Holly molly! I don't care about business or sales or making speeches, but the way he talks is so bloody captivating, I ended up watching more of the videos!! lol AND in addition I learn a lot from them too, which I think will be a great help to me when I go for job interviews in future. It even helps with my poetry when I make audio versions of it! Fascinating stuff!
@reorders98683 жыл бұрын
this video has been taken over by fucking bots lmao
@tom16843 жыл бұрын
Might want to get out more...
@evanc.23823 жыл бұрын
The notion of speech in most people is having a big audience. Just forget it. Speech is the physical ability to just talk. Think talking to someone. Then no "rules" or "tricks" to remember (or be forgotten). "Speak about what you know/feel, and no one will ignore you"
@warrenwerbittTHEPRINTWHISPERER3 жыл бұрын
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@warrenwerbittTHEPRINTWHISPERER3 жыл бұрын
Pq11
@PaulSauricho5 ай бұрын
12 years later and his presentation is still impactful. He was only 38 years old, too.
@ConorNeill5 ай бұрын
Yep 51 now 😎
@elqord.11184 ай бұрын
@@ConorNeill I hope you are doing well sir
@mrtobaki4 ай бұрын
Damn bro 38 right here? 😳
@mini_man_012 ай бұрын
@@ConorNeill bro you are nailing it still
@epsteindidnotkillhimself2 ай бұрын
@@mrtobaki he had the looks of his current age
@johnbockmann4 жыл бұрын
Three ways to start a speech (summary): 3) With a question that matters to the audience. Phrase a problem that the audience faces. 2) A fact that shocks: i.e. there are more people alive today than have ever died. Every 2 minutes, the energy reaching the earth from the sun is equal to all the energy used by all its people in one year 1) The same way we start a story to a child: "Once upon a time..." Makes us lean forward, makes us ready to hear. All trained as kids to know when a story's coming. - assume self interest; tell a story from your own life about something you find meaningful - don't talk about the software; talk about the people who make the software - they need to trust you before they decide to act
@wadkhalill14064 жыл бұрын
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@cheetahobx3 жыл бұрын
Like picking up a girl......talk about HER......you're in like flint!
@ChillingMan4 Жыл бұрын
my focus was scattered while listening so thank you for the quick summurize it's so helpful :)
@hhiippiittyy Жыл бұрын
Now I'm just glitched because there are not more people alive than have ever died. May I suggest a subclause for point 2... be sure your fact is a fact.
@Lonely-rk9nq Жыл бұрын
@@hhiippiittyy Just found out it’s not a fact, but it actually shows the power of the speech, that he can make a fake fact to be trusted by many people.
@Brian-bm7ew5 жыл бұрын
I have taken both speech and communications classes and not once was starting a speech covered. Thank you Conor! This changes everything.
@arvenilsen68382 жыл бұрын
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@connorbanepoop18 күн бұрын
@@arvenilsen6838 7 Likes...wtf
@JamesCAsphalt8 Жыл бұрын
As a professional trainer and speaker, I can say that this is the best video on starting a speech I have ever seen. Conor Neill is dynamic in his delivery. He compels us to rethink how we begin a speech, to effectively engage an audience from the first moment.
@kratlegaming93499 ай бұрын
This sounds like something chat GPT would say if you asked it to comment on the talk that was given
@njkk-eu6gv3 ай бұрын
@@kratlegaming9349 yeaaah
@farshimelt3 жыл бұрын
In my high school speech class, we were told to tell the audience what we were going to tell them, tell them, then tell them what you told them. That way it sinks in and will be memorable. I did that and won the speech competition. In sales it was called features and benefits. This is what it does and this is how you benefit from what it does. That and you have 2 ears and 1 mouth; listen twice as much as you talk. Good advice for your life.
@feliscorax2 жыл бұрын
Did you go to Catholic school as well? That sounds so bloody familiar it’s uncanny.
@phmwu73682 жыл бұрын
Repetition is important, that's why certain commercials are shown twice in a marketing TV block !
@anonymous34724 жыл бұрын
The actual best way to start a speech: "This is going to be quick"
@TonyB19994 жыл бұрын
Funny...lol I've used these strategies and they work.
@charlesclem4 жыл бұрын
I often use those words at the end of a candle-lit dinner...
@earlgarcia61064 жыл бұрын
Brah...😭😭
@erikschaepers4 жыл бұрын
That guy is totally clueless...maybe should watch how Steve Jobs presented something to an audience
@ABC-oi9vw4 жыл бұрын
Which’s always a lie...
@alloutcoach5 жыл бұрын
Awesome advice - telling stories takes presentations to the next level! There are some other interesting tips I have also heard of from other coaches and leaders that I would love you to comment on: 1) start with a silent pause prior to uttering your first word to build up anticipation and attention after taking a deep breath and "landing" in your starting stance first; 2) jump into your story or first idea - do not introduce yourself or display gratitude for being invited to speak; 3) end with the same energy you start with.
@iceswallow7717 Жыл бұрын
made sure my kid didnt know anything about giraffes to ensure my chances of a good speech
@EA.Festus Жыл бұрын
I watched this video like three (3) years ago when I started exploring how to take on my career in speaking and I'm glad to come back to it and still find it so vital. ❤
@ConorNeill Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@876Abb5 жыл бұрын
Normally when I start a speech at a gathering I start by recognizing the previous speaker and then make him feel great by saying, " I'd like to start by saying a big thank you to Nelson for that brilliant presentation, my colleague Nelson, has mentioned so many vital points and I'm going to add to what he's already said..."
