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Communication Skills Training for Women: 3 Phrases that Ruin Your Credibility & What To Say Instead
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Communication Skills Training for Women: 3 Phrases that Ruin Your Credibility & What To Say Instead
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Do you know what phrases are killing your credibility as a woman? In this video, I'll share with you the three phrases that are sabotaging your success and preventing you from having the powerful communication skills you deserve. Watch it now to learn how to speak with more authority and get what you want in life.
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0:00 Intro
O:06 Danger Phrase #1 Unfair
0:40 Danger Phrase #1 That type of Language
2:44 Danger Phrase #3 I think
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Internationally acclaimed author, trainer and keynote speaker Dan O'Connor has been transforming the lives of millions through communication training for over 20 years. As a former customer service leader of Equitable Financial, JCPenney and Wells Fargo, Dan leverages his extensive experience and tactical verbal patterns to give people the words to help project polished, competent and confident images in all communication settings - professionally or personally. His powerful training includes teaching scripts, step-by-step communication strategies, danger and power phrase lists, and more.
@TheWizardOfWords 8 ай бұрын
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@MadTeaMarie Жыл бұрын
Your well-crafted alternative to "I don't appreciate" ALONE makes this video a "BOOKMARK IT" keeper!
@slavareed8156 Жыл бұрын
Boy oh boy, Dan's training is absolute gold!!! His youtube channel came across my feed at the right time and I am thoroughly enjoying watching his video's. The humour is a great added touch...he can have a second career as a comedian :-)) ... definitely lightens the stress of dealing with difficult people to learn these priceless strategies. Thank you Dan!!!
@TheWizardOfWords Жыл бұрын
You're very welcome Slava.
@monkncook Жыл бұрын
This is so insightful and you always deliver it in such a hilarious way. Love it!
@shellshock000 Жыл бұрын
Words, how you word things makes a huge difference for me. I have been looking for words to help. I was having a conversation about trouble not following through or being overwhelmed with projects/ tasks...I used " Deadline" and I swallowed it back, said " No no no, I need another word, new word." It's the anxiety right.......well it's " Target" I can do " Target" I can own it with a ( f-YA! )Positive , capable ,assertive , I'm the person....that's what (target) gives me. The other (deadline) is scary, daunting, anxiety driven and wrought with past feeling of failure to follow through....it was a flick switch on moment and wow it's bright out there!â¤ðŸŒŸðŸ˜ŽðŸ‘ðŸ»ðŸ’¥
@TheWizardOfWords Жыл бұрын
Show up next week--Tuesday at 6:00 pm Chicago time.
@nicolecarnevale3226 Жыл бұрын
Dan, I have been viewing your videos for a while. They have been helpful already, Your boundaries are solid and thanks for educating people to avoid certain behaviors.
@saratrevorrow2788 Жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh, I am laughing so hard my head hurts!!! Can't get enough of your wicked humor and insightful wisdom I adopt weekly and daily😂🎉😂🎉 Thank you Wordstooth Slayer
@TheWizardOfWords Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome, Sara.
@consciousequus Жыл бұрын
Yes. Pull the " emotions " out of your statement.. you crack me up ! Love the way you present!
@TheWizardOfWords Жыл бұрын
😊 thank you
@ishawestwood3253 Жыл бұрын
I needed this. I work in a care setting and it's all women workers. EVERYTHING is personal to them. I am emotionally detaching and frankly sick of this situation. I am learning these tactics and moving forward:)
@TheWizardOfWords Жыл бұрын
Wonderful!
@zendoll1 Жыл бұрын
I would like to see him using his technique on a room full of 11 year olds in school. It would be nice for him to go to schools and help teachers.
@TheWizardOfWords Жыл бұрын
I did teach 11 year olds--20 years ago :). Wait--closer to 30. Good grief.
@wildflowers100 Жыл бұрын
Great tips! Thank you, Dan ðŸ‘ðŸ¼âœ¨
@PickledPepperz Жыл бұрын
Excellent!
@charlenegoskowicz8220 Жыл бұрын
Super thanks!!
@rebekahjette6304 Жыл бұрын
I have learned a lot by watching your videosâ¤ï¸
@cigdemylmaz1532 Жыл бұрын
Another great video from the Wizard, thank you very much for the insight !
@TheWizardOfWords Жыл бұрын
My pleasure!
@Rocio36800 Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@annamay2152 Жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@j.t.1215 9 ай бұрын
You're such a blessing. THANK YOU!!!!
