man for sharing this very personal and intimate part of yourself. :) Way to go
@pjturner57
@pjturner57 6 жыл бұрын
Well done mate!! I came out when I was 14 back in 1971 and it was very tough. I lost a couple of friends but I guess they were not real friends. My parents were great about it though. Yes, you are very good looking but I don't understand why guys have to comment when it is irrelevant to the conversation. A lot of gay guys are very judgemental when it comes to looks and physiques. Crazy......like someone for who they are and what's inside.
@themonkeykingkaiser
@themonkeykingkaiser 10 жыл бұрын
I'm glad to hear that your friend was accepting. Much love
@michaelchavez4297
@michaelchavez4297 9 жыл бұрын
Me and my partner just celebrated 40 years together and I can tell you that it just keeps getting better.
@gsthMD7099
@gsthMD7099 6 жыл бұрын
Michael Chavez congratulations to you both.
@Clintsessentials
@Clintsessentials 6 жыл бұрын
Michael Chavez awwwww
@nathanjohntv7902
@nathanjohntv7902 6 жыл бұрын
Congrats, but me and my boyfriend weve been together for 2 years but things getting worse and worse
@kevinlong5842
@kevinlong5842 6 жыл бұрын
it's "worse and worse" ... you're young, there may be someone else, just don't do things, or be someone you may later regret.
@nathanjohntv7902
@nathanjohntv7902 6 жыл бұрын
Kevin Long maybe, hopefully someday he will realized his mistakes,,, i knew it for the 1st time that some things going wrong until i discover one day,, huhuhu :( i want to forget those bad mem’ries and i dont wanna cry either,....
@TainDK
@TainDK 10 жыл бұрын
You say thank you for watching, I say thank you for sharing. Thank you
@dalerider3124
@dalerider3124 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, indeed. THANK YOU.
@sgalegl
@sgalegl 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting this! It just appeared today on my feed and I agree with you. Once people see nothing ya changed about you and that the person you were will always be is a reassuring feeling. It’s great seeing someone who isn’t afraid to live their truth before years passed them by.
@MuseDuCafe
@MuseDuCafe 9 жыл бұрын
Your best friend is truly a good friend. You appear and act so unassuming, straightforward, and matter of fact, that unless you have some bad luck I think most of your friends and your family too, will take the news without much fuss. Those who do, you have to realize, also have "problems," and those problems are theirs, not yours. All good fortune to you.
@johnmccraith4720
@johnmccraith4720 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video, you are giving hope to a lot of people who can find coming out to friends and family very difficult, your a very fine person, well done!!
@flexspeedstacker
@flexspeedstacker 10 жыл бұрын
hey, I'm straight, but I don't think there is anyone more tolerant than me. there have been multiple people that have come out to me and I've helped one of my very good friends come out to his parents. I've taken part in multiple gay pride events with a lot of my friends. equal rights and gay marriage is the one thing that I believe in 4000% lol. I'm really proud of you and it does take guts dude. sexual orientation does not define who you are. it enhances it. I don't know I've started so many fights and ending multiple friendships because of my beliefs and it is just something I will always fight for. I'm glad your friend was very accepting. I hope your coming out process goes as well :)
@spectro1216
@spectro1216 9 жыл бұрын
It's really nice to see people such as yourself supporting those that need encouragement in the gay community. Although I think you meant well, the word "tolerant" is probably not the best way to describe your position on supporting gays. Tolerant has the connotation that "although this behavior may irritate you, you will tolerate it" and the actual dictionary definition is "showing willingness to allow the existence of opinions or behavior that one does not necessarily agree with". You are not the only one who uses this word when referring to supporting gay culture. A better word to use would be "accepting" or just "support". I just wanted to point this out so that other readers would not use the same notation when referring to supporting gays and gay rights. Thanks again for all the support you give the gay community.
@06Tresa
@06Tresa 10 жыл бұрын
I was a teenager had to ask my mom if older sister was gay? She said "what if she was?" I said " doesn't matter I still love her." Mom said " ok she is." My mom told her I knew & she freaked out but then we became closer because she didn't feel she needed to stay away. She stopped being depressed & my family felt complete. I wish you the best.
@devonguy02
@devonguy02 9 жыл бұрын
Good on you mate nice to hear!