@FeyikunmiYinka5 жыл бұрын
My Daddy This helps the gradual shift of the audience to get engaged with your next presentation. 💯 ✅👌
@TheJofrica2 жыл бұрын
First off, the point Abb AB made is extremely poignant and demonstrates both courtesy to the previous speaker as well as an acknowledgment of the purpose of the entire event as a cohesive whole. I’d like to add to that by saying, it might be a similarly good idea to mention the upcoming speaker after you, or perhaps reference the upcoming presentations somehow in your speech. Something like, “I’m excited to hear about what the upcoming speakers will discuss on this aspect of the topic at hand.” After all, this particular video asked the question of both how do you start a speech and how do you end one. Looking forward to what others might say in this comment thread as well. Peace ✌️
@truth.speaker5 жыл бұрын
You know a video is old when it talks about using a Blackberry
@bunkerbuster67295 жыл бұрын
😄😄😄
@johnhammond17225 жыл бұрын
Does not c hange the truth or relevence of the message.
@truth.speaker5 жыл бұрын
@@johnhammond1722 yep. The advice in the video is excellent. I wish I could speak well, as this man can
@truth.speaker5 жыл бұрын
@@bunkerbuster6729 hi
@bunkerbuster67295 жыл бұрын
@@truth.speaker Hello. 🙂
@saadabdula15963 жыл бұрын
I watched this years before when I couldn't understand English it made me smile , and now when I understand words by words , it makes me more smile than before . Thank you
@ConorNeill3 жыл бұрын
Wow that is cool 😎
@benjamincjholmes5 ай бұрын
And now what do you think about what you wrote 2 years later?
@Sava122422 жыл бұрын
This is phenomenal! I feel teachers of all grade levels and subjects should study public speaking. We have about 10 seconds to engage students of any age. One swing and a miss and we can lose them . It is then extremely difficult if not impossible to get them back!
@TheLLAJPeople10 ай бұрын
If we have 10 seconds to engage the student, we need to rethink our approach.
@j.kathrynlanzerotte834810 жыл бұрын
As a prof who taught public speaking for a few years, this is one presentation I'd have students view! Salient 3 points as I continue to be a speaker. Thank you Conor
@topicgenie17948 жыл бұрын
Being a confident speaker begins with having a great topic! Need an informative speech topic? Just ask me. Need a persuasive speech topic? Just ask me. Topic Genie is Fast, Fun, and Easy!
@donadausey89937 жыл бұрын
To choose a great topic, you need to know what your audience needs
@Blagger30007 жыл бұрын
I think that the topic is not important. Knowing the topic subject matter inside out, and being able to deliver the subject matter in a manner which pulls the crowd in is what its about.
@briankelly49297 жыл бұрын
But one of his "facts" isn't true. There have been roughly 107 billion people that have died and we have roughly 7.5 billion people alive currently.
@KevinThomas-jg2rq7 жыл бұрын
Topic Genie give a winning g seach ?
@phillydcinematics25434 жыл бұрын
How to start a speech: "This video is sponsored by Raid: shadow legend"
@thecatholicrabbi41704 жыл бұрын
Orc chic
@carolcourtney874 жыл бұрын
@@thecatholicrabbi4170 pl l LLP
@carolcourtney874 жыл бұрын
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@carolcourtney874 жыл бұрын
YG
@boonifyme28193 жыл бұрын
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@Omar-NO-Code Жыл бұрын
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:00 🎤 Start a speech by avoiding generic introductions like stating your name and company; instead, engage the audience with a compelling opening. 01:59 🗨️ When starting a speech or a conversation in a networking event, use a common connection or a shared contact as an icebreaker. 02:45 ❓ Start a speech by posing a question relevant to the audience, or begin with a surprising fact to grab their attention. 04:56 📖 The most effective way to start a speech is by telling a story, akin to saying "once upon a time," as stories engage and connect with the audience on a personal level. 07:17 💡 Share personal stories that connect you to the topic and demonstrate how it has impacted your life or why it's important to you, as this makes your speech more relatable and compelling to the audience. Made with HARPA AI
@LakshmiMogaveer-ir3eo Жыл бұрын
Thank you brother You cleared my searching🙏
@almoktafi5 жыл бұрын
1. Start with A Question. 2. Start with a relevant story. 3. Start with curious & bizarre fact.
@helium735 жыл бұрын
I think 3 was start with a problem people face. 2 was a factoid that shocks and 1 was "Once upon a time" Except say it like adult would say it. I don't think he ever got to that: "A guy walks into a bar.."?
@anondoggo5 жыл бұрын
@@helium73 You are right.
@BieluChukwu95 жыл бұрын
I have a dream!
@harrymack56105 жыл бұрын
@@BieluChukwu9 dr.king didnt start his speech with "i have a dream" lol Poser
@BieluChukwu95 жыл бұрын
@@harrymack5610 then imma use it! I have a dream that we humans are immortals beings!!!
@EvA-oz8jf4 жыл бұрын
Seems simple yet we forget that presentations are stories that get your point across to a group of different personalities with varying opinions and views. I enjoy the fact that Conor Neil reaffirms this information in an engaging manner.