@TheWizardOfWords 9 ай бұрын
You're welcome!
@Mushroom321- Жыл бұрын
I'M LOVIN THE SUBTITLES..😼ðŸ‘ðŸ‘
@annstubbs2256 Жыл бұрын
Perfect ðŸ™
@UlitheUnruly 7 ай бұрын
Love love love this, oh Wizard of word-smithing
@TheWizardOfWords 7 ай бұрын
Actually, my mother was JWordsmith--so I must accept Wizard of Words as my moniker :)
@peacefulone4461 Жыл бұрын
Profound gratitude. Since moving back home to USA its a nation almost unrecognizable. If only I had the knowledge you share before coming back. I've felt intimidated. I need a "jump start"
@TheWizardOfWords Жыл бұрын
Peaceful One, PLEASE go to danoconnortraining.com/store and see if my training can help you. I know exactly what you mean when you say you need a "jump start." My guess is you are reeling from a culture shock you didn't expect.
@peacefulone4461 Жыл бұрын
​@@TheWizardOfWords you're exactly right. For the last couple weeks if I even want to stay. The level of violence scares me. Plus the amount of intolerance is very uncomfortable...it's. everywhere.
@TheWizardOfWords Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, I am aware . . . .
@guarionex4672 Жыл бұрын
Dude you’re on 🔥ðŸ‘💯🎯
@TheWizardOfWords Жыл бұрын
I appreciate that!
@hirewriting4175 Жыл бұрын
You’re such a boss! I need more
@TheWizardOfWords Жыл бұрын
LONG TIME NO HEAR. Someone paid you a wonderful compliment the other day. I hope you saw it :).
@hellodenise9612 Жыл бұрын
I think you may have forgotten one! I work with a really short 4 ft young women and she is very sensitive about short jokes. Sometimes we assume they know they are cute and darling but it is something they have to deal with daily and she made it very clear it's not funny to her. Something you may not think about and is inappropriate at work or really anywhere.
@egrace3738 Жыл бұрын
I just had lunch with an old guy...he was 'sharing' racist stories. He thought he was so funny. I told him, 'I don't like your stories.' It shut him up. BUT I wish I had incorporated your advice.
@TheWizardOfWords Жыл бұрын
Well in that situation, perhaps blunt was appropriate--and it seems to have worked.
@egrace3738 Жыл бұрын
@@TheWizardOfWords 🫡
@moonhunter9993 Ðй бұрын
Sometimes, we just have to make them stop without starting a fight. Saying something too provocative might just start an argument you don't want to get involved in.
@jennyanderson4796 Жыл бұрын
Panache yep your closing has what I love about you.
@CreativelyChallenged Жыл бұрын
Any idea of having discounts on your VIP. I want to take it so bad...
@TheWizardOfWords Жыл бұрын
Well now Ivette, write Jean at jean@danoconnortraining.com and ask her what she can do :)
@libertyblueskyes2564 8 ай бұрын
Okay Senior Wizard, what do women say when they are patted on the butt, their breasts are brushed against while the guy (boss) is saying 'excuse me' or the men make remarks on their personal appearance?
@TheWizardOfWords 8 ай бұрын
I have a couple videos on this type of thing; check out my YT channel. Obviously none of this should be tolerated; you should be putting a spotlight on the behavior and shutting it down immediately. Again, check out my channel. If this is happening to you often and by different people--you have to begin by determining if you're rewarding the behavior rather than putting a stop to it. For example, are you smiling as though you enjoy flirtation? Or are you saying "What have I done that would lead you to think I would find your conduct acceptable? Your behavior is not acceptable and if you engage in it one more time I will document it and take it to HR." (I don't believe in running to HR, but what you are describing is blatant and serious. It is not just an interpersonal squabble.). Again--check out my channel.
@Mushroom321- Жыл бұрын
So the opposite of my brain training . Instead " i feel, i believe " .....
@saltywisdom Жыл бұрын
Dehumanising ageist narratives is something I face at work everyday.
@kimlec3592 Жыл бұрын
@She said it Hmmm : People. They are both a blessing & a curse...someone wise once said to write your own story, but we both know life isn't that simple. Decide to shake off that which distresses...and write yourself back to calm. Remember the bravery you exhibit every day by walking out the door & even to keep showing up ! A strong person, indeed.
@DEAH-01 Жыл бұрын
Ageist narratives I ignore, and use it as ammunition called " more experienced" .
