Join the conversation on Twitter/Instagram: @jockowillink @echocharles Excerpt from JOCKOPODCAST 157
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@TheCoffeeNut7115 жыл бұрын
Sigh, there was no male figure like this in my life.
@mantexas90335 жыл бұрын
The Coffee Nut then go find some.
@vars2802875 жыл бұрын
Same, I wish I had a mentor like Jocko growing up. Would be a better man today.
@taliesinhalliday5 жыл бұрын
most men now have no role models in real life. we just have to stumble through and hope for the best.
@chaddad12365 жыл бұрын
I didn't know men like this existed. Now trying to model myself after him and a couple others so my son doesn't have to say the same thing.
@Ninthsignmusic5 жыл бұрын
Varun It’s never too late to be a better man.
@Yukon12gauge00buck5 жыл бұрын
Had to watch this again as I lost my shit today. Temper = regret . Got to hit the pause button and detach.
@coops36005 жыл бұрын
Does Echo have tattoos of muscle fibers?
@riley13695 жыл бұрын
Nishe Siel yep! Check his insta
@treelee26024 жыл бұрын
He's a titan
@dinninfreeman20143 жыл бұрын
Nope that's just how muscular he is
@garybusy61023 жыл бұрын
No, it's a tattoo he has on his arms. I bet he gets a kick out of this when people comment.
@StevenAllotey3 жыл бұрын
Nope the markings just appear when you get to a certain level of swole
@DJHastingsFeverPitch4 жыл бұрын
Interesting. This idea of normal face is very similar to how you deal with most people with personality disorder traits. It's called the gray rock method: You appear as uninteresting as a gray rock so then they go away and feel like messing with someone else instead.
@noble20xx565 жыл бұрын
I practice this each day. Trying not to let things that ultimately don't matter get the better of me. Anything from work to games.
@mikeperez85 жыл бұрын
It’s so sad. Nearly everything Jocko talks about is considered by the APA as “toxic masculinity”. I hope the next generation does a sharp course correction.
@EM-fg3hm5 жыл бұрын
I agree. We need strong male role models right now. The tide is turning slowly but it depends on the maturity of both men and women. There seem to be more and more younger women coming out that are over this 4th wave fem b.s and hopefully the men that have allowed themselves to become vegetable lasagna's will get their stagnant energy moving and stick up for themselves! Strong masculine energy is not toxic - it has the power to destroy what is toxic!
@rolfb63524 жыл бұрын
@@2DGorillaz192000 and you think Jocko is toxic? He is a perfect example of what it is to be a real man. We need real masculine roles not toxic masculinity
@rowdy74804 жыл бұрын
It will... to the other extreme... back & forth
@supersongi4 жыл бұрын
What..? Are you agreeing with him or disagreeing? You sound like a hater tho.. and I will just consider you invalid.
@mikeperez84 жыл бұрын
supersongi and you sound like whiny little fruit cake. I said it’s “SAD” that what he talks about is considered “toxic masculinity”. That’s not my opinion. That is according to the APA. I strongly disagree with the APA & am saying that I hope the “next generation makes a sharp course correction”. 😎👍🏼 thanks for playing.
@xekret5 жыл бұрын
Stoicism at its finest.
@earlgrey21304 жыл бұрын
In cognitive behavioural therapy there is an interesting model where you learn that the only way to control your emotions (and the resulting behaviour) is by being mindful of your thoughts. A lot of the internal chatter that goes on all day is bullshit if you really pay attention. A lot of it is internalized voices of other people, fears, doubts, ideology or things you've come to believe that don't withstand critical analysis. But if you aren't mindful, you just go with it and that stream of bullshit carries you through life, decides how you feel and how you behave. I'd argue that one of the most direct ways to control your emotions is a daily practice of meditation (or some other form of mindfulnes).
@bobbob-sv4mk3 жыл бұрын
Excellent
@joshuarasmussen6412 жыл бұрын
Awesome, needed this. Thank you
@catsaresocute6502 жыл бұрын
The privilege in saying that is real
@FutureExitsMedia2 жыл бұрын
Excellent points here; I started to meditate every morning a couple years back and the difference it makes in what kind of day you have and how you react to things, especially stressors, is massive.