@augburto5 жыл бұрын
Phenomenal speaker -- I hope people pay attention to how he uses pauses and how he builds anticipation. Very well crafted speech.
@rimshaahsan8516Ай бұрын
The way you use your body language while delivering the speech is impressive! The hand movements , Little smile on the face , calmness while speaking. These are just awesome! ✨
@elwinchandra1605 жыл бұрын
Conor I tried your method in my presentation for a grant recently. And it worked! Thank you very much for helping me! I was really grateful to you and your talk !
@321CatboxWA5 жыл бұрын
what method? the never get to the point method?
@kaplok5 жыл бұрын
I just wrote my 1 minute speech to a county commission...they usually dont hear a word. I think I will have their attention...I like the "real important guy told me this..." approach...will try and write in result. Thanks in advance
@LennyCamp10 жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting your interesting approach to public speaking. As a military instructor charged with making astronautics interesting and relevant to non-technical people, I found a good opening for each new class was: "How many of you have been in space or want to go?" After a pause of several seconds, suggest "Every one of us has, and is, at this moment, in space, aboard Spaceship Earth. We are space travelers riding this large rock and going about a billion kilometers around our star, the Sun, every year. If you do the math, that means our huge planet is traveling a little over 100,000 kilometers per hour in our orbit." pause for effect. "As a child I was fascinated by those people who left the atmosphere of our Spaceship's surface and went into freefall around our planet orbiting every 90 minutes or so at more than 28,000 kilometers per hour. I learned years later that someday, humans will need to venture out to find a new spaceship when in a billion years or so, our sun begins to expand to once day incinerate our planet and moon and everything between our star and us. How will we decide where to go, who to send, and what they will take with them? How will we communicate with them over vast distances where radio transmissions take months and years instead of seconds? We need to learn how to leave while keeping our ship alive long enough to provide the things we will need to go out to other stars, and galaxies; to ensure our species survives, and thrives." another pause. "We are all space farers, like it or not. Who is ready to learn about this fascinating subject?"
@m.munozarias57169 ай бұрын
In short: 1. Begin by engaging the audience with a relevant question, framing a problem they face. 2. Alternatively, startle them with a surprising factoid. 3. Finally, captivate them with a compelling story that connects to the topic and its significance.
@mydearpear Жыл бұрын
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:01 🎥 Introduction to Chat GPT and HARPA AI 00:28 🤖 How to Use HARPA AI with Chat GPT 00:41 📜 Summarizing Long KZbin Videos Made with HARPA AI
@swoldiernation5 жыл бұрын
Some one needs to tell him that stat about more people being alive today than all the combined death is totally false.
@arisvanhouten435 жыл бұрын
Steve Cook Behind every man now alive stand 30 ghosts.
@thecatholicrabbi41704 жыл бұрын
Update it for this year lol
@Terry23774 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Total nonsense.
@tawandamwedzi56294 жыл бұрын
It was a tutorial not necessarily a fact
@esthershelley3943 жыл бұрын
A factoid is a lie masquerading as the truth...it only sounds true but isn't...which is why he called it a startling factoid.
@100ohms6 жыл бұрын
I clicked on the video because of KZbin suggestion. I watch the whole thing because of this guy.
@AnthonyFrancisJones6 жыл бұрын
Many years ago I started a new teaching job. At the end of the very first lesson a girl came up to me and said, 'Sir, you should leave.... and tell stories.' What great advice and encouragement from a teenage girl in a physics class. I have been doing it ever since even when adult leaders told me to keep it straight and stick to the content only. 'Once upon a time'...
@russellreid68385 жыл бұрын
@@ConorNeilland dv
@russellreid68385 жыл бұрын
Zoo 8 no
@EA.Festus22 күн бұрын
I am back here after approximately 5years. It's crazy that it is just this morning, some minutes ago that I realized and could see vividly the reality in this piece. To give a glimpse, the message in this piece just like any message is deeper than it sounds. Until we seek and connect deeply to it, we won't get it right. Just come here to say a heart full thank you to Mr Conor. You rock 🙏🏼
@bobmatson72683 жыл бұрын
I'm 68 now and I have always been entertaining, funny and informative thanks to watching every Seinfeld episode. Being born hyperactive helps. My mom used to say she has two sons, one has diarrhea of the mouth and the other one is constipated. Guess which one I am. I'm also a psychologist since '78 and used hypnosis in my practice since 2000. My huge family has always asked me why I'm so happy all the time and I tell them I just look at you guys and do the opposite.
@TizedesCsaba5 жыл бұрын
Great trick, he speak about how to start a speech, but he really never started, just talked about it.
@nomars48275 жыл бұрын
If you watch some great TED Talks, they are doing the same way.
@russellgrant15355 жыл бұрын
Eugene Kalinichenko never have truer words been spoken.
@brendanwolf5 жыл бұрын
It's a corporate sales talk for Tango - not meant to give a speech, just motivate its salespeople.
@ИльяОськин-м7ф4 жыл бұрын
you're right... Try this to wow your audience before you start: kzbin.info/www/bejne/iIm8noBji7abj6s
@qbrazzley4 жыл бұрын
ok so it wasnt just me trying to figure out if he actually said it?
@patroklillo4 жыл бұрын
It was a privilege to have Conor as a Corporate Communications professor at IESE, so much value added advice in every lecture!