@martind349
@martind349 6 жыл бұрын
Good story thanks.
@a_bear
@a_bear 7 жыл бұрын
why am I watching all these coming out videos?
@condeuiosandilixtos7858
@condeuiosandilixtos7858 7 жыл бұрын
Thinking about coming out? I know I am, but I'll never do it.
@a_bear
@a_bear 7 жыл бұрын
Condēu̯i̯os Andīlixtos But I'm straight. At least I think so. And about your coming out You can do it. I know it's not easy, but do it when you feel comfortable doing so :)
@a_bear
@a_bear 7 жыл бұрын
Josh Taylor I think this coming out thing should change too. Straights don't need to come out so why would lgtbtq people need to come out?
@minipoopuu12340
@minipoopuu12340 7 жыл бұрын
Condēu̯i̯os Andīlixtos same here
@catherinec002
@catherinec002 6 жыл бұрын
a Bear I used to think I was straight until I found out that there was such thing as being bi/ pan and I watched a bunch of videos.
@flavinhosp
@flavinhosp 7 жыл бұрын
hey man, this vídeo is great and the veiw is amazing , nice story by the way. congratulation for your atitude.
@TheKruner1
@TheKruner1 6 жыл бұрын
you're a beautiful, loving, strong person. hold your head up and be proud of who you are. and the friend you came out to is probably one of your best friends ever. just love yourself and be who you are.... you have my respect dude
@davidhorton2620
@davidhorton2620 9 ай бұрын
Your 'coming out' is one of the best I've seen here. You are articulate, mature and convey the emotion without the drama. I had a similar experience telling a good friend. I hope to see more of you. God bless you !
@Habopolis
@Habopolis 9 жыл бұрын
"Oh my" hahahahaha the Dorothy humour it keeps on giving, well done and thank you for sharing your story
@jorgekrohn
@jorgekrohn 9 жыл бұрын
The opening scene of your video is beautiful. Thanks for sharing your story. ☺
@joerodriguez9514
@joerodriguez9514 10 жыл бұрын
Jesse, WELL DONE!!! ..You're video had a unique quality to it, eventhough it was shaky at times, it added to the authenticity and emotion of your video. Loved the opening drive. Beautiful backdrop! You're story is unique, especially being from the rurals! It DOES GET BETTER! I'd love to see more vids- what's life like in your part of the province, has anything changed, etc... Cheers from California :)
@johnroderick6049
@johnroderick6049 9 жыл бұрын
Beautifully done. Thank you for sharing your story. I know a young man that watched this video almost a year ago. You helped him to not be afraid of himself, or of coming out to his best friend. He's now on the way to being the man he wants to be, because of your inspiration. You truly have helped another person (likely many) to be a better man. Thank you
@mrmannyman2
@mrmannyman2 7 жыл бұрын
Beautiful story :) so much respect for you
@scoobytomas
@scoobytomas 9 жыл бұрын
This is awesome and you have given me strength to be who I am thank you for this
@EMBFA23
@EMBFA23 6 жыл бұрын
Awesome man! Proud of you and all that you have accomplished thus far. It only gets better from here! It was tough coming out for myself, but once I did the world became mine and I felt amazing. Keep your chin up and the smiles rolling.
@ted1091
@ted1091 Жыл бұрын
This is the best coming out story ever. And I've watched them all. Thank you for sharing this.
@martinumber1
@martinumber1 8 жыл бұрын
Where is this? I need to live there. I am seriously enamored with the opening scene of the mountains engulfed in those beautiful white clouds.
@calebprice8141
@calebprice8141 8 жыл бұрын
+ZamfirChannel when trump is president I'm moving there
@calebprice8141
@calebprice8141 8 жыл бұрын
+ZamfirChannel right 😂😂 lets hope I got all the supplies I need
@calebprice8141
@calebprice8141 8 жыл бұрын
+ZamfirChannel let's think positive here now 👌🏾
@calebprice8141
@calebprice8141 8 жыл бұрын
+ZamfirChannel were all gonna be oppressed and stuff... Freak.. Whelp
@XenoMoogle
@XenoMoogle 8 жыл бұрын
+ZamfirChannel I honestly thought it was in Newfoundland, Canada. Being from there, It totally reminded me of home. Now i'm homesick lol
@maxiu18
@maxiu18 10 жыл бұрын
Wow. The same situation I had. My best friend also accepted this, hugged me and said that it does not change anything. Stone from my heart then fell. Greetings from Polish.