@lindahendrick6222 Жыл бұрын
I deal with this too
@saratrevorrow2788 Жыл бұрын
I am laughing so hard my head hurts!!! Thank you Wordstooth Slayer, for your wicked wit, humor, and insightful wisdom 😂🎉😂🎉😂🎉
@moonhunter9993 Ðй бұрын
I know what you mean
@JerseyLynne Жыл бұрын
I bet you just have so much fun with your brains!
@TheWizardOfWords Жыл бұрын
My mother always told us that we should strive to make our minds somewhere we could go to enjoy our leisure time. :)
@MsGroovalicious Жыл бұрын
What about female employees and bosses???
@TheWizardOfWords Жыл бұрын
Oh, we'll be discussing them MsGroovalicious. :) :) :). Stay tuned.
@ladofthelake Жыл бұрын
Pretty good. Although you also entered into dehumanizing and ageist coupled with possibly offensive jokes and religious beliefs. While offensive jokes is not appropriate and religious beliefs shouldn't be permissible in the workplace beyond personal opinion when you pair them with two taglines that suddenly create a broad summation of people you are then in and of yourself creating a barrier and communication. Because you just now presented labels that in and of themselves can be offensive against someone's personal views and can claim a misunderstanding with a label rather than a proper communication to deconflict. Just as branding someone with a tag they may not approve of creates a negative perception and can devalue you further in the conversation. Especially since the trend in recent years has been to use labels and taglines rather than effective communication. Especially if you cannot appropriately defend the logical argument with those labels. Rather than ageist, perhaps say, "from a modern perspective or my perspective that is not in keeping with current times and trends of acceptable behavior". That creates an open dialog rather than a label an attempting to sound better or that you do not have flaws as well.
@TheWizardOfWords Жыл бұрын
JJ, I see it differently. :()
@kiyasuihito 8 ай бұрын
As a man who was raised by a narcissist and constantly steamrolled by a highly feminist culture to take a back seat and be a doormat, I really relate to all this advice. Thanks so much for the work you do!🎉â¤
@TheWizardOfWords 8 ай бұрын
You're welcome, Rudy. Happy to help.
@heatherlong2478 Жыл бұрын
Words can not make people feel stupid
@TheWizardOfWords Жыл бұрын
Do you think words can make you LOOK more or less professional? In re words making people feel stupid--whereas that has nothing to do with this particular video, I might suggest something on a personal note. Words can make people feel stupid, so we should choose them carefully. Ask a child whose parent has just berated them--by calling them stupid.
@heatherlong2478 Жыл бұрын
@@TheWizardOfWords People say things on a personal level they would never say on a professional level. It is definitely something to think about. 🤔 It was a random comment. I was thinking more of the varying degrees of vocabulary people have.
@heatherlong2478 Жыл бұрын
@@TheWizardOfWords I really appreciate your advice. Your advice has helped me on both levels.
@heatherlong2478 Жыл бұрын
I tend to stay away from other people's personal business. I may completely disagree, yet it remains, none of my business.
@TheWizardOfWords Жыл бұрын
Totally agree, Heather. Much of the trouble we encounter--especially in the workplace--arises from our making the business of other people OUR business.
@dinaworkman306 Жыл бұрын
Please speck slower
@TheWizardOfWords Жыл бұрын
Dina, adjust your playback speed.
@Mushroom321- Жыл бұрын
Yes,; the misogynistic phrases.. " 😑
@KazeMunashii Жыл бұрын
its not the verbage, its that you're speaking as an adult. regardless, you'll probably get the same result, as you're trying to tell me the same thing, but with a different coat of paint.
@TheWizardOfWords Жыл бұрын
Oh, it's the verbiage. Words matter.
@kimlec3592 Жыл бұрын
Classist...hmm ...are we in Communist America, Comrade? I need to know what else I am forbidden from saying these days. No compliments either, right? 🤣😂🤣
@TheWizardOfWords Жыл бұрын
Stay tuned. It is called the freedom to speak if, as, and in the manner you choose, always being authentic, yet aware of what works for you in what is arguably still, and sadly still, a man's world :) :). But you know that . . . . :) :)
@aliciatorres91 Жыл бұрын
Thank you once more for your genius advice in communicating by using relevant words. Have a lovely day. God bless you and your family. ðŸ™ðŸ™ŒðŸ“–ðŸ’☀ï¸ðŸŒ¤ðŸŒ
@TheWizardOfWords Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Alicia.
@theroadhome_Liz_Summers Жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@TheWizardOfWords Жыл бұрын
Many thanks, Liz.
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