@kurpable2 ай бұрын
Valuable observations. I assume this has been noted allready, but it has been estimated a total 117 billion people have ever lived, currently living counted in. So the vast majority is dead silent. A good teacher allways makes a mistake because it is almost impossible to resist the urge to be one who has it right.
@Scoobydubai11 жыл бұрын
I worked with a man close to 20 years. He is a special man. An Irishman. A kind, sincere and ethical man. He took a 20 million dollar annual business to 1.5 billion dollars annually, within 30 years of its operation. He has the knack of making people listen and for telling true stories in an utterly captivating and convincing manner that his 6,000 strong employees rally behind him and the company's every objective. How did he achieve all that? Together with many other disciplines and actions, he also utilizes the 3 possible ways in making a speech that Conor Neil mentions in this talk. Of-course this man was way ahead of Conor and possessed this skill inherently. Yet the fact is - Niel's theories are absolutely spot-on and have produced phenomenal results when followed. Well done Neil.
@krell21305 жыл бұрын
Cool story, bro
@TuringMachine0015 жыл бұрын
Who else came here to see how *HE* would start *HIS* speech?
@mikesmith76205 жыл бұрын
That's what I do to see how people are confident when they talk, etc.
@6789uiop5 жыл бұрын
2:37 wasted time
@ritageraghty44045 жыл бұрын
Me here. I lack confidence to speak to an audience. I can't even confidently speak on mic for my own videos. 🙁
@ritageraghty44045 жыл бұрын
mike smith, likewise here.
@hiltonjacobs89105 жыл бұрын
This speaker looks nondescript. His speech is boring. He irritates me.
@gabrielvillanueva61875 жыл бұрын
Very interesting to see agent coulson giving out suggestions on how to give out a speech.
@no_its_kiki3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@msumitn Жыл бұрын
Watched this video long time ago which changed my way of connecting with people. And now when I watch this video again, iam sure and certain that will improve my ways of communication. Still learning from this even watching repeatedly.
@abdullahsh32215 жыл бұрын
Start a speech on something you believe in. Don’t let the audience to feel that your present is because you want to sell something. If you really believe in something, let others to feel the same way. ( emotion) is reachable. Thanks from Saudi Arabia.
@harrymack56105 жыл бұрын
"Dont let the audience TO FEEL THAT YOUR PRESENT is because" ...huh try again
@sanjayrajanshrestha675 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/o6XIXqlsgrlrgdE
@Ampliz5 жыл бұрын
I just started my podcast: Let me know if your are interested to take part in it. kzbin.info/www/bejne/bZWQfIGjh6qMf68
@farshimelt3 жыл бұрын
@@harrymack5610 I would like to hear you say that in a language that wasn't your native tongue.
@successtoday897 Жыл бұрын
The video beautifully emphasizes the power of storytelling in public speaking. The speaker's approach to capturing audience attention through relatable anecdotes is both insightful and engaging. It highlights the importance of connecting on a personal level to build trust and interest. Overall, a valuable lesson in effective communication!
@tudore_jams5 жыл бұрын
Three ways to start a speech (connecting with the audience), summarised: 1. "Once upon a time..." 2. *shocking factoid* 3. "We know someone in common."
@shauryagolf5 жыл бұрын
Haha..epic summary :)
@surrealsm1234 жыл бұрын
Actually #3 is coming up with a personal story and then making it relatable. The Knowing someone in common part was just a side anecdote when networking. Not for how to start a speech..
@cheetahobx3 жыл бұрын
Or....the line I used to use to pick up girls......."I know you....we went to different schools together..."..........
@jenf73093 жыл бұрын
@@surrealsm123 and #1 was ask a question that matters and #3 was tell stories that connect you to the people
@weijao95983 жыл бұрын
Hi !!
@spaccotutto8359 Жыл бұрын
00:00 Starting a speech and engaging the audience 01:08 Tips for Effective Speeches 02:09 Tips for successful networking 03:10 Factoids can shock and change perception 04:32 Starting a speech like a story to a child 05:37 Effective storytelling in business 06:39 Effective speaking involves connecting through personal stories 07:51 Stories are about people, not objects or things.
@abusalih85665 жыл бұрын
Every 1 Minute , 60 seconds pass in Africa. Facts
@blufrog95465 жыл бұрын
This floor is made out of floor
@Anti-leftist77775 жыл бұрын
I had no idea Africa and the U.S. has so much in common. Thanks for the info.
@9ZenMedia5 жыл бұрын
As an African myself I am very pleased to see the youths of KZbin getting the word out about global issues like this. Cheers.
@climatechangedoesntbargain91405 жыл бұрын
this is actually wrong due to the law of relativity
@abusalih85665 жыл бұрын
@@climatechangedoesntbargain9140 relativity depends on the velocity of an Objekt and gravity. Since we are in the same Planet it is petty much accurate as far as i know
@bobbycorwen5 жыл бұрын
how NOT to start a speech: "how are yall doin this morning?!" i cant HEAR YOU!!! "HOW ARE YALL DOIN THIS MORNING!?!??!" *walks out of room*
@ColtSSR5 жыл бұрын
Pinipepper
@NJ-wb1cz5 жыл бұрын
Works for Trump so I dunno
@WilliamClauss5 жыл бұрын
Followed by: "...aaaaawwww c'mon! You can do better than that! I said... HOW Y'ALL DOING THIS MORNING?!: [[yuck]]
@sb-jo2ch5 жыл бұрын
GOOD MORNING, VIETNAM!
