Conversation Techniques That Make You Magnetic | Jefferson Fisher

Jefferson Fisher is a board-certified Texas trial lawyer and founder of Fisher Firm. With his extensive experience as a trial lawyer, Jefferson understands the art of persuading and communicating effectively in high-conflict situations, and is one of the most sought after names in functional thinking for modern day communication. Known for his practical videos and authentic presence, Jefferson has amassed over 5 million social media followers in one year-all from the driver's seat of his car. Jefferson is on a mission to be a messenger of positivity in the world and help people learn to talk to each other again-one conversation at a time.
In this episode you will learn,
How to have more control in an argument
How to make your words more powerful
How to be more likable
Three passive phrases to avoid
How to handle people who waste your time
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[@vital.elements]

"How personally you take something is a direct reflection of how much grace you give other people." - Jefferson Fisher 💯🎯💥

[@thomasblaye1873]

yup

[@JenniferV.-hb2we]

Although, if you're a narcissist is this true?

[@BagznBirdz]

@@JenniferV.-hb2we no rules that go for normal people touch narcissists.

[@esiesi8635]

I’m just gonna say it- EYE CANDY🤭 both of them

[@glb6154]

😄

[@wusrllygoood]

I LOVE JEFFERSON FISHER!!!

[@IsaiahWG24]

“So try that, and follow me” - Jefferson Fisher

[@lewishowes]

👍

[@shifralandsberg6109]

Follow me with cupped hands😂

[@AW-pw4iz]

@@lewishowesI was waiting for you guys to kiss 😍😘

[@crissycobain8361]

I love this!

[@rydah1240]

I have never heard of Jefferson Fisher before this podcast but I just became an instant fan after this episode! He has a very calm even keeled demeanor. Not to mention highly insightful. I definitely picked up on a few things from this episode and can’t wait to hear more from him! Such a great guest. Props to Lewis Howes for having him on! I yearn for episodes like this!

[@lewishowes]

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

[@alaminia]

I just found out he's writing a book on communication via his Instagram account

[@margoqu]

I have been following him for sometime now. He has an amazing charisma too and his understanding of human nature is mind blowing

[@tinam761]

There are just a very few items I have bookmarked on IG and some of them are his posts… so insightful and so helpful in how to communicate better in relationships.

[@antoniorusso5772]

😊

[@imdee9024]

LOVE how Howie allowed him to tell his story before asking the real questions. This guy's so nice.

[@dakine4238]

He comes across as genuine and kind. Glad to see a lawyer like that. Usually they have a bad reputation. Hope his new sucess brings out even better qualities in him and he can find calm and peace.

[@brigidivory4160]

I adore him and his authenticity

[@lewishowes]

🧡

[@angelaperry8231]

He is a gem.

[@r.p.8906]

I am an expert witness and my blood boils when I hear other " experts" saying under oath complete lies in my field. I'm so loving this attorney!

[@Borromeo377]

I encountered a Jefferson speech by chance on LinkedIn and was so grateful to hear it. Highly admire him. Wonderful interview

[@lewishowes]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@Borromeo377]

@@lewishowes Always a pleasure and always learning. Thank you for contributing with meaningful content

[@vilhelm5549]

Jefferson is a living example of the old saying: No one is an island.

[@marywahu6090]

Really proud of this human. True greatness. Rise up , and show up, no apologies for greatness.

[@lewishowes]

🙌

[@nehagc]

He is the coolest guy and such soothing personality.I like his practical doable advice.Happy to see him getting famous 😊

[@lewishowes]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@boutiquelove5391]

Love him🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰!!! Smart hot astute well spoke emotionally mature.... why cant there be more humans like u both!!

[@sophiareed8266]

You are a beautiful soul, Mr. Fisher.

[@yazminhab1945]

Wow - congrats JF! I follow him on IG b/c of his great, clear advice. Surprised--and delighted--to see him on your show, Lewis. It's wild to see you both in this interview - both likeable, thoughtful men, of similar age & physicality, dressed similarly, and w/a similarly light energy, bouncing back n forth. I haven't seen you in such an interview, so this was interesting and fun. :)

[@JoanneJaworski]

Jefferson has some great tips! I'd bet his nervous system's & body were brewing symptoms that he didn't know were connected to his panic years earlier. He even spoke of the expectation as a kid. People ignore, don't recognize or know what to do when the subtler "symptoms" tell us something is out of balance energetically.