@francocarrizosparosvich4638
@francocarrizosparosvich4638 5 жыл бұрын
I came out to my best friend last year. Everything worked so fine. This video helped me a lot. Thanks Jesse. You saved me.
@fredbortz
@fredbortz 5 жыл бұрын
I’m proud of you Jesse! It takes a lot of courage to do what you did... I still remember when I first came out to one of my best friends, who was also my fraternity brother. He handled it just like your best friend did.
@italiantop86
@italiantop86 10 жыл бұрын
brought me to tears. god bless you. you are a good person. we just happen to be gay.
@hrhbear
@hrhbear 9 жыл бұрын
if you were my son I would be proud of your bravery....... now go out there and give a good decent example of a gay man today ,jesse you can move mountains. no one can be you jesse. keep on keepin on! the truth shall set you free... now fly jesse... fly!
@PavelDGromnic
@PavelDGromnic 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, Jesse. You can move mountains, Now go do it.
@outdoorsluvr
@outdoorsluvr 6 жыл бұрын
Man this is an awesome, inspiring video. Thank you for taking the time to make this and for being an inspiration to others. I’m 60, out to some but still not all (tough environment at work). Peace 👍
@mimahanke
@mimahanke 8 жыл бұрын
This video gets me every time, I am sorry for your lost may Patrick soul rest in peace. Love all the way from South Africa
@thomxx6834
@thomxx6834 4 жыл бұрын
WHY IS THIS ON MY RECOMMENDATION? *AND I'M GLAD IT IS*
@jostopa
@jostopa 9 жыл бұрын
when i came out to my best friend he said, i already knew, lets go for a beer congrats on your comming out dude
@studpup1912
@studpup1912 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad you posted this. It's helping me come to terms with certain aspects of myself. Thanks man.
@bowhunter8235
@bowhunter8235 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I Seriously Value your coming out. It touched me in a way many others have not. I cannot add anything to what your best friend said or did. Congratulations. Carry on and I look forward to more videos from you. I'm a subscriber.
@bildahome
@bildahome 4 жыл бұрын
He Jesse, please make a update! We miss you! Love from Amsterdam
@lawrencefuller
@lawrencefuller 10 жыл бұрын
For some reason the music made me want to cry my lungs out :c Yes, I just said cry my lungs out.
@user-wf6sw1iq6t
@user-wf6sw1iq6t 9 жыл бұрын
me too, bro...
@tylerposie5472
@tylerposie5472 9 жыл бұрын
Riley Fuller Yas! ARTPOP!
@michellecashin3448
@michellecashin3448 8 жыл бұрын
man i love you jessie you are inspirational and amazing i wish you all the happiness and blessings in the world.
@diefenbaker7853
@diefenbaker7853 6 жыл бұрын
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!! Your face lit up when you were telling about your friend accepting you and being proud of you. I am so happy for you. 👍💋💘❤💓💕💖💗💙💚💛💜💝💞💟❣💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋
@jere2592
@jere2592 8 жыл бұрын
Congrats bro!
@danielharry6569
@danielharry6569 10 жыл бұрын
Hahaha yes. :D I told my best friend. He didn't say much. We just carried on being best friends. Every time we hang out he gives me a hug, says I love you and/or what's up bro.
@Zoom_1012
@Zoom_1012 4 жыл бұрын
So happy for ya! Always be true to yourself. And it sounds like you have one awesome best friend.
@thefabfin
@thefabfin 6 жыл бұрын
Good for you Jesse, you live in an amazingly beautiful place, I hope all your coming out experiences are as positive as that with your buddy, sounds like a great guy too!
@danielamaranta
@danielamaranta 10 жыл бұрын
I think I've found my Ennis del Mar. ♡
@jeremyedombingo
@jeremyedombingo 6 жыл бұрын
Frank Morfa you just had to mention it dont you? **fucking cries like a bitch**
@arjrpr11
@arjrpr11 6 жыл бұрын
Yessssssss, I was thinking the same thing, holy he is gorgeous
@XaverScharwenka
@XaverScharwenka 8 жыл бұрын
I haven't liked a video so much in a long time.