@mohdaathifaddli2705 жыл бұрын
damn, i was singing spongebob
@francismausley72395 жыл бұрын
Good points... "Encourage ye the school children, from their earliest years, to deliver speeches of high quality, so that in their leisure time they will engage in giving cogent and effective talks, expressing themselves with clarity and eloquence." ~ Baha'i Faith
@wang5008 Жыл бұрын
Bob , baha ulla la
@dovednkem438Ай бұрын
Anyone here in 2025
@SadabTM20 күн бұрын
@@dovednkem438 yes sir
@johssebas15 күн бұрын
@@dovednkem438 no 2023 here
@reubenjensen24336 күн бұрын
@@dovednkem438 Roger that
@mydogskips25 жыл бұрын
Don't give out incorrect "facts," that's also a good place to start.
@SixPieceSuits2 ай бұрын
@@mydogskips2 giving incorrect facts that aren't relevant to the main topic is a great way to farm engagement. A lot of engagement farming posts will also include one noteworthy typo or grammatical error in the title. People clamor to fix the error, and it feeds the algorithm.
@abeautifulmindispoetrydefi53235 жыл бұрын
Excellent. I am a storyteller, and you hit the nail on the head. Well done, and thank you for sharing this with the rest of the World. My time is yet to come, but when it does it will remember me for being the Story Teller.
@footballsfirst13 жыл бұрын
You can't go wrong with "BLOOD ALONE MOVES THE WHEELS OF HISTORY!"
@ora.de.aur93 жыл бұрын
*POUNDS THE PODIUM*
@arkadeepchakraborty9665 Жыл бұрын
I have taken many spoken English classes and never got benefitted from those, today I find you for this first time and i am feeling excited to start this discipline, thank you from Kolkata India
@ConorNeill Жыл бұрын
Wonderful!
@journeythroughtherails52944 жыл бұрын
I walked into my teacher’s classroom and saw her watching this.. she closed the tab right away and pushed it off the table-
@boejiden.114 жыл бұрын
Lol k
@juliettem134 жыл бұрын
R/thathappened
@journeythroughtherails52944 жыл бұрын
you’re my dad boogie woogie woogie Im dead ass- why assume Im lying for no reason-
@juliettem134 жыл бұрын
TheoneonlyRobloxian you’re getting quite defensive. Why do you care what a stranger thinks of your story?
@journeythroughtherails52944 жыл бұрын
you’re my dad boogie woogie woogie idk lmao, but it did happen XD
@pro3692 жыл бұрын
A real masterpiece talk. I am an English teacher, I ve learned a lot from you sir, I ve grown with many of your lectures. Fantastic
@hspatel17992 жыл бұрын
Amazing point about starting with a narrative structure. You have finally articulated to me, what made some of my presentations great, the ones I received compliments from, and the ones, I wish I never did.
@StopWarring Жыл бұрын
I happened to be strolling one Saturday morning thru my usual jaunts through the vistas of the YT land. And suddenly, out of nowhere the algos kicked in and presented me with one of the most gems and communitcator I have seen. Thank you!
@ConorNeill Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@colinpoole76533 жыл бұрын
A good speech needs a good start, a good ending and the two as close together as possible.
@ConorNeill3 жыл бұрын
Haha good one
@Activeworker5 жыл бұрын
Hello and greetings from Paris ! I saw this 7 years ago and it is still so great ! Happy speech to all !
@bitti19756 жыл бұрын
First two sentences in Arthur C. Clark's 2001: A Space Oddyssey: "Behind every man now alive stand thirty ghosts, for that is the ratio by which the dead outnumber the living. Since the dawn of time, roughly a hundred billion human beings have walked the planet Earth." There you have it, you can actually do an introduction with an interesting fact without lying (at that time in 1968, the ratio is probably lower now).
@SyedHasan-c8m2 ай бұрын
I have watched this video a 100 times; never gets old. The matter, the manner, the man !!
@ConorNeill2 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@666EuthanasiA6665 жыл бұрын
"once upon a time" so that's why I remember 90% from my history lessons because my teacher always start with this phrase!
@WayTruthLife21005 жыл бұрын
How could this have possibly received over 5k thumbs down? This is quite possibly THE BEST KZbin video I have EVER watched! Thank you, Conor. I have learned much from you. This has most definitely boosted my confidence. I look forward to seeing more from you-I hope I can find some more out on the net! Or a book? Cheers!
@anthonygurizzian1878 Жыл бұрын
Great video, but I don’t know where the hell he got that factoid from…117 billion > 8 billion
@selvinlouw5 ай бұрын
@@anthonygurizzian1878 I think he meant alive at the same time
@mauriciogarcia21884 ай бұрын
Facts don't matter
@defthammerdoomd53474 ай бұрын
It would be interesting to know what he meant to say. But misleading your audience is not some I would condone
@caseydriscoll53312 ай бұрын
@@defthammerdoomd5347and “I think he meant to say” is not evidence of an excellent speaker with a great opener. I was kind of shocked when first mentioned that “factoid”. Ironically enough factoid means false fact, not small interesting fact.
@mangopopjuice5 күн бұрын
So it was a factoid then. He was right all along. Such cunning.