@ilikeknafs95638 ай бұрын
Bravo ,I didn’t even watch the video because your comment explained everything so well I feel like I have information I need
@wafflew22325 жыл бұрын
You are are a life saver jocko, Joe rogan brought you up again tonight. You are such a inspiration. Thank you ! Thank you
@billjordan55075 жыл бұрын
Judicious use of your anger is spot on. If you pull it out when you really mean it, it is FAR more effective. This, I find, is also true of the use of the "F-Bomb".....Somehow, it has become the universal adjective. In today's society, it has become akin to saying "like" or "ya know".... If it is saved for when you really need to make a point.....it then carries more power. IMHO
@charlotteice57045 жыл бұрын
That reminds me of currency bacause the more exists of it the less it's worth. As you said, same for F-Bombs.
@wildtwindad5 жыл бұрын
Ghengis khan was taught to keep a blank expression by submerging himself upto his neck in a glacial stream. His was defined as cold face. It is essential to thriving in today's world.
@TheCoffeeNut7115 жыл бұрын
You couldn't have used someone who didn't slaughter so many people?
@veritasabsoluta42855 жыл бұрын
Where is your evidence for this?
@cptromero55954 жыл бұрын
@@TheCoffeeNut711 drugs
@mortisdolus33563 жыл бұрын
@@TheCoffeeNut711 it's not about slaughtering people. It's about the prosperity his empire brought millions of others. It's about how he was willing to risk death and risk killing for his people. That's why we venerate warriors. like Genghis khan, Alexander, S.C Bose,. JOCKO.
@vince11harris3 жыл бұрын
@@mortisdolus3356 I mean Genghis was a pyshotic nut case tho so maybe not the best example
@DEATH_TO_TYRANTS5 жыл бұрын
Now I'm craving prime rib.
@IsaacIKE3 жыл бұрын
lol
@UnknownPlayer-eg4tc4 жыл бұрын
Emotional ppl are generally weak.
@reyhdez52445 жыл бұрын
Jocko willink what a beautiful personality I'm glad that ur military have such a classy people in their ranks thumbs up all day long to echoJ@(KO$$$$$100% ENCOURAGE
@tomislavveg5 жыл бұрын
I'm watching this, my wife just walked in, saw Jocko and she asked: "Matt Damon?".
@murdered3505 жыл бұрын
Hope you corrected her with the sharpest of knife hands
@skratch19375 жыл бұрын
@@murdered350 or the inside roll of paper towells
@sni11445 жыл бұрын
Maaaaat Daaaaaamon
@jessegonzalez70355 жыл бұрын
Divorce her
@Wemyss4205 жыл бұрын
@@sni1144 lool
@jdothman85755 жыл бұрын
Jocko playing the game of faces! A man knows
@mozes425 жыл бұрын
“I know it sounds like you should call CPS on me......but I bet you won’t”
@Tux7.625 жыл бұрын
Is it me or does echo get bigger every video?
@Scotsdave5 жыл бұрын
Geranan everything except his knees
@Tux7.625 жыл бұрын
@@Scotsdave Hahahahaha!! Nice one!
@billmcyrus5 жыл бұрын
Gotta be the Molk.
@thestraydog4 жыл бұрын
I was in the Young Marines program when I was 13-17, and I remember something called "The Attention Game". We would stand in formation, at attention, while our DI's would attempt to make us break. If you broke, you PT'd until the last guy lost. I was always in the last third who did, but there was one guy who was a total statue that would have us pushing until we almost DIED.
@c431inf5 жыл бұрын
Its hard to show emotion sometimes after to many deployments and getting de sensitized to everything , it can make life more difficult
@highconfessornicodemus16135 жыл бұрын
Christ is the greatest example of Extreme ownership. Proverbs 25.28 A man without self-control is like a city broken into and left without walls. 2 Timothy 1.7 For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.
@krisitak5 жыл бұрын
(puke)
@unstablemind42065 жыл бұрын
Lmao.
@mandolore_the_glorious70495 жыл бұрын
I would agree with you. Y all can laugh and puke all you want. Don t expect every one yo agree with you
@mantexas90335 жыл бұрын
Who do you say that I am? You are the Christ.
@aaronanderson76195 жыл бұрын
Here comes the sky wizard stories.