[@leannwiederanders1844]

LEWIS!!! AGAIN…as ALWAYS in ALL WAYS..you have facilitated another engrossing convo w/ a person who’s info & expertise is absolutely applicable in LIFE! Life - the courtroom where judges are not identifiable in their robes & all consider themselves judge & jurors. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Thank YOU Lewis & Jefferson! Please take care of yourselves as well as ya’ll take care of others. ❤✌🏻

[@elev8tedminds]

Hes so centered and relaxed. Loved watching this episode, I just came across Jefferson about a month ago. And of course my boy Lewis got the interview ready! Love to see it! So many takeaways

[@Darkberriesmatter]

Let your breathe be your first word.

[@alid3424]

What a fun conversation between calm, thoughtful souls. I don't even have an IG account and I still know who Jefferson is. For the record, JF, though I love listening to your easily implemented conversation tips, all of us out here who care about you wouldn't want you to keep doing it if it stopped nourishing your spirit or became a drain. We can't let anyone down if we're being true to our best selves ☺️

[@Bonitawrites]

Another profound conversation interview, Lewis. @Jefferson Fisher, Thank you for sharing your experience with panic attacks and what triggered them.

[@littlecat2222]

Really appreciate Jefferson’s very honest and authentic sharing. ❤

[@lewishowes]

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[@ignorantlyspeaking]

Every time someone describes their first anxiety/panic attack and say they believed it was a heart attack, I think of Bedros Keuilian's story. Jefferson has some really great insight, he shares really great knowledge. I hope neuroscientists and other researchers study him and share their findings with the world with credit to him.

[@7msjster]

Loved this. I learned how to communicate when I realized that we are not communicating. We just throw out words. Often I may say, "I am not trying to convince you to think how I do, but if I have communicated well my thoughts then I have done my job in this experience. I believe too often we speak to convince others your way is better. True communication is just an exchange of thoughts. That's all. Are you a good communicator is the question to ask yourself. Great video, thank you Lewis!

[@lewishowes]

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

[@robino941]

Excellent interview. I think you're both magnetic!

[@lewishowes]

Thank you so much! 😊

[@shalusunder]

Wow, this is super inspiring and next level for sure!! Thank you so much for pulling this together.

[@barbarakan-waechter1412]

I love his softness and clarity

[@beingintrinsic]

MOST meaningful acknowledgement!

[@lenahcaruana6750]

Yes :) Was hoping to see him on your channel! Thanks for sharing ❤

[@loralevis625]

Could listen for hours...💚! Thank you guys! You are wonderful!

[@angiesullivan7328]

Big fan of both of your content, very exciting to see you exceptional humans creating together!

[@gardencali-arkansasstyle6995]

Wow!! What a special treat, I’m one of his fans that seek out his short insightful advice. Thank you greatly. Dear Lewis, you have the best podcast guess!,

[@schenelle79]

Have been watching this guy's snippets on Insta for a while, didn't recognise him till he mentioned the clips. So chill and clever.

[@lewishowes]

💯

[@spiritualmafia888]

Thank you. We love grace.

[@scott.mcclellan]

Such a fantastic conversation. Thank you both!

[@kathleenmillington4860]

Great show !❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@donatahaneborg7488]

Great and warm discussion. Thanks for reaching out with vulnerable and emotional experiences and thoughts.

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome,thank you for watching🧡

[@1CrackedActress]

I love this. I've followed Jefferson on tik tok for a while, his perspective has helped me immensely as I've been promoted into higher stress jobs over the past year. Thank you both!

[@heathergonzalez6890]

Jefferson Fisher, Congrats! I’ve been following you for only a few months, but I am happy for you to be on such a big show like Lewis Howe’s The School of Greatness. Your advice has helped a lot, and I’m glad more people will get these tips.

[@lewishowes]

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[@yq2280]

Such a great Interview! I need to learn to “ Put It Down” thanks Jefferson .