@tyanadgg29974 ай бұрын
I am 19, and i know i am a speaker, i love speaking to an audience, and i want to get better at this skill. Thank you for conor neill
@df44803 жыл бұрын
Me: “ Hello my name is Joe, I like to close my eyes when I talk to a group” Group: “ we like to fall asleep when you speak “
@Ajbomber14 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the tips! I've been using the opener "there are more people alive today than have ever died" to start off my Engineering lectures. It was interesting the first time, but the students were tired of it after the 2nd and 3rd time.
@ExpatFinancialPlanner Жыл бұрын
I wouldn't bother as it's not true - not even close...
@RobJFalcon Жыл бұрын
@@ExpatFinancialPlanner yup, came here to say that.
@phorner1983 Жыл бұрын
Not beats a fact better than a completely false one
@MrMcCawber6 жыл бұрын
One point missed here - and I'm afraid sadly demonstrated - is not to fall so in love with the sound of your own voice that a speech takes three times as long as necessary.
@cheetahobx3 жыл бұрын
What????? I'm sorry....I had my earbuds in....
@JoeK-r3f16 күн бұрын
Conor your advice is timeless. I don’t care what technology is bothering folks, your words spring eternal
@javbecroj5 жыл бұрын
It makes absolute sense. In Spanish, we call it "chisme", probably the most efficient way to engage people.
@cheetahobx3 жыл бұрын
"we".....you got a mouse in your pocket?
@Gnome55553 жыл бұрын
@@cheetahobx we, Spanish people
@a.i93023 жыл бұрын
He said in Spanish not in Spain
@lh12183 жыл бұрын
I didn’t know Todd Packer was such a good public speaker.
@weijao95983 жыл бұрын
Is that a gun on my playlist?
@PrimalVideo6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this!
@labakanurzidil2464 Жыл бұрын
everyone likes to vomit his biggest toxic waste on other people (so he also likes when they throw it back to him? which is called responsibility ...), maliciousness is the only joy in life, isnt it? or the reason why i always thought that emotions are rather toxic and hostile, because they are? or do you find attacks and aggression (from other people) good and you like them? so there is no reason to return them to people?
@Wtrudel Жыл бұрын
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:00 🎤 *Speech Start Strategies* - Emphasizes ineffective speech beginnings commonly used. - Urges to avoid generic introductions and signals boredom to the audience. - Discusses the importance of engaging openings through questions, stories, or shocking facts. 02:45 🌐 *Networking Techniques* - Highlights strategies for effective networking. - Emphasizes utilizing common connections and leveraging platforms like LinkedIn for better interactions. - Discusses engaging approaches to initiate conversations at networking events. 04:08 🧠 *Impactful Speech Initiation* - Discusses the effectiveness of starting speeches with questions or shocking factoids. - Stresses the importance of credibility and validating information sources for audience trust. - Encourages the utilization of compelling stories akin to storytelling to begin speeches effectively. 05:34 📚 *Adult Storytelling Dynamics* - Contrasts childlike storytelling with adult communication. - Highlights the difference in storytelling for adults, focusing on engagement and relevance. - Emphasizes connecting personal experiences to business topics for engaging storytelling. 07:17 💡 *Connecting through Stories* - Discusses the impact of personal stories in connecting with an audience. - Emphasizes linking personal experiences to the importance of a topic. - Encourages storytelling focused on people and their experiences rather than objects or concepts. Made with HARPA AI
@scott57475 жыл бұрын
When shooting a tiger walking speaker, it is smoother and easier on the viewer to have a slightly wider shot, i.e., medium. That way, the camera can keep up with the speaker with less jumps or quick pans.
@cjjuddaustralianartist5 жыл бұрын
My cat jumped on my lap and curled herself down nice and comfortable. I guess I'm now pinned down to watch KZbin for a while.
@louisa36135 жыл бұрын
instant respect
@Pilsbury800810 жыл бұрын
Connor, I have seen many speeches and completed many training programs, your tips here are amongst the best I have heard. Simple, concise and reasoned! Thank you..
@grants19542 ай бұрын
I just stumbled across this. Funny how the universe tosses things up. I have spent a great deal of my life, public speaking, or personally speaking. Had I seen this video a number of years ago, it may have altered my life. But I wasn't there, and neither were you at that time. This is a remarkable video! This gentleman, I believe, is simply living as passion, and presents an extraordinary message in communications.❤
@menyasavut39595 жыл бұрын
How to start a speech: "Thank you, chairman, for the introduction." :-D
@cyphosmusicx5 жыл бұрын
it doesn't matter what you watch or who you're subscribed to, you will eventually get this video in your recommended
@e.c.67075 жыл бұрын
I start my speeches by asking “What.....does Marcellus Wallace.....look like?”
@arhamsaa5 жыл бұрын
Marsellus*
@rickstard735 жыл бұрын
He looks like a B I A T C H ! ! !
@gmailalan5 жыл бұрын
What?
@kadekarstens40415 жыл бұрын
Whwwwwwhhat?
@PM20225 жыл бұрын
@@ronaldrichardson178 Watch the movie Pulp Fiction.