@79Bunta4 жыл бұрын
If only Anakin could have heard this lol
@Dragon-ul8fv4 жыл бұрын
Damn bro, you can see the striations of muscle off of Echo's arm, what is he, like 3% body fat...
@TurnOntheBrightLights.4 жыл бұрын
That's a tattoo of muscle fibers.
@garybusy61023 жыл бұрын
Yeah, he got them not too long ago, he did one arm first then started the other arm. Some of the older videos you could see one arm and the other nothing.
@gelacy5 жыл бұрын
18 people can't keep a normal face...
@ricchburglar3 жыл бұрын
Now it's 55.
@Anarchizer4 жыл бұрын
My emotions are too strong. I tried to control it even in the military. Although I made some progress I still find myself saying weird shit and I prefer to be silent, but when I start to speak its faster and faster. It's weird.
@aryyahuwilliams70685 жыл бұрын
This is an area I need to work on in my life.
@aphysique5 жыл бұрын
I think we all can use a lil of this advice!
@erichalverson.832 жыл бұрын
I really had serious difficulty controlling my emotions earlier today. I felt victimized, hurt, betrayed. Pain. Anger. That said, things went well. No I did not turn physically violent, I mean I am 40 years old. But at the same time feeling victimized is no joke. Tired of this western world man shaming.
@silascochran97054 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your service and your sacrifice, brother. I know you can swim with the best of them. That's the last man in the room. I would piss off. And I think I'm a tough guy. Hahaha
@YLracego3 жыл бұрын
Interesting fact: topic related to control emotions got less views comparing to other videos from Jocko.
@technic12853 жыл бұрын
Everyone else has their emotions under control, obviously. We're the only ones that need work.
@justinfreeman46144 жыл бұрын
04:10. Boss told me I was getting assigned to lead 2x of the lowest performing teams. She was wrong.
@cammeysigfridson76092 жыл бұрын
I told my 9 year old about this game and she thinks it sounds great lol
@cesarmello15384 жыл бұрын
Hello Mr. Jocko, do you mind putting English subtitles on your videos? I can explain, here in Brazil few people speak English and there are still less fluent people to watch their excellent videos. If you agree, I can put subtitles on your videos, but I really don't know how to edit your videos to accomplish this task. If you put at least English subtitles, you could get a large following. graciously Cesar Mello
@avinsiniara65764 жыл бұрын
I would recommend just taking up the task of sending email to his work email
@sapprdaddy4 жыл бұрын
Excellent explanation of real world psychological scenarios that encourage strength in the face of adversity.
@aphysique5 жыл бұрын
I'm HANGRY NOW, BECAUSE OF THIS DIALOGUE ON Prime Rib, damnit man!
@KathleenMcKay4 жыл бұрын
ha I loved beating my kids up this way Jocko ;) Don't worry peeps, they all used to beat the shit outta me! Loads of fun, fits and giggles. Thanks JW and EC xx
@tedscarborough34455 жыл бұрын
Endurance is not just the ability to bear a hard thing, but to turn it into glory--William Barclay
@hopelesspandora41954 жыл бұрын
I have trouble showing emotions or having any positive ones.. through hardships, I conditioned myself to place them second; but i'm not surviving anymore. I've been told I can be either a positive or negative leader from a very young age, and my purpose is to be exemplary, an immovable pillar for my brothers to rely on. All of my relationships are founded on my efficiency, and I am happy to make myself appreciated through my actions more than my personality, but would there be a way for me to recover from a past that I built myself from? Something that I can do alone.. trustworthy people to hang with is fine and all, but they're just not around yet
@Kya_._Papaya4 ай бұрын
Even when the prime rib is overcooked and bland, look at your wife and scream in happiness, "YESSSS!!!" ;)
@bagpipe19795 жыл бұрын
I'm calling DFS and we are ll coming over to play that awesome game. lol. good fun I understand.
@HeyitsJose5 жыл бұрын
Gonna show this to my wife tonight.
@sinemetu90375 жыл бұрын
Many, but not all reactive emotions are ego driven.
@slipknotskater345 жыл бұрын
Echo looking JAAAAACKED!!!!