@dalerider3124
@dalerider3124 4 жыл бұрын
I wish this I could fill in 5 stars out of five for your post, Xaver. Bravo!
@jjmunkee
@jjmunkee 10 жыл бұрын
such an awesome genuine & humble video....thanks for sharing this with the world....guess ur really out now! God bless you dude!
@mistrtoad
@mistrtoad 6 жыл бұрын
Stumbled across his today. Thank you for your story. Happy to hear your best friend is still by your side.
@daytonhamann6242
@daytonhamann6242 9 жыл бұрын
I'm not brave enough to come out yet
@yurthvandeweghe5619
@yurthvandeweghe5619 9 жыл бұрын
Me either, I plan on coming out to my mother and brothers tomorrow. If I can do it you can do it.
@TheLalalandloser
@TheLalalandloser 9 жыл бұрын
Green Your comment + your profile picture = Perfection.
@haroldeinrid5306
@haroldeinrid5306 9 жыл бұрын
Green He hasn't replied yet, I think he was murdered...
@juanmagallon
@juanmagallon 9 жыл бұрын
dayton hamann HELLO, it is a time process of acceptance to yourself. Tell one person that you truly trust and that will not judge you, but accept you. By telling that one person, within time, you will find courage to come out and tell any one you decide to tell, because it is "OUR" decision on who we tell and no one else's decision.
@joshtaylor2646
@joshtaylor2646 7 жыл бұрын
💯👏💯👏💯👏💯👏💯👏💯💯💯💯as a masculine gay dude i never understood the "coming out" shit.... HELL "straight" people dont just come out the middle of nowhere an say I'm "straight." my thing is I'm GOING TO DO ME regardless so what I'm NOT going do is wait for some half calked MUTHAPHUCKA to tell me a damn thing....... I'm not waiting for no approval I APPROVE MY OWN PHUCKIN SELF END OF STORY...... trust me I've been disowned an I've cut muthaphuckas off before so I need you to show you true colors.... show me who you really are....
@joshsplace100
@joshsplace100 10 жыл бұрын
Hey Jesse, I've met you through shep689, Will & RJ's channel. I find you just like the guy in the video. Loving the outdoors, I'm glad you're straight friend accepted you for who you are. My experience was just the opposite, and it was awful. My best friend at the time confronted me, and I told him the truth. It was the worse day of my life. I've moved on, both of my parents have passed away. I never had a chance to come out to them, but I thought my Mom knew. It was I she chose to live & spend the last few months of her life. I wish you all he best and look forward to watching your other videos. Josh
@devonguy02
@devonguy02 9 жыл бұрын
Very sad your mate reacted bad man, that's his loss, you exposed a very vunerable part of your felings to him if he has a problem with it, I would suggest he,s proberbly questioning his feelings, its usually a cover, , hope lifes better now for you man, live it enjoy life, be yourself, if anyone has an issue with that then stuff them I say!!! best regards
@samviks
@samviks 9 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear about what happened between you and your friend... I hope you are better now... I wish you the best in life... wherever you are. :-)
@jraven4263
@jraven4263 9 жыл бұрын
Joshplace100 - I agree / devonguy02 - "I would suggest he's probably questioning his feelings, it's usually a cover". ECKHART TOLLE, who a New York Times writer called "the most popular spiritual author in the United States" wrote: "Anything that you resent and strongly react to in another, is also in you." ...and Thank you JESSE for your vids. Inspirational to me and so many others!
@devonguy02
@devonguy02 9 жыл бұрын
J Raven Thanks mate I think we,re on to something here, straight guys who deffo are straight are usually fine with gays, its the undercover closet who try,s to project the focus off themselves, hope your good man
@devonguy02
@devonguy02 9 жыл бұрын
J Raven ow and read Randolph Williams below he makes our point beautifully
@jimmurray7826
@jimmurray7826 6 жыл бұрын
I'm proud of you Jesse, it takes great character and guys to do what you did! Bravo, keep up the videos. I'm behind yippy 100%. Thanks for sharing your story!
@91cavrs
@91cavrs 6 жыл бұрын
Jesse i think that was the most beautiful coming out video iv ever watched,,so proud to see the strength u have,,btw beautiful place u live..