@synkoeditz Жыл бұрын
1. Don't say what they already know 2. Start with a question that matters to the audience third best way to start a speech 3. Start with a fact that is shocking or surprising the second best way to start a speech a fact that shocks the audience into rethinking 4. The best way to start a speech is say something that will have the audience engage/get ready to listen (uses once upon a time as an example) (say something that'll make them wanna know what you're gonna say next)
@dokushintanuki4013 жыл бұрын
when my kids heard the word 'Blackberry', they thought I was watching some cooking videos.
@maxattwood60132 жыл бұрын
109 billion people are estimated to have died since the dawn of humanity.
@ThomasPalacio10 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this information
@devanshagarwal397110 ай бұрын
You got me into your speech dude
@devanshagarwal397110 ай бұрын
You got me into your speech dude
@66630004 ай бұрын
Yea I don't know why he said that...
@levi89714 ай бұрын
@@fxmz8396if you listen to what he says ''starting with a factoid that shocks'' now search the definition of factoid and you'll feel a lot less disgusted by him
@Goodly5 жыл бұрын
He's making a speech on speeches. I need to make a speech on him making a speech about speeches
@ReusStyle5 жыл бұрын
Well maybe I'll make a speech on you making speech on him making speech about speeches.
@michaelganovski70775 жыл бұрын
He’s teaching. What’s wrong with that?
@djaii3285 жыл бұрын
When you do that, can you please point out that his 'factoid' about living vs. dead is factually incorrect? www.snopes.com/fact-check/recount-your-dead/ Thanks.
@payableinsilver5 жыл бұрын
I have to give a speech. I just wanted the first thing to say
@curiouscollectiblesAU5 жыл бұрын
@@ReusStyle well maybe i'll make a speech on you about making a speech about Goodly making a speech about this guy making a speech about speeches.
@sunnisukumar Жыл бұрын
I enjoyed both the ideas he presented and how he presented them. Since he's talking about how to be more engaging, just watching how he does it is itself great.
@ronniegillaspy Жыл бұрын
Great topics on how to start and engage your audience. I also, as a teacher/coach for 13 years, now in sales for 15 plus years, like to throw in a little humor during my talk time. It helps to keep whoever you are talking to engaged. It’s real easy to see cues that you are losing them. Especially in a sales pitch. At that point, you’ve lost them and maybe the sale. Be quick, concise with points, get them engaged and asking questions.
@haesoolee64488 жыл бұрын
I'm 15 yrs old and I've been searching and watching tips about speeches and anything related about it. I'm gonna be speaking to the whole junior high department..a candidacy speech...I really want to win..This vid helped me a lot.. but a bit nervous because days are dropping, it will be next week, God bless to me 🙏🙏🙏
@sergioscudieri35858 жыл бұрын
Put it exactly how Conor tells us; Start the speech not with "My name is...and I want to....," but rather, with some anecdote that may reach the department on a different level. Everyone loves a story that relates why exactly you want to do something. For example, in your case, you want to hold a certain position. Was there ever a moment in your life where you realized that you wanted to demonstrate the qualities this position requires? If there was (and if you really want to win, I'm sure there was), illustrate that moment to the department in such a way that it becomes a story. You will have the position undoubtedly. I recommend watching Conor's speeches, TED talks, and Charisma on Command as these are channels I still refer to today. Remember, you can always learn more on public speaking.
@WaldenSpawn6 жыл бұрын
How did it go?
@johnrainmcmanus63196 жыл бұрын
Kid, your speech went off a year ago. Hope you didn't listen to this guy and that it went well.
@hattrickster336 жыл бұрын
Maybe it went horribly wrong and he doesn't want to talk about it 😕
@alan4sure6 жыл бұрын
It went so badly, he gave up youtube...
@ArabXian5 жыл бұрын
IF I WAS IN THE CROWD I'D STRANGLE THE GUY FOR DRAWING OUT THIS ONE MINUTE SPEECH TO NINE MINUTES.
@abay74565 жыл бұрын
It's about creating that impact. He gave good examples at the start of the mistakes that are the most common to engage with the audience. He isn't delivering this to one individual. Our attention span is so less than we get impatient and can't wait for 10 mins lol
@wellofbeersheba5 жыл бұрын
And you would be really boring. Why are you shouting anyway?
@velocitymg5 жыл бұрын
But you still listened for nine minutes
@samuelz53432 ай бұрын
Personally, I find the best way to start a speech is a confident “Hey, hey, hey” in a sing-song cadence to kick it off. Follow it up with a bloodcurdling “BITCONNEEEEEEEEEECT” and the audience is in the palm of your hand.
@saudabdulaziz53758 жыл бұрын
damn this guy is so good that he got me to watch the whole thing
@terribletallrus65208 жыл бұрын
True
@TheRudyrox8 жыл бұрын
i know, hes fabulous
@saucin29907 жыл бұрын
Saud Abdulaziz, same even tho i wanted to change it i didnt.
@tedhaas84407 жыл бұрын
I'm still waiting for the funny... Wait, what?
@kwartokemistry66117 жыл бұрын
me too
@lukasorlingis59315 жыл бұрын
You know that he is a professional speaker when you don't hear him say "uuuuh" "ummmm" "so yeah"
@kaz_504 ай бұрын
Actually he said it 2:55 but then he caught himself and continued on with what he was going to say
@lancesmith46605 жыл бұрын
I start my speeches with humor. Humor builds rapport and helps establish comfort.
@verma89955 жыл бұрын
ब्लूटूथ पर भाषण दर्ज करने का तरीका बताने की कृपा करें
@5yara5 жыл бұрын
Smitty Lance can u give me an example please?