@DavidCoshatt3 ай бұрын
When you have lack of rest you find out whos what lol.😢😢😢😅😂
@FPSMEGADETH117 Жыл бұрын
I heard Jocko is second cousins with Chuck Norris. Hahaha
@rossamania095 жыл бұрын
What’s the status of “Psychological Warfare 2”? Thank you.
@UnknownPlayer-eg4tc4 жыл бұрын
Women don't like emotional men. FACTS.
@stacylittle62825 жыл бұрын
Good stuff! 🤘🇺🇸🤘
@JK-vc7ie8 ай бұрын
Stifle your feelings and emotions.
@rommanarayan24665 жыл бұрын
he was Ok till he became obnoxious
@laurentpk Жыл бұрын
Being told to get on the other line at DMV! 😄👍
@bradywade71235 жыл бұрын
One emotion I can’t control is love...I’m such a romantic...what a blessing and a curse, right?
@farid60725 жыл бұрын
Huginn's Sight 😂😂😂 I used to call myself “romantic”, too.
@bradywade71235 жыл бұрын
@Huginn's Sight lmao....
@chaddad12365 жыл бұрын
@@bradywade7123 He's serious my friend.
@bradywade71235 жыл бұрын
@@chaddad1236 I've seen it firsthand I believe it.
@R3gnier5 жыл бұрын
you´re weak
@DerogatoryMess5 жыл бұрын
Stoicism
@patrciaclemons81834 жыл бұрын
Wife cooking prime rib for you? Shit dudes... Gota b made up your wife cooks and cleans and looks good? Not real
@twobraincells43643 жыл бұрын
Good reminder for me. I'm always pissed off. I need to practice normal voice with increased vocabulary and less cussing. Great advice thx.
@TheKizzu785 жыл бұрын
I need to learn normal face!
@Jaragorn5 жыл бұрын
I just listened to podcast 71 again
@redbaron2398 Жыл бұрын
I lose control with my brother and I have a hole in the wall. This is the first time but It’s it the first time I lose control. I really hate that I was not myself for a few seconds. I want to change that.
@loricrockett-owens51172 жыл бұрын
Get made fun of because u don't go to the store. Lol i go to the store when i want. Lol
@jvlakjetil41235 жыл бұрын
Couldnt have been more perfectly timed
@tjcambre52362 жыл бұрын
Laugh and smiles helps alot subconsciously and with social situations
@MadPhish0073 жыл бұрын
It’s about responding over reacting.
@bagpipe19795 жыл бұрын
I'm calling DFS and we are ll coming over to play that awesome game. lol. good fun I understand.
@Godshonestruth3 жыл бұрын
So what are some tools for controlling emotions? All I heard was reasons to do it.
@ryanfrizzell7362 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video. Now I know how to better control my emotions.
@el54955 жыл бұрын
Does this apply when they are asking about your sister on the construction site?
@cio47204 жыл бұрын
if u hold the number 5 in the video u can hear how he imitates a machine gun
@aj2291 Жыл бұрын
Trying not to show emotions about how good this is. 😐
@lawolivier5 жыл бұрын
Hey @jockowillink , if you’d get these episodes/podcasts captioned, I’d appreciate it. Thanks buddy!
@maxdavies57762 жыл бұрын
Build trust - team work.
@MrSilus20005 жыл бұрын
This dude is clueless. You’re actually teaching your kids to be self-conscious and overly aware of every tiny thing they do. They will try to self-correct more which just leads to anxiety and frustration. You don’t teach your kids by correcting, you teach them by being a shining fucking example and getting the fuck out of their way. Clueless, overeager parenting is fucking everywhere. These people think they are so clever too. They can’t bear the idea that the best parent isn’t the one that tries to assimilate them.
@kaylag50434 жыл бұрын
Yeah, don't teach your kids self control and self awareness. It's not like they will ever need those things. Oh wait. Those are two extremely important life skills.
@MrSilus20004 жыл бұрын
@@kaylag5043 You don’t need to teach what you’re already born with. Too many clueless people out there that pretend we are like computers that must be programmed.
@kaylag50434 жыл бұрын
@@MrSilus2000 You aren't born with every skill, you have to learn it. What's wrong with learning from another person? Kids are very impressionable, so teaching them good habits and skills at an early age will set them up for success.
@MrSilus20004 жыл бұрын
@@kaylag5043 You are born with the foundation necessary to learn at an exponential rate. It’s not about having every skill, it’s about being adaptable. Kids have this, adults do not.