@missblueberry1033
@missblueberry1033 7 жыл бұрын
You are so cute and I really like you, you are so sympathic :) ❤
@jorgenvonstrangle320
@jorgenvonstrangle320 6 жыл бұрын
Hi
@6tss
@6tss 8 жыл бұрын
love the intro ..... wish I was there.... can I come visit ?? haha
@nyasiaroman7784
@nyasiaroman7784 5 жыл бұрын
I love how raw and beautiful this was . You definitely just gained a new subscriber 💚
@valentine806
@valentine806 6 жыл бұрын
Jesse, well done. Takes courage and I am sure your story will help others, with the anxiety that comes along with it all. Came out in my late 30's and for me it was like a huge weight lifted off my shoulders. As well, like your openness to share yourself and your thought - others may gain from your uplifting spirit. Cheers
@StudioFranq
@StudioFranq 8 жыл бұрын
Well Jesse, it's almost three years to the date. I'd love to know how you do. Remember: you are who you are. Loving a man doesn't define you who are! Don't let anyone judge you on the sole fact that it;s a man you feel attracted to. You are beautiful just the way you are|
@lauraveronica2625
@lauraveronica2625 8 жыл бұрын
Can I just take the time to say I am so proud of you. This is the first time I found your channel and been watching the videos. :) I'm happy for you.
@daarong44
@daarong44 6 жыл бұрын
Great video from the heart Jesse. It would be fantastic to be able to see more life videos like this one.I had a friend who lived on Cultus Lake. We could open the door of his cabin and watch the clouds come right through his house. The scenery in your video reminds me of my friend Blaine's home. I think you did a very brave thing by honoring your friendship with such a level of trust. Your friend is very fortunate to have you for a friend. Good luck & God bless.
@missksf14182
@missksf14182 9 жыл бұрын
The scenery though...oh my! I'm from Australia so we don't get that sort of weather here, it looks so beautiful :) I'm proud of you, and your best friend is an upstanding young man for what his reaction was! It is a shock for the person hearing it if they have never suspected, so for his love t be unwavering is a testamount to the kind of man he is. I hope your friendship lasts forever because it sounds like you have a good'n!
@laurafox3038
@laurafox3038 6 жыл бұрын
Hi Jesse. I’m a Midwest mom who watched your video and sees bravery, honesty, and freedom in you! Be proud of yourself, be true and kind. Follow your own path and please surround yourself with people who love and cheer for your successes, and hold onto you during your losses. ❤️
@chriskeats2821
@chriskeats2821 9 жыл бұрын
I am really happy you came out that you are gay and to tell you the truth i am gay to and being gay there nothing wroung with that and i hope you believe me on this... ps you are a very good looking guy :)
@Oculoustuos
@Oculoustuos 4 жыл бұрын
Your story brought tears to my eyes. You are such a precious guy, Jesse.
@johnnycoleman2164
@johnnycoleman2164 6 жыл бұрын
Beautiful story from a beautiful soul! May God continue to bless you and yours as you continue on this part of your journey!!
@TheFiown
@TheFiown 10 жыл бұрын
Cool !! wish I had a gay child so I could show how cool I am with it ,,,,, but straight is good too ,,, best wishes S xxx
@DK-co6ou
@DK-co6ou 6 жыл бұрын
I’m also very proud of you Jesse! Congratulations! I wish you a very happy life! Big hugs
@disjiggatuanni
@disjiggatuanni 10 жыл бұрын
I think it's great you came out to your friend. I was always so hesitant to come out to anyone, but I feel like in order for me to be myself around the people who cares/loves me, they should see the real me, and not this alter persona! Great job Jesse!
@2201Duluth
@2201Duluth 2 жыл бұрын
ive never seen a more mature group of young men successfully coming to terms with who they are. YOU SHOULD BE SO PROUD!
@Miguel-ws1ul
@Miguel-ws1ul 6 жыл бұрын
Your video was very cool, the landscape is just amazing and you look a very down to earth guy. Congrats man
@jenniferreed6621
@jenniferreed6621 9 жыл бұрын
i love it, Jesse! The fact that your bff was so cool! And he's right, it takes guts. Best of luck!
@paulrodgers7228
@paulrodgers7228 7 жыл бұрын
Hi Jesse! Your video was one of many videos I was looking at about 4 years ago or so that helped me gain the courage to come out. Thank you!