[@nancymoreland3711]

It's called stress. At a period in my life my throat was tightening up and could not swallow food well. Had heart tests done and finally told my heart was fine and doctor told me I had to get my stress under control. So I did everything I could do to be less stressed. Breathing techniques for one. Anyway over time I have gotten better. Take care.🙏

[@annoravetz5908]

Lewis, thanks for having him on! I found his shorts easy to digest and use. So good to see a full-length interview with him.

[@lewishowes]

Thank you for taking the time out of your day to check out the interview! So glad you enjoyed it🧡

[@Kimber_le]

Omg my two favorite people ! I love Jefferson!!

[@lewishowes]

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[@abigailstone738]

What a beautiful, authentic conversation. I appreciated every minute. Thank you!

[@lewishowes]

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

[@CuriouslyChris1]

Yesss! Sometimes people just want to vent, I let them, to move to the next step! We have an issue resolve, it takes 2 to move forward to resolution.

[@CuriouslyChris1]

Yes, you don’t own other people problem, you are only in their space for a short time! You are just trying to resolve an issue!!

[@lewishowes]

👍

[@nguyetle1293]

Haven't heard of Jefferson Fisher until this youtube episode! Now I'm a follower! Thank you for bringing Jefferson to us!

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome, thank you for watching 🧡

[@lilianabarnes9158]

Have been a fan of Jefferson for a year now; every time he speaks I learn something; or is a great reminder on how to conduct myself in any convo! TY 🤗

[@lewishowes]

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[@joshseligman2243]

Thanks Lewis and Jefferson, so great to hear this today!

[@lewishowes]

Happy to hear this :)

[@missdivinevlogs]

Great interview. Thank you, Lewis.

[@lewishowes]

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

[@cynthiasaracino7114]

WOW this was amazing!!! Such a great perspective, really learned from this.❤

[@lewishowes]

🙌

[@leahannwhite1111]

Commanding the room is imagined.

[@Megan-fs2el]

I loved this! Thank you so much ❤

[@lewishowes]

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[@peggylyons6898]

Great conversation!

[@lewishowes]

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

[@azitakouchekmanesh725]

What a wonderful episode/conversation! 😊 I enjoyed it so much. What a gorgeous human being your guest is. And the questions were awesome. Thank you to Lewis Howes and to Jefferson Fisher who I did not know. I learned so much. Sending everyone health, joy, love, and inner peace.. and kindness. ❤

[@lewishowes]

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

[@cathaire]

What a wonderful interview!

[@lewishowes]

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

[@musclelegancemusclelegance5642]

This is absolutely phenomenal ❤

[@lewishowes]

Thank you!

[@kristykeers7491]

Jefferson... Awesome

[@spinz805]

Thank you so much!

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

[@rafaelgomez1989]

GREAT GUEST JEFFERSON ...ANOTHER GEM OF CONTENT LEWIS !!!!

[@lewishowes]

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

[@shifralandsberg6109]

Wow, worked on people who hi are looking to grow. Jefferson you have really helped me on instagram, and Lewis tbh you always get the best interviewees and real, great, thought out questions. Thank you both so much. True VALUE.

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

[@shifralandsberg6109]

@@lewishowesthank YOU ❤

[@monicabrante]

Thank you so much. I will need to see this interview several times... - Love this interview, and love the philosophy -a great way of creating sustainable communication.

[@lewishowes]

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

[@user-od5ki5km1i]

That was a very inspiring interview.. his very last answer ... says it all ❤

[@lewishowes]

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

[@AngelicaChristi]

Great interview! I have saved so many of Jefferson's videos on Instagram, and honestly, I don't really go on there as I am not a fan of social media, but I always watch his, and normally, several times. Thanks for all your info and honesty! I am sending this on to a beloved that has had panic attacks for about 10 years and I didn't really understand them. The shallow breathing part was super interesting to me.

[@lewishowes]

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

[@lizanne3442]

Thank you Gentleman this chat was real

[@CAROS_FITNESS]

This was absolutely incredible thank you both of you for the great communication skills and knowledge 🙏

[@lewishowes]

Thank you so much for your kind words 🧡

[@nancymoreland3711]

You are amazing!❤

[@lewishowes]

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[@jane_collins]

This has helped settle me in a time of high anxiety and given me some new perspectives to think on, thank you

[@vervemdp4396]

This is GOLD

[@lewishowes]

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[@KaleighHendershot]

Loved this conversation and love Jefferson!!!!