@lancesmith46605 жыл бұрын
@@5yara Start your speech off light with some type of joke to get the crowd engaged. I typically use my wit in reference to anything.
@farshimelt3 жыл бұрын
That works as long as the majority find it funny.
@اغيديوسف-ه5و9 ай бұрын
Thanks Connor, I follow you from Syria. I love watching all your posts to learn from them. Thank you for what you provide for us.
@DrRodox.5 жыл бұрын
The best way to start a speech is: "Im gonna say some things and will not repeat them. By the end of it, im gonna make a question, winner takes it all."
@mirelapetsani66324 жыл бұрын
exellent
@nickstoker11765 жыл бұрын
I love how the start of the speech is cut from the video
@Kevin-sr8yx6 ай бұрын
“This will be on the final exam…”
@Udjeox13 күн бұрын
He's good. He withheld the most important fact till the end. It's been 7 minutes and he hasn’t revealed it.
@dr.surinderkumarmd43516 жыл бұрын
the best speech is when you speak the truth and your heart. making stories can attract people momentarily but not impress them .....
@MarkSass6 жыл бұрын
I would argue with that. Take a look at the advertising industry (and hollywood) - they wouldn't use stories if they wouldn't sell. The human brain is wired for stories. Stories stick in our heads far longer than facts and figures and they drive behaviour. If that wouldn't be the case all those billions and billions of advertising dollars would be wasted.
@anmirfan64473 ай бұрын
@@MarkSassI think the truth is stories attract the audience engage them so u can better perepare them to listen closely , I mean it will boost any further emotions conveyed, I mean u could make a joke , tell a story in the beginning but in the end u have to give a life lesson. It’s like the entire purpose was to prepare for that inspirational effect u so wanted
@jonathanaugustin6475 жыл бұрын
"I think we know someone in common" "How do you know?"
@daninbox5 жыл бұрын
I watched John Neil's seminar on How to Start a Speech and saw that you were one of the commenters.
@PM20225 жыл бұрын
My reaction would be: U-oh, there comes trouble. "I have to go get a drink now."
@archdynamics5 жыл бұрын
The six Cardinal Filler Sins of speaking: "Well, er, um, it's like, ya know, okay?" The minute ANY of these words come out of a speaker's mouth as a time filler, you know he is either unprepared or does not know his subject material properly. Even worse is using them in any sequential combination. Never use "OKAY?" at the end of a sentence. When you do so, you are, in effect, asking for the listener's permission to have made said previous statement. If you issue a command or make a declarative statement and then say "Okay?" at the end, that statement has lost all power. Compare these two statements: Mom: "You WILL not be late for school this morning," vs: Mom: "You WILL not be late for school this morning, okay?" While you may think Mom is asking if you understand, the reality is that she comes across as uncertain, or that she's making sure you understood her. The first statement makes it clear that this is a command and is NOT negotiable. The second is a command UNTIL Mom weakens her authority by now asking the child's permission to issue said command. If you want to ensure that the command has been understood, instead say: Mom: "You will NOT be late for school this morning. Is that understood?" or: Mom: "You will NOT be late for school this morning. Is that clear?" So, NEVER say "okay" after you make a strong statement. Ever. Finally: Watch the uptalking. It's hard to hear it in yourself, so it's a bit devious in that regard. It makes every statement into a question. You lose all power and credibility. Watch any TV news show and even professional anchors and reporters are succumbing this now. Even 40-year old professionals sound like 12-year old Valley Girls. It's hard to notice in yourself, but it's easy to hear in others. Run through a few of the Professional Speaker videos and see if the above is true. If you want to hear powerful, direct, no-nonsense, speaking check out people like Tony Robbins.
@marudhu199 Жыл бұрын
On 07/08/2023 at 9.25 PM, I watched this video for the first time. It is one of the best informative video.
@shayna25626 ай бұрын
anyone here in 2024?
@Soccer_TikTok6 ай бұрын
me
@LITERATUREPODCAST5 ай бұрын
@@shayna2562 s
@ralphnuval51085 ай бұрын
Me !
@mannumanral77215 ай бұрын
Me, watching for extempore competition. One day before competition
@stevenmaluleka79785 ай бұрын
Yh
@bruderjr Жыл бұрын
Besides a very interesting and captivating topic, I never once heard you say "um". A quiet pause is far better than filling the silence with "um". It drives me crazy having to listen to a speech where the speaker "ums" his way to the end. Conor, you are "good". This is a very interesting video. Thank you.
@DorianM5 жыл бұрын
I'm listening to this while checking my work blackberry
@furkankose.165 жыл бұрын
i am still waiting for what was that important thing he said
@RichardRingo15 жыл бұрын
Me too.
@guyteigh33755 жыл бұрын
I thought it was just me that had perhaps subconsciously switched off. I kept "re-winding" and thought I must be missing something. I get the idea of a "personal connection" - but a punchy example would have been useful instead of just droning on.
@howardkoor27965 жыл бұрын
MetilOranj he will send you a message from his Blackberry
@vijaysiwach5 жыл бұрын
@@howardkoor2796 hahahaha
@sanjayrajanshrestha92495 жыл бұрын
Research proposal with English subtitle kzbin.info/www/bejne/nWS4paaQjKtsrc0