@rrovin85
@rrovin85 6 жыл бұрын
Congrats ! I'm so glad you have taken the plunge , accepting yourself, and your courage to start the coming out process. I truely hope it continues to get better ... Be proud. Melbourne, Australia.
@calvinm7705
@calvinm7705 6 жыл бұрын
That’s a beautiful coming out story and well done for taking the courage to do so. And by the way you look absolutely gorgeous. Sending you love!!!
@jeremiahmorgan6575
@jeremiahmorgan6575 7 жыл бұрын
I hope it all works out better and better the more you continue to express who you are. You seem to be genuine and good hearted. Good video.
@TheRamrod100
@TheRamrod100 10 жыл бұрын
Taking that final step to be true to yourself and those you love is a big step in a positive direction. You're a great human being and I wish you all the best.
@gsthMD7099
@gsthMD7099 6 жыл бұрын
You are adorable, good for you for coming out. I remember when I came out to my dad, it was the best thing I ever did. Love my dad loads for supporting me and living me.
@saintanthonygoodchild1288
@saintanthonygoodchild1288 6 жыл бұрын
Since years have passed you no doubt have discovered that it indeed gets better because "it" will be what YOU make it as you navigate through a world of haters and free yourself from "friends" (who weren't your true friends to begin with) and even any family who do not accept you for who you are. This process will go on indefinitely but will become as easy as something second nature. What I love the most about this, is that this the very first I've ever seen on You Tube or anywhere else for that matter that resulted in all positive comments and feedback! Whoa! There should be a monetary prize for that, come on You Tube! Well done man, very best to you.
@waynelink4261
@waynelink4261 4 жыл бұрын
wonderful young man and story I have been out since 1966 and it has been a joy. With my college sweetheart since 1974. Sharing personal honesty is the best gift we can give to ourselves and others. We all get stronger and those that are against us lose out . Love to all . Stay safe.
@napuaoney8593
@napuaoney8593 6 жыл бұрын
That’s an awesome friend! I pray your further conversations go as well! Blessings to you! Thank you for sharing your story here too😘
@grantritchie2781
@grantritchie2781 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jessie for Sharing your story it is one of the hardest things you will have to say to family and friends and once you have to those you tell it is like the world has been lifted off your shoulders and if they care and love you it's the greatest feeling to be just you. Would love to here more of your stories as you seem such a cool and great guy.
@jamespage3960
@jamespage3960 8 жыл бұрын
Takes real guts to do what you did. I'm impressed, not many people can do that, at least not without spending days, or even months planning out how to tell their best friend. I'm glad for you that your friend accepted you, and wish you the best of luck.
@gqstud4371
@gqstud4371 6 жыл бұрын
Well Jesse, just saw this clip of yours and you seem like a very nice friend to have. Your best friend was happy to know you and is happy to have you. What more is there to ask from a good friend but the truth? Good luck with your life and thanks for sharing.
@gzaharoff3265
@gzaharoff3265 6 жыл бұрын
This was awesome. Blessings to you. This made me emotional - I know you hope that others will get it, but know that’s their issue. Live in your truth and if others want to be a part of your journey great, if not, that’s their issue. #lionsandbearsohmy Please, more videos of your journey, Jesse!
@TheGbert22
@TheGbert22 3 жыл бұрын
I'm with you my man ! Got trough the same king of story in 2010 and yes, it does get better, but not magically! You have to let the bad energy from bad people behind you.. Negative people are never gonna bring anything good for you !
@ValdemarGonzalez
@ValdemarGonzalez 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting. I know this is an old video, but I just came across it today. I have to go to work, but I can’t wait to get home tonight and binge watch your channel to see where you are today .... because I personally find you absolutely adorable ....
@274727
@274727 2 жыл бұрын
You truly have friend with a heart of gold! 🥰
@beeges2525
@beeges2525 6 жыл бұрын
You're an amazing dude! What a soul! Not only are you the most stunning, beautiful man I've ever seen, you should be proud of what kind of life you're going to lead. Lv you!
@BloodyMaori
@BloodyMaori 10 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your story Jesse. It may help others out there to be honest with themselves and life a life without shame.
Gooodbye Patrick.
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