[@lewishowes]

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

[@ChristianSoschner]

Fantastic conversation. 16:00 how to stay cool in complicated conversations - worth watching

[@Mercermm]

Best podcast ever. I have so much respect for Lewis Howes. He interviews the best speakers. I learn every day!

[@lewishowes]

Thank you! Your support means a lot🧡

[@truthwillsetyoufree2024]

If someone gives an objection you want to let them know that you're on their side so you should say okay I understand aside from that is there anything else that I should know about. Great one my man

[@maisantos3467]

I love this guy!!!!

[@KAMILITA]

It is no small thing to have so many eyes on you suddenly... the internet has created such overwhelming connectivity and to have so many people suddenly have access to your soul so to speak, is not normal, for sure. Great interview, love both of these guys, great character and integrity and great rolemodels... and remember that great role models are sensitive just like everyone else and need protection too. 😊 Thanks for the insights.

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

[@loveme24evr74]

Love this guy! Jefferson is so intelligent. His suggestions on communication are valuable in any setting. Tried that and following!

[@lewishowes]

Thanks for being here!

[@kiraharlamor391]

I’ve taught everyone this gif years too! Amen!

[@HappyLifewithMaria]

I never heard of him before, but he is fascinating to listen to! Thank you Lewis!

[@lewishowes]

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

[@AllGrowing]

What a gorgeous, wise man - look after him!

[@lisawilliamsreal]

I love Jefferson!!!

[@lewishowes]

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[@LongHoang-hy5it]

Thanks!

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

Thank you Jefferson!

[@lewishowes]

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[@AdirFerreira]

I follow JF on IG and his tips are beyond amazing. Congrats on a great interview, greetings from Brazil!

[@lewishowes]

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[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

Bom Dia!

[@spiritualmafia888]

Flare up. Touche!

[@IsaiahWG24]

Ahhhh this will be a 🔥 interview

[@lewishowes]

Let me know your thoughts once you have seen it!

[@audrinkaa]

Oh no, another instagram creator that I already follow and wanted to keep as my secret :) Thank you for sharing what you know. I really enjoyed this conversation, too.😊

[@kavbee]

Hahahaha, trust me, you're not alone..even though he gives the best advice, I follow him because he is good-looking, calm and has the most pleasant voice.

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

the secret's now out!

[@lewishowes]

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

[@rosemariezanfardino3769]

I follow him on FB. Love his communication advise. What is the name of the book and author he mentioned?

[@xplayer81]

I love this guy

[@lewishowes]

🙌

[@cathaire]

Don’t ever lose the guy in the car. He talks to “me”.

[@spiritualmafia888]

That is a great question!!!!!

[@spiritualmafia888]

Wow. Nailed it.

[@antmann9123]

Could listen to him talk for hours!! 😍✌🏼

[@lewishowes]

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

[@antmann9123]

@@lewishowes first time I’ve come across your podcasts mate. Love it!! Looks like I’ve got plenty to watch as well 😂👍🏼❤️✌🏼

[@AW-pw4iz]

Both great . I fallow Jefferson and I love Lewis and school of greatness.

[@lewishowes]

Thank you! Your support means a lot🧡

[@AW-pw4iz]

@@lewishowes 💚💪💚💪💚

[@craigosterberg5045]

Thanks

[@r.p.8906]

studying for the LSAT as we speak! Super!!

[@lewishowes]

Good luck🍀

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

You got this!

[@user-ti6qm3od1j]

Awesome

[@spiritualmafia888]

Down to the tee. That is called an acknowledgement. They are beautiful things. I bet she can get you to acknowledge. I can't imagine two people being able to build each other up that way. 🙌

[@lewishowes]

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[@mirablilisr7177]

1 0000000000000000👍 for Jefferson. Thank you❤

[@LilassHd-ev3md]

I am listening and excited for what next

[@lewishowes]

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[@SiritaW]

Great information!

[@lewishowes]

Thank you!