@supersongi4 жыл бұрын
You have changed my life in soany ways for the better. Thank you
@josemanuelsanchezrosales10663 жыл бұрын
" I just broke you!" laughed so hard
@donalejo18895 жыл бұрын
HONESTLY.... I CAN'T CONTROL MY EMOTIONS WHEN PEOPLE TALK ABOUT MY... SKINNY KNEES!!!!
@itscork5 жыл бұрын
Don Alejo Perhaps you should feed your knees more carbs.
@Jaragorn5 жыл бұрын
But the real question is do you keep your ego in check when they say you’re jacked
@charlotteice57045 жыл бұрын
Aren't you the one who commented on the 18 months to live video that you would cancel your skinny knee surgery if you had only 18 months to live?
@a7xfanben Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this.
@dinninfreeman20143 жыл бұрын
I'm going to use this on the kids in my life
@russwillknot5 жыл бұрын
You guys are awesome but when are we gonna hear about your tren test cycles? ;)
@edwardgonzalez40sig5 жыл бұрын
Russ tren as in trenbologna sandwich?
@aphysique5 жыл бұрын
SWOL IS DA GOAL SIZE IS DA PRIZE💪
@rlyman1113 жыл бұрын
Thanks, guys!
@patrciaclemons81834 жыл бұрын
Makes sense though
@chaddad12365 жыл бұрын
What age should I expect my son to be able to control his emotions? He's 5. I work in it with him but I never had a game like that to practice. So thank you! Ive only been reminding him in the moment but it's not that practical in the moment.
@chaddad12365 жыл бұрын
@B. De Campo Thanks. Good advice.
@joshuacooper21682 жыл бұрын
i control mine to an exstent
@josemanuelsanchezrosales10663 жыл бұрын
Check
@unitynofear77582 жыл бұрын
You're flirting with a girl at the club and AMOG starts to talk to her, picks her up and starts carrying her away. Keep it under control, normal face, don't show emotion.
@Jaragorn5 жыл бұрын
Lol I remember this podcast
@cross274 жыл бұрын
damn this is cool
@tie_65835 жыл бұрын
emotions are irrational
@es85593 жыл бұрын
💜🙏🇺🇲
@JowanBasser5 жыл бұрын
Great video!
@sircampsalot25685 жыл бұрын
Normal face.
@TheLorenz44135 жыл бұрын
Sir CampsAlot 😐
@shawnbrodrick86735 жыл бұрын
😙
@lukefish75623 жыл бұрын
💪🏼
@sunnycheba5 жыл бұрын
Trejo ?
@DGB1205 жыл бұрын
good evening, echo
@patrapper73675 жыл бұрын
Would love to place bets on which one of these two if they went at it would be left standing
@Sethrod85 жыл бұрын
patrapper7 such forces colliding would colapse the galaxy
@veritasabsoluta42855 жыл бұрын
Jocko wins, hands down.
@robertarceo65605 жыл бұрын
thanks for this!
@rafibros5 жыл бұрын
One name this video should be called “Jordan Peterson” at least give some credit
@rsj97015 жыл бұрын
Jocko has a way of acting like he's interested in Echo's thoughts but you can tell by his body language (ringing of the hands)- deep, yet "humble" JOCKO breaths as he's moving back and forth in his chair just waiting for Echo to shut up and move on. Dichotomy..
@DJgoon12 Жыл бұрын
haha very true. that's also why he cuts him off often.
@JWebb-jp2vh4 жыл бұрын
Pretty sure you are NOT any sort of "male model"...but whatever folks need I spose....
@18ipmg4 жыл бұрын
It depends on how in sync they are with the culture they represent. Variable.
@UnknownPlayer-eg4tc4 жыл бұрын
NEVER show your emotion for your girlfriend because she will leave you.
@bjrockinpjs22282 жыл бұрын
I always smile or laugh when I’m not supposed tooo it pisses me off Jocko , I can’t help it 😞🥲
@Ceeezemma Жыл бұрын
I watch you while I do my workouts and after I appreciate all the advice I hope one day to meet you and express how much of your advice got me through my life and tight times specially not having a mother and a father. Keep it going 🏋🏽